Q&A: How to deal when people don't like you

[@mikioni]

"I don't want to be part of a world where being kind is a weakness." Keanu Reeves

[@daron6616]

When I started learning how to love myself more, other peoples dislike of me mattered less and less. The people who matter don’t mind and the people who mind don’t matter. Some people are just not gonna like you for whatever reason. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@badyogitv]

So true!

[@dcabral00]

The biggest favor someone who dislikes you can do for you is to stay away from you. Sounds good to me, because if you do not like me, I do not like you.

[@mariea82]

Dont let them get you down. I used to but now i just ignore them. Believe me loads of people hate me because of stupid mistakes so if they cant accept me or whatever then they arent worrth thinking about.

[@badyogitv]

[@daron6616]

I agree!

[@heyitsme4322]

THIS. THANK YOU.

[@cherisenamaganda7731]

Thankyou:)

[@meredithyoung186]

What if they’re constantly around in your friend group

[@rlziolkowskimusic]

I teach middle school, so this is a part of my daily life. It's not easy. Sometimes, people are just rude, but it's not a reflection on you. Believe in yourself, believe in what you're doing. The best way to prove the negativity wrong is to just keep going and not let it affect who you are.

[@courtney_timmins]

I am a very sensitive person also and I even get a little disheartened when people just don't like me by default. It just kinda hurts you know, especially if they don't know you. But I guess you can't impress everyone. I hope to focus more on impressing myself and being happy with myself, and sharing that contagious happiness with my beloved friends.

[@keliontv]

well....here's my tip. I've had a CRAZY amount of people hate me...some even walked to my face and told me they hate me. the way I've dealt with it was a quote by a very wise biblical figure "be like a flower that gives off its fragrance even to the hand that crushes it." this quote really spoke to me, and once I took acknowledge at the fact that this one person hated me, I said to myself WHO CARES??? Who's cares if they hate you be true to YOU! Continue being a good person cause in the end your character on how you treat people and how you view life is what makes them like you. so I say keep being you and be a joyful person to be around...don't take in anything negatively, always view life with the cup half full and not half empty. be a person where people want you around for the joy you bring and not for the negative bs you give. I'm actually dating a girl who hated my guts when she 1st met me lol, I just kept being a high moral having person and viewed myself more than an opinion....hope that helped.

[@duckface8425]

Ball is Life its kinda hard to be like that when people judge everything you do

[@elimarc3891]

Well said. Yes, very hard to be like that having only inteligente. Wizdome on the other hand my friend...is the hardest ROCK around :)

[@jadedavis4104]

this is amazing, thank you!

[@drfifteenmd7561]

@Sydney Mann You're being way too polite. If you don't like a person, stay away from them and don't go out of your way to be near them. Be kind and civil with them but keep away.

[@dotti250]

Omg yes! 🙌🏼 thank you so much for commenting. This quote I will keep for life 👌🏼❤️

[@tonydemille]

this was good to hear. I shut my KZbin channel down after only a week because of the critics. I'm going to start it back up and be a better person because of it. this was the encouragment I needed.

[@shawnmendes9705]

My motto for such persons "" If you have any problem with me, then its your problem not mine""

[@badyogitv]

Amen!

[@chickensataybroccoli]

This was really helpful, especially the part about not needing 100% approval from everyone. Thank you.

[@tinathorn7649]

I’m ok with people not liking me. It’s when they start causing hardship. You don’t have to like me that’s your right . It’s not ok to cause unnecessary problems in person life. It’s at this point is stressful and Annoying.

[@badyogitv]

Agree! It's difficult, but necessary, to block out their unnecessary noise.

[@Reborn_Enthusist]

If your close to God people tend not to like you tho they don't know why. Its Gods light in you. Remember they hated him first. I have a very close relationship with Our Lord and people don't like me as soon as they meet me. As long as he loves me that's fine with me because he does so much for me that others could never do.

[@pinkroses135]

That is another part to consider

[@elimarc3891]

What if you were perfect like the Son? People will hate you even then. Many people are just plain bad.

[@MsXxRonaldoxx]

There is awalys something wrong with a person who hates you without a reason, and don't like you even after the know you for many mouth and lough with you. There were always people who puts me down and gets angry if I do the same thing to them. I didnt even unterstand what is wrong with them. After I ignored whem the looked at me like if I have done something bad. The disrespektet me puted me down and gossiped about me. And it was the whole class. I didnt talked to them what their problem was it wouldn't change anything.

[@badyogitv]

We all have experienced that and it's such a shame.

[@KisDraga]

I'm still trying to not care that people don't like me but it hurt. I try to stay away from most so I don't have to worry or bother them but there is a group that are friends with the person I work for so I do have to cross paths with them .. Its painful seeing how different they treat me (fake nice/ tolerate my presence with an empty politeness) and how they treat others. I don't want my anxiety to turn to resentment but can feel myself growing more and more defensive which feeds into how I act and self fulfilling prophecy of their distaste for me. Still trying not to care and be nice but distant but.... I still end up ruminating over interactions with them . It doesn't feel good. Sometimes I'm forced to interact with them. And in those cases I do come off cold and frustrated because I'm exhausted from anxiety. (I have general + social anxiety & depression). I have a friend that tried to tell me she isn't keen on the group either and not to take it personally but... god damn its hard.

[@cg-ny9078]

I know it was a year ago since you wrote your comment, but it's my *exact* feeling about my situation now. I hope things are better for you now. I can't wait until it gets better for me.

[@MrGloriousg]

It is difficult to do but they do help you to shut down emotionally. These people are usually influenced by external forces like a smear campaign. If you recognize why people who you hardly know dislike you, you have to realize there is nothing you can do to change that. You just have to accept their disdain. Yes, it really hurts but realize these people do not know you. They may be coworkers yet they are also strangers. Being a pariah is both a blessing and a curse.

[@0611kenyajosh]

Thank you for sharing. Can so relate. It's a battle just be "normal". You are already dealing with your own challenges and then for people to be mean and judgemental. Says more about them then you.

[@healthstartshere]

Thank you for sharing this!! I have felt identical to this so many times in the workplace! Workplace politics and bitchy dynamics are so toxic and can really have long term effects when the people have political or management power. It happens most with women. Corporate America pits people against one another and if those people have power over you they can actually cause real trauma. I’m extremely sensitive and it scares me because it’s unavoidable and people don’t seem to be improving any time soon these days.

[@dc3528]

I know it's been 3 years or more since you wrote this and I certainly hope that things have gotten better for you. I can definitely relate to so much of what you described but if you don't mind I'd like to share what helps me even now. What I've learned is that in virtually every situation I've encountered where I've had to deal with toxic people there is always at least one who isn't toxic. There is one who is kind and sincere and genuine. I have learned the importance of cherishing the "ones" who matter. I hope this helps.

[@Verisimilitude_]

I think that’s really sweet and authentic that she shared the experience of people getting up and walking out on her during her class. I think we have all experienced some form of rejection. Very relatable for everyone and also a story a lot of people I’m sure would be too embarrassed or shy to share.

[@marisuzara4925]

Who wouldn't like you? You're the best!!

[@pinkroses135]

Everyone isn't going to like everyone. You can't make them like you, you shouldn't beat yourself up, that kind of thing. Stay focused on your values and goals.

[@jod6cindy]

You convey such great positive energy. Thank you very much for beautifully covering a subject that is very near and dear to my heart.

[@tataoktava]

Hey Erin! Thank you for your video! As always it's very inspiring and so true! Just want to let you know that you are the one from hundreds of people doing yoga on KZbin who made me start doing yoga and stick with it. And I love it so much now. Thanks for all great work you are doing for us who appreciate it! Take care!

[@aleksandravujcic2154]

yeah same here...you started my yoga journey too! thank you for your videos your positive vibes and your simplicity...

[@Cookiesy]

I can't believe they walked out! They didn't even try the class first! We have "relievers" (especially when my yoga teacher was sick (she was actually pregnant)!!!). It's actually quite refreshing sometimes having a different teacher, sometimes you learn different things. Plus, how do you know you're not going to like the class/teacher if you never even give i t a go? I feel like they're missing out on a LOT of things.

[@JosephineDeSmet]

I have people in my team for a group project and I feel they dislike me... It's not me taking it personally or jumping to conclusions... I gave them the benefit of the doubt... I ask questions and it says 'read' but they don't reply... When I call them out on that they say things like ''it's our week off... Im not gonna do schoolwork now'' But it was a simple question and they also never reply when it IS school...when I say something when we're discussing the project they raise their voice and no matter what I say it's bad... I can't take that anymore

[@lyssloves9096]

Josephine De Smet forget about them. Irrelevant meanies!! Positive vibes only.

[@kissmeagain54]

Josephine De Smet ....... well .....FUCK ALL OF THEM 😄..... Do your thing ..... just watch them

[@badyogitv]

I'm so sorry they are treating you that way. Just remember, it isn't a reflection of you. It's a reflection of something that's going on with them.

[@carlos-rh9lq]

You made me feel really Good with your video, please never stop doing this, you're the best.

[@Waterlilycollective]

Well said thank you 😊 tribe without trolls good one great to hear some positivity.not easy when you don't know why someone doesn't like you

[@charlenehoit8915]

Thank you so much for this, it was VERY helpful!! I'm still new to teaching, but the first time I got some negative feedback it literally had me a blubbering mess for the rest of the day, wondering if my sensitive self would be able to handle putting myself out there like a yoga teacher should!! Over the next few days I came to the same realization... I couldn't make it about me, I can always take an experience and learn from it, and I would always go into my classes with love and good intentions. I have always been a people-pleaser, and being disliked is probably my biggest fear... but being exposed and accepting criticism has actually helped me to get better, and the fear no longer has power over me. The criticism ended up being the best thing that could have happened. ✌🏻️❤️

[@mmaft5697]

I know this is a 5 year old post but it is amazing how someone can put all these feelings I have been stressing about, break it down into relatable terms and point out the obvious. I work with the public and get tipped. I am guilty of this at times as well but some people will just not like you on site. For me it is a rare as I like to reserve judgement until I have talked with someone a few times. Some people will like you because you have a pleasant smile, others will dislike you because you are happy and they are not. Some people will be upset if you are too talkative while others will be happy that you have taken the time to speak with them and put a smile on your face. What I got from your video is be who you are and strive to be a good person. If people have a problem with that, the problem might not be with you but them.

[@kaytee1844]

Aaaah Erin that story you told totally happened to me when I first took over a class from a long standing teacher - side-eyes EVERYWHERE! But like you said, I just kept doing me, roll on 5 months and the same original doubters have now requested an extra class with me - woop! You absolutely can't win em all, but if you keep speaking your truth you stop looking for where you need to be coz that place finds you. (btw I'm a yoga teacher too, best job ever). Have a great Christmas love! xx

[@RandomVideoCircus]

Great video. Defiantly an eye opener.

[@lollypop890]

I realise maybe no one will read this but thank you for making this video. Im disliked by a lot of people, and I got kicked out of my best friends hen party by her mam and her sister because they were saying really inappropriate offensive things and I stood up for myself and on behalf of those they spoke badly about. Making generalised old fashioned comments without any capacity for reason or conversation about it. So when you said if people don't like you its because you stand up for something, I felt proud. Its a difficult situation but I don't like them either, so who cares if they don't like me

[@debberrharriman9841]

That's why I stay alone 24/7

[@monicagray8158]

Great! Thanks for sharing much needed ❤

[@0xF15h]

The last thing most people are worried about is judgement from others. The Christian family is going through some pretty tough times. While not a perfect person. I know I loved people and poured my heart out. We keep Christ's confidence and that's all.

[@tamarabitter4913]

👌 i get this feeling people get tired of me also annoy with me and tired of seeing me well yea there's people that don't like me either but yea there can be people who pretend to like me but they don't plus they don't have to like me that's if they want to

[@pinkroses135]

Growing up in a narcissistic family I highly recommend removing yourself from those situations or find a healthy way to deal with people that make you feel that way. Everyone has different personalities, different temperaments. Some will tend to tolerate more disrespect/rejection because of conditioning. That's something to be mindful of that needs to be nipped in the bud.

[@akalanadelrey]

So, I heard about this girl thats like kinda famous around my neighborhood (famous as in everybody knows her and she knows them too) and well I haven’t made friends with her yet (she didn’t even know me) so I said hi and introduced myself and we talked for some time and then I asked her if she wanted to be my friend and she literally looked at me in the face and gave me this disgusted look and said: “um, we just met, I don’t truly know you” and I was like dang ok girl I was just trying to be friends with you because you where so nice to me and all my girlies know you and you accepted them and so like I wanted to know you too you know (take in mind I’m from London and I’ve moved to Spain and they really don’t like me and I’m very friendly but they judge me and call me “English girl” and start talking about me, I’m bilingual tho and plus I have a twin and they both think we are like antisocial and I’m totally not antisocial, it’s just I don’t have lots of friends) so anyway I was like ok and I got sad so I just made my way somewhere else, I get a text from one of my close friends and she said: “um so Sofia.... Noa said that she really doesn’t like you and she’s started to gossip about you....sorry” (btw my names Sofia and the girl that I wanted to be friends with is called Noa) so I literally stared panicking and headed back home. Since that day it’s been a struggle for me to find new friends because now I’m too scared too talk to people or to ask if they want to be friends because I’m scared of rejection, I really miss London, the people here are really judging and won’t accept you. I’m so sad because I feel like no one really likes me. I’m a shy person btw, I feel like the elephant in the room. Oh, and my biggest dream is to become an actress in Hollywood but I’m not sure how to get there. Anyway thank you for listening/ reading this. edit: omg 2 years later and i don’t give a fuck about ppl anymore lol, trust me when u grow up a bit u start to realize if ppl don’t like u for u then that’s fine

[@meid789]

Your text made me tear up since I can relate to it a lot. Maybe over the time it will lessen a little bit. Good luck with your future!

[@cutecookie1111]

hope you’re doing a bit better queen ❤️

[@millardthompson8157]

LOTS OF PEOPLE HATE ME WELL THATS NOT MY PROBLEM

[@LifeAfterNeverland]

I am a dance teacher. Needing a bit of a lift today. Well said!! 😘😘

[@cheifsmokabowl]

lately ive been working on self awareness. I went to a local punk show and got pretty high and chilled with my friends. When two of them were leaving one gladly gave me a hug and other other friend had a gnarly attitude and pretended to be disgusted at the thought of me hugging her. She said “girl no” and gve me a shitty hand shake. i thought, was it becauss i was dancing during the show? Was i being too loud? Being an extremely insecure person, i went into a spiral of insecurities. Later i scrolled on instagram and found her across my other friends instagram. also realizing no one posted anything with me. alongside the negative interaction i with the girl. i found her account and realized she had been a drug dealer i had previously known. i felt embarrassed knowing that this famous girl with thousands of followers does not like me. This girl whos so socially acceptable doesnt like me and that makes me less of a person and less deserving of respect. Yet i realized maybe i shouldnt go to shows. or if i do hang with the correct people to avoid these negative interactions. People can have their opinions on you! just like u have your opinions on others. Gladly the girl threw shade to my face rather than being not fr. These interactions and insecurities cpuld be minimized if i stayed with the correct set of people at the right time. Dont worry too much about what other people think about you because at the end of the day, theyre probably not thinking of it the same way u are. Stay away from people bringing negativity. But also learn to take criticism and stay humble. Stay self aware and kind to others!!!

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

If it possible, I always try to live in peace with everyone, but if they violate my space, or repeatedly treat me badly, I forgive them and walk on/move on and leave them up to God. If they genuinely Godly repent, I’m glad to let them back in. Otherwise, I forgive them and remain kind and leave them up to God and hope they do become better people.

[@MonicaSancio]

Congrats, what a great video and tips about this necessary challenge in anything you stand for! Cheers!

[@edithguzman7277]

oh my God I'm going to use that as my status at work tomorrow "or the tribe without the trolls!" And boy do I have some trolls at my work! That was pure Gold. Thank you!

[@chadrasmussen6127]

I wouldn't care if people don't like me

[@PunkerMarth]

i have a group of "friends" and none of them get me or much less even give a shit. i feel stuck with a group of people that surround me but are not with me. none of my old "friends" don't even reach out to me anymore. i'm just walking through life just being here and that's it.

[@marthastewart2848]

I feel unwanted right now. Yesterday my friends mom was rude towards me. She tries telling me to go away she made me feel unwanted. She told me to go for a walk. I did block her I couldn't deal with her rudeness

[@janaoutloud6753]

I heard 2 kids sitting across from me, while I was busy studying Korean Alphabet. A boy next to me asked me why a ㅜ was not t. I told him why, I said "Its not a t, it just looks like that" then he asked me why it doesnt have that ㅇ that I talked about and I told him it was just for practicing vowels. Then, 1 of the 2 kids across from me, a boy that I'll just call Sam, said to a girl next to him (I'll call her Olivia) "I really don't like her" and then Olivia said "Me neither" and I was so shocked. Because I thought that they were nice! But I'm not sure if they were talking about ME, but I'm paranoid that they do. Anyways, thanks for listening, random person! Have a good day💕

[@badyogitv]

[@michaelbrantley.8628]

I don't let them get me down 👎 i just ignore them I'm a positive person this is why i definitely keep my distance away from them folks nowadays are full of hate and being so negative.

[@daniellamcdougall5165]

True go forward and stay focus

[@Jadiewady]

Oh my god that sounds like a horrible experience! Get well soon x

[@itzskyler9023]

I'm disliked by some girls at school and I want to leave school now. I've been so stressed and been wishing to kill myself but I know it will show I was weak. So now I just don't care about it. 💖 Thanks for this!

[@daniagzz3477]

ItzSkyler I don’t know what had happen in this seven months but you know the girls that hate you probably they are insecure and really do not have anything better to do you know, a girl in my school really hates me like really and that’s like the worst thing you could do to me hate me for no reason... ahh I hate it but I just know that it’s okay that if she hates me well her problem because I really don’t hate her because I don’t have time to and I know that I am better that that and so are you

[@AromieWorship]

Hope you're doing ok! I know what that's like 💖

[@kbfilms3452]

Ignore them, have you spoke to a counselor, or told your teachers, and parents? Don't let anyone bring you down.

[@ChinhLe-jm1mf]

True, like extracts like. Good likes good, evil likes evil, every one has somebody to like. I don't like any body because liking is taking advantage of each others.

[@ontologistica]

Love this!

[@NancyASMR]

This is my LIFELONG challenge. I ahve always since a little girl been very bubbly and bright. I rememeber telling my grandparents I had such a hard time when people did not like me. They explained something, I felt the love but it did not sink in. That conversation is a blur. I am 47. i work in massage therapy. I have about a 97 percent approval rate! Most people love me. However, when someone is taking advamtage or a coworker seema to want to sabotage my progess amd are beong catty my mind does not relax trying to find a way to adjust to that rejection. This is NOT an easy challenge for me.

[@khushbu1409]

I loved the tribe and trolls haha Really that’s so true, if you have done nothing wrong and they dislike you, not my problem then, it hurts but that’s ok.

[@trishakennedy409]

People dislike you I'm doing like you because I was falling down when I was small on my little brother is just treating me back 😭😭♥️

[@thesadnesspath8371]

Honestly the best thing to do along with not caring is to clap back, dont go after them, dont have a grudge against them or anything. Whenever they insult you or anything just clap back with an insult on them then im sure that theyll stop

[@bestphilippines5503]

Thanks I love this video indeed

[@malinatodorova1140]

You’re so great! I love how open you are about your vulnerability! I can imagine having a cocktail on the beach with you, such amazing energy. And thanks for the video. Keep on shining!

[@sansstories6774]

Appreciate your video about this.

[@mistam.3764]

I live in a town where more people dislike me than those that do like me... it hurts, I have a disability and people hate message me, bully me and want to see me fail. Almost 11 months sober and things seem to be getting worse

[@biggooeyyy]

ppl swear i’m pretentious or stuck up but really i’m dealing with childhood issues and i mind my business

[@humayunnasir6261]

Good lesson .

[@casey1763]

Thankyou, there was some gold nuggets in there

[@Universal035]

I've been rejected by people my whole life, I never had friendship & I am cursed from this pain. I dont know how to fix this & I cant change people from hating & rejecting me. I just got reject by two mutual online friends on Instagram. Its hard to explain & I never said anything hurtful to them to block me.

[@rudinam2409]

I kinda wanted to know how to deal with them in the moment. Specially family members that you have to stay in the same room for hours sometimes.

[@badyogitv]

Honestly, that's a life long battle. Just learning to breathe and let shit go is what I've found works best.

[@rudinam2409]

@@badyogitv I will definitely try this with them this weekend

[@Fahim_Lalani]

This video is gold sister

[@Charlotttebentley]

its just hard. ive made a crazy amount of mistakes, and sometimes i feel like i have 0 control because i always say and do the stupidest most annoying things. almost nobody likes me, does anyone have any tips for highschool when u messed up big time and nobody likes u?

[@EdonaComa-k9m]

Same just go to therapy or think positive

[@RS-ls3vy]

very good insights

[@buttonpetrelli]

omg i love u 😭🙏❤️🌞

[@whitneycomplexyoga]

2:26 Focus on Speaking to the People Who Will Get You

[@mayankbitsful]

I can't believe someone can hate a beautiful girl like you. I am a guy and I am not able to make good friends easily. I move around a lot for work and study. I don't know why people don't like me or I am not able to make friends like others. It feels that I lack some skills or don't know or do something which other people know or do? Please help me to understand how do I get to know what is the reason for this?

[@reginagordon4246]

Love your video sooo true😍

[@lyssloves9096]

BEST FEELING IS STANDING OUT!!! Wooooooooo dammmm girl you CUTE!!!

[@trishakennedy409]

But my brother he always just do that because I mean for them like when I was small when I was a baby and since then he always said traveling me I'm trying to watch and that's what you to be my friend so I can talk to you like 😭💙

[@sallyserrano]

Amazing video appreciate your video

[@badyogitv]

appreciate you being here!

[@vinnybruce2874]

I was caught a dork and a nerd because I play a lot of video games and I run into some of the guys when I was in school saying that I can't get girls because of who I am but as I grew up I look ahead and see how successful especially at work my former coworker was so nice he gave me a classic Mercedes as I kept it even though if it gets fixed soon I look at myself on how I accomplished a lot not to get bullied though I avoid getting bullied by Logic

[@ankitasahoo6524]

Really helpful video ❤

[@jaz4953]

I’m on my high school’s cheer team and I don’t like listening to the bitchy cheerleader stereotype but in my case, this stereotype is coming to life. The team is probably the most toxic group of people I’ve been around and I honestly wish I could quit but my parents spent $2,000 on this and it would be a complete waist. Half the team is spreading rumors about me, some stare at me and give me dirty looks and a few are actually my friends. I’m disliked by people I don’t even talk to. People find ways to dislike someone without even knowing them.

[@badyogitv]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I promise you, it gets better (and people get better) after. Keep those friends on the team close.

[@hickamsdictum]

Great video!

[@cheyenneplayz3090]

thanks this rellys helps every body hates me. evan my family so sad just so sad.

[@badyogitv]

Oh Cheyenne, I'm sure that isn't true! But you have a Bad Yogi family here.

[@judy5144]

Background music... I'm trying so hard to focus 😫

[@derekg5563]

What about people you dislike? What do you think of those people? Do you want them, also, to feel that it's okay not to be liked, including liked by you? Or is it more like, "I dislike them for a reason, and they ought to learn from the fact that I dislike them and learn that they should change." Let's assume it's a good reason, at least one that you would consider to be a good reason. I just wonder sometimes if we apply a certain advice to people we like or to whom we are neutral (like most of the viewers of this video probably), but would give someone we dislike different advice, like thinking, oh screw them, they ought to understand why I dislike them. There might be a perfectly legitimate reason to dislike them, and maybe they did something horrible to you or your family. On one hand, because we believe in the reason, we would want them to understand that reason, but if we were applying the normal advice to them, that would suggest that we _don't_ think they should care about our reason because we are just one person to them and they can feel that it's okay that we don't like them. Perhaps there is some way in which we can still want them to have helpful advice, so that even if we will never get along with them, we can still appreciate that they are developing healthy habits that will make them a better person, and one of those healthy habits might be not caring that you don't like them, and even if you had a good reason, not caring about that reason, and at least for pragmatic purposes, we could recognize that this might be good/right for them, even if we dislike them (and have good reason to).

[@robhingston]

A chef can make a meal that people like but some will dislike it ...

[@dooovde]

palatable* :) Thanks for the video...helped me a little

[@kristenfuller9168]

I'm dealing with issues a bit. Technically it doesn't bother that this person doesn't like me cuz I don't feel close to this person. It does hurt me a bit because he blocked me for no reason so I started not liking him at all it's because he's been lying so much to me. I met him through another friend of mine. But he's hurt that other friend he said he doesn't trust that friend but he's still hangs out with this friend. What does that mean he hangs out still with this person but he doesn't trust him. This friend I hang out with is in his 60s. The friend that hurt me is a bit younger than me. I'm not sure what to do. He knows I don't like him but he keeps coming around me and near me. So yes yesterday I ditched than because I didn't feel comfortable around the person that hurt me 😔 I was walking with them I let them went for ahead of me on purpose but they kept stopping and waiting for me so I went another way ditch them. I wasn't trying to avoid the other friend I was trying to avoid the other one that hurt me. I'm just protecting myself. I just don't understand why that friend hangs around the person that hurt my friend that doesn't trust him. I can't tell him who he and can't hang out with. That's his choice but what I did best for me is ditched them. I feel bad for ditching the friend I hang out with.

[@impatient.]

Just say- i miSseD tHe pArt wHeRe tHat's mY pRobLeM-

[@markmaximus100]

Good video! Here's a stranger who likes you :)

[@noxchochechen9793]

I learned if people trats you like they dont care.They dont really care.

[@anyoneanyone3515]

My name just annoys people. I’ve been shunned and bullied all of my life!

[@opticalman6417]

how to dealing with people who dont like you simple realize it none of your business

[@testingspalzes8632]

Me and my crush used to be in a relationship back then we broke up !! For a good reason But now he don't like me!!

[@daniellamcdougall5165]

So true

[@humandoesgaming9281]

My crush is kinda overreacting because I have a second crush and he’s saying for us to be friends even know he likes me.. he has another crush too but I don’t care 🤷🏻‍♀️ He is complaining he’s in the back seat but if he’s in the back seat, I’m in the truck.. Am I over reacting or it’s just my imagination?

[@bleepbleeep]

Imagination. I know this was a long time ago but can you re-explain your situation?

[@dianneramos8389]

Hey .. well i had a bestfriend, i really cared about her and i treated right and made her a priority ... i made her important.. i trusted her ... like she was my family... but she is popular has lots of friends ... while i dont ... well she has 2 closest friends . Me and another girl... well that other girl amd i , we didnt like eachother very much .... but we got along eventually...the other girl has a boyfriend ... but then my best friend has a crush on her boyfriend.... she told me this and like blah blah blah dont tell her... just keep in mind her other friend and me we never talk.... then one night my bestfriend messages me saying that i told her other friend that she has a crush on her boyfriend .... but i didnt ... so then i said that .... and then she says her other friend hates her now ... aswell as that shes mad at me ... so the other day at school their all fine and happy ... like bestfriends .... so then i walk up to her and say are you guys okay with eachother now ... and their reply was why would we not be okay with eachother the only problem is you... now when i heard that i froze ... i thought wait, what have i done , didnt i tell her that i didn't tell her truth , why is she mad at me .... so then i was like sorry and carried on with my day.... when i came home from my day i got tons of messages from them saying that they hate me , and that im a peice of sh*t , that i have a big mouth, i always lie .... and i dont know what to do about it ... can someone please give me advice

[@faiththislowkeyymsp9443]

I honestly am so sorry but the best way to deal with this situation is to drop your so called friends and find new ones and if you are desperate really to get them back I want you to confront them about it and how you feel. If they still treat you negatively I would really find better companions because I wouldn’t want to hang out with someone who would do me like that. It shows how they were fake. But even so you should try to find the better of the situation.

[@rue.eudoxie]

This guy in my class keeps attacking me idk but he does it inna passive aggressive way cause we barely talked since 5th grade now we’re in 9th and we had a few group projects and he keeps bringing up stuff like „nah I don’t wanna work with her did. you ever see us talk?“ and then laughing acting like I’m not even there. I’m tryna keep my cool but slowly it’s making me angry like dude just cause I dont talk that much (even tho I am quite extroverted) doesn’t mean you can treat me like that

[@Praveen_Raaj]

Most of girls I used to meet hate me... They have attitude issues with me.. lol I don't know what I hv done to them

[@leejuntian1960]

theres this girl who thinks shes the boss and shes been controlling all my friends away from me so im basically a loner bcos everyone is scared of her.

[@daniagzz3477]

leejuntian19 omg rt ahh

[@Daoriginal123]

people say if everybody likes you that’s a problem that tru?

[@snowsnow2625]

Good

[@troyhayder6986]

I definitely like you... And I didn't even watch your video...

[@Luciaimparato9390]

I think people find me mentally sick and that's why they don't want to deal with me!