10 Ways to Make A Narcissist Respect You

[@benreid7567]

These people are garbage. Not worth your time and trouble. Disengage yourself from them and never look back. They will do anything to hurt you in any way they can.

[@Icecantstoploving]

You hit it right on the nail! 🎯 My ex had all of the characteristics of a narcissist but I didn't really understand the true meaning of one. Boy was I in for a rude awakening! I have been narcissist free for 4 years now and I will never look back!

[@benreid7567]

@@Icecantstoploving Thanks Mate hope all is good in your life now.

[@benreid7567]

Over 100 likes. Thanks for your support.

[@benreid7567]

@Pluviophile Drops These people are actually cunning manipulative selfish abusive greedy people with such an overwhelming sense of entitlements that they will do anything to get it regardless of the cost to anyone. They cheat lie steal abuse bully and generally mistreat people and manipulate others to make you into the bad person. The reason they do this is to provide supply to their master to prove to them that they are worthy of their so called love. Usually a parent older sibling or friend. Yet the same people are the ones to sow strife and discord in their students apprentices lives to give them a sense of achievement to show off to their friends how clever and successful they are while all the time destroying the lives of their student protoge and their partner. Absolute garbage people.

[@benreid7567]

@pamanudavy sounds crazy I hope you are in a better place now.

[@corinnaw3420]

I prefer the permanent solution. Permanent no contact works the best.

[@andreamelless2822]

Yes NO CONTACT is best. 8 days for me, I feel free now. I didn't realize how much his pathetic life was flooding into my quiet n peaceful life. ✌🇨🇦

[@angiejohnsson877]

I agree 100% cant even look at this low life

[@angiejohnsson877]

@@andreamelless2822 I feel the same never gonna contact him again and let such low life ruin my peacuful life

[@godblissfulfun]

It's absolutely wise to go completely no contact unless you have no other choice but to get something done from them💯 and even in that case, be very careful💯❤

[@suusje9383]

Amen ❣️

[@mbirbaamuasi]

How about just walk away and let them know they don't deserve to be in your presence? A narcissist's respect is worth nothing.

[@hellarylady9965]

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[@carawe6836]

so true

[@liberte...]

1. Cultivate your self esteem 2. Let the narcissist know that u can easily leave n replace them 3. Don't engage with them on a deeper level, engage only when they r being nice to u. 4. Grey rock technique...go no contact r treat them lk they don't exist 5. Calmly end the conversation if its gng no where 6. Present urself as a high value person 7. Don't walk on eggshells around them...if there is danger of physical violence, call for help 1st 8. Set clear boundaries 9. Make them work hard to earn their presence around u 10. Play hard to get

[@janetmally3377]

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[@liberte...]

@@janetmally3377 lol..i dont think i ll need the contact number..cz i m never getting back wid someone who cd leave me for another woman..if he can do it once n u had to ask for help to get him back..dude, u r a doormat n he can very well do it agn. If that is how he treated u, that is how he sees u. Trust me,the moment he sees smthing fresh n better, he ll want to ditch u agn. He clearly came back jus to play u agn. The thing is he cheated on the other girl too to get back to u. I would love my solitude over wanting a cheater to return. I know i might be triggering u. I hope u dont get hurt agn sis😘 plz tc of urself, cz i dont believe that guy can. Lots of love. If u r truly happy, then i hope u stay happy. Tc❣

[@sylviaking8866]

Screw all that. Get away from them and go no contact. These vile people are not worth your time of day. They are totally destructive and will take you down with them.

[@Chrysalis990]

Narcissist's respect is not real healthy respect. If you need a narcissist to respect you, you still have healing to do. Trying to gain a narcissists respect is complete supply to them.

[@bluebirdwing6021]

Amen!!!!!!!!!

[@elcee7800]

And if a narcissist “respects” an empath (which just doesn’t happen) the empath would have to reciprocate the respect. Like putting same ends of magnets together, impossible.

[@nitakalisingh9445]

RESPECT A NARCISSIST???? THIS CAN NOT!! YOU CAN BETTER WALK AWAY FROM THEM!! YOU CANT CHANGE THEM!!

[@Chrysalis990]

@@N8TVTripper I walk away. I don't waste my time playing games but I will expose them if they go to far.

[@alinaa641]

Yeah, but what if, like the video says, you happen to work with them or you're in an environment you can't really walk away. It's useful to know a few tips in order to keep things smooth and protect yourself. This isn't about respect per se, it's about protecting yourself

[@hanford65]

Don't defend yourself against a narcissist. Attack is the only option. Be ruthless. Know their weaknesses. Attack!

[@MemeJustme-t8y]

Everytime they accuse you of something it’s usually a confession

[@nom30-r9n]

Not worth the trouble.. just run.

[@farfetched9296]

Best way to deal with a narc is to be unavailable always say no and again be unavailable sooner or later they'll get bored and fly away on their broom to someone else

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@vintagebabyseventythree6244]

Why would you want the respect of somebody who doesn’t deserve yours?

[@loverofthelostnarc]

True they don't deserve respect at all.

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@garycordle5295]

I could careless about their respect, remember this hurt people hurt people observe not absorb, respect yourself and walk away and go no contact 👍

[@samalvarado3957]

Narcissist is a fancy word for someone who is demon possessed, when you deal with them, your dealing with satan himself. Don't give them the time of day and get away from them and stay away from them forever.

[@biancapeace2185]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shkrsimpson44]

This is a fact.

[@GreatOldOne9866]

@@biancapeace2185laughing at facts I see.

[@cryocadaver]

i audibly groaned at your comment holy shit shutup

[@godschildyes]

Spot On 100%! Don't every play any games with them! It's extremely unwise and a waste of your precious time!

[@divineaffinities991]

Physically present mentally absent is the best way to deal with narcissists.... Mentally disconnected though physically present! In-depth info👍👍

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@Ksyed7124]

My narc sister broke my relationship by texting some bad words to my gf from my mobile as me and she blocked me

[@carlos.cr.7139]

My most draining experience in the workplace has been with a narcissist. I watch these videos in hope to handle myself in the most emotionally intelligent manner in case I run into someone like that again.

[@christinas5990]

Just don't react emotionally when they are trying to trigger you,so they can control you and remove yourself away from them as soon as possible. You don't need their respect, they have to understand that they have problem.

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@gargoyliangaming6556]

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[@Sir-Benz09]

one OF the best video on NPD I came to realize that they are everywhere and somehow whether you like it or not they will impulsively enter your private space just to get what they want.

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@scottiebones]

I've dated one for years, they will emotionally abuse you and push your sanity to its limits. They are emotional black holes that will suck you dry, educate yourself to avoid these types, as they will ruin your life.

[@janetmally3377]

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[@buildingshousesinteriordes8980]

It is a waste of time trying to make a narcissist respect you. A person is only supply, a game, to use, abuse and manipulate is the way the narcissist think. Their temporary fake kindness is not worth putting yourself through their manipulation, games and abuse. They will hurt you worse than before. Go no contact.

[@nancykesy3272]

Amen!

[@lesleybrown1583]

TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@jomonart2140]

to really rub a narc the wrong way, go grey stone first, and when they play coy and innocent, then strip away all vestiges of human contact so they may stare into the vast chasm of their own emptiness

[@achu148]

If it's parents it's useful

[@ethanlee-c3d]

You can’t make a narcissistic person change..

[@Agnet_Faze]

The only thing I find appropriate to do with narcissists is stay away from them and don't get involved into their drama and manipulation...I wouldn't even want to hang out with them at all because staying around them itself is too draining...

[@hard2start427]

they always gossiping (talking shit) on someone

[@hellarylady9965]

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[@michaelbelcher2041]

I believe there is no solution. I don’t want a relationship where I have to act one way(not who I am, or want to be)to get respect from a person. I love this person, and I think she loves me in her way. It’s sad, because it could have been a special relationship. After 11 years of trying, I’m starting to realize this. 😔

[@craigy691]

12 years I had mate with a young child she’s discarded me so I’ve walked away moved out put house up for sale files for divorce and went no contact she’s been doing this to me for years and I’ve had enough I deserve better and will get better

[@mihaelaclaudiap..2]

Narcissistic personality disorder is named for Narcissus, from Greek mythology, who fell in love with his own reflection. Freud used the term to describe persons who were self-absorbed, and psychoanalysts have focused on the narcissist's need to bolster his or her self-esteem through grandiose fantasy, exaggerated ambition, exhibitionism, and feelings of entitlement.

[@pnutbuttababi24]

They thought they were the best because their ego has always been feed with bs and when they finally loom in the mirror they see the disgusting person they are. They then have to build themselves up again with all that same bs because that's all they know. They're stuck in a their own dirty cycles. They try to suck up and throw out everything they can. Dirty nasty hurricanes.

[@lindamaddox828]

Mihaela: Another prominent psychoanalyst said the flip side of grandiosity is inferiority. Want to send a narc packing in a hurry? Find their weak spots and make just a few casual comments about them. They have serious hang-ups that they try very hard to conceal. Keep quiet, listen closely, you'll discover their achilles 👠heel They'll reveal everything you need to know about themselves without even realizing it.

[@Missy_561]

Didn't know that learned something new

[@alayla3281]

i think this person i've been with has lied about being a heroe solider and his medals. He tells everyone the same stories I think they are all lies and could even been illegal

[@alayla3281]

@@lindamaddox828 how about that he can't really have real sex (only with himself). or that his medals from the military are probably fake?

[@kingsoren2010]

Thank you, it's been almost 2 years since I left from my ex-Nar. This video is exactly how he is. A week ago, he called, when I said hello, he hung up on me and didn't call back. I think he was testing to see if I still had his number, or hadn't blocked him. Well, I have blocked and deleted his number. Life is too precious to let anyone control you and make you miserable.

[@misamisa2677]

Forget about anyone owing you an apology because even those are false many times by anyone!!! Move on take strength to show your true nature of self empowerment for yourself!!! loosing means winning many many times in toxic anything

[@oscarwilliamson6163]

Misa Misa,Hope you are not with a narcissist 😈!

[@minella4105]

For me number one worked in reverse. I had high self esteem when we met, it was torn down over time. Trying to reverse the damage done and find my value again. No matter what I've done, said, or didn't do or say, it was never enough. We don't speak often now, and its normally only when he wants something. I steer it back to our son and leave it there, cutting down on the bull shit.

[@ts7814]

Please do not give him more than he can handle. No one needs to deal with this stuff

[@missmonkeymind708]

that's what they do, that is their goal, steal your energy/ confidence/ self worth and trust in yourself from you

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@starseed8809]

Don't encourage to put up with narcs. They don't change. It's best to run 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@buildingshousesinteriordes8980]

Correct they don't change. They become worse. Encouraging someone to put up with a narc is only setting the person up to be hurt, manipulated, being supply and abused by the narc. They careless how they make a person feel. The best way to deal with a narc is to leave them alone, No Contact!

[@ammy4890]

Going no contact is the only solution. Imagine dealing with a narc person and also psychopath. May God help us

[@tcbcmoto4895]

Very true God bless us all 🙏

[@janetmally3377]

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[@victoriavictoria3941]

Psychopaths are already narcissists....

[@nancyleddy5449]

I’m getting stronger and stronger and I want to thank you

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[@MrDaft909punk]

Basically narcissist are grown children.... Who always had their way or couldn't get there way as a child, only to see the advantage as an adult....hmmmmm interesting

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[@issaaliyla4890]

I really don’t care for narcissists, and I’m not finna “act” conceited or very confident just for them to “temporarily” respect me. 🤨 they can move tf out my way, miserably.

[@joemann7971]

You basically have to be a narcissist for them to respect you. I've noticed many narcissists like other narcissists. It's pretty sick.

[@brandongietzen898]

The point of the video is not temporary respect it is to have the knowledge to control any situation you may find yourself in... so by acting like you are above participating in psychological warfare with other people you're only making yourself weaker! good morning no more power 🧐🤏

[@issaaliyla4890]

@@brandongietzen898 I understood the assignment, and to be 100% clear. It is about making them temporarily respect you, imo. And you must’ve not understood what I said. I said I’m NOT finna “ACT” conceited or confident just for me to have control of a situation when I’ll just happily leave.👌🏾🚪

[@bepresent_reflect8]

I Agree. You nailed it. 💫

[@lindamaddox828]

@@joemann7971 Narcissists deserve each other. Water does seeks its own level.

[@kanta32100]

Narcissists just want to win, let them. Everything is competition for them, even a conversation. Just agree with them and they will leave you alone.

[@vacheriedevacherie1959]

Someone can be stubborn without being a narcissist, careful who you target as such.

[@sanasial8456]

I married to a narcissist who made my life hell , after almost 2 years I have divorced, I have a son of 9 months old n he took my son with him , he constantly betrayed me n I was a fool who thought he will change with the passage of time , he got married again right after the 2nd day of divorce n was having an affair with that girl n I was unawared of all this shit ! He drained everything out of my leaving me behind with question why I was not enough for him? I did everything to make him happy I always sacrificed my self respect infront of him n I just regret now y i did so much for him who was not worth of even my hate !

[@sunrise7244]

“Stubborn” that is a nice way to enable narcissistic behavior and allow verbal and emotional abuse. Enablers be careful of the words like stubborn to justify unacceptable abusive invalidating and manipulative behavior. Different words but they all cause the same damage on their victims. Praying for more narcissist awareness and law protection for the victims. 🙏🏻

[@vacheriedevacherie1959]

@@sunrise7244 not all stubborn people are narcissists, get over yourself.

[@victoriavictoria3941]

Hahahaaaaa you don t know them!

[@wintermatherne2524]

I don't need their respect, but sometimes its fun to experiment on them as they are so predictable and easy to manipulate.

[@hellarylady9965]

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[@amitdrive]

I don't want a narcissist to respect me, I want that person to be afraid of me, afraid of the consequences that will happen if they cross the line, and daring them to cross it

[@SamanthaBellerson]

Why in the world would you want the respect of a narcissist? That idea is amazingly bad for mental health. Respect yourself and forget what others think!

[@malenasteeve825]

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[@grae7571]

So very true. Thanks for the comment!

[@chrissimpson6701]

Parents and Sister: Hardcore, cold, narcissitic. I'm done.

[@miriamhavard7621]

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[@trexkumar3339]

yes i can relate ! chronic.

[@dpistoltube]

My hubby, Mil and the brother ...

[@barbaramarshall5271]

Oh I feel you, my mum is a narc and is literally off with the fairies, squirrels and nuts. It's no contact for my kids and I as well, she seriously needs help.

[@hellarylady9965]

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[@chrissythornhill]

Beware of the unexpected and overwhelming amounts of very intense praise, compliments and too much affection shown by an otherwise ‘new’ friend’ …. They will eventually rip out your heart and possibly also drag your reputation down in front of others, should you expose them as narcissists, once you’ve realised the truth. It’s Hell .

[@automatonlabs7841]

Had that happened to me, now I am putting pieces of my life back together...

[@chrissythornhill]

@@automatonlabs7841 I wish you well, dear friend. Be strong ! 😊

[@automatonlabs7841]

@@chrissythornhill Oh, thank you for support. I wish the best to you too

[@broeklien3817]

The weirdest thing ever, explaining to a new friend why my narcissist (whom I dumped years ago) is warning her for my despicable character and dirty family secrets… Not because my friends asked, but just because my friend is on facebook (I never was) and so is my narcissist….. its a crazy world out there…..

[@chrissythornhill]

@ A narcissist never gives up ..especially if they’re dumped, it drives them to further their efforts in cajoling others to believe that they themselves were the ‘wronged partner’ and then fuel the fires of their self righteous narcissistic importance ! Best to keep away from social media platforms whenever possible. Take care

[@dubs3432]

There will be someone the narcissist respects and puts on a pedestal until that person is no longer useful and the cycle will continue until there is nobody left.

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Bingo

[@errickflesch5565]

I would love to tell my 85 year old mother (In a kind non bitter or resentful way) the "truth" about her narcissism, and how it had deeply affected everyone around her......hurting and destroying peoples lives. But I can't. She will never see "it" or admit or even be receptive and open minded.

[@lisadiconti]

Yes. Don't do it. She won't own up to it, and you'll be disappointed.

[@impreciousnhissight]

Someone showed me a clip of "Butters" in South Park finallt standing up to his bully grandmother. Can't really say it was funny but sadly, a good demo on how to let even elderly people you're not taking their stuff anymore

[@maxthereof]

This is the most clear, informative, practical, and straightforward video about narcissists that I have seen and I've seen a lot because of my ex wife/baby momma I'm constantly competing with.

[@truthh8597]

Their respect is just not respect. Frankly I’m on some level terrified of their ‘respect’. They will ‘respect’ you when they envy you.. and then their jealousy monster will come out to make you miserable. They’ll try to take and steal everything you earned not so they can have it but so they can just sadistically smirk at your misery because how dare you outdo them or have something they can’t possess.

[@MarketingByMike]

I had an incident with in law were they kicked my wifes dog and i confronted them. They claimed its there hkuse and can come outside anytime he wants. I said yea but not kick dog. He tried and claim the house again and i was like no thats animal abuse and against the law. He got quite and had the deer in the head lights look. He was like i can come out whenever he wants. I was like whatever and walked away. He mumbled something andvi raced to the door and my momentum pushed me forward and feel on him. We were going to fight when wife broke it up. He tried to play the victim and told him dont come near by dogs. He gave the whole family the silent treatment for 4 months.

[@Rebelmusedesign]

My sister did this. I walked away. Now I have someone from high school attempting to take control. I told her what she wanted to hear, but that’s it for me. She went so far as to say I owed her. I don’t owe her anything. I gave up my grocery shopping night so that she could have someone to vent to for three hours for weeks. I know better because this is not the first time this has happened. I was trying to make her happy and you cannot make anyone happy. They have to be happy on their own. She is miserable in her marriage and miserable in general, I tried to make my ex-husband happy and that didn’t work either. It’s hurtful to me that these people never learn. But I didn’t learn either because I allowed her back into my life. But now I have decided no more. She pushed me to the point of no return when she made this statement that she did, I don’t think I’ll block her phone number because I want to see if she will actually call me after the horrible things she said. I actually made the mistake of apologizing to her for not being able to get my book out there enough and then it never became a best seller so that I could buy her a car. it was not my responsibility to do that and that comment had been conditional on book sales. And nothing ever happened. Good intentions pave the road to hell and that’s what it did. But the fact is she is a narcissist and she is manipulative and she used it against me after over 20 years. That is crazy. But another thing to note rather is that in the last 20 years, she has owned a BMW, a Mercedes, a Volvo and a Volkswagen that drives itself. I don’t care about all of those things. But it makes her feel better about herself. But then she goes after me because I haven’t given her a free car. Several years ago she told me that it didn’t matter because she had already bought her own BMW. I have only had two cars in the last 21 years. and I don’t ever complain about it. I wish I hadn’t given up the car I had for 14 years. But it wasn’t viable any longer. Just like her. It is beyond my comprehension to ever be like these people. Let this be a lesson. The first time someone does this to you, walk away and do not ever let them back into your life as it will be the best thing you’ve ever done. For your happiness and your life.❤

[@Marchelette]

I like 👍🏾 the video especially the last part on “how much their respect ✊🏿 is worth to you?” These people are trash 🗑. I’ve dealt with narcissist and these people are evil 👿 to me. I believe they are little demons walking on earth 🌍. My goal is to not engage with them or set very strict boundaries around them.

[@rockyk9316]

I wish I knew before who I live with. I thought it is repairable; apparently it's not. Supported husband throughout his carrier, raising children and trying to build mine. We blind when we love

[@henahree6646]

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[@natimanicole2736]

This was very helpful information. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@tigalbaby]

Here’s the problem as I see it . The narcissist knows your vulnerabilities , sensitivities , and emotional weaknesses because if he / she lives with you , your guard is usually not up most of the time. Slowly she begins to manipulate your weaknesses to get her way . After a while you begin to think that being abused is a most normal state. You begin to think that your job on earth is to serve the needs of others and you feel guilty for looking after your own needs. When you realize that you have been conned , the narcissist makes you think it’s your own fault….. you did all those things on your own … I had little to do with your choices she reasons. To leave a narcissist requires a great deal of introspection and wrenching soul searching . But it can be done . I have lived with one for 35 years . Yes that’s right ! and I have finally summoned the courage to file for divorce. Soon I will be free. You have one life and it belongs to you . Don’t let the manipulator steal your most precious possession .

[@hugoarroyo6485]

Damn I feel trapped for 22 years with a narc. I m probably gonna end up doing what tou did

[@craigy691]

12 years with one and she’s turned round and discarded me saying she’s been living a lie and doesn’t love me anymore while we where just watching a film and come back from a holiday I feel Sorry for our child but I’ve moved out and gone no contact using a 3rd person to communicate over our child run and don’t look back

[@swallenjafari5974]

That’s why I’m single. That’s why I save my money since I was 14 I rather to DIE IN THE STREETS instead of being with another narcissist. I don’t care if I LOVE them or even they are my best friends and family. F them. Keep yourself safe.

[@loverofthelostnarc]

First of all thanks a lot. Of all the other KZbin videos I have seen on narcissism, this one has hit the bullseye, you have explained everything in one go and I have subscribed your channel.

[@PsychologyElement]

We're happy to hear that. Thank you so much for subscribing.

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[@crabbycreates2943]

Wow! Interesting stuff. I'm 73 and I think I must have encountered thousands of narcissists through the years. Maybe I'm one myself sometimes. All I've learned is that it's best to show others that I'm willing and able to fight back if necessary.

[@ranissujatha7270]

I agree 💯 %. No need to try anything. Walk away from them! Not worth the trouble.

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[@buildingshousesinteriordes8980]

No contact with them is the best way to deal with a narcissist, They careless about respect, kindness and love. They care about manipulation, control, lies, and abuse.

[@judithparker4608]

The Higher The Target The More Covert The Abuse !!!!

[@jack42011]

Wow! Knocked for a loop. Describes the last 22 years of my life. Didn’t recognize the narcissist Married her 3 weeks ago, 23 yrs later free at last She acted normal the first year…

[@janetmally3377]

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[@jack42011]

Why would you want to be with someone who did that to you??? Grow up

[@HardyBunster]

I want a narcissist to hate me. Then I know I’m doing something right. I love it when I make them lose it. Once a narcissist always a narcissist, they can’t be trusted no matter how they fake their behaviours.

[@oliverabrajanovska9610]

It’s not worth the time, the energy, the thoughts or what ever. Because they can’t change and they’ll loose the respect anyway - sooner or later. And the “game” can start over and over again. Don’t let be a doormat to them and surround you only with other people who appreciate and respect you and like being close to you and enjoy your company 😁

[@geegeecook5063]

Absolutely agree with you...

[@aaroncorley6343]

Right on

[@edibeedee]

I agree with you on everything except it's not that they can't change, they don't want to change. They know exactly what they are doing and they choose not to change. My narc brother told me flat out that he wasn't going to change!

[@brownskin5373]

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[@malenasteeve825]

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[@ThriftyGamerG]

This is true Narcissist are hesitate or afraid to attack people with high self-esteem, they rather like to attacl people with low-self esteem because they want to control that people and it feels good to them they enjoy people seeing slowly loses their self-esteem, I observed this coz Narcissism is present in our family dynamics and i can easily spot them in my workplace... The most important to do is not to loss your self-esteem...

[@kennethkunz2449]

This was really, really, really well-thought-out and presented - thank you!

[@judynyarangi6996]

Narcists and respect are great enemies.... Be aware

[@misty9376]

They will never respect anyone! Doesn't matter what you do!

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[@traumacatmama]

These are All really good except the one where I need to speak an entire sentence about how I’m not gonna accept all those things… if he doesn’t like what I’m saying he will speak over me loudly to yelling until he silenced me completely but I have recently been learning grey rock and this worked instantly and was so satisfying!!! Not trying to stay just trying to get through each day as I desperately search for a way out…

[@carolmaz8675]

Dating or marrying a narcissist is like buying a house with shit foundations sooner or later it will crumble . It’s a certainty not a possibility ..

[@Bubbles-od2tv]

Wow that's a good one.

[@vivianherrera6003]

I’ve dealt with this behavior @ home fo too long. Breaking patterns is difficult when so close from home but it’s not impossible.

[@miaestelle3042]

My mother is like this. She seeks attention to go on about herself. When I need to say something she’s busy on Facebook facing me with her back. I literally asked her “did your mother show her back to you when you tried to make a conversation with her?” It was like a slap on the face for her. So if a narcissist is acting disrespectful the best thing to do is sharply point it out at that moment. Trust me they’ll be embarrassed. Be sarcastic. If they turn up with a phone when you try to talk just say “oh mr/miss celebrity do I need to make an appointment to talk to you?” Say something to slam their ego because they have respect for nobody. Even the ones that don’t know you “respect” you in a manner that ain’t real, it’s more for a show to get your attention. They don’t even respect themselves, how can you expect respect from someone who doesn’t respect themselves? Honestly don’t even try.

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[@LaBelleJouJou]

I’ve noticed that narcissists will compete with your kindness to get attention when in a group

[@prijevodib2139]

Living in constant competition. Poor narcissists, they are in for a lot of pain.

[@Guardia.168]

Thanks God and you a lot i am hurt and painful so much for the long time by the family members and other relationships that comes from the bad narcissistic personality. If only I have learnt this lessons much earlier. 🙏

[@candyINdecay]

Evendo your not insecure. It's only more feel for them to hurt you. Just stay away from them. Evendo they can be fun for you.

[@ingenuity168]

Leave if you can, if not, don't give them love, sympathy or kindness.

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[@buildingshousesinteriordes8980]

I agree leave and have no contact. Giving them love, sympathy or kindness is only giving them another chance to hurt, manipulate, use and abuse a person. They have no love, sympathy or kindness to give in return, they do not care about anyone only control and manipulation.

[@rmcd823]

1. Cultivate your self-esteem 2. Let the narc know that you can easily leave and replace them. Create opportunities for you 3. Don’t engage with them in a deeper level. Limit your emotions and your available time with them. Limited engagement 4. The grey rock technique. Remove yourself if you are gaslighted 5. If you are not listened to, calmly end the conversation 6. Present yourself as a higher status person. The respect won’t last and they may envy you 7. Don’t walk on eggshells. Make disclaimers. They resent people that walk on eggshells around them 8. Set clear boundaries so they won’t control or manipulate you 9. Make the work hard to be in your presence. Make them see you have plenty of supply 10. Play hard to get. They are interested in people they don’t have or can’t have

[@Michael_RareZebra]

Pro tip.....avoiding them is best.

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[@moumitapoddar4442]

Very good and valuable points.

[@lncarnold]

I now realize that there are more narcissist in my life than I thought. A relative that never lets me talk about why I called in the first place, then turns it around to them. Thinks the details of their day is more important than why I may be upset about mine…I called first….wow.

[@-3lory]

Thank you

[@jaDOREbella23]

they don’t respect themselves how can they respect anyone else

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[@cazqab]

One of the best advice videos I have come across, because some of us don’t have the choice of no contact. Thank you so very much ❤

[@PsychologyElement]

Glad it was helpful!

[@lilqt3281]

Seems like a lot of hard work. Just leave them, they aren’t worthy of you time!

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[@bettesmith9852]

Great accurate video! Be a narcissist yourself--it works on the average narcissist!

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[@xingtravelchannel2557]

My sister younger to me act weird for nearly 23 year and we as a family never knew we are victim of narcissist. Now am married to a divorced person so now she target me sometime she talks nicely if am agree to her in all forms how to deal with her now I blocked this video helped me that I am dealing with her now exactly said in this video. After watching this am become smart. Thank you so much for creating this video

[@yahawadayathisrael2725]

Too much work for someone who inevitably TURNS on you...... they can't control their spirit

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[@zacharydavis4398]

Thank you for spending in g the time yo create and share this content awareness/perspective

[@AF-uc2bd]

No chance someone who doesn't truly respect himself cannot respect others. All the respect or love you have towards yourself they see as the tricks and you as just wanting to be hard to get. They believe they are so amazing that no one can resist them.

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[@fishandmustardchills6464]

Need to hear this way every day

[@rosenmukumbu7278]

This is so accurate and it aptly describes the person in my life right now. 🎸Am walking, am walking, am walking 🎤🎸

[@charlottemuller2233]

Amen…the evil will fall away!

[@rosenmukumbu7278]

@@charlottemuller2233 as soon as I took that step, it started falling away...and then the love bombing came and I didn't fall for that little act by them

[@notperfect2440]

Run! Don't walk!

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[@Zahar-1999M]

the most perfect video I've ever watched about how to treat with narcissists! thanks alot

[@PsychologyElement]

You're so welcome!

[@ladybird8375]

Toxic people are very exhausting. Best thing to do is to focus on your own life and interests and mentally block them out and ignore them.

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[@zakeerrg3010]

Excellent narration.

[@solxochitl5533]

I can't wait to do this when I go back home to my Narc husband... The tables are gonna turn now ... That's my house I'm Queen of my castle , I'm getting it back and it's gonna Urrk the hell out of him

[@alasancham7483]

You need to get out as soon as possible, for your own sanity

[@joycemorales6037]

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[@brendacampbell2597]

❤the responses above are so on point.

[@reneesoli5345]

Why bother with them at all? They aren't that fun.

[@bridgetmenham6686]

Yes they are boring cause thier using you to have your friends on thier side Using you for parties A sofa to sleep on A hot meal A shower for them to look all nice for another conquest and they put people down or you down in front of others They cause drama .and it all gets very boring on the end cause when thier being nice they are only mirrorisng you ..The list goes on .Thier just empty souls and Where's the fun in that???

[@rodrigo100kk]

They are not fun at all.

[@rayankhan2576]

all they do is use people 🥲

[@pickles9440]

Pathetic they are, really.

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[@faymoosa5064]

Thank you for the excellent tips ❤❤❤

[@PsychologyElement]

Glad you like them!

[@happycat0411]

When the narcissist breaks the law (under any circumstance whatsoever) get the local police involved. Why? This way the narcissist knows you mean business and their name is now in the police files permanently.

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[@darynagorska655]

Thank you so much, this video confirmed I am on the right path! 😉

[@uncleclaw171]

Yeah, a narc's "respect" isnt even worth the effort, unless you're stuck in a situation like being the child of a narc - in which case you leave when 18 or pursue EMANCIPATION earlier. If you're the spouse of a narc and have kids, yes its difficult, but you CAN leave and the relationship will likely end in a bad way anyway -- better it ends on YOUR terms and timing.

[@elcee7800]

I pity people who have children and stuck with a thing like this in their lives. All I can say is enhance the positives and eliminate the negatives. Gradually, little by little, quietly and anonymously build up your new little kingdom. The Lord be with you.

[@uncleclaw171]

@Saluma סאלומה - perhaps so... but doing it on your own timing, and therefore being prepared (having a plan ahead of time, a new place set up, etc) is better than being caught off guard.

[@uncleclaw171]

@Fred the Fish with that attitude you will definitely have your self-fulfilling prophesy. Ever hear of room-mates? I had a similar situation and there was also a deep recession when I was 18. Except I was kicked out of the house, blamed for something that never even happened. I stayed on a friend's sofa at first (for several weeks)... meanwhile ran ads in newspapers for freelance work -- painting and wallpaper, yard work, odd jobs, later worked at a variety store stocking shelves, worked as a gopher in construction, etc. Eventually took a commission-only sales job -- turned out out i was good at it and made money to get my own place. The world isnt going to come knocking on your door kiddo. You got to be a go-getter.

[@coreyanderson1457]

Just be careful. Make good decisions and don't tell anyone, except someone who will NOT tell the narc.

[@henahree6646]

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[@RamGopal-hz6oz]

Very good. Thanku madam.

[@johncarlrubiales8078]

Whatever it is..just run

[@happydays2300]

Boy is this a good one. Thank you.

[@SB-ln2dj]

This is excellent advice for anyone in a close relationship with a narcissist.

[@vuyisekaluphuzi8249]

Makes sense for the guys who fall for the worst people and fall out of love with people they feel are "too nice". Makes sense why my boyfriend whom I'm trying to get rid of. Seemed to admire me because I checked out when he went on his moments of grandiosity. He'd literally ask me to pay attention to what he was saying. And when he spoke no sense and seemed to want to drive a conversation to his own direction I'd just stop engaging or walked away. Had no times for it. Still do not. I just ignored him. Got no reaction from me with his lies and tricks. Even when he told an obvious lie I'd just say ok and go with the flow. Maybe he found me exciting because I have my own tendencies of being emotionally unavailable to people that feel wrong to me. He felt wrong.

[@mitchadams5353]

Thinking about this in more of the work scenario. Calling out that behavior instantly. Every. Single. Time. Will avoid having conversations that are not on record of some kind. They are not loyal, they are not respectable, they have no dignity, they really should not be in any sort of leadership position.

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[@Terrestrial..1]

Just watched this video, great advice on all points, tho be careful as they love a challenge & could be 'playing you'.

[@tejaswinizumbre4205]

Great video..!

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[@yukojohnson31]

Describes it all.. I thought just typical impulsive behavior then it becomes repetitive. Devaluing and disrespectful to the utmost. I even questioned my worth and standard. I thought I am enough. I never imagine it is never enough to a person who see their selves highly.

[@swallenjafari5974]

Thanks for this video. It had so many good points and New Lessons for me 👍🏾🌹

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[@lorrainethomas1984]

My Narc Aunt views me as a successful, I work hard, pursuing a BS degree, save money, nice car etc. however, she envies me but setting boundaries is HUGE with her.

[@johngarcia2374]

So basically avoid them haha. This sounds like playing a game that's sort of a waste of time.

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