Q&A | Getting Him to Commit, Defining the Relationship, Boyfriend Reveal, Jealous of Exes

Answering dating & relationship questions as the big sis ain't nobody asked for. 🤪
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00-1:27 INTRO
1:28-1:57 SECOND GUESSING A RELATIONSHIP
1:58-3:45 IS "THE TALK" NECESSARY?
3:46- 4:07 I GET BORED QUICK
4:08-4:55 BOYFRIEND REVEAL?
4:56-6:04 CHEMISTRY W/ EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE GUY
6:05-7:32 WHEN HE DOESN'T WANT EXCLUSIVITY
7:33-8:18 CURIOUS ABOUT HIS EX?
8:19-9:22 HE DOESN'T SEE A FUTURE
9:23-11:10 MANAGING CONFLICT
11:11-12:04 26 & NEVER HAD A BF
12:05-13:38 WORK VS. RELATIONSHIP
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[@khalilahd.]

Always love your advice. Your transparency and wisdom is ALWAYS appreciated. Thanks for the video ☺️❤️

[@createinspireco1768]

Agreed that chemistry can be overrated, people love to throw that word around often. But compatability and core values are so so important but sometimes overlooked when dating, in a serious relationship, etc. Freesia is so wise!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@yyoonnn10]

My first time commenting because what you said about chemistry is SO. TRUE! The chemistry comment is so spot on. It's something I figured out pretty late, but its so important. Chemistry is what we look for in the beginning, but what drives a relationship is compatibility.

[@sherrywong3571]

I realised this advice late too. I still don’t understand the relationship incompatibility though

[@jzara3984]

I enjoyed this Q&A so much. One of the best! Freesia you are so easy to listen to and I love your thinking and train of thought.

[@shawonwawon]

Your sit down videos are my FAVE🖤 Your advice comes from such a logical place and I admire how you approach everything in life

[@christinasiew3707]

Appreciate the emphasis on compatibility vs chemistry!

[@sriravipati6526]

Freesia spittin straight facts about chemistry vs. compatibility

[@vivizhimomi9178]

When Freesia says “it’s time for a refresh” . Literally so refreshing your videos . Lots of love.

[@JulissaMercedes]

make a longer one next time I would love to hear more, when it comes to relationships logic is what i think helps it last

[@teenaweenaaa]

Loveeee your maturity and wisdom in this video! The way you answer and give advice is top notch

[@maggieinsf5714]

I really appreciate your more chit-chatty vids because I do find it helps me understand myself in a deeper level, and sometimes I think I do need to hear it from someone else :) you're amazing Freesia!

[@mfjed]

Your Q&A's are literally the best!!

[@michellejy]

Love your advice so much! Chemistry is totally superficial. Compatibility is so important and hard to come by. Also your voice is very soothing and comforting. I’m sure everyone appreciates all of your relationship advice as well ❤️

[@ArnoldBanks_]

Thoroughly enjoyed this video. More of these Q&A’s please.

[@maytan8778]

Freesia, you need to make a podcast. Periodt.

[@katedesingano]

youre so knowledgeable about these things!

[@kloei]

When you needed that “official talk” advice, thank you 💕

[@DeliaX]

listening to how compatible you and your bf are makes me so happy 😭 that is what I want. so healthy

[@twentyfirst1499]

loved your answer to the second question - the talk. great advice!

[@yieldm232]

Honestly you give the best advice!!

[@saraomonuwa1099]

i think this is the best way to end 2021, ily thank you for the vid

[@AyleeWonder]

Love the real talk! This should become a trend with different topics!

[@emilyyang5844]

yay! freesia, i love these Q&A sesh! pls do more u truly feel like a big sis to me ❤️❤️

[@andreabryant1131]

love your advice freesia!! it's very inspirational! you are a fun person!! you inspire me!!!

[@cinndis]

please make more video like this freesia, i actually really enjoying this kind of vid from u

[@Zeeiconoclastic]

I really enjoyed this video. I like how you articulate yourself. ♥️

[@seaweedjen]

this was a really good video!!

[@ElmoTinker]

Great advice 😊

[@k_tuyenniie109]

Girl! You should have a podcast. Love your advices, should do more of this. Sending lot of love from Australia! 💕

[@ns1498]

Great advice! Thank you 🙏

[@glaix1023]

Yaaay been waiting for this ❤ Also, you're glowing Freesia 😍

[@rizavirtudazo]

You are one of my fave, Freesia! ❤️

[@benatrix]

Damn she spittin facts right from the start!!

[@dejabethel4626]

I loved this video , I really took a lot away from it .

[@ncltng]

I love this Freesia. What you said makes so much sense. Now time to reflect! HAHA

[@DungNgo-fv8xm]

Ahhhh love your wisdoms and advices sm Freesia!!! Literally big sis vibes 😩🥺💛💛 TYSM!

[@helen124]

I want to be like you 😭😭 I can really see what you mean by how logical you are and really appreciate all your answers 🥺

[@NuieBriane]

U literally came thru at the right timeeee

[@milkbread5036]

this was very helpful. can u make a video more on compatibility and what to look for? I love your shirt btw!!

[@Rob_Lerch]

This video was awesome, thanks Freesia!

[@ashleyahn5387]

You are literally the best at Q&A so real and honest and humble ㅠㅠ

[@marizzapizza5599]

Love it freesia!! Happy new year 🥳

[@NuieBriane]

EVERYTHING IS JUST ON POINT THANKKKK UUU

[@user-us6iv1im6m]

Like Fressia's love advice vids are the best in KZbin

[@michm6780]

I can never have enough of Freesia! Please universe send me a friend like her cause she’s amazing! Love her videos along with Michelle Choi. So relaxing to listen to .

[@karmingtan4059]

Very wise advices.

[@johnkim8106]

I love this video so much

[@TracyEllennn]

Really needed this! Thank you girl. :)

[@christinalee9336]

Damn good advice sis 👌🏻🔥💯

[@nesrinemediouni3610]

was waiting for a new vidd yayy

[@cjwsk12]

more of these please it's really helpful! i dont have a lot of female figure sin my life i don't have a sister to ask :( thank you

[@jennyrose888]

it’s 2am on the 31st here in the ph and got your notif!!!!! aHHHH LOVE YOUR VIDS I CAN NEVER SKIPPPP

[@unboxinggoods4768]

11.52 pm here in India happy new year

[@DailyAmyK]

Always love to hear your thoughts and your advices are on point 👌

[@moccisimo]

You are my yt big sister; I love your pov on stuff I myself question

[@luagyvoorp]

YES

[@Itsme-pg4kq]

Where did you brought the shirt. ??It’s so beautiful colours.

[@lolo7984]

I rewatched the second guessing question a couple times to drill this into my head.

[@onedayatatime1561]

where did you buy your shirt? love it queen

[@sunnedd]

I'm married but you are better than me at giving advices!!! ^^

[@stephanielake11]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jayyjayy1231]

happy new year Freesia

[@aryelbrown]

I have been wondering why people don't want to define their relationship at the very beginning? I mean how come someone would not know what they want in a relationship? A fling? A friend with benefits? A long term partner? Does ppl genuinely don't know or is it just part of the "game"?

[@mlepark]

where is your top from?? it's so cute

[@Emilyghe]

I like that you said exclusive = relationship cuz it would be too vague if there is a phase between relationship and dating

[@chunnieeeb]

Girl just wanna say that your top is CUTEEEEEEEEEEEEE - where is it from?!

[@got7ismyworld692]

Never clicked this fast!!

[@Mel-oc7pi]

hey freesia! i don't know whether you've answered these in other videos but what is your mbti? and if your bf has done it, what is his? i want to see whether the mbtis are compatible too

[@vaidehi1353]

Hey! Where is the top from?

[@monicacollins5728]

Where are your earrings from?

[@TheChristineVan]

Where did u get that top :0

[@meryllloisbonilla]

Start a podcast already!

[@freesiapark]

🧐

[@cynwme7608]

"sit in your very secure badass bitch mode" OKAY SIS i resonate with you

[@supermorningperson2917]

START A PODCAST PLEASE

[@toribrownt16]

PODCAST, PODCAST, PODCAST. Please. 😅🤩🤩

[@freesiapark]

maybe one day 😅

[@ccvd399]

you kind of look like Giselle from aespa (kpop girl group member)

[@mrnobody3325]

Love from manipur

[@mandywhorwal642]

Chemistry is physical compatibility, Connection is intellectual (spiritual) compatibility and Condition is lifestyle (where and how you want to live) compatibility. You need at least two out of three (and be willing to negotiate the third) in order to have a successful monogamous relationship. There's a lot of undiagnosed female ADD out there. In boys it's easier to spot, as they're constantly running around and getting into trouble, but in girls it manifests as social drama and interpersonal emotional chaos. If you're bored with every guy you meet you could have ADD, or maybe you're just too immature for a relationship, or maybe most guys are just drab losers? There are 7 steps involved in Western relationships: talking, seeing, dating, exclusivity, engagement, marriage, divorce or death. If a guy isn't saying that he's 'looking for something serious' or 'ready for commitment' or 'sees himself married with kids in 3-5 years' he's probably not in the market for anything meaningful. There's always a chance you can wriggle your way into his life and he just gets used to you being there, but I think it's better if you spend more time getting to know the person during the early stages before you launch yourself headfirst into unknown with your ring fingers crossed.

[@marilyngarcia3306]

No no Emergencia o menos en la tienda o me dan y si no manda

[@marilyngarcia3306]

No no youJoan Miró You Don’t Need a

[@davidparnell3241]

First

[@freesiapark]

😌🥇

[@Johnnny92]

That question at 6:06 had me thinking, it's only been 2 months but you want to be exclusive already, what's the rush? I feel like it's too soon, I want to ask them why now? besides from the obvious answer. I also feel like their putting a little bit of pressure on them make a decision when it hasn't been a long amount of time. I can understand maybe at the 6 month mark or even 1 year, 2 months is way too soon imo.

[@nongyuitinamat341]

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