Q&A Bariatric Weightloss Surgery in Mexico | Bypass Complications RNY

[@lisanutini5183]

1) I’m glad you’re doing well. 2) I’m proud of you. 3) You’re so well spoken. 4) The US healthcare system is such a racket.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you for the first 3 Lisa, and Amen to the 4th!!! lol

[@barbaramontes86]

I'm so happy for you. I am scheduled to have the sleeve on Friday.

[@angelajanelomax5540]

Be well thinking of you brave lady. xxx

[@sandygodislove7402]

Barbara Montes blessings on you’re weight loss journey

[@MrsMelissaM]

Congrats Barbara, and don't worry~ they will take excellent care of you. make sure you ask for anything you need. xo

[@kimbombardiere1555]

Good luck!

[@moriganna67ify]

Barbara Montes May I ask what a "sleeve" is? I am curious by nature about medical things. *smiles* Also best of luck to you. I am getting a CT scan done Friday night to see what is going on in my sinus cavities and neck.

[@moriganna67ify]

about the complications you had. Keep in mind that Fibromyalgia and your other Neuro disease are also immunodeficient ones and we get infections and complications at times with any surgery. I had my top teeth removed and I had a big complication where I hemorrhaged and it scared the crap out of me and my dental hygienist. The surgeon even put sutures and a layer of dissolving gauze with another row of stitching so I would not bleed out. It was such a freak complication and I feel that what you went through was the same. Simply a freak incident you can't really pinpoint how you got so sick. I am so happy for you and also happy of how supportive you primary doctor is. It always boosts the moral when our doctors listen and support us in our decisions. I have got to get help with this dang foot. I have build up of calouse from being on my toes all the time and it hurts so much. LOL I am starting to try to get out of walking on my toes habit but it will be long and hard. LOL Love you girl! This was a great video. xo

[@MrsMelissaM]

I know you are right Moriganna. Plus this was a very common complication. Gosh what you went through!!! I don't think I'd ever go to the dentist again, lol! Love you too lady!

[@moriganna67ify]

@@MrsMelissaM The funny thing is I am deathly afraid of Dentist yet with all of the 10's of surgeries I have had I trust them enough to go back. I am going to go in to get fit and evaluated for dentures. Then I can chew crunchy crispy food like raw veggies. I can't chew anything unless it is soft or mushy. LOL

[@vanyabutakov]

Thank you, my rny is in 5 days. Your video lessens my worry and I am less scared now. Thank you!

[@bevkenny1843]

You’re so brave having the surgery. I’m in the uk and refused surgery and did it by myself. Took 6 years to lose 215 pounds. Over half my body weight. Started with a BMI of 57. Today it’s at 31. Still got 50 pounds to go! You look beautiful!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Wow Bev, that is such a wonderful achievement! Congratulations! I'm so happy for you.

[@melaniegorniak3803]

Mel please don't worry about showing us anything, you worry about being happy and only happy. I'm so incredibly proud of adopting this new lifestyle so well, you are so so strong never doubt that you are a rock star. Just remember you nor anybody in this world are perfect. Be proud Melissa you are doing awesome.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Melanie, I just have to tell you this was such a sweet comment and thank you so much! I'm so happy to have a friend like you with me!

[@pandagrill7699]

I found your channel on accident but as bob ross has said in the past "happy little accidents" . You are now my fav beauty guru... i just love how pure you are

[@MrsMelissaM]

Oh my goodness! What a wonderful compliment, I'm truly honored! Sending you lots of happy hugs! xo

[@wendyposten8862]

I did it 17 yrs ago. Would do it again! Mine was covered by insurance but I would go to Mexico in a heartbeat if I had to pay out of pocket. I’m happy you are getting so much support and positivity!!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Congratulations on success for the long haul Wendy! That is so encouraging to me! xo

[@ladylily7437]

Oh wow Wendy. I had mine 17 years ago too and it was covered by my insurance 😁😁

[@pattithomas4537]

I couldn't be happier for you. You look wonderful! I had a full face/neck lift about 12 years ago in Thailand. Friends and family thought I was nuts to do that. Like you I had researched it to death, met my surgeon online and had a virtual tour of the amazing hospital I was going to. There were no complications and I was thrilled with the results and I didn't pay more than approx $4000 for the entire face neck upper and lower eyelids. And we had a great vacation afterwards. I'd do it again in a heartbeat. Medical tourism is real but as you say research research research. All the best Melissa, I love your spirit!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me Patti! I love hearing that other people aren't upset about "Mexico". I probably would have been skeptical until I researched it. And boy I'm so happy that I did! Sending you a huge hug my dear! xo

[@pattithomas4537]

@@MrsMelissaM and one right back at you Mrs. M.....😘

[@ingridmiller513]

I am so happy to hear that you are into the vitamins and supplements! The two people I know that have had bypass surgery have had health problems... One lost about all their hair and said she almost died, the other their teeth rotted. I think maybe due to not having good nutrition. Glad to know your very serious about your health! Keep it up!😍

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Ingrid, that is one thing that they were very adamant about. And making sure to get enough protein.

[@carolbahr3303]

What a great video! So open and helpful. My daughter is considering the surgery in fact she has a consultation in Scottsdale in the next few weeks. She is very fortunate her insurance does cover the procedure. Her dad, my first husband, died unexpectedly at 64 two weeks ago of hypertension. It really was a wake up call for her and her health. I can’t wait to share this video with her. So happy to see you happy 👍♥️. Hugs from Az 🤗

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Carol, I'm so happy to hear that it might help her! She won't be sorry she did it! I feel so much better every day! Hugs dear! xo

[@ireneartsyshevska3427]

Our team is so proud of you, Melissa! You are doing a great job! And thank you so much a very informative video, we will certainly refer our patients to it! Wishing you a wonderful weight loss journey! Dr.Zavalza says hello :)

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hello my dear friend! You're team was truly wonderful and professional. Thank you for taking such good care of me and helping me so much! Much love!

[@lauradiaz-autin3178]

Congratz Mrs. M🎶🐣 you are brave and you're looking half your age these days. Absolutely stunning how good you look and how much happier your Aura comes through the videos post op.

[@PurpleRainXLI]

You look awesome!! Good for you! I am so glad you did what you needed to do. You can’t worry if some people don’t care for your decisions, it is your life!! You look maaaaaaahvelous darling!!! 💜☮️💜

[@MrsMelissaM]

You're so right Carol. Worrying about what other people think just gives away your power. Thank you for the kind comment!

[@SRAshley100]

Very interesting..I so can relate to two things you mentioned...I am on Keto and my husband isn’t, I cook him regular meals so I do understand the mental aspect of retraining myself to not want his food. Also, my body is a road map of stretch marks and saggy boobs! I got my first stretch mark at 4 months pregnant...no elasticity at all. I have a husband that loves me for me and it doesn’t bother him so I don’t think I will ever have skin removed. Having said that...at 62 and losing this weight..my skin is different and I am noticing a lot more of the crepey skin. But hubby has it too! lol we’re getting old. Love you and I am enjoying watching your success! You look amazing!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Sheila, I understand the crepey skin, it's in places I've never noticed before! Hope you are having continued success on Keto. I know it made me feel good. xoxo

[@nataliewhite1053]

I had bariatric surgery 8 years ago here in London in total I have lost is 24 stone in weight feeling superb was super morbidly obese I was 35 stone 5 pounds at my largest. Good luck with your post surgery weight loss journey. I had great treatment here in the UK 🇬🇧 all the best p.s. I had the sleeve gastrectomy cos I was over 30 stone best thing health wise I’ve ever had done ✅

[@MrsMelissaM]

Oh I'm so happy for you Natalie, what an achievement! Congratulations! Cheers to a happy & HEALTHY future for us both! xo

[@rachelweinstein9008]

You’re spot on about your concept of food and it’s role in our lives. You’re way ahead of the game by realizing and educating yourself, getting counseling, etc. That was sorely lacking in my experience. It was my downfall. Sad, in my experience. Perfect surgery but poor recovery due to what you’ve mentioned. Also make sure you get a lot of B 12 via injection and sublingual. So important. That’s a lifetime focus as well!. Take good care. Love you! 💕😘🌼

[@kimbombardiere1555]

Melissa, you look amazing! You look healthy, vibrant and you're glowing. I'm so happy that this is working for you!

[@MrsMelissaM]

You're so sweet Kim! Thank you for the kind encouragement! Hugs to you! xo

[@taraball1030]

My mom used to always say "Its not what you are eating. Its what is eating you"!!!!! Im glad you mentioned emotional eating....I am definately one!!! It is really something that starts in your brain! You look great!!!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Amen to that Tara! Food is just a tool, but it's how we use that tool that gets us into trouble. Each day is a new mindset for me. Most are really good, but a few are a little tough.

[@taraball1030]

@@MrsMelissaM ❤

[@metrini]

Im so happy that you're pass the worst of it and getting into your grove and routine. It is definitely a major life change

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you Metrini. I needed to change everything about my eating habits & that's what it's done, thank goodness! xoxo

[@loveAAA1617]

I’m having the dr. Francisco doing mine June 7th. You made me so much more comfortable

[@MrsMelissaM]

Congratulations Keaira! Wishing you great success!

[@barbaracanizales1318]

You look amazing, Melissa! Looking foeward to seeing your journey.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thanks so much Barbara, and thank you for being here with me! It means so much! xo

[@luanneaton7089]

Thanks for being so transparent. Glad that you are doing well!

[@Suid-Afrika67]

Please give regular updates on your weight loss. I'm going for bariatric surgery soon and would love to follow your progress. xx

[@leannsmith6516]

You covered a lot of information very well!! I'm 15 months out from RNY and I've reached my goal weight so now I'm trying to maintain. That can be tricky too. You are doing great - keep up the great work!!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Oh wow Leann! Congratulations to you dear! Thank you for sharing because that encourages me so much! Cheers to continued success! xo

[@csk5654]

Melissa you look wonderful! I am so happy that you are doing well. Thank you for answering so many of our questions and being so open and honest about your surgeries and after care. I have 3 questions: 1. was your emergency surgery covered by your insurance? 2. What kind of and format (i.e. pills, chewables, liquids, etc.) of vitamins and minerals are you taking? 3. Were these vitamins/minerals recommended by the surgeon/clinic in Mexico or your personal physician here in the states or something you researched on your own? Thanks! Love ya gf.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi dear, to answer your questions...yes my surgery in the states was covered 80%. The vitamins are required by the doctor, at first I was only on chewables or I had to crush them, now I'm on just a regular capsule pill. I take them morning and night. If you are interested in knowing what they are, you can email me or DM me on facebook or Instagram! Luv you too! xo

[@patkern185]

Melissa, I'm so impressed by your honesty and willingness to be so candid about your journey. That is such a blessing for anyone contemplating this surgery. I'm so happy for your success. You're determined and your loved ones and we in your KZbin family are cheering you on! Continued success and a great big hug! ❤ Just make sure to keep those dimples. 😄

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much Pat. I'm so happy that I have amazing cheerleaders like you in my corner! Sending you happy hugs my friend! xo

[@luannputman9102]

You were beautiful before, but now you are radiant I am glad things are going well. I worked with a physician assistant that had gastric bypass in Mexico, she had no complications.

[@MrsMelissaM]

thanks for sharing with me Luann, I love hearing encouraging things like that! xo

[@sallyanderson4309]

Hi Melissa!! I learned a lot in this video! I’m so glad everything is better now. You’ve been through a lot! I can see the happiness in your face. You’re just beaming!! Hugs 🤗😘

[@MrsMelissaM]

I'm so glad it was informative Sally. Thanks much for watching! xo

[@rachelweinstein9008]

Excellent video, Melissa! I’m so happy to see you doing so well! Yay!,🎊🍾💐🎉🎈

[@TinyTitan50]

So happy you’re happy, that makes the healing process. 💕💕💋

[@MrsMelissaM]

Love ya Laurie! xo

[@josmiley3259]

Hi Melissa . Once again awesome, and looking so good. Thank you very informative. Always look forward to seeing you here.

[@MrsMelissaM]

You're so sweet, thank you so much! xo

[@juneharrop6245]

Thank you Melissa for sharing your experience. It is so good to see you so happy and content 😘❤️ xx

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you for sharing my journey with me June! Sending you hugs! xo

[@latherandlace]

I'm so glad you're getting the support you need. You look radiant and I hope you're healing very well. It's good to see you getting back up to par! Hugs!!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much Lori. So far the journey is definitely worth it! Sending hugs your way! xoxo

[@laurarivera9675]

You are a true representation that beauty starts from inside thank you so much for sharing and been such a big inspiration 🙅‍♂️

[@MrsMelissaM]

Awwww, thank you so much Laura! You're so sweet! xoxo

[@ashleyh4982]

My cousin and his wife went to Mexico for their weight loss surgery with no complications and they look great. My dad is thinking about going to.

[@MrsMelissaM]

He won't regret it Ashley, my life is changing in positive ways everday!

[@stuartpierce121]

Glad you're doing well Best wishes now and in the future. Thanks Jennifer 😊😀

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much Jennifer! Hope you have a wonderful week! xo

[@rachelweinstein9008]

Melissa, you look fab. You’re always so beautiful. I wish you all the best in your recovery. Concentrate on getting enough protein and you treat your tummy very gently. Like a baby! That’s what I was told years ago when I had the RnY. I’m very Happy for you! Blessings and hugs. Xo, Rachel 💕🌷🌸🐶🐱🙏💄

[@nancyhowell7735]

I had my gastric bypass done 6 plus years ago. I had diabetes, heart disease, and pulmonary hypertension. I was also one month away from turning 66. Because of my health issues, my insurance ( Medicare) paid for my surgery. In fact, insurance companies are paying for more people to have this surgery than ever before if they have any of the obesity related diseases. I am still following most of the diet and have added more foods to my diet. I drink the occasional diet ginger ale, maybe once a month. I prefer seafood and chicken as beef and pork are still hard to digest. The doctor said that was typical. I’m careful about fatty foods as they still can make me nauseous. I love pasta, but it still makes me feel bloated, so I eat it rarely. Yes, the skin sags and I would love to have surgery, but at almost 73, probably won’t waste the money. I did have a fair hair loss and it has never come back to what it was. I do relate some of that to age as well as the surgery. I only wish I had done this years ago. Two of my sisters and a cousin have had this all with the same doctor. If you are considering this and have any health problems, this could be the biggest help you could give yourself.

[@cherylclyne9145]

Excellent video answering a lot of questions Melissa, thank you for the detailed answers and the time it took you to do this special video for us all! You look absolutely beautiful! xoxo

[@MrsMelissaM]

I'm so happy you enjoyed it Cheryl. And thank you for your kind words, xoxo

[@karencassidy513]

You look great and happy with your surgery. I’m glad everything went well and now it’s just adjusting to your new diet. Congratulations!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Karen, thank you for your encouraging words! It means so much

[@tedkarensmith3245]

You are beautiful inside and out! God bless you during the rest of your journey!🙏😊#59and overweight

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much for that Karen! xo

[@susanwingblade1799]

Wow, Melissa! You look awesome. This was beautifully and professionally done. Keep up the good work--you're amazing!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

What a sweet comment Susan! Thank you so very much! xoxo

[@melissamalone5923]

I just love your candor!! I’m happy you’re doing so well, it’s great to see how radiant you look!! Best wishes for your recovery!!🥰

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much for your kindness Melissa! I truly appreciate it! xox

[@Brutus1580]

You are amazing. You look amazing. You worked very hard to get to this place and you are highly motivated to continue. I love that. Your skin may not “snap” back to pre-teen composition, but it will level out over time. Do not feel compelled to share skin photos that with others. I would respect your decision to shut that down right away. Best wishes and keep on keeping on!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much for being so encouraging to me! It truly means a lot!

[@jillgabriel3883]

Thank you for sharing your experience! I'm so proud of you and the changes you've made to be successful! You look so happy! HUGS!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thanks ever so much Jill! Each day seems better than the one before it! Sending you happy hugs girlfriend! xo

[@MistyZimmerman]

You have to mourn it and I would say at the one year point I was able to just let it go and skinny taste better than anything I can put in my mouth! You got this my friend and it does get easier!

[@MrsMelissaM]

I love that saying Misty! I think I'm going to adopt it if you don't mind? And thank you for the encouragement! xo

[@MistyZimmerman]

@@MrsMelissaM I do not mind at all, We are all in this tother! I'm so excited for you!

[@wendygessner4580]

You are looking fantastic 😍. I'm glad everything is going well. Thank you for all the information 💖

[@MrsMelissaM]

It was a pleasure to do this video Wendy! xo

[@crystalmoseman7514]

Lovely video. So glad to see you doing so fabulous!!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much for you kind words Crystal! xoxo

[@sageclovers15]

Good you are doing better. You look great, but you always do. We have a place near us that does this surgery. About 12 people at my hubs work have done it with our same insurance. My dr mentioned it to me, but I would worry about being sick after. I have had 7 in my family do it.

[@melissabrooks1926]

Hey Mrs. Melissa! Thank you for the video! Prayers for continued success! You mentioned reading about how to change your mindset about eating. Do you have any suggestions about books to read? Thanks again!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Melissa, there is a book that I really like. It's called, "EAT WHAT YOU LOVE, LOVE WHAT YOU EAT" She had several others too, but this one really helped me. xo

[@cinnie2543]

You did a great job completely explaining this. Thank you for your openness and your research. God bless you as you work towards the healthier You. :)

[@MrsMelissaM]

You're so sweet, and I appreciate your kindness so much! xo

[@jannet4451]

Very interesting video so thank you very much for sharing your experience with us. I am so very happy it all worked out for you 😘

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you Jannet. I appreciate that so much! xo

[@bd23177]

Great information! So happy for you, you look great!!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much Diana!

[@pamelardz3031]

I’m so happy your doing well

[@christineronewicz5949]

You are looking great :)♡...just keep on posting updates...much l9ve my friend :)♡...

[@CinnamonGirlBeauty]

So glad you're doing well! 😘

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thanks so much Michelle! hugs to you girlfriend!

[@SweeteaLady65]

Dr Z has the best bedside manners and he smells so good 😁

[@MrsMelissaM]

lol, he seems like a really nice man!

[@ritahall7306]

Thank you for sharing. Good to see you are doing well. :)

[@MrsMelissaM]

It was truly my pleasure Rita. Thanks for being here with me! xoxo

[@jengus1951]

Had gastric bypass and lost 110 pounds over 3 years ago. Also a year in I had a bowel obstruction and had surgery for that. Have done just fine since that time. Oh btw mine was in Ohio and was covered by my insurance. You are going to do great! I still look in the mirror and can't believe it's me sometimes, lol! I do take my vitamins always. I did have some hair thinning but it came back just fine. Very happy I did it and I am betting you will be too!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Jen, I'm so proud of you! What a great achievement, Congratulations! I'm starting to see some hair fall, but I know it will come back, so I'm not too worried! I am feeling more and more positive about it each day.

[@tamerascreativecasserole4925]

Thx for noting the nail polish! You are looking amazing!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Tamera, I will try to remember to do that from now on! and thank you my dear! xo

[@celestelopez4333]

So glad your doing so well. You look great from what we can see. Will you let us see a before and after photo? Of course I'm talking about a few months from now.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Absolutely Celeste! I was looking at one of my videos from Dec 2018 and I can't believe the difference! I'll be happy to post pictures soon!

[@quiltbugj]

We've lived in central Mexico for 2.5 years. I just had a colonoscopy last Friday. Both doctors are fully bilingual and the hospital was modern and the care was great.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience with everyone. My hope is that people will get better informed and that there will be less fear. xo

[@wendypocock5967]

You look great, so glad you are doing so well. xx

[@MrsMelissaM]

thank you so much Wendy! Have a wonderful week! xoxo

[@kimhutchens38]

This was so informative. Thanks for sharing your story

[@MrsMelissaM]

It's my pleasure Kim, xoxo

[@lisacoughlan3387]

I'm so glad I found you! I live in Canada..I suffer from hypothyroidism, severe depression and trigeminal neuralgia. I've tried every diet under the sun. I lose but then put it all back on plus more. Since having trigeminal neuralgia my weight has gotten completely out of hand. I read the meds can make you gain rapidly. Did this happen to you? How does it affect you after surgery with the meds? I need to loose 115 pounds

[@teresaosburn8840]

you are doing so awesome! i do have a question for you- i am 4 years post op gastric bypass surgery had the surgery in the US i have taken all my vitamins and even had to sign a sheet of a paper saying that i would take my vitamins but still had an iron deficiency to the point that i am now seeing a hematologist, thank God this Dr has lot of knowledge when it comes to gastric bypass patients. do you know of anyone else this has happened to? thanks

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Teresa. I haven't heard of that but I know it can happen. Spinach & Chickpeas or garbanzo beans are high in iron. I'm glad you're working with a doctor though.

[@kellyfosson257]

Melissa, I'm so glad I found your videos. Can you tell me where to go to see best.foods to ear after you have gotten the sleeve. Like for life to eat.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Just type in "Best diet after Bariatric surgery" here on KZbin

[@susanmoore369]

I am so glad you did this because it did answer most of my questions..I do have one question...did your medical insurance cover the surgery you had in the states? Once again, I am just so happy for you and so thankful that you are alright and losing the weight...you go girl...so proud of you.. much love..xoxo

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Susan, hope you are having a great day! Yes, my insurance did cover the surgery here 80%. Thank you for the sweet encouragement! Love you!

[@susanmoore369]

MrsMelissaM Beauty oh thank God your insurance covered it..even 80% is Bette than 100%...so happy thT you are ok now and losing weight...honey I am 100% backing you...and lots of prayer..love ya

[@patriciapaquette3700]

Oh, forgot!! Awesome job with this video

[@reneklein6049]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm so glad the bad part is over. You look wonderful, and I'm sure you will hit your goal in no time. Oh, how I can relate to no skin elasticity. I'm small, but weight has nothing to do with it. And I too nursed both girls for a year each. Hanging skin, I've got. Without a bra, I swear I'd step on my boobs!! My mom was the same. She was 5'4, maybe 100lbs, but boy did her skin jiggle. She so kindly passed that gene to me! Be well, my dear friend. Love and hugs❣❤😘🥰

[@MrsMelissaM]

I'm sitting hear cracking up reading your comment Rene! My girlfriend used to tell me that she had to "roll & tuck" her boobs into a bra! Thanks for the giggle. Luv you too doll! xo

[@reneklein6049]

@@MrsMelissaM OMG, that's a riot, Melissa!! Roll and tuck! And it's just so fun getting a mammogram. I keep telling them that they are down further!! 😂🤣❤❤

[@michelleamalayabell8480]

Thank you for all the information Melissa, you are look beautiful 😘😘😘

[@user-wd4sx1yz6l]

You are looking great! How much have you lost this far? My aunt, my niece and bff have all done so far,,,I now have the courage watching your story! Any update would be great! Sept 3

[@melissamilstead3786]

My name is also Melissa M and I am having my surgery on July 1st so in 7 days. I am so excited. I want the gastric sleeve but they said once inside due to previous surgeries said they may have to do the bypass. I am only 60 lbs over weight. And I'm getting so much negative feedback about bypass. Why is this? Has it been really that bad? PS my PCP is against mexico and was saying same thing and sounded like she would be refusing to see me post op ad well.

[@patriciapaquette3700]

I had mine in 2012 and have experienced great 👍 things and “bad” things. I would love to talk privately with you, as I certainly don’t want to deter people

[@cm08302000]

Thank you so much for sharing.

[@RootedInTx]

You look so great! 💖 Thanks for the informative vlog. One other thing how did you get all of your check list of things done before you get your surgery? Did you have to go to Mexico to see the Dr. Before anything happening? Also did you leave that info below for the dr. That did your surgery? I might have passed it up.

[@MrsMelissaM]

I just looked and the link is there, it just wasn't showing that it was clickable. Here it is for you, sorry about that! www.golightbariatrics.com

[@carriemunnick9980]

Thank you for sharing. You look so amazing.

[@MrsMelissaM]

You're so sweet! Thank you Carrie! xo

[@kelliewoodard2098]

So glad you are doing well! I’m curious if your medical insurance covered your second surgery?

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Kellie, yes my insurance did cover the second surgery by 80%.

[@kelliewoodard2098]

MrsMelissaM Beauty oh that’s great! I would assume they would but you never know these days! So glad you are doing well!

[@melissahenson8990]

Thanks for sharing your journey.What books do you suggest on changing mindset of eating?

[@MrsMelissaM]

I loved reading "Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat" by Michelle May She has a few others too Melissa.

[@melissahenson8990]

@@MrsMelissaM thanks so much

[@myratraney]

Thank you so very much for sharing . May I ask what was the BMI was that the doctors wanted you to be before surgery ? You are the Best 💖

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Myra, they didn't give a goal for anyone. They just won't operate on someone that has a BMI lower than 30. And once it goes about 55 they really get concerned and the operation is harder on the patient and for the doctor!

[@tonyalovett9129]

Hello Ladybug your looking fantastic. I know you maybe getting some people still not understanding why. But I think you did it for you not anyone else. I had my Gastric Bypass in 2005, I loss a lot of weight very fast. I called my after care team which they had the Dr. call me back. He told me Mrs. Lovett I don"t tell people that I done GBP on to eat Baked Potatoes with lot"s of butter, which really helped a lot. I do drink coke but I sip on them all day and save the rest for later I leave it open until it is flat lol. I do eat sweets ice cream I keep it a just very small bites. I have over ate something that I know is a no no, but this girl had to have what ever I wanted. I have not gained my weight back. i love you my sweet ladybug. your may need to call you my.beautiful butterfly. Because your coming out of your cocoon to become the beautiful Butterfly 😍😍

[@MrsMelissaM]

You always brighten my day with your kind, warm and encouraging comments my friend! I love hearing your experience and it helps me to be so hopeful that I will be successful too! Thank you so much! I love you darling lady! xo

[@tonyalovett9129]

@@MrsMelissaM Girl you will never believe what we have done. Sold our house on the 15th on we are homeless. We have rented a place for one month in Mississippi to see if we like it and if we can find our home on or near the beach. I'm hoping on the beach, but I don't think I need to be a picky witchy bitchy LMAO 😂😂😉😉😘

[@sharonhardy7187]

When I had my done about 18 years ago my insurance here paid for mine. Apparently so many people are having it done insurance figured a way to get out of paying for it. Too bad. I have never regretted it. I will tell you after a while you will be able to eat poorly again so guard against that. I thought I wouldn’t be able to eat again so you will still be faced with temptations.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Sharon, that's what I was talking about when I said I had to look at food different. It's so hard, people think this is an easy fix. It's not easy, it's just a tool. Thank you for your advice! xo

[@sallywalker1073]

Will you keep us up to date on how much you are losing. You look so well.x

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Sally, I think I did not what I had lost before the surgery & after, but I didn't say the total. I sure will do that for you. I've lost 60 as of today! xoxo

[@heidinichole4680]

You look great!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thanks doll! luv ya! xoxo

[@suzzannehughes6431]

I had mine in 04, and my insurance paid for it. I would do it all over again. But like you said it is just a tool and you can mess it up. I still do go up and down a little bit but I am over 100 pounds lighter today still then when I had surgery.

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Suzzanne, congratulations! I love hearing that you've kept it off all that time! That's wonderful! I know I have to still work at it everyday for sure!

[@diamondsparkle9967]

14 ppl in one family alone???😳😳😳 Holycrap.

[@thefunctionalfarmacista7790]

It is amazing after any bariatric surgery, how ya notice your family members eating habits. Still today, I notice how little chewing they do. It drives me a little nuts. 😜😜

[@MrsMelissaM]

Oh that's too funny Ann! My hubby is really bad about that too!

[@beebop2663]

well said

[@maryabdel-malik656]

Hi I love you but forgive me if I said it did not sit well with me saying that the Dr. in Mexico had better track record then 7 drs. in the USA . As someone who works in the healthcare business ( not a doctor ) & worked in different countries the USA have the best doctors in in the world. God bless & best wishes 🙏

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Mary, I do really appreciate your experience truly. But honestly the doctor that I went to has not had one fatality and very few complications, less than 1%. So I was pretty confident with him. Love you too! Oh and btw, thank you so much for being so kind and respectful in your comment. I wish everyone who didn't agree were so considerate. The world needs more people like you!

[@maryabdel-malik656]

MrsMelissaM Beauty Hi I am sure the one you went to is a great doctor I am not saying he is not good but we do have here in the USA great ones very talented and superior in their fields thats all. Thanks for your compliment God bless you and yours wish you a speedy full recovery 🙏

[@suegoff2684]

What is the protein powder that you used that was tasteless? I seriously need one but I just can't tolerate one that is so yucky. I am 4 weeks post-op from my panniculus. This is not a tummy tuck bit I did give up about 10 lbs of excess skin and even my navel. I also had Lipo in the upper part of stomach. My husband said good God woman he cut you half into. He did get some of my muscles back and tightened up so I'm looking forward to starting Body Groove as soon as he gives me the go. Check it out here on KZbin. It's Misty Tripoli. Long comment. So glad you are doing well and waiting for a new video. Love & prayers. Sue

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Sue. I did link it in the description box for you. I get it from Amazon. Congrats on your amazing journey yourself. I'd love to hear about it because it might be something I will do down the road. I heard recovery is killer pain from that. Hope yours is minimal! xo

[@kellydevoll4287]

You look amazing and absolutely beautiful

[@MrsMelissaM]

thanks ever so much Kelly! xoxo

[@shellygarza9364]

Hi dear. God bless you. 😊💋🥰💜😇

[@janfromseattle]

Hi my beautiful friend! You were talking about how your family eats what they want yet are still supportive of you, so in the same vein, this will make you laugh, I hope! My husband who is naturally thin can pretty much eat what he wants and not gain weight. Darn him! I’ve seen this man eat a hamburger in two or three bites but when it comes to taking an ibuprofen, he turns into a pill smashing maniac!! Seriously, you know how small a typical ibuprofen tablet is and it’s hilarious what he goes through to make sure that it is powder-like. I literally can’t stop laughing when he goes through these machinations! I just look at him and tell him that it’s a good thing that men don’t have to birth children. War yes, birthing no. 😂. People are funny!

[@MrsMelissaM]

Oh that is so funny! You know my sister what the same way, she would gag everytime, no matter how small the pill. I had to grind my pills up for a bit...they are so nasty! lol. Love ya lady! xo

[@kellybrentonadams5408]

I admire you . I am to scared to have it done . I don’t like going under .(. My question is this ... are you afraid of skin ha go g in your face and neck? I’m so vain that I think that would bother me most . Xoxox

[@MrsMelissaM]

I talked about skin sagging towards the end of the video, but I don't worry too much about my face because I already have had my double or triple chin diminish and I'm loving that! btw, I hate going under too Sandy! have a great week! xo

[@kimbombardiere1555]

Melissa, have you noticed a change in your other helath conditions?

[@MrsMelissaM]

I really have Kim. My pain level is so much less everyday. I am working on getting my stamina back, so I do have a few sore muscles everyday, but it's a good kind of sore. Also, my depression and panic attacks are almost gone!

[@kimbombardiere1555]

MrsMelissaM Beauty I’m so happy to hear that!

[@reneekerner2014]

Aww, you look so pretty.

[@MrsMelissaM]

thank you so much Renee, so sweet!

[@lisajodrell1332]

Looking gorgeous hun :-)

[@MrsMelissaM]

Thanks a bunch Lisa!

[@pamelardz3031]

Do you have to do a liquid diet after surgery?

[@MrsMelissaM]

Yes Pamela, you do 3 days of only liquids.

[@annahofmann92]

What is the name of the doctor who performed the operation on you? please write the data

[@MrsMelissaM]

Hi Anna. I will give you the link to their Facebook page & you can check them out through there if you like. facebook.com/GoLightBariatrics/