Psycho Manager DESTROYS MY HOUSE for going on Vacation instead of WORKING on Xmas - Reddit Podcast

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Am I the Jerk?

Am I the Jerk?

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0:00 Crazy Entitled Manager destroys my property because I wouldn’t come into work on my Christmas Vacation! (u/Longjumping_Chair639)
4:28 Am I the Jerk Am I the jerk for getting a fellow university student fired and expelled for breaking the law? (u/black_bitty)
11:42 My boyfriend is convinced that I’m actually cheating him when I fall asleep to take a nap, and he simply won’t let up. (u/Sleepingpanda3975)
15:25 My boyfriends mom is planning a dinner date for him with another girl, and I am at a loss of what to do. (u/happyhoneybeez)
18:55 My girlfriend wants to talk to my toxic ex-girlfriend, and I really am hesitant to allow this, and I don’t know what to do. (u/an0therthr0waway22)
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@eurafrican85
@eurafrican85 Жыл бұрын
First story: if the restaurant was so busy, where did the manager find time to destroy OP's House? Answer: it was never about the restaurant being busy, it was a power trip gone wrong
@scailliet
@scailliet Жыл бұрын
Manager tried a last-minute power flex. OP called his bluff. Manager lashed out, and actually believed that OP wouldn't call the cops on him. Then manager broke down like a lil bitch when all his power got taken away.
@BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat
@BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat Жыл бұрын
Yep all I could think of was, Why isn't the manager working with all these customers vs. constantly texting and calling the worker getting ready for flight?
@draconuuse9731
@draconuuse9731 Жыл бұрын
I used to work at place with a similar uptick in late June and early December. Everyone hired is told that no long form vacations will be approved during those times of year. A day or two for a weekend trip. Sure. But if you want to go out of country or otherwise be off for a long while. Well. Then wait till off season when every body else in town does it. Sounds like this place should have a similar policy.
@stormerbuzz352
@stormerbuzz352 Жыл бұрын
I think the manager was a psychopath
@krankarvolund7771
@krankarvolund7771 Жыл бұрын
It's a restaurant, you have a huge pause from 15 to 18 ^^
@chrisfromsouthaus2735
@chrisfromsouthaus2735 Жыл бұрын
The manager in the first story sounds like a sociopath. Good chance that he didn't regret his actions once he was in court. He was just putting on an act to manipulate the judge.
@ChickinSammich
@ChickinSammich Жыл бұрын
Story 1: Your manager's failure to properly staff isn't on you; that's on him. Story 2: Look, if you break the rules ONCE then maybe, but multiple infractions is just you wrecking your own future. Story 3: As soon as he said "If I was a woman, I would cheat" I would dump him immediately. Story 4: Boyfriend needs to shut his mom down. Story 5: Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, but I'd warn her and let her make her own choice.
@Luigi2262_
@Luigi2262_ Жыл бұрын
@Jack Russelle Lewis The Covid death toll as of a few minutes before I made this comment is at 6,620,348. The cases are at 641,666,268. Sure, it didn't kill most of the people that had it, but 6.6 million is way too many deaths to say it is "not deadly!"
@yeetusfeetus7877
@yeetusfeetus7877 Жыл бұрын
@Jack Russelle Lewis An extremely infectious virus with a death rate of roughly 1.2% would be a cause of anxiety for many, and for good reason since we weren't all that sure as to how dangerous the virus really was. And, also, Long Covid sucks and isn't all that rare, so a "Low" death rate doesn't mean that everybody else who contracted it properly recovered. I can see why the OP was annoyed with the kids. By exposing themselves and others to the virus, they were putting people at risk of contracting it. If enough people or the wrong people caught the virus, it likely would have spread like wildfire, so a lot of people would have ended up sick, some would have ended up with Long Covid, and a few may have even died. Being anxious about people acting stupid during COVID times isn't silly, especially when the people acting stupid could then infect hundreds or even thousands of others if they caught COVID.
@Lando.alyssa
@Lando.alyssa Жыл бұрын
@Jack Russelle Lewis it was deadly for a lot of people? Healthy and safety isn’t a joke.
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 Жыл бұрын
as the saying goes "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." dont fall ppls tricks a 2nd and especially 3rd time, most ppl deserve 2nd chances but its beyond extremely rare for some ppl to actually deserve and even improve on the 7th or 10th chance. :(
@shirofarris2706
@shirofarris2706 9 ай бұрын
Man what a covid nazi.
@sayxxdx
@sayxxdx Жыл бұрын
That third story happened to me except my ex swung a cast iron frying pan at me cause she had a dream I would leave her, said it was a premonition and I'd leave her for another girl. She was right, just not the way she expected.
@Olimar92
@Olimar92 Жыл бұрын
I've heard these stories of Girls being upset that their boys do something in their dreams. In your case it was a self-fulfilling prophecy.
@notdeadever
@notdeadever Жыл бұрын
Yeah he definitely cheating on her
@Justcat19277
@Justcat19277 Жыл бұрын
Pew Pew Sorry your kinda asking for it
@uzumakinaruto9050
@uzumakinaruto9050 Ай бұрын
Womp womp
@venomslair137
@venomslair137 Жыл бұрын
First story: OP is NTA. I mean, he asked for the vacations beforehand and it was GRANTED. The manager had NO EXCUSES to vandalize OP's house. Good thing his sorry ass is rotting in jail.
@tylergee1405
@tylergee1405 Жыл бұрын
The manager's poor planning is not your problem. You got it approved then when he didn't get his way he freaks. I'm surprised he only got 6 months for the vandalism and threatening harassment.
@scailliet
@scailliet Жыл бұрын
Crocodile tears can go a long way.
@Sketchcook81
@Sketchcook81 Жыл бұрын
Story 3, if the dude is THAT messed up and insecure, he has no business being in a relationship. Dump him and find someone that doesn't have that amount of baggage. He needs therapy.
@nightsilent1318
@nightsilent1318 Жыл бұрын
First story: I would not have felt bad for that manager at all. The OP got the go ahead to go on vacation, and it was the Manager's fault for destroying the OP's house. So, OP is not the jerk at all.
@KasaJiso
@KasaJiso Жыл бұрын
Ngl the manager in theese story’s are more or less the cool guy who deals with the Karen but in this story he’s the psycho Karen.
@boisegameshowguy
@boisegameshowguy Жыл бұрын
If that was my manager, I absolutely would press charges and have my insurance go after the company. And until I could find a new job - just to get through to the company and the manager how bad they screwed up - I would demand my job back immediately. If they didn’t rehire me I would absolutely press contempt of court charges.
@goodguyguy5022
@goodguyguy5022 Жыл бұрын
The first one is……… crazy
@cliffordmaynard6559
@cliffordmaynard6559 Жыл бұрын
On the story about the boyfriend's mother trying to set him up with another woman while he's dating and living with you, sounds like he needs to put his foot down to his mother and tell her to shut up and quit doing that crap. If she can't take it being around you or her son being around you then she don't need to be around either one of you he needs to put his foot down 100% and stop it.
@djknit
@djknit Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I was waiting to hear the boyfriend's response to his mother in regarding the dinner date arrangement, but they didn't say. The mother is one thing as she can theoretically just be ignored, but if the boyfriend accepted the date then that sounds like a huge red flag.
@MaxwellVrooman
@MaxwellVrooman Жыл бұрын
So the last story the moment he said, his girlfriend had autism, I knew exactly why the meeting would not work out. I have an autistic friend, and she sometimes does not get jokes or sarcasm. She is extremely kind, and can be very blunt.
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 Жыл бұрын
ya same. autistic ppl arent all able to tell sarcasm or other emotions that r being expressed not to mention understanding them even they can tell. their like every else tho bcuz some can and some cant. every1s capable in their own things their good at in their own way. :)
@Zivillyn
@Zivillyn Жыл бұрын
First story: NTJ. The situation the manager was in was 100% their own fault for not hiring enough people to handle someone going on vacation. It's the manager's job to make sure that there are people to work. Plus, they had already agreed to the vacation time. They got what they deserved.
@TheJcjonesacp
@TheJcjonesacp Жыл бұрын
Story 1: defiantly not a jerk, that man was a psycho, he approved you and in the day of the flight wanted you to come back, fuck off you were not a jerk. Story 2: Hell no they were warned and brought that in themselves Story 3: get out of that relationship it is going to get more controlling if you give him an inch, he seems the type Story 4: I’d talk with your boyfriend about it. Story 5: explain things to your girlfriend, explain the problems with your ex and her personality
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 Жыл бұрын
yes to all, story 3 id say "so u blow up on me and dont allow any forgiveness, proof or for me to DO ANYTHING to prove myself but now that things have cooled down u want to not only bring it up again but also manage my time that and not only that u want me to b by ur side working out instead in place taking my naps as proof. at the very least u couldve invited b4 this or some months from now under the disguised notion that u love me and want me to work out cuz im unhappy with how i am. but no right now ur directly proposing we do this so that u can control me and so that u can keep eye on me at during the only moments of peace i have. instead of my naps or ur working out were going to therapy to get u help. unless u think uve said nothing wrong now and during that entire argument. were going to find some1 right now." at least so long as i actually wanted to stay for another minute in that relationship, most ppl deserve a 2nd chance and he mightve b4 his ex and now hes changed to much and to allow himself to change or was nvr a good person and has always been like this since an early point in his teens or childhood. but its in the past and if he cant move he can stay in the past with his mistakes while this person and any1 else with a similar situation can move forward and on without him. especially since they dont have kids to make it even more difficult and heartwrenching.
@amberkat8147
@amberkat8147 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: It is the restaurant manager/owner's duty to ensure staffing to the best of their ability by hiring sufficient staff and to keep reservations to a manageable level. If two extra buildings are not enough space they are clearly overbooking out of sheer greed. None of this was on OP. OP was well within their right to take their approved vacation and see their family. The manager should have been more careful about staffing, scheduling, and accepting reservations, and had no right to freak out and vandalize OP's property like that.
@shoto_simp4788
@shoto_simp4788 Жыл бұрын
Second story: definitely NTA if people can’t take the hint when the get in trouble the first time, that they shouldn’t do it again
@joosyjulie
@joosyjulie Жыл бұрын
People died, my daughters father-in-law died from Covid because a 20 year old came into their shop without a mask.
@lostlogic6911
@lostlogic6911 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: if you can't handle it, get out the kitchen. Its the managers fault he bit off more than he could chew, OP already told him months ahead in advance about the trip, he should've found someone to cover.
@cliffordmaynard6559
@cliffordmaynard6559 Жыл бұрын
On the story about the boyfriend that had his ex-wife cheat on him and abuse him, he's just going nuts best thing you can do I'm sorry to say is drop him like a ton of bricks. Cause it sounds like if y'all get married he will control you and all kinds of stuff the best thing you can do is just leave his butt.
@juliopeinado2660
@juliopeinado2660 Жыл бұрын
Story 1; Aside from Workplace Abuse, That manager is horribly abusive. Being stress doesn't excuse his actions. He should have thought about it before doing it. It is ridiculous how he can become like this. Kudos to OP for defying the strict toxic abusive jerk who goes around and break company policy.
@wamrainc176
@wamrainc176 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: I do not sanction nor approve what the manager did, not at all. However, past history of 15+ years in retail, I cannot stress enough how insanely stressful retail/restaurant businesses are during holidays. Like, unless you have worked in that environment during those times you can absolutely have NO clue of how bad it get. But as I said, that manager took it to a whole new level
@cliffordmaynard6559
@cliffordmaynard6559 Жыл бұрын
On the first story, you are not absolutely not the butthole in this story, your boss is and he should have got more time. He gave you permission for your vacation and that should have been it. If you didn't want you to take that vacation he shouldn't have approved it. Don't regret what you did cause he went way past whatever nonsense he thought would be okay.
@The_Life_Stealer
@The_Life_Stealer Жыл бұрын
Not absolutely not the butthole?
@demonspawn5174
@demonspawn5174 Жыл бұрын
A couple years ago I was working a really physically demanding job, and it wasn't uncommon for me to pass out cold for a few hours after getting home. My bf had wanted to call and talk with me about plans we'd made for the weekend, but when he did I was out cold. When I woke up later and saw his missed call and a few messages, I called him back and apologised. His response? "It's okay, I just wanted to make sure you're alright. How are you feeling?"
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 Жыл бұрын
as it should b, im so happy for u that u have some1 like that.
@brianrogers7360
@brianrogers7360 Жыл бұрын
Sorry boss, you approved it, and I'm gone. Oh, and be ready for a lawsuit.
@admirable_minimum2163
@admirable_minimum2163 Жыл бұрын
story 1: "stress" is not an excuse. like that's such a common excuse given when AHs act out, like no. also if you can't manage/handle stress maybe avoid working in the hospitality and/or retail sector, especially in such a high position.
@UCvow2TUIH0d2Ax2vik9ILzg
@UCvow2TUIH0d2Ax2vik9ILzg Жыл бұрын
Amber Heards?
@Trojianmaru
@Trojianmaru Жыл бұрын
Story 2: OP is worried they were a bad friend, because they didn't turn a blind eye and give special treatment, but the other guy is the bad friend for trying to make them turn a blind eye and give them special treatment. If you know your friend is in a position of power, don't try and use them to do stuff that you know will force them to choose between you or their job. That is an asshole move, especially if they already begged you not to put them in that position. My dad used to be a security guard at a local superstore, and got me a job there as a cleaner. So I was great friends with a fair few of them, and would have a joke and a laugh, but I would of never considered putting them in the position of having to turn a blind eye to anything. The day I was fired (petty bs with managers who didn't like me, and who then made security spend weeks watching me for an excuse to fire me, but could still only use a video of me, a cleaner, taking something off camera to throw away, "Suspicion of theft by consumption" 😂 clearly a death penalty even if I had devoured it while off camera) the security I was friends with felt super guilty about not warning me, and having to escort me out of the store, but I didn't blame them for a second, n we're still good friends to this day. Now if I'd been pissy, and expected them to choose me, over the job that puts food on their family's table and a roof over their heads, THEN I would of been an asshole.
@SenseiRaisen
@SenseiRaisen Жыл бұрын
Well they knew the situation, still valorate you as a friend instead of ditching you out too after you got fired. He did his job as well. BUT i won't said the same about the manager, since if i was all of your co-workers i would literally put him in the crosshair of everything and report every single "misconduct and errors" from the manager and try to get him caught in something illegal, since he is also subject to the same rules.
@HankScorpio64
@HankScorpio64 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: That manager found a quick way to win a jail sentence. Also don't recant on peoples vacations at the last minute. You'll regret it in the long run. Story 2: It's not the OP's problem if they cannot follow simple rules for a temporary time. Story 3: Major Red Flag. This guy needs help and badly. He has no right to take his trust issues out on the OP because he was cheated on. This person needs to realize in you are gonna be making people actually wanna cheat on you more and cause more strife in relationships because of your issues. Story 4: Honestly I've known families like that. They tend to care about only 2 things. Money and status. Nothing else. Really prevalent in certain asian families. I know in Korean and Japanese culture its quite present. Chinese too. Indian and Pakistani too but like more low key and more concerned about who married who.
@sirbiff10
@sirbiff10 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: no teh boss is the jerk. You got the time off. THEY should have found someone else or hired temp workers for this known busy time of the year.
@coletaillefer-bateman87
@coletaillefer-bateman87 Жыл бұрын
If the manager in the first story was stressed there are other ways to deal with it, but that is no reason to vandalizing someone's property. If you know you're going to need more people on a busy day, then hire more people.
@superficialdolanfan1482
@superficialdolanfan1482 Жыл бұрын
You can pretty much just some of the first two stories with one quote: “ well well well if it isn’t, the consequences of my own actions”
@buddyburrows
@buddyburrows 4 ай бұрын
10:39 that theory sure aged well now didn't it 😂
@avihockney2741
@avihockney2741 Жыл бұрын
cheating story: sonetimes people are afraid of their own shadow, it might be he's cheating because he's accusing you or he was cheated on previous relationship and took it too hard
@FFeDDexe
@FFeDDexe Жыл бұрын
The third story sounded like it is in Singapore
@troodon1096
@troodon1096 Жыл бұрын
First one shouldn't even be a question: poor planning on a manager's part is not an emergency on your part. That's even before he vandalized the OP's house.
@ElRodriPR
@ElRodriPR Жыл бұрын
12:47 like me, i have it literally the same way, it doesnt sound, just... Vibrates 😂
@Sevegoth
@Sevegoth Жыл бұрын
No man you aren’t a jerk man its ok man good job
@dontedavis2070
@dontedavis2070 Жыл бұрын
Love the work keep it up
@Slimmark2
@Slimmark2 9 ай бұрын
As someone who almost died from covid, that college story pisses me off...
@liz-zy
@liz-zy Жыл бұрын
I love your videos you make such good expressions
@jingtinggao-dd2zd
@jingtinggao-dd2zd 8 ай бұрын
Second story I can relate I literally warn friends about the problem
@story-teller.0140
@story-teller.0140 Жыл бұрын
You’re the best voice for Karen so sassy I love it
@shenron101
@shenron101 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't ve kind at the manager of the first story I would be like " sorry and you'll pay for all the damages to my home and I quit
@ImaFoxBoii
@ImaFoxBoii Жыл бұрын
This is about story 5, at the end this was the first time I heard Am I The Jerk? say that OP was the jerk. Now, this is not a lot if you think about it but still it’s amazing for me.
@jasoncarpp7742
@jasoncarpp7742 6 ай бұрын
*Story 1:* OMG! Talk about deranged! Who in their right mind would destroy someone's home just because someone didn't come to work?
@GhostBear3067
@GhostBear3067 Жыл бұрын
Story 1... Police: "Would you like to press charges?" OP: "WHY THE FUCK DO YOU THINK I CALLED YOU?!!!"
@Owler45
@Owler45 Жыл бұрын
3:44 How could you be? He lied about allowing you and didn’t tell you until the day you left and did this as revenge. 13:39 Break up with him, he would cheat now too probably if he can say that so break up before he does.
@dustigin
@dustigin 9 ай бұрын
The guy should have told him he was already on the plane.
@angry_rooster1887
@angry_rooster1887 Жыл бұрын
Is that brittle with straight up coffee beans!?!
@goldenoptic
@goldenoptic Жыл бұрын
Story one Manager should have just filled in.
@bradmyers99
@bradmyers99 8 ай бұрын
13:04 if he didn't have notifications turned in then his head set wouldn't have told him shit either
@bluenadeau
@bluenadeau 4 ай бұрын
Story one: not the jerk Story 2: not the jerk
@juliel5945
@juliel5945 8 ай бұрын
1st story-businesses should always have enough staff to cover holidays and to be able to let one person have vacation time during a holiday.
@shoop8654
@shoop8654 Жыл бұрын
In the second story, I couldn't read that word lol 🤣🤣🤣
@RafaelitoKiller
@RafaelitoKiller Жыл бұрын
Story 2 a snitch and a really good one at that
@Doc61725
@Doc61725 Жыл бұрын
Manager : come into work or i will fire you Me : how about you fire me and i find another job Manager : i will destroy your house Me : okay i will track you down till the end of my days *evil laughs* Manager : ahhhhhhhhh Me : 😎
@cadevermillion7680
@cadevermillion7680 Жыл бұрын
OB. Personally, I think you should break up with him because if he can’t trust you, you should not have a relationship because trust is foundation of a relationship
@jerk
@jerk Жыл бұрын
😈😈finish listening to ALL the stories here kzbin.info/aero/PL4qCR1644UR0Z4S8QKTe0MYZFVaNXuAUY
@Tzaddi15
@Tzaddi15 7 ай бұрын
Why didn't they just tell the manager that they were already out of town?
@kai_the_goat1003
@kai_the_goat1003 9 ай бұрын
No! He approved your time off MONTHS in advance, DEMANDED you to come in last minute as you were getting on your flight, and DESTROYED your yard! He had it coming.
@Manhandle730
@Manhandle730 9 ай бұрын
10:50 great job Your Majesty Sire King Narcy McDorkingshire !!!
@alpha-sama
@alpha-sama Жыл бұрын
Story 1: That manager is insane. He himself has the responsibility to make sure there are enough employees present during the holiday season, he should've thought of that before agreeing on vacation days. Story 2: Not the jerk. Those covid rules are there for a reason and if you don't obey them, it's only normal that you get punished, simple as that. Besides, this was a brat who broke the rules multiple times, what an idiot. Story 3: I understand why the boyfriend would experience anxiety because of his previous relationship, but he is totally being a jerk. Story 4: OP, you're working hard and you should be proud of yourself! The boyfriend's mother is being super snobby, and I hope your boyfriend will back you up on this. Story 5: This is a recipe for disaster. It'd probably be for the best if OP and his current girlfriend don't contact his ex.
@Slacker28
@Slacker28 Жыл бұрын
Story 2: wow he doesn't want to suffer mentally due to an illegal lockdown so it his own friend rats him out to the Gestapo like that I can't believe so many people support that kind of oppression.
@wmst5065
@wmst5065 Жыл бұрын
First story sounds like B.S.. OP was blocking his manager on multiple lines of communication _while_ he was driving?! C'mon.
@Kris_is_cool
@Kris_is_cool Жыл бұрын
Great vid
@BangladeshTheBest
@BangladeshTheBest Жыл бұрын
Congrats you’re first
@petrjelinek7808
@petrjelinek7808 Жыл бұрын
true
@megadeth-1a885
@megadeth-1a885 9 ай бұрын
LMFAO no chance he got 6 months for vandalism
@theresaatkinson5040
@theresaatkinson5040 8 ай бұрын
I would’ve told him that I was already on the plane for one
@princessmarlena1359
@princessmarlena1359 Жыл бұрын
“Stress” isn’t an excuse for that behavior, and his poor planning for staffing on his part, doesn’t justify taking OP’s vacation time away.
@captainsinclair7954
@captainsinclair7954 9 ай бұрын
15:14 leave him, he’s not ready for another relationship yet
@bignatetimmy2237
@bignatetimmy2237 9 ай бұрын
I was gonna say no, you're not in the room
@therednight5342
@therednight5342 9 ай бұрын
Ntj, he should of been more prepared and hired more people leading up to the Christmas holidays and christmas itself,he knew it was going to be busy, but didnt give a damn and tried pinning it on you. Besides he vandalised your property and destroyed your house, if anything he is the jerk for not being better prepared
@kanelovec4315
@kanelovec4315 Жыл бұрын
S1. Op has no right to feel guilty for this asshole. The manager could have done something other this to combat the stress. Managers could have hired part times, put a limit on customer per day (because it was more this year than others), and more. Manger had no right to scream at op with threats then to their house and destroyed it when he gave the go head. An employee should have got his ass years ago for his constant cancel of vacation days 24 hours or less before said vacation days.
@decrypt83
@decrypt83 Жыл бұрын
1st story, I would hire this person BECAUSE of what he did.
@derpionderpson1424
@derpionderpson1424 8 ай бұрын
1st story: While I can sympathize with the manager also having a hard time, it is ultimately their responsibility to make sure there are enough people available to handle the increased workload in a seasonal high demand situation. Even if it wasn’t a predictable situation, like Christmas season, the correct cause of action could never possible by to travel to your employees home and vandalize it… Even if given the best faith possible, OP acted entirely within reason and the manager was the one being unreasonable.
@Audiogeek-kf2ez
@Audiogeek-kf2ez 9 ай бұрын
First story, I would have put it on airplane mode 2 hours before the flight.
@silverbook4603
@silverbook4603 Жыл бұрын
Saying "I'm blunt" is not an excuse. I am blunt that doesn't mean Im being mean to anyone. If you can't handle a blunt person then leave them alone. They shouldn't have to change how they are because you have an issue with it. Blunt is a characteristic not an excuse.
@brandonnewby178
@brandonnewby178 5 ай бұрын
That last one was definitely cheating. By his own words, _After_ the first date went well, I ended it with my ex. That's the definition of cheating.
@spiraltrash2252
@spiraltrash2252 9 ай бұрын
here's a thought close the restaurant for christmas since you make a shit ton of money in December anyway
@John-jq2hf
@John-jq2hf Жыл бұрын
Story three has happened to me so many times I take adhd meds so I fall asleep in the afternoon around the same time every day and my ex did not care and broke up with me in front of her mom
@Spider_adam420
@Spider_adam420 9 ай бұрын
My man the manager is going to prison (manager dropp the soap in prison to get free candy)😂
@Meownu_Reeves
@Meownu_Reeves Жыл бұрын
First story. The manager gave you the time off, Lowes did something similar to me, they put me on for full time over the 2 weeks I put in for vacation and I was later written up and fired because I had missed 2 weeks of preapproved vacation time
@Dominik189
@Dominik189 9 ай бұрын
First story is a simple nah, if they were that understaffed, why aren't they hiring people.
@noahhiatt9453
@noahhiatt9453 9 ай бұрын
He approved the time off
@briannazimmerle1979
@briannazimmerle1979 9 ай бұрын
FUCK NO! They should not feel guilty this is 100% on boss man, he was just using that crap as an excuse.
@Isredel
@Isredel Жыл бұрын
Story 1: NTA. Lean Staffing is a managerial error not an employee error.
@nybotheveg
@nybotheveg 8 ай бұрын
The first one is pretty simple, the vacation should have never been approved in the first place. Sounds like the business does over half their business in one month, and it's like that every year. He should have known that they were going to be busy.
@LycanWitch
@LycanWitch Жыл бұрын
first story, manager clearly had free time to go trash someone's property. secondly, the business/boss is at complete fault, if they are struggling with so many customers during the holiday, they clearly have a staffing shortage issue, so it's the boss' fault for trying to squeeze as much profit out of each individual employee by having a shortage of staff; so the obvious solution is this restaurant needs to hire more staff, at the very least temp/seasonal employees if they don't need the extra staff year round. So the boss only has themself to blame, or if they aren't the owner of the restaurant, then their anger and hatred needs to be focused on the owners or whoever doesn't allow the staffing of additional workers to help with the busy season.
@KingCthulhuXV
@KingCthulhuXV 7 ай бұрын
For the covid story- Not even about others health the entire university would've been shutdown if he didn't report them which means their work during that time would've disappeared and scholarships as well not the jerk.
@SenseiRaisen
@SenseiRaisen Жыл бұрын
Story 3: get the f out of that relationship. Story 4: talk to your BF, told him that he has to put his foot down instead of let mommy dearest has control on his life. Because if she does this, what else she will do if she hook him up with someone. Story 5: There is a lot of things going on here. But i would said he is a jerk for send that messenge because WTF! SHE IS YOUR EX. Also she is own individual so she can take decisions on her own, but your attitude is either: "worry" she might get into trouble with someone like your ex, or ... you're hiding something else you don't want her to know. But yeah, i would let her take that conversation too.
@Kat-pr9nv
@Kat-pr9nv Жыл бұрын
In the first story even if they didn't understand how serious the situation was at first it was explained to them along with multiple warnings, it's not like he just came after them after one time
@fahrizaljohari3821
@fahrizaljohari3821 Жыл бұрын
1st story; don't feel sorry for this kinda people. ever!
@dracko158
@dracko158 Жыл бұрын
"I've heard all that before from my Ex who cheated on me, why should I believe you?" Jesus, talk about paranoid. Just because your previous girlfriend cheated on you, doesn't mean you current one will do the same. If he is going to be that distrustful, he shouldn't have a girlfriend.
@ella6547
@ella6547 Жыл бұрын
In Story 1: If you know it's busy 1 week in the year, don't let staff go on holiday in that 1 week - sheesh. It's basic common sense.
@Kindog1223
@Kindog1223 9 ай бұрын
Story one: not the jerk, if he was so busy during that time of year why did he not give you time?
@stephanreiken9912
@stephanreiken9912 Жыл бұрын
I mean, story 2 is how authoritarians think they are doing the right thing.
@TAFAFO
@TAFAFO Жыл бұрын
I hunted for this comment. Glad I found it 👏 👏
@Mississippi_Jack
@Mississippi_Jack 11 ай бұрын
The RA is such a scumbag. I don't understand why there are so few people who feel like this in the comments. Even if he wanted to uphold the rules, he didn't have to go to the lengths he did to get them in trouble.
@sanddagger36
@sanddagger36 Жыл бұрын
last story: that guy needs to really get his priorities straight.
@Nkw022
@Nkw022 Жыл бұрын
For the first story at least you get to keep your job, your not going to get a management position at anywhere after getting 6 months of prison for over reacted.
@-The_Architect-
@-The_Architect- Жыл бұрын
why is that even a question in the first one? why on earth would you feel bad about that knowing he likes to wait last minute to cancel peoples vacations, he plans that so he can do stuff to their property and threaten their job.
@melaniemasri7112
@melaniemasri7112 9 ай бұрын
Use this as a story My mom and dad broke up I had to live with my Grandma and Grandpa. Because at the time we needed to work to get money so about 2 years later. My mum and my aunty had a fight. Because my aunty wanted to celebrate her birthday on the day but my mom needed the time to work so my mom said no we can celebrate it a few days after. But then my aunty started yelling at us then she grabbed my mom and they fighted . Then me my mom and my sister got kicked out of the house. That day we moved into our new house where things where normal. For a few years then my mom got a new bf. A few years later My sis got angry at me and we went to our grandparents house she started crying before I was about to tell my grandparents what happened. My aunty said to my mum what happened to her but she actually said your a bad mother then my mom came and tried to pick us up my grandpa didn't let my mom we got up but my grandpa said sit back down he was still verry strong so I sat down he said go outside and come back when when your calmed down she called the police and andjria she came back and said can I have them back he grabbed her by the arm and said get out of my house they came andjria said come we left andjria slammed the door we are not allowed to se them till we are 18 it's been 2 years I told my mom to make my dad stop showering me he said no and blocked my mom only I can talk to him and my sis he said I heard you want me to stop showering me he said I'm makeing a big fight between my mom and him he said how can I trust you because if you show me then I'll stop I said how can you trust me if you don't let me do it myself then I never heard from him again
@anubianthe1335
@anubianthe1335 Жыл бұрын
Wtf why did he vandalized the hone
@Heidao623
@Heidao623 Жыл бұрын
Has a history of screwing people over by revoking vacation at the day it was schedules, does indeed revoke on the day of leave, threatens your livelihood if you disobey, trashes home because you ignored the threat. No sympathy should ever be given, that is the brain of a psychopath that couldn't do anything to you, so they took it out on your home. You should be happy they even got prison time, as karmic retribution for others the manager screwed over.
@divya_212
@divya_212 10 ай бұрын
If restraunt was so busy why was vacation approved or no temporary staff was hired??
@catsncrows
@catsncrows Жыл бұрын
I'd sing the matchmaker song from fiddler on the roof at the potential mother in law as I flounced dramatically out the door because I'm an overly dramatic b like that and take none
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