Questions for Parents of Trans Kids… full episode ➡️

[@fiveyew84273]

The “decided to be trans” was always something I was against. I like saying, “I realized I was trans”

[@VeondreMitchell]

Right!!! It implies that I was never a girl…

[@kl4wz_]

@@VeondreMitchell if u were born a male and u later transitioned then u were never a girl, it is most definitely a choice, u are choosing to become a woman

[@Scifi4life]

​@Ve’ondre Mitchell your father wasn't in your life was he?

[@Scifi4life]

​@@VeondreMitchell weren't you born a boy? If so, yes you never were a girl and you never will be one

[@toast_69sus]

​@@Scifi4life Just leave her alone

[@AndrewJW]

Imagine asking another parent about their child's sexuality and genitals?

[@tommie1199]

Unfortunately Some Parents Do 😬

[@Shuramaru]

Damn. I am so sorry you'd get mad when someone worries for you or even remotely get curious into knowing you better. That must be very traumatic. I take it you don't like yourself in general right?

[@LynFlopp3d]

​@@Shuramarugetting to know someone better isnt asking whod they have sx with and what reproductive organ you have. Thats weird.

[@UmbrellaCorporationFiredMe]

@@Shuramaru “hey what’s in your (insert relative)’s pants? It’s my business btw.”

[@Itsdasummer32]

Fr

[@Ant0nAL0g]

When I was out as a minor, my mom’s dental hygienist would ask the most inappropriate and invasive questions about me, including questions about my genitals when I was a fucking child. People think just bc we’re trans, that they are somehow entitled to our bodies and stories, it just pretty exhausting after a while. It feels like we are not viewed as human. Though, I am glad some trans people, like Veondre, can be so open and willing to deal with the general public. That takes a lot of mental fortitude.

[@DumpsterJuice599]

Exactly, imagine if a cis female was getting asked questions about her vägíṉâ by a cis male, people would go crazy about how invasive that is while Trans people go through it regularly. Just because someone is trans doesn’t mean you are entitled to know about they’re private areas. 💀

[@symoneprice798]

Well as a doctor who is into morbid, scientific, and anatomy things, they probably asked out of intellectual curiosity, not some weird stuff.

[@symoneprice798]

@@everlastingbloom7057 oils you imagine if a health care professional couldn’t ask invasive and personals questions? What if they’re asking about this to asses your mental health? My point is their health care professionals, they ask things for reasons we have no clue about. I could kind of understand if it’s some random person but it’s not. We pay these people to be as invasive as possible. The more invasive the more thorough. I mean, come on.

[@Shuramaru]

Well, I know I'd be curious on why you decided to huh... Not read on the problems that were associated to hormone imbalance within an organism that quite literally functions on carefully dosed amount of it. I hope you are rich, You are gonna NEED that later on.

[@LynFlopp3d]

​@@symoneprice798thats a dentist tho.

[@ladyred5468]

It’s so creepy to me that people ask if trans people are getting surgery. it’s even worse that half the time that they ask they’re usually asking literal children/underage teens.

[@Meisuki]

And then they say WE'RE creeping on kids .-.

[@H3R01N_G1RL]

@@Meisuki SRSLY. EVEN WHEN UR LITERALLY A TWEEN

[@Meisuki]

@@H3R01N_G1RL Yeah, I'm well of age now, but being out as trans while still in highschool got real uncomfortable real fast. No one should be asking a random minor about their genitals, whether you're another child or an adult. It feels like basic respect just goes straight out the window when everyone knows you're trans.

[@H3R01N_G1RL]

@@Meisuki yes! whenever i told (most of) my friends im trans, they always said, "do you have a thingy?" why does it matter!??🥲

[@biancamendozasanchez9250]

its also so creepy how adults are basically forcing children to ruin their bodies just because they are "confused' and talking abt sexuality at school and thinking drag queens are for kids

[@LynkynPeppers]

The question my mother always gets asked is "are you okay with that?" Like what fuckin question is that

[@symoneprice798]

That’s a valid question. How is that not relevant?

[@LynkynPeppers]

@@symoneprice798 how is that a valid question? What does it matter if she's okay with it it's my life and it's who I am, if your parents don't support you for who you are they don't need to be in your life so I don't see how that's a valid question, your parents should support you and who you are

[@symoneprice798]

@@LynkynPeppers you parents should definitely support you, I agree (that doesn’t mean agree and condone tho). That’s irrelevant here tho. A third party asking about your feelings on your son/daughter’s transition is just like any other question. It doesn’t imply or signal anything. To you, the ANSWER might be inconsequential to your life, but THAT QUESTION IS NOT ABOUT YOU, and rather about your mothers feelings. You feel it’s invalid because you centered the question around the relevance of YOUR feelings. Just fyi, how your mother feels matters to some people, completely outside of what goes on in your life and mind.

[@Shuramaru]

@@LynkynPeppers Kids, They don't tell you that but you will never accomplish your dreams because of severe medical complications, joint problems, heart problems, and the inability to bring another life to this world. You will be stuck with a rent that leaves you already hungry and you'll still have to buy hormone balancing drugs in order, not to heal you, but to prevent the active problems from getting even worse. This means that you will either pay or die from a heart attack, be in too much pain to walk and have difficulty just existing without this drug which, I emphasize that you will have no choice but to buy at 2k every months. No travels, no buying yourself cool shit, all that money is going straight to preventing you from being, homeless, aggravating your, then, hormone related problems and food. You won't be able to buy yourself a dog, too expensive. Half of whatever free time you have left will go to medical check ups. You will be prone to severe depression due to hormone imbalance affecting the release of chemical that causes you to feel emotions and you won't be able to transition back because the detransition surgery costs nearly 200,000$ The previously very supporting community that fueled that desire will shun you as, in your unhappiness, you are no longer supporting their narrative. Do you still want to proceed? Yeah sure, sign that contract. It's not like your parents, who succeeded in life, who managed to build themselves a good life, somehow might know a thing or two about what not being reckless is.

[@BaphometsFavoriteB1tch]

“When did you decide to be trans/nonbinary/ genderqueer/other?” Me: “When did you decide to be born?” Being the gender that you are isn’t something that you decide. It’s something that just IS. ❤

[@Shuramaru]

Listen, I get you want to be spiritual and shit but there is no gay gene, there is no trans gene, no nonbinary gene either. This means it stems from experience as we grow.

[@BaphometsFavoriteB1tch]

@@Shuramaru Actually I’m a satanist 😨 Being trans, genderqueer, nonbinary, all that, isn’t a choice. It’s like birth. You’re born as something you physically aren’t and your mind is aware of it, you just need to figure it out with time. You can’t decide if you’re transgender, just like you can’t decide if you’re born.

[@JojoPaige-ik2fk]

Ty fr helping me know it was not “when did you decide to be trans” it’s more like when did you figure out❤

[@Meisuki]

There are a lot of really horrid comments on these videos, thank you for being so understanding ❤️

[@Shuramaru]

No no, it's a decision. There is no trans gene, It comes from experiencing a set of things that push you in a direction. We are human and so we do have the power to get the delimma. You get stuck with "do I" or "do I not" People will decide at that moment, rejecting it or embracing it. It is a choice.

[@mightymeatymech]

another question that can be appropriate is, 'when did you decide to come out'. realizing they were trans wasn't a decision, but coming out is where the decision was made, if that makes any sense. but be careful with that one because sometimes it can bring up traumatic memories for people. you seem like you care about other people so i think you can use your best judgement on it and just let people know they don't have to tell you anything they don't want to 🖤🤎

[@mightymeatymech]

@@Meisuki it is really really heartwarming to see comments every now and then of people who actually want to understand trans people. it reminds me that not everyone hates us, and i love it. :')

[@Meisuki]

@@mightymeatymech There are so many things that have happened to us since I made that comment, too. People like this should be cherished, more than anything. Yeah, it should be the bare minimum, but it's just not anymore.

[@pen.pen.]

You look so much like your mom omg

[@tadams764]

Beautiful.

[@GinaFugate]

“I am the woman I am” - LOVE THAT!!! Also love how supportive your mom is 😭 ❤

[@Dakotaaaaaaaa]

This is really off topic but I NEED a hair tutorials because that hairstyle was cute!

[@Bl00dy_Sp0rk]

These comments are either completely wholesome or completely horrible and it’s really sad

[@jaelynndustin]

Trans people are amazing!!

[@kwynnluayeNL]

Your voice is sooooo calming

[@justforfun-zu4bx]

Omg!!! I have said it so many times, I now know where she got her beauty from, she got it from her mother. You look absolutely stunning!!!

[@michaellafon6369]

What a wonderful mom!!

[@LegendVault]

what for? removing her sons body parts, anyone with a brain knows that's wrong.

[@NOORZAI2011]

@@LegendVault As a child too! Not transphobic, but I just think that people should wait when their brain and body is fully developed before making life-changing decisions. There are tons of people that regretted being trans when they got older because its unnaturally altering your already perfect body.

[@NOORZAI2011]

@@LegendVault Yes! I fully am happy for the adults that became trans and had nice experiences, but a child is just much.

[@maggiesamson337]

Give it time and let the child decide if she was a good mom.

[@tensai_kodai]

​@@NOORZAI2011The amount of people that regret transitioning are a fraction of a already small fraction of society. Out of that small fraction, most detransitioners do so because of inability to pay for treatment, lack of access to treatment, and lack of support from their community. NOT because they aren't trans.

[@alixd.1493]

I hate the immediate “so SURGERY”. It’s like, woah, I want them but not EVERYONE does. Also, why does the second I mention that bits and pieces are missing or misplaced, does everything about me being gay poof off to where they had the audacity? It’s like we have to retrace our steps because in their minds it can’t overlap.

[@madelinesardinha1707]

3 MAIN QUESTION I GET WITH A TRANS MOM, NAH I NEED ME A WHOLE EPISODES WORTH OF QUESTIONS THAT I GET FROM MY FRIENDS!!!

[@gee.6671]

Maybe they can both help answer Matt Walsh’s famous question.

[@bluesky5384]

After all, 2 brain cells are better than 1.

[@nigerjenkins6372]

Right @gee.6671

[@gee.6671]

@@bluesky5384 I like your sense of humor 😂

[@jamaalcopes659]

You and youre mother are absolutely beautiful ❤

[@stringofwordstradingco]

I hate how people ask when/if someone got the surgery. Like why the fuck does it matter? Why do you care what’s on someone’s chest or in their pants. No matter what someone’s genitals are, if someone identifies as a certain gender, then you respect them as that gender and treat them like you would treat anyone else because they’re human too.

[@symoneprice798]

Maybe they feel differently, maybe it’s relevant to them, and that’s okay. The question may be inappropriate but to say it shouldn’t matter to them is a stretch.

[@Shuramaru]

Damn, shame of them for being humane and curious. Even disabled children don't react with such hostility. You know... Maybe... the reason you hate questioning is because you yourself doubt if it was a smart decision and you don't like to be reminded of the potential fact that you might be screwed later on. Or it could be before the additional hormone cause severely traumatic mental problems that affect the productions of chemical and can give severe mood swings and depression. But you do you I guess.

[@stringofwordstradingco]

@@Shuramaru You’re saying they’re “humane” and “curious”? It’s the same as someone walking up to a woman and asking their bra size or asking a man his dick size out of no where. If it’s their problem, why do you care?

[@Shuramaru]

​@@stringofwordstradingco Not really, those are kind of noticeable, I don't really need to ask. Listen, I get your point, entirely even. But I don't have the ability to just know everything with my sight. And as of why I care, I will ask you. Do I really need a reason to inquire about someone, if I worry or might be curious. If someone is dealing with struggles due to a choice they made. Is it not ok for me to want to know? If not, then why not just say, "I don't want to talk about it?" Why is hostility the first response to such a question? I am human, you are too, curiosity can be both a blessing and a curse, yet we cherish our ability to learn. It's by talking about problems and by joking about it as people that we feel accepted, It is by sharing our beliefs and pains that we become joint in the face of knowledge. I am simply curious, is that so wrong? Might one simply inquire in reason not to accidentally wound one's feelings in later discussions? If it is a bad thing, I can understand. But is it not supposed to be positive?

[@longlivejahseh2863]

​@@Shuramarushow ur face

[@jordinburch9466]

To me its SO STRANGE that an adult would care about who a child is dating, or who they would date regardless of gender..its EVEN WEIRDER to ask if a kid was going to have "the" surgery. Thats like asking a flat chested girl when shes gonna get implants. BOMBASTIC SIDE EYE 😅

[@Shuramaru]

Oh no, a parent! Concerned about the well being of their offspring?! How disgusting. Amirite?

[@jordinburch9466]

@@Shuramaru I'm not talking about the parent, I'm talking about the people asking the questions.. Thick head, amirite.

[@longlivejahseh2863]

​@@Shuramarudrop ur addy

[@summ3revans]

ur afro is so cuteeeee omg yall are so pretty

[@Angelica-ng7me]

I'm also a trans girl,(yyyaaaaayyy lol) 💙🩷🤍🩷💙 I didn't know that I was a trans until I actually knew what trans meant, before that as a child I seen myself as a normal girl.. but like I was wondering how are your feelings on a lot of the videos on KZbin that bash transgenders

[@miadeaflad1068]

Your moms seems so sweet and supportive

[@erniebernie1223]

“Omg girlfriend, you are so pretty asf, getttt ittt girrrrrlllll”

[@a.p.1363]

I wish people would realize how rude they are when they ask questions like these 😩 bc they would never ask such invasive and nosey questions like this to a cis person but can justify asking a trans person like they’re some kind of science experiment 😭

[@symoneprice798]

Because they’re not relevant, but people ask “cis” (whatever the heck that means) those questions all the time . Oh you have ovarian cancer? Did you have tog at your ovaries removed?

[@a.p.1363]

@@symoneprice798 if u rlly think that makes it okay to ask trans ppl weird questions then I guess I should add that nobody should be asking anyone intimate questions about their genitals and reproductive organs unless that person is deciding to have the conversation specifically about that subject 💀 but idk what u added seems pretty irrelevant to the topic of Trans ppl specifically

[@symoneprice798]

@@a.p.1363 I didn’t say it makes it okay. Not once. My overall point is that there are situations that cis people face where they DO receive these questions. You said “they would never ask”. You tried to make a point that because someone is trans, people feel like it’s okay to disregard their feelings and social politeness. It’s just not true. Also, I might add that although it isn’t a common conversational topic, it shouldn’t be as offensive as the trans crowd feels it is. I’m not trans or a sexual minority in anyway but there are other things about me and my life that people are interested in that I could be completely off put by. Instead when people ask me about them I recognize their interest, take time to educate, and asses the situation from there. The reason trans people, specifically feel this question is so offensive is because it’s damming to their entire identity. It really comes down to how you feel about what you’re being questioned on. When I was young I asked my cousin why his eyes were a different color, not knowing he was blind. He felt, upset. If I asked him today he wouldn’t care because it no longer holds the same spell over him that it did before. Is it impolite to point out people’s differences yes. Should it be? No. It is not specific to trans people, and it shouldn’t be offensive. It’s a relevant question to a lot of people.

[@a.p.1363]

@@symoneprice798k 👍

[@symoneprice798]

@@a.p.1363 that’s a rare one, someone from the abc mafia finally concedes. We need more people like you. 😄

[@oliviaemmette2017]

I was literally like, "why does this lady took like Ve?" Lol

[@maeirai]

you are your mom's twin omg

[@AutumnGloom666]

it warms my heart to see a trans person close with their family

[@aarishowton8037]

Happy to see the comments section on this one is so much less transphobic than usual!

[@Kamilp03]

I was once told I'm not trans or a guy bc I didn't act out on it when I was younger by my Auntie but now I'm a closeted trans guy/Trans person only friends I trust and ppl I follow on social media know

[@bluesky5384]

It has to get exhausting making your entire life revolve around gender and your identity. It's like this person has no real hobbies.

[@armando5994]

thats your mom? your mom is so pretty omg

[@prof.evilpictures8696]

The daughter is so pretty omg ❤️

[@ItzGabby1330]

The daughter’s voice is so deep 😮

[@k1k1_n]

I was kinda shocked because people said she went through puberty as a girl on hormones

[@JesusChrist-dv2zu]

veondre i love u and i hope you see the love inbetween all the gross comments

[@cupidsletter]

Your mom is so pretty help

[@tammarajohnson5130]

She is beautiful. Her appearance is beautiful. Her attitude is beautiful, just beautiful ❤

[@jnicole510]

Congrats to your mom for having such a gorgeous daughter❤

[@nicusorstoica8944]

Ești foarte frumoasă domnișoară.

[@krucialsmoke3933]

Its definitely something you decide to do but if telling yourself something different helps go for it!

[@k1k1_n]

education is key and you’re not very educated

[@krucialsmoke3933]

@@k1k1_n I prefer to see things for what they are not what others want it to be

[@spidybat7658]

You don't decide, you realise what your feeling and what is causing that

[@longlivejahseh2863]

​@@krucialsmoke3933show ur face

[@Mawpawz]

You can't decide if your trans but you can decide if your going to transition or how you are going to transition

[@DonquaviousIII]

she didnt “decide” she was trans we forced her into it

[@group555_]

Lol no, that's not how that goes

[@lj-iv5rx]

Why would you do that?

[@Shuramaru]

Exactly. It's funny how these people can't even name one side effect of hormone replacement even though they are all life altering and very health degrading.

[@Shuramaru]

@@group555_ It kind of is.

[@k1k1_n]

@@Shuramarunot for everyone

[@maryanngray4519]

God did not design, a man to b a woman, he created a woman ♀️ to serve a purpose to a man ♂️

[@LybraSastar]

OK, totally unrelated, but the symbol for male always looks like a ponytail to me😅

[@Jack-uo9lw]

i look up to you so much ❤️

[@earthen999]

I have a question because I am new. (If anyone has an answer) Was Ve’ondre born a girl or boy? I’m just confused because I have read all types of different comments and have gotten different answers. Thanks!

[@joselemus2061]

Boy

[@earthen999]

@@joselemus2061 thanks 👍

[@nymiuralee6586]

Imagine somebody DECIDING to be another gender for the hell of it… like “I think I’m gonna be a girl”😂😂💀 that doesn’t even make sense!!! Ppl make it seem like it’s the same as picking a flavor of ice cream… it’s not! I’m glade you DECIDED to be YOURSELF, and not hide how beautiful you are!!!!

[@Shuramaru]

Yeah, that's because to a child, decisions don't feel consequential, maybe because it's actually being pushed onto them even tho they are at a age where that should not even be in their head.

[@mirandaholko6644]

​@@Shuramarucouldn't agree more. I wanted to be Mikey when I was little I was a tomboy. It was a phase and I grew out of it. My parents didn't tell me to become Mikey 😂

[@longlivejahseh2863]

​@@Shuramarudrop ur addy

[@GiggaBOY528]

THIS DUDE 💀💀🤦🏿‍♀️

[@longlivejahseh2863]

Show ur face

[@ItsmefloraC.]

bruh I couldn't tell until she spoke like Ive been watching her vids but I thought she was supporting them she look so good

[@AverageSingleGirlDad-LovesBBQs]

The WORST thing to do is ask a trans person “what private parts do you have?” Like gurllll why is that any of your business?!!!

[@mirandaholko6644]

It's only natural to wonder. You are trans and expect people not to have questions 😂

[@Ayem427]

I wish people would stop asking us and our folks about our genitals, it's mad creepy

[@lancetasch3393]

Yo why ice spice sound like that

[@user-hl1gp5ix5t]

you and your mom r frfr twins!❤️❤️

[@thefloorist5169]

Oh boy, apparently this video ended on the wrong side of youtube..

[@floorroelandt6029]

Welcome to the comment section! 🍿 1. You’re soo pretty! 2. Your mom looks so young. 3. You look a lot like your mother ! 4. I need a hair tutorial/ I love your hair! 5. I hate it when people think just because someone is trans they can ask everything about their bodies. 6. I agree, you don’t decide you’re trans, you realize it. 7. I wish my mom was like that 🥰 8. Your voice is so calming! 9. Omg the voice is so low 💀 10. I wish more parents would accept their children when they realize they’re part of the LGBTQIA+ . Roses are Red, Planes are flying. This comment took so long, My fingers are dying.

[@LybraSastar]

Roses are red And everyone matters But if you think about it Voice typing is faster❤

[@floorroelandt6029]

@@LybraSastar That was a good one 😂 I'll remember the voice typing for later!

[@LybraSastar]

@@floorroelandt6029 😅

[@CaitlinMitchell-rr2qq]

Feels like mom had a hard pull in this transition

[@1200-uu8rr]

How come whenever you see a supportive parent your first guess is that they are manipulating them Into being trans? This is not possible there was already a study done on it, male and female brains are diffrent so even if you tried they would go back to assigned gender at birth or get depression it's the same as detransition therapy The reason trans people are trans is there was a study done recently that says some trans people might have been born with a brain that was wired differently like parly a man and partly a girl but don't quote me because I don't know how accurate this part is I do know thay body dysmorphia is a mental illness with cure so they feel like they are in the wrong body that's why they are trans not because of brainwash it's because of how their brain works

[@Augusts-Outlet]

I’ve came out as trans male a while ago but went back closeted bc of what people thought and not knowing how to express it, is there any way you could help??

[@Shuramaru]

None. You won't have any friends. We men live a lonely life if not for a partner. You cannot just walk up to a man and start talking. Now, you are officially worthless, Welcome to the world of men, Where your value solely depends on what you are able to do. gone will be the compliments, nobody is going to "GO GIRLY" you. You've transitioned yet? If you are, then you are screwed, very sorry that it wasn't written on the contract. You are bound to be judged, insulted, be called annoying. There is no complimenting between boys, It does rarely happen but you what you'll hear is mostly insults that are meant to be taken jokingly but that are actually based on things that they find real. You cannot walkup to girls randomely, they will look at you with disgust. You can't walk behind a girl at night either, you might be randomly pepper sprayed or have the cops called on you. In this situation it might be better if you just take a phone and act as if you don't see her or simply stop and either wait or take another way home. I hope your muscles match your mind because you will be asked to carry things and others will absolutely see value depending on how heavy and/or your ability to fight. You are never right, if you try to explain what you think of a situation, it's seen as insulting and you are asked to shut the fuck up. I really feel for you but if you want to be a man still, you better find yourself a secluded group of people and stick with them for the remaining of the time you have due to how much hormonal issues is going to cost you, not to fix them, but to take a medication that allows the symptoms to NOT worsen. that's 2k off the bat immediately. I hope you are rich because with rent being ever growing due to inflation, You won't be able to afford 4k a months. Oh and that is WITHOUT food, subscriptions, insurance, gas, car insurance, health insurance and fun money. That would cost you around 6K a months if I am correct and I believe it is still more. 6000 x 12 = 72000 Oh and that's without tax. 72000 divided by the amount of days in a year which is 365 gives us 197.26 We'll round it up a little 197 That is the amound of money you'd have to make per day. So let's divide that by a salary of hmmm.... lets say.... 30 dollars an hour. That mean you'd have to work 6.5 hours a day. It's 6.56666. We rounded up remember? Alright so with that in mind, You would still have zero days off except maybe a week of vacancy every year. But wait I forgot something, AH YES, taxes. average tax rate is 29.0% and your marginal tax rate is 30.5%. This means that you are left with $53,997... You'd need a salary of roughly... $110000 A year, Your taxes would be higher on that one too average tax rate would become 31.2% and your marginal tax rate, 43.4%. SO let's recalculate and I'll even give you a 40 an hour. 110000 divided by 365 = 301.369863014. We round up, 301. That'd be the daily requirement 301$ Now, we divide that by 40$ Now you'd need 7,30 hours each day, no days of except the free week. We have to take into account that you might be severely sick sometimes and be unable to come, maybe an injury would also stop that and due to The hormones, that is very likely going to happen as you no longer regenerate correctly due to your brain being basically, hooked on crack, which doesn't mean you are stupid, it just means you might have really bad antibody in this case. Alright so, by my calculation That might require you to sometimes have shifts of 12 hours and some of 2 but it's bound to vary. Say goodbye to traveling I guess. Those problems are going to come in your late 20 or, if you are unlucky, sooner. Welp. Good luck on your journey, I hope you have fun.

[@longlivejahseh2863]

​@@Shuramaruare u a pedo?

[@Mawpawz]

Another trans dude here 🖤🖤 You can express yourself anyway your comphortable and please ignore the negative comments you get and ignore that phycopath that commented they are not mentaly okay its so obvious. You gotta be unapologetically yourself it's gonna be hard and annoying but you'll get there eventually I've been on t for a year and been out for 2 I've never been happier

[@Mawpawz]

​@@Shuramaru are you okay? Genuinely.

[@hughiekilbane856]

This is a gay guy.

[@Meisuki]

Veondre isn't even gay, she's bi lol

[@hughiekilbane856]

Ok thats fine. A bisexual man! Nothing new there 😂

[@Meisuki]

@@hughiekilbane856 No, that is a bisexual woman. Genitals do not dictate gender.

[@EmmyCharleysversion]

@@hughiekilbane856a bi WOMAN A FEMALE

[@hughiekilbane856]

Women cant grow a penis and testicles. You can try apply your ideology to reality but it will never change what this person is. Its an ideology, used to protect peoples feelings. Its the ultimate weakness. There is nothing wrong with feminine boys and masculine girls. Leave them alone and stop preying on their minds and we wont end up with people like this living in a bubble of delusion.

[@Kalynswanie]

You and your mom are stunning!!

[@jisuskitty]

you and your mom are so beautiful!

[@I_can_and_i_will_slap_you]

You are very pretty.

[@chrisedwards2017]

Dang I always watch her I never thought her voice would be like that

[@reddiver7293]

Bless them both but I don't care.

[@t3ag6n]

Bro she is so pretty

[@NotRay270]

Getting the sugary is something the kid can decide when they’re older in my country to have to be at least 18 and for going on testosterone or estrogen is 13+ and blockers depends on if you have early puberty or not so about 8+

[@Rebecca-JaneWaugh]

Ahh why is she so gorgeous

[@user-mw2ku4xv3r]

Her voice so nice😂😂😂

[@Domesticgoddess12]

Im a dolphin.

[@NKLSST]

Do you feel that way? If yes, I see no problem

[@1200-uu8rr]

Ok cool?

[@ashleigh_3407]

okay

[@UmbrellaCorporationFiredMe]

Hate when ur pre surgery and ur dating someone, and then someone asks a trans guy if his cis boyfriend is straight. LIKE BRO???

[@FortheluvofGod]

You didn’t just figure it out together. And he didn’t just come to you and say he was trans. You labeled an already confused child “trans” then explained what trans was and confused the crap out of him. Then you asked said child if he too thought he was trans. Of course he was going to tell you yes.

[@Meisuki]

Nope, she had her first thoughts at 4 and came out to her mom at 7. She was very clear in her podcast.

[@FortheluvofGod]

@@Meisuki then there are 2 different stories. The mom said otherwise in a different clip.

[@Meisuki]

@@FortheluvofGod What are you on about?

[@FortheluvofGod]

@@Meisuki there is a clip of the mom talking about how she told him all about what being trans is and then asked him if he was trans. He didn’t just go up to her and say he was trans. He was coached into it.

[@Meisuki]

@@FortheluvofGod I see no such clip.

[@-MaryPoppins-]

I can’t imagine how incredibly difficult it must have been for you two. On one hand the urge to make sure your baby is SAFE medically is always on the forefront. The fear of what certain medications COULD do is VERRRYYYY real. For you, the fear of figuring out such a major issue in your brain body combination and what that means must have been just as terrifying. You two handled it in a way I hope and wish everyone could. In a world where we’re demonizing the wrong people daily for a choice they never truly had, I hope and pray you know you’re going to be ok no matter the hurdle in front of you❤️

[@Shuramaru]

It is decided tho. There is no trans gene, you are just mad because you don't have any logical explanation.

[@two_5]

there is no personality gene but you dont choose that. there isnt a gene because gender is a social construct!

[@Shuramaru]

@@two_5 It is very much not. We humans cannot asexually reproduce. Your feelings don't change scientific terms.

[@mile_851]

People can be born with gender dysphoria, but not "transitioned". So it's a reasonable question, let's not treat it as if it were a sexual orientation

[@kimberlyrodriquez5408]

Bro he think he ate but , first of all he's not a woman , just because he acts like a woman doesn't make him one and I just hate people like this that think they're woman but are males with surgery..

[@chimppower2748]

Sex is not gender and that is a scientific fact that most organizations agree with. Meaning that you can be a male and a female biologically, but psychologically you can be any gender because gender does not exist as a physical concept. Just like how marriage and virginity and money have no actual value but still have value within society. Does that explain how she can be a woman but born male?

[@NKLSST]

And I hate people who thinks that they have something to do about it

[@1200-uu8rr]

I hate people who don't know the difference between sex and gender and don't know a single thing about how trans people work but still have the balls to comment on it 😊

[@_desiderivm]

I WANT THAT MOTHER.

[@b1ll_kaul1tz._]

fun fact: my ex friends were transphobic towards me and it brought me down so much that i went back to being a girl instead of a guy

[@Jdale559]

Man, that’s crazy

[@Golden-berry]

I agree

[@putaromason5234]

Omg both of u are such beautiful women 🥰 intersex here and i love you. You are so inspiring and comforting to go to. Thank you for being you

[@pusheen.cat-xoxo13]

Hi :)

[@KLC132g]

Woow

[@morty3451]

“THATS A BIG ONE”💁🏾‍♂️

[@alessondradrake3725]

(Not to be offensive) but what bathroom do you use?? If ur new to coming out?😢

[@1200-uu8rr]

Family or non binary bathrooms sorry to say this but if your not surgically transitioned you usually shouldn't use the bathroom you identify with because it can make people uncomfortable Non binary bathrooms are the best bet

[@SeonaSara]

Wow what a great mom you have ❤! If I was genderqueer I would totally have wanted a mom like that(or any parent like that btw). And when I’ll be a mom if I’ll be one someday I wanna totally have these same principles. ❤❤❤

[@gwenxxx123]

“We just figured it out together “ 🥴🥴💀💀That’s all I needed to hear tbh

[@indigogodhead6481]

HOW ABOUT U ACTUALLY ASK A TRANS PERSON HERE I AM HOW DID I KNOW I WAS TRANS AT AGE FIVE ? because ever since I have my earliest memories I can remember thinking about myself and who I am and being unable to see myself as a boy or as a man even in my own mind trying to imagine myself as my body looked on the outside it was impossible for me …and over the years I had to learn to deal with ppl treating me like a boy/man ppl treating me in ways that never matched up with who I always knew I was inside …and no I didn’t know the name for what I was at that young an age so it took me years to know what I was ..at first when I was FIVE and I thought maybe I’m just gay (I hadn’t learned the word gay until way later but I knew I liked boys and not girls ) and i can remember my father forcing me to get haircuts was always so traumatizing and stripped me of something I really liked about myself my long hair was the only thing I had that made me feel like me and made me like myself .. I felt so trapped and forced to be how everyone else thought i should be I wanted to keep my long hair so bad i cried everytime I was forced into a haircut …. so I lived as a gay man for a while but the feeling of never being treated or seen as who I know I really am on the inside always stayed till I realized …this is what trans feels like my body doesn’t match my mind and that’s why …and everything clicked once I realized that’s what I was the whole time ever since my earliest memories I’ve always been a girl inside but of course humans are too ignorant to understand that we are not our bodies we are simply INSIDE OF our bodies AND EVEN NOW when I think about marriage I can’t ever see myself in a suit or Tux or whatever I SEE A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING DRESS AND THE DREAM PRINCESS WEDDING being proposed to and all of it AND FYI MY MOTHER AND FATHER BOTH DONT APPROVE AND DIDNT EVER PUT TRANSNESS INTO MY HEAD THEY PUT THE OPPOSITE INTO MY HEAD THEY TRIED TO PRESSURE ME INTO BEING THE BOY THEY THOUGHT I WAS

[@indigogodhead6481]

VE IS LUCKY TO HAVE A MOTHER THAT ACTUALLY SUPPORTS HER NO PARENTS PUT THIS INTO THEIR KIDS HEAD U IDIOT NO PARENTS WANT THEIR KIDS TO DEAL.WITH A LIFETIME OF BULLYING AND ASSAULT JUST FOR BEING THEMSELVES SO ITS REALLY IGNORANT FOR PPL TO CLAIM PARENTS INDOCTRINATED THE KIDS INSTEAD OF JUST LOVED AND SUPPORTED THEM WHEN THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF PARENTS AND TRANS PPL TELLING THEIR OWN LIFE STORY FOR U TO LEARN FROM INSTEAD OF PROJECTING UR OWN IGNORANCE AND MADE UP ASSUMPTIONS ONTO THEM

[@gwenxxx123]

@@indigogodhead6481 I’m not reading your life story 🥴 only YOU can figure out what you want. As you did (anyways) regardless of your parents apparently. Mental illness is just that, an Illness. With prayer , anyone and anything can be healed. I’ll pray for you 🙏🏻

[@indigogodhead6481]

@@gwenxxx123 plenty of scientists and doctors have proven that it’s not a mental illness to be trans but go ahead and contuve to ignore facts like ur textbook delusional all you want you’ll still be in hell for comitting the sins you are committing right now with these comments because u won’t even repent for them u think ur behavior is justified and right and that’s what will be ur downfall in the end ….btw prayer is a form of witchcraft also a sin look at you also U follow a false god because ur religion is not the first religion ever so again hell fire for u You clearly have religious trauma and that’s quite clear hope u find peace in therapy animal face

[@Bergen8]

She found out when she was trans 🏳️‍⚧️ the age was 7 yrs old

[@shanemorgan12345]

Yup, when he still believed in Santa.

[@uniqueminds9357]

P3Ople CANNOT CHANGE THEIR GENDER. STUP3d L.GBT.Q supporters are M3NTALLY 1LL. Gender and sex are related. How can a man say “I’m a woman JUST because I wanna be💀💀💀💀” WOMAN definition- adult human female FEMALE IS A TYPE OF SEX!!! And you can’t change your sex therefore you CANNOT change your gender

[@LiLComeInClutch]

​​@@shanemorgan12345belief in Santa goes away, transness doesn't unfortunately you either transition or you drink yourself to death

[@Im_real69]

Hi

[@barbielocks1457]

U look sooo much like ur momma...both very beautiful women ❤

[@stephyoung8567]

Your both so beautiful

[@laylayshaffer4092]

There are alot of transgender people who go through the whole process, have the surgery then don't want to be that sex anymore they want to be what they were. I mean so I can see were people say choice cause cutting up parts has to be a hard thing to do. I mean I've had all kinds of surgeries. Kid ripped me from front to back. I couldn't imagine going through that & worrying about complications. I would imagine it's very stressful.

[@Shuramaru]

It is. you also have to be fucking rich to get the detrans surgery. That shit is 200k, If you don't take it.... Well you can still pay 2k a months to get the drugs required to balance out your hormones, This won't fix the issue of course, No they make it clear it only prevents it from worsening.

[@Bergen8]

And I support her❤❤

[@kelsey2333]

Those last 2 questions are just inappropriate. People cant mind their business

[@user-fw8wn7jk7k]

Hi ve

[@yakwtfgo6218]

As a WOMAN I don’t think it’s right , bc this individual is not indeed a woman but a trans woman

[@spidybat7658]

Trans is an adjective not a noun. I think you need to go back to school

[@yakwtfgo6218]

@@spidybat7658 I think I don’t give a shit and you can’t read.

[@CapCutgirlie625]

REALLY they ask I you "decided" like is that even a word in this circumstance? Like b!tch who tf ❥❥♥︎♡❦❦ღ

[@Hail.Lilith]

You can’t change your gender I feel bad for the kid for being brainwashed

[@stephanielong2674]

he said on another video he told his mom he was gay and her mom asked if she might be Trans. sounds like her mom planted that seed in him.

[@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286]

@@stephanielong2674 *SHE.

[@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286]

Yuumi, tf you talking about?

[@The-only-Ayden]

I agree you can’t change your gender

[@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286]

@@The-only-Ayden so you agree on something you don't even understand?

[@efgbusiness8851]

😢😢😭😭

[@vanessamayhew166]

Once her voice becomes more fem its game over❤

[@holy9781]

That voice though

[@Lakenskskjeebekwk]

People always say “the surgery”. I say “the be-d!ck-ing”

[@Shuramaru]

So funny, hey btw, I guess you also find it funny that people aren't aware of side effects. Kids, They don't tell you that but you will never accomplish your dreams because of severe medical complications, joint problems, heart problems, and the inability to bring another life to this world. You will be stuck with a rent that leaves you already hungry and you'll still have to buy hormone balancing drugs in order, not to heal you, but to prevent the active problems from getting even worse. This means that you will either pay or die from a heart attack, be in too much pain to walk and have difficulty just existing without this drug which, I emphasize that you will have no choice but to buy at 2k every months. No travels, no buying yourself cool shit, all that money is going straight to preventing you from being, homeless, aggravating your, then, hormone related problems and food. You won't be able to buy yourself a dog, too expensive. Half of whatever free time you have left will go to medical check ups. You will be prone to severe depression due to hormone imbalance affecting the release of chemical that causes you to feel emotions and you won't be able to transition back because the detransition surgery costs nearly 200,000$ The previously very supporting community that fueled that desire will shun you as, in your unhappiness, you are no longer supporting their narrative. Do you still want to proceed? Still feels funny I bet.

[@amorales2710]

How tf is society allowing the words, decide and realize be interchangeable. Seems like every person I see talking about there sexuality had to decide it first.

[@babypearl]

I feel like all of the questions mentioned are inappropriate because it’s her business and not anyone else’s