Queen Nandi ON getting back with her husband and making it work again

[@juliamaloka70]

Thank you @promise for inviting @Queen Nandi, I used to dislike her based on my own narrative but wow, this interview has changed my narrative, I respect her, what a smart woman she is, so much wisdom from her, she is in her right calling. Thank you once again, @Queen Nandi, I give you your flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺

[@treasureatuhaire]

Mhaaannn...she's dropping it like its hot! I don't know what those of you who think she's dilulu are hearing, and I respect your perspective, but she's dropping wisdom. I think anyone that has experienced the reality of marriage can relate and agree with most of what she's saying.

[@DataService-e6o]

One thing you will not do is judging women for leaving their husbands. Just because yall okay with being made didom go sharp, but you will not judge women for leaving their toxic marriges

[@nomak2971]

In a marriage people must do what works for them 😌

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

Yayibona

[@dipuomangope8424]

People have issues with Nandi having six kids. Our priorities are different; you want 2 kids, which is your choice, and she wants 6 kids, which is her choice. Judge Nandi all you want, but if you haven't walked a mile in her shoes, then respect her views on life. You chose to walk away from your marriage; well done to you. She chose to fight for her marriage good for her. Be happy with your choices, and let others be happy with their choices too.

[@Noluteequeencess]

Hhayi kabi neh, but there's a part in the beginning @5:33 where she says people experience abuse and then just leave... Uhm i'm sorry but that's bad advice. If you're being abused, then absolutely, you should leave. I get the point that marriage is work and you should'nt be too quick to throw in the towel, however, you can't be 15yrs married and give such advice in South Africa with our GBV statistics. Women stay in abusive relationships with that mentality and then end up in a coffin. Abuse in any form should not be tolerated. ♥

[@bridgetmothomoholo4514]

Thank you❤

[@Noluteequeencess]

@@bridgetmothomoholo4514 Imagine being a mbokodo in 2024🥲

[@bridgetmothomoholo4514]

@@Noluteequeencessit can never be me

[@carolcarrots4932]

I heard this too and came straight to the comments! Terrible advice that could lead to people being killed and suffering from illnesses all in the name of “holding on”. It truly shocked me how she just nonchalantly said that.

[@Lungelo911]

Typical toxic mam fundisi behaviour. Telling abused women to stay in abusive marriages. Very on brand

[@tumibaloyi2915]

Also, check Nandi and Mfundisi out on Mo and Phindi podcast for more context. Brave lady this one. God bless your union and family.

[@NoloM-de4zh]

That episode really changed my perspective about her hey❤

[@tumibaloyi2915]

@NoloM-de4zh right! The importance of telling your own stories yourself otherwise you will be misrepresented.

[@nompiloangelmakamo5414]

Will do, thank you.

[@zandilezwane5401]

This was beautiful I don't like this lady I feel she is too controversial but let me tell you this she is very smart and open minded I thoroughly enjoyed this interview

[@ThuliswaBhalangile-zc3pm]

We haven't talked about Nandi's beauty. She's 💯👌 beautiful.

[@mpumelelontombela589]

I love that shes always dressed respectfully, shes a real Mam Mfundisi, she was just trying to protect her man.

[@mbalyie8766]

She might look respectful but her mouth is loose...

[@LuyandaMzomba]

@@mpumelelontombela589 real Mam Mfusi with a vile mouth🙀🙀🙀with a nose ring and a tongue ring 😂😂😂hay wethu

[@tholiweshinny4768]

Wow Nandi plz take ur 💐 usaphila.. I have learnt a lot from this podcast..Thank you Promise for inviting her🎉😊

[@urshieurshie5808]

When people think they know lifes challenges and yet are empty empty empty, I just saw two blind sheep leading each other astray. But we forgive them. Listening being told about arguments over light bulbs in marriage and what what 🤔. To us woman who've been in it deep, deeper, deepest we look away and just utter the words LIFE WILL HUMBLE YOU....Kudos to us who left with no plan B, but God still had and has our back.

[@Purple_Ambience]

Proud of you stranger!❤❤❤

[@lekolanetheministry8789]

Like this is Soo much wisdom. So respectful and building. I'm in tears

[@BongyKhumalo]

Now im convinced that u Nandi is dilulu straight... waphika no Nandi uzosala ezindabeni wedwa

[@kesegokgagodi4425]

“Marriage is like the 4 seasons. You don’t treat summer like you treat winter. You don’t leave for another country just because it’s winter here.”🔥🔥🔥noted! Beautiful episode, thank you Promise. ♥️

[@katlegokhwinana530]

If u choose to have 6 kids, get ready for anything.. Even raising them alone.. I always say u should have the number of kids u r willing to raise alone if God forbid one partner dies or leaves

[@Purple_Ambience]

Yup!You should have as many kids you’re willing to take care of alone!marriage, connections and men are unpredictable!

[@DuduM27]

Nandi is a wise woman❤

[@langabi408]

I misjudged this woman based on clips I saw nje in passing (didn’t watch the reality show). But I must say, I enjoyed her perspective on marriage, might not fully agree with some of her views but she’s interesting. Wishing her & her family longevity 😘

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

"What's cheating? What were you cheated of?" Hectic💀😂married women le sebete hle

[@bridgetmothomoholo4514]

😂😂😂😂

[@Estell-o3t]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mgozi101]

Wena!!!😂😂😂😂ke kgathetse matla

[@nwabisapbodlo3246]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LangelihleNgema]

Yho when she said that I laughed out loud🤣🤣🤣people have got hearts like stones.

[@mslettiemathibe71]

I love this lady. I just love her ❤ may God bless her and her family. You are amazing Queen Nandi

[@lelemahapa2235]

I would like to meet Queen Nandi one day. Can someone help me. She is sooo mature like fine wine. She talk a lot of sense that I can relate. Wish her nothing but the best ❤❤

[@esamnkukwana643]

Conversations like these, as in the one I heard today 🤐 ay bethuna, I'll say just this after struggling to finish this interview just because some one is aliquant doesn't mean thay are wise, but then again there is wisdom of this world and the is Wisdom depends which one we know and want and after listening to this particular conversation the errors yo but each to their own❤❤❤❤❤.

[@kamogelothamaga5751]

Love this comment ❤️

[@Purple_Ambience]

Absolutely, my thoughts exactly!

[@ExpatlivingwithKB]

Did this lady just say if you leave when someone is not making you happy or abusing you then you have a spirit that you need to pray for? Is she insinuating that people stay when they are not happy or being abused?

[@NtandokaziMahlaba]

Delulu this one

[@roslynramothwala8754]

Top tier is when she said u stay for the kids, meaning her mental well-being can be compromised as long as her kids have 2 unhappy parents in 1 house 😅

[@kgaokgao595]

The audacity can u imagine. Ladies need to live themselves life comes once hlee

[@Mystry_mo]

Vagabond spirit she says yhoooo

[@LuluthandoNongalo]

Thank you for this episode with theee Queen Nandi😘😘this episode totally enforced more on the values and principles I have. I hope to come and share my family dynamic soon ❤️

[@vuyooglebethunana]

My granny had 13 kids...she raised them and most of her grandkids.... Her capacity to love was that large. So for me it is always according to one's capacity to raise children in love and God's providence

[@Prism446]

Queen Nandi's kids look healthy & clean .I only dislike people who have babies & fail to nurture them

[@nompumelelobuthelezi7949]

I have 4 kids and people are always complaining about me having too many kids,I just love you Nandi❤❤

[@rebirthed4674]

To those who keep talking about how this lady has so much wisdom. I just want to remind you that just because someone is on a podcast and they speak eloquently, doesn’t mean they are wise. I’m sorry but this woman is not wise, if she was, she would not have divulged so much about her husband on a public platform in his absence. I really hope that she reflects and changes her ways.

[@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369]

Preach❤

[@khanyisilemathebula6582]

The comment I’ve been looking for. I also don’t think she is wise, there’s nothing wise about what she spoke about. Anyway im not married so let me be quiet 🤐

[@Vv-fl2rm]

Wisdom according to broken women is putting up with nonsense from underserving men in marriage while convincing yourself that you are happy and content with that

[@eaglettethobejane2768]

@@Vv-fl2rm HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!

[@lihavileah3054]

facts,facts,facts saying that people leave marriage because of abuse,wueh! the worst advice I've ever heard in my entire 32 years of living.she's not wise because I don't want to use strong words like foolish and stupid

[@SindiswaFani-y9t]

The biggest problem that Nandi has is that of thinking she alone can change the constitution of the Methodist church and she is not doing it right when she goes to the social media and talk bad about Methodist church,they have women's conferences where changes are being discussed as the Reverend wife she has a more stronger word there

[@ludwe7857]

This could be a bad interpretation but my take away from this episode is that delulu is indeed the solulu hey😭😅

[@Thandi899]

kuningi🤣😂😂

[@florahgaboipofemokgaotsi4543]

Stru😂

[@Lungelo911]

I'm 20 mins in and I agree 🤣🤣🤣

[@Lungelo911]

I'm 20 mins in and I agree 🤣🤣🤣

[@nonkumonkoe]

I hear you 😅😅😅 she’s on a league of her own

[@abigailmolusi]

"Embracing fertility" is a wild thing to say given this world is where they they gonna live.

[@NcedoMabandlela]

Queen Nandi screaming wisdom and resilience ❤❤ Thank you Promise for having her 🙏

[@gugumzila7581]

Love this❤ Enjoyed this Episode

[@nkhen_c357]

where does the Bible that says Jezabel was sleeping around? She was a bad influence to her husband and devious. You cant glorify a woman who makes people hate her husband despise him because of her devious ways

[@Queendollar83]

Watching this made realize I will NEVER be wife material !!

[@Noluteequeencess]

@@Queendollar83 bruh! Mbokodo mentality… I learnt something today… Just because you’ve been married for 15yrs, it clearly doesn’t mean you qualify to give good advice… but she was sharing her experience. I’ve been married 8 years and even I am shocked about this advice 😂😂😂

[@bridgetmothomoholo4514]

I don’t see myself getting married 😢😂

[@bridgetmothomoholo4514]

I don’t see myself getting married 😢😂

[@Lungelo911]

You will, you will marriage material for YOUR husband. There are great marriages out there. Not these podcast marriages of being a mbokodo 🤣

[@nwabisapbodlo3246]

Not podcast marriages 🤣🤣🤣

[@mahlodiqm298]

Don’t have many babies that you cannot take care of alone should things go left. This is why she is forced to stay. I also wouldn’t want to take care of 6 children alone.

[@iluma-nathimntase3037]

That's crazy.

[@pamelammasanabo7277]

Wow! This was a very, very relaxing conversation. As a person who loves truth, honesty, and authenticity. I love it👌

[@violetmmakatjile9906]

I feel like the guest really filled Promise's cup❤

[@connymontsho]

😂thought so too.

[@maletlotlomirriam5640]

Nandi, u are the best, and please keep on giving women the wisdom that u have wat a informative broadcast I heard from u......

[@NalediRadiile]

We are the creators if our own lives, power of the tongue, Nandi has spoken what she wants and it will turn out exactly like that, I like her positive energy with everything

[@ThandiMakena]

Queen Nandi lv her. On my favourite podcast. Lv lv Mrs Makunyane❤

[@nolusindisomshumpela7183]

Promise I love Nandi.plz get Nozipho.

[@palesamhlambi8478]

Please ❤

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

Thank you for watching this podcast live

[@Miss_Greatness]

First time seeing Queen Nandi and I’m in love with her❤️

[@lavisambolekwa8360]

This woman is a powerhouse ❤

[@luckyradebe441]

OMG... what an interesting interview or chatt or conversation... please Nandi write a book. hope you are working one or if not consider doing it. you have so much content Madam. Promise 🥰 thank you so much for this. this was very deep and spiritual hope you grasped the what she said... well I think you did though for the fact that you brought her into your space kudos to you.🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thank you. an hour well spend.

[@emilymashila1263]

Thanks very much for sharing these beautiful words of wisdom Queen Nandi. I learnt a lot from this podcast.

[@Nthabeleng507]

You see these are ppl who were called for marriage. I wish to pray for marriage and ask God to make me ready and called for it. This woman just changed my perspective

[@ncumisamtukuse3091]

I will always say l love you Nandi.....you will never be understood by many... it's because of the person you are. Wisdom there

[@AbigailMelemo]

Queen Nandii wow❤❤ Well done Promise ❤ gained a lot of wisdom ❤

[@connymontsho]

Don't tell a husband how to be husband. But be his mother.Hai guys 😂😂😂😂 yhooo nna ke sharp.

[@eaglettethobejane2768]

BASICALLY, DELUSION IS THE ONLY SOLUTION TO A LONG-LASTING MARRIAGE, GOT IT!🤪

[@connymontsho]

Yep.and am separation for 2 years nòw cos i choose not sacrifice myself like that just to keep the Mrs tittle.😂😂😂😂 It can never be me.Maybe am jot meant for it.😊

[@namisazulu1372]

Queen Nandi is delusional. It's very interesting to watch 😂😂

[@Lungelo911]

"Men are like kids, you must mother them" so you submit to a child? You are being led by a child? Lol ai

[@namisazulu1372]

😂😂😂

[@nwabisapbodlo3246]

😂😂😂😂 stop!

[@lebogangmncwabe8886]

The contradictions

[@ludwe7857]

@@lebogangmncwabe8886when it’s contracting uthi “it’s a tango”😭🤣

[@MatshelisoJeff]

Imagine and everyone is busy wisdom wisdom ya Eng

[@rejoicedongonda2060]

Today i watched her with a different perspective and i learnt a few things ..she has her wrongs BUT her character is strong .. like she knows what she wants

[@NtombikayiseDlamini-z7h]

Thank you ladies i enjoyed and learned alot❤

[@sisLydiaM]

Woooow Nandie, i love u even more...i am woowed by this interview

[@DataService-e6o]

This episode was delulu explained💀

[@FlorenceMtsweni]

Bruh 😭😭😭

[@Businesscentre-r4h]

Nnandi is Blessed. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@thandibaloyi4411]

Listening to Nandi on birthing kids, love and submission just realized how selective we are sometimes. All that it's in the Bible just that we are worldly where the Bible is looked at as outdated and that's where life is. If we can go back to basics lots of the problems we facing will disappear. If stealing is a sin and one will be judged by God, even slandering or sexual immorality should be a sin.(there are lots) Promise on kids she's at what we are programmed to believe. I'm not saying I'm better, just learning and finding my way to Christ.

[@dipuomangope8424]

I agree with you

[@sabsmazula9295]

Queen Nandi u said it all. Women amadla👊👊👊❤

[@nelzg5819]

Beautiful . this was worth watching. ❤❤❤

[@TenjiswaSibeko]

Nandi is very wise hlee❤

[@nenesibanda4171]

You look so gorgeous Promise🎉

[@rams7932]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Love it love it. I wish many women can listen

[@katebimbito3009]

Nandi is the president ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@DiseboMtsweni]

Keep it up promise I love such conversations outs outside the social expectations

[@blackorkid4285]

This woman still has alot of growing to do. She hasn't quite grasped the calling being a wife. Yes she dropped some few gems here and there but you can hear the level of matrimonial maturity has not quite blossomed. 15 years in marriage but then again they got married quite young. I do however wish them well

[@nosiphosomniso7533]

You can't be powerful if you are sleeping around..so powerful. Ladies, close your legs.

[@kgaokgao595]

But tolerating a cheating man can get u HIV so gwa swana mose

[@jmp4660]

Great and good conversation, ladies

[@karabomasufi304]

The wisdom that is #Queen Nandi❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@aphiwemqomboti]

Truly love what Nandi is saying. Our parents messed us up by divorcing for petty fights. Some like mine to remarry later

[@silindilebongiwemakhaza]

She is very selfish to still want to bring more children in this situation, You cannot bring God to stupidity, you cant bring children to suffer or to fulfill your selfish desires. The well being of the children plays a huge part in who they become.

[@kamogelothamaga5751]

Right???😂😂😂 yoh I’m bored

[@amymccarthy9731]

Joh. Im so confused by this episode.... JOH JOH. Was this to educate Us or What. Guys dont come for me please. Its a Real question...

[@auxanogracie86]

It was just to pass time.

[@ZoeJack451]

Ikhona imfundiso engaphuma ku Nandipha

[@No-AlphaMnyali]

@@ZoeJack451 undibethela ntoni emlonyeni?

[@Bobav23]

It was to validate their own stupidity and delusions

[@trustingnobody628]

In her wisdom that you see commentors, the fear I'm nursing is to hear her saying that she is going to fight bad practices in the Methodist Church she is a member of. Nandi must know that Jesus Christ, our Saviour was and is still not mad in advising us to leave the wheat and the tares to grow together because sifting will take place on the judgment day.

[@wespeakthetruthhere7413]

Kids require money, time and attention. The level of attention each kid requires varies with personality and behaviour. I trust that I’d be able to do right by all 6 kids, somewhere it’s bound to lack.

[@bongythwala9840]

Very true

[@katlegokhwinana530]

It seems she want to remake keeping up with the kardashians by reacting Chris Jenner..

[@tselanemolatsa8919]

Mosadi ya matla/bohlale ohaha lelapa lahae,empa ya sethoto ya buwelang futhi Wa lediya..sometimes silence is golden.

[@joynthabiseng6396]

didnt learn anything here today...

[@TheNarrator1989]

Start a KZbin channel Nandi

[@thathappened2009]

Promise, you didnt give this interview your best. You werent the usual Promise. But thanks for bringing us the beautiful Nandi

[@MatshelisoJeff]

Exactly it was all over the place she answered questions okare ke some PR stunt Hai ngeke

[@bongythwala9840]

Uyambona wenziwa ileWishiwishi akuyo

[@pfulu]

They were sitting like 8 years olds , both Nostalgic 😅

[@VuyolwethuKondlo]

I think she was intimidated by nandi cz there was a point I felt like nandi was the one who was bng the interviewer.

[@ellahnokane4536]

I love her👌🏼

[@Winterflowers1]

Promise saying she has the leaving spirit 😂

[@Ithabeleng_Kopo]

She lied 😂😂😂

[@mabathomosekeli]

​@@Ithabeleng_Kopo 😂😂😂

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

😂😂😂

[@hazelmafuya5996]

She speak very well❤ I love her

[@reginamotse905]

🎉🎉 I wish many Woman can listen ❤❤❤❤

[@jayak8217]

Pick me! Love me! Choose me! The scream I screamt as I was listening to this. As a former pick me I was super triggered. Never again.

[@nzukieyekani3617]

Im watching &subscribed

[@mawandelulu838]

Welcome to the family🥂

[@khanyisamaluleke6399]

Im not a wife nor planning to get married but this was a refreshing conversation

[@aphiwemqomboti]

Nandi such a wise woman ❤

[@pelopitision]

💖💗💓💓💖💗💕💓💖💗💕💓🥳🎊🎉🥳🎊🎉💓💕💗💖💓💕💗💖💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐 Thank you so much for this content. Beautiful and Wise women sharing knowledge, wisdom and experiences. #WomenRpowerful

[@ngakarepokahiya7812]

I learnt a lot ❤❤❤❤

[@babalwagusha8391]

😂😂@ Tango ke tsha tsha tsha 😂❤

[@boitumelomojela9174]

Gate what were you cheated of...nyaa ruri go raa gore rona re basadi ka phoso because wow 😂

[@Christisthestandard]

Loved this ❤

[@CheifCheif-s9l]

Nandi is a pragmatist she's so real

[@NtsakoNhlamulo]

These women eeeh 😂😂😂😂 I'm happy for you 😊😊

[@LuyandaMzomba]

Very funny how Nandipha came up with all the churches affairs n wanted to fight for other families including hers only after they were told that her husband’s term ended

[@beautyntshangase2742]

So true marriage is under spiritual attach that's what we don't realize

[@matumelotaole4745]

A person who's got 6 kids is telling me to close my legs tjooo nna never

[@lutendoprudance3505]

She meant closing ur legs to different kinds of man, not ur husband haibo

[@leratomokatse2276]

Not to your hubby she mean to every Tom, Dick n Harry chomi.....o sa tsamaya o fa mang le mang

[@dipuomangope8424]

The difference would be she is married and you might not be married.

[@kgaokgao595]

​@@dipuomangope8424married or not we all have sex n I love the fact that the process is the same

[@malvysenosha]

Queen nandi❤❤❤❤❤

[@Lovyours]

❤❤❤