娶了个美国媳妇，聊天时才发现我经常说错话。Don’t Ask An American These Questions ⁉️

[@lynettehuisinga2202]

I love that steamer for food. It looks like it makes healthier food. I also love how you discuss the differences in each other's cultures. Your meal time together looks so cozy. (Glad to see Ari is also cooking. She is also a good cook. The lunches look great) Love you both😊

[@gangshan]

你娶的Ari不但美丽。还很聪明，争取到奖学金，不借债就获得大学学位。她也善良，真善美。

[@mr.willowless6881]

哇 ！兩菜一湯for family of two, 而且是現做。令人羨慕。我一路看來，Jay 的廚藝不是一般的好！我有一位美國同事跟我說 「Food is the cement of family 」。我也期待 Ari 能或學做幾道美國人常吃的 dishes. ㊗️你們生活美好幸福 forever!

[@leungsumyu2186]

很喜歡你們2個，感覺很溫馨❤️

[@JayAri]

谢谢您的评论和支持😬

[@user-ge8mr7ep4s]

喜欢Jay and Ari 这个频道，既可以学习如何做美食又可以学习英语。我来自广西柳州，目前在印度。

[@trustonluu8005]

你俩的视频越来越专业了。不光是视频本身，你们的文本，对话，肢体语言，节奏把握，已经完全不输一些专业的生活类电视主持了我觉得。

[@revolutionpeople3616]

满满又充实的两年！祝福你们！happy two year wedding anniversary for you!!!

[@silvialam8392]

很好的topic! 終於不再只是吃喝玩樂。談一下不同文化的話題是很好的嘗試！期待你們更多的不同的分享。謝謝你們。

[@user-tp8tm9wy8v]

终于不再只是吃喝玩乐 judging much？

[@silvialam8392]

@@user-tp8tm9wy8v 請勿斷章取義。

[@whimwong5804]

Jay，可以跟 Ari 分享一下吃饭时尽量少用筷子来回翻挑菜肉，反正做的都是好吃的，直接夹哪一块都一样。

[@rabit_55]

说明不好吃

[@yickyeefung8301]

中國人有句說話叫崩口人忌崩口碗！即是盡量少说人家的短處！這是全世界都通行的！

[@thacylee4984]

Ari有顏值、有才華，娶到她，真是您的福氣！

[@albertlee8342]

In Japan, when you get new friends, surely will ask each other's age first to continue further discussions, because there are always using honorifics to respect the persons who are older/senior by youngers/junior in their society. SAN(先生)是前輩 versus KUN(君)是後輩

[@user-vo4yk6sz3g]

每个国家都有不同文化，无关好坏。例如，在中国的餐席上，对着一盘大家共享的菜乱翻乱挑也被认为是粗鲁的，尤其是有长者同在餐席上时。但西方人不会理解这点，因为他们几乎都是分餐。

[@user-ti9px9md7f]

两年的时间很长，同时又是很短。祝贺你们夫妻和谐，白头偕老。也感谢你们分享你们的快乐生活。

[@chu8486]

也應該告訴Ari，吃飯時夾菜不能翻攪挑菜

[@alvinfong6836]

哈哈哈 小时候这样做会找骂

[@robinbian7343]

哈哈哈 我也想说 小时候这么干家里大人都会批评

[@JayAri]

Jay and I eat very comfortably when it’s just him and I together :) Sometimes we mix the food to get the sauce on everything again! We don’t mind each other’s germs since we’re married haha. Jay is fine if I look more closely since he knows I don’t like pieces with chicken skin still on them. Of course I wouldn’t stir the food if we had guests eating with us!

[@6688ling]

回應Ari 的說法⋯⋯ 這并不是有沒有germ的問題，這是一個吃飯的table manners. 是一個應有的教養和class.

[@alvinfong6836]

@@6688ling 我觉的Ari 说的也对哈 在家只有俩个人就不用太讲究 自己家爱咋咋滴 外面和朋友客人吃又不一样 想想 又觉的没什么问题哈哈哈哈

[@Annie0519]

好喜歡看你們分享自己烹飪的美食，也好愛看Ari，漂亮又甜美不做作!👍

[@user-nj6fi8ov9d]

Just a friendly reminder for Ari since we are on the topic of what NOT to do, try not to search for food with your chopsticks. That is a big NO NO for Chinese. Try to use your eyes to do the searching, and try to go for those closest to you NOT on the other side of the dishes. It’s perfectly ok when you are having dinner amongst your closest partner. You can do whatever suit you both. Have a good one on your anniversary!

[@user-he3el4hf3p]

never mind, since they are only couple eating together. What you mentioned is only necessary in case of big family when they eat together.

[@JayAri]

Thank you for the anniversary wishes! Yes Jay and I eat very comfortably when it’s just him and I together :) Sometimes we mix the food to get the sauce on everything again! We don’t mind each other’s germs since we’re married haha. Jay is fine if I look more closely since he knows I don’t like pieces with chicken skin still on them. Of course I wouldn’t stir the food if we had guests or more family eating with us! ☺️

[@6688ling]

It is a very bad table manners. No class at all

[@lakwalden]

你们的Vlog很有爱很温馨很舒服，祝你们一直如此相爱、幸福。另外，喜欢你们的配乐和Ari的歌声，或许要归功于Jay的老丈人的音乐才华的遗传👍

[@tristanyong]

Happy Anniversary!

[@kyoung5600]

Here in California, you can ask people anything, CA is very liberal and open minded. If they don't like your question, they'll just lie to you and not be mad at you.

[@gslw0804]

我看著Jay的廚藝,穩健的日益精進^^

[@onioncake384]

喜欢听你们说这类话题，可以学到很多😁

[@TheHighman18]

文化不同,產生誤會一定出現.只要多溝通,問題總會有出路.其實正如Ari在7:39起,在鷄肉碟子上找東西似的左翻右找,這在中國人家庭裡便不好了.另外在吃東西前不要把筷子放進口中,然后才去筴食物也是不衛生的.切記!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@JayAri]

Jay and I eat very comfortably when it’s just him and I together :) Sometimes we mix the food to get the sauce on everything again! We don’t mind each other’s germs since we’re married haha. Jay is fine if I look more closely since he knows I don’t like pieces with chicken skin still on them. Of course I wouldn’t stir the food if we had guests eating with us! ☺️

[@lilsen6651]

@@JayAri 他想表达的意思是中国家庭大部分吃饭的时候都是团聚类，会有长辈在场。把筷子伸到食物搅拌是不礼貌的行为，代表自己的父母没有教育好。你是美国人不需要遵守这个传统规矩。因为你们吃饭时没有长辈和朋友。

[@lilsen6651]

@@TheHighman18 你跟你外国老婆吃饭你也管她翻不翻吗？按我想法，两个人私下吃饭怎么高兴怎么来。哪那么多规矩呢。

[@jjstarbugjj5896]

@@lilsen6651 这就是所传承的文化之别（不论是同族也一样），因而也造就了你我在这饮食仪态方面的价值观之差-重要与否。其实，是可以与自己的另一半沟通并聪明的引导有些‘不体面或卫生‘的餐饮行为的。

[@lionfish8740]

哈哈😆，我明白这位没有批评的意思，他只想share一个文化点，吃饭时不随意翻动饭菜，最好只夹靠近自己一边的，等等。我在日本的时候，日本人告诉我，不要把筷子插在米饭🍚上，那是给死人上供时才做的。

[@dylgwtw1]

平平淡淡的日子 简简单单的快乐

[@audiance3956]

这样的沟通很有意思。。。喜欢看你们在饭桌上聊天。超级温暖

[@rnf4914]

wow wow, happy NO.2 anniversary!!!

[@kokkarngan91]

I am watching your video for the first time and find it very interesting. Ari you are sweet and polite. As for Jay, you are extremely handsome and have a good voice. Will continue watching your video again and again. Keep up the good work.

[@Ida-zk7qv]

The song of Tofu. Ari's singing is so beautiful. 👍

[@dongtao567]

如果买大米可以去costco买一种50磅装的绿色包装的，价格应该在31-32刀，味道和亚洲米的味道一致，中国人应该吃的习惯，还有煮米饭的水不知道你们是不是用的过滤水，如果不是，不建议用自来水，因为美国大部分州的自来水卫生都严重超标，并不像新闻宣传的那样，我都是用纯净水，毕竟要吃到肚子里，还是小心一点比较好，祝周年快乐，一切顺心，很高兴看到Ari和Jay的笑容！

[@user-ds8ic5ox7l]

啥，我都直接接自来水喝的

[@dongtao567]

@@user-ds8ic5ox7l 你都不看新闻的吗，大部分州的自来水污染严重😅

[@dongtao567]

@@user-ds8ic5ox7l 水有没有问题不知道，但是你生病必须要经过昂贵的医疗系统来治疗，为国家产生经济效益是真的

[@tonyw2167]

I love your “Tofu song”, Ari, what a talented song writer😂

[@guangxidavidliu]

Time flies when you are having fun.

[@藝術開開門]

手藝真的太好了，其實都是犯錯中學習的😊

[@achenhsulin7272]

Jay和Ari 你們倆煮的家常菜做的很不錯。我很enjoy 看你們的KZbin 影片。非常棒。你們非常Perfect couple

[@jerometsowinghuen]

That's an interesting video to learn the communication culture in America, so I think Mr Jay has learnt a lesson about it, when communicating with you, Miss Ari.

[@ZKZ123]

All we see so far is Jay cooking and Ari eating, that’s fine, but when can we see Ari cook Jay dinner?

[@sauravlahiry6951]

hi sis and bro, both of u are our next Mark Weins.definitely

[@billng6526]

I have been watching you guys videos all the way, it’s great to see you too living happily with all other relatives too. Just wish the pandemic be over soon and peace on earth. By the way, I can’t help by saying you guys are heavenly made couple. Again, Ari has a great voice, more songs when you’re free.

[@chatsneuf4039]

We were told about the age thing at the very beginning when we started learning English. So I was so surprised so many people asked my age when I traveled abroad including by Americans

[@johnyankee6999]

@ Lorrie Duke good job, man.

[@peterwilliams7335]

Wow l love to watch your lovely vlogs not only because you are a adorable couple but also to learn some cooking tips and recipes of Chinese dishes from Jay.

[@wwy3999]

祝你們白頭偕老，早生貴子。

[@guozhonggu3948]

结婚两周年快乐！

[@richies7977]

先赞后看

[@binlin97]

做锅塌豆腐时应该先把豆腐片裹面粉再裹鸡蛋液，然后下锅煎。Jay 裹的顺序反了。

[@UpkingTrumpet88]

Jay, where’d you learn cooking? It seems like you’re really good at it! Your food looked delicious!! 👍😋

[@gangshan]

发觉你烹饪的剪接很简洁，像很好的烹饪节目。

[@humblediy]

I've just tried making the pan-fried Tofu with your sauce recipe. It worked. Thanks Jay.

[@wahkinchu1794]

你俩的视频不错既有趣又能够学到英文。好极了，我喜欢。小俩囗很般配。一个帅、一个漂亮。Jay应该在餐馆学过炒菜，否则怎么会做出这么多美味佳肴呢：

[@apolopro5599]

这一期除了做饭吃饭，也学到了文化，很好耶👍

[@SuperChy2]

关于可以和不可以的话题，有一个餐桌礼仪，不可以不断翻找食物哦，就像片里Ari 那样😅

[@hueirushih2179]

需要多點理解，他兩開心最重要,也可以拍下個題材！

[@hiroipip]

thats so true lol

[@pipwu4719]

我觉得很正常呢，在家里和伴侣会随意一点，但和别人吃饭的时候肯定不会，因为通常都会有公用的餐具（公筷、公勺等）

[@UpkingTrumpet88]

Jay speaks not bad English at all consider you’re coming from China. Where’d you learn your English? You just need to pick up more vocabs and their slangs so that you’re easily blend in their culture and conversations. I believe since you married an American wife and you get to speak English with her all the days of your life, you’ll be able to speak fluently with no problems!

[@gangxia8206]

I like the translation at 7:33 particularly🤣Now I can't stop imagining how Ari proposed to Jay😂

[@paulwong1413]

Wishing Ari and Jay a very happy anniversary! 💖💫🥂🌈

[@junwang4792]

做个简单的煲仔饭也不错，少油烟，味道足，一锅端，

[@HCsailingon]

Interesting how in the US personal facts are considered more private and sensitive, while in China (and a lot of other Asian countries I suppose) family facts are more private and sensitive. Never thought about it this way until you guys point it out. But it totally makes sense.

[@glee88888]

chinese table manner tip # 1, do not use your chopsticks searching for food. ari was searching for a good piece of chicken. ask jay he knows. great video

[@marklin6245]

你们好吃米饭的时候要端着碗吃中国的礼节晚安🌙

[@janelove8683]

Happy Anniversary! 结婚纪念日快乐！

[@DucaTech]

Hey Jay, are you from Sichuan? So much peppers in your cooking.

[@jjstarbugjj5896]

两个小盆友越吃越变得脸圆圆了，超极可爱像对KongFu Pandas了！哈哈哈~

[@austinzz8240]

太没礼貌了

[@jjstarbugjj5896]

@@austinzz8240 你也很可爱喔～ 😁

[@jasonhu4369]

thanks for the sharing. if possible, pls make some vedios about your working conditions. i mean how the america schools going.

[@user-bh4lp7qz9o]

关键点 == make or break I learn some thing new every time I watch your videos. thanks

[@nocina1]

7:32那中文是錯誤的.正確的是你娶ARI或者你和ARI結婚.但字幕顯示"在我嫁給ARI之后"這是語法上的錯誤.除非你是入贅(就算是入贅也不可輕用.男方嫁入女方家.因為那是貶義詞.含羞辱的意思)....可能是使用自動翻譯顯示字幕軟體.但還是要校正一下.

[@nocina1]

@@robustashorea4586 對一般人或許如此.但是JAY和ARI分別為中文老師和英文老師.在正確文法使用上更應嚴謹.因為會起到示範作用.若因軟體錯誤而造成誤解.就太不值得了.

[@nathalielink3869]

如果你们两个生活在中国 你就会是那个更懂得交流的人 而Ari就要适应当地的文化和习俗啦 这很正常 她从小在美国长大 当然更了解这里的文化

[@cuibin1636]

我来自河南省周口市。thank you for sharing

[@dolphinyyl]

就喜欢看你媳妇这种吃中餐很没世面的感觉，嘿嘿 ：）

[@xiaoxingwang4455]

每次看你们的视频我都会感慨就算是美国也不是同一个美国，我从来没在美国的中南部生活过，我经常会想，可能这才是所谓的”真正的“别人眼中的美国吧。。。

[@carolineli9210]

哈哈也录一集Ari做饭的哈哈好想看。

[@samwu9630]

可爱的小夫妻！懂美食

[@cnexpat1009]

Hey! 😃 that 'tofu snow party' song is catchey!

[@XAOHEO]

喜欢Ari和她的家人们，，

[@cofrancis4982]

It is a good channel for me to improve my English!

[@user-gu7fz1wi5u]

小建议：拍摄时光线打亮点，效果更好。

[@hikahala1239]

U r a beautiful couple!

[@williammaciel6133]

先点赞 ，可您二位要记得 用餐时另一只手要扶着碗哦 。

[@midwestheartz]

we love your videos. i would also love to try this speak only chinese for 24 hours challenge! my Chinese husband is not motivated to try lol. great observations about cultural differences i noticed this too. i grew up as a child around south Asian people and i think its just cultural to say out loud someone's appearance sometimes. its not so much a malicious thing as more a caring health observation my husband tells me. its just hard to stomach sometimes, the worst was when my Chinese mother in law commented that i was too bloated after having my first baby. i was like, Of Course i am! i just pushed out a whole human lol! sometimes people just dont think before talking too lol

[@dengchaojin4872]

我也好想娶个Ari这样的老婆

[@solfullnomad8058]

Awesome VLOG! Enjoyed the cooking and sharing from the video hehehe. also, I was wondering what software/program do you all use to have the EN & CHN subtitles show up so clearly on your videos? Cheers! Duoxie :)

[@chufang50]

Good topic!👍Good food!😋Good couple!🥰

[@jaytso1883]

Like 👍 your mixing in "instructional cooking" format into the vlogs of your channel .

[@YouTubeNoFreedom]

平安，注意疫情！

[@SK-no7yg]

美国疫情已经过了吧……

[@YouTubeNoFreedom]

@@SK-no7yg 是過頭了，能死的都死得差不多了-_-||

[@WZ977]

杰，海天盐焗鸡粉做手撕鸡很棒，可以在国内买

[@limkl4654]

Happy anniversary 🎉🎉

[@lukehall6167]

always a happy couple!

[@jerry7455]

头一次觉得Jay好帅哈哈哈哈，看了那么多期视频都没发现这一点

[@rosemaryskeen9670]

Happy Anniversary 💐🎉!

[@fairytale7778]

fun fact, maybe obesity is a common problem in the US, not tall enough is a common problem in China. That is why American are sensitive to talk about weight, Chinese are sensitive to talk about height 😄

[@zackwang9314]

the younger generation in China right now is very tall

[@gl5677]

@@zackwang9314 Yes，that's true.

[@6688ling]

Very true. 在美國胖子被歧視，找工作或租房子, 尤其是找你的另一半, 所以經常發現胖子的配偶也是胖子。華人對身高蠻計較，特別是男生

[@donchen162]

今天是星期天，二周年快乐！

[@whitesnake6970]

Beautiful couple 💑

[@user-pq6rq8rv5y]

Ari漂亮而可爱

[@chenyungsun9959]

入乡随俗，谢谢分享

[@waynepan6905]

年轻就是好,吃啥都行

[@sarahjames6257]

Seriously, when are you guys going to make a channel dedicated to Jay's cooking?

[@6688ling]

終於看到你們吃健康食物, 但是注意要吃brown rice. 白米含糖量髙·

[@lishengguang]

哇哦，秀恩爱，太好了

[@vanvaniou]

Jay這次做的豆腐和手撕雞很吸引，我會照你的做法自己做一次，希望可以做得跟你一樣好吃

[@freedempire]

在中国文化里吃饭时不要用筷子把菜拨来拨去🤭

[@joshuawang9401]

That is absolutely right,we can ask about height ,weight and salary,but never ask a person about his/her family story, even u r rly close to him/her.

[@horselittle1133]

好男人！

[@engh3757]

I am Chinese and I don't like to answer these questions when I am asked by other people because it is my personal information and I don't want to tell others. It is true that in China there will be a part of the population that will get used to asking personal questions, but it is really something that should not be asked.

[@aisensif5731]

封面图真可爱