"You dont deserve someone that comes back, you deserves someone that never leaves"
@sadiehaws17913 жыл бұрын
Truth
@Richie1gz3 жыл бұрын
True
@shaut91203 жыл бұрын
So true
@ASharma663 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@ElevateYourWorth3 жыл бұрын
Not always true. I kindly dislike that quote. I come to these channels to see how a coach speaks from the mind. And then see the comments. He mentioned the law of attraction and that is why I'm commenting on your post. We are ALWAYS using the law as it's nothing more than our thoughts. Good and bad! Everyone is you pushed out, so when we start having self-sabotaging thoughts we always ruin our relationships. And our partner mirrors the thoughts we feel and believe to be true. I ruined my own relationship that very way. Study Neville Goddard. Your life will change entirely.
@nw11793 жыл бұрын
I hate relationships and breakups, they just mess up a good peaceful life then turn you to a stupid, desperate individual.
@LawnBunny7772 жыл бұрын
Take your power back with no contact and never beg someone to take you back. You teach people how to treat you. If they come back begging forgiveness I might reconsider but they would have to jump through hoops to win my trust back
@jiel27912 жыл бұрын
Yep, was fine before i let her distort my life
@ThachiThash2 жыл бұрын
So true
@ethanp9522 жыл бұрын
I wonder if these videos apply to gay relationship. I never seen coaches for lgbt
@LawnBunny7772 жыл бұрын
@@ethanp952 I would think it would be the same.
@ovdman3 жыл бұрын
It’s a beautiful thing to be silent when someone expects you to be enraged. Confuse them with your silence and amaze them with your actions..
@IEVAKambarovaite3 жыл бұрын
That works.. or speak openly about what you'd like in a relationship, how you'd like to be treated. Ask them what is working and what is not and make decisions accordingly instead of playing hide and seek and trying to prove who's better or worse. Just my personal experience with no contact :)
@tonileolion97023 жыл бұрын
@@brandonnykyforak this is true .. And u really have to just respect their wishes tbh weather they come back or not . Sad and u will miss them but had to be done
@jennyllontop68092 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@parisbeautytherapy34142 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t of said this better myself
@cadimcdonalds92322 жыл бұрын
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@AlexMartinez-qx7vo Жыл бұрын
“Check the obituaries, and if you don’t see their name, they’re okay” that was gold right there!! Thanks coach!!
@79thdriftwood14 күн бұрын
Thought that was funny too lol Coach Lee is a blessing during these difficult times. God bless his heart.
@djblack12043 жыл бұрын
Never beg someone to be in your life. If you text, call, visit and still get ignored, walk away. it's called self respect.
@djblack12043 жыл бұрын
@@andrewwilson9157 Stop trolling
@jennyliew71793 жыл бұрын
I had someone told me he love me deeply then turned away from me in one split second! What is wrong with this?
@rondr30173 жыл бұрын
@@jennyliew7179, i did the same thing to my girlfriend. I told her I loved her, wait a minute, I told her I am very much in love and left, I did it because I was not happy and we argued constantly about senseless things. After 3 weeks, we are in touch again, She said she still loves me, and told her I still loved her. But this time, I want to be transparent and be vocal about my feelings..
@jennyliew71793 жыл бұрын
@@rondr3017 I am grateful for your replies Ron, I am now so depress over this broken relationship of mine from Facebook which I think it is a torture to me, after I opened up to him and expect a positive reply but was turned down & he blocked me! It is so painful and made me embarrassed! He called you to be with him and said he love me deeply and missed you the whole night but cast you out now like he don’t know me anymore after he watched me silently for 7 years but while watching he had many failed marriages ! I am thinking he is just looking for beautiful face and figures!
@VinnyGuardino3 жыл бұрын
@@jennyliew7179 me and my ex just broke up after about 4 months.she was like my best friend though and someone I loved and would have never thought she would have just broke things off I mean she was passionate about us.I’ve been so depressed as well she is riding this ego rush tbh and I can see it but we still have texted and it’s been a month since we broke up.I’ve been suffering we haven’t texted since friday and I feel so hurt even when it’s just been 2 days I still have some faith but I don’t know what to do I feel so uncared for and tossed aside I hope we could talk things out and get back together and communicate more
@tonymontana57533 жыл бұрын
I want to rewind my life, I wish I never fell in love
@nagvicky3 жыл бұрын
I too feel the same
@lcasanova25463 жыл бұрын
Damn that's deep
@SecondChanceHiker3 жыл бұрын
Love is awesome, had so many great memories, I don’t want to give those up
@heidiarmstrong54643 жыл бұрын
It’s feels like you lost a limb. A part of you that you thought you would always have.
@miszyoon44743 жыл бұрын
Me too 😔
@deutschlandswahnsinn3 жыл бұрын
You guys here on the comment section are my therapie. i am very thankful for all of you. sometimes i wish we could all catch up and have a few drinks. God bless you all.
@wilsonaparra3 жыл бұрын
Feeling the same way lol
@roythompson48693 жыл бұрын
Me too bro....That would be the shit start a club of sorts 🥶
@alyssat913 жыл бұрын
Amen to that brother.
@Shan_Chans3 жыл бұрын
NYC here, I’m down lol boy do I have stories to share
@soulreaper57133 жыл бұрын
If you ever get to Hawaii look a brother up 🤙🏽
@gaudiangeles15092 жыл бұрын
"Someone who doesn't choose you is not the love of your life" We'll all get through this, I know it hurts like damn hell, but there are better things ahead.
@teru_99212 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear that. My ex boyfriend of 1+ year who once proposed to me to be his wife just made the decision to be with his ex girlfriend after her failed attempt at s****de. Had to make him say it in his own words and he said "I choose her". Currently still grieving since he broke up with me 13 hours ago, but I hope one day I can finally accept that he's not "the love of my life."
@gaudiangeles15092 жыл бұрын
@@teru_9921 youll get better, I certainly am. I sometimes miss her, and still have some affection fot her, despite everything. But I learnt that she just isn't it.
@matthewbaines4392 жыл бұрын
So right about that....
@bobsmith962 Жыл бұрын
Yes just game players.
@DaxVerus Жыл бұрын
What if I did choose them and they also chose them? How come because I dumped them to focus on myself finally I seem to be the bad guy :(
@aws47353 жыл бұрын
Whoever is dumped and watching this video, good news for you This experience will make u grow up
@pennydouglas75813 жыл бұрын
Don't worry my dear I know of someone who can help you the same way he helped me
@genesis_8883 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! It will make us reassess our value and give us back our dignity and control of our life! I am on day 12 of No Contact and now im finally feeling a bit better, more un control and less emotional. The first week was literally torture (specially during the holidays), it was excruciating, honestly it really did feel like torture for real...
@hugogrizma3263 жыл бұрын
@@genesis_888 me same , just day 5no contact, but it was suck all december, worst holidays ever :/
@aws47353 жыл бұрын
@@genesis_888 try to make your self busy and do some activities, being busy helps, it’s like addiction when u r not busy you think about your ex, be strong and keep it up
@genesis_8883 жыл бұрын
@@hugogrizma326 seriously! Ahhhh the pain! Feeling my new roots grown in though i must admit...
@ronc1663 жыл бұрын
No contact does work. My heart doesn’t hurt anymore. 1 month & 12 days. No pain.
@AddictzAnt3 жыл бұрын
I’m 1month and 13 days
@DigitalFire50003 жыл бұрын
Took me 3 and a half months and a new guy but go off sis lmao
@JoseMoreno-eh7ds3 жыл бұрын
1 year and a half and its the fucking best! 😁😁😁😁
@alexabacay61873 жыл бұрын
Well, been 7 months. Still hurts. Lol.
@helen33893 жыл бұрын
I month and 2 days and it still hurts as if it was the first day. This is a guy I only dated for 3 months but from the first moment I met him, I felt as if I've known him forever. Second break up, and it hurts so bad..
@feelingoffbalance3 жыл бұрын
Because I'm a graduate of the Lee University, when my crush told me 'I'm not ready for a relationship' I had the most attractive response to that you can imagine. After a brief moment of confusion, I realised I'm feeling relaxed and warm and told him that it would be sensible in this case to stop seeing each other since I was interested in emotional and physical intimacy. He looked surprised and for the rest of the walk, tried to get closer to me and prolong the walk by suggesting we stop and talk lol. I was talking to him as normal, was polite as normal. He looked astonished :) I guess it threw him off, because in the beginning of the meeting he was so confident (more than usual, that arrogance of the dumper). I give myself 100 points people. I'm frankly amazed how awesome I am :)) hehe
@FM-zg5hz2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@sandraotero59512 жыл бұрын
You are Awesome ! 😀💓💯
@Aatrox995 ай бұрын
You’re a great person truly! Keep it up 👏🏻
@79thdriftwood14 күн бұрын
That's bad ass! Way to go!🎉 I will have that opportunity soon.😊
@oscarrs133 жыл бұрын
I don’t really want to get hopes up to get back together I want to focus on myself and not have those illusions.
@saruhjaye3 жыл бұрын
It helps me to focus on releasing my attachment to the expectation and assumptions. Just simply be and focus on the present moment. It's easier said than done. Stay strong on your journey of self :)
@karenkopittke3 жыл бұрын
"If you can stay away then you can move on"~Coach Lee. Well said❤️
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
Karen Kopittke,you got a lovely smile
@karenkopittke3 жыл бұрын
@@lioydwilliams1850 Awwwe..Thats nice to hear. Thank you.
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
@@karenkopittke which country are you from?
@karenkopittke3 жыл бұрын
@@lioydwilliams1850 US
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
@@karenkopittke wow!,are you on hangouts or Gmail so we can always talk?
@strumfury32103 жыл бұрын
"Check the obituaries and if you don't see their name, there. They're okay" -Coach Lee Best one yet 🤣🤣
@jennamejia66683 жыл бұрын
This comment made me laugh so hard! You are right there! 👏🏻👍
@sx90__3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I do think my ex is dead cause I don’t understand why I haven’t received a text yet 😂
@chi_guy253 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee does have a sense of humor lo
@h3arty3 жыл бұрын
I love him 😭 he helps sooo much 😢 this week was sooo hard, I haven't been sleeping.. But these funny moments make my day 😊
@AStark-dn6yh3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@hmanfilms2 жыл бұрын
My philosophy: If they decide to give up on you and the relationship, especially if they don't communicate and "blindside you." Never plead or beg. Voice your disappointment with the decision and frustrations. Then ask them to stop contacting you indefinitely and move on. I had a girl do this to me and have the audacity to ask me to stay in touch as friends as she "worked on herself." Absolutely not. These people want their cake and to eat it too. Never be someone's backup plan or toy they string along. Block on everything and move on immediately and find someone who values you and makes a relationship easy. These people will rarely ever change. If they discarded you once and you take them back, you're inviting them to do it again.
@jessebradford71302 жыл бұрын
It's funny because she automatically assumed you still want her in your life and think she's that valuable. It's annoying because I could see if it came from a place of straight arrogance but she really thinks that and isn't aware of high she thinks she stands. I remember being screwed over and she knew I wasn't having it and left a voice-mail letting me know what she was doing and was going away for a little for emotional/ drug problems. What an idiot.
@kishansojitra81092 жыл бұрын
gt
@dannycolwell802811 ай бұрын
My favorite small petty power flex is just not even bothering with their social media
@rymphanglyngdoh52975 ай бұрын
No brother, find a wife for the lifetime, keep her also, be the master, let her play, but you have to be 10 step ahead, and watch her crumble when her biological clock is ticking 😂😂😂😂
@TwinkleTVi3 жыл бұрын
Almost 6 month in no contact. Lots of things to share but as a summary I’d only like to mention that no contact is about finding yourself, discovering yourself again and learning to be comfortable with all the emotions you are having and not getting your ex or someone back. You might even reach a point where you don’t want them anymore. That indifference would be so powerful for yourself. I still have my overthinking or bad days but not as bad as they used to be.
@abubakarbello22643 жыл бұрын
Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divor ce,...
@Oviraptor108 ай бұрын
Totally agree with this one.
@Rebelmutt5078 ай бұрын
It's not always about not getting back
@GreatestXchange3 жыл бұрын
"Silence is the ultimate mystery." ~Coach Lee
@OxinerProductions123 жыл бұрын
as soon as I heard that in the video I got tingly and I started laughing because of how true that statement is. Death, nothingness, silence all have the common ground of being questioned by humans beings. Brilliant Coach lee
@csw1283 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee i have a complex situation. I'd like to email you
@god_girl50713 жыл бұрын
Thank you you help me alot
@leenedevastin51743 жыл бұрын
Does No contact work on my ex who broke up with me because of his parents? they brainwashed my ex boyfriend to leave me . Pls help we have relationship 3 years . actually hurt because Last month we’re okay . We have a lot of plan . it hurts
@bosa53153 жыл бұрын
@@leenedevastin5174 some times its ok to start dating other people. Don't waste your life waiting for him.if he was ment to be in your life God will bring him back
@keithzizis48603 жыл бұрын
No contact is more of a way to get yourself back. Do you. Take care of you get healthy. If they come back you may not even want them back.
@travis66943 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely both. Too many people give up these days too easily and the no contact is a way to learn and grow for both parties to see that both have messed up and to actually work through things. Just a little rant lol.
@keithzizis48603 жыл бұрын
@@travis6694 I did no contact she reached out and I don't want her back and I found somebody better much better
@travis66943 жыл бұрын
@@keithzizis4860 that’s amazing man!
@shehba.p3 жыл бұрын
@@travis6694 I definitely agree with this comment, im on day 2 of no contact, can barely hold myself together, he says he still loves me as he mentioned a number of times whiel he was breaking up with me, but cant have a relationship right now because of how much he has going on in his life plus me wanting his time and he felt stressed knowing he was upsetting me. This man doesnt have a bD bone in his body. After break ups im able to write cons about the person in the past but this man i really cannot say anything bad, he loved and cherished me up until the very last bit of the relationship. i truly believe that we can work it out, i just hope he reaches out...
@crochetmittens3 жыл бұрын
@@shehba.p omg i am literally going through the same thing right now, except i'm already 3 weeks into no contact. he too cares for me alot, and was crying (he never cries) when we last met for closure. just that his priority is in his career at the moment, and he realised he hasn't gotten over his ex completely. therefore he left me as he feels it is unfair for me if we continue. Similarly, i cannot say anything bad about him as well - he didn't treat me the best but he was such a decent and good man and i do believe we can work it out after he has sorted out his issues.
@JustJayGray3 жыл бұрын
Whenever someone says “I hope we can still be friends :(“ you know they care about you and don’t believe that you’ll actually move on. Simply thank them for freeing you to better opportunities and that you’re excited! Then- block them (or at least mute them). Not only will you start to feel better, you realize your personal worth and that they never deserved you in the first place. Bless up and let’s all move on together.
@NM-ru2qj3 жыл бұрын
Blocking is immature
@jhonnymcbride14783 жыл бұрын
let's move on together
@avannagirltv98982 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@heikemcjunkin51032 жыл бұрын
Hi that's what my ex said he wants to be good friends , how can I be with u friends when all u did just cheated on me I told him I can't be friends with u to leave me alone he is blocked but I checked the other day and he still writing me ,
@heikemcjunkin51032 жыл бұрын
@@NM-ru2qj I don't think blocking is immature blocking him helped me easier to get over him
@thachnguyen26713 жыл бұрын
If you're a good lover , THEY WILL REGRET AFTER ALL , BELEVIED ME !
@francessilva38693 жыл бұрын
It never fails
@sofibed3 жыл бұрын
Believe *
@Laid2Sleep3 жыл бұрын
You guys seem so sure
@heartmendoza33613 жыл бұрын
guys always remember your destiny isn't tied to a person who left, it's their loss not yours keep you guys head up🙂
@bencrosbie3 жыл бұрын
Apparently they don’t
@MsJonesTV3 жыл бұрын
No contact always works for me... every ex has come back after a break up. Doesn't matter if I dumped or they dumped...
@billzco61373 жыл бұрын
Probably because you're hot
@Amctothemoon3 жыл бұрын
Does help if your drinking
@belenavila97053 жыл бұрын
How many times has a man came back for you ??
@brittany88683 жыл бұрын
How long did it take?
@gloooorz75953 жыл бұрын
Is this also effective for a short term relationship? Just 3 and half month of relationship 😔
@heartmendoza33613 жыл бұрын
let them walk away your destiny isn't tied to a person who left you always keep that on your mind
@mentalwarriorshow14583 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me on the 19th of June, and I tried and almost begged until the 29th(our anniversary) I removed her on social media but didn’t block. Now I’m on day 3 of no contact, and already, I’m realizing how unfair my relationship was. No contact isn’t designed to get your ex back. It’s designed to keep a hope alive while you heal and realize you don’t need them anymore.
@thelegendriderx27403 жыл бұрын
No contact is a life saver for relationships
@francessilva38693 жыл бұрын
How so?
@tysonmoffat92303 жыл бұрын
@@francessilva3869 because it shows you emotionally how much that person means to you whilst your working on yourself.c
@1CrispyCracker3 жыл бұрын
2 weeks in no contact now. I’ll be damned if I’m going to reach out to her. I love her but she’s just not good for me.
@KimK_AllDay3 жыл бұрын
I'm 3 weeks no contact, I feel you... I'm not breaking! He ignored me, so he no longer exists... I do wanna hug him but he's a soul less crazy covert narc, he'll always be toxic.
@crazzzeeej3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, brother!
@Tiegen.Reibin3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing man?
@1CrispyCracker3 жыл бұрын
Been 4 months now and I’ve moved on. I have a new girlfriend. My ex was a covert narc as well and I’ll be dealing with that for awhile I’m sure but I’m slowly healing. Was the most toxic relationship I’ve ever been in but I definitely learned a life lesson. Never again
@lionzDen233 жыл бұрын
@@1CrispyCracker you have a new woman already. Careful
@juniorlugo28143 жыл бұрын
I can feel the no contact working . A month ago my heart was in pieces, This great videos are my glue. Thank you
@irinaburlova54204 ай бұрын
💯👍🏻
@kdwalker50542 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how me and my wife separated a month and a half ago with no contact and she text me good morning as I was watching this video. Amazing!!! This stuff works
@MDHorror113 жыл бұрын
It's been 30 days since I started no contact after I found out my ex-girlfriend was in a rebound. We have been apart for two months and I've felt a lot better about myself. Started going to the gym, working on my mental health, and eating correctly. I believe that things will fall into place and she will come back eventually. Personal transformation is deadly to them, when they see your improvements and they are not advancing as fast they will reflect on what happened whether you ended on good or bad terms. Nobody wants to be left behind in this world. Stay true to yourselves we got this.
@MDHorror113 жыл бұрын
@@danielsea6479 Doesn't bother me, I know my worth. It's just a rebound, eventually she will feel the heartbreak. If not then moving on is the play. Doesn't really bother me either way.
@michaeltrainer87233 жыл бұрын
well said.
@mariotibbrine13 жыл бұрын
She dumped you for another dude that means she will dump you at anytime for any better deal when that relationship fails are you really going accept her back I hope not there is too many other fish in the sea and new opportunities to be had get you a different model with better options never downgrade always upgrade.
@thepaynebro23773 жыл бұрын
My was in a rebound for a good minute way longer than 2 months she eventually came back but we aren’t freaking door mats!!
@mikec71742 жыл бұрын
Same scenario. Broke up with me July 30th. We kept talking for two more weeks. Slept together August 6th. Then a month after that or maybe 3 weeks later she banged another dude and is now seeing him. Been no contact since September 10th beyond the letter I wrote her on the 10th which probably got to her a week later. I wrote her the letter because I wanted to apologize for my drunk actions. I'm an alcoholic so yeah, my stuff is complicated. She stated she misses me, misses banging me, misses my smell, masturbates over me yet she's banging this dude and of course she states "but that doesn't mean I want to get back together". It's so painful, but you're not alone.
@eduardonajarrojr3 жыл бұрын
The no-contact rule and the time after a break-up is one simple lesson: a test of self-confidence!
@BLKBETE113 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched this 3 times in the last month during NC. It becomes a little easier each day, especially when you’re reinventing yourself to be a better person spiritually, physically and emotionally. Coach Lee has 3k new subscribers since. He’s helping us move on - with dignity.
@gauravkumai9 ай бұрын
What's the update bro?
@hunter_pauley2 жыл бұрын
I was no contact for ~7 months before she reached out to me. It was tough but it was funny discussing how we both felt during those 7 months. We both struggled but just at different times on the timeline. We were able to talk and meet up to clear the air like 2 adults having an adult conversation.
@ismith80532 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. |Communication is the adult thing. Ghosting/no contact is just childish and snide. It doesn't have to be much contact at all. Just a full and frank conversation. Especially when u are dealing with drama queens etc.
@noted_insolence18942 жыл бұрын
Did you get back together?
@gamergal90s2 жыл бұрын
@@noted_insolence1894 wondering the same
@wayfaringmonk68472 жыл бұрын
Did you get back together?
@LIZ-zh4rw2 жыл бұрын
Did you get back tho
@31Alden3 жыл бұрын
“Check the obituaries. If you don’t see their name, they’re okay”. Beautiful! 😂
@CowboyEkim3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 😂
@joycearguelles82423 жыл бұрын
This is funny
@estebanjaramillo762 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jonathanb69113 жыл бұрын
2 years out, and I'm 20x the man I was during the discard due to no contact and personal growth. Listen to Lee and don't mess it up.👍🏻
@negtype133 жыл бұрын
did she try to get you back though?
@Oviraptor10 Жыл бұрын
"You're teaching them you can stay away", wow. That was STRONG. I was always the strong one in our relationship, the mature and composed one but when they broke up with me I turned into a puddle of tears and misery and broke down entirely. Pleaded, begged and lost every single ounce of dignity I had (yikes, i know) but now that I've started no contact yes, I'm hoping they can see that I *can* stay away (even if i'm struggling like hell, lol).
@hemansangam5048 Жыл бұрын
Any update
@Oviraptor10 Жыл бұрын
@@hemansangam5048 Hello! Well, I'm not going to lie. I was strong for about 25 days and then I stupidly broke no contact. I realized my mistake immediately and planned to get back in NC but I actually found myself in a situation in which my ex was very eager and open to talking to me and would actually reach out to me every day even though I wasn't initiating. I've been following the coach's advice to not ignore them but to not initiate and not chase. My ex and I are not back together yet but at the present moment I'm working on rebuilding my emotional connection with them. We're having very positive interactions and they key so far is that we haven't spoken at all about our past relationship or the breakup. Keeping it light and positive at all times to make things comfortable and super important to NOT CHASE. Another thing that has helped me a lot is to really exercise patience. I'm NOT a patient person by nature so it hasn't been the easiest part but I have convinced myself and actually come to terms that *I don't need to get back together with them RIGHT AWAY.* I would really hate to rush things, somehow end up together again only for things to end again because it was too soon. My mindset right now is to improve myself while improving my connection with them in a comfortable way and to be patient. I know it's not what we want to hear but there really is no rushing this kind of stuff. However, I know I want to be with them so I'll keep working towards it in an organic way, even if it doesn't happen right away. Long story short: we're still not back together but there's progress being made *despite* my mistake. I wish you luck and hope this helps you in some sort of way!
@mancillado Жыл бұрын
Any updates two months later?
@Oviraptor10 Жыл бұрын
@@mancillado Hi! My ex and I are not back together but our connection is good and we're comfortable with each other. I've stopped pursuing them in a romantic way because I'm focused on myself for the time being. We talk almost every day and we have a good relationship. I'm just not interested in having a romantic relationship with him right now so I'm not trying. I believe that if I was actively trying though, I would be in a pretty good spot. Good luck with whatever you're going through! You got this!
@mancillado Жыл бұрын
@@Oviraptor10 Wow thanks for the update! I get weirdly invested in people's stories in the comments so I'm very happy to hear you are in such a good place!
@joydivsion772 жыл бұрын
Great video. You learn a lot about yourself while going through a "no contact" period. A lot of the time if the person ends up wanting to get back together you've already moved on and THAT is power.
@porschevlog67733 жыл бұрын
Awww I’m struggling extra hard today. Gonna make a cup of tea & get into bed & watch this you always speak such words of wisdom & make me feel so much better!
@royneqiueafields25543 жыл бұрын
I’m having a hard time today as well laying in bed trying not to contact him. Ugh it’s been so hard. Trying not to cry.
@porschevlog67733 жыл бұрын
@@royneqiueafields2554 hang in there xx
@s-ayam43713 жыл бұрын
I have the same girl! Im in 2,5 months of no contact, but today im feeling it.. hold on!!
@tonyjohnson28083 жыл бұрын
God knows best. She's comforting you in Her bosoms!
@h3arty3 жыл бұрын
I bought popcorn and chocolate and munching away to his videos lol. Cup of tea sounds good as well! Hope we all have a better day tomorrow!
@johnriggs92983 жыл бұрын
Coach lee, I have been doing no contact for 2 and a half months. I got to where I was not thinking about her, I was focusing on my life, you gave me the strength I needed to not be in sorrows and have the right perspective. She texted me this morning and we talked all day. We went out to taco bell really late at night, the first time I had seen her since we exchanged items. It went really well, she says she wants to keep caught up with me and even seems like she is flirting when she was talking. I just want to thank you for everything. We're not back together yet and i'm going to continue to use your methods to be attractive and live for myself and not let her control my happiness. But because of you there is hope for a future with her. I can't thank you enough.
@user-js9vi5sv2r3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@raine0acid2 жыл бұрын
John Riggs , Update?
@davidcoppotelli39572 жыл бұрын
YES and there is a TACO Bell on every Corner.
@lingshyanchong31846 ай бұрын
big up John
@robertbenedek446310 күн бұрын
If I were you, I would be extremely cautious with hopes. I wish you a lot of realism and presence ;)
@juliedaly2381 Жыл бұрын
Don't let someone tell you twice they don't want you
@lennymcshits22882 жыл бұрын
If you are being dumped do not throw yourself at the mercy of the courts, simply show them the door. No contact is respecting their choice.
@neverlosehope40913 жыл бұрын
God Bless us all. No contact gives us a lot of benefits. Makes us strong / Find what is real that make us happy and Find if she/he realy for us. Sorry for my english.
@carmensmith14533 жыл бұрын
Hello friend u speak well English
@DigitalFire50003 жыл бұрын
Even though its been 3 and a half month and I didn't get my ex back despite doing everything right, I am SOOOOO thankful for your videos Coach Lee. Yours beyond anyone else's was just the therapy I needed to keep me calm and quiet the voices in my head during this traumatic time. I am seeing someone else now that I'm hopeful about and am thinking about my ex so much less but I don't know what I would've done without your voice filling the empty void that I felt during the breakup. You are a real-life hero and I really hope you know it!!!
@Mr.Mustgohard3 жыл бұрын
Aww hell I need to call my ex you seeing someone else damn!!!!!!
@PeaceDayCortez2 жыл бұрын
I’m here to remind myself, I don’t want to go back. He walked away and has been regretting it. He lost a great person. I deserve someone who wants to see me happy and not someone who only sees me as the target of their anger.
@MannyRoutes Жыл бұрын
Fresh from a breakup from last week and we agreed to no contact. The anxiety you mentioned has been driving me CRAZY! This definitely helps cool me down and give me a different perspective! Thank you!!
@mariopalfi8359 Жыл бұрын
keep strong bro!
@MannyRoutes Жыл бұрын
@@mariopalfi8359 Thanks bro! It's been 2mo and and a week so far and it's getting better. I got back into therapy for the healing process. Got myself into a new routine to "help pour back into myself" and level up. Working out every day and dance classes plus projects I'm working on in life. It's getting better but still a hell of a journey. Took an extensive social media break which also helped a lot. Not gonna lie, I still have my down days where I'm just super depressed and anxious at the same time. Had 3 of them last week but yea...the journey will slowly get better
@mariopalfi8359 Жыл бұрын
@@MannyRoutes dont u try to get back her? I suggest Dan Bacon get your ex back super system. I think he tells the true cuz in his system he talks about each situation is different so it might be not good in every situation to have long no contact. He says when u deattach and became nonneedy then u should reach out if u still want smthg. I can suggest u his stuff
@MannyRoutes Жыл бұрын
@@mariopalfi8359 In due time perhaps. I'm trying to get a good hold of myself both mentally and emotionally first. Then if she doesn't reach out perhaps I will. Right now as much as I hate the No Contact rule, we both need it for a while. I need to be 100% before any form a contact with her whether she reaches back out to me or I do it
@deathbystereo- Жыл бұрын
“ we agreed” there is your problem
@carlosruz1643 жыл бұрын
This video came at the perfect time, just started no contact 4 days ago right in the day of the break up. Be strong everyone!
@camillytunnell28793 жыл бұрын
So how are things going for you now? Any updates?
@mikesaintjulesmusic2 жыл бұрын
Any update @carlos ruz? I am on day 3 of no contact.
@jacoblindsay52812 жыл бұрын
@@mikesaintjulesmusic i’m on day 5, ours is labeled a break but I have to accept that she’s gone or else I’m gonna get hurt more if she doesn’t come back. How are you doing?
@titi81372 жыл бұрын
@@jacoblindsay5281 any update?
@laceycastillo65983 жыл бұрын
Yes! No contact does work on me. My ex dumped me for another girl, so I felt like the whole world will gonna fall over me. I was devastated then cried a river cannot sleep, I suffered for the whole month but as soon as I watched some coaches videos I started to gained confidence and the pain was gone. The outcome of no contact really helped me a lot. I hate him but I just don't wanna show him that. I am happy now!
@bobsmith962 Жыл бұрын
So glad
@elenabernardo5024 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there Lacey. Stay strong and know your worth.
@dylanw8902 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be real here, people won't realize the value of this video until they've been dumped by a person thery thought was the one.
@BillRWare2 жыл бұрын
Aye!!!
@freakynikki082 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being our Sensei on breakups and healing, Coach Lee. It's true what others are saying: You have such a calming and reassuring effect with the way you explain things. You understand us better than some of our family & friends. Even if I get back together with my ex or just learn to move on, I hope you continue doing this for years so many more bruised hearts get the comfort they need. Again, we sincerely thank you for healing thousands of broken hearts. ❤
@rowdybliss3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, you have single-handedly changed my life. I’m sitting in my own power, maybe for the first time in my life. Thank you!
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
rowdybliss, you got a lovely smile
@rowdybliss3 жыл бұрын
@@lioydwilliams1850 thanks, friend! 😁
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
@@rowdybliss which country are you from?
@rowdybliss3 жыл бұрын
@@lioydwilliams1850 I am from nowhere and everywhere. :)
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
@@rowdybliss you funny lol
@MrAlittlesomething3 жыл бұрын
This works 100% trust no contact, worked for me after 3 months now she is wanting to marry me 😂
@tonyjohnson28083 жыл бұрын
Lol!
@MohamedHassan-rg3sc3 жыл бұрын
please tell us what happened how you managed to have her reach out to you
@angel-pp5gj3 жыл бұрын
wowwe
@maryalbazzaz85913 жыл бұрын
Lmao I hope my ex would propose after three months of silence, dang. 😂😂😂
@conservativepatrick3 жыл бұрын
Lmao what a turn table 😂
@dianneciresi63243 жыл бұрын
I think they would feel happy/ relieved that we backed off since they didn't really care about us in the 1st place & replaced us with someone else behind our back
@Calminthechaos.3 жыл бұрын
Watched a few of these types of videos and I'm finding more and more that my ex who dumped me doesn't even deserve me.
@seankennedy96623 жыл бұрын
That’s the best part. We start no contact in hopes of winning them back. Then we realize we are worth so much more than our exes treated as. ❤️
@samlove32393 жыл бұрын
I'm 5 months in Im here to tell you guys you will feel better! /
@FreedominLove7113 жыл бұрын
Me too. We have to be strong.
@ameliahammond20873 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving me hope I’m only 1.5 months, it feels like an eternity and he will never reach out. But I’ve haven’t reached out once since the breakup.
@stefsteffany61333 жыл бұрын
3 months here👏
@samlove32393 жыл бұрын
@@FreedominLove711 mine ex did reach out from time to time found out he has a new 'friend' didn't hear from him for a month but little by little I felt better! I'm taking the power back to me and that feels so great
@starrynight99993 жыл бұрын
You are stronger than I am. Great! Keep strong!
@pamelad7573 жыл бұрын
I unsubscribed to every other dating coach once I found Coach Lee. He brings you back to reality and calms you when you feel you are losing all control of what’s real and what isn’t... breathe and take control of yourself. Thank you, Coach Lee
@hosejockey96903 жыл бұрын
It’s funny when we start to forget and heal they come back. You deserve better, they left so don’t let them back in, keep moving forward!
@abubakarbello22643 жыл бұрын
Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divor ce,...
@abubakarbello22643 жыл бұрын
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@warriormom882 жыл бұрын
"Check the obituaries" really snapped me back! they are fine....
@Thessaloniaworsley3 жыл бұрын
I have been in no contact for about 60 days now. It’s hard, but it’s like a roller coaster 🎢 most days you’re up and fine others you’re crying yourself to sleep. It’s okay, you’ll be okay in time. Have hope. I have been telling myself this: “I don’t chase, I attract. What belongs to me will find me.”
@BjManberries3 жыл бұрын
If they dumped you once, they most likely will again. You get your hopes back up, but waiting for the hammer to fall again. It hurts, and during that no contact time, you are no good to anyone anyways. Move on, re-evaluate what you might have done different, and what you want different in the next relationship. This guy is right on the mark. Keep it up!
@harryben47613 жыл бұрын
Just message him on WhatsApp and he will put a smile on your face
@harryben47613 жыл бұрын
+2349137313732✅
@st0rmyHUN2 жыл бұрын
Your videos gave me hope and most of all: strength. My GF dumped me after 12 years. We are both in our early 30's. I was her first, and he was his mine. Our relationship was good. She has a mid-life crisis, and she wants to experience meeting new people or partying. And she has some sort of crush on her co-worker. That's what she told me. And I know, that won't work for her, because she is a conservative and itrovert. She broke up with me a week ago. I haven't eaten a portion of food since then, and I'm totally depressed. I do want to get her back because I believe she is depressed. She even told me, there is nothing wrong with me, it was her. The hardest thing is to let go of my ego. Painfully thoughts, like she's having sex with another, but she needs this. I'm sure, she will find her way back to me, because I believe there is much more in this relationship. 5 days since NC, and yeah, it's fckin hard. Even if she does not come back, I will be better, stronger. Thank you for your advice, Lee!
@xlepious1151 Жыл бұрын
update?
@BillyVatcher Жыл бұрын
Yes please update. It’s same scenario for me
@Thigrandil Жыл бұрын
Update, now!!!!
@imissme8313 Жыл бұрын
Bro no … I’m younger then you but man once she leaves and says she wants to party and meet new people and have sex with others look the other way man she prabably out here givibg it up to anyone she’s trying to live what she missed out on fast and once she’s bored … she will come back to you with how many bodies go find yourself a real women
@stresult8847 Жыл бұрын
Updates?
@pjsandcocoa3 жыл бұрын
I have a playlist just for Coach Lee. He has gotten me through 2 break ups. One day I will have real love and not have to listen, but I will never forget Coach Lee's great advice and the comfort he gives through his work. xoxo
@Ggirl4163 жыл бұрын
Guys remember, No contact is important but so is working on yourself. Keep working and improving your skills, body, etc. You want to be ready for who life will bring. Whether it’s an ex or someone new
@jwendu65893 жыл бұрын
I am baking my cake in the oven right now while improving myself on the "PIE" level. Thank you, as always, Coach Lee! 💖
@kevinkelly99963 жыл бұрын
Don't open that oven too early to check on the cake.
@minniebonnie67812 жыл бұрын
A dumper is not always a manipulator who was using the other one. A lot of times it could be someone who was genuinely overwhelmed by the other partner’s unhealthy obsession or immaturity in the relationship and wanted to leave for their life. Plz don’t try to win your exes back even if you truly loved them. There are so many people who would align with your energy better and value your presence in their lives. Just move on.
@michaelandersen58212 жыл бұрын
At the same note a dumper is not always honest about what they have been thinking fir months, so either way you look at it it is a immature defense. (Spesific meaning to that word)
@jema50392 жыл бұрын
@@michaelandersen5821 exactly, out of nowhere dumping is immature, lying by omission & disrespectful. communication how they were feeling the whole time is the correct way.
@randomdude93843 жыл бұрын
It s been a little over 2 months and a week, i started to work and see the positives in life more now, as time passes it s all better. Im still thinking of her sometimes, but the way you gain someone’s attention, is to completely remove yours from them ! Keep on going , it will all pay off .
@paolanamuncura88793 жыл бұрын
Did he/she tried to reach out???
@randomdude93843 жыл бұрын
@@paolanamuncura8879 no , not yet, time is working
@paolanamuncura88793 жыл бұрын
@@randomdude9384 mine did twice but i ignored him
@paolanamuncura88793 жыл бұрын
Instagram. Me pao.namn
@nichapornchotchutipan31993 жыл бұрын
Cheers…guess we broke up with all ex at the same time. I feel bad now but in the long term he’d feel desparare for the rest of his lifeeeeee
@WiseTheSecretOne3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Sir. Been exactly a month. Now that the effects of being rejected and the upset for not getting the chance I deserved had gone, I can see things and assess my situations more clearly. I am able to refocus my energy and attention to things I should do. She may gone, looking for better man, but it doesn't matter, cause I know my value and what comfort I can give to the relationship. In the meantime, I find a better me. May God bless you, Sir.
@thinkingisthebox3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being there to catch us when we fall Lee. Even if we never get our ex back there are times when we desperately need to believe that we can. Your videos are a lifeline.
@susielee81013 жыл бұрын
I just realized it’s silly to keep hoping and waiting for an ex to come back. Mine has come back so many times and things didn’t get any better but worse. Just come to my senses that I should let the wrong person go. Going back on the same roller coaster ride will not take me to a different destination so I decided it’s time to give up trying. Whoever is meant to be in my destiny will not ghost or leave me in pain to begin with so I’m going no contact for eternity this time.
@nativechique75893 жыл бұрын
How's that going
@katejohnson50832 жыл бұрын
Yes! This comment is everything.
@shripadsawant17563 жыл бұрын
and the shift of powers really happen just trust lee and keep going it becomes easy after 1 month of no contact, thanks lee❤️.
@tashadrake32503 жыл бұрын
You have been such a light in this dark time of heartbreak. Thank you! ❤️
@tashadrake32503 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 I was thinking he might have been!! But I'm a fixer and just kept trying. 😔
@tashadrake32503 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 with everything happening, I'm sad to say I'm from the United States. 😒
@tashadrake32503 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 I have gmail. Do you have messenger?
@connorgreer75593 жыл бұрын
Over a month of no contact, she had a rebound relationship that has now ended! She reached out apologising for hurting me and asked for forgiveness! I replied nicely and respectfully and I’m back in no contact
@Spungebobonicerocks3 жыл бұрын
I believe when someone treats you bad, you go back to last person who treated you good. That's why they usually come back after some shitty rebounr thing. They get hurt and remember all good things you did.
@adamcambra13 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee gives the best advice because he actually cares about what people are going through and he doesn’t sugar coat the reality of a break up. Listen to his advice and you will be prosperous whether that be getting your ex back or improving yourself going forward.
@engvictorgateri42473 жыл бұрын
Here to say thanks to Coach Lee, i just can't believe my ex is back today(with a simple text) after no contact. We broke up on 8th of September this year. I immediately came across Coach Lee's videos .It was a tough journey and i almost gave up along the way. Some days i felt so good about myself, other days i was so down. Will update on the progress. You are healing so many hearts Lee. May God bless you(Victor from Kenya)
@billierock103 жыл бұрын
My ex and I broke up on the same day 😂 sept 8. Still no word from him tho 🥺
@neonxtej3 жыл бұрын
@@billierock10 dont worry ...keep yourself busy...focus on yourself..same situation here..not healed but yes all the memories fading out mostly
@mercedesmoore17873 жыл бұрын
What simple message did you send him?
@silviam.92242 жыл бұрын
Updates?
@lush12763 жыл бұрын
The hardest thing is being the only one that cares.. The hardest thing is not reaching out. Being powerlessness, u know as each day passes they are slowly getting over u or replacing you. But one day when u have healed it will be to late. Because the grass isn't greener on the other side
@jennyliew71793 жыл бұрын
Falling in love is a heart breaking thing, stay away from it so you won’t suffer from broken heartedness! I have been hurt twice & I am done!
@JayX9743 жыл бұрын
brother I feel like i fell inlove with all the women I meet how can I just not be myself
@jennyliew71793 жыл бұрын
@@johnwilfred2592 this is a voodoo medium @ Coach Lee! Report him! Come in using fake names all over your videos! Jesus, The almighty God rebuke you satan!
@williamj.dovejr.86138 ай бұрын
Once I am away from the dumper, I usually get a sense of clarity and I realize I deserved better than what I was accepting. Remember tomorrow will arrive on time.
@greengoddessof753 жыл бұрын
No contact it is!!! And he texted one day this week asking how I was doing.🤔 I replied back a “I’m doing fabulous!!”💋
@Honey-vq9dl3 жыл бұрын
What did he say than ?
@angel-pp5gj3 жыл бұрын
what did he say?
@greengoddessof753 жыл бұрын
@@angel-pp5gj His reply was nothing for days, Then 3 or 4 texted messages on yesterday. It’s questions now. . Small talk! They hate when your doing well without them.
@angel-pp5gj3 жыл бұрын
@@greengoddessof75 my person is just so stubborn. It's my bday today and he didnt even bother 😁 but didnt expect it anywaaay
@greengoddessof753 жыл бұрын
11/14/2020 @ 9:53 am I just got the words honey and sexy. Well,well,we’ll!! Looks Looky!!😁
@rcnet58033 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, simply the best, on internet. Love the comment " egostroke, ego boost, its like a rocket launch!!!" haha
@aaronneely60402 жыл бұрын
I am so thankful for this man I'm on my second day after the breakup and everything in his videos is helping me not feel so insane and lost
@ranajoypanja67142 жыл бұрын
NC works, trust the process.
@hagancarter50662 жыл бұрын
Stick with it man. I’m about 11 days from the break up and 3-4 days no contact. Stick with prayer and law of attraction. Work on your mental. We’ll get this shit back or we’ll be better because of it💪 bless
@lynn40542 жыл бұрын
I am on day three after the breakup and it’s hell. Trying so hard to refocus my energy but my thoughts keep going back to him.
@jacqui83922 жыл бұрын
How are you all getting on now? 😊
@aaronneely60402 жыл бұрын
@@jacqui8392 still separated and I still get extremely sad but I'm trying my best to be okay my financial situation hasn't been very good either since I haven't had someone to share income with but well get there in one way or another
@Arno_vanZyl3 жыл бұрын
Lowering them on the Totem pole of "attractiveness." Best advice I've ever received. Thank you Coach - good luck to everyone fighting for themselves. We got this.
@lsamoni41433 жыл бұрын
I watched a few videos on relationships and no contact. And this guy is best. He gives you a self assurance and gives some real good advice. I feel empowered after watching his videos. Good job coach lee.
@jenalastephenson57553 жыл бұрын
Going on 3 weeks no contact. It's the hardest thing I've ever done. I only saw your videos after I'd already messed up and he was thinking about it, but once my friend spoke to him, he was done and he got angry at me. I know we love each other and he is hurting too, though he is stubborn. We are in this together
@pridechitumba9745 Жыл бұрын
And now how did it go
@sheilamuir67613 жыл бұрын
I am so sick of this dynamic and just desire to no longer want my ex. I wish him out of my mind and my life.
@deutschlandswahnsinn3 жыл бұрын
hope youre better now
@alannaconnolly72243 жыл бұрын
My BF broke up with me and told me to go my separate way, so I gave him what he asked for. No begging or pleading,; I just walked away. I was hurt and cried every day for 2 months. I implemented "No Contact", and 5 months later, he texted me "How are you"? We ended up talking and he couldn't believe I didn't text him. I asked him why when he told me to go my own way? He replied that I was the first woman who didn't contact him. We are not together, time is a healer, lost my interest. He had his chance, so next!
@lfenton21203 жыл бұрын
The important thing to understand that if he or she broke up with you , you shouldn’t be upset , you will feel hurt but if you really love them, it doesn’t matter where they are or who they are dealing with, what’s important is that if you actually love them, you would be happy regardless if they’re with you or not, it’s been 6 months of no contact but I communicate with her mom every now and then and she’s Okay and that makes me feel good because I truly love her, I miss her a lot but I just want her to be happy and safe ❤️ I have a clean heart
@maryamjavaid3 жыл бұрын
I checked out all the coaches on the internet but none of them spoke such comforting and acceptable stuff as you did coach Lee . You speak wisdom and discribe the reality in a truthful and realtable manner . I wish i had known you at the right time 🌸.
@maric4172 жыл бұрын
Did the no contact for 2 months I was devastated and wanted to call him or show up to his house but I knew that the best thing for now was to leave him alone and at first he was upset but over time he realized he over reacted in ways of breaking it off and came back after 2 months of no contact he realized his wrongs and knew he had to change those little things that were ruining the relationship and so he did and we both talked it out and promised to talk things out rather than do a blame game or argue. If a man leaves he will come back willing to change things rather than to not have you at all if he really loves you. This goes for all men even if they are the most stubborn men!
@jahnavisingh92436 ай бұрын
Update?
@maric4176 ай бұрын
@@jahnavisingh9243 still going strong no break ups after that potentially getting married
@Nova-tc6jv3 жыл бұрын
40 days of NC today. Never thought I would see the day. It was so hard to do and stick to it at first, but I’m going strong and feel a lot better!
@wrenchy91303 жыл бұрын
I could listen to you all day gives me motivation to keep pushing forward instead of dwelling in my own self pity keep it up coach
@grimmlock253 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee I need you to start doing coaching calls again sir!! I’ve been shining the “Coach Lee signal” in the sky for weeks now! You are needed! 🙏🏼💯
@themessenger5868 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 52 year old manly feller...nevertheless, I'm truly humbled and grateful to these 'Younger' and wise people like Coach Lee. Thanks mate ! Love and peace from way down under ! Perth, Western Australia. Marc
@morphix2k9 Жыл бұрын
I've been watching and listening and dying with no contact for 2 weeks. Thank you for giving me the tools and the mindset to stand strong and be the Man she fell in love with. She actually texted while I was watching this video after all that time! I'm SUBSCRIBED!!! Keep going, you're definitely leading the pack .
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Morjix2k9, give it mor time. Its still too soon. Also, get the Emergency Breakup Kit. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@spideymen1544 Жыл бұрын
How did it go
@petaakolarov1353 жыл бұрын
No contact works... for me it worked twice on the same person
@petaakolarov1353 жыл бұрын
@@cilliancallaghan9788 we were together for almost 2 years the first round, then broke up for 3.5 months and she was in a rebound. Then we dated for another 2+years and broke up again this year in February. She left and I just went into NC and worked on my self. She hit me up almost 5 months after. We been on and off since, but now I met a better girl who I consider giving a chance to
@cilliancallaghan97883 жыл бұрын
@@petaakolarov135 thanks for the reply. That’s good to know. We dated for almost a year after a first year of occasionally hooking up but nothing serious. Relationship was better than I could’ve ever hoped for. Heading into my 2nd month of no contact now. She said she lost attraction and didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. Hoping she returns some day, but I’ve got my doubts.
@petaakolarov1353 жыл бұрын
@@cilliancallaghan9788 yeah that would happen, otherwise she wouldn't have left. That's why now its up to you to kickass in life! Hit the gym, go on dates, hangout with friends, level up at work! Trust me, she will notice! Once you shift the focus away from her, like coach Lee says , it triggers that anxiety in the brain. Stay strong my friend and keep moving forward
@momocyrine3 жыл бұрын
Always works. When they see you are independant of them they will always want you
@jketfield3 жыл бұрын
petaa kolarov not a peep ?
@faceintree3 жыл бұрын
BEST coach by far! Easy to listen to. Easy to understand. Easy to apply his teachings!
@mikafi38132 жыл бұрын
Our exs won't come back and KZbinrs get profit but they are comforting.
@migzm144 ай бұрын
Mine came back only to breakup with me again after a month. Trying the no contact again lol but I don’t think it will work again
@gillyvibes12243 жыл бұрын
This 💯 work guys. Do not reach out & just focus on yourself
@NorrisCFuhReal3 жыл бұрын
Made all of the mistakes and whatnot, blinded by love and so much confusion on the other persons part i decided to start taking up for myself and I walked away. 2 months now and honestly I’ve been at peace. I believe in the law of attraction, if we’re meant to be then we will be. However, homie ain’t gonna put his life on hold for no one, no matter how strong my love is for this person. It gets better everyone, you just gotta have faith In yourself and you have to love yourself. Loving yourself is the key😊
@sergiogodinez24963 жыл бұрын
Almost 5 months. Love these videos. Still miss her. I’m way better than the first month. I’m getting to a better place in my life little by little. Thanks Coach Lee. Bought your emergency kit the first month we broke up and have stayed NC.
@samerhamod326 Жыл бұрын
did she ever reach out?
@shamayub8770 Жыл бұрын
I listened to the advice of Coach Lee and honestly it got me through one of the most turbulent times in my life. I went into no contact with my ex fiance for approx 8 weeks. I did try calling once at around the 5 week mark, but no answer so I did text I'm moving on. Aside from that 0 contact until today at the 8 week mark. I decided to go all out and confessed my feelings for her and what she meant to me. Alongside this I made it clear that I have levelled up massively, better job, better future and my body is now in peak condition. She cried and we told each other we love each other and things are looking fairly positive. Thanks Coach Lee, I didn't follow the advice to perfection, but the core principles behind it. You got me through each extra tough week in them early stages. No contact works, but around the 2 month mark, make your move if you have nothing to lose at that point. And if it doesn't work, move on. That's all we can do.
@airt6989 ай бұрын
I found your vids and articles just in time. We broke up during an argument, she just ran with it and got reckless and said some hurtful things to me and hung up. By chance I found ur vids and articles and it makes a lot of sense to me now. I accept the challenge of not contacting her and making her experience her decision and we will see what she decides is best. Thank you so much for this powerful knowledge because most likely I would’ve tried to promise her the world to get her back. I will update u as soon as she contacts me, I was too good to her and had great great intentions for her not to. Challenge accepted!!
@martinhinchcliffe13933 жыл бұрын
Today is a bad day..... struggling need motivation been a month.... 😞😞
@deutschlandswahnsinn3 жыл бұрын
how are you now?
@SantoshKumar-sg2zk3 жыл бұрын
Sir,wish one day I reach out seeing you in person,I forgot about my ex and now I was madly in love with you 😂.You are really inspiring,Your voice and words are dialy part of my life.greatest coach ever👏👏👏