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0:00 Entitled Sibling, who has a bad track record with their vehicles, demands my extra car for their own use, and call me an absolute jerk when I tell them no. (u/throwawaythekeyyy)
7:27 My boyfriend is being really cheap all the time, and its gotten to the point now where I can’t even spend any money without him questioning it, or getting angry. And I honestly now don’t know what to do. (u/1998JanBaby)
11:06 My wife has secretly racked up over $16,000 dollars in credit card debt, and right now I feel utterly betrayed, and I seriously don’t know what to do. (u/Swimming-Experience4)
14:13 Am I the Jerk for canceling dinner plans with my family, after they practically tried to replace me? (u/Electronic-Mud-2225)
18:15 Am I the Jerk for not wanting to visit my family, simply because I would not be able to afford it? (u/No-Tip-9179)
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[@Tophatdudewow]

First :D

[@margaretmchugh7880]

Who cares?

[@blackbird3327]

Story 1: I don't blame OP a record sounding that sketchy I wonder why the government hasn't revoked the right to own a car and their driver's license

[@MarsJenkar]

If this story is based the US, then a license revocation is generally seen as a big deal because there are large sections of the country where if you have no car, it can seriously cripple your ability to live since most places are built around the assumption that you can drive, or get a ride, to where you need to go. These places are generally small towns or small isolated cities, so no bus, no train, not even taxi or rideshare. You have to do something like repeated DUI or kill someone in an accident that's down to your reckless driving in order to get your license revoked, and from the sound of things these people did not go to that extreme.

[@puppetmasterey]

​@@MarsJenkarI'm not normally the "tough on crime" guy. But when it comes to cars, I think there should be severe consequences for moving violations. People get killed.

[@ManiacZ1111]

⁠@@MarsJenkarIn USA besides the more serious violations too many unpaid/unresolved minor citations like tickets or even just unpaid child support can possibly get your license revoked too

[@rainbowpegacornstudios]

Story 1: I wouldn't entertain the notion of helping a family member who's *THAT* ridiculously entitled

[@bobm5951]

Story 2 - Married or not, NEVER combine finances. Always keep your accounts Separate. Your account, their account, and ONE joint account that is only for bills and emergencies. If things go bad then you split the money in the joint account and it's done.

[@sicilianprincess-tm5nz]

Nowadays I agree but when I got married everything went into one account . But we do make sure we know what we charge and pay it in full the next month. And we have a spending limit on our cards even though we have very high limits

[@thePsiMatrix]

I'd say only combine finances for combined fiscal responsibilities like mortgage/rent (especially if both names are on agreements). If something terrible were to happen to a partner and they're the one with the account that pays for it; it can be a frustrating experience to gain control of the account. Everything else can and should be separate.

[@Cheekyartist123]

My grandparents do this so when they have to redo a card because it was stolen they still have the other account

[@Berrybrri]

For story 2, for the boyfriend’s viewpoint, I think there’s the possibility that he has the “broke mindset”, which is possible based on the implication that his parents are first generation immigrants. I’m in a somewhat similar situation with my parents telling me not to spend so much money and to save like hell. My own bedroom severely lacks “fun little decor” because it’s kind of a waste of money when it could be spent on food or other necessities. Though I believe the boyfriend shouldn’t be so controlling of the girlfriend’s money, I can understand why he might have a “broke mentality”.

[@L0NGESTC0MM3NT]

Play l L On

[@flamesaur8896]

You have a point I also think the girl probably pays for the home finances and he covers the rest. So she can’t afford to pay for other things that often

[@CherryBirthdayCake]

"YOU PUT YOUR JOB OVER US!" "SHO DID!"

[@debbiespeckmiear819]

Say NO and go no contact with them. They are entitled narcissists! I just went no contact with my entitled narcissistic son for forever!

[@eric98292]

Last time I bought celery, I had to sell my car and a kidney. Talk about living the high life.

[@llcoojoe20]

Who tf moves on with their life by playing mom and dad to someone who isn't your kid? Lol

[@victoriabutterfly6521]

My mother does Before I went NC & we regularly would talk on the phone she would constantly tell me about this woman & her daughter. Basically that woman was the daughter she never had. She would help her financially & that woman's daughter would call her granny. Fun fact, when I (her actual daughter) needed financial help she would not help me Hearing how she would consider a stranger her daughter & would put her above me, was very hurtful. But honestly it's not the first time she put strangers above me rather than be there for her own daughter

[@funtimewildmutt]

Op: can I bye a pack of gum Boyfriend: no it’s too expensive

[@jacksinfectedkidney5028]

8:20 the bra thing is not exactly an option, it’s underwear and an absolute necessity. There are different kinds of bras for different outfits and events and some of the bras out there have this thing called an underwire built in for support but after a while the cloth tears and exposes those wires and can severely damage your skin. I understand being broke but there are just some things that can’t wait.

[@HonklerUnitedInc]

My ex hated the underwire so much! She would buy any bra on sale then have me rip wire out.. I was all too happy to do since it was for her at least back then lol... today I would sooner burn it... but ya all I did was make a small poke at end then push wire out

[@shiroooo196]

Story 1: there is nothing wrong putting your career over some families. Your career ties to your life, thier life is not ties to yours. Always putting yourself above trashy families

[@brandonnewby178]

3:08: *in their minds: "Buying? What do you mean buying? You're just going to give us the car."

[@deborahkizer4664]

Oh heck no. No cars no money no homes nothing give them nothing hand-me-down clothes yes but everything else know.

[@zetrif]

Story 2: he only seems to say things are too expensive when OP wants/needs something, even when they have the money

[@sylphiengel]

Story 4: if they want the OP to visit so much, they'd pay the costs for them, not whine about OP's unwillingness to get evicted.

[@SMDoktorPepper]

Family can be the worst. While my sister is fine, its the extended family always acting as if they deserve everything

[@TheBinny]

STORY 4: Im genuinely shocked OP thinks she isnt the AH, how do you expect your parenst to stand back and waste away their lives on a dayghter that make it very clear she wanted nothing to do with them, and now you are obviously ticked that they where and still are right. You eloped with an AH and cane crawling back to them ONLY TO COMPLAIN MORE! After all these years you still havent changed, you are still maive and obviously lacking some common sense

[@CajunReaper95]

I hope to fuck you don’t have kids cause if this would be your first thought then you probably wouldn’t give a shit because in your mind you’re being forgotten but in reality your child is being manipulated into going no contact and manipulation is a form of psychological abuse.

[@ryanrichter5345]

Fax

[@quiandremcdaniel4488]

They LITERALLY replaced their child.

[@TheBinny]

@quiandremcdaniel4488 Not at all. You can never replace your kid that's insane. They always wanted her back and just found someone else to give attention, that's it

[@hwimystic7691]

Story 1: “Why should I give you my car when you know of your track record? Why should I be responsible and suffer because of the stupidity and blatant recklessness of another person?” There is NO good reason for OP to give them the car, at all. Story 4: AH. I agree with OP’s dad. OP isn’t being replaced and they made a stupid decision to cut off their parents, when they were probably concerned for their wellbeing, and they were kinda right, in a way. OP is being childish and petty. The world shouldn’t stop rotating because of OP’s experience. What did they expect their parents to do?

[@viviennemorgan7217]

she needs to be grateful.

[@TheDarkLink7]

The first story. I would tell them to meet me at the dmv. If they ask why. Say "to transfer the car into your name." Mainly cause from what it sounds like. They don't want to. And when they start complaining saying that they want it now. Just then say "Why? So you can leach off of me and ruin my life?" Then just block them.

[@sandrasausville9103]

The first one sounds like the older sibling needs to get their act together before they go around demanding anything!! I mean really you have done enough for them as well as the rest of the family. Sounds like they need to grow up

[@alternatetimelinepapyrus361]

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[@williamdocherty1816]

I’m assuming sans is too lazy to approve the video

[@brandonnewby178]

In the interest of maintaining a life balance, it sure is refreshing to every once in a while see a story where the kid is the a******...

[@finer792]

Story 1 oh hell no you should not under any circumstances give them your car without your middle ground and if they try to take it from you call the police

[@cliffordmaynard6559]

On the last story, op you are NOT the jerk. Responsibility for your bills come FIRST, So NO you are NOT the jerk.

[@SenseiRaisen]

Story 2: i goes by the law of "who make more money and contribute more". If is you, then he doesn't had a say in what you want to do or not.

[@dylanclay2741]

The same women who have that mindset feel they're entitled to the man's money also when they blow all theirs. Um no

[@sandrasausville9103]

You need to get a better boyfriend. He's just being a petty jerk who needs to losen up and not be so stingy

[@missamanda2703]

I. OP i have a sister like this i have given cars a house and im 45 she is still wicked and hateful unless she wants something stop giving. Also get a personal umbrella insurance plan tied to your renters or home insurance. It covers attorneys fees, liability issuing, ignorant siblings wrecking a car they stole and kied they had permission.

[@dustysimpson7864]

1-Just go NC with them, and anyone that backs them up. This is your life.

[@WabbitRB]

With the last story I would be like "I would love to come to Disneyland with you... so here's rent and bills thanks!"

[@princessmarlena1359]

Story 1: If they won’t take on the full responsibility of owning a car, then they don’t deserve the privileges of owning a car. Especially after stealing OP’s first car as “punishment”. If OP paid for the car and insurance costs themself, she could file a police report for theft if the parents “took away the car” (illegal in that case). OP should never give/loan money to the sibling, let alone let them borrow either of their cars. Story 2: Why should you need YOUR BOYFRIEND’S PERMISSION, to spend YOUR OWN MONEY. Especially on essentials. Dump his controlling, sad, cheap @$$. Story 3: OP should either file for divorce or have her file for Chapter 7 Bankruptcy if the debts are only in her name. Though really he should divorce her for being that reckless and awful. Story 4: OP did throw them out of her life, now she wants to check back into her family like a motel? To heck with her. YTA. Story 5: NTA. Expenses are expenses. Your dad wasn’t there for you, so you don’t owe him a thing.

[@cybercifrado]

That poor dude with 16k CC debt. There's no way in hell that pit wasn't intentional by his wife. She needs to STFU and get a job ASAP - she has flat-out betrayed her partner.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

which one

[@gunnerjames3636]

Honestly, sure they can move on with their lives but I still don’t think they had to replace her with some“family friend”.

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: OP is not remotely a jerk and the sibling is a piece of trash. The poor track record the sibling has, along with being unable to get any kind of insurance is proof enough that they shouldn't be driving, but the added insults towards the OP, especially the comment about lying that the OP doesnt want a relationship with the dad is just wrong and crossing major lines. With all things considered, i know i wouldnt be helping that sibling out in any way shape or form. They are nothing more then just selfish leeches. Story 2: If he wants to be cheap and frugal with his money, then that's really his business.... but the line should be drawn when he makes comments about how you spend YOUR money. Getting that uptight over celery..... really?? Story 3: This is 100% the OP's business. If she's getting sore over that, then who knows what else she could be up to... and shes lying about the amount too. Keep a very close eye on your bank accounts before she drains you. Story 4: Yea the OP is a jerk here. At first i thought maybe the OP was misunderstood by running off and eloping with Mike and going no contact with the parents, but it became rather clear that the OP was being dumb and immature... made all the more valid by her actions coming back later on. The parents have every right to have their own friends and family and i see nothing wrong with them treating that person and her kids like family. The OP is just being stupid, selfish and acts like the parents owe her something..... which they dont. The parents should now go no contact with her over this. Story 5: OP is not a jerk here. It really sounds like the dad is trying to pull the "Why wont my kids visit me?" card here and its really pathetic. The dad, and the rest of the family, dont seem to be very good towards the OP and this just cements it all. The OP need to look after themselves first... especially when it comes to rent. If you cant afford to take the trip, then dont take it. It doesnt sound like the OP is really missing much anyways.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

op thinks that she's getting replaced.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

Honestly, you shouldnt even care if they think you're awful. I mean who are they to talk right?

[@johnnymcneal5914]

Wow that's about almost $5 more than I make yeah I wish I made that kind of money

[@nikhilbannerjee5126]

What with they, it sounds so disgusting and irritating when referred to a single person

[@johnnymcneal5914]

Yeah that's a red flag and I don't think I want to be married to somebody like that I mean really how much is a stalk of celery cost about $2.50 or $3 the point that even when you're on a budget it's small change

[@JamesDavy2009]

Mike must have been from a country that considers the US dollar to be highly valued like it was a century ago.

[@brianarnold8666]

13:25 hopefully those cards arent in your name. If that's the case, you arent liable. If your name is on it, get a really good lawyer

[@glitch5043]

story 4: The Op clearly is trying to start something up the parents just got a close bond with somene else and she thinks there replacing her she herself went no contact so even if they was what se expected but they did clearly say shes just a relative they kinda adopted (in my words)

[@littlepeeper9223]

There is nothing more unattractive than someone who is stingy. It's okay to be frugal. but this dude is stingy in a way that hurts his relationship and his girlfriend suffers because of it.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

op shouldn't give her car away to her sister in law or sister.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

since there might be something going on with the sister.

[@dustysimpson7864]

YTJ Who do you think you are, telling your parents what to do.

[@gotenblack2542]

story 4 ya op is the ah like the family tired to talk with her a lot but she did not care but when she fells like she wants to and they move on she gets all angry like is your fault for not trying to be there with them when they tired

[@CajunReaper95]

Ever heard of mental abuse? And controlling partners?? If not you should learn what it is before making an idiotic comment.

[@gotenblack2542]

lol

[@jillianbetts4306]

$24-25/hour!? Where do you work, and can I get a job there? I'm struggling on $14-15/hour 😞

[@JamesDavy2009]

That's barely over minimum wage where I'm from.

[@jillianbetts4306]

@@JamesDavy2009 where I am living, minimum wage is $7.25 an hour. Yet, the cost of living is nearly $2,000 a month here. That means you are working 275 hours a month to get by, nearly 70 hours a week! And that's not even factoring in the taxes the government takes... 😓😓

[@cliffordmaynard6559]

Now that I let the car story finish, op don't give or sell them your car.

[@cheesycatgaming]

Yesssss Video time I’m from stream btw

[@gwynfall]

Wow. Was i the only one who got suprised to hear host admiting that OP is a jerk? I think is it the first time

[@BozoPlaysMC]

Car

[@CajunReaper95]

Story 4 sounds like classic controlling bf behavior so no that’s not entirely ops fault the fact you’d even say it is without thinking about the possibility of op being manipulated into going no contact is quite baffling to say the least considering most no contact with parents is at the hands of abuse and manipulation from your partner putting the idea in your head to isolate you and financially abuse you, you really missed the mark here dude!

[@ljgalaxy]

Does anybody know what that fire fighter game is

[@johnnymcneal5914]

It's easy to be this Reckless when you're not paying the bills I would let her Sail on her own and let her figure out how to pay off this debt dumping this on your shoulders the way I see it she made her bed let her sleep in it

[@Walnut64]

The second story sounds really exaggerated

[@cliffordmaynard6559]

Before I let the story about the car, op do NOT give in, if they want the car then they have got to pay for it, DON'T leave it in your name if they get it, take the plates and keep the title and go with them so it's OUT of your name or if you want to sell it, sell it to someone else.

[@wowgek7]

4th story I dont totaly agree with the parents where in the wrong as well in that sutuation not for moving on etc but how they handled it originaly. that op walked out etc is partly their fault as well and the dad saying it doesnt matehr anymore isnt relay fair to op either.

[@JamesDavy2009]

IMO, ESH.

[@Tubb2581]

Story 3: oh 100% the 🍑🕳️. This is the result of going no contact and the other person respecting your choice, they moved in with their lives. You don't get to choose who their allowed to be around. YEAP they replaced you and u gonna suck it up

[@cybermainstream]

You're a dick. Never have kids

[@CreatingArt3185]

Mike was obviously controlling and manipulating OP so chill out

[@WHATISAHANDLEANDWHYDOESITNEED]

Yayyy

[@panqueque_mexicano]

Pancakes approved

[@thesadbread]

True

[@jessicahahn5215]

If you see this and buy the jerk please reply but did I get banned from the live chat

[@patriciorojaspaz7682]

Yay

[@marciagroenesteijn5950]

why FOrNiTE is the back round

[@TheBinny]

Are you dumb? How is that fortnite?

[@AltzGachaStudios]

What’s this game called?

[@SauuceyFPS]

yes

[@scottwilson3117]

I have always have not been to family funkions.

[@shannonmurray7811]

I'm back again 😂

[@TheBinny]

No one knows you bro

[@shannonmurray7811]

@@TheBinny no one knows you either

[@TheBinny]

@shannonmurray7811 Yeah, I know, that's why I ain't saying "I'm back again ☝️🤓"

[@tails_the_fox9721]

Hi

[@cybermainstream]

The parents in the story that replaced their daughter are AH. The daughter isnt a saint either but she said with encouragement from her ex to go no contact with the parents. This dude was mentally abusive in a passive way. In terms of most to least AH. Ex bf was the biggest AH, then the parents, and then the OP. No one is innocent but she isnt the most guilty of all them. Plus the daughter probably thought she was in love with the ex and we know people do stupid stuff when they think they are in love.

[@JamesDavy2009]

ESH

[@Ominvus]

Story 4: Yeah, I am playing devil advocate here but the timeline on the parent meeting this family friend kind of fall in the same time as op eloping, at least that is what is said. So, they already replaced her before op and her ex broke up. There is moving on then there's just plain replacement. So yeah they replace her ahead of time so in that case, they are the jerks. If it were a year after op eloped I could see op as the jerk but they full on replaced her the first chance they got. If anything, both op and her parents are the jerks.

[@RedrumZombies]

No. The parent's met the friend's 5 years ago. The daughter left the parents 9 or so years ago...

[@viviennemorgan7217]

the parents met this lady 5 years ago, while op left with her useless boyfriend 9 years ago

[@WTC-1990]

No, OP is the jerk. They didn't replace her. They simply became close with a family friend and her kids, OP is jerk, a selfish c**t that expects them to wait around for her and hates the fact they were right about her poor choice in partner

[@boycashthegod]

No because the parents welcomed her back with open arms when the OP tried to come back, where as the OP shunned them when they tried to come back

[@davidbirkett4636]

1st

[@cheesycatgaming]

Yep

[@tylercanales5794]

I’m not going to lie and maybe it’s playing devils advocate. But there’s parts where I agree with the original poster in the first story but I also agree with the sibling. In a way it feels like the original poster and some parts think they’re a little better because like they said there’s sibling lives in a bad neighborhood and she’s like oh I’m not gonna go there cause it’s a bad neighborhood. But then she kind of wants to be judgmental when she learns there’s a weapon in the house, which is not illegal as long as it’s out of children’s. as long as it’s out of children’s reach. And also, we don’t know the whole story behind with the parents. But it seems like this original poster in the first story has problems with everyone in their family. And I don’t know if I heard correctly because I was distracted, but was there a part where they said they were their significant others wanted them to go left to see their family and they’re like no because I just don’t want to go see your family? Because if so, that seems a little selfish too, so again, I can see both sides. OK I know the original comment was long. I apologize everyone. But if anyone reads this, I would really appreciate it but I want to also put out in story number two. If they have different bank accounts and the girlfriend make some more kind of sounded like she’s asking him to buy these bangs like oh can you buy the bra? Can you buy the cell celery celery sorry I’m a little tongue-tied right now. So if she makes more instead of just asking him if she can do it or asking if we can buy it for her. And again she makes more money. Why don’t you she just buy them?

[@gigglesgaming131]

The op in the first story holds absolutely zero obligation to give the siblings or their family anything. If you actually hear how these adults (with children) have acted and treated their family as an atm. You'd understand why. The siblings don't take any accountability for their insanely irresponsible financial habits. Let alone being financially supported every day by someone else and they're not even grateful for that. Then with all this massive support from the op, they have the nerve to call them selfish because the OP doesn't wanna be responsible for their terrible past and future history . The OP not wanting to visit them because of the terrible neighborhood they live in is justified as well. The OP *is* better than their family because they're making better choices instead and supporting themselves rather than supporting people that complain about their crappy life, when it's their fault in the first place and won't make any effort to change it.

[@tylercanales5794]

@@gigglesgaming131 look to me, no not wanting to go visit because of the neighborhood they live in is not just fired. I am in a similar situation where I have to pay rent to my dad because I still live at home and he’s not grateful for either. But they get mad because they know they don’t live in a safe neighborhood and be like oh they have a weapon in the house and that’s another reason. No that’s not justified.

[@CajunReaper95]

I also think the am I the jerk narrator missed the fucking mark at the end that’s classic abuse on the bfs part manipulating op into going no contact with their parents the fact he got so huffy at that is mind boggling 😤 yes you are the asshole, it’s like slow your roll buddy and look at it from a different angle!

[@tylercanales5794]

@@CajunReaper95 i’m not going to lie I used to like the narrator, but over the time I’ve stopped really liking this one. I miss all the other narrators. But I like the narrator they have for the second video of the day he seems more sympathetic to both sides. Well, I feel like this narrator jumps too quickly to take one side or the other.

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First

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[@samdream7653]

#4 no they are not the jerk but Am I The Jerk person, you are the Jerk, the don't care about the persons feeling but starts on a rant that has nothing to do with the post. Please take the more time reading the next time.

[@magnetboy]

With the fourth story the parents can go on with their lives but it’s not like you broke up with them your child is not a boyfriend or girlfriend in terms just because they don’t talk to you doesn’t mean you find a new one honestly I thought it was a bit shocking how a good friend the person who tells people if there’s a jerk or not agreed with it can’t expect them not to go on with their lives going on With your life it’s all right but replacing a daughter if they had another daughter that would be fine but they replaced her with an outside person name it five years ago honestly the parents of a jerk and that one

[@zozo11221]

I had 3 strokes until i managed to understand this comment. The parents said they did not replace her she only was a good friend. Like how peoples kids call the parent's best friend uncle, they called them grandma and grandpa, probably little kids. OP was an idiot and is very immature.

[@WTC-1990]

How ??? They didn't replace her. They met a family friend 4 years after OP went off with some loser. You expect them not to have friends ???? They would have been friends with this lady regardless of whether OP was there or not. OP an immature child that needs to grow up

[@zozo11221]

@@WTC-1990 Naked friends? Now that sounds interesting 🤔