Ranking our childhood traumas *SO DARK that it's comical

[@MissMangoButt]

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[@flisilo4230]

Love youuu

[@MlSSYLINK]

2ND YASS

[@edenselvv]

I LOVE U STEPHHHH!!

[@tatianavelasco1335]

yes finally!

[@bethnichols2875]

Roasted carrots with Thyme is good. 🥕🥕

[@tedeibeakawaii]

Andrew getting more and more concerned for MMB and Tiffany as they tell more stories. Bless him.

[@annar7509]

Everything changes when you're a parent or a victim, I call it perspective

[@AleXacookieey]

@@annar7509 i agree

[@ihatepizzawithapassion]

mmb?

[@ihatepizzawithapassion]

oh mistermangobutt

[@tedeibeakawaii]

@@ihatepizzawithapassion Stands for "Mister Mango Butt"

[@soul_lady]

Nothing says family bonding like sharing trauma 🤗

[@MlSSYLINK]

💀🤌✨️

[@rayleenjoy]

Fr 😭

[@Vanadiummmo]

Planning to do this w my friends lmao

[@byalisa]

Andrew's highschool friend are the REAL ones LOL

[@Composingmyfuture]

TRUEEE

[@catonfire5010]

THEE homies. His number ones.

[@berenice3626]

W friends

[@lilmisssunshine3238]

fr they came to bat without Andrew even asking them to

[@Cuddlybunny222]

YESSSS

[@beepboopbop1566]

It’s so sad that Stephiance and Tiffany just laugh about their actual severe trauma like that is legit child abuse… it’s kinda sad I’m proud of how far they’ve come

[@skyee7]

No offense...but their grandma sounds like there is something wrong with her

[@toki7111]

@@skyee7 nothing wrong with their grandma except for the fact that the grandma was born and raised in an asian household

[@coinlockerbaby9168]

@@skyee7 it’s just asian households but can’t blame you for thinking that

[@codeinesnaps]

@@skyee7 it's generational trauma... sadly... that grandma has probably been through it either.

[@codeinesnaps]

@@skyee7 it's generational trauma... sadly... that grandma has probably been through it either.

[@ofsae.]

TIFFANYS LAUGH IS SO CONTAGIOUS

[@gyubur]

OMG FR

[@Vanadiummmo]

Shes so lovely😭❤

[@milkyyy4443]

I was laughing so hard when she was telling that story abt her getting punched LOL I'm sorry Tiffany 😭

[@joyicec28]

😎😎

[@ofsae.]

@@joyicec28 LMAO

[@GreetingsFromCalifornia]

Being vulnerable is hard, but it’s nice to be vulnerable around people you can trust.

[@--hydra]

yes 🥰

[@MaddieFishblob]

Plus hundreds of thousands of strangers on the internet 😂 But jokes aside I feel like the majority of her channel’s viewers r pretty cool and compassionate ppl, so based on the comments it seems like it all turned out fine

[@aussiejake4792]

I really can't laugh at MMB and Tiffany's trauma its really sad and absolutely not okay for children to be treated like that. But its really great to see how amazing and kind they have grown up to be.

[@notkaitlyn_]

I think I'm very similar with stephiance and Tiffany with their traumas,and being abused plus I'm also Chinese so it felt like I finally found someone whose also had a similar situation in life yk

[@TheJulietxo]

@@notkaitlyn_ Me tooo. I worked a lot on my ptsd but sometimes it's okay to laugh about it a little, the less serious ones at least like they're doing

[@notkaitlyn_]

@@TheJulietxo literally I don't know why but I will share my traumas if I have the chance LOL even my deepest darkest secret

[@Lime1958]

Me too and I'm also Asian who had a similar upbringing. Going day to day making sure you don't mess up or you get the belt or be dragged by the hair. It's really amazing how Stephanie helped stephiance to open up and slowly heal from his childhood traumas. And from the way Stephanie's mom didn't use to like him was probably added stress onto her but she just trusted the process and him. Great example of a mature love.

[@YooritaYa]

I relate to them lol majority of the Asian adults are like that.

[@tojislefttoe7505]

BRO 😭 the way Tiffany and mr mango were just laughing while talking about the most traumatic shit ever

[@Pochamochak]

The only thing you can do now, laugh thru the pain 😭

[@GeeW0rld]

It’s actually so sad the way stephiance and Tiffany can laugh at their trauma like that but honestly whatever stops you from being sad about it . I’m glad they can laugh at it now rather than be upset .

[@jvblanc9532]

Bruh, as an asian kid- it’s a trauma we can laugh about because we all have almost the same experiences

[@eixeixe]

she’s been posting a lot It makes my days better

[@PurpleSobalol]

sammeee!!

[@ayamedaiki2379]

Fr depression gone once i see stephanie's videos

[@rojeon79]

Fr fr

[@birds2723]

I think it's so sweet how focused Stephanie is when Tiffany is talking... like how she'll say "yeah" and such as she's speaking. she obviously pays attention to everyone else but it's just something I noticed in other videos aswell and it's just so heart warming for some reason

[@ohmyjuliie]

IKR they’re so cute🙁💗

[@sid0602]

i dont know if i have the rights to say this… but there is a differences between discliplining and abusing… what tiff and stephiancé went through is definetely an abuse, and their grandma should feel some type of way yknow? i feel sad watching stephiancé open up about his trauma in some couple of video before and 90% of it was from his grandma. no child should ever be treated like that… 😔😢

[@HobieInTheBox]

I was physically abused as a child too. I absolutely disagree with people saying it's okay to downplay it "because we're from an Asian household". Culture isn't an excuse to abuse children, and it needs to stop.

[@sid0602]

@@HobieInTheBox couldnt agree more.

[@its_taz6717]

@@HobieInTheBoxI agree

[@vasyma]

@@HobieInTheBox right.. its the same with the latino community its been normalized and its so sad

[@HobieInTheBox]

@@vasyma and the middle Eastern one too, I'm afraid

[@EMIVIY]

what Andrew went through with his dad is crazy traumatizing ;( I have a feeling he's definitely gonna try his best to be a good dad and not make the mistakes his dad made

[@Iamstillattherestaurant]

🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@tian8603]

The fact that she was groomed by an 18 y/o when she was still in middle school is so sad and so wrong on so many levels. Hope Stephanie got the healing and resources she needed/needs 😢

[@rashi4553]

Andrew looks like he's one step away from calling CPS😂😂

[@SpiritedDancer17]

Stephanie turned so pale when Andrew started talking about how mad his dad got with the computer incident. I love all your family dynamic and how all the siblings of both families get along so well! I would love to have family like this to share my childhood trauma with too! 😅

[@bangtanvmo5868]

yeahh! i realize it too 😬

[@mudaawi]

Tiffany and her brother’s stories keep surprising me every time

[@genesisuribe4103]

hearing stephanie say that her parents never hit her makes me have hope in this world. but also seeing the comments of everyone being concerned for her husband and his sister while i was sitting here feeling scene because i had a similar upbringing brought light to my thoughts. its never right to hit a child and while it may be normal in someones culture it is still abuse.

[@jasminm7018]

as a younger sister who's obsessed with my older siblings, Stephanie's story about pretending to fall asleep around them is so real😩

[@linostoe]

RIGHT? I was sooo shocked that ppl do dumb shit like me

[@LuckyInWays]

Stephanie’s story about her wanting to be like her sister is the first story I heard of Stephanie back in 2018 😂

[@metroglode1305]

MEEEE TOOOOO!!!

[@zaink.7243]

tiffany & mbb deserves the biggest hug. a neverending cozy hug & all the love in the world because wow...

[@chellessong1576]

It’s actually therapeutic for some of us when we’re able to talk about childhood traumas with loved ones and be able to laugh about it…that’s what my sisters and I do🤷🏻‍♀️ for the most part bc we lived thru those traumas together and now when we talk about it (or relive it so to speak) we just laugh and joke about it; I know that’s not the case for everyone as we all have different experiences.

[@euneiros]

Tiffanys laughter is so contagious 😭😭

[@anne0380]

Stefiance and tiffany’s laugh sounds so similar!!

[@chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327]

I’m so sad that being beat is so normalized as a parenting method. It really isn’t and should be illegal everywhere. So glad I’ve never gone through this, and I’m so sorry for anyone who have.

[@zuhasajid900]

I don't know why but i dont agree with it being illegal everywhere trust me some kids need to be disciplined but in a normal way beating someone is never the answer

[@mago._.]

@@zuhasajid900beating is not discipline.

[@angel127_]

@@zuhasajid900i hope you never have children and are never around them because what… it needs to be illegal to put hands on someone who’s brain is barely developed

[@Aleeseeyah]

I honestly love these trauma dumps

[@cestphoria]

this somehow relieves that pain because it's really hard to talk about traumas esp those from your childhood

[@Knowhere6969]

I’m such a big fan of Andrew he seems so laid back. And Tiffany is so cute!!!!! Love you guys ❤

[@linostoe]

I love him!!!! hes such a mood, but so respectable. I just love observing him

[@zoeyd8493]

Me too!! He’s such a personality love watching him in her vids ! Amazing father n his relationship w cindy is so real n cute 😭

[@rachel_with_love]

Lol Tiffany and Stefiance’s childhood sounds sooo similar to mine being raised in a Hispanic household 😅😅

[@tuxedo_ri]

omg then u would be the most traumatized winner too along with them 😔

[@annar7509]

Hispanic household doesn't fall to far from the tree

[@HobieInTheBox]

It's so depressing how many of us were abused and traumatised like this

[@username-re9yk]

I don't think it has to do with being hispanic and we definitely need to stop stigmatizing and excusing certain behaviors saying that it's because of the culture. I'm hispanic too and I know there are abusers amongst all cultures.

[@rachel_with_love]

@@username-re9yk it’s not an excuse. Where did I say that? It is a part of certain cultures. You cannot deny that. I agree there is no excuse. Please do not put your assumptions on me. Thank you.

[@miacastagno6969]

Laughing through the pain is legit what I do with my friends when I talk about things

[@carlos.3041]

That grandma def has some undiagnosed mental illness

[@mimixmin]

I LOVE Tiffany's laughter. She's so adorable! Also at 17:27, Stephanie mentions her mom and in the background outside the window her mom walks past with Sofie hahaha what great timing!

[@kweenkindacrxxy]

As someone who was raised by my grandma, in an Asian household, I relate to Stubby and Tiffany so much! I was once hit in the lips by a really heavy bamboo which caused my lip to burst open because I used the cover of an apple (white styrofoam) as a hoax spaghetti as my toy (playing house) because the apples were meant to be gifted to my 3rd grade teacher. 😂 just like the siblings, my grandma is considered a very strict grandma, generally. I also used to force sleep in the noon. 😂

[@elf-pz5ey]

MMB and Tiffany’s story was really sad, its amazing how they turned out to be awasome, amazing humans.

[@jayelyyn]

I know that their feelings for their family are definitely far more complicated than what we know and hear about them, but their grandmother seems to be the source of nearly all their trauma growing up in China. I'm really glad they can talk about it freely now, and I'm doubly glad that they are in happier situations with loved ones who they trust not to hurt them. I wish you guys the best!

[@Itsme_shamzywamzy]

Its so satisfying how on 25:15 they all laugh silently then they start laughing loudly at the same time

[@siljenystrand1054]

me and mrmangobutt shared the same level of anger towards the pitstain story. i love how we were both ready to deck these kids xD im so sorry something like that happened, i understand how traumatic it must have felt

[@hwchen39]

One of my childhood traumas was when I was in middle school my grandmother passed away and I had to be gone from school for 2 weeks because I had to go to Taiwan for the funeral. Then when I came back a pack of bullies taunted me asking if my grandmother was assassinated. Honestly, middle schoolers are forking evil. 😬

[@shellysaver622]

I love how tiffany tells her stories.

[@WennieAaaaa]

Damn, is it only me or do all of us need this to be a series- the sad thing is I can’t relate to so many of these😅 lol

[@duck8049]

YES!

[@ciao3475]

True. But we're learning of so many different experiences

[@xcileter2063]

I dooo💀💀💀🤣

[@哈哈哈呵呵呵-o1u]

I think if you can’t relate to a lot of these then it’s actually a good thing 😂

[@lisaskims]

Stephanie I love you so much. It's finals week for me and your content is the one thing that keeps me alive😭😭

[@jillmarie4240]

I’m glad they are able to laugh about it. At the same time I really do feel so bad for Tiffany and Stephanie’s fiancé. What happened to them isn’t ok. Using their heritage or whatever is no excuse. I’m glad they were able to over come it to become such happy and humorous people. Not all people are able to do that.

[@hehewootwoot2704]

I love how open you guys are about your traumas and really are aware about it. Specially this time where the importance of mental health recognized. Thank you so much soo family! This is such an inspiration for me to have a healthy relationship with my loved ones.

[@jigglehugs]

Everywhere you turn, there’s quality Stephanie content.. sometimes it’s genuinely the only way I can get through my week. It feels like a little friend group that I get to spend time with or listening to Stephanie’s unbelievable story telling skills. I’m just so grateful for all you do. Your work ethic is remarkable

[@jaree6211]

trauma sharing with sibling is just something else because now when I do it with my siblings it connects us even more and for us its like telling each other funny stories.

[@mxxxn]

These sharing trauma videos are pretty empowering to me even though you're not sharing the deepest, darkest stuff. I tend to keep the things I've gone through or am currently struggling with to myself because I don't want to burden others or for them to pass judgement. But this gives me the sense that I could share too cause we're *all* going through things. Doing it together with the people you trust is truly a blessing & I look forward to feeling as safe as you all feel with each other. Thank you Stephanie 🤍

[@xokenzeebabie]

Damn my heart actually hurts for Tiffany and stephiance. That was straight up abuse from their grandma. I’m glad they can laugh about it but I Fr hope they have healed from that because Jesus that was sad.

[@kalaher8106]

I love how Stephiance and Tiffany laugh the hardest at each other's trauma

[@ddior.0]

17:28 I like how stephanie starts talking about her mom and then her mom walks past the window

[@bunnyluvspie]

Tiffany and stephfiances stories are so relatable to me, but I never thought this was like legit abusive until I'm hearing them talk about it! Like dang no wonder my friends don't laugh when I talk about my experiences LOL

[@mariamiralda1]

The way Tiffany and Stephiance’s laugh go with rhythm😭

[@suz-2050]

“because no boy ever did that to you?” 😭😭😭😭 this guy😭😭😭😭😭😭💀💀

[@itsisa1641]

As the older sister it’s very interesting listening to the younger sibling’s perspective lol 😂 I remember my sibling always wanting what I wanted but i never thought they want to be like i just thought they were doing it to annoy me, now i feel bad 😖😭

[@WeirdonikaMetalchick]

"You should feel more bad for yourself" that hits on another level 🙈🙈

[@hila7824]

honestly hearing you guys share your childhood trauma makes me feel seen, you're all so brave and admirable. wishing you all tons of happiness and love 💗

[@nanamae4520]

as an asian kid who also had strict guardians, i can totally relate to tiffany & mbb lmaooo ages 4-11 were ROUGH

[@iiwinnxuu]

im so surprised, because i didn’t expect y’all to make this a series. but i do hope that y’all are doing well mentally

[@fascienneskytten5497]

those trauma aside, i love Tiffany and Stephiance relationship. especially the story abt Tiffany telling the bys she got a brother. i'm just jealous i dont have one haha

[@navanaya]

wtfk was up with MMB's and Tiff's grandparents.. that's straight up abuse, I'm glad they got out of there, I'd like to know what their parents think of what they went thru

[@herb0b]

omg this series :’) i hope you all are doing well!!

[@Hareem619]

Mr Mangobutts and Tiffany stories made me cry. Im so sorry guys ughh. We love you.

[@rubybailey2952]

Omg I just rewatched the first one yesterday and I was thinking "I wish Stephanie would do more of these" and here we are. Can I say I'm happy that y'all have a lot of traumas to share??

[@SaintShion]

A trauma I had was I got hit by a drunk driver, got a concussion and called my best friend. He said call the cops, so I did, and he was gonna come get me. The cop wouldn't wait for me to find my insurance, hes was super rude. I guess the cop and my bestie start fighting cause my friend keeps saying, hes knows me, I have a concussion. But the cop wants to drive my car with a totaled front end (the drunk driver smashed the brakes and I couldnt swerve in time. He didnt even care that someone hit and ran. So he makes me drive the car off the road and meet at certain spot. I dont remember this but this is what my friend said. My concussed self zoomed past the cop where I was supposed to park, poped a curb into a senior home parking lot, reveresed the car back over the curb and slammed into the cop car since he followed me. My friend was so mad, the cop gets out and says "oh I shouldnt have let her drive." My friend starts yelling "yeah you mother fudger I told you!" than he had my car towed and took me to the hospital. They took my blood illegally with out a warrant and he wrote me a ticket for a DUI. But the "illegal" blood work said I was sober. This asshat even wrote out the hit and run And my bestie being on the scene. So I got a lawyer and sued for emotional damage and illegally taking my blood work. I got $24k thanks to that stupid ass cop. I hope he got in trouble after the state had to pay me.

[@ev6564]

He's an evil cop. I'm glad at least you got paid

[@MG-vo3cd]

I love how talkative and giggly Tiffany is the whole video 😂

[@natalieurena7636]

the whole 'do you know what you did wrong' for me is the "you want me to give you a reason to cry" that I would get from my parents before they'd punish me lmao

[@kamileepascual1878]

Stephanie’s trauma story of falling asleep sounds more like her sister’s trauma of the obsessed fake-sleeping little sister 😂

[@hibamushtaq4939]

tiffanys laugh was everything

[@jer2432]

new discovery: andrew is also a really good storyteller!

[@suz-2050]

37:49 i just let out the loudest “FUČK” while laughing coz he says it so casually, like i remember and sometimes laugh about my low-key abuse when i was younger, but he says it so casually it’s funny😭😭 like i feel bad for you, i relate… but feel bad for you😭

[@Firstlast-pb6pn]

after 9 hours of studying for finals and seeing this made me smile so much omg.

[@yunhosparrot]

Stephanie and stephiance I hope you’re doing well today! 🫶🏽

[@beverlybeng]

Tiffany’s first story had me in TEARS 😂

[@itschichi2211]

Stephiance's car story had me CRYINGGG from laughter😭💀. Just imagining the front bumper laying on the ground is hilarious to me for some reason 😆💀

[@Kijuhie]

Watching these family trauma bonding videos have been so helpful 😭 on a serious note I feel seen whenever I watch this channel. I love you guys so much 🫶🏼

[@ARTINY8]

Honestly i know i shouldn’t have, but i was honestly laughing and have a fun time seeing you all together and sharing these memories. Sorry this happened to you guys, know that we are now here to support and relate to you guys on some levels. Not only did you guys share these memories with each other, but with us the viewers as well. Thank you so much, honestly I’ve been laughing and having a great time seeing your latest vlogs. Thank you to you and your whole family and friends! We love you ALL!💜

[@marissaamanda2173]

Hearing tiffany laugh is my jam now..

[@Anidolly25]

MMB and TIFF! You guys are who you are because of all of your experience. It is impressive how you can laugh about it all! Hopefully you have some good memories with your grandma too! ❤

[@AvabackwardsisavA08]

Stephanie thank you so much for postinggg my life has not been life ing lately and ur just a boost of serotonin❤️❤️❤️

[@-Ashie...]

I can relate to Stephanie being groomed by an 18 yr old at 13 yrs old. My first ever relationship I was 12 going on 13 going into high school as a freshman & he was 18 & just graduated high school. We dated for 3 yrs & it was HORRIBLE. He CONSTANTLY cheated on me throughout those 3 yrs & was very controlling isolating me from my friends and family. I didnt realize til I got older how toxic the relationship was & cringe uber hard whenever I think back to those days.

[@thuynh812]

I have never heard Tiffany giggle so much, it's so contagious! I love it!

[@SpiritedDancer17]

I love all the screaming and laughter 😂

[@ivanaskz2321]

I love that you guys and how u can be truthful and vulnerable around each other

[@cherryploom]

here’s to another year of stephanie bringing us so much joy💕💕💕💕

[@bebebinu]

aww tiffany, she's too precious

[@soobunbun]

OOH IS THIS A PART TWO???👁👁 GONNA WATCH BEFORE SCHOOL

[@napox34]

panda siblings dropping trauma bombs and andrew is so shocked, sharing trauma is bonding

[@sadafs8627]

Your timing is perfection

[@AyameReaper103]

Oo. Ik I will be able to relate to this. I hope everyone is getting a sleep and drinking water. Thank you Stephanie for making such relatable and fun videos for us!

[@lisa.222]

It's nice to talk about these things with ppl you love knowing that u are here now and have overcome the hard times. Sometimes in the moment things seem so serious and years from now they are just a distant memory

[@debhino4517]

i relate so much to tifff n stepfiance trauma bc i was horribly abused as a child but luckily living in the usa i got my dad arrested but i still laugh or cry about memories now which seem like a dream

[@anonymouse7079]

Bro I've never seen like a full convo with Andrew and he's so funny and cooooolll!!

[@SerinCatherine]

"And then i was so happy tiffany came" And the zoomed in fireworks on her face cracked me up!

[@janesamson623]

Forcing you to sleep in the afternoon is basic trauma for asians hahaha. They said it will make you grow taller. Elders want you to eat fast because if you don’t the food will go cold and they think you don’t appreciate the food. I can relate 😂

[@jorlliee]

17:28 the timing of your mom passing by right when you talk about her😭

[@gg_tiffany_7074]

All I could think about was “Oops got ur coping skills” 😭😂😂 dw babe I laugh through the pain too 😂

[@HaitchJay]

I love Andrew and Tiffany so much😭 their laughs and smiles are so contagious and cute

[@--hydra]

i keep laughing along and then stop when i realize just how dark these really are 😭

[@caitlinslaviero4018]

you mentioned this in one of the podcasts i re-listened to yesterday, in the next one of these videos you should talk about how the girls made you play the dog when you played house, that’s pretty traumatic :( love you❤️

[@librabaybiii9744]

Stephanie: " so you're just gonna drive !??" Me & MMB : " YES !!! WERE GETTING THE HELL OUTTA THERE !!" 😂😂

[@rebe_eka]

whenever i share my trauma with my friends they all seem so shocked but i just find it so funny bc its like my coping mechanism now