How to Be More Aggressive | Build Assertive Character

[@berkantkose3222]

I'm not shy but i don't get angry. If someone harrasses me i don't feel angry, then i regret it. I've never had a serious arguement and regret it

[@atmshuvo44]

Berkant Köse same here

[@ildio7987]

I used to have serious arguments and be more aggressive. Every since I graduated from college I became more soft

[@shivampradhan6101]

so you get used and dont feel angry and dont stop them robbing you but regret that later .so ur solution is to stop being used and stop them.

[@Kiba_Tatsu]

I used to do that.. Now im going from 0 to a 100 in a second shouting arguments and telling people to fuck off ... Better them regretting and rethinking their motives over than me also practice martial arts the workout makes your body language more aggressive and intimidating.

[@andreasleonlandgren3092]

I take the conflict it feels great

[@sulgucci]

I aggressively liked your video 👍🏻

[@mozzy917]

First 13 seconds describes me perfectly

[@proboiyt2467]

Same here brother

[@vanner66]

It's all about how you think about yourself.

[@swethareddy1186]

"..... Not being able to communicate...." That brought tears through my eyes, thank you so much for this video. 🙏🏾 Also, I know you have the video of not pleasing people, but how come you are not only pleasing but extremely lovable?

[@ibrahiemmohamed09]

I appreciate that this isn't some hype-y video, it's down to earth. Worth the watch.

[@thatlamguy]

You are so awesome at giving motivation and inspiration to people Rafael! I've been following you for about a month now and i've already seen all of your videos because what you're doing, is something amazing. Helping people the way you're doing it is not something someone can find that easily, but through your videos, you made it possible! Please keep up your good work because you are really helping a lot people out there!

[@oddtarot4151]

I’ve never challenged myself or dealt with something so challenging to become aggressive, I regret it so much.

[@Catthepunk]

I'm not shy, but I'm not aggressive. I'm too chill for my own good. I also fear not being able to do what I promise. So I don't take much public risk, nor do I promote myself in areas where I know I should be able to help people but it's not guaranteed that I will. I also hate embarrassing myself by saying I can do something, then I can't. I've tried overcoming that by taking risks, but so far, I even find myslef miscalculating the timing for the simplest of projects, therefore making them impossible to accomplish. I'm not gonna stop trying, but I feel like I need more aggression to make things happen when unforseen circumstances throw me off.

[@lordkai59]

I've always thought of being more aggressive but was afraid to. I've gotten angry a lot but either i suppress it or I'm not that truly angry. Because if i do snap, i feel like batman if he kills. If i snap, I'm never gonna come back

[@snehabhat4876]

I'm so passive I don't even have dreams.

[@rozaiinii]

Thanks a lot for this man.. you actually saved me from the school bullies.. Now they are scared of me

[@TwiStedTentom]

I used to be super soft and never speak up for myself, so I kept thinking about it fuming over it, and after 12 years, I'm not super soft anymore. I'm just an asshole now.

[@Rakesh-vq9zm]

🤣

[@shivampradhan6101]

Congratulations

[@rayitoramirez]

I rather be an asshole than be a wimp who doesn’t stand up for themselves

[@estheradao]

Same lmaooo 😂😂

[@kevinstart5107]

Hm.... Sir can you blink?

[@GafferSamz]

He blinks so fast the camera can’t pick it up. He’s a supe

[@vibincariappa6182]

He has blinked several times.....kaha dek raha tha.....

[@North441]

0:00 to 1:10 my story

[@niteshraj2771]

Build strength build endurance practice mixed martial arts, you know you can kick any ass on the planet.

[@bishalale2893]

I was searching for a fight but you completely change my mind set thanks a lot

[@bishalale2893]

😊😊

[@lolum7301]

I like the colors on the wall and the ambient light

[@zeinalbasam4733]

It's hard to build that personallity type when you've been abused by your father ever since you were born both physically and mentally because any time you stand up for yourself or speak up you get beat up or made fun of

[@WatchersClubFamily]

Wish you the best, you seem like a nice guy

[@MikeGarland__]

Stop making excuses for yourself. You can do it. Stop coming up with reasons why you can't, just do it. You can be exceptional.

[@rayjenkins1370]

Same!!!

[@mervenovan]

Love the new background! And the new camera angle haha. Aaand I agree, well set goals can bring action. Keep up the good work!

[@terrencemichaelcruz1801]

Very good communication on this subject.

[@sheilacherop9520]

Thankyou for this!! Bumping into this 5 years after release and it couldn't be more timely

[@kelvinemilio2941]

I aggressively get inspire by watching this video to the end. The reason: It makes so f*cking sense what you said that I need to fic my life now or I will feel guilty of not take action 💢

[@azrael6067]

Shy doesn't mean reserved. Reserved people are really the ones who go all out if someone breaks their limit of patience. They know if they go aggressive they would just become animals. They are on the need to know how to bring out the aggression when they want it and regulate it to function efficiently.

[@iNooBCoDEr]

this video will change my life thanks bro☺️😊

[@safjay6485]

Thank you man you're giving me a lot. ❤

[@friedegg6235]

I'm aggressive as ever thxs grrrrr

[@internationalplaygirl]

I really am an aggressive person and i am working on it...

[@Spinnxu]

I’m tired of being that nice guy everyone picks on

[@parzivaloasis5038]

Sir, is it okay to scold an elder to you?

[@AhmedVlogs1]

Please make a video on " How to cope up with Break UP "

[@oliverj7991]

Wow thank you so much.. make more videos 🔥🔥🔥

[@christianrogers9439]

I’m like this and it has made being in the military extremely difficult

[@RafaelEliassen]

Thank you for sharing! How are things going with you now? Would love to get an update if you see this :)

[@mohammedhaadi2872]

thanks Rafeal. am able to stay focus for only a couple of days and then i get distructed. what should i do please

[@TopG6917]

i get angry, but i cant express it but i want to

[@fakenewstv5044]

This video was super inspirational, thank you very much ♡

[@samuelhntr1986]

INFP

[@slammed4578]

Same.I done my test years ago though. I also haven't watched the video yet, but I know what that usually stands for. I think mine would have changed by now though.

[@samuelhntr1986]

Rafael Eliassen I hope I can make the necessary changes.

[@vanessaangel3025]

I was solid some time back but I don't understand Y I can't get angry any more

[@omid8852]

All true man... All true

[@RafaelEliassen]

Thanks man

[@jackd9912]

Amazing video, you're great!. Thanks a lot.

[@jackd9912]

Definitely subbed to your channel after this vid. 🙌 Video suggestion : "How to discover your purpose/ calling in Life" 🙂

[@capythecasual23]

Powerful stuff thank you man :)

[@johnhall3670]

I'm 39 years old and still struggle with this

[@MAGIOCLOTHINGBRAND]

and what about if i afraid that other man i agreesive with him will be more aggresive with me then it will come to a fight

[@Finocyl]

Great speech but, being more agressive can't make me reach every goals, even if i become more agressive it will never make someone love me if that peson doesn't want to

[@ThankYouTwo]

Hey mate! greetings from Australia :) I really enjoy your videos and was wondering whether you can answer my question or direct me to the right video. Basically I've made it my goal to become a GREAT public speaker (even though I've been terrible at it). I've made a lot improvements in the past month (by recording myself daily doing speeches on random topics). There's just one barrier that I can't seem to get over and that's the ability to make my words flow continuously and effortlessly (even when I'm practising by myself). I've noticed from your very first video ever you had this same problem, and now you speak effortlessly and naturally (almost seems like you can talk non stop for hours). What steps or mindset shift did you take to make this transition? Thank you, I appreciate your videos and your time!

[@slammed4578]

Can't you just youtube or google search it? I know there is a wiki how page on this. Pretty sure there would be a shit ton of videos on youtube about this also.

[@tapiwamundawarara3891]

Like the message. Thanks for the reminder Raf :)

[@Itsyourboi22]

Thank u brother 🤍

[@AvinashKumar-ny6iz]

You sound like Mel robbins.

[@tulipflower8947]

My bost said to me "you need to be aggressive." In my heart said.. oh hell. If you know how much I want, how much frustrated am I, how much I pray to be someone else who can make a happy to others, oh... I just... until I search and found this video

[@robinlie9941]

Er du norsk??? Så koselig å se en god norsk youtuber, keep it up!

[@nithinsandilya8115]

bro just make a video on how to love your work

[@ajaythomas2009]

Grt ... bro...I will be aggressive too

[@himanshukohli4080]

Right be aggressive

[@andrewa.mcnamee8530]

ASSERTIVENESS is NOT the same as aggressiveness; if this guy doesn't know that, he's NOT WORTH LISTENING TO. Read "Be Assertive" by Beverley Hare - she knows what she's talking about! Aggessiveness is likely to bring you trouble; Assertiveness may help avoid or resolve it.

[@marynassuna3792]

Bro I don't know why someone would want this unless ur asking for a personality change, which doesn't sound right at all.

[@muddledlion9593]

I bet that nothing has changed in your life

[@oddtarot4151]

So basically you are saying once you set up goals for yourself and make it happen, you feel more aggressive with yourself?

[@ranvirsabharwal6995]

Mannn you gotta check people sometimes in life.

[@bishalale2893]

Thanks

[@LivesavingSuccess]

He gets me fucking agressive

[@jasonsanger7569]

Keep the videos coming... :)

[@LenkaJursova]

to say "NO" is for me like to get aggressive. why do I feel like this?

[@LenkaJursova]

Rafael Eliassen you are right

[@DroGodina]

Motivation ;)⚡

[@Jay-de7pn]

First 1 minute is me all through...

[@North441]

Great bro👍

[@RafaelEliassen]

Thank you

[@houssemabbaz6003]

thank u

[@mikitanikita]

i love your mindset.. 😍 keep going!

[@zynnachinolover]

Thanks, time to fuck up my enemies in fortnite and valorant in the hardest way possible

[@sm_johan8744]

Make video on voice

[@angelobrownbear5050]

First time a seen a video with a lot of views and only 1 dislike

[@Orc-icide]

Strange flex

[@elidel3299]

OK i got it

[@RafaelEliassen]

Awesome :)

[@Dan-ul1hd]

man you are a norwegian?? i Love Norwegian people and the norway country so much oddly because i never been in norway!!! Btw Have you heard of Varg Vikernes??

[@Dan-ul1hd]

@@RafaelEliassen he is the creator of the Norwegian black metal band called Burzum! He wrote extremely beautiful pieces of music! As a norwegian you must have heard of Burzum

[@asnappinturla]

IM SICK OF BEING TALKED OVER, ASKED TO SPEAK UP, SCARED OF MY OWN IMAGE, ETC. IM SICK OF YHIS SHIT. AHHHHHHHHHHH

[@tj_2820]

I’m aggressive

[@afadeevz]

I like you though I'm drunk

[@gregwhite9926]

Bro blink

[@AlanNguyenMD]

you look like Charlie Puth

[@irynasribniak856]

you remind me of MORIARTI

[@Leopar525]

Don’t talk so slowly mate. Nice vid tho

[@mariareid2726]

i say it as is thats my way of thinking no means no then they know were your at

[@die_ghost6334]

I hate life

[@ecreiF3831]

Me

[@dutchvanderlinde661]

Loser stay loser but he just learn how to hide it😁

[@miguelvidalmartinez9456]

If a fat guy gets in shape he's still a fat guy?

[@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534]

I’m Aggressive I had to be to survive alone as a women in this cruel world