Why can't I express myself?

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Rafael Eliassen

Rafael Eliassen

Күн бұрын

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@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
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@aryansrivastava211
@aryansrivastava211 4 жыл бұрын
Winning..............
@blackslimsavage6231
@blackslimsavage6231 3 жыл бұрын
Winning
@JustmeSEVEN
@JustmeSEVEN 3 жыл бұрын
You help us so much
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 3 жыл бұрын
@@JustmeSEVEN happy to help!
@timotheeruby6806
@timotheeruby6806 2 жыл бұрын
Winning…
@evelynnn8245
@evelynnn8245 3 жыл бұрын
it feels kinda good to know that i’m not the only one who is going through this. i’ve felt like this almost my whole life. i believe in whoever is reading this and is struggling with this too. i know you got this! you can break free and be happy!
@infinity401
@infinity401 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I wish the same for you.
@manyasoni3826
@manyasoni3826 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks same for you
@arielaea37
@arielaea37 2 жыл бұрын
❤️🙂✌🏼
@iftekharkabir4844
@iftekharkabir4844 2 жыл бұрын
Did u overcome from it rn?
@evelynnn8245
@evelynnn8245 2 жыл бұрын
@@iftekharkabir4844 i wouldn’t say that i completely overcame it, but i’m definitely doing better right now. i started to say what’s on my mind more often and it helped me make new friends and feel more free. i also started taking new opportunities and kinda got out of my habit of avoiding everything. on some days i still feel hopeless and like i’m never gonna fully overcome it, but when i compare my current self with me, when i wrote that comment 1 year ago, i clearly see the progress. it was hard at first to initiate a change but once i did, it got easier and easier :) it takes some courage to open your mouth despite all of your worries..but it’s so much better to just say it than to regret it later!
@mrve1
@mrve1 3 жыл бұрын
Throughout my whole life I felt behind of people my age because of my inability to express myself clearly or deliver a good speech or just plainly communicate my thoughts. I recently realised how this is linked to my unwillingness to engage with other people. I have always tried to avoid interacting with people as much as I could. I was just so determined not to let anyone get any close to me.. So as it is the case with anything else, the more you practice something the better you get at it. I'm now realising that if I truly want to overcome this issue then I really need to go out there and meet with people and work on my communication skills. I don't think there is another way or a magic wand to help you fix this, so..
@vinnizereypilapil5618
@vinnizereypilapil5618 3 жыл бұрын
I will try to make this. Thank you. Everytime I give a speech I always end up choking, or forgetting or even at times committing grammatical error. I don’t know how to deal with it until now. I hope your comment would somehow help me a lot.
@zoeanaam.6996
@zoeanaam.6996 2 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly I was soo talkative but I'm perfectionist too, I didn't like alot of people so I always avoided any deeper connection but I forgot that everyone does mistakes and if I looked for a faultless friend, I will remain friendless. What you said in the above comment is true, it is only way out of this situation.
@OpenHeartwithNola
@OpenHeartwithNola 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! I feel like I’ve just found the missing piece to this whole puzzle 🧩 that I’ve been battling with my whole life. I guess I need open up my heart and learn to engage with others more often. Makes so much sense.
@faithmzemba3657
@faithmzemba3657 3 жыл бұрын
Be okay with people not liking you Don't be so hard on your self Act like there is no judgements
@molefimokoaleli2962
@molefimokoaleli2962 8 ай бұрын
I hate acting
@marlena.chaukk
@marlena.chaukk 3 ай бұрын
@@molefimokoaleli2962 be what makes you happy, even if it means acting
@bloodyredstars1821
@bloodyredstars1821 Жыл бұрын
its so hard for me. i’ve always kept my feelings to myself
@tomusannonymous
@tomusannonymous 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like Ive spent most of my life trying to escape ppl who's attitudes/behaviour cause me to avoid free expression, only to have them accuse me of being antisocial.
@littlewillowlinda
@littlewillowlinda 2 жыл бұрын
I've come to find that them pushing us away means that energetically we aren't aligning anyway if they're the kind of person who judges people so good riddance
@unknowntosociety01
@unknowntosociety01 2 жыл бұрын
@@danchie7966 do it and do it well
@michael2539
@michael2539 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. I have a presentation in two and I'm just so confused
@purplesky3743
@purplesky3743 8 ай бұрын
Me too
@lovingmelodies2644
@lovingmelodies2644 Жыл бұрын
My 'problem' is not that I feel bad other's don't understand me or im scared of them, It is that I feel trapped. I cannot adequate express my the many thoughts and ideas in my head. I know what I want to say but lack the right vocabulary
@A_plus_dude
@A_plus_dude Ай бұрын
How are you now bro? Same or....?
@evanpennington1130
@evanpennington1130 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never heard someone explain the cycle better EVER. I have such a difficult time expressing myself fully and it makes me so depressed everytime I have these situations where I bite my tongue and hold emotions in.
@destineyslife
@destineyslife 2 жыл бұрын
Feels good to know that there's constructive solutions out here. Fear of expression like dancing, singing, jokes, ect... has been a huge blockage for me my whole life. Learning to tap into my authentic self
@gabrielmagallanes5513
@gabrielmagallanes5513 Жыл бұрын
samezeez
@chelseamugabe4610
@chelseamugabe4610 4 жыл бұрын
It’s like ur talking about me. Every little thing I do I feel like im being judged even when no one is around. I feel ashamed of simple things like dancing when I’m alone. I’m feel like someone is always watching and ready to judge. Even when I take step outside my door I feel that the whole fucking neighborhood is judging me. Sometimes I agree to shit I don’t even want to do which might be the result of the masking you’re talking about. makes me more pissed at myself for caring this much.
@Valeria-dm9vi
@Valeria-dm9vi 3 жыл бұрын
wow I thought I was the only one that felt like this, but now I see we are all in this together
@sanela2644
@sanela2644 3 жыл бұрын
Same here, and i don't know how to fight it anymore.
@corcomedy6452
@corcomedy6452 3 жыл бұрын
This is me, I feel you.
@carleighrice8891
@carleighrice8891 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you know that you were meant to physically express your being. Your soul came here to experience and also authentically express itself. Express who you are because You may not have another chance to be here again. It is your purpose to be authentic. Why? You can change the world and inspire others for your authenticity. This is how your soul always express itself!
@dusty.4133
@dusty.4133 3 жыл бұрын
@@carleighrice8891 what if they don't like me? For example maybe i am too cold or too boring i'm afraid everyone wouldn't like me and won't try to talk to me again
@miaasmama4825
@miaasmama4825 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this so badly . This is a huge fear…. was just arguing and he called me childish cause I can’t express myself ! That’s why I came here ! ❤️❤️ I needed this so badly cause I don’t have anybody to really uplift me like I need it . I’m too old for this ! It’s time to change it !
@mmarmerc
@mmarmerc 2 жыл бұрын
Hope you’re better now
@miaasmama4825
@miaasmama4825 2 жыл бұрын
@@mmarmerc thank you so much love ❤️
@mmarmerc
@mmarmerc 2 жыл бұрын
@@miaasmama4825 Any advices? I didn’t argue with mine but he thinks it’s better for me if I practice on expressing myself better. I told him that I was sorry if it seemed like I never understand what he says to me.
@gssingh9030
@gssingh9030 3 жыл бұрын
I was not able to express myself even I think hundred times before writing a comment on social media. This video really help me to control my overthinking .
@brabochoke4866
@brabochoke4866 4 жыл бұрын
I`ve been stuck in my head for almost a year i dunno how i survived this long, i wanna express my self i just dont have the right words for it maybe i need to expand my vocabulary maybe i dumb i dunno the 2nd option sounds more realistic
@carleighrice8891
@carleighrice8891 3 жыл бұрын
You don't have a low vocabulary. The words just don't come up to mind. You should write down the words you forget often on paper and repeat them. This way, the word is always available.
@khanyisilemalope6492
@khanyisilemalope6492 3 жыл бұрын
I relate
@yoshitoes2763
@yoshitoes2763 3 жыл бұрын
I can also relate I think I’ve been doing this to myself my whole life. I realize it more in middle school until now I’m in 11th grade. And I just feel trapped by myself.
@aniyahfreeman6607
@aniyahfreeman6607 2 жыл бұрын
I’m feeling exactly like this
@ASA19451
@ASA19451 2 жыл бұрын
I felt relieved after watching this video, because I felt I already found something that I truly need, a someone who explained the importance of being authentic. Its time for me to throw this mask and showed my authentic self.
@rouh
@rouh Күн бұрын
bro explained in the kindest way to stop people pleasing
@GH_HeriS
@GH_HeriS Жыл бұрын
For me, im now at the point where i have this other person always watching me. Any single thing i do, i always try to see how that other person sees me from afar. Sometimes i even think of how another person reacts to how this other person sees me. It's really sad. There's no single thing i do in public that i haven't thought about immediately after i do it. It's like a default setting in my brain and i always know im doing it but i cant just help it. Why can't i just do things and not realize i even did it like a normal person??? The annoying part is knowing i am actually a very free and funny person when I'm alone or with my family. I know people will definitely enjoy me if I just do the things i do alone around them. But i just cant seem to do it. Another thing is when I've been with certain people for a while and they already know how my "false" personality is, its hard to just decide to change and be my true self because they'll feel ita fake.
@skeptikalmakhluk
@skeptikalmakhluk 4 жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with this my whole life. Thank you for making this video. Much love from Malaysia :)
@Checkmate777
@Checkmate777 2 жыл бұрын
“You’re thinking through a feeling problem” is so genius. I’m ashamed I haven’t thought of it before. Vice Versa as well because many people feel through thinking problems.
@aurymaycry7784
@aurymaycry7784 Жыл бұрын
this video doesn’t have enough attention it deserves. this needs to be something everyone should be educated on because ever since i was little i’ve been going through this and i don’t blame my parents for it since i didn’t know how to explain this feeling.
@lesawanagift2193
@lesawanagift2193 7 ай бұрын
Bro you talking to me, I am one of the most talented shoe makers out here, my craft is real, but I fail to sell because my confidence is deeply compromised ever since some childhood traumas that I have never managed to deal with. But listening to you makes a difference. Thanks again for a courage.
@aaryankirtania
@aaryankirtania 2 жыл бұрын
There's something holding me back, resisting, not letting me go, be free.
@therealmr.incredible3179
@therealmr.incredible3179 Жыл бұрын
It’s like I’m wearing Armour when I’m in a Social Place. I want more Experiences but can’t seem to get it. I want to express myself and have everyone relish my Positive Energy but I can’t even talk easily.
@ThisisLevani
@ThisisLevani 2 жыл бұрын
all this advice flies out the window when someone was raised in an environment where it was physically unsafe to speak up your truth. this needs a deeper insight if you truly want to help people. what you say can help people with light or mediocre anxiety. to heavily anxious people this is very shallow.
@monicawanjiku5699
@monicawanjiku5699 3 жыл бұрын
I feel this tightness right now, it is crippling. I feel paralyzed with so many thoughts. Its like someone asks me a qn and my mind looks for 1000 ways to answer them, and then when finally i just have to speak, nothing comes out of my mouth. Its like i already provided the answers in my thoughts. Its crazy and i hate it. Mind you I am a manager. I feel trapped!!
@andreasnevanlinna7987
@andreasnevanlinna7987 10 ай бұрын
i have this exact thing going on right now.. it really does affect everything! so frustrating
@jakethesnake6873
@jakethesnake6873 4 жыл бұрын
Ive dealt with this for so long and thanks to your video I think I’m ready to break out of my shell and express myself.
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
Really happy I could help you do that!
@muskanludhwani1739
@muskanludhwani1739 4 жыл бұрын
I was very scared to even write a comment here from my official id I made this id to just express myself here
@cocochanel1493
@cocochanel1493 3 жыл бұрын
Good job
@Human1136
@Human1136 2 жыл бұрын
@@cocochanel1493 is that mockery?
@egyptianstylez
@egyptianstylez 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video it spoke directly to me. I have been suffering with this my entire life and now feels like a mountain to climb now that I'm in adulthood and noticing what is actually happening. Its gotten a bit better but I have chronic episodes where I can't express myself even with my own family and I know people perceive me as an "a hole" sometimes or don't even continue relationships with me and it sucks. Makes me think this is just who I am and that it cannot be fixed. But seeing your video and just observing the world around me gives me some hope it will get better as life goes on. It's like I missed the important experiences as a child that shapes others personalities and now I have no childhood knowledge subconsciously to fall back on and feel almost like a robot when around people.
@johnnib5373
@johnnib5373 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I relate to this so much
@johnnib5373
@johnnib5373 3 жыл бұрын
It’s like sometimes I don’t even know who I am at all. When I think about acting without judgement sometimes I just go blank
@LocdBySi
@LocdBySi 2 жыл бұрын
I’m literally crying reading these comments because I don’t feel like im the only one dealing with this problem anymore. For the first time I actually feel like a real person. I have people that I can genuinely relate to. Thanks to the creator of this video.
@r.a3717
@r.a3717 4 ай бұрын
​@@johnnib5373 Me too
@deanmartini3894
@deanmartini3894 4 жыл бұрын
I logged on just to comment and say you are amazing. You know exactly what I’m thinking and how I feel. I’m a seminarian in California and just want to say you are doing God’s work. Thank you brotha.
@paulyawehdigitals
@paulyawehdigitals Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much this gives me a soothing relief that I can overcome this. Ever since I was a child I lacked the nurturing to be expressive and now it’s telling on my self esteem. Now am aware and working on being better as this is key to my career. We are now in a world where you need be able sell yourself with your mouth or you die poor. Am even more glad that my kids won’t face this cos am aware.
@budybob7228
@budybob7228 4 жыл бұрын
Iv felt like this for awhile now nothing comes to me when I talk to someone.
@ayrz2248
@ayrz2248 4 жыл бұрын
Same bro! Like wtfff how are you doing now?
@ayrz2248
@ayrz2248 4 жыл бұрын
I rly wanna know because I’ve felt this way for like 4 months off and on
@ricofiness7293
@ricofiness7293 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@benjig7085
@benjig7085 3 жыл бұрын
Yup.. it sucks wish you the best g
@chipstealer.-.
@chipstealer.-. 2 жыл бұрын
Yea it’s like my brain shuts down when it comes to talking
@MinaStrange44
@MinaStrange44 2 жыл бұрын
i wish i would have found your channel like ten years ago. Truly thank you
@cathcruz7002
@cathcruz7002 2 жыл бұрын
This is so real. I grew in a household where silence is more appreciated than expressing yourself. And maybe that's the reason why my love language is word of affirmation cause I rarely hear anyone from our home expressing love and support though their actions show. But I am breaking this chain, cause I believe that everyone is unique, that life could be more awesome when there is no judgement. Just let it out with a GOOD INTENTION. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. I learned a lot! ❤ New subscriber here from Philippines.
@saturnzshadow
@saturnzshadow Жыл бұрын
hi baby! Im filipina as well and your so right! our culture is made to grow silent people. Growing up, expressing myself only lead to punishment & silence was my way of avoiding it. You made me realize something & for that im greatful. Its been a year since I started my journey & believe me your drive to change for the better WILL make it better
@SmokescreenTfp
@SmokescreenTfp 11 ай бұрын
14:00 most important parts for me starts now thank u ❤
@pavobutigan7131
@pavobutigan7131 3 жыл бұрын
Here I am, expressing myself! Thank you for this video.
@pradeepsingh9353
@pradeepsingh9353 Жыл бұрын
When the case is one to one i become quite very open , but when its 4 or more people i automatically tend to speak less and Sometimes tend to listen less when there are more people. Its just like not so interested in too many people hearing you. But from now on i will change myself. Thanks for this powerful video.
@loganhowell2121
@loganhowell2121 Жыл бұрын
Man, the way you present this, the simplicity yet clear accuracy is just so fluent and graceful... Thank you
@adventurer1913
@adventurer1913 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Best of luck to everyone who's in the same journey.
@bemnetmechal1712
@bemnetmechal1712 4 жыл бұрын
he speaking so true, didn’t know this video could even help this much but thank you!!
@dreamer2774
@dreamer2774 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this video!!! Thank you so much! I couldn't understand why I was so unable to just express myself and sometimes I even just stopped talking mid-sentence because I was scared of hurting someone if I opened my mouth and said the truth. I was thinking that maybe I was dumber than others or that I had a mental illness but never linked it to my tendency to overthink every word coming out of my mouth just so people would like me and not get hurt. Thanks! I'm guessing it'll take some time to put into place but the processus is started! God bless!
@Valeria-dm9vi
@Valeria-dm9vi 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u although this video is 8 months old it still keeps helping people 👏 you really made some good points, I love the internet
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😄
@LovelyIndya
@LovelyIndya 3 жыл бұрын
This needs more recognition
@carlnxumalo3864
@carlnxumalo3864 3 жыл бұрын
KZbin videos that actually give good advice don't have crazy views
@clo962
@clo962 3 жыл бұрын
I just want to clarify that I’m not alone with what I’m going threw feelings wise i finally got my assignments done and this is where I’m going to go every day and express myself because it makes me feel better I’ve not been found with depression but i can feel it going threw my blood I’m a happy teen on the outside but sad on the inside my thoughts is what’s keeping me alive my family is keeping me alive without them I’d probably be dead.
@jazminreyes1954
@jazminreyes1954 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, this video definitely help, you had me in tears the whole video. I took everything to heart and I know what I have to do. I am stuck in fear of perception of other but I need to free myself from that judgment.
@t3ntube357
@t3ntube357 Ай бұрын
new to the party but boy .. I can listen to this person 24/7 none stop ♥♥
@AyushBhandari
@AyushBhandari Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video 💐
@amishapatel3114
@amishapatel3114 3 жыл бұрын
In my case, I am 2 years older than my classmates and due to this I had to behave like them. There childish conversation don't interest me but I forcefully talk to them. In this process I lost myself. I always try to normalize the conversation no matter how important it can be. Due to other reasons I stopped getting angry, sad and not even able to cry. This isn't easy I want myself back.
@carolinelackeyJCOTMlight
@carolinelackeyJCOTMlight 2 жыл бұрын
the problem with expressing myself is that it doesn't come out the right way and I mainly get misunderstood but I'm working on improving that
@SharlenesJourney
@SharlenesJourney 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like you’re speaking to me right now I just started taking zoloft to help with my anxiety 😩🙏🏾
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 3 жыл бұрын
Hope it gets much better for you! Here to help and glad you enjoyed the video 😄
@mrprinczc
@mrprinczc Жыл бұрын
I finally found it!!! Rafael, I saw your playlist about personal development and I'm in desperate need of it right now. As a result, the channel is a hidden gem.💎❤️
@aiiissshh996
@aiiissshh996 2 жыл бұрын
My takeaways from this vid. ✨"Once this happened, then I can finally be able to... " - this is so relatable to me. I always say this as an excuse whenever I plan on smth. ✨"Just Do it anyway. No excuses. No reasons for y u can't do it. Just reasons for y u should do it. " ✨*Holding back myself to be authentic. -- I often hold back what I really wanted to say bc I always think of what others might think of it or smth like this. ✨Think long term.
@Cremecek
@Cremecek 4 жыл бұрын
You are a Godsend. Thank you.
@jamiecee4960
@jamiecee4960 2 жыл бұрын
That's me afraid how others will judge me. I do think my way out of it. I Look how someone else is perceiving me. Some may not like you and be okay with it.
@Fahim_Lalani
@Fahim_Lalani Жыл бұрын
I feel like you destroyed my anxiety fully thx ❤thanks thanks unlimited thanks friend
@Human1136
@Human1136 2 жыл бұрын
My social anxiety has worsened due to me being blindly putting myself out there in a vulnerable state only for them to cast me out and humiliate me.. I've tried being friendly COUNTLESS TIMES and yet I received dog 💩so I gave up on trying to make friends or socialize in general because I know I KNOW that they're just going to speak bad again and again and AGAIN!
@babyinvasion
@babyinvasion 2 жыл бұрын
I would never cast you out if I met you. People often suck. Sorry, Jery 🤍🖤✨
@ayoolaayomiposi1305
@ayoolaayomiposi1305 2 жыл бұрын
This video is really helpful. Last week was appraisal week and got a whooping 90% but the only comment that my boss gave that denied me of the other 10% was not being able to articulate my thoughts well enough. I noticed during scrum meetings my update is always the shortest lol. Now I’m aware of the problem and doing everything possible to overcome it. Thank you
@cristinahuerta7339
@cristinahuerta7339 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your help. Keep making more videos like this one, I like the way you talk, you helped me understand what’s wrong with me.
@rachaeleena
@rachaeleena 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Just what I needed. I’m right there. I’m ready to be my authentic self I have been so scared for so long about what others will think or if they will leave but I’m willing.
@gem1nc
@gem1nc 4 жыл бұрын
Hey man, thank you so much for what you’re doing. I’ve been stuck for so long and wasn’t able to find the right answers. Thank you so much. Keep doing what you’re doing. You going to reach whatever you want to reach. 👌
@vpetryniak
@vpetryniak 3 жыл бұрын
I have very hard relationships with one person. I know how to express myself and with all other people I have good relationships. The problem is that this particular person always shouts on me every time I say something. So basically I need to keep silent all the time. And I feel very bed because I cannot say anything ...
@SharlenesJourney
@SharlenesJourney 3 жыл бұрын
This particular situation doesn’t sound too good if they’re shouting at you that would mean you’re not allowed to express your feelings and that’s kinda concerning 😔🙏🏾
@Caleb-VA
@Caleb-VA 9 ай бұрын
When I was really young, I could express myself with no problem, just like every other kid. People and family told me I talked too much. They would get mad at me for saying what I thought or playing too much or being too loud, etc. I thought I was being a kid. Don't remember when it happened, but I became very self-conscious and retreated really far into my shell. I just kept to myself. All of a sudden, I'm too quiet, I don't express myself enough, "you're acting like a robot." I just couldn't win. No matter what I did, said, or thought someone would be upset with me. So I stopped trying all together. I'm 25 now, and though it's not as bad as it used to be. I still have no idea who the real me is and have no idea how to express myself.
@despicableyt
@despicableyt 8 ай бұрын
So relatable
@decypher7
@decypher7 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man, this really helped me.
@tywolfe5468
@tywolfe5468 7 ай бұрын
I know i’m a little late to this video but i really appreciate this because u described my situation perfectly and i thank you so much
@jesswalker-connolly2684
@jesswalker-connolly2684 3 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you so much for making this video, I have never felt this understood before and this actually helped a lot, I’ve been struggling with this all my life, you explained everything so clearly and well 🙌✨
@arturom9145
@arturom9145 11 ай бұрын
When you say something incredibly stupid because you couldn't think of anything to say and you feel like if you don’t say something then everyone will think your awkward .
@hopeann6439
@hopeann6439 2 жыл бұрын
Hey from Kenya.... I was really looking for this.... it's very helpful...Thankyou
@solarienne
@solarienne 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Rafael, I just listened to your video and then I called someone to tell them my truth. Thank you for the inspiration to get courageous! ♥️
@jeypyscho5941
@jeypyscho5941 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! THANK YOU SO MUCH. THIS IS CURRENTLY HAPPENING TO ME AND THIS VIDEO WAS A BIG HELP TO ME :>
@SMMAGIC-s6q
@SMMAGIC-s6q 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this vedio .I m very sad with myself that I can't answer to anyone even I know the answer .I m very nervous of my attitude.i want to overcome of this.i want to be confident because I know everything and I want to express clearly to people that I m not weak enough.
@hasanulbenna5750
@hasanulbenna5750 4 жыл бұрын
Thank bro, this made my day
@krumpli909
@krumpli909 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Im really glad for watching your video! I knew I had this problem, and this video finally taught me how to break free from it.
@charliekirby_
@charliekirby_ 2 жыл бұрын
Somebody please help me. I'm stuck. I am 17 years old and I live with toxic parents and anytime I stutter or forget something they start throwing so many questions if I am on drugs and it isn't as a joke. And yes I've done them and been caught but that was ages ago and they are still going crazy. But it's a lot more than that. I'm going mentally insane and everytime they interrogate me I can't say how I am really feeling because I just feel stuck and it makes me freakout and start sobbing and have a breakdown and then they yell at me for not being able to answer fast enough or give good answers but when I try to tell them I can't express myself it's so hard to tell them that because i can't express that I can't express anything. I'm stuck and I cant do anything about it. And it's not just this there are so many other situations where I'm pressured into having to give answers I can't give them any and then everything gets worse and now I'm in a horrible depressive state and have been for a couple years and I'm going off the fucking deep end. IM ONLY 17 I SHOULDNT BE SUFFERING IN LIFE THIS FUCKING EARLY! Someone PLEASE HELP IM DESPERATE. I'm so sorry for anyone who is going through what I am. I'm sorry if somethings didn't make sense I'm having trouble even typing how I feel cause it's just all stuck in my head and won't work. No one can understand me I hope someone out there can ):
@darrenmays5384
@darrenmays5384 11 ай бұрын
Truly on point , totally relate to a LOT!!!
@learnogistdigitalz
@learnogistdigitalz 10 ай бұрын
This is the beat video I've watched so far
@EbenHodzi
@EbenHodzi 7 ай бұрын
I thank God I found this old video. I tried to speak to the camera today and it was disastrous.
@angelinamgullins
@angelinamgullins Жыл бұрын
Bravo. How you spoke to your audience with so much care, joined with the music in the background made me feel so comfortable and ready to try the steps you were talking about in the video. I am almost 25 and have struggled with social anxiety and not being able to express my true self all my life and I pray that everyone who has this problem would break free and let their voice ring. ❤
@harumi5088
@harumi5088 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏. This was a great video, its just that it made clear those confusing thoughts in my mind that kept me holding me back. I guess it's all about accepting ourselves as we are and stop judging ourselves too much, as if we weren't humans who have flaws, and make mistakes like other people, everyone is strange in some way, trying to make others think we are perfect is an impossible pursue. Also what I've noticed its the more I express myself the more the fuzzyness in my head that makes communication harder dissapears, and the more I can express myself in a fluid and natural way, it's a repetitive process that goes on, and that leads to becoming our true selves💪.
@Danny_27
@Danny_27 4 жыл бұрын
Very nice and inspirational... It was great!
@orshkedi
@orshkedi 2 жыл бұрын
That's incredible thank you so much!
@Peacemt
@Peacemt Жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for making this video ❤ I could so co relate
@fatoma191
@fatoma191 4 жыл бұрын
thank u for ur content it really helped me to figure out a lot of things , i like ur way of talking i felt like im listening to my friend, and ur impact on me is that i'm commenting now ^^
@KultureRange-dg2ep
@KultureRange-dg2ep Жыл бұрын
😭you really left me speechless,
@rohanarora9793
@rohanarora9793 Жыл бұрын
You have some great energy while you speak Rafael. Loved every bit of the video!
@lifelonglearner1863
@lifelonglearner1863 4 жыл бұрын
OMG YOUR BOOK! I need your book. I am from Shwetabh Gangwar's yt channel and following you ever since. But I do want to let you know that your videos are very helpful.. And don't ever ever stop making these amazing videos. Thats it. If you even read that message, I don't want your book, i want to let you know that your videos are having tangible effects on your others lives, thats more important, to make you feel your efforts are being appriciated. Thanks mate again! love ya!
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you
@Dkarmel
@Dkarmel 3 жыл бұрын
I love you so much for making this video ....please do a lot of this kinda video who talk about self Express cause I really want to learn more about that...you are the one who really resonate with my case tkt you so much
@aidaflores364
@aidaflores364 2 жыл бұрын
"Mental faculties bussy trying to understand that shit"........precisely....thank you for expressing it!!!! I´m ready to let go........yeahhhh, thank you!!!!!!
@worthystream289
@worthystream289 2 жыл бұрын
Love you dude you’re literally changing my life
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 2 жыл бұрын
So happy I could help!
@SXClassified
@SXClassified 3 жыл бұрын
So simple and straight to the point. Thank you 💞
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 3 жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it 😄
@jamesr2430
@jamesr2430 2 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing vid. Thank you for sharing this knowledge.
@excusemybeauty7916
@excusemybeauty7916 3 жыл бұрын
I do try to express myself but is often comes out awkward and I feel to just not express myself
@carleighrice8891
@carleighrice8891 3 жыл бұрын
Be confident in yourself
@Jackzengxt
@Jackzengxt Жыл бұрын
thank you for your content and encouragement. It really helps to realize that there are emotions there, like worries, anxieties, when we feel being stuck in the middle of expression. And trying to logically analyze the emotions and the hold back thing is just efforts in vain. Wow, this is really good content. Never thought of it before.
@MichaleMercedes
@MichaleMercedes 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is exactly how I feel.
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 2 жыл бұрын
Hope it helped 🙂
@nancypandya9089
@nancypandya9089 3 жыл бұрын
Great explanation. Glad that I came across.
@Cherry._-_.gaming
@Cherry._-_.gaming 3 ай бұрын
I have just always wanted to fit in and I have never been able to really express myself I just don’t know how to explain it it’s like I’m trying to fit into someone else’s place instead of my own I just find it hard to feel who I really am I just want to be able to express and be myself and know who I really am
@ameldz5032
@ameldz5032 Жыл бұрын
İ really thank you Rafael , I relate to it so much and that 's what I needed , I feel you were literally addressing me , I love listening from people that went through same experiences as me ..that was so helpful ..me too actually I struggled a lot with overthinking everything😢.. i still feel it but I am seeking my confort .. doing things that I love and never puting pressure in my self ..caddling my self , accept it , love it , being connected with it in brief being authentic as you pointed out ..I will break my shell ..the world need my energy I love everyone here in the comment section , happy to find some who share the same feeling with me , I believe in you, you are so valable ❤just keep going never stop ,,never put pressure on yourselves if you don't care about yourselves who wil! l
@embracinggodspurpose
@embracinggodspurpose Жыл бұрын
Thanks ! This really helped.
@JennyD143
@JennyD143 3 жыл бұрын
I lol’d at the visual of telling the guys with guns that you don’t like it and think they are assholes😆 thx for the info too!☺️
@sebastian3112
@sebastian3112 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks man I’m grateful for this video ❤️
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@alexismaestas9665
@alexismaestas9665 Жыл бұрын
Thank you..
@anfield71m
@anfield71m 2 жыл бұрын
Winning. Thanks for the tips - I found this very interesting.
@nivlasalindon4313
@nivlasalindon4313 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed it a lot and absolutely learn a lot. A huge thanks to you. Please keep on making such content like this. It really helps many to realize things clearly and it inspires us to do better.🙂
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