Quiet Luxury: Problematic or Trendy?

[@RachelRae]

FYI the Koch Brothers is pronounced like Coke ❤ great video

[@simplykura]

You are absolutely correct lol! I meant to correct that in the edit . ❤️😊 Thank you for taking the time to watch..

[@Kalo2511]

It's a German name for "Cook" and is pronounced "KO-gh"...Americans have a weird way of saying most foreign names.

[@simplykura]

@@Kalo2511I didn’t know that thank you! NYC had a Mayor named Ed koch (pronounced the way I did in the video) and I’m so used to seeing that name and pronouncing it that way . I forgot to switch the pronunciation for the video. Thank you for this insight❤️

[@Kalo2511]

@@ft9399 Everybody can learn. Let's not be snarky about it.

[@simplykura]

@@Kalo2511 lol! Some people are just miserable and want to be snarky I guess.🤷🏽‍♀️ Clearly I did research for the video.😂😂 Anyway,Thanks again for the insight❤❤ I appreciate you! 💕

[@jenniferlong7439]

I am a lower-middle income woman who just barely makes ends meet and my score was a 4 lol. I thrift most of my clothes and I find a lot of “quiet luxury” pieces at the Goodwill! I think it’s more of a state of mind rather than a social class.

[@simplykura]

When I was a teenager my mother would always tell me that I had champagne taste with beer pockets 😂 I have found beautiful things at the thrift store! My trick was to go to the thift stores in the wealthy neighborhoods.🤓 Luxury, quiet or loud ,can come in many forms. I completly agree that it can be a state of mind rather then a class!

[@alfredlee728]

Gone are the days of people telling me how to be and what to wear. Quiet luxury my "foot"! Loud, proud, and quiet when I wanna be! Awesome teaching video. I am the boss of me, my fashion, my style. In addition, I am here for the up and coming black designers that are loud, inclusive and opposed the the small "q" quiet luxury snobbery. Said what I said......Mrs. C. Lee.....all day every day

[@simplykura]

EXACTLY! im have to wear what makes me happy! The sooner folks realize that the happier they will be.🤷🏾‍♀

[@SpirituallyAbstract]

First I want to say, your creativity, editing style and candor thought this video was sensational! I wasn’t expecting to do math tho 😅. In all seriousness, I got a 6 and its so accurate. Like Tom said, I like to blend and add my own style to all my outfits. I can’t overly commit to one side because that wouldn’t be authentic to me and my African (vibrant af) Sierra Leone roots.🇸🇱

[@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES]

Hallelujah, rolling the drums, sis.

[@simplykura]

Thank you for your kind words😊! I appreciate it! ❤ I hate math so my bad lol!😂😂 Yes, when you come from a rich culture full of color, the total absence of color is depressing! I love a neutral slay, but I cannot imagine not wearing any color at all! It just doesnt sit right with my Caribbean sprit lol. Personal style is so much of who we are.❤

[@fld1374]

Hi! I rolled my eyes when I saw the thumbnail bc I am so sick of this discussion, but I’m halfway through and THANK YOU for such a balanced and NUANCED discussion!! You really did cover the bases!

[@simplykura]

😂😂 I appreciate that you took the time to watch even though you are over the discussion! Honestly, I am too!! 😂 I do hope that I was able to bring it to you in a way that others couldn't. YOU KNOW I APPRECAITE YOU! Thank you for your kid words!❤

[@jennifercarey9714]

I scored a 6 in this video, however 100% resonate as a fashion girl in one of your prior videos. I love classics and clean lines, but I will absolutely make the look my own. I shop at Goodwill and high end and prefer quality and craftsmanship that reads timeless.

[@simplykura]

Im with you on the "reads timeless" I shop high and low, but im definitely adding more quailty and timeless things to my closet this year. Wether it comes from the thift store or Saks.🤷🏾‍♀

[@reactiv7386]

I buy what makes me happy. I dress for my own style, and I integrate my wardrobe with color, and classic pieces. I have low, and high end in my wardrobe. This was an excellent video!!!

[@simplykura]

Dress in what makes you happy! I totally agree! Thank you so much for watching you know, I appreciate it!

[@IzzyGx2]

Timeless classics has always been my preference sprinkled with some color eras. Like Tom said, I’m all about finding your own personal style and being comfortable in your own skin. Know who you are and own it. Loved your video!

[@simplykura]

Agreed! ❤️ Thank you for taking the time watch🤗 Have a great week!

[@naturalwoman8315]

I scored a 4-I’m a total minimalist and have been for some time. It’s simple & versatile. It makes getting dressed a breeze. Thanks for the video!

[@SisterKim_]

I was waiting literally for your video to drop. I kept refreshing my YT page. Hi Kura

[@simplykura]

Hey boo!👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

[@joycemorrow5840]

I’m a 6 and love it. Classic,minimalist and glamorous. My personality and culture plays a role in my fashion. This video is awesome in talking about quiet luxury.

[@simplykura]

My favorite pairing! I knew you would score pretty low!❤As always, I appreciate you! Thank you for taking the time to watch! Have a wonderful week!

[@Vpower07]

Your scenarios are everything 😂

[@simplykura]

😂😂😂 Would you believe the one about school drop off was real! Happened to a parent when I was teaching !🤦🏾‍♀️ Hilarious!

[@Vpower07]

@@simplykura that was the one that I identified with the most 😂

[@simplykura]

@@Vpower07 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SisterKim_]

Sister Kim is going to wear what she loves and feels good in. Im not sure why this is such a highly discussed topic but as a Haitian American woman I can go from loud and proud to minimalist vibes and neither one should limit me to a class or style category. One thing for sure, I will be quiet luxuriating up with my Walmart and Target pieces 😂

[@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES]

I feel you, sis. 😂😂

[@nancymika]

I second that sister Kim🎉

[@simplykura]

I can't for the life of me figure out why this is so highly discussed either! Like what are talking about here? Minimalism? Capitalism? Escapism? What other"ism" do we need to talk about to tell people to DRESS IN WHAT MAKES THEM HAPPY! 🤷🏾‍♀ That white suit you had on was so darn chic, minimal, and cute I was sick! Equally ,that chartreuse skirt you styled was beautiful! This whole topic is....diffrent... lol!

[@janeausten360]

I loved this video. It was well thought out, considered various perspectives, gave a term paper history lesson, sprinkled with relevant quotes about style, race, middle class, upper class, thoughts. You then opened and closed with creative and provocative participation questions . I'm middle classes, African American. I love color but when I do neutral my spin is a pop of color on a leather tote bag into the office or on weekends, here in California. This was the best quiet luxury video that I've seen so far. ❤ thank you. It felt like a professionally produced tv segment on a major network.

[@simplykura]

Thank you for your kind words!❤ I hope that it was enjoayable to watch as the videos ive seen on the topic werent so interactive. I was afraid that I was making mistake with approaching the topic in this way. The pop of color with accessories is a go to of mine as well! Youre too kind!😩 I appreciate you taking the time to watch and leave such a wonderful comment!❤

[@kellydekesel7492]

Really love your approach on style and fashion! You’re such an elegant and authentic person!

[@simplykura]

Thank you for your kind words.😩❤️ I appreciate you taking the time to watch! Thank you!

[@kernaleigh]

Ah yes, I truly enjoyed your video….the research, the application of said research, the quiz and your overall expression & explanation of this ‘Quiet Luxury’ topic. I honestly have been wondering why is everyone so bothered by ‘quiet luxury’ when the rich folk ain’t even concerned about what we doing. 🤷🏽‍♀️ So let them do them and let us do us. The elite have never been fashion inspiration to me so I’m quite literally unbothered by their fashion choices. Sidenote: Your ‘teacher skills’ were definitely on display in this video and it is obvious that you were an excellent teacher.👏🏾

[@shoelady6457]

Well said Tom Ford! 👏 👏👏

[@thefrancinemichelle]

You’re so beautiful. This is a great video, lots of nuggets. I enjoyed the quiet luxury game. 🙌🏾

[@simplykura]

You’re too kind.😩 Thank you! I appreciate you taking the time to watch.❤️😊

[@fashionandluxury101]

Thank you for this video! I was getting so tired of all the videos on quiet and loud luxury! I’m going to wear what makes me comfortable and confident 😊 I am 70% quiet and 30% loud based on all the reasons you stated above. I love color, I’m from the Caribbean, I love fashion and like to put my own “ spin” on fashion etc . I’m not changing who I am , or my style period! 😊

[@simplykura]

Are we sisters? lol! I would describe myself in the same way. No color at all isn't something I can do.🤷🏾‍♀I am who I am, and I wont try to change that.❤

[@fashionandluxury101]

@@simplykura ❤️

[@tynee2310]

I scored a 6. Right in the middle. I like what I like!!!💁🏾‍♀️

[@simplykura]

Im in the middle too. No apologies we have to dress for us right.🤷🏽‍♀️?

[@tynee2310]

Indeed!!!

[@theajayieffect]

🗣Come on top tier content!!! This was an excellent video, Sis! It was interactive, educational and fun. One of your best so far. Thank you ❤❤❤❤

[@simplykura]

Thank you so much!!!😩 The whole time I was editing I was like "This is wack.... wait is this lame?" second guessing myself as usual smh. 🤣 I apprecaite your kind words! Thank you!

[@sheadenise]

Normally I just watch and like your videos without commenting, but I just had to say that everything about this video was SUPERB. The engaging game in the beginning, the editing, & commentary were top tier. My number is 10 and to me, personal style should be just that... personal! Amazing video Kura! 🤗

[@simplykura]

You’re too kind!😩❤️ Thank you for your kind words! I needed to read this this morning.🙏🏾

[@latonyagarner6060]

I love this video, and I think my style is more urban chic. My score was 5.

[@simplykura]

I love that description! Urban chic!! You may be on to something! 😳

[@zerenamafdet]

You hit a SLAM DUNK with this video!!!!!💯💯💯💯

[@simplykura]

Thank you!!!😊❤️ I appreciate you taking the time to watch!!

[@SpiritSoulSense]

You really did your research and brought all the facts for us! Thank you! 💗

[@simplykura]

I used to write a mean term pepper in graduate school! 😂 I can do some research! 😂 Thank you for taking the time to watch!❤

[@MsAntoniaNY]

I loved the quiz!!! I'm in the middle (7) and wasn't surprised. Can I say, as a Brooklyn born and bred woman... I clapped and cosigned when you spoke of the big hoops...and that your melanin shall not be wasted! 🎉 Come on pinks, come on orange!!!! I'm really enjoying your videos! 💕🧡🎉

[@simplykura]

SHALL NOT BE WASTED! The very idea of letting this melanin go to waste makes me want to swim in the East river!😂 I cant do it! 🤷🏾‍♀ What is life if I cant wear a hoop?🙄 like............🤷🏾‍♀😂

[@MsAntoniaNY]

@@simplykura Right?!?! 😂😂💕

[@krystal8436]

Hey sis! Girl keep us fashionably educated. What the what! I just love the subjectivity of fashion. Anywho, I tried to send you the name of the shoe I mentioned a few vlogs back but for whatever reason, it doesn’t post. The name is Open Edit, Kaia denim shoe at Nordstrom. On major sale now.

[@simplykura]

Thank you!! I I was searching so hard! 😂

[@teah80]

Yes, I too refuse to let this melanin go to waste.😊

[@simplykura]

Everybody ain’t got it! 🤷🏽‍♀️ Cant let it go to waste!😂

[@kirajaggerrose]

Kura, you did your Big One with this video! Loved it!🙌🏾✨♥️

[@simplykura]

😩😩 Thank you!!❤️

[@crisneryfisher5452]

Best video about QL I’ve seen so far! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 For me this movement is helpful to set up a capsule luggage winter trip I have ahead. Brazilian hugs on you way.

[@bakedandsalty9234]

OMG the school pick-up scenario had me 😂 great content, as always!

[@simplykura]

😂😂😂 Would you believe that was real?! Happened to a parent when I was teaching !🤦🏾‍♀️ Hilarious!

[@MrsVanB]

Yes! Thank you for this video! 🫶🏾 And I agree wholeheartedly with you! I love to mix neutrals with bold colors.😁🙌🏾 And I had 6 points, so somewhere in the middle (I hope😅).

[@simplykura]

Thank you for taking the time to watch.❤ Im somewhere in the middle too! Calssic peices with beautiful colors❤☺

[@tequilawalker6207]

Beautifully put Sis!!

[@sandrabrignoni4183]

Excelente me encantaron todas tus explicaciones y aprendí mucho. Gracias Kura ❤

[@simplykura]

Yay!! Thank you for taking the time to watch!

[@senoje]

I agree with you old money was made from evil mistreatment and use of others.

[@simplykura]

Sure was!

[@reneehampton7665]

Glad to hear someone talk about this topic who has researched the understanding of the topic. While I love classic things, color is definitely going to be a part of it.

[@simplykura]

A life absent of color is not the life for me. I love classic things. In fact, I gravitate toward them.🤷🏾‍♀ However, color is part of me and I will always have it in my wardrobe.

[@NikkijBerryman]

Shukura, this is the best commentary on this topic imho. Many KZbinrs have tackled it but not so concisely and clear. I have ascribed to the aesthetic of QL in different eras of my style for practical reasons. As a mother, minimizing the color palette and pieces makes it very easy to get out of the apt in the morning. Regardless of how much I spent or the varying qualities of the pieces, when they are in the same color family it just looks pulled together. I don’t have to put as much effort into looking chic. I typically do this in the winter bc the layers make it look effortless. Whites, creams with browns and tans are great in NYC winters. Now in the summer, it’s all about the color, the prints. I’m accentuating the melanin and standing out. Of course, I love a white dress but it’s easier to dress in the summer to me. I think it’s funny that the people criticizing and pushing the QL agenda are middle class or dare I say it lower middle class people who aspire to be like the 1%. Isn’t it always the person that’s reachin’ that’s hatin’?! Like you said, rich folk ain’t stuttin’ us! Well you didn’t say it like that but that’s how I say it.😂 You did a wonderful job! I enjoy you so much.

[@Shakira77]

I love your take on quiet luxury! You really broke down this “new” trend. I appreciate the time and effort you put into your videos. You clearly do your research! 😊 I try not to follow trends just because it’s what’s popular. I prefer spending my money on things that will last and that I’ll want to wear for more than a moment.

[@lisacampbell7459]

I only picked (A) for all the cases, only because it just looked neater. I just like the neat look.

[@simplykura]

I can see that. (A) was very straightforward, not to much going on but also put together!

[@lisacampbell7459]

@@simplykura I am just now finding out that the clothes I had in my closet for years is called “old money “. Like you I am from the Caribbean so I do tend to add some colour into my wardrobe. I always thought I was just simple.

[@geemalia1420]

This needed to be said. I never thought about it that way, most wealthy are not thinking about us, the way we obsess over them💡Unless it's to their benefit like our labour, resources, creativity ect... I like the Tom Ford commentary. Head to toe in quiet luxury beige and head to toe in logo mania, both feel prescribed. Both convey the same message of not knowing yourself, or not being able to express your true self through fashion, which is fine as well. They are many creative outlets to chose from other than fashion. Probably when you're able to express yourself in whatever your thing is your personal style may organically come to the surface, or at the very least this conversation becomes mute to you. So do you boo.

[@simplykura]

Yes, they are only think about us for what we can do for them! 🤷🏾‍♀ The time and energy we put into being like the wealthy is odd. "Head to toe in quiet luxury beige and head to toe in logo mania, both feel prescribed" Wow! I have not made that connection untill now! ! agree! You have a point about there being other creative outlets then fashion. That is most certaintly something to consider.🤔 I love you for this comment thank you! This has my wheels turning! ❤☺

[@continaclark5092]

I just love the way you educate us on fashion so eloquently spoken. And I got a 10 by the way love your videos

[@simplykura]

Thank you for your kind words and for taking the time to watch!😩 A 10!! You are a real fashion girl!! Love it!❤

[@rozwalkerphotography]

Hello, Simply Kura. I thoroughly enjoyed your research and point of view about "quiet luxury." We know that fashion is always looking for new ways to inspire us to buy, wear and feel the next thing. You are the arbiter of your own style and life! Be original.

[@marlenejennifer3514]

First on come on with the game and edits bravo as usual . The only quiet luxury video I’m not annoyed by BUT thoroughly enjoyed. I scored a 4 in the game. Quiet luxury was from the beginning of fashion. If anyone read how luxury lost it’s luster by Dana Thomas then they would know how fashion houses started. Chanel for example didn’t get the double cc logo until the 1980s. I don’t think only neutrals is quiet I believe color can be incorporated in a sophisticated way think pastels jewel tones burgundy etc. I agree old money and quiet luxury are not the same thing. Now that I’m older I’m a lot more quiet and I wish I was quiet from the start because I would still have my items and would have saved so much money. Lastly tik tok is toxic and started this foolishness lol

[@simplykura]

You're too kind!😩Thank you for your kind words.I have to get my hands on that book.I had no idea about Chanel! I also beleive that color can be incorporated in a chic,sophisticted way. A beautiful jewel tone silk top can be stunning paired with some beautiful jewelry.☺ I do think that some things come with age.The older you get, the less likely you are to try to impress someone. My style has changed through the years.The money that I have spent on things that I would never wear now is comical.😩Tik Tok sent me down a rabbit hole with this topic and I will never get over it lol!☺❤

[@claudellebusano1885]

This was a great video. Informative and interactive. I agree wholeheartedly with you when it comes to how "quiet luxury" has become so popular.

[@simplykura]

Thank you so much! I appreciate you taking the time to watch!😊❤️

[@lekeatharumph1438]

The Best Video on this topic thus far!!!! I love it!!!!

[@simplykura]

Youre too kind! Thank you for taking the time to watch!❤

[@melaniefields4589]

Great video. I wonder why it seems people think that only “good quality clothing” has to be in neutral colors. It seems to me that when one is feeling down many will put on a bright color or take a walk in the bright yellow sun. The Olsen twins are often mentioned in this topic, however to be honest don’t look very happy. Lisaraye wears all white but the style and cut of the pieces expresses her personality. Last point, why does quiet luxury have to be kind of bland and reserve? Why is it that those that don’t like to dress that way are tacky? I don’t recall anyone calling Sara Jessica Parker any of these titles while filing SATC or even now. Heck many are falling over themes trying to get her shoes and the bags….ie the purple rain sequin baguette. 😊

[@_TANBEE]

I enjoyed this video. I came from a family that were raised to like and wear quiet luxury or shall I quote my grandmother “the finest of threads”. I’m all for the quiet luxury due to being plus, I don’t want the inexpensive fabrics to let me down (tear/rip) However, I’m going to always put my spin on it bcz I love a good statement piece or a pop of Color. Guess what? I scored 11 😂😂

[@simplykura]

"The finest of threads" 😂 I love it! Its so important for us to put a little of our personality in every outfit! An 11!? 😂 You are a true fashion girl!! 😂

[@HeatherLingerfelt]

This is a fantastic video! Absolutely loved the content as well as the editing! ❤

[@simplykura]

Thank you for taking the time to watch! I appreciate your kind words.❤️

[@alfredwashington5703]

My friend, you got me over here rethinking EVERYTHING...the question is how do we reconcile our love for fashion knowing its driven by these old money brands? Damn.

[@blackwomanminimalist]

Thank you for this🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@tiamoore799]

My Anthropology sandals came today. LOVE THEM❤

[@simplykura]

Yay! How did they fit? Mine didnt! 😩

[@kathleenharris8824]

I also am a teacher, but in typically lower income to middle class areas. I enjoy wearing neutrals and monochromatic outfits. Wearing colors is also fun. I tend to get more compliments when I wear certain colors with my melanated skin.❤

[@simplykura]

I don’t teach anymore, but I eventually did move to teaching lower income kids. I honestly enjoyed that more. They needed me more then the rich kids did. It wasn’t always easy and teaching in NYC is a challenge!😳🤦🏾‍♀️ But if I had to back it would be to the lower income students any day. I also really enjoy some days wearing neutrals and other days color. It makes life interesting lol!

[@poisonedchalice]

Love this! Appreciate you did your research in this area ❤

[@simplykura]

I appreciate you taking the time to watch!❤️😊 Thank you !

[@jaquaw]

Cogent and well said, thank you ❤

[@kimmie1957]

I look forward to your videos!! Glad I was on my phone I love you!

[@simplykura]

Hey kimmie!!! 👋🏾👋🏾 Thank you for watching sis!! ❤️

[@Kalo2511]

New subbie! Your research and opinion are relevant, informed and topical. I appreciate a woman who does her research.

[@simplykura]

Hey new subbie👋🏾 Thank you for your kind words! ❤️😊 I appreciate you taking the time to watch!💕

[@canbehr1]

Love your voice ❤I’m glad that I found your channel. Great video and I enjoyed your perspective on quiet luxury. I will continue to wear bright colors that make me happy.

[@WearYourWardrobe]

Interesting video. I scored 6 which is about how I feel. I like some conservative pieces but will never give up color and a logo or two!

[@simplykura]

I can never give up color! Thank you for taking the time to watch! ❤

[@lenetteranger8327]

I loved this video it was very informative. I scored a 6 and yes I enjoy luxury items and I don't care what the rich people are wearing or doing.

[@simplykura]

THank you for taking the time to watch freind! ❤ A six is what I got as well! we are somwhere in the middle.Who carws what the rich think.🤷🏾‍♀ I dont lol! Have a wonderful week!

[@lenetteranger8327]

@@simplykura Thanks you too!

[@bstung3453]

Bit and pieces and a good dupe will do. I love it subtle and understated😊

[@sharetac9296]

Good video. I like a mix, some days I like color. it's fun.

[@caroldanderson6781]

Excellent conversation! I scored a 6, quiet luxury with my personal flavor embedded in it. I love a chic, classic, tailored look with a pop of personality! 💃🏽

[@dawndouglas1127]

Kura Another fantastic video, you're a great teacher ❤

[@simplykura]

Youre too kind! thank you!❤😩

[@sincerelyajg5067]

I scored a 7. I agree that I'm going to do luxury as I always do...like myself! I'm very much a Black woman (80s baby) with southern roots from DC so I love the occasional logo, gold jewelry & sneakers/boots are always "yes"! I dress for the occasion and my mood. As for color, the good Lord would not have given this melanin that looks AMZING in shades of orange, blue, yellow, hell all of the colors if I wasn't supposed to highlight one of my best features!

[@NavadineAntoinette]

Loved this video Kura ❤

[@simplykura]

Thank sis!❤️😊

[@lasharondavis3138]

Very enlightening ❤

[@simplykura]

Thank you for taking the time to watch😊❤️

[@Lady1234bug]

Great video, Shakura❣️ I definitely enjoy expressing myself through my clothing, and I definitely lean more toward loud and proud. It something about melanin and bright colors that just brings me so much joy!😁But, I also enjoy wearing clean lines and classic pieces depending on my mood. I also loved the Tom Ford piece at the end of the video. I definitely agree with him!💖💚💙😍

[@needes8559]

Love your take on this. All this talk of quiet luxury has made me realize that you have to really know who you are. ( omg wrote this before I heard you say the same thing. Yessss ! ) If you don’t, you will wake up in the morning and change your whole aesthetic to what some magazine or some influencer says is correct. I wanted to hear your take because you always seem smart and down to earth. I think after this video when it pops up I will be hitting “ not intetested “ lol

[@playinnclothez3877]

Well said 👏

[@simplykura]

Thank you for taking the time yo watch😊❤️

[@connieholmes4853]

I am a dark skinned women and when I wear white, I feel like an angel from heaven…lol Personally I could care less about what others are wearing, sometimes people are just lost. I am in my mid fourties’ and I like uncomplicated, comfortable, feminine, well made clothes. No I am not doing too much, just let my beauty shine through. I wear makeup as well but I have cut back. I just don’t like doing too much but I don’t think about quite luxury… kinda of silly. I love your break down of this term but no I just do me which happens to more of that style in clothing. If I feel like adding color, it’s usually a pastel like pink. We should just dress in what we like and call it a day. I agree, I don’t want anything to do with “old money” and everything to with classy, respectful, a loving mother, and minding my own business.

[@teah80]

Love this!

[@simplykura]

White on dark skin is elite!!! 😩 The contrast is beautiful! I have cut back on my makeup as well.I feel like I look better with less. I dont know if that comes with age or what?🤷🏾‍♀ I cant bother to care about what other people think im wearing. Today it is queit luxury tommrow it will be somethng else. Yes to the classy, respectful and heavy on the MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS 😂

[@comeoninmycoop]

I really appreciate what you've done here.

[@simplykura]

Thank you! I apprecaite you taking the time to watch!!❤

[@reintroduceyou]

I have so many thoughts, but the bottom line is that you did not disappoint. The visuals, the game, a whole history lesson. And I think your varying perspectives were spot on. This was really well done - but aren't they all. 😉 I think its beautiful that so many people wear what they want - 10 toes down and dress for themselves. Grrrrrreat! But many of us are still finding our way, our aesthetic - and what our clothes say to other people. Because even quiet luxury says something to other people. Wearing wtf you want says something. Logo mania says something. Figuring out what you want to say, and more importantly WHY you wanna say it is where the freedom is. I'm still navigating that.

[@erinperez4429]

Thank you for just talking about style and not necessarily making it about the color of skin. I’m white 54 y/o. Grew up very poor and worked my a** of as a firefighter to have a great middle class life. I love culture. All culture! I love color, all color all styles. Your right, the upper class could care less about us and I could care less about them. Unless their house is on fire 🔥 of course. I watch a lot of these videos on this subject and your the first video not to shame me for being white. And food for thought. Tix toc is ran by China and our country is unnecessarily having a race war. Doesn’t it make you 💭 wonder why is this trending? 🙏 ❤️ 🇺🇸!!

[@simplykura]

The wealthy people that I have come in contact with through the years have been pleasant. Their children were adorable, and for the most part they treated me with kindness as thier childrens teacher. However, it was very clear to me that they had no idea what it felt like to be middle-class.The comments they made, the things they would laugh at, and the way they would deal with things made me question why we are so obsessed with them. You are a brave women for being a fire fighter! The very idea terifies me! lol! thank you for taking the time to watch!❤

[@miao.2478]

~🔆 ……….🙋🏽‍♀️Quiet Luxury for me but with a little flare.

[@simplykura]

Yes! I need a little flare!

[@marilynrichardson3944]

That's what makes the world go around, everyone is different.

[@simplykura]

Exactly! I appreciate it all.😊

[@JacquiLondon]

Good job, this is one of my favorite videos!

[@simplykura]

Thank you for taking the time to watch!! I apprecaite it!!❤️

[@Cheree_Wright]

The truly wealthy do not need to flaunt their wealth. I thought this was the concept of quiet luxury. A trend towards wearing clothes that don’t scream luxury or highlight expensive labels. Basically, if you want to look rich, then don’t LOOK rich. Be “quiet” . That’s the trend. The reason it’s been associated with old money is because that tends to be the fashion aesthetic of that group of people. Do I think that some luxury brands are raising their prices or making it increasingly difficult for the “average” person to access their products? Yes. Unfortunately, social media is promoting the idea that we all “deserve” luxury and can stretch our pockets to get it. Some luxury brands have caught on. Obviously it’s not luxury if everyone can “afford” it, so they raise their prices, or require you to join some club, or get on a waitlist. Trust me, the people these items are intended for are doing NONE of that. Let the 1% have it. I’m even disgusted at the way these luxury brands partner with H&M and have consumers waiting in line or staying up all night to purchase items that are available in such limited quantities that very few people can actually get them. It makes consumers look foolish and desperate to look rich. Begging to be a part of some club they don’t want us to join. A publicity stunt basically. Why would I stand in line for hours to give you my money? Am I not the consumer? Doesn’t your business run off of my dollars? As consumers we gotta stop paying for some of this grossly overpriced stuff.

[@simplykura]

Is it that the rich don’t flaunt their wealth, or is it that they don’t care about fashion and just shop with in their tax bracket? I don’t know. I was looking for the “rich don’t flaunt their wealth” in my research and that was barely mentioned. Idk why. Apparently, the fashion publications are saying that it simply means high quality minimal clothing.🤷🏽‍♀️ Ive also noticed that even the cheaper stores are playing with this quiet luxury discussion. Revolve has a quiet luxury section! 🤦🏾‍♀️ I wish that we wouldn’t idolize people who don’t care about us. Its so strange.😳 The 1% are not having discussions about us. Who cares what they do lol!

[@camillieeb]

The rich absolutely flaunt their wealth with their multiple large homes, luxury cars and jet setting lifestyle. Nothing quiet about it. We, the 99% do deserve luxury and fashion and we deserve to enjoy it and express ourselves however we please.

[@seekingenlightenment2026]

Shakura , I just can’t tell you enough how much I respect, appreciate, and am gaining from your content. You bring fashion with intelligence!! You presented so many important, valid, and thought provoking points. You organized the content in such an effective way. The intro activity was genius!! All so clear, simple, easy to follow, and very meaningful! I loved this and I love being in your classroom!!! 🤣 I scored a 4, but I can also find myself at times on the other side of the scale as an African-American woman of a big age (as Tishyra of Politics and Fashion calls it!)🤣 The point for me is that no people are monolithic. As, you suggest, we should all have the space to self-express!! Yea!! to Tom Ford! Yea!! to you!!! You have carved a very special spot on KZbin for yourself! Love it! Thank you so much for sharing. I look forward to anything you post!!

[@hair399]

Interesting discussion. I've never really thought about the concept of quiet luxury in terms of my personal style/culture. I would say my personal style has always been a little more on the classic side i.e. neutrals. This is mostly dictated by my lifestyle, which is very casual. Occasionally, I'll wear bold colors, usually when vacationing to a tropical destination or during the summer months. Definitely into high/low fashion choices. Love seeing others expressing their individual style choices. Completely agree with Tom Ford's comments.

[@swhatley1226]

Scored an 8, lol I couldn’t resist the “ohranje” slacks! 😂

[@simplykura]

Right!!! The color alone!!! 😳 😩

[@crucianlam3425]

i think you said this the best❤. do you boo

[@simplykura]

Thats all we can do!🤷🏽‍♀️😩😊😂 cant be worried about others!

[@YOLONOW5280]

I love love this video. Thank you for pointing out great cultural history. I scored a ten, loud and proud 👏🏽🥂🥳

[@simplykura]

I had no doubt that you would score high! 😂 Thank you for taking the time to watch!❤

[@NaturallyJem30]

My score was a 7 in the game and that is the perfect number for me and my style. Similar to you I will and have taken bits and pieces from the concept of “quiet Luxury “ and incorporate it into my style. To be honest I always have way before it was branded as quiet luxury lol. I’m all about a sophisticated, polished, and pops of rich color aesthetic.

[@rlavelleSLP]

This was such a thoughtful, intelligent video.

[@simplykura]

THank you so much Friend!!❤ Have a beautiful week!

[@debragould5347]

I am older than you, and white. I certainly don't have old money. Even white people are rather disgusted with this "old money" concept of class. I just wanted to tell you that I think you are a beautiful, elegant woman.

[@simplykura]

You’re too kind Debra!😩 Thank you so much for your kind words❤️💕

[@Ccgemini]

Quiet luxury is a lifestyle not a fashion style, just like their is a DIFFERENCE being WEALTHY and being RICH. Thank you for your honesty when you said no one is thinking about YOU but some of us going in Debt trying to be seen by people who are NOT LOOKING AT YOU🙄🙄. Live, love and be who you want to be, wear what you want to wear 🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️. I heard Century 21 is open again, vlog a visit please until I visit NYC

[@dawncoe1293]

This was a very thoughtful video. When I first saw this topic I definitely saw it for what it was. Just as minimalism was imho a way to dim the light of those fabulous influencers who were bold, and colorful women of color. I like color, I like neutrals. I'm upper middle class. Quiet luxury? Nah, black excellence. Lol.

[@simplykura]

Thank you for taking the time to watch.❤ Somedays I want wear all neutrals other days I need some color.🤷🏾‍♀ This whole idea of quiet luxury being superior is exhasting lol! The style is beautiful its just not for everyone.🤷🏾‍♀ BLACK EXCELLENCE! yassssss ! Love it!!!! ❤

[@WakeUpSleeper555]

This was a great video. I'm on 10 over here 😊. Hope you are enjoying your week.

[@simplykura]

Thanks sis!! Same to you!!❤

[@andralopez4898]

New subbie…your voice reminds me of Janet Jackson..love it!!👏🏾👏🏾

[@simplykura]

I’m a HUGE JANET FAN! So for somebody to say that my voice reminds me of hers is THE BEST COMPLIMENT OF ALL TIME!😂 Thank you. You made my day! Thank you for taking the time to watch.😊❤️

[@sharonwalton2579]

I truly enjoyed this video! I scored a 10

[@simplykura]

Thank you for taking the time to watch! a 10 is a true fashion girl!!❤

[@parler8698]

I like subtlety

[@chaycesmom1212]

I'm a quiet luxury kinda girl

[@NavadineAntoinette]

Kura, may I ask ; the pop-ups that say subscribe on your screen, are they from add- ons via Final Cut ?

[@simplykura]

Hey boo! they are not. I can't remember where I got them😩 But if you google FCP plug ins they are everywhere!

[@brittneyk0158]

Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow is not promised to us and TODAY is all we have to look and feel our best. There’s no time for a dress rehearsal! YOU decide how you want to “package” yourself today! We need to wear what makes us feel beautiful, luxurious, confident, comfortable, happy, giddy, playful, boss (add more words). REGARDLESS! 🤫 In the meantime, we are going to tip on into the bank and deposit all the coints we have saved from you styling us with soooo many great fashion options! You’re the BEST! 😊

[@mariaferguson2224]

Great video. By the way, that is the Kennedy family not the Vanderbilt family. It looks to be a picture from the wedding of John F. Kennedy and Jackie Bouvier Kennedy.

[@simplykura]

You are right!😂 Thank you! I appreciate you taking the time to watch! ❤️

[@katiekatie3958]

I like classic timeless pieces that are easy to match and are in even in 10 years. And I dont like people looking at me so I dont like patterns and colors

[@deitralee1927]

I scored an 8, which was expected. I agree, what is the benefit of showing off the beautiful melanin of our skin, if we don't wear colorful clothes sometimes.

[@simplykura]

It would be a waste! I need a bit of color sometimes.🤷🏾‍♀

[@shoelady6457]

😁👍 good information. I here for the color.

[@NavadineAntoinette]

That oraaaaaaaawwwwnge! 🤭 Btw Ama need you to film a filming setup & equipment video please 😩 teach me oh wise one “🙇🏽‍♀️🤭

[@simplykura]

😂😂 Its a thre point lighting set up. A ring light in front of me and two soft boxes behind me. I got them cheap from Amazon a long timea ago.I will put it in a vlog so you can see.❤️

[@NavadineAntoinette]

@@simplykura Thankyou ! And font forget to talk about your camera and lenses 🙈 and if your blogging camera is different please mention 🙈 too!🤭

[@giedredunn6715]

Quiet fashion is a cultural thing, not racial. I am from Northern Europe and always wore classical quiet colors. This conversation is just too stupid.

[@simplykura]

It is cultural (as I stated in the video) I didn’t say it was racial.🤷🏽‍♀️ I mentioned race as a descriptor for myself and as a way to define the American term WASP. Is the conversation tiring? Absolutely! However, it is important for me to validate those of us who don’t come from your culture. With the term “quiet luxury” being viewed as better in recent months, I want everyone to be secure in their fashion choices. Thank you for taking the time to watch.