The positive part is that.. We can change. We can improvise ourselves. I never expressed myself even in some crucial events thinking about what others might think and I've faced the consequences which made me realise this lacuna. It's never late to change ourselves. Special thanks to this Guy! Let us fail, let us flop, let us get embarrassed and lastly let us learn from them. And be ourself.
@pissypampah15943 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@ivancarbajal24752 жыл бұрын
preach brotha
@pass67496 жыл бұрын
Its very hard to express myself to parents that will hit you for every tiny screw up.
@yeremileonistolentinocueva64925 жыл бұрын
Same
@yeremileonistolentinocueva64925 жыл бұрын
Stand up you'll see how great you are once you do it
@archdesign41435 жыл бұрын
however u did a good joob expressing ur self in ur user name
@eddygci85 жыл бұрын
Lol next time grab their hand and say “No More Debra! No More Shall I Bear Victim To Your Tyranny” NO MORE DEBRA
@shodmon61224 жыл бұрын
Hi. I do not agree with you.
@jacquelinecorona46094 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how well you can really express yourself perfectly when you’re speaking!!!
@aniruddhg56416 жыл бұрын
'The more you distance from your true self, the more hardships you have to face'.Very true.Thank you.Bless you.
@victorzoo28156 жыл бұрын
Yes i have a lot of difficulty to express myself
@claudineu88824 жыл бұрын
Same🥺
@dantesantillan25784 жыл бұрын
Same
@AnkitSharma-mm7mz4 жыл бұрын
Same
@GaptiManeendravicky4 жыл бұрын
Samee
@almedat26943 жыл бұрын
I just look angry whenever i speak... im too aggressive
@Financelessons1235 жыл бұрын
Dude you crushed this so hard 😭😭😭😭😭 I love you man. Honestly one of the best videos on KZbin on this topic. This deserves millions. This will change everyone’s life.
@Financelessons1235 жыл бұрын
Rafael Eliassen yea dude. I do KZbin myself and took that to heart when I filmed today. I was a new person. So thanks.
@Syifa_Amalia4 жыл бұрын
Agree!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💞
@albertadams23733 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100 %
@adityaarya76006 жыл бұрын
I feel shy while expressing my views , not able to open up myself . Feeling anxiety , shyness and many more . Fed up of this !
@blueidk45024 жыл бұрын
Same
@oliveramarcoangelo11334 жыл бұрын
Me too
@riyaborge51162 жыл бұрын
Rafael I honestly feel like you are my friend living in my neighborhood, whenever I feel low your video pops up and it feels so genuine and encouraging Sometimes more than my friends ever will be. Thank You for that and I hope you will achieve everything in life.
@shortsweetandsimple88638 жыл бұрын
beautiful message 👍the moment you decide to be yourself...only then u become beautiful and attractive to other people and to yourself ☺
@moonisingh33284 жыл бұрын
Yea non-needyness is the truth...
@kajalwaghresha3786 Жыл бұрын
The way he expressed it, is just so goodddd. His eyes spoke a lot about what he was really trying to say. Watched around 10 videos on expressing ,but none hit me this much emotionally.Thanks for making this video!
@jonathanvee96494 жыл бұрын
Rafael. This really means alot to me. Youre right about hitting that low point. Thats when you become more aware of yourself and your surroundings like you said. And Ive seen it happen with everyone that i know. Thank you for explaining this
@harneetparmar2 жыл бұрын
Literally made me crying... I'll remember to express myself no matter what others say or think, I DONT GIVE A SHIT. YOU LIKE ME OR LIKE ME NOT EITHER WAY IM GONNA SHINE!
@Sam-tw7ic3 жыл бұрын
Ohh... so many peoples are there like me... i m happy i m not alone that cannot express my feelings...
@MTNurse8 жыл бұрын
You're AWESOME! You were talking to me. You couldn't have spoken any more direct than if you were talking straight to me. I am adding this to my daily motivational videos to keep me up. Thank you!
@jschrager236 жыл бұрын
Thank you! i really needed this video right now. I feel like lack of expression is what causes trouble in my health and marriage
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you and happy to help
@user-qb3uy5cg1u4 жыл бұрын
This is slapping me hard I am crying. Thank you.
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Really happy I can help
@kalebradley87726 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your success and overcoming obstacles and finding your voice Rafael! Great video thank you very much
@gurneetkour60524 жыл бұрын
I sometimes stop my idea to express to others because of feeling of rejection, feel self doubt of being different and insult.
@_EZEKIELOUMA Жыл бұрын
I liked your charisma most. I hope to reach that level someday
@shinobi70574 жыл бұрын
it deserves more views and likes. Thankyou for this message
@ViralSounds2025 Жыл бұрын
Wow.This hit the spot,Thanks!
@justrenee26405 жыл бұрын
This is one of my biggest problems and it's making me feel super sensitive and like I have anxiety...depression etc. Because I don't like how ppl percieve me and I wish they percieved me how I wanted to be perceived...but now I realize I have to have conviction in who I am...because I can't be anybody else
@imamgiuseppe51034 жыл бұрын
If your young I suggest joining clubs....school clubs or outside school clubs that require you to bring out an element of yourself that you want to Express "like singing helped be louder as a person".....once that's done you will feel more confident in your personality one way or another and you will start to see people who hate on you as a joke...cause to you, your cool...that's what I did.😐
@Skincaregirly5552 жыл бұрын
This video helped me so much because I think I have anxiety but I’m too young to have a therapist so I have to waste all my recess and talk to myself and talk to my friends and it’s not a very good way to spend it and I just wish my life was better but this video truly helped me
@zzulm5 жыл бұрын
You read my mind 😂 it's exactly some of the things I was trying to express. And in my case I'm a codependent and working on my self love.
@carolinelackeyJCOTMlight2 жыл бұрын
this has been my biggest challenge and struggle i have faced I life and has messed me up so many ways and forms but im now willing to change that
@tati02018 жыл бұрын
True....Happy I've gotten out of that phase in my life. Thank you for sharing.
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
I really do appreciate the kind words.
@obituankenobi3 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in this
@MegaKarume Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this great videa...🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@Danny_275 жыл бұрын
It was so inspirational.....!!!
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@konoclipperda25922 жыл бұрын
Bro expressing oneself is a very good way to start improving, Wish I could have known about this video sooner
@agentjordan605 Жыл бұрын
Got it
@floofiegaming85963 жыл бұрын
My friend, THANK YOU
@RafaelEliassen3 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@duncanmacisaac92162 жыл бұрын
Will just add that something that’s really helped me in expressing myself is dancing. I was pretty reserved about the idea at first, but if you just try it, even just when your alone, and jam however you feel like you need to jam it’s very freeing. Might not happen the first time or two, but when it clicks it clicks. It’s fun to do, builds confidence, and teaches you some sick moves for next time you and the boys go out 😂 Love it or hate it, nobody has more fun than mf’s who dance.
@agentjordan605 Жыл бұрын
Got it
@ericolvera74355 жыл бұрын
Its difficult when I'm having a long conversation
@jacquelinecorona46094 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video!! 🤍
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@nicsmith55168 жыл бұрын
You're a blessing Rafael truly.
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
I really do appreciate the kind words.
@marined76384 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. It’s everything i needed to hear 💕
@nangkutamut55842 жыл бұрын
Literally me😭😭😭 thank youuuuuu
@sampadaghimire22615 жыл бұрын
So beautiful.. Thank you.💛
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😀
@grimfox70386 жыл бұрын
I see i have lots a problems so many bad thoughts and memories pain and regret alot.....it hurts
@dancingqueen67304 жыл бұрын
You made a point
@Glo_Cha3 жыл бұрын
This was a great video. It really spoke to me. Thank you.
@mreugenecrabs95213 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@bhavinprajapati9355 жыл бұрын
It's always a tragedy seeing many unhappy faces just because the case is same everywhere and it's about our world which is totally ours and since we don't own it... Just because we don't get ourselves out!!
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@Monthoen4 жыл бұрын
thanks bro u i appreciate ur words n especially ur energies
@beybiladylee33253 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU’!!!! I really need this to hear Tho my boyfriend always cheer me up and tell this everytime,but still i feel like I CANT DO IT! I can’t talk ,I can’t express my self! And I really don’t know why! What’s wrong!
@jessaapsay70333 ай бұрын
I WILL NO LONGER BE AFRAID OF BEING ME, OF EXPRESSING MYSELF! I WILL NO LONGER BE DICTATED BY MY FEARS!
@maryemelmaa55837 жыл бұрын
best thing i ve heard so far 👍
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words 😊
@raibeckham61724 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message! It made a difference in the way I think now
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@alexanderparada82903 жыл бұрын
I have a lot of time trying to gain some knowledge where it got me to think about how it could benefit so far. It's been confident where you get to know your emotions very deeply. To be honest I had a hard time trying to have more experience in College that's how I failed 3 times because I couldn't ask for more help and the last class I didn't pass because of the COVID. I tried not to think about it too much. Well it's been far naive for me. This is why I have to always get more reputation and more intelligent to put on this pressure.
@Goldeneggs74 жыл бұрын
I Needed To Hear This Thank You
@Balaji-mr2yb3 жыл бұрын
It's a very very motivation ....tnk u so much bro👍👍👍👍
@dennishernandezfit4 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir #2020
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@yeremileonistolentinocueva64925 жыл бұрын
Well freking done Let mayyyy expresss my happyness cause this video was and is hepfulll lets gooooo!!!!!!!👍👍👍👍👍💥💥💥
@jayshah75427 жыл бұрын
Bro it is best motivational channel on KZbin
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Maria124574 жыл бұрын
Yeah... I used to think everything was self explanatory so bc of that there’s no need to talk bc it’s so obvious. I had to figure this out and my therapist was no help
@snareromie52955 жыл бұрын
This video helped me out thank your sharing this with me
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you and glad you enjoyed the video
@joana_stacy6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@jasminechimal89184 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏🏼 change your life in 5 minutes!! Pheww 😅😅
@justintodd86494 жыл бұрын
i feel free after this
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad!
@simranbarve19318 жыл бұрын
thank you so much..... u have been such a help to me💗💗💗
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome and glad you enjoyed the video
@MsFabulousStar8 жыл бұрын
Thank you! couldn't come at a better time 🙌❤
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@ericolvera74355 жыл бұрын
Tbh I get stunned when I talk, I dont Express about how I feel Any tips;
@Zain69z3 жыл бұрын
the thing is i came here because i lack expressions its not that im suffocating myself i just dont know how to do it like my gf confessed to me that she cheated on me and she was sorry but i wasnt that angry, i felt disappointed. what made me worried is that im not shocked and didnt get emotional i was preparing myself if such a day comes but when it really came i only handled it the right way like a machine i felt emotionless. it wasnt that i dont care i just didnt get emotional about it. and worries me more that i almost never cry. like at max i know exactly that i only cried twice last year and 3 times exactly the one before even on emotional scenes for example i barely feel anything. dunno if its ok to share such things on the internet.. but whatever that wouldnt change anything
@yoXneo8 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this, thank you so much!
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed the video 😀
@murugeshinuvechika7 жыл бұрын
I guess most of them will relate to this. thanks bro
@gabbysueproductions94574 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!!! I related to this so much. 🖤
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@darkblue90226 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@Angi-ix2oe8 жыл бұрын
wow..amazing!
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@mmeowth17464 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much :>
@LaBrendaMariana5 жыл бұрын
You’re so inspiring 🤩
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@goldenkillzz7425 Жыл бұрын
Well i dont know how to express my self properly tho i do however experience a lot of emotions. I have always tried not to cry (because men do not cry stereotype) i have a hard time helping someone in need or is in depression(My friend had decided to confide in me and decided to share his concerns about his relationship with his father and i tried to help him but i wasnt able to properly help) I dont know how to properly care for people i love and i never for once had experienced what it truelly likes to love someone. I feel empty every now and then watching romance anime where the main couple show love and intimacy in which i get attached too much to the story and feel depressed afterwards for not having enough intimacy and connection. I really do wish for me to love someone and for intimacy
@donny33074 жыл бұрын
my girlfriend is having a hard time expressing herself, can someone give me tips how to make our connection stronger? tysm
@dessavillena88064 жыл бұрын
How can you grow, when you just allow yourself to be that kind of person you were yesterday?
@Hyuexiu4 жыл бұрын
The thing that I forgot if i know myself, how i see myself, how can i express my self if not my modules I won't search things to know myself more
@profbfc6 жыл бұрын
If i expressed how I felt, i would say a lot of things that may be considered as rude/selfish
@prod.jyrome4796 жыл бұрын
And someone will then call you out on your actions. This would then be a lesson to self improve, take people's criticism as a lesson
@mariareid27268 жыл бұрын
you should always say what you feel otherwise people wont now were your comming from
@alaswanyalaswany31083 жыл бұрын
Thanks , I will pull a rabbit out of a hat 😇from Egypt
@kingdrew50835 жыл бұрын
im 15 and always see people posting about whatever and I don't and cant figure out if it is ok
@Syifa_Amalia4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for sharing this, i wish you All the best!!!!💕💕💕💞💞💞💞💞💞😭🙌
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@Vanessa-ws6fz7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this :)
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@nishapoon23472 жыл бұрын
Yes I can’t express so that I feel guilty all the time
@gabbysramos4 жыл бұрын
I was the 1k like!! yay
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Hehe nice! Thank you (:
@boundlesswe88605 жыл бұрын
yeah i got what you meant!
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!
@khadidjaboussedra93693 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend got bored and always he tells me why you don't express your self I just feel that I have nothing to say...
@tiffanysar-lecluze56794 жыл бұрын
I repressed myself a lot those last year for some reasons and I think that is a big problem for me I dig into my own thoughts not having any opportunity to be supported
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@RupakshiSharma-p3p10 ай бұрын
Never was able to talk to my own dad because I a scared ang get extreme anxiety. I feel like I'm talking to an unknown person . I feel like I Never had father in my life ......
@kajal58263 жыл бұрын
Till date Can't really express myslef.
@anika.9854 жыл бұрын
I can't express myself ; but I'm trying
@TahjiisWorld4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how to 😭😭😭
@lewisT20026 жыл бұрын
Tip 1 : listen to express yourself
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the tips 😀
@Ry._ffm2 жыл бұрын
I don't know what to say, I feel like everything I say doesn't affect anyone. All my problems are nothing compared to others. I'm afraid to show my true self, I don't even know who I am anymore. Even writing this comment took me almost 10 minutes
@imeesadia43884 жыл бұрын
it takes a lot of effort for me
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. How are things going with you now? Would love to get an update if you see this :)
@abdelrahmankababy62392 жыл бұрын
2:02
@sana-nt8sv4 жыл бұрын
i cant express myself without being hated on
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. This video might help you a bit more actually: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rpmZh4CqYtpjrdU
@noemitessacunden17355 жыл бұрын
I think I'm just scared , scared of peoples thoughts and of what people will thinks of me and say
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! This video might help you a bit more actually: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nnilooSNrtZplZo
@Ela_at_Midnight Жыл бұрын
😮❤
@grv_agni4 жыл бұрын
Is making memes authentic?
@FreedomforAfricans5 жыл бұрын
Fuck that music, but the message is great
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will take that in for next time 😀
@FreedomforAfricans4 жыл бұрын
Rafael Eliassen I’mma turn on that notification bell for the next one😊
@Artii12305 жыл бұрын
Wait what if the only thing you want to tell people is to let you alone and gtfo ? should you still be expressing it to evry one ? xD