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[@jennaheiser625]

Gotta love how a stalker can say “I know she doesn’t have a boyfriend,” while clearly forgetting people can date long distance or go through separations.

[@yougotitwrongiknowit700]

Also clearly forgets now she would have MORE reasons to say no but less politely and now reasons to call the police.

[@_leaf-3525]

plus if a girl is saying no because she has a boyfriend, it really doesn't matter if that's the truth or not. she isn't interested, and if she's lying just so she doesn't have to be with a guy then i would say that's a pretty good sign to back off lol

[@AIHumanEquality]

Assuming she's not gay to begin with too.

[@riverstein7251]

To them a “boyfriend” is someone who is constantly playing guard dog with their “property.” So they’re just like “I see no owner, must be free and available!” Which is deplorable for many reasons but my biggest one is that if we applied this mentality to everything there’d be a shit ton of kidnappings and SA, _especially_ with children who don’t have an adult around at that particular moment.

[@AIHumanEquality]

Assuming she's even straight to begin with as well. Not everyone is.

[@kaiya.a.hiroyuki]

4:46 A woman is literally saying that men moaning is better than anything else...then a guy immediately responds, saying that women don't like it, even though it was a woman who posted it... It's like that one study about lesbians, where they didn't ask any lesbians, only straights

[@solosynapse]

"What do women like? This man who's never been with a woman gives his opinion!"

[@Prominence2.0]

As a woman, MEN SHOULD MOAN MORE FR

[@sleepymonsteraddict]

Lmao this is so true, the amount of times I had a guy tell me "women like this" and I was a woman just stand there like nah bro we don't.

[@Prominence2.0]

@@sleepymonsteraddict fr they know nothing about us

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

What study was that with the lesbians? That's hilarious if it weren't sad

[@dcornect53]

"Unseasoned face" is definitely something a cannibal says, let's agree on that.

[@xXVeroseXx]

Lmao

[@ArcanineEspeon]

It's missing some lemon pepper...

[@TomoyoTatar]

fing dying

[@stefyroxanne7567]

Ohhh nooo. They must have been on bath salts while making that post lol.

[@noobulon4334]

Tbh though makeup tastes really bad, I'd prefer unseasoned

[@claracatlady9844]

The “western females” rant by that totally super authentic uwu Japanese girl sent me over the edge. I have never heard anything more “written by a man” *ever*

[@betsyjohnson9699]

It gave the same energy as three kids in a trench coat claiming to be an adult

[@claracatlady9844]

@@betsyjohnson9699 yeah but far less adorable and way more sexist

[@betsyjohnson9699]

@@claracatlady9844 exactly

[@Yatalu]

That and the fact that the mistakes made by said Japanese speaker are very token English native speaker mistakes and contain a lot of anglosphere slang / cultural verbiage... Even if you give it the benefit of the doubt that it's a girl who eats up everything her manosphere boyfriend says and is just parrotting it, it just reads as an English native speaker with below-average literacy.

[@kyletucker3811]

The entire time I was going "If you're actually a woman, I'll eat my shoe."

[@baileyBLIGHT]

'Estrogen related things' absolutely SENT ME. "Hello fellow female, would you like to partake in Estrogen Related Hobbies with me, a female?"

[@ghostofawriter27]

your average mtf trans gang

[@Pirates.27]

It's like an allien trying to pose as a human.

[@Insertia_Nameia]

Not only is it filled with incel and red pill terminology and phrasing, it is NOT written at all like someome that has ESL, but certainly nothing like someone that only just learned English. Let alone from Japanese specifically. It fits nothing but a native English speaker that doesn't speak their own native language very well. It also reeks of a white weeb that knows nothing of actual Japanese culture that had a massive fetish for Japanese women.

[@kerricaine]

How conservatives see trans women lol

[@Sugaro_x]

well, at least it’s trans inclusive ig lol

[@anq4274]

I've notice an interesting venn diagram between poor grammar, bad math and NotHowGirlsWork intersect in very bizarre way.

[@einienj3281]

Very true! 😂

[@RuthBhmand]

Dumb people being….. dumb?😂 Venn diagram very overlapping. Put in some flat earth and it’s complete.🐇

[@RawrX32009]

Circle looking ass venn diagram💀😭

[@BananaWasTaken]

And does that Venn Diagram happen to be a circle?

[@samuelbarber6177]

Maybe it’s because people with poor math and grammar, and the people featured here, do have a lot in common. Like being stupid.

[@Vivian2043]

8:28 “[Women] can't appreciate an act of old fashioned romance” coming from him somehow gives me the same energy as “If I make you coffee, a simple thank you is more than enough, you don't have to yell at me and ask how did I break into your house 🙄”

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

How does this not have more likes? XD

[@darks_gene707]

​@@eyesofthecervino3366 yes

[@AnnekeOosterink]

Right? "women no longer appreciate stalking and kidnapping these days!" What a mystery.

[@livliveart]

I've never been on a date, and even I know that you can only be romantic if the *other* person finds it romantic. You don't get to define that for someone else. But I'm a girl, so idk. It just feels icky.

[@Nortarachanges]

@@livliveart, oh no, you have it right. That’s why it’s a relationship with a fellow person, not a relationship with a dating sim character

[@MicheleDoenges]

That whole "women's taste changes over time but men always like pretty young girls" is not a thing to celebrate. Imagine being proud of stagnating in your immaturity as the women in your life grow and mature.

[@PrettyRubbish]

Not to mention the implications of "pretty young girls." Not all guys are pedophiles, but that idiot sure is.

[@seigeengine]

It's literally about sexual dynamics and how the roles of males and females in reproduction are vastly different in scope, but by all means, turn that into a toxic personal attack. I mean, I was going to be polite, but you're two hundred gross people.

[@gomasurimimizu]

As a Japanese person that entire segment where a “foreign japanese woman” explained the “injustice faced by nice guys in western culture” made me wheeze so hard I think I almost spat out my own trachea

[@arandomkobold8403]

I think it was trying to eject itself out

[@eevee3168]

People sometimes thinks Poland is also heaven for those who needs breath from western countries, that is different and not woke and women are not feminist etc. Cringe.

[@eksotropia]

@@eevee3168 lmao as as polish woman i laughed so hard thats bullshit ive never heard of it, but funnily enough some polish guys think the same of ukrainian women, that they are more obedient and feminine and polish girls are too confident and know what they want (still dont understand how thats a negative)

[@s.p.d.magentaranger1822]

​@@eksotropia Considering Ukraine is fighting against Russia and actually holding them off as far as I know, this could not be further from the truth.

[@eevee3168]

​@@eksotropia That's so annoying. xd Once when I told one person I never saw wooden church in Poland, they didn't belive me, because they heard there are plenty (maybe there are some, but not everywhere) and they thought Poland is very poor and don't have many cities.

[@PersonTP]

As soon as "she" said that "I'm a Japanese female" I knew it 100% wasn't a real woman, and it just kept getting worse :')

[@AIHumanEquality]

Really? What gave it away? (This is sarcasm for anyone not getting it)

[@sunnyandthechlo]

I’m just imagining him meeting my Japanese grandma (RIP) and wetting his pants.

[@rinishan]

The amount of time she spent explaining the sexy hair, bodies and eyes that the "western females" she was shopping with had and how it's rude that the hot ones ended up dating Chads 😂😂 "She" sounds jelly as hell to be in a happy relationship with...Bob.

[@crypticlol]

I hate this hypersexualization of japanese women. Jesus Christ, they are just women like any other women.

[@KittyGratkie3261]

I didn't realize I needed to lose my ability to spell, use grammar, and I need to start calling myself a female. The more you know 😂

[@christianevrye]

"I'm looking for a female to marry." a female WHAT, sir????

[@meltingdragon2220]

shark, obviously!

[@justanotheruser688]

He‘ll settle with everything, just has to be female

[@Aelitagurl]

Female kangaroo lol

[@HALOSnHORNS]

Horse😂

[@tdelioncourt1268]

goat, duh

[@CyberWarezz05]

What I love about 6:55 was that someone commented: "What was she supposed to do, leave her b*tt at home and take her work b*tt?", and it was such an amazing response that I kept it in my vocabulary just in case something like this happens to me.

[@animangle]

the worst part about that post is that the guy took a photo of her butt. it's already bad and pretty insane that he thinks that way, but the fact that he thought he was entitled to take a photo of her butt somehow makes it 10x worse for me.

[@Kayla-lh5we]

More women need to wake up

[@betsyjohnson9699]

@@Kayla-lh5weto what

[@mistressofdreams6031]

@@Kayla-lh5wemore men need to think with their brains instead of…well

[@WhatABinglylittlescronklylil-]

@@animangle Ik, right? Didn’t he like, at least, even for a _second-_ bother to stop and think.. “Hey, maybe I shouldn’t take pictures of a random woman’s a** while she’s both unaware, and working?”

[@dziooooo]

The idea that a 33 yo dude who is interested in dating a high-schooler is a paragon of maturity, stability and safety is such a wild concept. Buddy, I wouldn't trust you to successfully take care of a potted plant, I've eaten cheese more mature than you.

[@BoxOfToasters]

Cheese is nice to have, cheese is mature, that dude is NONE OF THOSE.

[@MuzikBike]

@@BoxOfToastersdude probably has mold growing in all of his cracks and crevices though.

[@akitokutikabanae7010]

"I've eaten cheese more mature than you" WOW. I definitely gonna use it in the future, I love it 🤣🤣

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

It’s also illegal and gross AF. Borderline pedophilia.

[@phoebesunbook1737]

im in hs and i see girls who will fall for this (a girl im kind of close with specifically and dates 5+ years older as a minor) and its really sad to see that shes so insecure that she feels the need to do this, and its definitely detrimental. worst part is everyone around her has told her that this isn't okay and have continuously tried to stop her but she wont

[@ricequin]

The reason we lie about having a boyfriend is that the type of man who wrote that post about stalking don’t see us as humans with agency and don’t respect our “no”, but they wouldn’t want to step on another man’s “property”.

[@DelphiBellatrixRiddle]

It's insane. 9/10 times when someone is being a creep telling them I have a boyfriend (I'm lesbian) makes them stop. They'll respect a man they've never met (and who might not even exist) before the woman in front of them

[@sourgreendolly7685]

@@DelphiBellatrixRiddleThat's an impressive success rate to me ngl

[@junrobin9335]

I wear a wedding ring when I go out because of that actually, because I hate people dismissing my relationship cause the guy lives in a different country.

[@artorhen]

Honestly, I don’t even see why men are offended if women lie to them, like it’s not going to change that she’s not interested and they don’t owe an explanation why they aren’t either.

[@martina6700]

It's sad that I actually think about buying a golden ring to use and thus avoid any type of contact...

[@kaitlynmorgan4613]

the reason why calling women "females" is weird is because, in a sense, it implies they arent human and it objectifies them. "woman" is a whole human. "female" is a scientific term to use regarding animals, insects, flowers, and fish. calling women "females" indicates the persons sex takes more priority than them being a human. "woman" is a noun, "female" is an adjective, and people arent an adjective would these men hate being called boys or men and therefore prefer "males?" i feel like i never see incels call men "males," so like? edit: yall dont see the point. click asked why "female" sounds weird to say, and i explained. doctors are gonna use male AND female to describe patients. legal documents are going to put M or F on it. the problem lies when incels refuse to call women anything other than a scientific word that reduces someone to their "parts" so to say im not saying you cant say "male or female," cause if the sex/gender was so important to say like in "my female boss," you wouldnt say "my boss whos a woman" cause its lengthier

[@FunkyLittlePoptart]

They aren't implying anything. Incels don't think women are people, they're things, objects (specifically a container for a penis). Let them talk for 30 seconds, they'll tell you exactly what they think.

[@blrryanii_]

They call themselves alpha males so hey that counts

[@derekstein6193]

Female can also be a noun. "The mated pair watch over their newborn kits in their den. The female will stay with her offspring, never leaving their side until they are fully weaned, while the male stands watch at the entrance for potential predators and occasionally hunts for food to bring back to his mate."

[@AIHumanEquality]

@@derekstein6193 Literally no wild animal behaves in that manner. People have tried for centuries to apply human social norms and gender norms to animals but with extremely rare exceptions animals operate on survival instinct not social roles.

[@Robohead-z6z]

Wait I thought humans can be males and females too. I just hate that cause they will say men and females. I mean I refer myself as a female human sometimes.

[@katwalrus]

The story about the creepy stalker dude at uni is so wild bc it accidentally exemplifies a trend where a lot of the time men won't accept a woman's rejection unless she has a boyfriend- so, honestly, he could be right & she doesn't have a boyfriend and was just using an excuse... but that reflects even MORE poorly on him, because it implies she felt so uncomfortable that she assumed he wouldn't take no for an answer unless there was another man involved.

[@morganqorishchi8181]

The phrase "female species" had me cackling. Ah yes, the female species. Because being a woman means you're not human, obviously. There's homo sapien and then homo female. We all know this.

[@M3MEz]

Lmao

[@feuerling]

Your comment reminded me of that "hetero sapiens" meme

[@LucanVaris]

"Well, as an individual who is a member of the Homo Sapien Femalenia Species, I-" [And as soon as those words left his lips, his entire cover was blown.]

[@nantha7357]

Isn't it common knowledge that women can only produce offspring with other women and are therefore a destinct species from men who can only produce offspring with other men??

[@Suited_Nat]

@@feuerlingDamn your comment reminded me of that. The way that some ppl don’t get that homo can mean more than just a way of saying “gay” XD

[@loveearrings]

re: the women wanting to get their tubes tied and the doctor saying no - this happened to me! I am a woman, I am 28 years old, I do not want and have never wanted children. I went to the doctor to talk about birth control options, I expected that it would be pretty chill experience, as it has been before. When I mentioned maybe getting my tubes tied my doctor was like "I guess, maybe, you need to talk to our birth control nurse" which, alright, sure. I talked with her, she mentioned some other options, and I was like okay, but could I maybe just get my tubes tied? and then had to sit through a convo with this nurse where she went "Are you sure you don't want kids? are you sure you will never want kids? well, your biological clock IS ticking, so you would need to have kids soon if you want them anyway" Through all of this I said "I am sure, I do not want kids" over and over. THEN she said "okay, but.... wait, are you in a relationship?" and my answer was yes, I have been in a relationship for 10 years, he also Does Not want kids, he wants kids even less than I do (and even if he wanted kids, so what?? he certainly will not be using my body to get any) Now, I hadn't expected that comment, I am from Denmark and I thought because of that my doctor would be more "your body your choice", and at the very least I expected the convo to move on after that. BUT THEN. AFTER I JUST SAID YES I AM SURE 100 TIMES, ALSO I AM IN A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE BEEN FOR 10+ YEARS AND HE ALSO DOESN'T WANT KIDS. INSTEAD OF SAYING "Alright, here are the logistics and risks etc etc" SHE WENT "Okay. I hear you. But what if you and your partner break up, and you get a different partner and HE wants kids?" ????????????????? It has been more than a year since I had this convo with her, and I am STILL stunned???????

[@loveearrings]

oh yeah, I forgot to mention the end of the convo, she said she didn't think it would be a good idea for me to have my tubes tied, but maybe my partner could get a vasectomy instead

[@natnuss98]

Gosh I'm so sorry. I hope you leave an honest review of your experience for other people to find. Because that's so much time wasted just to get nowhere.

[@Angel_hh]

omg? thats like- i cant even imagine that. as a child, (dw im smarter than im supposed to be) i have even had doctors that will not respect my opinion. it is crazy.

[@John_Weiss]

​@loveearrings Your experience angers me. The entire conversation is based on the assumption that you, as a woman, are some man's property. "BuT wHaT iF yOu BrEaK uP?" - the proper answer to that is, "Why would I get into a relationship with some dude who wants to force me into being pregnant against my will?!?!?!" I swear, I don't know how you ladies put up with all of this sh1t.

[@Marskilius]

I am speechless.... 😧 That's horrid! Wtf..? 🤬

[@runningthemeta5570]

These people: “women are a strange and unknown creature.” Also these people: literal swamp muck

[@TheSleepyGayArtist]

Don't you dare shame shriek’s home

[@runningthemeta5570]

@@TheSleepyGayArtistsorry, I should’ve gone with pond scum

[@BananaWasTaken]

⁠@@runningthemeta5570that’s offensive to ducks, geese and all other respectable pond creatures.

[@runningthemeta5570]

@@BananaWasTakenwell how else do I should that these people are literally the worst?

[@DDRRR243]

Call them low grade jabba the hut impersonators​@@runningthemeta5570

[@electricgodchild5505]

Guy: "Women don't love men unconditionally! We men we love unconditionally, but women always have conditions for love!" Also Guy: "She must be under 120 pounds, be immortal and never age past 23, also must have low iron levels, unvaccinated, gains no weight from pregnancy, sonic hearing, mute but not def, experienced no trauma in her life ever, and her toes must be white."

[@na3rial]

Don’t forget a virgin but somehow also super sexually needy and naughty

[@mildacha8050]

Yup. 🙄

[@nakamotens]

HER TOES MUST BE WHITE 😭😭😭😭😭

[@minervarose7664]

Ah, dem white toes 😂

[@monoduck]

And you're not allowed to grow hair! How gross! (Obviously sarcastic.)

[@WobblesandBean]

The number of men who treat women like this is nothing short of horrifying.

[@Jolis_Parsec]

Indeed. As somebody who was once a part of the anti-woke cringefest, I can safely say a majority of that crowd is completely unhinged when it comes to women.

[@jb111082]

If that number is only one, then it is one too many.

[@minestar2247]

Nah, just disapointing

[@ki.44524]

​@@Jolis_Parsec same here, ashamed to say i use to be right leaning. crazy crazy people, even the ones who dont even consider themselves super right. i am NOT like that anymore tho - i dont consider myself on any side but people in the right would prob call me wOkE

[@ki.44524]

@@MarcusHCrawford 1. never said it wasnt a problem 2. misogyny exists irl

[@HeroinYoda]

I love how these redditors try to sound experienced with women, but easily get corrected by a gay guy.

[@HarutoVa]

Wait, click is gay? I didnt know that!

[@errantwinds-up8uu]

@@HarutoVa He isn't gay, no. A lot of his fanbase is which is awesome, but he's mentioned that he's straight before.

[@Ramsey276one]

BY A GAY GUY! "I don't even work that genre and I know THAT IS WRONG, my dear!" XD

[@lingodelfo5415]

​@@HarutoVa I thought @HeroinYoda was referring to himself

[@HarutoVa]

@@lingodelfo5415 maybe he is or maybe not, idk!😅

[@Erissa]

I struggled to get my tubes removed until I was 33 because every doctor gave me crud about how "what if your future husband wants kids?" or what if you regret it?" My responses were always a long the lines of "We won't be compatible" & "I thought pro-lifers always love to say that adoption is an option". I also always ended up mentioning that I haven't wanted kids since I was like 10 or so.

[@Awidferd]

Was it worth it? I really want to look into it as soon as I can (currently a minor) and I have never wanted kids, for my entire life. (I also have some genetic issues that I don't want to pass on.) Was it a good choice for you?

[@waffles3629]

Ugh, I was looking for a hysterectomy due to insane periods, and despite holding my girlfriend's hand, I would still be asked about my future husbands wants. And I'm non-binary too. Like "no hysterectomy just in case you break up with your partner"? What??

[@GrumpyOldFart2]

Read your story many many MANY times in other comments on other channels. It’s THE F*CKING YEAR 2024. Why are we still dealing with this sh*t?!?

[@Framokamc]

I think those comments coming from a doctor, they should know a woman can get pregnant even with the tubes tied 🤔🤔 you don't stop being fertile... You just don't want children 💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️ is still unbelievable women are not allowed to choose what to do with our bodies, who the f** cares what the imaginary bf/hb wants 🙄🙄 plenty of women suffer for having children in abusive relationships but yet, we need " permission" from a man...

[@Framokamc]

​@@Awidferd the negative of an hysterectomy, in terms of removing the ovaries, you need to find a replacement for the sexual hormones, without those hormones you are going to have menopause, meaning hormonal disbalance, if you are talking about removing only the uterus you should be good, but take at least 6-8 month of rest, as well since everyone is different, what worked for the previous commenter may not work for you, that's why I provide the info that I know, just for you to be careful 👍🏻 as well I don't know if you have thought about it, but you can donate your uterus to a woman that has problems with fertility, I think is a good option, whatever you want to try, just remember to make sure you have a good doctor and to take all the rest and cares you need 🙂

[@Anemonol]

120lbs is a whale? That’s the lowest weight a woman my height can be before doctors start force feeding you. So.. dieting is pointless then? Awesome. Imma order a pizza.

[@fatcatlord8066]

I am 125 and my stomach be legit almost flat. And I’m not even like ridiculously short or something, I’m 5’4. What this man wants is skin and bones

[@monoduck]

His ideal woman is a skeleton wearing eyeshadow 💀

[@seigeengine]

@@monoduck I too lust for the undead.

[@einienj3281]

The "Japanese girl" is so cringe.. He is pretending to be his own fantasy girlfriend 😂😂😂

[@girl1213]

Yup. He's thinking if "I claim I'm a woman from Japan, then people will automatically believe me" But you really don't need to read it too deeply to understand this a guy masquerading, not an actual woman from Japan. He's just as bad as that guy that tried to "mansplain" Japanese food to a Japanese native woman because he thought Japanese women were submissive. Seriously these types need to get their heads out of the TV/Computer with all that anime.

[@minestar2247]

Wait, it's weird to pretend being your own fantasy gf?

[@drink_your_water]

incel to transwoman pipeline

[@GirlNotControlledByAntss]

Videogame players swearing that female (s derogatory) characters have smaller hotboxes:

[@GirlNotControlledByAntss]

​@@minestar2247I mean... you could be.

[@morganqorishchi8181]

"Replying to your husband shows your lack of manners" real talk, as a dude: nothing would be more creepy than silently standing there not replying to your husband even when he pauses for you to say something. That gives off horror movie vibes. Either she's planning to kill me or she's thinking about how to tell me the ghost of a girl her best friend ran over in high school has been following her around town whispering, "avenge meeeee" ever since she played with a ouija board.

[@edene.4870]

But you know the idiot who wrote that meant "backtalking". And since anything that isn't "yes, sir, you're right sir, I won't ever do it again, sir, how do you want me to beg forgiveness, sir" is considered backtalking...

[@xejelah]

oddly specific - but thank you for the insight

[@mintallylost222]

I think I'm in love with you.

[@angelina8276]

@@mintallylost222I agree with you bestie

[@reivoidwalker]

This is the best comment I’ve ever read in my life

[@dcornect53]

About the boring conversations, honestly most women don't want to talk to people who hate women or who are creepy. Guy probably asks some derogatory and hateful questions or opens with "what's your body count?" so people give them as little info as possible and try to exit the conversation asap.

[@HLBear]

My body count is 18. Oh... you meant how many $exual partners? None of your business. ;)

[@EmyN]

People that complain about others being boring are the boring ones 🤷‍♀️

[@sourgreendolly7685]

Plus other people don't exist to be entertaining to you personally so if you're complaining about boring conversations then you probably just need to talk to someone you have shared interests with. You know, instead of deciding a person us inherently boring and then applying that to the segment of the population that share their gender... It all comes back to not thinking of women like they're other people with these dudes.

[@thisperson102]

ALL OF THIS ABOVE and ALSO he said he asked basic things to these women??? Why in the fucking world do you think you'll get anything BUT a baseline response when you're essentially just making small talk? If you want REAL intriguing answers, get off your fucking ass and ask something WORTH giving an intriguing answer to.

[@May-qb3vx]

It does seem like a lot of men just hate women, yet simultaneously expect women to want to date them

[@jennywennybennylennyhenny]

the pioneers of feminism must be rolling in their graves right now, seeing that some boys are still stuck in the "women are incapable of reason" phase 😭

[@mintymilka9400]

"What's your dating preference?" Normal people: *reasonable personality traits, physical attributes, personal views* Niceguys: *eugenics porn*

[@lttle_mushroom]

"NiceGuys™"

[@foogod4237]

The bizarre thing to me is not just that these guys seem so insistent on calling women "females" when _no real person actually talks like that,_ but that they are apparently so wholly and completely wrapped up in their own worlds now that _they actually think that's how everybody else in the whole world (including women) talks too._ It used to be obvious that these guys had never had a date in their life, but at this point it's pretty apparent that some of them have actually legitimately never even spoken to another human being (outside of incel forums) in their life. This is whole new levels of sad, which I didn't think even existed.

[@durabelle]

I know! I watched a really well made but scary documentary about incel culture a while ago, and the situation sounds so much worse and threatening than I ever thought. There's actual adult men who haven't talked to women in real life for years, or at least not since their school years. Their whole vocabulary is like a foreign language at that point. Absolute madness!

[@pikapikap5002]

​@@durabellecare to share what the documentary is called?

[@durabelle]

@@pikapikap5002 It's called The Secret World of Incels, a Channel 4 documentary, can be found here on KZbin.

[@durabelle]

@@pikapikap5002 I've tried to share it twice already, but my replies seem to be disappearing. It's on YT, on channel 4 documentaries.

[@durabelle]

@@pikapikap5002 The secret world of incels.

[@theflowerhead]

I have never once thought "my boyfriend's sex sounds are too feminine" I thought, "Oh, definitely doing _that_ again." lol. Like guys, please don't worry. It's hot. Well, the way that guy talked was unhindged but I mean in general at any guy that feels insecure. I hope to help, even if it's one. If you get a woman in the smaller percent that judges you for something natural that should be a good thing, you don't want her, run. It's not some "all women think this way" thing or a masculine thing, it says everything about this _person_ and not you. She's an asshole. Doesn't mean all women. If a guy was totally quiet I'd be insecure lol. And if it sounded like he was grunting unnaturally like an animal to not sound "feminine" it would just take me out, i just can't. But I do know men can be insecure so I have always told someone I'm being intimate with it feels great for me and helps me know what direction to go in. It's made things great. I just want people to enjoy one of the best experiences to people who like sex. My boyfriend and I comforted each other and this is better than anything I've experienced. Comfort each other, talk about stuff. 😊 Basic questions = basic answers, good one. 😂 I've never heard one woman complain about being called a woman. Your takes are always so clever.

[@theflowerhead]

Thanks for the heart. I'm a big fan.

[@WazirWilly]

I fully agree with the hot part, my SO thinks it’s a turn on when I do wimpy moans and shit, “girly” or whatnot. Imo it’s like a sense of vulnerability which to be fair, the whole bedroom affairs are supposed to be intimate and an act of vulnerability between each other

[@Chu_Nyanning]

I agree on a guy moaning being hot but if they’re grunting like they need to take a shit then it’s time to be done..

[@sarahr8311]

Absolutely! Especially when so many guys are kinda quiet in bed, little gasps and moans mean you're doing something right!

[@ZoobiethePopplio]

​@@WazirWilly But being vulnerable is for women, men should hold in their trauma and emotions until they explode in their 50s /s

[@MaliaMydnight]

Jesus. People mess up the "autistics have troubles with faces" thing so much. It's not about features, it's the emotions. Motives can sometimes be pretty obvious (manipulative, lying, etc) , but the trip up is the emotional expression someone is displaying, as emotions can be difficult when autism enters the chat. I'm a professional makeup artist, a level 100 autist, and it's pretty FINE. Plus. AI faces can be horrifying. I wouldn't pick any of them.

[@arielruby13]

Im autistic, good with makeup and i do sometimes struggle to read peoples emotion on faces. Why should i put a full backstory onto some AI generated women? Plus if i had to pick, neither of these "women" (as we know those are not real humans) are my type anyway

[@MaliaMydnight]

@arielruby13 Nope. Ngl. AI faces tend to give me the heebies. It's like you can SEE there's no soul there - at all. Even when those awful pics of Taylor made rounds, it was horrifying (for more than one reason). There was no soul there. I mean, it's gotten pretty convincing on realism, to be sure, but AI people freak me out. 😵‍💫🤣 And yeah, like, to make a whole back story about AI girls and then blame specific things on autism? Tell me you're chronically online and haven't seen daylight in at least 2 years, but don't say that. Just doesn't make sense. But then again, we're "vaccine injuries" with our autism and God knows wtf else, so yeah, sure, blame the weird near manifesto of AI people on us too. 🙄🤷🏽‍♀️

[@StrawberryCakeStudiosYT]

Literally, this, my cousin jokes about autism but I literally think I have it but low on spectrum - cause I can’t relate to social situations

[@seigeengine]

Why is the idea of autism as an RPG sticking in my brain.

[@MaliaMydnight]

@@seigeengine Because I said my level. It's a self depreciating joke. That and I do kinda feel like an NPC a lot. 🤣

[@Just1Nora]

Whenever a guy uses "female" in one of these he automatically earns a fedora or neckbeard in my mind.

[@diepionoobygaming9423]

Zoologists be like

[@saix_unicorn]

as a french speaker, i always hated when they used female and male, in french the term of female (femelle) and male (mâle) are on,y used as a animal related context. Calling someone a "femelle" or a "mâle" is straight up calling them an animal and is disrespectful af when we talk about a character, we use the terms feminine and masculine, a feminine character is a women and a masculine character is a men

[@diepionoobygaming9423]

@@saix_unicorn ok i hate technicalities but humans are animals.HOWEVER it is dehumanizing, which is essentially what you were saying

[@saix_unicorn]

@@diepionoobygaming9423 yes

[@phish_tikz]

@@diepionoobygaming9423biologist: we spotted a female *tips fedora* animal outside

[@numberfour1234]

Click always tells us we smell nice, yet no one is telling HIM he smells good! This is not ok! Clicky you smell and will forever smell the best.

[@GretchZ]

I can’t tell him that, because men just don’t really smell great to me.

[@FunkyLittlePoptart]

@@GretchZ That might be true, but Click doesn't smell like man, he smells like Emotional Support Demon.

[@IDKmanYouLoseTheGame]

​@@FunkyLittlePoptart emotional support demon smell is the best smell 🥰🥰🥰

[@Bunny_Bill]

Click has a top tier aroma. I can confirm this as someone that has never been near 400 miles of him.

[@crypticlol]

​@@GretchZAlright, more boysmell to me

[@vonBelfry]

The whole fallout butt thing is just... Insufferable. It ends up with people like the ones in the Pizza Tower subreddit who seem to think that huge boobs and a bulbous ass are "typical female features" when the fanart that gets posted is insanely oversexualized. Like, these people actually think that every woman has to have breasts that poke out nearly a foot from their chest and butts that stick out wider than their shoulders, and claim "IT'S JUST FEMALE ANATOMY BRO IT'S NOT SEXUAL"

[@brassbuckles]

There may be some people shaped like that, but I don't know why these guys think that it's standard or normal. I really think some people are maybe watching too much of certain kinds of media. That's the only explanation I can come up with.

[@minestar2247]

Maybe that's why my drawings don't look feminine at all, I avoid sexualisation at all costs

[@pigcatapult]

@@minestar2247 Obviously what you draw is up to you, but I feel like that’s overcorrecting? Like, yeah, there are some assholes who refuse to take off their horny goggles no matter what, but that has more to do with what’s in their heads than what’s on the page. There’s a lot an artist can do to draw the eye where they want, and there’s a big difference between a drawing of a busty woman neutrally existing and a drawing of big boobs with a side of incidental woman.

[@taviebrown2271]

Have these guys ever even SEEN a real girl? Like, any at all? I am a woman, I know a lot (and pretty diverse) group of women, and I literally don't know a single person who fits that description!

[@phoebesunbook1737]

dont forget that theyll have extremely full features such as breasts, butts, and thighs, but will have an extremely slim waist that literally wouldn't be able to support her if she was real, and pushing standards such as that in games is extremely damaging to girls who aspire to look like something that cant happen

[@Happykastle]

I find it interesting how some people claim to not be racist, but then makes a hierarchy of races based on dating, generalizing every person of each race in very stereotypical and caricuturistic way.

[@mikelwrites]

there's a difference between "yeah, i'm insecure about my height" and "you probably think i'm too short too! i bet you're texting other guys while on a date with me!" one is understandable, one is assuming a person (you just met!) is a jerk because people have previously been jerks to you, and acting accordingly.

[@kitkatboard]

Yeah, asking once "you don't mind me being kinda short ? no ? good" is plenty enough

[@crypticlol]

I honestly went to this second phase because of my penis size(that it's bellow average) But yeah, it didn't take me long to realize this doesn't matter at all, specially when I had sex in my first time. This kind of insecurity is toxic but it can manage it if you are open minded enough to change

[@mikelwrites]

@@crypticlol the state of media, society, and marketing breeds insecurity so i understand being insecure (i sure am). it's not good for anyone to project that insecurity though.

[@crypticlol]

@@mikelwrites Shit, I confused the words above and bellow lmao. But yeah, I agree with you.

[@WobblesandBean]

​@@crypticlol It literally doesn't matter. I wish men would understand that 99.9% women genuinely do not care about how big it is. In fact, we don't want big, it hurts.

[@averycheesypotato]

31:11 Video games in the 90’s-00’s: “if girls want to play games about female protagonists, they should just go make their own! No one’s stopping you, stop complaining about sexism in games!” Games now: “video games are now RUINED by not-overly-sexualized female protagonists existing in some franchises! Video games should never be made by or for women! Now we only have a massive collection of games that appeal to the male ego, instead of a total monopoly! So unfair!”

[@livliveart]

👏👏👏

[@BoxOfToasters]

The turns have tabled.

[@Ares_V]

I raise the truth we don't want to admit... Video games are ruined because we were able to demonstrate we can hypersexualise female characters but we are not doing the same with male characters (Yes, it's a joke... But, I do like playing games with hyper-sexualized male characters)

[@averycheesypotato]

@@Ares_V I’m all for equality in any direction… but sometimes games can be just fun without being sexualized, so as long as it’s fair in both directions I’m happy

[@crypticlol]

I want more "female"(I hate using this word to refer to women) protagonists in games And I also want more games with the option to wear sexy costumes for men We need equality

[@felixhenson9926]

'gets run through by 30-50 guys' jfc how many guys do these ppl think women generally sleep with?! i am definitely what they'd call a 'bop' (new term i learnt from this video), i'm poly, i go to sex parties, and my body count is still only 10. Also please don't give me a lecture on sexual health, I'm willing to bet money i keep a closer eye on that stuff than you. Statistically the average number of sexual partners women have is around 7 whereas men's is around 6. Drawing 30-50 from thin air shows how entirely disconnected from reality these men are.

[@feuerling]

Maybe they base their statistics on bonobos instead of humans

[@anexpiredyogurt4818]

They choose random numbers that make them angry, so it's not really a surprise!

[@crypticlol]

only 10? My body count is 1 and I'm 19 lmao

[@vangu2918]

It's their fantasy world peeking through. They probably want to watch.

[@k.l4348]

@@crypticlol I'm almost 21 and mine is 0 lol

[@neelapelz]

44:25 ''For someone who can't write a cohesive f*ck*ng sentence, you sure are eager to call other people stupid.'' Best thing I've heard in a while. Will use that in the future.

[@ml3starman386]

"I talked to one woman on discord and she had nothing of value to say!" man shouldn't be bad-mouthing his mom like that.

[@BoxOfToasters]

Implying his mom has discord, which most moms don't.

[@thatanswergirl-lucy8033]

Once again you're attacking the woman not the misogynistic guy

[@EmyN]

These dudes are mad boring or down right insufferable, the delusion to then complain about others lol

[@carolbaker2773]

I actually remember playing D&D online with a group of friends for just a oneshot weekend. One guy asked if he could bring his friend along that was having a hard time and he felt like he needed a better friend group. We are a pretty open group of weird engineering types so we said absolutely! The makeup was 2 women and 3 men if that matters. We were all playing and having a fun time and the new guy seemed to be mixing in well. We played for like 4 hours and then planned to finish it up the next day. Apparently the guy complained to that friend that the "female" were super annoying and he needed to be drunk next time. He didnt realize that my friend Robby was actually a women as well (short for robin and took her nick name after her father that passed), so its clear he was talking about me.) I thought ok I can be and probably was chatty so maybe I can tone it down. The next night I made an effort not to be "annoying" and he got mad at me saying "Do I really have to address you by name for you to listen?!?". He was kicked out afterwards and even though we lived in different states and he has no idea where i live it was really scary.

[@Shaytan.666]

@@thatanswergirl-lucy8033 nah he said he shouldn't badmouth her

[@maranathaschraag5757]

I'm going to be honest. Love from a woman is absolutely conditional. The conditions: 1) treat us like people instead of walking sex toys. 2) treat us, and all people, with basic kindness, respect, and courtesy 3) don't be a dick (this includes not lying, not cheating, and avoiding anything a reasonable person would qualify as "douchebaggery") That's about it. I'm sorry if that is too much for some people.

[@samuelbarber6177]

Quote an Irish Bill Hader on SNL: “Picky picky.”

[@Cheezbuckets]

UNBELIEVABLE! Love from men is unconditional (under the condition that you are in a permanent state of being skinny, young, devoid of your own opinions, and hot and you never ever change) AND THAT’S WHY MEN ARE BETTER THAN WOMEN!

[@Lagi42800]

As man : isn't that how you should treat people in general ? What weird world

[@Undercover_Femboy]

​@@Lagi42800 yes it is, but sadly many people don't seem to understand that and so need to be told explicitly like this. (And even then some refuse to listen).

[@appletree13]

You'd think this would be obvious, but apparently some people have the mental age of a 2 year old.

[@remnant1018]

My bet… the question about “would you rather your 16 yr old daughter marry a 33 yr old man”… came from a 33 yr old man who tried to date/marry a 16 year old girl, got caught by the parents, and is now being prevented from making contact with her.

[@amberjewell3894]

God please tell me that "Bob" was just doing a writing exercise from the perspective of his fictional girlfriend. That was one of the most painfully cringey things I've heard in a long time. Please say it isn't real.

[@RuthBhmand]

Same, Bob is lonely and wrote the thoughts of his fantasy babygirl. 😨Maybe shouldn’t have published his prose.🐇

[@konstakivinen4228]

Unironically i feel like the bob in question could have been smg4 bob, at least a couple years ago the character was somewhat like that, now he atleast somewhat knows how to respect women

[@SingingSealRiana]

IT IS Bob, the whole Thing IS BS and women, especially Not learning propper english and are afraid of making mistakes , japanese women do Not use the Word female instead of woman . . .IT IS compleat BS, He IS Just forcing His narrative into a framing He Likes to Imagine and hopes to influence women to want to BE Like "her"

[@AIHumanEquality]

It sounds a little like ragebait with how hard it went in but you can never tell with these weirdos.

[@GuiltlessStudios]

Yeah it definitely feels like a creative writing piece ahahaha. Nice try there Bob~

[@neith6450]

I rejected a guy two years ago, and he's still talking me, telling me he's not a bad person, and that he just wants to be friend and keeps begging me to acomplany him for a date. I have blocked him so many time! He even created a wattpad account to stalk me. I thought it was a genuine reader, I was so happy I was getting engagement and then he texts, my hope was shattered. Whtt's worse is that he's a tenant in my parent's house. I moved cities last year, partly because of him. I'm still in high school.

[@GretchZ]

Call the police.

[@neith6450]

@@GretchZ my parents won't let me.

[@Kikiwithamachinegun]

​@@neith6450your parents need to be in jail

[@westonford6774]

@@neith6450they don’t need to let you.

[@neith6450]

@@westonford6774 for context, I'm Indian, living in India.

[@NightItselfSince0000]

My requirements for a partner: 1. Don't force me into situations I'm not comfortable with 2. Don't cheat on me 3. Take good care of yourself 4. Don't eat random objects you find on the floor 5. Have skin (optional) 6. Must be alive (optional)

[@dishatripathi7904]

Whats with the last two 💀

[@NightItselfSince0000]

@@dishatripathi7904 I don't discriminate

[@dishatripathi7904]

@@NightItselfSince0000 you know what? Sounds fair 👍🏼

[@XStoneColdFoxX]

Lol at number 4 😂

[@BoxOfToasters]

​@@XStoneColdFoxXI mean, that is kinda important. After all, YOU might want to eat those objects.

[@andronixbegayaf]

"Women" "Girls" "Gals" like literally there are so many ways to say it other then "Females"

[@seigeengine]

Please stop trying to throw hands at language. The issue isn't "female," it's the intention with which it's used.

[@derekstein6193]

32:26 "...unseasoned face..." Of course, what woman would ever leave their home without a layer of salt, pepper, and garlic powder on? Maybe some smoked paprika around the eyes. Why else would they call it a "smokey eye" look, hmmm?

[@Ramsey276one]

I prefer SUSHI CHEEKS! XD

[@richardarriaga6271]

Think of Kodos and Kang's needs! No one tell them they are lesbians

[@livliveart]

Personally I like to go to Red Robin and lightly sprinkle their special blend all over my face. Makes me look presentable.

[@feuerling]

The garlic powder keeps away vampires

[@clockside]

​@@feuerling That's why vampires have adapted to going after the "dumb frat boys" and stuff for their meals so much these days! ("Hey, come check out what I found in this bush..." "Okay!" easy meal and no garlic!)

[@runicspyder]

I think the person saying "but if youre actually autistic" was not using autism as a disorder but as a synonym for stupid. Sadly a lot of people do that. :/

[@BoxOfToasters]

I think those people ARE the synonym for stupid.

[@Awidferd]

Yeah that makes me really sad. And not even because I'm actually autistic, it's just depressing to see that people would even consider saying anything like that.

[@ICanSmellThatZaza]

Wait till these mfs find out that most notable people who are involved in science and most artists are autistic ☠️

[@diarmuidkuhle8181]

Gotta say, as an autist, if anything's 'autistic' it's that guy's obsessive over-analyzing of minutiae while missing the bigger picture (in this case the literal picture not being real) Xd

[@AnnekeOosterink]

@@diarmuidkuhle8181 (or that analysing faces does not tell you anything about someone's character)

[@sealie0726]

The gross thing about most of these posts, is they're describing a child. Short and below 120 pounds? Below 23? You want a child.

[@altarofapostasy]

honestly could never get people who don't want people above 120 pounds because like, that's kinda like the health minimum for a lot of people out there

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

Don't forget submissive, inexperienced (sexually and in life), malleable/impressionable, dependent and obedient. Yes, they want a child.

[@sbel6626]

I’m convinced this is what anime has done to people. Years of watching 1000 year old dragon goddess loli waifu fanservice shit where this giant boobed submissive shy little girl falls in love with the extremely ordinary high school boy who like shifted universes or something. This entire phenomenon is related to otakus.

[@Fazed_out]

@sealie0726 the average 12 year old is 120, this man wants a kid below 12

[@LeeDeeLee7]

​@@sbel6626Exactly, it's also weirdos like that who always insist that "Japanese women are more pure and beautiful than western women". Then they hate actual Japanese culture outside of media XD

[@cicadeus7741]

Ive been talking to an incel, i found on twitter. He's an interesting, albeit sad dude. I offered him friendship since im looking to get married soon, and discussing with him how to form a heslthy relationship with yourself and how what is actually attractive is being passionate about your interests. He loves egypt, and cart racing, and fitness, and i told him to make female friends without expectation by sharing those niche interests. Thats how you have a healthy romantic relationship in the future, by finding friendship, and eventually interests, by sharing what makes you happy. I hope the best for him. That he recovers from this mentality and develops a healthy love for himself and others.

[@PippinFisherreed]

That’s… so sweet! Keep it up and I wish him the best!

[@thenobleandmightybeaver4411]

As an actual lesbian female I can say I have never once referred to myself in writing or spoken word (until now) as a 'lesbian female' ... if for no other reason it is redundant.

[@AnimeLuver0604]

Adult human lesbian. Or something.

[@maxdragon5043]

Agreed, you either go full on Increasingly Verbose: " _Fully matured bipedal flesh bag interested in other fully matured bipedal fleshbag sharing similar interest in Fully matured bipedal flesh bag of the same social concept known as gender._ " Or your break it down to its core: " -Lesiab- -Lesbiam- -Less Bien- Girls"

[@seabhactheshifty]

I think my brain broke I read lesbian tamale 💀

[@thenobleandmightybeaver4411]

@@seabhactheshiftyMmmmmm tamales...made by lesbians...yummy.

[@Skeleton52925]

@@thenobleandmightybeaver4411made of them?

[@brassbuckles]

Funny thing with the video game stuff, the protagonist in Fable has traditionally not been intended to be particularly attractive, and yet certain people are already whining about how the default female protagonist looks. The male has never been attractive, and I'm pretty sure the developers even said you're not supposed to be attractive. You get less so as your character ages and gains scars etc. The point isn't for you to run around being hot, it's that the force of your personality either attracts or repels people as you become more heroic or more villainous. Similarly, Aloy isn't there to be a hottie. She has a very well-written personality, and the game hasn't been about romance in the first place. It's about her interaction with the world, the mystery surrounding her birth, and her efforts to save the world. I just don't understand why some people (it's mostly straight guys, but let's be clear, there are women who rally behind this too) insist that all video game characters must be conventionally attractive. I think Aloy's actual design looks better than that design the guy "remade." She looks like she fits into the world she lives in, rather than like an actress with augmentation surgery who happened to get a role playing Aloy in a movie. I think it wouldn't hurt us to have more characters in media in general who aren't super-sexy. More so women than men in video games, because men already have a larger variety of appearances, but we could stand to follow the example of TV in the UK, where the actors aren't all perfect. Some might not even be attractive--and that's OK, if they are great actors who successfully portray their roles. It's weird to feel I need to say this, but we really need to normalize being normal.

[@kempolar9768]

Well the first games Aloy was well written, far less so for the sequel. The sequel had some good parts, but overall far worse

[@pigcatapult]

@@kempolar9768 The curse of inferior sequels :(

[@kempolar9768]

@@pigcatapult character assassination is one heck of a thing, gotta love writers who don't care about the prior vision and need to make it their own thing.

[@natk1105]

Definitely agree about TV in the UK. I love how they have regular-looking people playing characters, it feels so much more immersive and realistic (and relatable). I remember watching the BBC miniseries Bleak House, and being astonished (in a good way) that the main female protagonist was not only NOT conventionally attractive, but also ended up with facial scarring that affected her appearance and self esteem. And yet she was still the main character and had a really adorable love story, complete with a gorgeous wedding scene at the end, where she was a beautiful bride scars and all. 🥰

[@brassbuckles]

@@kempolar9768 I play on PC, so I haven't had the opportunity to play the sequel yet.

[@LyricFlemons]

Right! Like they always describe qualities of a prepubescent child 1. No body hair 2. Short 3. Lightweight 4. Submissive 5. Malleable/Impressionable 6. Low body count 7. No acne 8. No facial hair Like literally all qualities of a child who hasn’t even hit puberty…

[@fatcatlord8066]

Let’s see.. I meet five of those? Am I am a minor. Maybe six if you count me as impressionable since most people around my age would be (although I don’t think I am, I usually fact-check before trusting someone)

[@seigeengine]

Exactly. If your chest isn't hairier than mine, you ain't a real woman. Fight me about it.

[@toastercat5329]

I'm so glad this video finally covers the topic of weirdo men using the term "female" instead of "women" when talking about grown women.😂

[@brassbuckles]

I mean, if they really hate calling the opposite gender "women," then "ladies" tends to work quite nicely without being rude.

[@Inactive_Account29283]

@@brassbucklesstill kinda makes you sound like a “nice” guy

[@brassbuckles]

@@Inactive_Account29283 Well, that'd be a bit difficult seeing as I'm a cisgendered woman. XD

[@leaderlamby]

Literally the first post has me baffled Imagine being so misogynistic you forget how to refer to women normally

[@minestar2247]

To them it's normal

[@brassbuckles]

They didn't forget. They know precisely how rude they're being. They're probably just salty that most adult women don't want to be referred to as "girls" or "chicks" or "broads."

[@leaderlamby]

@@brassbuckles I just don't understand why there HAS to be some colloquial term to call them other than just... women.

[@Enoch610]

​@@leaderlamby they don't like someone (women in this case) so they call them wh0res, b1tches, feminids, females etc. to emphasize their grudge, anger and contempt and they just refuse to call them differently. it's just the way of a very simple human being with a mentality of a neglected 6 yo, driven by emotions and stupidity.. 🤷‍♀

[@exist4046]

@@leaderlambyi was gonna say “in a non-misogynistic context id get it if theyre looking for terms similar to ‘bro’ or ‘dude’” but i then realized that ‘gal’, ‘sis’, and ‘ladies’ all exist as perfectly usable terms in that sense

[@mintytrash]

I just remembered something that happened a few years back thanks to the word "female". Now I'm not in school anymore but I wanna say this was in 10th grade probably? For non Americans that means I was roughly 15 or 16. Anyways: it was in history class and this book we were reading for English came up, Of Mice and Men. This guy in the class stated that he understands a female character better than any of the women in the class did (whist speaking derogatorily of her and misunderstanding her entire character) because he "understood females better than they did". Without hesitation my immediate response was "if you understood them so well then you wouldn't call them females." Sorry for the long comment but I just remembered this interaction and thought it'd be fun to share.

[@erinyes3943]

I also had to read of mice and men. That’s the oddest book he could have possibly used to brag about knowing women. I can’t even remember if the poo lady had a NAME

[@mintytrash]

@@erinyes3943 I'm the one who forgot if she has a name but yeah. Definitely does not understand women.

[@theaizere]

I did mice and men 2 years ago (not american) and the lady did not have a name, it was intentional. We analysed that in class, how the author wrote her to be an object (the symbolism of red etc) on purpose.

[@seigeengine]

Sorry, I'm tired, annoyed, and getting excessively hostile about pedantic crap.

[@PaniPunia]

Yeah, I graduated university, In a large city, and I honestly don't know where people get the idea that students get freaky with dozens of people. Like, how, why, who told you it happens? Life is not a movie, people actually study, work, live with room mates, have partners, and the number of people you meet and interactive with is limited.

[@sanablue]

"Some women look like this and some women are even more gay." is probably the best and most accurate description of women I've ever heard lol :D

[@danser_theplayer01]

_"Tired of girls tat don't use makeup because they think they don't need it"_ - shows Zendaya, a girl with a very pretty face.

[@grenade8572]

Incels: "Using makeup is lying about your face". Also incels: "your face is ugly without makeup".

[@abbygirl3000]

As a girl, I don't use makeup because I don't know how, nit because I think I don't need it

[@danser_theplayer01]

@@abbygirl3000 When I was little I thought all girls know how to cook, use makeup and they all never poop.

[@betsyjohnson9699]

@@grenade8572ikr! That’s what I thought of too. “You’re lying to us by wearing makeup!” “Wear makeup you’re ugly!” Like bitch choose one

[@fatcatlord8066]

The last time I wore makeup was like five years ago, and people still think I look good. I might have eye bags sometimes but honestly it doesn’t matter

[@KRO-222]

Ahh yes the classic love story of some Japanese girl and “”Bob.”” It reads like one of those “I forced an ai to read 1,000 niceguy stories and this was the result.”

[@Pooky1991]

Part of me is convinced it has to be a troll, but its hard to tell nowadays

[@msmichellewinchester]

"Boyfriend named Bob" 😂 It just reminded me of the time we were joking in a twitter chat group about how we could be anyone (we've never met in real life) and I developed a whole alter ego of a 53-yo truck driver from South Carolina named Bob. It became such a long running joke that Bob became an entirely fleshed out character with family members and many adventures from his travels. And my chat group still calls me Bob even after I've actually met some of them in person and they were able to confirm that I was who I was claiming to be originally: a 30-yo woman from Prague 😂

[@ChiiMotosua101]

Story Time about my Mom: My mom was really, REALLY sick when she got pregnant both times with my sister and I, so she and my father agreed to have her tubes tied to protect her health and wellness. When she went to the doctor, he outright refused to operate on her unless she had consent from my father. So, the next time they went together and only then did the doctor perform the operation. The sad thing is this STILL happens to this day.

[@grey_ish.]

The *rage* that enters my flesh sack when I hear about things like this-

[@DeidresStuff]

My doctor was like yeah sure. I had to do a lot of paperwork and my insurance had a 30 day waiting period but I must be a hot mess because my male doctor was totally down. And he does full salpingectomies, where the entire tube is removed so no chance of failure.

[@ohreally1997]

Literally still happens, literally just happened to me. Except the dr wanted husband's consent in writing. What fking year is it

[@ohreally1997]

​@@DeidresStuffI'm so happy for you, and relieved to hear a different experience. Makes the country feel less like a dystopian hellscape.

[@HelpW4nted]

Same thing happened to my grandpa when he tried to get a vasectomy. He needed my grandma to basically sign a permission slip.

[@mysticmoone7659]

My tears running over my puffy eye bags and down over my unseasoned face, free of any mascara tracks, down into my mustache nightly as i cry for being over 120 pounds. I am so glad he is there nightly to view my pain so i do not suffer alone in my whale-ish silence

[@errantwinds-up8uu]

How do you even "season" a face? That one made me laugh so much. Are we cast iron pans??

[@qfemale]

Does he lick your tears to make sure you're not seasoned in any way?

[@riverstein7251]

@@errantwinds-up8uu this is an important question. Is it moisturizing with a neutral oil or just coconut oil? Is it code for makeup like blush and eyeshadow? Is it referring to freckles or levels of sun exposure? Or is it simply code for having a “bland” face? It might be all of the above but I must know

[@dziooooo]

​@@errantwinds-up8uu fck if I know, but I'd probably avoid cayenne pepper?

[@georgehutter339]

​@@riverstein7251use salt and oil, it is amazing at preserving the skin

[@thatone7793]

At this point, I'm absolutely convinced women are like Bordeaux wines. We get better with age. And men are like Bitto Storico cheese. It can take 18 years to mature.

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

Wine and cheese. I love this :)

[@LucyCaranica]

More like 30 years now

[@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986]

Are you implying that girls under 18 are mature? Have you ever met a teenager?😂

[@thatone7793]

@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 I didn't say girls. I said women. Implying "adult." Otherwise, comparing men to a cheese that takes 18 years to mature makes no sense. So, to put it another way, I don't expect men to be mature until their 30s.

[@seigeengine]

Personally I dislike wine in general, so the "aging like wine" thing always amuses me. Aged wine doesn't get better. It's just a different shade of bad.

[@ladycrystalr-u.s.a]

Bob is probably the name of the guy pretending to write as a Japanese girl.

[@GrimReaper-el7xv]

When you haven't talked to any "Female"s in your whole life: Cosplays as a woman in Twitter advising woman how to be woman...

[@ki.44524]

?

[@GirlNotControlledByAntss]

As a female (derogatory) I don't exist fr

[@kaelin_cherise]

r/egg (?)

[@Sciprincess07]

Half the time I hear ‘I can fix her’ it is referring to the most insane character that commits genocide or some shit

[@youtubeuniversity3638]

You ever hear "She can fix me"?

[@glauberglousger956]

Luckily it's usually in fiction, which is fine, although some of the fetishes are, odd

[@captaincaspian42]

I can fix Olivia Octavius from Spiderverse

[@youtubeuniversity3638]

@@captaincaspian42 Can you break her? Can she fix you? Break you?

[@minestar2247]

Yeah, like vriska serket? But some don't get that, like that super strong girl from the last of us 2, I herd she was hated

[@melissaroszkowski8911]

The woman who just gave birth reminds me of a story. After my mom passed, I came home for a month. My sister's best friend and my own best friend acted like we were insane. Instead of support, they acted like we were overreacting. Main characters fits this post too!

[@Fluffy-Fluffy]

That's sad. Hope you're doing ok now and you managed to get across to your friends that it is not a small inconvenience but a hard loss. Either they haven't lost theirs or they hardly had any relationship with them. Again, hope you're doing ok, since I don't know how long ago this happened ❤

[@melissaroszkowski8911]

@Fluffy-Fluffy It was 11 years ago. We're okay. Just blows my mind people don't understand that births and deaths effect availability.

[@qfemale]

🫂

[@SingingSealRiana]

I broke of a friendship with someone WHO Had been one of my 2 Best Friends for 4 years cause she acted Like an entitled b*tch around her best friend since they where in elementery school when the later was pregnant and have birth. Starting from being pissed at Not being the godmother to complaining Not to have seen the Kid yet without ever trying to visit and then expecting her best friend with the pretty Young Thing to travel to her new Girlfriends Birthday Party to present they Kid to her, despite that friend Not knowing anyone there, Not the new Girlfriends and IT would have been a 3 hour Tip to a Party way to loud and fussy for the Baby . . . I was so Mad. Both the ex best friend s. Ex girlfriend and I visited weeks before that to See how she was an her child despite me disliking Babys!!! Also, birthing can cause a Lot of damage, one day later visiting people and act Like nothing happened IS Not a thing!!!

[@melissaroszkowski8911]

@arianewinter4266 good on you. It's hard to end friendships, but sometimes you have to draw a line

[@lilina_who]

32:38 Well, my mum is one of these people. She told me I am wasting my beauty by not using make-up ... I told her I don't see the need to wear any if I don't like it and she just started snorting and telling me I'm dumb for not wearing make-up 😒

[@oscat9021]

"for someone who cant write a cohesive sentence you sure are eager to call other fucking stupid" MY MOUTH DROPPED DUDE

[@kimielle]

I made a lot of friends with japanese women as I was learning the language in night classes. Essentially the classes were being taught by japanese backpackers who were roughly my age at the time. Even the most reserved and conservative of them was a far cry from being 'submissive' or meek. Hell, one of my friends punctuates every sentence with the F bomb. Any fella who thinks japanese ladies are submissive and meek is chronically online and needs to get out of the house.

[@riverstein7251]

I have a sneaking suspicion these guys are pulling from not just anime but specifically hentai and fetish content.

[@kitkatboard]

Have they never met an asian mom ? They're litterally the opposite of "submissive"... go on, go marry that chinese girl, and meet the wrath of the duster 😂

[@GretchZ]

THIS. Especially once they’re not in Japan! The level of patriarchy in any given place can force women to be less assertive, sadly. They have women’s only train cars. I did not like the somewhat-higher level of casual misogyny I saw when I was there.

[@Sorata-Kai]

All the Japanese people I’ve met are just like Americans in terms of personality, so I have no idea where the ‘submissive women’ stereotype comes from lmao

[@RenaissanceRockerBoy]

@@Sorata-KaiProbably from orientalist American media unfortunately. There's a lot of "average white guy gets submissive Asian woman who acts like a child because he's Amazing At Everything".

[@Crazyinsanemonsterofkittens]

7:47 This guy has been watching too much romance in the media (anime, cartoons, etc). Just because you love them doesn’t mean they love you back.

[@LittleMaitea]

Even those genres have always someone „frindzoned“ aka not loved back romantically But those people also have main character syndrome and can’t imagine not being the main protagonist

[@MJ-uo2fo]

I feel like they watch too much Hentai specifically…

[@w1steri4]

parasocial relationship

[@AIHumanEquality]

They will learn to love me back.. hehehe. Pets. I'm talking about pets.

[@HerMi.T]

That said, there are good relationships in the media too. It's just you need to understand to not take things too seriously and find things on your own.

[@Ashtree29]

Just as a trans woman I've always found that when "female" is used outside of the proper contexts for it, to be used to (A) dehumanize and objectify women by reducing them to their parts, And (B) to exclude trans women and enby fems without straight up saying "No t-slurs"...

[@crypticlol]

The worst part is seeing cis women using the word "female" to not mix with trans/enby women Even in the music scene, people are wondering if an artist is female or not, which is pathetic

[@badcaseofstripes]

The intent behind saying it in the context it's commonly used now, is just sexism with plausible deniability sprinkled in. The way you can tell (outside of a biology or scientific discussion) is that there's no consistency. They'll say 'females', and in the same sentence say 'men'. Yet they never say males in the same context, and NEVER say women. It's basically a dogwhistle that says 'hey everyone, I'm a misogynist weirdo!'

[@harperk12]

I'm sorry, can I ask what an enby woman is? I haven't heard the term before

[@Hexer404]

@@harperk12 Enby is a phonetic pronounciation of NB, which means nonbinary. It basically means they don't identify as either binary man or woman but as literally anything else, whether that's as both (bigender), as one sometimes and the other at other times or neither or both or whatever (genderfluid), or not having a gender at all (agender). These three examples are some gender identities that fit under the nonbinary umbrella. Nonbinary or genderqueer is a simple way of saying I am not always a man or a woman the way cis people or many trans people are. An enby woman would likely be someone who is nonbinary but has a connection to womanhood in some way and thus identifies as a nonbinary woman. Partially in the binary but not totally.

[@harperk12]

@Hexer404 Thank you! I'm familiar with non binary, I didn't realize it was also written phonetically! Thanks for taking the time to explain 😊

[@ww3196]

48:26 "...and the maturity to handle a relationship like that?" A 16 year old lacks maturity, therefore an adult having a relationship with a 16 year old doesn't need to be mature, they don't need to have a mature, serious relationship. AND THAT'S THE POINT? THAT'S WHY GROWN MEN WANT TEENAGED KIDS, BECAUSE THESE GROWN MEN CAN ACT LIKE KIDS THEMSELVES. THEY CAN USE AND ABUSE KIDS AND NOT BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE BECAUSE THEIR TEENAGED PARTNERS ARE TOO IMMATURE AND INEXPERIENCED TO KNOW ANY BETTER. That's how you know OP is either a kid, themselves, or is a grown man trying to make teenaged girls seem "mature for their age," and therefore, somehow better off in a relationship with an adult (read: creep) as opposed to having healthy peer relationships.

[@morganablackwater2017]

They just want power - if your partner have less experience you can groom them and control them... And only till certain age... Its predatory behaviour. Especially if "preferred" age difference is bigger than 5 years

[@BridgeBum]

I dunno, I can easily see the OP being a 33 year old incel who somehow thinks they are mature.

[@xylophone_888]

i have an extremely strong suspicion this dude is describing himself too, 33 is a very specific age... also, in a vacuum a 33 yo isn't even mature most of the time, an adult yes but that's not even half of their life (unless they plan on going at 66), they don't have "life experience", they probably don't even have enough in their savings account to get a car let alone be financially stable enough to support a whole another person

[@SenpaiBrando]

When I was 18 I was talking with someone and I said that I preferred if my partner had no previous experience and thay person put it in a way so perfectly that I've never forgotten that, they said "wanting a girl with no experience before you is basically saying I'm a the best in the world, and if I'm not they're not allowed to know any better"

[@fivelike11]

I'm originally french. Back when I couldn't speak English fluently (bear in mind, like 90% of my knowledge is self taught), my English teacher was at once point teaching different things relating to gender and at some point said 'remember, while it isn't ok to call someone a female in french due to connotation, it's completely ok to do so in English.' I got roasted so bad in my first few days of playing online in English. And it took me days because at first I didn't understand what they were saying to me. And then a month later with some good B2 level knowledge I went '**oh**. Oh shit.' At least the roasts were nice cuz they understood from the accent and (at the time) still not-so-fluent English that I was still learning.

[@brassbuckles]

Wow. Your teacher was way off base, and if they were a native English speaker it's kind of inexcusable how far off base they actually were.

[@akitokutikabanae7010]

Mais quel prof dit des trucs pareils à ses élèves franchement o__o" tellement pas normal !

[@fivelike11]

@@akitokutikabanae7010 apparemment mon prof d'anglais de 5ème

[@waffles3629]

Oof. I worked with a fair few international students during uni, over half of whom did not speak English as their first language. I got to have some "fun" conversations about how the word they had just used was _technically_ accurate, but should not ever be used again. Like yes, that word does mean slow, but you should not be using it.

[@DrachenGothik666]

Just to let you know, your teacher was wrong. It is _NOT_ OK to call a woman a female in English. It's objectifying. That means to treat her like an inanimate object. We usually only use the word female when we talk about animals, in describing criminals & in medically describing corpses for autopsies. It dehumanizes the person. It's grammatically correct, but culturally a bad idea.

[@sassyviking6003]

The Aloy example always gets me so much as well. Like Aloy as a character is quite attractive. She is smart, confident, capable, athletic, has a symetrical face with no noticable scars or blemishes. Sure there are subjective things you could say like maybe you personally don't like red hair but she is objectively a rather pretty woman and yet they keep trying to hold her up as some sort of totem for ugly women. It boggles my mind. Worst what when sony was showing off just how amazingly detailed their graphics were because they were able to show the tiny bit of peach fuzz on Aloy's face and people were saying she had a beard. Fellas, all humans have hair all over. It tends to be coarser, thicker, and darker on men but women do in fact have body hair. This is not something you should have to learn from a video game.

[@Falcodrin]

It's just a way to tell which guys haven't been within kissing distance of a woman

[@livliveart]

She's freaking stunning. Lol, if the guys don't want her I'm sure we sapphics will ❤

[@Falcodrin]

@@livliveart idk about stunning objectively but she is 100% conventionally attractive and for me at least fits everything about my aesthetic.

[@Arkanna96]

Yeah, I really hate the "I fixed this" posts. There's nothing to fix, art is subjective and not everything needs to fit your personal preferences. Also not all game characters who wrestle in the mud and fight for their lives need to have perfect skin and makeup.

[@jonathanj8303]

Completely off topic, but I only got around to actually playing any of the Horizon games yesterday. For some reason, child Aloy completely creeps me out, real uncanny valley territory. Most of the NPC's were 'meh' - not perfectly human, obviously stylized, but not triggering anything either. I really can't see what the difference is either, why that one character model.

[@wilhelmschmidt7240]

50:24 If the 33 year old is looking to date a high school student, they definitely are NOT emotionally mature and experienced 😂😂😂

[@ambunt]

Well i can make her worse >w>

[@Alphaismyname]

EVEN BETTER

[@Ecofriendlyant]

I can accept her as she is

[@plantainsame2049]

We will make each other worse

[@ambunt]

@@plantainsame2049 OHH YEAHHHH

[@minestar2247]

Nah, just leave the fire to burn itself out by itself

[@the_spanish_inquisition_monty]

As a lesbian female I can confirm that I made up everything because I love chads so much that I had to make up a fake female relationship and this is very true.

[@the_spanish_inquisition_monty]

Definitely true there’s nothing wrong with my logic

[@Thecollectorpoggers]

its that fudging gru

[@the_spanish_inquisition_monty]

@@Thecollectorpoggers yes 🥰

[@sheeroo1460]

Gurl lmao😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@Thecollectorpoggers]

@@the_spanish_inquisition_monty honestly your pfp goes kinda hard

[@mrfancyshmancy]

i have seen a lot of guys post absurd standards, but the 120lbs+ one literary made my jaw drop, 120lbs is 55kg. I weigh like 60kg and am skinny AF (I sport a lot, don't eat a lot and have very good metabolism) so I'm def on the skinny extreme, but 55 kg is nothing for an adult.

[@gamingkitty6744]

Not defending that guy but it really depends on height too. For some people 55kg might be a totally healthy weight. Let’s not go in the opposite direction and make small and skinny people feel inferior.

[@xylophone_888]

yeah, that's a healthy weight for a height of like 150-160, they either want someone very short or someone extremely thin with these measurements and don't realize that the latter comes with "flatness"

[@helion_ut]

I weighed below 55 Kg when I was like 13 years old and refused to eat to be skinny to an unhealthy degree- So yeah, that guy is fucked up

[@mrfancyshmancy]

@@gamingkitty6744yeah true, i'm pretty average height (1.75 ish, haven't measure in years but it won't be far off) so i'm def a bit to light to be super healthy but i know a lot of women that are 1.5-1.6 that are roughly the same weight, which is considered healthy. But we all know that 120lbs is in not a single world heavy (talking about adults obv, but considering he says 23 is too old who knows)

[@kerricaine]

My ex was like, 120lbs and complained she felt fat because her tummy wasn't flat. There is no standard that'll satisfy the worst men and most insecure women

[@Nix1280]

I don't think the Japanese "girl" one was written by AI. I think it was written by "Bob" when his crush went after a basketball player lmao

[@SkittleOffline]

New rule: If you want to „fix“ her, then you don’t deserve her- she’s probably better off without your judgement.

[@flame_emerald]

When it comes to the predator guy wanting to date a 16 year old at 33. I had one of those and DO NOT ever go near them. No sane and stable 30-40 year old is interested IN A LITERAL TEENAGER! Yo, I was naive barely adult girl that got snatched up by a man in his 40s when I was going through a mental health crisis.... yeah, when I tried to leave, I had to get the courts involved just to get him to stop threatening me and my family. He even killed one of his own dogs to try and scare me into talking to him again. If I would've stayed, I probably would've ended up dead. The last time I talked to him in person, he threatened to shoot me with his gun

[@BoxOfToasters]

jesus christ ;-;

[@amaryillcs2426]

I'm so glad you're safe! Poor pupper tho😢

[@namedrop721]

This is actually not uncommon. If it’s above 10 year gap and the younger party is not at minimum 25, it’s straight up coercion. The farther the gap and the younger the younger party, the more literal bodies the elder has in their closet.

[@LadyGrissom]

And bad thing is that your friends at that age are often dumb too and don't understand too so they don't help. It's probably better now but when we were teenagers? When we were 17, my friend was "dating" 32 yo man. We were of course dumb teenagers and always thought how it's awesome that he sees her as such mature big girl who is on par with an adult man and shit... like no. I'm 32 now and I can't imagine to stand 17 year old kid for more than few minutes. He was actually abusing the fact that she was from a shithole with terrible public transport (you can't drive yourself here until 18) and with terrible mother who was so abusive the girl simply wanted to get out and her naivety so he was able to impress her by the basic shit as taking her places (like.... the neighbouring town) and pay for stuff (like... fast food dinner). But we did not realize how terribly groomed and vulnerable she was, we thought she soooo coool.

[@mushroom_dinosaur]

8 years. That's how long it took me to find a surgeon willing to perform a hysterectomy on me. EIGHT YEARS. This is after a difficult pregnancy and labour/delivery, AND being told by my OB/GYN to NOT have any other children due to the high risk of not living anymore, for either baby and/or myself. I even brought my spouse with me to the appointment to meet the surgeon, in case the doctor tried to talk me out of it. Much to my surprise, I think I found the ONE surgeon in Alberta that says "her body, her choice" and means it! A year and a half later, due to a nasty virus and a short staffed health care system, I am now sterile and living my best (mostly) pain-free life. It also has lessened my chances of getting cancer, as "feminine" types of cancer tend to run in my family. Still, while this may be one of, if not the most conservative province in Canada, I'm glad that I still,have access to reproductive health care. Sorry, the "husband's body" triggered something in me.

[@betsyjohnson9699]

I’m so glad you were finally able to find someone. I wish it had been far sooner, but I’m glad you got it at least. The “husband’s body” one got me too

[@julianmrgl9568]

I've just reached my incel crossroads: the part of my life where I either become and incel or the most emotionally mature person alive. There was this girl, it started going great but there was another guy who also liked her (he's hotter, taller, smarter and more built then me) and it turns out I was her "backup" and she ghosted me half the time and started convos the other half. Sucks. But I've moves on!

[@funnyusername8635]

25:20 Also paparazzi are like photographic bounty hunters. A tabloid says they need a picture of someone looking like crap and they get one. So not only is it not a staged photo, it is a photo that is meant to catch them at their "least attractive".

[@PippinFisherreed]

This is an insult to bounty hunters

[@seigeengine]

@@PippinFisherreed Being a bounty hunter is an insult to bounty hunters.

[@PippinFisherreed]

@@seigeengine Like, an irl bounty hunter is being an insult to the image we have of bounty hunters, or

[@izzatihassan1475]

4:49 this reminds me of andrew tate's new tweet just out yesterday he said, I qoute: "Any man who has sex with women because it "feels good" is gay". These men are so out of it that actual expression of enjoyment is seen less masculine.

[@joshuajohnson5337]

There are also women that say that they get the ick from men doing anything that makes them happy.

[@coki3_crumle670]

I have no words, but I'm not surprised 💀

[@HelpW4nted]

Never thought I'd see the day when being attracted to women is gay

[@Sonnenanbeterin1991]

wait hes back on the internet. is he not beeing in prison

[@stickywiggit]

Interesting. Does sex with women not do it for you Andy my boy? The call is coming from inside the closet.

[@WolfOnPaws_]

demonic screech of gay

[@GirlNotControlledByAntss]

Why does this express my personality so well

[@Blister_Manta]

i’m imagining the scream at the end of the mind electric demo 4

[@BoxOfToasters]

*inhales* HOMOSEXUALITYYYYYYY

[@zefiro6829]

Ş̸̢̛̦̱̥̗͉̪͓̣͓̪̤̹̯͚̟̜͓̮̄̃̂̍͊̊̃̇̎́͆͊͛́͌̈́̋́̕͠C̴̛͓̣̩̱͓̟̬̣̗̬̦̖̟͔̉̈́̿̌̀̊͌̃̀͗̓̊̋̚͝͝͠͝R̷̥̗̠͔̦̫̙͈̺̺͓̤̼̘͙͚̯̥̰̽̐͝ͅĘ̶̨̛͎̼̘͕͍̭̤̫͕͉͙̭̙̥̟̱̘̖͙͌͒̆́̎̉̈́̊͆͐̍͋̇̄̐̌̈̂͘̕͝Ȩ̷̛̞͙͉̪͇̺̙͌̓̔͑̐͆̀̋́͗̾̈̽̀̈̈́̏̚͝͝C̶̡̡͕͉̩͙̪̦̗̮̩̘̫͓̬̆̓̊͌́̌͝͝H̵̨̧̹̞̫͚̘͇͙̲̪͕̟̰̳̯͎̻͂̌ͅ ̷̢̢̬̬̗̪͈̲̹̮̤̠͔̬̩͋̾̏̿͑̋͌̑̐̏̈́͌͗̑̑̾̍͘͠ͅͅǬ̸̧͔͍͇̰͓̲̻̰͉̙̹̎͊́͑̀͒͆͜͠͠ͅF̸̠͍̍͒̆̄͆̀̈́̍̊͝͝ ̵̨̟̟̮̼͉̳̺̰̠͎̟͉͈̈̈́͋̄͋̈̅̉̈́̒͆̈́̉͐̑̊̇̀͘͝͝͠G̴̻͕͉̱̻̥̲̟̞̬̽͗́̄̍̍̄̽͝͠͝͠͝Ą̸̢̛̛̪̹̤̖̠̞͖̭̣̬̫͎̣̏͐͆́̀͑̑̃͂͝Ẏ̷͚̦͈̙͎͕̺͊͗̑͜͠

[@TheFoxesMindset]

Hi fellow Therian! *screams in fox*

[@phoenixfeathers4128]

Dear males, Please remember that breasts, thighs and butts also weigh something! And top calling us female unless you want to be called males. Female and male or men and women, don’t cross them. It is derogatory.

[@eeyorehaferbock7870]

Straight guy here. As much as I like those attributes on women, I will freely admit that even I am often turned off when it’s clear they have been augmented to be bigger. Sometimes it kinda works, but usually it just creates more of an uncanny valley-type effect more than anything.

[@seigeengine]

Dear weirdo. Calling me a male isn't going to upset me. If you communicate an intention to offend me, however, that will irk me. Neither male nor female are derogatory. It's the intention and context of their use that can make them so.

[@alostkoi]

Yesterday a classmate said "it was easier to understand women than understanding the class" . I guess the women in class go with an advantage(?)

[@minestar2247]

Well, I have anecdotal evidence that girls perform better academically than boys

[@GirlNotControlledByAntss]

... roll for deception

[@natalie022]

@@GirlNotControlledByAntssnat 1

[@GirlNotControlledByAntss]

@@natalie022 as you can see above, women roll with advantage

[@GretchZ]

…was your classmate 65? Oof

[@TheDerpyDeed]

every time an incel calls us "females" instead of "women" I hear the Star Trek Ferengi in my head scream "nooooooooo, it's a feeeemaaaaaaleee AAAAAAAAAAAAA!" (also hearing them cosplay as their imaginary girlfriends is disgusting)

[@jordanjoestar-turniptruck]

Same!! Its great picturing them all as Zek

[@lilknish]

😂😂😂

[@seigeengine]

Real men have their imaginary girlfriends cosplay as them instead.

[@adrasteiamavros9027]

Okay, so on the moan/groan thing. My ex was super silent when we did... things, and it seemed like he was making a huge effort for that to be the case, so I asked him one time why he didn't make any sounds. His answer? "It's not manly." Excuse me, what? Is the Alpha Police watching over your shoulder while we're in the act, sir? Do you need to report to them after and can't omit that detail? Being seen as "manly" was such a big thing for him (oh, and we also couldn't normally talk about naughty things and preferences and such because it was not "gentlemanly"). And me wanting him to express emotion while doing things didn't matter, he had to be stone-faced the entire time. That was years ago, and I still can't wrap my head around it. Such a weird thing to be hung up on, in particular when nobody else is aware it's happening.

[@HarutoVa]

You would be suprised the amount of time we are told we cant do something because is girly, or i think you already know that. I watch some porn because i am addicted to it but i also learn many things from it unlike other people who know nothing about males or females. Im not narcissistic or anything but i am just aying that in my disadvantage i found advantage😂.

[@tdelioncourt1268]

I've been with a man like that, it was bloody awful !!! No one who is sane wants to shag someone who's showing no signs of liking what's going on !?

[@jaxscales6158]

I’m sure there were other reasons, but because of that reason alone, I’m glad this person is your ex

[@hmnhntr]

Maybe he had a bad past experience. I remember sitting next to one particularly unpleasant girl in highschool who spent an entire class period complaining about how her boyfriend makes noise when they have sex, bc "men are supposed to be silent, only girls are supposed to make noise". Also that he liked to kiss, tried to be intimate, etc. It was bizarre. Also, for years, most guys spend effort practicing being silent when.....you know. Because they're in a house with their family. That can be a tough habit to break.

[@HarutoVa]

@@hmnhntr why the hell would you do the deed if youre in your families' house?

[@miaomiaochan]

I know a guy who habitually used the word "female" in place of "woman", even in front of women. He was single well into his 40s and worked remotely, meaning he didn't often interact with women in person. He would eagerly open doors for women and just be exceedingly friendly towards us in general, but he was completely clueless on how to respect our boundaries. It didn't take long from first meeting him for me to realize that he was emanating strong "nice guy" energy from every pore.

[@pleinairlizfair]

9:26 Some dude asked for my number when I was at work. He started with “are you single”, and I was honest and said yes. Long story short I was honest but was still able to say no to giving my number. The guy was really nice and said it was okay. I was very flattered, and the only reason I said no even though I’m single is because I just got out of a long term relationship and wanted to be alone. Otherwise I would’ve given it, the guy was handsome! Sometimes it’s not even about the other person, sometimes there’s personal reasons for rejecting someone. It was a breath of fresh air to have a nice interaction, too.

[@94DeathAngel]

As a wamen i can confirm that instead of makeup, i season my face, some days i use just garlic salt, but i add paprika if i want some color. But my skin is sensitive, so i cant use anything too spicy.

[@dejvisthis_tube]

You forgot curry

[@peculiar-pan]

ooooh i like to use sweeter spices cinnamon is a bit scary, but cinnamon sugar is better my personal favorite is a little bit of peppermint oil (i couldnt think of any more sweet seasoning 😅😅)

[@abiestar261]

You guys should try basil it really works, as well as black pepper and parsley!

[@LoremIpsum-dp1li]

22:20 Fun fact: In Old English (Anglo-Saxon), "mann" meant a human being of any gender. The words "wer" and "wif" (hence the modern "wife") were used for man and woman respectively. There was also the compound "wifmann" (literally "female human"), from which "woman" is descended. Then, as the language evolved, "mann" (modern "man") came to replace "wer" as the term for male humans because ✨ patriarchy! ✨ ("Wer" still survives to today in the word "werewolf", literally "man-wolf")

[@minestar2247]

Ah yes, another sign of patriarchy is that he/him can also be used as a gender neutral pronoun, just not sure if it still applies in english

[@Ramsey276one]

Sign held by a tail-wagging werewolf: Has wulf-wif?? XD

[@brassbuckles]

@@minestar2247 I've read at least one article that did a deep dive into why, and it turns out that originally they/them was actually the appropriate gender-neutral pronoun. This changed when scholarly sorts wanted to make English match better with Latin and Greek, because those were seen as more elevated/important/scholarly languages. So basically the male-as-default thing was added to English because someone thought doing so would make English as a language somehow more "enlightened."

[@minestar2247]

@@brassbuckles Huh, this is really interesting, does it still apply nowadays though?

[@FunkyLittlePoptart]

@@minestar2247 It does not. I edit a lot of writing for a living, and I will toss this piece of hot garbage out every time. They/them for plural. Men in no way covers all of humanity and we don't erase women in this house!

[@KayGreylai]

"Old women are predators" Me looking at my granny - "oh no!"

[@Omg-ilovemycat]

Lmao are incels gonna start making nature documentaries about "females", and the dangers of old women, because if they do, I want a front row seat

[@seigeengine]

Never doubt a reindeer.

[@TheVeggiekat]

Plot twist it’s just 23 year olds. Younger or older ok. Dude thinks it was a bad year for women like wine.

[@RuthBhmand]

Then I have a 64 y anorexic religious dame for him.😂😂

[@samuelbarber6177]

His girlfriend: turns 23. Him: disappears. 365 days later Him: suddenly reappears as if nothing happened.

[@laffytaffy9656]

I'm choosing to believe this interpretation

[@mikeCD62]

Truly, nobody likes you when you're 23

[@errantwinds-up8uu]

This is amazing.

[@Amethystar]

When I imagine a "female" calling other women "Little Princess," that person is definitely the dominant in that relationship, something that Bob only wishes he could be. That phrase is also one reason I think this was sadly written by an actual human.

[@brassbuckles]

I think it was written by a human, but you know... it was probably Bob and not his imaginary Japanese girlfriend.

[@abbygirl3000]

​@@brassbuckles"probably"