RAISE Your SELF-ESTEEM: How to See Yourself As Sacred and Precious!

[@kathyalex778]

Ladies we have so much power in saying “NO!” Every time you say “yes” to some dust, you’re saying “no” to the possibility of an actual healthy and prosperous relationship. Don’t pick the struggle route.

[@Rhawn246]

Well said!

[@Bossesroundhere]

🙌 It's so true. There really are pathways with different frequencies. Choose wisely & enjoy the journey. Time is ticking.

[@kathyalex778]

@@Bossesroundhere Yes! You only have a finite number of days on this earth. Start making good decisions today to have a better tomorrow.

[@cassl7456]

@faith umuk misery loves company , but you can't save a drowning man who is pulling you down w them

[@latoyabanks5175]

FACTS💯💯💯

[@aminah761]

Ladies stop looking for a Man to make you happy. Happiness comes from within having a Man is just a plus

[@cookinghealthy8049]

Amen. So many things you can do without a man. So much freedom to do whatever you want. When one comes along when your living your best life then great

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

💕👏🏽💕👏🏽💕👏🏽

[@MakeupTiffany]

The rewards you get once you truly value yourself are priceless! 🙌🏿

[@MultiChiedza]

Yes Low Value Men need to know they are replaceable 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@zaria_treasuress]

Yep we learned that from Beyoncé “Irreplaceable” She was like “Boy bye” 😂

[@drstone3418]

So are you . with an expiration date in fact

[@MultiChiedza]

@@zaria_treasuress yes she did good by us on that one lol

[@MultiChiedza]

@@drstone3418 wrong channel dust

[@en1575]

In most cases "the prettiest people have the lowest self esteem"

[@regularity2556]

Many times it's due to abuse when we're children. There's a lot of child sexual abuse that goes on in the community and it's hidden and shows up in the dysfunctional lives of even the prettiest

[@en1575]

@@regularity2556 true

[@alunaling2745]

Reason is people start attacking you, men and women. Men try to bring your esteem down so they can have access to you. Jealous women hate you and gossip.

[@a.j.1819]

It’s also often times because when your looks are all people ever talk about from a young age, it‘s easy to base your identity off of only that and as a result become insecure about everything else that makes you you.

[@MlleDiane-od5sn]

That's because pretty people (women) are targeted more than so called unattractive women. All the PUAs, dating and game coaches out here are for men looking for women they deem 8's and up. Attractive women get much more game run on them. It takes a toll unless you have guidance to figure it out.

[@texasrose31]

The comments under Chloe’s videos never fail to inspire, encourage, and stimulate!

[@fitwitbrittbritt]

YES.!! And It makes me feel like I ain’t crazy and the only one thinking this different way of hypergamy ❤️🥰💯

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Yes❤💐💯😷

[@MontemorA-eb1ypy]

Righttt?? If I watch a video without reading the comments I feel like there’s information missing 😂😂😂😂

[@woryenehbenson4702]

The fairytale narrative is detrimental. Disney’s Pocahontas was a prime example. It romanticized rape and genocide. It is important to teach children the truth. The prince charming approach is a con mans favorite game. Thank you Chloe for sharing with us another video to protect us from abuse.

[@kathyalex778]

Yes omg I remember watching the Notebook like 5 or 6 times when I was younger and dumber and being like “Woow I want love like this 😍”, meanwhile the main character cheated on her rich, handsome, and caring fiancée for... some poor, unattractive, high school romance that used to fight with her all the time? Huuuhhh? 🤣

[@cookinghealthy8049]

Yup romance novels are a sham. Gives you false hope

[@lxrddcks]

@@kathyalex778 man , you are SO right ! I’ve started to realize a LOT of movies and tv shows , even BOOKS , are written to push the agenda that women should pursue toxic and unfulfilling relationships because of “passion” and “lust” being equated to real love . and the exposure to this mess starts at a young age . couple the media exposure with the dusty mentality of the women in the environment you grow up in , and it’s easy to see why it’s so hard for women to wake up ! the romanticization of struggle love is real .

[@magiciansalchemist3693]

@@kathleenking47 Actually No they Are NOT..This has been debunked. This was proven with the 5 dollar WW Native American Indian Myth in which Whites were given land to claim being Indian for 5 dollars. Democrat Elizabeth Warren was exposed and had to Apologize to the Native American Community. WW love to Appropriate Everybody Culture..As if they weren't as Ruthless as WM who participated in the Genocide.

[@cookinghealthy8049]

@@kathleenking47 I did too but honestly it really makes you think and dream that a love could exist that way . I always had that hope in my heart that I would find a love like that. But let’s be honest. Life isn’t perfect and no one is. The only Disney move that speaks facts is the lion king. Teaches you about life lol

[@alunaling2745]

My father loved me and treated me well. He always told me to never settle for a man that does not treat me the way he does. I listened and fortunately found a man who does just that.

[@GabriellahItaly]

That's good a father right there.

[@tq325]

Just had a past dusty try to come back and talk. Little does he know, I am no longer the person he knew before. Poor fool!

[@DocGoneRogue]

Same

[@tq325]

@Adarose Trust me, some thoughts went through my head. But then I said why let him even think that I remember him, bloop!

[@faviolafikir2181]

Block, move on, repeat! 🖤🖤🖤

[@lovenosa1105]

I had a turning point in my life when I realized that value was not something others anointed my with and I was the main vote in deciding my worth and value. It's also not my job to convince others of my value either. What God created cannot be debated. Seeing myself as worthy and sacred also increased my capacity to see others the same way and to treat them with value. Chloe, thank you for these life changing videos.

[@misshaddi]

Yasss sisss💕

[@p.tobias8358]

This comment is going to be one of my new morning affirmations!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@mydiamondlifestyle.]

I have been the ultimate wife to boyfriends...caught up giving....and giving...and giving....I'm learning that men pursue who they want...they put in effort, time and cherish who they want. I wanted the DISNEY FAIRY TALE so badly!

[@cookinghealthy8049]

Bad idea to be the wife in a girlfriend role. It’s better to treat the person how they are treating you. Even getting married isn’t all it is cracked up to be. I rather be in a relationship without the commitment. This is coming from a married woman. Unless I found a great man I don’t want it

[@jessicanyokas]

I've been there. Keep your head up, you now know better! You will meet a great guy.

[@miimonalisa]

@@cookinghealthy8049 I have literally stopped doing wife duties which is easy to fall into the role of doing wife things when you are living with a man without that commitment. I’ve never wanted to be one of those women who lived with a man but that’s what happened lol Anyways I noticed that I was doing more and more and he wasn’t giving me the same energy so one day I just completely stop doing everything. I will do no more or no less than what he does

[@cassandraabston8311]

@@miimonalisa IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING MORE THAN 1 YEAR ASK HIM WHEN YOU TWO CAN GET MARRIED. IF HE WAFFLES AROUND AND DOESNT GIVE YOU A SPECIFIC TIME FRAME, MOVE ON. DON'T WASTE YOUR GOOD YEARS ON A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE.

[@k.j.8341]

Jessica White is so gorgeous! If she would open her options, I'm sure she could find another millionaire to marry her & give her babies in a heartbeat 💓

[@MsDemile28]

First of all. This is a top model. She was the face of Maybelline for around 10 years or so. She can easily be in the world of aristocratic men in Europe. Never date people who are in the business that you're in. It's like dating a coworker. Risky and not advised.

[@tubab1]

80% of women want to marry millionaires 😆🤣😂

[@saucyyslim6978]

@@tubab1 Not sure where that percentage came from. Majority of us just want honesty, loyalty, commitment, a man with goals and aspirations. Money isn’t necessarily a big factor.

[@shetrieseverything2206]

@@saucyyslim6978 facts!!! Everything is not about money.

[@sbwlearning1372]

Not a man who loves her. Not a man who will support her not a man who will be her partner, not a soul mate. A Millionaire!! And you wonder why ?

[@framingfemininity34]

I was in a relationship with a grandiose/neglectful narcissist and I literally used to fantasize (daydream) about the toxic dysfunction, normalizing it in my head as "Oh all couples go through things". I asked his mom for advice, despite the fact that she herself wasn't in a healthy marriage; my cognitive dissonance in thinking she was a good source of advice despite me knowing I didn't want a husband like hers, and seeing the parallels between her relationship and my own, still astounds me when I look back on it but mistakes are the best teacher so I've forgiven myself. During this time I was also stuck in the matrix of watching toxic reality tv and listening to misogynistic music for entertainment-- oof. Ladies the Law of Attraction is VERY real, idk why some folks still don't believe in it. We are plants waiting to blossom; if we want to see ourselves flourish then we must be mindful and discerning of what we put *INto* ourselves so that we can also get the best output. Remember the tenets of balance, duality, and reciprocity.

[@thembimogala9704]

Well said, the media we consume has the power to reinforce our behavior and how we view our lives.

[@framingfemininity34]

@@thembimogala9704 💎 "Unplug from the matrix".

[@deej5608]

EXCELLENT POINT QUEEN.

[@faviolafikir2181]

Love this! You’re not alone🙏🏽

[@framingfemininity34]

@@faviolafikir2181 Thank you. 💖

[@Maya__Mia___]

8:06 “When a woman views herself as sacred and precious, respect from men will always be a *minimum.* ” 💯💯💯 Wish more people would realize that things like *respect* aren’t “add-ons” in dating and relationships.

[@sonagold9145]

Cn u elaborate on this i dont exactly get it i thought being feminine will get me respect and i will be treated better

[@kristybaby552]

I have ignored red flags in the past but I am now proud to say that I have been walking away from toxic people and situations quickly and effortlessly. It feels so good. Thank you Chloe ✨

[@alybd3470]

This channel was a turning point for me when I started listening at 23, I'll be 24 this year. The energetic shift is tangible. I'm empowered in my interactions with men. At first, it all felt like walking in a new pair of shoes, but now I'm wielding my feminine power with the precision of a swordsman it feels like. And I'm doing it all my own way, taking from any archetype I see fit. The responses from the people around me are also super encouraging, I'm even starting to notice the women in my life relax into their feminine, maybe with a bit of jealousy at first, but feminine I've remained.. as my goal is to always enrich the lives of those around me. I'm happy they've taken from my journey what they can. 2020 was my first entire year single since I was like 16... Now I'm prioritizing myself, taking the time to sculpt myself into who I want to become, and waiting patiently for a man who will cherish me. Thank you, Chloe for showing me a better way and effectively changing the course of my entire existence 😳❤

[@miimonalisa]

You go girl ☀️

[@zaria_treasuress]

I always walk away from red flags especially with friends, I analyze so much to where I could find peoples true intentions. Lost a friend over a spoon once 😂 I remember I knew a guy I wanted to know and he wouldn’t even tell me his BIRTHDAY! Unfortunately I kept entertaining him it was going great until one day the Universe removed him from my life, I was gonna manifest him back. But I once saw this quote “God removed people from your life because he heard conversations you didn’t hear” ✨ Haven’t thought about him since, I am the prize and I am precious.

[@lightsalt581]

I am a unique divine expression of God’s Imagination. Thank you Chole. I felt that. That’s why I’m sacred and precious.

[@amaniiexxchnge]

Girls please just listen to these videos! My life has changed significantly since I started my feminine journey I’ve come up from a McDonald’s job living with my mom and having a dusty leech for a boyfriend, To starting my new career with a huge pay raise, my own apartment and new man in my life that’s rooting for my glowup and progression as a black woman. I just turned 20 and I’ve still got a long way to go but by starting now I’ve saved myself from a lot of heartache. start now you’re life will be so much better. 💕💕

[@sexyshevas]

Good for you girl!

[@fantasyford1778]

God will let you experience the bare minimum & take it away bcuz that’s life. Don’t get discouraged when you feel like that guy was the 1 & things go haywire. God is getting you prepared for greater so you know how to properly handle what’s destined for you. Accept the lesson & gain wisdom

[@user-ub7wt2cz2l]

Rewatching this video years later and I'm so grateful to have rediscovered it. This is so easy to forget, and I'm grateful to have this reminder and a step-by-step of how to see myself as precious again!

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

“ They were never taught to put themselves on a pedestal and to see yourself as precious”. Wow wow this hit me!

[@youreincredible1648]

Its been a couple months i left my dusty never thought i would. I know my worth.

[@So_Boujee]

Bravo!

[@cookinghealthy8049]

Kudos to you. Now it’s my turn. I just signed a apt lease agreement w/o my husband so he can figure out his situation. I know my worth too

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

Good for you sis! I’m trying to do the same. No children or home together, guess I’m just afraid of the unknown and being without someone that I’m used to. But after years together and STILL no marriage, I need to move on. Hopefully I get the strength 😩

[@Eternal32bloom]

Yes, we need to teach our daughters that a relationship isn’t the end goal. It’s just a part of the journey. That journey is your growth.

[@jessepera2457]

Ladies men aren't always to blame. *You deserve what you accept* he knows your worth often he is gauging to see if YOU do.

[@Ang_Nicole]

This is very true. Sometimes they know we deserve better, but stick around to mistreat us because we tolerate it. It’s up to us to do better.

[@YellaRoseBliss]

@@Ang_Nicole soo true. I’ve had ex bf’s tell me they don’t deserve me. Not knowing my worth, I would try to convince myself otherwise.

[@jessicanyokas]

You are definitely correct there.

[@a.j.1819]

Girl a WORD!

[@a.j.1819]

@@YellaRoseBliss Same! They told me they know/think they don’t deserve me, and then continued to play in my face. I should have known better.

[@sherrita8582]

As women we give so much power to these men,who treat us as indispensable tools. As always love this,I put these principles into practice,as a fabulous 50year woman,I have been through a few things,and had to learn this..Thank Chloe!!❤️

[@ajaashley7666]

50??? Stop playing! You look amazing, I just had to say that. Also your comment made me teary eyed, about giving power to men that treat us as indispensable tools. We're all here growing and learning

[@sherrita8582]

@@ajaashley7666 thank you! You're sweet ..I wished I would've learned these at your age, younger,smart and beautiful black women,need these platforms 💓

[@ajaashley7666]

@@sherrita8582 I'm grateful for these channels helping us 🖤 women out 😊

[@arielsullivan4746]

Ten years ago as a teenager...this is what I needed to hear. Instead both of my parents got caught up trying to exchange blows in an ugly divorce, leaving me to look to the world for validation, love and acceptance. I spent years being a pick me, a sapphire and acting outside of myself for the sake of fitting in and “finding a man”. Needless to say, I’ve been watching Chloe_ since I turned 25 last June and my perspective on life has COMPLETELY SHIFTED. With the help of an excellent therapist, I am continuing to do my soul surgery. I just want to say thank you to Chloe_ for popping up in my YT feed and creating these videos; they’re lifesaving tools that give me hope for the future. 💕

[@jessepera2457]

You are precious like a diamond. Just because u were with a fool who fumbled you does not change the fact that *you are still a diamond*

[@cleopatramyers6134]

I literally stop everything else that I’m doing once I’m notified Chloe is about to preach! Ladies, YOU ARE THE PRIZE! Thank you Chloe for blessing us this fine Sunday morning. 😍#glowfromwithin #sacredandprecious

[@rh1660]

Your like a Sister or Cousin every woman needs 💕💕

[@Glad2BGolden]

I’m confused, I thought this relationship ended a long time ago. Jessica is 36 years old, what are her relationship goals? She’s absolutely gorgeous and wasting it on a man/men who do not value her.

[@esaiamystic]

YES, at 21 I got into a relationship that was unbelievably bad for me. Got pregnant with my first child and at 25 I'm FINALLY able to realize the truth that this man is not the one for me. There was so much that transpired, all I can say is now I have completely accepted my own power and truly your videos along with other women on the KZbin platform have helped me with that. Without that relationship, I would have never recognized the generational curses that were passed down to me that ENABLED me to be in a relationship like that. I'm a changed woman, and barely resonate with much of my family and community now, but Resonate Completely with what I truly know is right for me. It feels good honestly. Ladies these experiences are a blessing, Black/Afro Indigenous women all over the world are rising to their power from this, and the EARTH is speaking through us!

[@jozannsimmons7259]

Thanks chloe I have learnt how to walk away about 2years ago and learning to take care of myself before I was looking so tired and now I look better at 37 learn how to walk away it works from the caribbean Trinidad and Tobago

[@MeshaQueendom]

I Love this channel! She hit it on the head. How in the world is a man going to value you if you dont value yourself.

[@greentea8389]

I just can’t get enough of your high vibration information. Of all the videos I have watched since working to change my life, Chloe_ you delivered the information in such a way that I am healing gracefully and pulling myself up from the low pit I got myself in. Thank you Thank you Thank You. Your are diamond 💎 💃🏾🌹

[@TheNewFeminine]

🥰

[@BklynBabe]

Stop trying to live the life that society tells you that you have to live. You don't have to have a man, especially if he is not for you...

[@sonyab2u974]

💯

[@thembimogala9704]

I'm no longer serving toxic relationships. I'm worthy of healthy love. I'm worthy of a stress-free life. I'm worthy of good, loving, caring, sacred love. Walk away from toxicity before it ages you and turns into a cynical woman. Don't settle for less.

[@OneSyteria]

Happy New Year everyone!! Ladies, in 2021 momentum is the key! Initially when you set out to be different, everything that reminds you of the opposite will show up. The key is to showing up for yourself and what you seek will suddenly appear! Those who are meant to be apart of your story will get on board!!

[@precious9961]

My name is precious and it took me all of 30 yrs to completely understand & feel this😫🙏🏽

[@yasmine-ib7kh]

I remember being in grade school and talking to my parents about how I was nervous and lacked confidence and my mother was like "remember you're no better or worse than anyone else" ik she meant well and mb she didn't want me to get a big head but watching this I'm like idk mb you should have gassed me up a little more and made it more about knowing I was special and worthy of self pedestalizing rather than "everything's equal!!" sort of basic mentality

[@latoyabanks5175]

Thank you UNIVERSE for sending me this message,I AM THANKFUL GRATEFUL AND BLESSED 👑💫💯

[@anonymousbee]

I hope she hears your advice and follows it

[@drstone3418]

And become a cat lady

[@rnt2564]

Thanks for pouring into us ✨🕊

[@luckielefty7715]

Mariah is somewhere laughing hysterically.

[@shetrieseverything2206]

I unfortunately ignored red flags not even because I wanted a fairytale ending but because my situation prior to the one that really broke me was so toxic. I willingly walked into an even more toxic situation that ended up being more insidious than the last. My mindset was “at least I’m not being abused. He says he loves me even though he treats me as if he is not interested and is inconsistent”. Due to the neglect I became harden and unladylike. I realized that my behavior was a result of the lack in my relationship. I was emptying myself to be with him. I stuck with it because it gave the illusion that someone wanted me. Prior to him, I loved a good costume, dressing up, and going out. After my exit I didn’t recognize myself physically or emotionally. So thankful I can see clearly now. I really appreciate your content Ms. Chloe_. It is really assisting me in getting back to the woman I was meant to be.

[@FreeBorn5683]

Sistahs I humbly submit number 8: When you do leave the toxic relationship, don’t forget to ACTUALLY let it go! You may also want to consider being purposeful about cleansing your energy (especially your womb/sacral chakra) of the residue of toxic energy your ex left with you. Remember ladies, protecting yourself physically during sex is critical but as Chloe_ says, soul ties are real! Protecting yourself emotionally and spiritually is just as important these days. And never forget, you are divine.🍯💛🐝🌻 #whatwouldosundo

[@sweetestcandy083109]

Chloe!! This was confirmation for me. I was literally journaling about this and came to these epiphanies about myself at 4am this morning and then your video uploaded around 9. Thank you so so much ❤

[@candacehall4776]

I just turned down a toxic situation! Felt so good!

[@beverlynhughes8939]

YOURE GOD SENT BELOVED

[@reneebenotmusic]

Yes l have. It lasted 15 years and will never be repeated. My story reads like a Lifetime movie.

[@CiaobellaAmour]

The fact that she got pregnant by Nick, lost it then kept trying & making it sound like they were in an actual relationship when no one really knew of them even being involved is sad🤦🏽‍♀. Why do so many famous,established, bw in hollyweird have such a rough time in the romance dept

[@zaria_treasuress]

It’s the fact she would’ve be cool with being a babymamma for me.

[@brielle949]

Because they refuse to open up their options. Bm on their socio-economic level or higher do not want a bw, so they settle for whatever bm they can get.

[@missthang5404]

It's so disrespectful to say about a woman you don't know personally. Ma'am, she got pregnant and it takes two to make that happen - it was a relationship whether it was on the low/toxic or not. If he were married that would be considered an adulterous relationship where an out of wedlock child was conceived. Be more respectful.

[@missthang5404]

And, don't use 'she should respect herself, first'. You don't know her story personally.

[@CiaobellaAmour]

@@zaria_treasuress that too🤷🏽‍♀🤦🏽‍♀

[@n.m.2075]

Chloe, this was so powerful! In fact I’m going to rewatch it!

[@tanaahcity6756]

Yes I have ignored red flags. It only made things worse for me. No winning there.

[@dianaf9997]

Sacred and Precious 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Blessings my dear

[@ZfenProductions]

Nick canon is a dawg

[@khanyisamhlawuli5676]

Been a lurker 😅 finally subscribed. Powerful and very informative Video ♥️

[@wilson1690]

Lord Chloe.. the things I have gain since subscribing to your channel. Look forward to the things yet to come. I appreciate the time you take in dropping gems into my life. THANK YOU!]

[@Inspirationlady369]

From the Middle East I send you love,honor,respect,joy, and grace 🫂🤍✨. Thank you so much ♥️.

[@kardrey100]

thanks for this message. I have ignored plenty of red flags to my detriment no doubt. soo glad I’m waking up.

[@cookinghealthy8049]

Girl move on. At least she was shown who he is before being connected to this lost soul for eternity. Hey I’m married and pregnant and found out my husband pays for women’s naked pictures and has been meeting up with ladies. I wish I knew all this before I got married

[@cookinghealthy8049]

@hamdi not sure why my comment keeps getting deleted but I wrote earlier is that I don’t know if I want to really work through it. The issue is that I don’t trust him anymore. Not sure even why he got married. I’m realizing he has a flaw in his character and dosent value relationship and is a narcissist. We are supposed to be moving to Denmark from California in 3 months and he is working here currently. I’m here also but the few months we were separated from corona he went wild. I found out that he paid some girls rent in London and he is on a ton of dating websites and flirting with every woman he can meet and he has an insane amount of pictures of women getting naked over FaceTime for him. Just 2 months after we got married I found out he met up with some woman. I realize the issue is him. Things seem like it’s going fine now but he has problems. I signed a lease for a new apartment in California and when I leave here in 2 weeks I will tell him I’m not coming back to Denmark. I need time to think away from him and I just need peace to raise our daughter. I’m not making such a big leap for him now. He would have to completely change before I even reconsider. But let’s be honest most people don’t change so I don’t know what will happen from here

[@Hersheydimples]

@@cookinghealthy8049 sounds like you're about to be a single mom. Marriage doesn't secure anything nowadays. I'm so scared for my future dating life. I'm 28. So sorry you're going thru this, so heartbreaking 💔😢😞 I'll probably just stay single..

[@cookinghealthy8049]

@@Hersheydimples it’s possible but I know he really wants to be in his child life. He might be a crappy husband but seems to really care about children so let’s see what he does. I don’t mind working something out and sharing responsibilities with him as long as he wants to try. I have no idea what direction our marriage will go once I stay in California. Maybe he will give up or maybe he will do everything possible to come back and work things out. Either way I just want to be happy The advice I would give to single women is to TAKE YOUR TIME. Don’t be in a rush to be married and CERTAINLY live with the person prior to getting married. Even wait a while your engaged. It’s better to know what you are getting yourself into than not.

[@SunandSunflowers]

@@cookinghealthy8049 He is narcissist . I hope you get out of this toxic relationship. Narcissist do not love their children. They do not love anyone. They use their children to stay connected to you. Please love yourself and get out before he destroys yourself esteem or brings you an STD.

[@cookinghealthy8049]

@@SunandSunflowers thanks for bringing that up. I realize he is a narcissist and I guess he projects emotions like he loves children but your most likely right that he dosent care for anyone. When I found all of this out I was so afraid of possibly having an std since I’m pregnant. Luckily God has protected me and all of my labs came back negative and my baby girl is safe and I’m safe. I don’t want to stick around to catch anything.

[@Bossesroundhere]

Chloe you are such a gem! The growth, the wisdom, the delivery. I appreciate you so much. Truly. Your channel is so insightful & keeps the street lamps on in these earthly streets. Thank you. 🎁🥇💟

[@astarisborn9820]

Jessica was molested when she was younger, and she admitted to having “mental health” issues. That is why I think she struggles in this area, let’s not be too hard on her. She needs regularly therapy if she is not currently getting it and prayer! 🙏🏾

[@pinklight911]

You are a unique expression of God's imagination!! Wow, this lady is doing the lord's work and I hope she knows it!! You just unshackled some chain's from my mind. I felt a shift!! Thank you

[@rffrostbite9989]

Ladies stay on your purpose You need to learn healthy traits ex your mental , spiritual and financial Heal any hurt remove toxic ppl from your Life I guarantee you will prosper Stay blessed 🙏🏾💕💕💕

[@miss__monique]

Gospel singer Jonathan Mcreynolds I did a live on this last week I think. It really helped me elevate my thinking about myself. He compared himself to art work. And how most precious art is behind glass or a velvet rope and thay everybody is not worthy of being close to you in content with you. This video reminds me of that. I really need to elevate my thinking. Someone at my job told me that I'm a good person in that everybody is not worthy of what I have to give that I give too much of myself. Both but true. Sometimes I do too much. I really needed this video

[@AccordingtoMJ]

This is the best channel on KZbin. You are doing the Lord’s work Mrs. Chloe, bless you 💜

[@AyaEgbuho]

I agree❤

[@naturalabundance8017]

You're doing Godly work here, Queen Chloe_ 🙏🏾 I'm so very thankful for you answering the call to share your feminine mindset & values.

[@murphymomof9]

This was so good, Chloe. It is paramount that we teach and guide our young women (and support our older women!) along the way of true self-love, i.e. as you stated, knowing inherently how precious, irreplaceable, and sacred we are. Without a doubt. And that when we remain confident and serene we naturally shine from within. Unfortunately so many women today are self-destructive instead. The world pulls us away from true meditative reflection. And we're somehow attracted to these wounded narcissistic types (and *their* damaged sense of self) who are wired to draw us in... only to crush our spirits. I know this is not a popular opinion, but the number one thing that would benefit both women and men is a return to the basics: traditional values; treating others with respect, valuing manners and decency; and treating one another as we want to be treated-- which includes not speaking down to or lording it over another -- regardless of sex, age, race, or status. Women must internalize that they don't need to be assessed or "graded" by any human! Instead, we know our true beauty, and don't allow our dignity to be insulted. Those of us with the experience of remaining in toxic relationships (due to false evidence appearing real) know that a new cycle must be begun with the next generation; and that it's about how we raise and educate them to see themselves and the world properly, able to discern what's truly good and worthy. Thank you!

[@shally33091]

If only I could give a million likes to this, this is resonating ❤️👏🏽

[@yasminogbu8929]

Thank you Chole x

[@imacandifreak]

“You are not a mistake.” My mother always told me she wished I was born a boy 😩

[@nicholalewis8698]

It's a sad reality. In the black community and other communities boys are cherished. Look around, who does the heavy lifting?

[@tameralynn3689]

@@The.Whoever Wow, that's a trip.. No wonder black mother's favor sons

[@akuasalaam490]

Sending love and light to you...

[@imannaomi6646]

Woah😨 . I had to stop thinking for a second just to process this. #mindblown 🤯

[@baileyjohn5010]

Mines too sis, she valued my brothers over her 3 daughters. I’ve been successfully no contact with her for almost a year

[@Cwade14]

I definitely used to ignore red flags, only to find out I'm apart of the "immature harem" as you put it...sorry, not sorry...I shouldn't have to share a man with a bunch of random women. Red flags are now an immediate "left on read" or "block" now.

[@usus2867]

The message of self love will always be lost on people trying to address these issues as a *mind issue*. Self love or lack thereof it (low self esteem) is a *heart* condition. This means that women need stop treating incidents (e.g. bad relationships) as isolated incidents. Biopsy and reverse engineer everything to your family of origin. Only then will you really find true self awareness and begin to develop a high self esteem. There are so many resources out here to begin this journey. Fav KZbin Channels 1) The holistic psychologist 2) Crappy Fairy Childhood Favorite Books 1) Mean Mothers 2) Recovering from emotionally Immature Parents. There are many more but these are a great start.

[@goldenmelanin9258]

That is how I healed my childhood trauma by dealing with the roots of my issues which was physically,mental abuse alongside abandonment and neglect. Prior to that I only focused on the mind i.e spotting for the red flag or setting boundaries but it only got me soo far.

[@nmania3]

I love the both of them. Crappy Fair Childhood and Holistic psychologist.

[@girlwakeuppodcast4622]

Lord the Truthful Tea Spilled in this Video!

[@cassandraabston8311]

Those of you with kids teach your kids never to use drugs even weed.

[@KikiLachowski]

I love your content! This is such a big revelation to me!!! 👏

[@smiley7240]

I LOVE THE "DUH!"

[@curtistinemiller4646]

I am "Beautiful " and "Wonderfully " made..💋💋

[@msc8245]

Love your channel Chloe_. Black white red yellow, we can all learn something from the wise words you speak. #itsallfacts wish I would have learned these lessons earlier in life! thank you

[@jupitired777]

these are hard lessons to learn but they're necessary

[@lv5949]

I wish I watched this when I was 18. Thank you chole you are saving lives !

[@matesoul970]

100k💓. Congratulations

[@doradoll49]

Just love how u drop it ,words and thoughts deep thanks

[@solsh7418]

Thank you Chloe for helping us all. Women NEED this. Thank you for blessing us with your videos ❤️

[@courtneygilbert852]

Keep reminding myself that the dusty I left behind is not a loss and that girl that is keeping company with him now is not winning a “prize”.

[@Iam_msdee]

Chloe❤️❤️❤️ I ran into KSamuel's channel by accident and I was utterly disgusted seeing women flock into his den of put downs ... I mean, really? I was immediately heartbroken that women felt drawn to his channel for advice? I don't get it ... He's insane and verbally/ emotionally abusive for fun 😳🤬👎 Definitely low value ... Great lessons, Chloe, thank you for the reminders and affirmations 👋❤️

[@ninapeterson275]

She’s sooo pretty. Should’ve stuck with wm 😴

[@Wonderwoman79G]

Excellent post Chloe. You're spitting facts.

[@hazell1593]

This message was so on time!!!!!

[@fatumailunga8483]

This video described the old me😓😓

[@SoleyeRaye]

Eloquently said...you hit on so much and will help a lot of women with this one.......thanks for sharing.....

[@carmensmith2457]

You are so sincere, thank you Chloe!

[@oluchiosakwe]

Love this

[@lifeasqueline]

I needed this reminder. 🖤

[@thedivinelife3470]

Thank you Chloe for all you do! This message is so essential 💖

[@Clauds71]

Perfect advice 👌

[@loveharrydaily]

I had to unfollow her (Jessica) when she bragged about calling herself a “shim” and prefering having masculine traits.....

[@sbond7510]

What the hell?! What black women would even call herself that?! That's some serious brainwashing

[@zaria_treasuress]

I just looked up what that meant and my goodness 🙄

[@cookinghealthy8049]

She sounds lost

[@CiaobellaAmour]

Wow 🤦🏽‍♀

[@SagRising19]

Oh wow

[@khadijahnyabinghi]

Thank you Chloe 💚.

[@indym375]

The beautiful speaking chole Such a refreshing uplifting video as always Thank you

[@yvetterainey6571]

Thank You so very much.