Ray's toxic childhood | You gotta fight back | Mr Inbetween

[@bb4udig]

Probably one of the best mini series ever made.

[@judsonkr]

There is no "probably" to it.

[@ceave]

What do you mean "one of"?

[@stephenr80]

Absolutely great.

[@Peterviegal]

It wasn't mini mate. It was 3 seasons. You're just used to yanky garbage that goes for 12 seasons plus.

[@1henty9]

Think you masterpieces not ‘series’. Also ‘ever made’ lol, the best masterpiece ever conceived of. And what do you mean by ‘the’ …. Ok I’m taking it too far now….

[@pattiones]

I so hope for more writing and acting from him soon. He’s very intense and a really interesting man. I want more of him!

[@jefolson6989]

He's great. Bit he retired from acting. He says he is a writer 1st. Pity

[@300thNPC]

​@@jefolson6989 Not a pity. Writing a noble profession

[@jefolson6989]

@300thNPC maybe but we need him to deliver his writing.in the form of Ray

[@dyl.dthmtl]

I would give anything to thank the creators for this scene, it means so much to me i cant even explain it

[@treehousetraders2133]

Out of all the clips I’ve seen of this show, this hits hardest

[@Avalanche2]

Fuckin' Ray, he could be every man,

[@Aywusgod]

Minus the Hitman part.

[@thefearofg0ds758]

People who are bullied/abused tend to overcompensate by becoming violence. Mike Tyson went through the same thing and openly admitted that even to this day he feels weak and all of his lashing out were attempts to prove to himself that he "wasn't no b*tch". I remember an old coworker and friend of mine who was a badass. Trained in boxing, mma, wrestling, good with knives(...and a damn katanta). But personality wise he was a nerd(which is why we got along) and his "skillset" was sort of a secret as he didn't like attention. He also had really REALLY bad anger issues and an explosive temper. If he felt disrespected, he immediately wanted to throw hands. Eventually he let it slip that he was bullied really bad as a kid and we joked that he overcompensated by becoming the closest thing to irl Batman lol.

[@RobertP.Trebor]

Knew a guy who has a similar story. Horrible parental abuse, school was rough too. Trained to be a beast. When he was twenty he would walk the streets at night looking for any reason to get violent. Eventually he started dressing in drag in the hopes he could bash a homophobe

[@nordic_gamer_1488]

​@@RobertP.Treborhe dressed in drag because he's a warped sex offender and wants to. If he wanted to get in fights all he has to do was go to a black neighborhood and stand around.

[@bertyamgeebler1865]

@@RobertP.Trebor and so people end up becoming the very thing they hated - violence begets violence, cruelty teaches cruelty

[@Mjdecker1234]

Sad that this pretty much sums me up

[@minutemartialarts3152]

Sounds like me actually

[@liamgibson8602]

The tragedy of Ray is that he was brought up with violence being the main solution to everything, even his own suffering from violence was solved with violence. It helped him survive into adulthood but once he made it he couldn't leave it in his past, he got involved with a profession that kept using violence. He was able to get a partner and have a kid but his inability to move on ruined his adult life, lost his family and kept him from finding love again. The end of the series is him alone with the violence, the ending implies he almost enjoys it as he smiles before the cut to black where we assume he either kills or seriously hurts the people in the car with him.

[@mrprimeconsigliere]

I think he's very good at voilence and he knows that but he doesn't enjoy it. That's the reason he starts finding his line of work very distasteful and quits in the first place.

[@stephenr80]

Yeah that's basically it😅

[@stephenr80]

​@@mrprimeconsiglierehe enjoys it like a drunk enjoys drinking.

[@bertyamgeebler1865]

@@stephenr80 yeesssss, people seem to idolize this character but to me this show is the portrayal someone stuck in a perpetual bloody cycle akin to addiction

[@TheAndrewj96]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@bertyamgeebler1865Even lots of people (read: men) who have watched the show are all “tHiS iS wHaT a rEaL MaN LoOkS LiKe” under every single depiction of violence or aggression. While those do tend to be satisfying to watch, those people are completely missing the fucking point. It’s not remotely that simple and I’m getting real sick of it, frankly.

[@dannywooding4009]

Great acting, as well a lot of his own experiences

[@cleverclover7]

This is such a dark and powerful moment. Brilliant writing. Better acting.

[@bibekpawn6175]

my fav scene than kyou for posting this

[@62swampboy62]

This scene is so painful to watch. The shit you have to do to be a survivor...

[@CJusticeHappen21]

The hardest person you'll ever have to beat is yourself. Because he knows all your weak points. He doesn't need to figure out how to get inside your head, he's already there. And what's worse is that sometimes, for some men, he wants to see you fail for no better reason than he honestly believes that it is what you deserve.

[@monk3110]

Kind hits man… odd childhood. Slashed arms and snuffing out cigs on them as well to feel better. Didn’t end it cuz I thought it was selfish. Doing better tho

[@SavageGameHawk]

So happy you’re doing better! You did the right thing I hope you’re living a happier life now

[@cairosilver2932]

Hope you're able to give yourself some or all of the support you need.

[@CuchulainAD]

@monk3110 I used to slash my forearms... I didn't like the scars lol

[@62swampboy62]

Good to hear. I can sympathize. Sometimes childhood is really really hard.

[@BB-848-VAC]

hell yeah

[@mitchwilden4538]

What a great show

[@paulbuffano985]

When you finally let your girl in and talk about your life only to mortify her lol

[@lukes6819]

Very honest script of an Aussie bloke.

[@katherinekerbow8344]

The problem with this is that they are two very different people...and neither one knew that in the beginning....he wants to save her...look out for her....and she thinks he's a bully and cannot manage his temper......not a good match....the lady at the end of the series was like him and they could have made it if she had lived.....❤❤

[@hunterodwyer2626]

When your born in a burning house your whole world is on fire

[@immortanjoe9362]

More men have been in this situation than you know.

[@minutemartialarts3152]

Similar to my childhood. Beat wt home, dealing with bullies in my neighborhood . I fought a lot. Took violence eith me into adulthood. I took a hunting knife to camp and told a kid I was going to kill myself. I wsnted to but I couldn't.

[@magneto44]

glad you are still here with us

[@anthonychicas2000]

Are you one of those single tear people?

[@garrieleepeck8753]

It's a nightmare when you can't escape abuse being hurt as kid . That brought back memories

[@TPFB129]

This is my life story, hfs Ray.

[@busterdog321]

Seeing a child want to cut or mutilate its body is sad and is a desperate cry for help. It doesnt matter if its wirh a razor, pills, or through a doctor.

[@philipmann5317]

powerful powerful scene.

[@Sunbreeze7]

Scott's the best ever!

[@ronaldmcdonald8894]

IMO, he dodged a bullet when she broke up with him. She would have gotten him killed.

[@wolvo5441]

How? I’ve not watched it btw but spoil me

[@ronaldmcdonald8894]

@@wolvo5441 The same way people have been getting themselves and their companions killed for millennia, lack of intelligence and forethought. Most violent situations do not just fall out of the sky. They occur as a response to stimuli. When you choose to associate yourself with people having character traits that routinely result in a confrontational encounter, there are going to be consequences. Those consequences may vary from a "go to hell look" to a gun being pulled & instantly shot in the face. Examples of character traits that foster these types of situations, IMO, are self entitlement; self righteousness; hubris; lack of xenophobia. A self entitled person will assert there wants without consideration how their actions or words may affect strangers or that strangers response. The same can be said for a person that is self righteous or has an abundance of hubris. Take our interaction for example. Your lack of civility, abundance of hubris and self entitlement are apparent in your response. You start our interaction with an immediate demand that I justify MY opinion, then you cavalierly state that you are ignorant of the information I used to form my opinion followed with a demand that I present the justification of my opinion so that you feel pampered and justified in your demand while making your comfort paramount. In less than 10 words you have managed to display three character traits that could get yourself killed if you are dealing with a psychopath, along with your companions. The character Ray routinely interacts with dangerous groups and individuals. Given that fact his girlfriends interactions with dangerous people are going to increase the likelihood of Ray finding himself at odds with dangerous people that he had no desire to be at odds with will increase. I am not going to explain why I think his girlfriend has some of the character traits I previously mentioned. IMO some self reflection on your part will give you examples. IMO lack of intelligence is the main reason she would get him killed coupled with the company he keeps. p.s. don't be a basic bitch

[@ronaldmcdonald8894]

@@wolvo5441 The same way people have been getting themselves and their companions killed for millennia, a lack of: intelligence, forethought and self awareness. Take your response response to my opinion as an example. I made a statement that I qualified as my opinion. Your response demands I justify my opinion followed by a cavalier admittance of being ignorant of any of the information that I used to form my opinion followed by another demand that I present the justification of my opinion in a manner that suggests it is owed to you and I make it paramount it's presented in a fashion that pleases you. If this were a real life face to face interaction I wouldn't bother with an explanation when slapping the shit out of you would relay the same information via a more enjoyable communication method. Characteristic traits like the ones you display foster hostile interactions that range from a dirty look or ass whipping up to an involuntary participation into a carbon reduction program. It depends on the person you are pissing off. I do congratulate you for having the ability to communicate your abundance of unlikeable qualities with fewer than 10 words

[@wuthapun41]

​@@wolvo5441could've been a chance where his profession might have led some people that hired him to come after her and possibly have him die trying to protect his loved ones I guess.

[@GeorgosopoulosKostas]

And she dodged one too, possibly

[@squidboi8674]

I was sitting, in my Corolla

[@stationary3815]

I feel ya brother

[@OldschoolTruths]

Bring back Ray!

[@jowall5315]

Fighting back is not toxic, being a weak man is.

[@tim_is_random]

Do you think the editing in this show was bad? I guess you must have, seeing as you decided to re-edit it yourself.

[@kaj7135]

Gotta give it the ol’ tiktok brainrot treatment before uploading.

[@JM-db8ez]

Well hey tough guy, if you want to watch the unedited version then go watch the actual fvcking series. Even on youtube this isn't a tough thing to figure out, is it? Though I suppose being a video pedant is more your thing, eh?

[@tim_is_random]

@@JM-db8ez Yeah actually it is

[@Barrythebarnabas]

😂 tell us you’re just an ignorant child without telling us

[@PBLCDMND]

Why these stupid questions?

[@RasikRajguru]

Great tv series. Love to see more. Rare scene where the woman is a total airhead.

[@shawheenblount2685]

I know. She did not comfort him or anything. Worst girlfriend ever.

[@benvarley1875]

If ya don't know who this is we can not be friends😂

[@ntomic1]

Bad editing

[@shownottell8804]

excellent series. deserves way more attention and awards than it got. fark american disney propaganda. the single thumbs down for this scene prob got his/her ass kicked by Ray for being a POS

[@andreaholcock8992]

Riiiiiight

[@AlbionTarkhan]

Don’t ever tell a woman your problems. They always make it about themselves and throw it back at you.

[@stevecoleman2250]

So true. Even female psychologists.

[@catyear75]

Truth !

[@AlbionTarkhan]

@@stevecoleman2250 what’s interesting is that female psychiatric patients overwhelmingly prefer male psychologists.

[@Snowie7826]

Not every woman is your ex. Man up.

[@iamarokotmanson]

Why, in 2024, are you a sexist?