Pushovers of Reddit

[@Thepatientsadvice]

"I dont think that we need to be brutal on this person cause this person is brutal enough on themselves" is a massivly empathetic phrase that more people should consider when bashing strangers on the internet. Real wisdom, and memes. the reason I am here.

[@pogchamp5276]

yup thats our empath king

[@koatherr]

Such a powerful statement

[@BettiePagan]

Love how Noel can both have a chuckle yet be emotionally mature enough to realise the weight his words hold to his audience and spits out some straight up fax. Our modern Aesop 🙌🏻

[@definitelynotjim2336]

i literally read this comment right when he said that

[@camerontessier6850]

Noel and Cody's cycles are back in sync

[@shroombunny510]

LMAAAOO

[@grizzzymd]

​@@shroombunny510xyd

[@Howard_T_Duck]

🩸 🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸

[@actionjackson3522]

Jokes on you: Cody's cycle is paused because he's pregnant, so he's just following Noel's cycle.

[@faithkeyes]

@@actionjackson3522jokes on you: Cody is extra sensitive during this time he can smell when Noel’s gonna make a video

[@mediumchung3230]

"kindness can put you behind a long line" and "the expense should never be your own well being, but maybe just a few minutes" had me tear up fr

[@kakonthebed]

Damn homie what’s happening in America? Why you all pushovers 💀

[@guera2003]

Capitalism is about stepping on others to get to the top, and some people are stepped on since they come out of the womb. It turns people into pushovers for the ones who step on others.

[@NasaIStrip]

@@kakonthebed because people are too tired and burnt out to fight back, system working as intended

[@HugeShep]

@@kakonthebed in america basically you're taught since elementary school to do what you're told and not think for yourself

[@treverfarted]

I met Noel once and upon seeing how short we was, I had no choice but to push him over. Was it easy? Yes. But, was it appropriate, acceptable, and legal ? Apparently not. I’ve since been hit with lawsuits, death threats, and constant ridicule by the masses. I’ve apologized publicly so many times, over 70.. but apparently forgiveness isn’t as easy to push over as sweet Uncle Nole. I hope one day the world can forgive me, but I think for now all I can do is continue to apologize. I’m sorry..

[@evasdorling7555]

Dude I feel you :( but keep pushing forward, you got this

[@Deus_ex_lucifina]

@@evasdorling7555 pushing is what got them here in the first place! 😡

[@iCookCrystalMeth]

How could you do that to a 72 year old?? You deserve what’s coming

[@WhoWantsCake0]

L + plus no one asked + i hope you do time in prison

[@invasivealien11]

You were that guy? You sick fuck. You deserve all of it.

[@ihavemadeamisnake]

hey all people pleasers, it's ok to have boundaries and to say no. you aren't in charge of everyone elses feelings.

[@A_Random_Rat]

😏

[@broccolionswag]

the surprise when you begin to say no and think everyone will reject you but they instead begin to respect you is still mindblowing for me lol

[@magickalmason]

The wedding story seriously broke my heart. My condolences to that person and I hope life is kinder to them now.

[@sleepyherbs6303]

Parents do this shit too my grandma from the 50,s keeps bugging me with stupid shit she expect from a worker but she’s a white woman in Canada whilst I’m black like nigga nobody asked for your useless advice that only hurts me and doesn’t take account of my skin or the person I am like mans rly bein black and waltzing in giving a firm handshake nets a job? Lol there’s a reason there’s so many drug dealers government and the selfish racist employers make it damn near impossible to be a productive citizen rip

[@Oscar-vd4cv]

Dude described the shitty situation that Middle managers and their employees at retail shops are put in perfectly. Middle management at retail is blamed for everything, but they're supposed to do that with employees who are paid next to nothing and legitimately don't give a shit about the job, because, why would they?

[@MehoyMenoy13]

I worked at lowes during college and my boss once gave me a talk about how I should “care” about working there I went off on him that I’m only making 11 bucks at the time and the FUCKING fact y’all set up a good drive in the break room shows this job ain’t shit

[@-lee-2867]

@@MehoyMenoy13 what's a good drive?

[@talha7032]

@@MehoyMenoy13what’s a good drive?

[@anastasiasaratlic7019]

@@MehoyMenoy13what’s a good drive?

[@samanthagalbo3528]

​@@-lee-2867I think food drive. I work part time at home depot right now and they have something in the breakroom called "the Homer pantry", which is a cabinet that workers leave food in for other workers when they're hungry and have no money. Nice thought but kinda fucked up, they should be paying people enough to eat and stocking the breakroom with snacks themselves

[@actionjackson3522]

Noel continues to promote Better Help, knowing that the therapy he provides is better than anything on that site. Genius.

[@noneofthiseverhappened]

thought this was about to be a hate commercial lol

[@actionjackson3522]

​@@noneofthiseverhappenedNo, it's genius. Getting the sponsorship bag but providing a better quality service? Damn.

[@33up24]

As he would say, he is double bagging it

[@StopItGarrison]

​@@noneofthiseverhappenedBetter Help is trash, and a scam.

[@mattswanson3568]

​@@33up24double bagging it 😂😂😂

[@itsreadygoodbye6734]

People need to hear a pt 2 of this. People don't hear this enough with a gentle comedic approach with nice background music.

[@naomicroll]

noel giving hope and genuine advice to all the 16-24 yr olds losing their minds in part-time jobs

[@formerlygavin]

noel came to my college and did exactly this. would recommend his shows

[@adamxx3]

So you can only be 16-24 years old l?

[@Bjorn_R]

13:47 Asking "why" is a great tip. I worked in ski rental for a season. This particular guy asked me a couple of times if I would cover his shift and I did. Turned out he went out with the boss and some other guys and tested the new equipment without telling me that was the reason everytime and I was stuck at the shop. Long story short, I stopped covering his shift.

[@katiegregs]

“average conflict resolution skill” is my new flex

[@chrisjyoub]

Noel is uniquely talented at putting real wisdom in such a funny format

[@ArinTv999]

I try and be nice all the time but there is a fine line between kindness and weaknesses. Never let anyone take advantage of your kindness.

[@MehoyMenoy13]

Used to be a massive pushover also till I lived with my best friend at the time. Pretty much pushed me to start being assertive

[@WhoWantsCake0]

Real shit Nothing makes me more confident than realizing my group of friends are ever so slightly more hesitant to call out to a waiter than I am. Suddenly I am a god among mere mortals

[@5897932141592653]

Cool pfp dude

[@lina-daniel]

the “what’s next” spiraling is like me when I catastrophize things in my head frfr

[@iheartlreoy8134]

i once saw noel at the superior grocers on manchester. he was at the front counter with his wife when 3 usc varsity football boys went right up next to him and said were next bro. noel stammered sure anything sir, shifting his feet nervously and almost standing with a slight tilt in his back as if to offer himself . aleena was in tears - the cashier slipped her his number, the entire store erupted into laughter.

[@jakejestes]

Thank god somebody said it

[@NasaIStrip]

no clapping? :(

[@mrjoffin]

I'm loving the new model of Noel. This one seems a lot wiser and more genuine. 10/10

[@tfjada5603]

Very genuinely needed that end conversation. I’ve been trying to break my chronically bad pushover habits for a minute now and the advice of asking questions first if you’re uncomfortable is great. Not only can you better determine if it’s worth it for you but you also can buy time to think of an excuse if it’s still hard to say no lol

[@darrengrainger8663]

Wow this video is actually more therapeutic than any of the 5 dollar therapy videos

[@bananaduck14]

The person who let the mother cut in line was 100% in the right, it's kinda crazy to me that some people would reject someone like that who has limited English and two small children

[@pillowvibes]

that’s what I was thinking, it’s really not a big deal at all, even if she did have a cart. plus, as someone with auditory sensory issues, one of the kids was crying, I’d want them to go ahead of me so they can leave faster lmao

[@ericarizaazules]

That wife said she doesn’t want her kid being raised by a wuss, what a piece of shit better off without her. She’s gonna make you feel bad about everything you do.

[@chloeep9329]

Exactly, are you really in so much of a rush that you can't handle a couple of extra minutes wait. You'll probably wait longer at traffic lights on your drive home.

[@Moon_Child_Mari]

Exactly how I felt too. It honestly feels like their gf was just looking for any excuse to break things off, especially if she blew up at them for offering their spot in line. I understand that pregnancy can be really challenging, but that’s still no excuse to verbally berate somebody because you don’t get your way.

[@dyllwill]

Yeah, that one pissed me off. The pregnant wife is in the wrong here, I'm sorry. I get she's pregnant and has all sorts of hormones and mood swings. It can't be fun at all. But to leave a guy over that situation is actually insane.

[@hemsi232]

i often feel like this. Whenever im a guest at someones home and they serve me i always feel like theyre doin a big deed for me and that i shuold get up and do something. Its pretty rare for me to say "hey can you get that for me" or "hey can you get me a glass of water please." This is probably cuz im thai indaian and have strict ass asian parents so i have been taught to do things myself and to listen to people who ask you favors. If someone in my family asks me to bring them something, i always do. Im also the youngest so i always feel weird asking one of my sisters to get me something. Even if they accidentally knock my phone out of my hands im the one to pick it up.

[@wrask]

Fellas don't get with a girl who wants you to be a "real man" protector type even if you can play that role. You'll never be able to be candid, you'll be on guard emotionally 24/7, you'll feel lonely. I'm being completely serious. There's tons of women out there who won't expect that from you.

[@TheCheemstar]

I think it’s totally fine to be an absolute pushover if that’s what you want to be as long as it only affects you. Like if I’m by myself and I let 5 people cut in line ahead of me that’s my god damn decision. But as soon as I’m with somebody and I just let 5 people cut in front of them as well it’s not just about me anymore. See what I’m trynna say?

[@6235river]

if i had nothing better to do and a lady with an upset baby asked to cut me in line, i don't see the problem with letting her. sometimes a simple act of kindness is mistaken for being a pushover; OP already admitted that he was in no hurry, so who cares? i'd gladly be slightly "inconvenienced" by having to wait a few extra minutes to check out if it means that i can make someone's day easier, especially if it's obvious that this person is dealing with more stressors than i am.

[@EmpressGoldilocked]

In college my husband worked at Walmart on the side. He was one of their best workers (did the lazy managers job). One day he had a major life changing test at school and needed to do his homework before then. Told his job he couldn't come in for one day because he had an important important test to take that day. They told him he couldn't take the day off and he warned them if they didn't give him the earned time off, he wasn't going to come in that day and quit. They didn't believe him buy he did go to school and never went back to that Walmart for years. Also I had a few retail jobs and they are quite horrible. Makes me respect other workers.

[@heinrichbuys]

i am job searching atm and seeing the post about this guy denying great offers just cause crushed my soul

[@cathel832]

My mother was in the hospital several weeks ago having her ovaries removed due to cancerous growth. My step-dad is a decent father to my 4 year old brother but my brother is, admittedly, a handful, and they needed my help after school to take care of my brother/mom. I asked my boss 2 weeks ahead of time if she could cut my hours so I can get off an hour earlier so I have time to drive 45 minutes home along a dangerous highway. Her response was to schedule me to close every day and cut an hour off of the beginning of my shifts. Her response was so that I can "go home first and then come to work". Keep in mind, I am 17, she had me working 38hrs a week, which is borderline a full time job on top of school. Additionally, she would make me work through my breaks, refuse to give them to me, or only give me my 15 when I was entitled by state law to a 30 minute break. Needless to say I quit on the spot. I know that is unprofessional but I was stuck on what to do. Great video Noel! ❤

[@samsharpe6554]

Definitely a 1/10 vid, great work Noel and team

[@ponodude101]

This looks so insulting without the context of KZbin's ranking system lol

[@tylermorrison9467]

@@ponodude101it is insulting, trash vid fr (i love uncle nole)

[@marcelgeneva]

I do want to share for people who struggle with pressure to say no at work or conform from threats from managers etc. Im in a diff position than working retail, im a av freelancer so there is less economic pressure involved when i did this but recently got sent to a shift by a labor company that told me they wouldnt send me to calls with a man who harrased me at work and he was there. When i told them i wanted to leave they threatened to never hire me again for a call if i did. They said a myriad of things many of which to the tune of "youll be broke without us". I dont let people threaten me with money or try to control me with theirs. I left almost immediately after I got off the phone with them. Its been 6 days and theyre already asking me to work their shows. So dont ever understimate how hard people will work like Noel pointed out to devalue your life and person and to scare you into doing what they want.

[@rjunxi]

Well that's absolutely vile, I'm very sorry that happened to you and I'm glad you know your worth.

[@angrychickadee4456]

Noel's assortment of British accents needs more attention

[@finchfull]

this is legitimately excellent advice and also presented in such a funny way. i love the nice music too. 10/10

[@Pineapplebees-xr1tq]

For the grocery line one, I think people are being too harsh on the guy. It was the other lady being deceptive and scummy, making him think she only had a small thing when she had a full cart. As he said, he was laughing at the woman's audacity, and who's to say he wouldn't have jumped in after he composed himself if his girlfriend hadn't? And for her to deprive her own child of a father over something so miniscule??? Absolutely unthinkable and abhorrent.

[@joannaoleksy8699]

In poland it is a rule in most shops, at the doctors, in trams and buses to let the pregnant lady first or let her sit. They can go first in every queue. Its also a matter of good manners.

[@matthewdekker6064]

For the guy whose girlfriend thought he was being a wuss, the one example he gave wasn't bad, but I'd assume it's the straw that broke the camel's back. Also, like was mentioned, it seems like the wife yelled at the lady, and the husband just kinda ignored it (or maybe even defended the lady), so she was probably more pissed about that part of it, not just at the fact that he let the lady go ahead of them. And it's probably just the millionth time that he's done something like that. The husband himself couldn't think of any other examples, but that's because he's not paying much attention, and meanwhile it was probably pissing off the wife more and more.

[@chloeep9329]

Maybe, or the wife is unhinged and went off on some random woman in the store for asking a simple favour of a stranger. Evidence in favour of unhinged is the fact that she wants to undo her child's parentage over this non-event.

[@chloeg9977]

genuinely good advice. you can't set yourself on fire to keep others warm.

[@theendoftheworld9921]

10:10 that lady needs to grow up. Moving on is 10x better than creating a scene or getting revenge. You win every time

[@JJ-1866]

When I was in hs, we traveled with the choir for a competition abroad and we had to go by bus (was one country over, almost 14 hours). Since we were minors, we had to have some of the parents with us and they were in the same bus as us. On our way home we were all very tired but I got up early to get good seats near my friend and in front of my sister so we could switch and be comfortable. One of the moms saw this and she started pleading with me to switch seats. She didn't even give me a solid reason (or a real one) but she sounded urgent so I agreed. Turns out she was sitting in front of a tall girl and wouldn't be able to have enough space for herself and she knew I was always very caring with people so she took advantage of that. I gave up my seat for a grown ass woman who didn't give a shit about my comfort or the fact that I was away from my family. This might sound like a small thing but it actually shocked me into not being as much of a pushover. Some people won't give a single shit about your situation and will try to do everything to make it work to their advantage so why let them step over you? They can piss off and deal with their situation on their own. (not referring to people who need actual help, use critical thinking to differentiate)

[@MasonBason]

Noel is one step away from class consciousness

[@whywhy3289]

What was said at the end about asking questions is so important. Even if you are going to do the favor asking some questions about it or asking for some stuff in return makes it clear that you aren’t a pushover. It makes the person asking see that they are inconveniencing you. It shows that you have boundaries and expectations before doing a favor. If you just automatically say yes it’s just going to be expected of you to sacrifice your interests for someone else’s, people won’t even see it as your doing a favor, it’s just expected to happen. When you finally stand up for yourself and say no or ask for a favor in return all the sudden your the bad guy for not bending the knee like you always do.

[@bigpeti97]

Pushover, I hardly know her

[@evetilley]

The advice here was actually so well worded, to the point & u can tell it’s coming from a place of wisdom & experience, as all the comments agree. I have friends who I cherish for their kind hearts but whose problems then stem from not placing boundaries. When all is said & done & ur old n grey, the only thing u may have left is urself, so it’s worth treating urself like a friend u will have for life. U deserve it.

[@kaleighcoutermarsh4922]

Noel loves using contradictory phrases 😂 and I love him. I would listen to him talk about anything.

[@KaguyaHimex]

man the middle manager talk hit hard, I had a manager at sbux try to convince me to stay as a barista instead of taking a job offer in NYC (in my obscure-ass major) by saying she didn’t have another opener??? 😭

[@getlowpapoose]

I am reminded of the man in r/casualuk who posted about walking in on the plumber smelling his wife's knickers. Instead of kicking him out, he just awkwardly offered him a cuppa

[@haleyhaleyjade]

I’m a recovering pushover. 3 things that I have realized/ have helped me. 1. You can LIE I’m talking little white lies obviously, like if a coworker asks you to cover a shift on your only day off. You can hit them with the “no sorry I can’t I have plans later” knowing damn well you don’t. You can also just keep it a vague “I’m sorry I can’t”. 2. “I said no” is the perfect ending response when someone is whining and upset that you are enforcing a boundary. Burn that shit into your vocabulary fam. 3. People who have gotten used to using you will be PISSED when you start facing them head on. Let them be pissed. You can be pissed too but don’t act out on them, instead give them space. Often they are looking for a reaction to justify their actions. Think of it as silently standing your ground instead of rushing to fight them head on.

[@captainsnugleup]

When I was in high-school, my sister had crashed her car with me in the passenger seat and I hit my head on the ceiling of the car and got a concussion and I wasn't supposed to work for like 3-4 days, when I told my doctor he responded with, come on I can't find someone to cover your doubles this weekend, can't you work atleast 11-7, and I agreed because I felt too awkward to say no, and now I effects of a brain injury for the past 4 years because it never healed right

[@lukalazarevic4837]

Your doctor?

[@bleedingcowboys7147]

yk what nole your advice to just ask more questions is actually super helpful. i genuinely be forgetting that shit. big ups bossman 🤝

[@legendaryboss54]

The questioning tip is actually really good and I will be using it

[@mcbunny1331]

I had one coworker who was hated by everyone, especially this one manager. She came into work to say her house burnt down and couldn't call in since she lost her phone in the fire (i don't know why she showed up in the first place?) but the one manager was in and REFUSED to let her go back to figure it out, she was scheduled for her shift. It took her crying on the phone to another manager for the coworker to actually leave, and my manager who wouldn't let her go home got fired a few weeks later.

[@matthewchovance4484]

i really like the direction the channel is going noel is pretty cool

[@jonathalon6022]

When noel posts I kick my feet like a toddler in a highchair

[@hunter25787]

As someone that works at T-Mobile. You really just gave me the push I need to get on my grind to escape

[@katelyn030100]

why is this the best one in the AITA series

[@QueenStewds]

"don't give your life to t-mobile" - Noel Miller "Hahahaha" - Me, works for telesales division with t-mobile making upwards of 11,000 a month based on my sales.

[@stealthpoint]

Noel my dad overheard me watching this video and thought you were Paul Rudd. I just thought I would let you know.

[@Pook-xr6dy]

Pushovers confuse self respect for selfishness. Most people would be a lot happier in life if they realized that the life they’re living, is theirs. At the end of the day, we’ll all always have ourselves to count on.

[@Imtimmahler]

I needed this video Ngl. Thanks Unc Noel

[@lorenzos7838]

That closing statement was the most genuinely caring thing I think I’ve heard you say 😢

[@AT-vj2mz]

I'm gonna try that tip about asking questions, sometimes people say I'm too blunt, seems like a better approach

[@zoeylynn6529]

I used to work at sonic, i told my boss that my grandma was in the hospital and i needed the wekeend off to go be with her. His response was "unless you can prove to me she's dying then you cant go and if you do you wont have a job when you get back." So i went and never spoke to him again.

[@dylanalder6780]

The advice was actually helpful cause I’m a chronic people pleaser and asking questions is damn good advice I feel bad saying no but after a few questions it become clear they are just being selfish.

[@joaofcascao]

I love how Noel’s UK accent is both English, Scottish AND Irish lol

[@hazybubblegum]

Something small that help me get over being a pushover was when people ask can I ask you a question or can I ask you a favor? Your answer should always be “depends what it is” they might look at little taken a back. I’ve gotten that more than once, but it doesn’t put you on the yes train. Which, usually once they ask that question you say yes, right away, it makes you almost feel obligated to continue to say yes to whatever they ask you after, because you already said it once. But if you say depends what it is, it gives you the option to say yes or no after hearing what it is. And then, if you don’t have the ability to then you can actually decide if you do have the availability or the energy to do it instead of disappointing the both of you. Which will be having you go through anxiety, because you can’t get it done, but you said you would. And then making the other person upset with you which is going to make you more anxious and it just causes a whole Lotta problems but if you off the hop!! But if you give yourself the option to say no then if you don’t actually have the capability to do it, you’ve heard what it is, and you can actually tell them why you might not be able to do it, so that way you don’t have to feel guilty about it. But then you don’t overfill your plate,snd it takes people out of the fact they already said yes and feeling obligated to keep saying yes so you don’t disappoint them. And then you don’t have to feel anxious and they don’t have to get mad that you’re not doing it fast enough at their leisure because you simply just took on too much from saying yes, too much

[@blake4544]

I know this video is four months old, but I needed this today. I am quitting my job. I have insomnia, and when I started they asked if I could do 6am shifts. I said I’m willing to, but I would really rather work in the evenings. Now, I get it. So does everybody. Nobody wants to be up that early. But if I’m in bed tossing and turning until 4am and gotta be up in an hour for work? It’s killing me. For a while I was just getting evening shifts, so it is definitely not impossible. But this new year they have cranked it to the max. My next month 1/3 of my shifts start at 5am. That means I have to do math the night before to take my sleeping pill to wake up at 4am to get to work on time! And be groggy when I’m driving? Piss off. I don’t want this for my life, and I don’t have to. I need more hours anyway. Quit. The. Fucking. Job.

[@heathbennett6219]

I once let all the kids go in front of me in line for balloon animals when I was 4. I thought they would be my friends. This was a turning point for me

[@bgitwmes6535]

Better help as a company has a lot of issues. If you look at the consumer reviews and the current lawsuit you can see that it’s an awful company. Please stop supporting them.

[@deborahakran2633]

I feel so called out. This video was made for me.

[@thomasfrivold1380]

Yyyyeaaaaah, we're going to go ahead and need to get more of this type of content Noel.

[@elijahcoon289]

I just slid into a guardrail but thankfully I had Noel’s soothing voice to keep me grounded 🩶

[@yasmines.9625]

The ending was beautiful

[@nana_osa]

I feel like the guy with the pregnant wife mustve said yes too many times to some bs that this situation at the grocery line was her last straw, making her look unreasonable when she's not. Or maybe she is. It's the pregnancy demon getting her, and that she likes her men tough and mean. Idfk. The first point happens way more than not, so I hope they got to talk 💀

[@mcvilllain]

Something that helps with getting over being a pushover is knowing that, no matter what, you’ll be just fine. Think about all the stuff you look back on now that seemed so scary in the moment, and how they have either not shaped your future at all or did for the better. Chances are, if you have some confrontation with someone like a friend, family member, or even a boss, even if it gets heated, and the result is them exiting your life or firing you or something, they were already going to do that to you, it was just a matter of time. Be nice and approachable and respectful, but treat your own respect like it is something that must be earned by others. If you’re a pushover, you’re probably a really damn good person and that’s something to be proud of, but don’t let the fact that you’re a selfless person allow other people to walk over you. Respect yourself!

[@kirbyteeth]

10:06 why does this remind me of that i think you should leave sketch with the magician lmaoo

[@colesmith7754]

0:37 that trumpet gives me faceit flash backs lmao

[@JacksGamingWorld]

“You gonna let someone get ahead of you in the will?” I’m crying real tears bro holy shit

[@merfthecat]

i want to have a drunk conversation with noel on a saturday nigh on a bar patio and then never speak or see each other again. such a wise man. i feel like he has the answers to the universe. thank u and god bless

[@choosehappy9224]

I'm willing to bet that the last story was a straw that broke the camels back situation.

[@Varooooooom]

4:30 Always remember that they need you to be there SOOOO bad - how dare you miss a day! but they’re willing to fire you and not budge to your accommodations. lmao. fuck that job bruh.

[@urnsnorter55]

I use betterhelp, and i appreciate the duality between actual therapy and the superior Noel format of therapy

[@DeeDeebing]

I'm at work noel, you're not allowed to be this funny. 😂😂😂

[@user-gc9gj1pi6f]

the setup is insanely pleasing to my eyes damn

[@monicadyason1642]

Thank you i really needed this , love the video noel

[@Jacksxb]

Everybody’s favorite KZbin psychologist doing more human studies

[@abbsterlicious]

I love this Noel I really needed this

[@KaysonMayhew]

The pushover one in line reminds me of this time I was behind someone with a cart full and I had ONE bottle of Tylenol, I sat there patiently and they just glared at me 😂 but they never let me go in front of them lol! My social anxiety isn’t asking for shit. 😂

[@ashleyb3166]

god I was such a pushover and still am sometimes. I used to work at Marshall’s and despite being part time I worked full time hours. on my second day of that job two of the managers begged me to stay just a little later than the end of my shift and I was too afraid to say no. my mistake was not setting a definitive time I would leave. I worked 11 and a half hours. when I got home I collapsed on my bed and cried because my feet had never hurt so bad. I finally quit that job after I broke down crying at the registers one day because the manager wouldn’t stop scheduling me 8 days in a row after I asked him not to. the rare times I visit that store now I hear they’re struggling twice as hard. not my problem anymore.

[@dux14]

The editing went craaaazzyyy 5:23

[@brainrottmaxx]

I started voluteering and I just realized how of a pushover I am. Im exausted mentally and physically but I still feel bad not working for them while one of the dude told me he would help me for something, fell asleep when I really needed him and didn't even apologized. Thanks for the wake up call Noel !

[@norvmath8563]

Honestly, the intro then brief intermission "duck call"...absolute class. damn near sharted.

[@marissab4193]

I was 16 working at Dairy Queen and got promoted to assistant manager about a year and half into working there (I was close to 18 years old). I didn’t care about the job whatsoever but I got shit done and I helped others learn to do things without being mean. You can not care about a job but also not inconvenience others into picking up your slack. Some people did nothing and were useless and it was annoying because at the end of the day we still gotta get ppl their food. I can go slow but why not hurry tf up so we can talk more once they leave? Idk I just think it’s not hard to do a minimum wage job even if you dgaf about it

[@ashtongaskin894]

needed that last minute of the video

[@EleveGod]

0:36 thought I was queuing for a hot sec, stop making me tweek.

[@kalemjade5258]

I was at the post office during my lunch break one day, pushing it to the last possible second because the line was so long, and this lady who had gotten in line after me, when it was *finally* my turn, said "is it okay if i go first", and i said "no, not really, im already late" and she had already gone up to the counter in front of me by the time i was done saying that, i was pissed

[@sachinnair1613]

9:35 got me dying 💀

[@dagmarblau9446]

That was acually a rlly relaxing video thank you so much

[@jacksonh9054]

Impeccable accents

[@brendan9868]

Best way to live your life with this kinda stuff it find a middle ground between pushover and jackass. Don’t let people walk over you, but pick your battles ya know. Be nice, but don’t be afraid to tell people no.

[@sophiaisabelle01]

I don't think so. Also, you don't have to believe what someone says about you. Though it can definitely affect you in more ways than it's necessary if you've done the opposite.

[@Im_helpless]

If I’ve got nothing better to do and a mum on her own with kids asks to go ahead of me I’d probably say yes, there are situations where you can say yes, life’s too short to be an asshole 24/7 this is coming from someone who considers themselves an asshole but not every situation in life requires it