[Part 2] Korean Grandma Meets a Gay Couple For The First Time

[@16poetisa]

Cheol-soo: All he does is sleep and play video games Jang-ho: That's not true! I do the laundry! Grandma Lim: These days the washing machine does the laundry...

[@patriciaross5442]

Cute. Thank goodness for washing machines. Hahaha

[@aryastark2455]

Grandma didn't come here today to play, that's for sure XD

[@bojongkia123]

“These days the washing machine does the laundry..” Those words also caught my attention! Grandma is intelligent in her remarks! All grandmas need to learn from her! 😅😅

[@Zhoulifer]

Savage Grandma🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ludanoob1856]

Jang-ho got roasted badly xDDD maaan why is this dude so relatable??? 😭😭

[@bananatubeful]

I can't take my eyes off from the striped shirt guy. The way he looked at his partner was full of love🥺

[@adlyhafixx6831]

his name is Jangho

[@pranseyeswhenlookingatpat9639]

it hurts now😃

[@sakshishetty185]

ikr. he's super cute. so sad that they broke up

[@thesunnyside4987]

@@sakshishetty185 wait really ?! they broke up :(

[@sakshishetty185]

@@thesunnyside4987 yeah, their account is mentioned in the video. I went looking for some cute content but ended up watching their breakup video over there. 😭

[@Blue_Alien]

Not the guy not knowing how to respond obviously trying to protect their bed privacy while grandma was just wondering about who made the meals

[@outofthisworld93]

Right? They were getting all flustered and I actually thought she wanted to know about their roles during sex, but then she asked who does the cooking and the cleaning and everything turned out to be really innocent. xD I guess a grandma will always be a grandma.

[@kellympinda4723]

🤣🤣

[@Zippyzappy339]

Same lmao I was like damn Grandma OK is really informed on the lifestyle... But then she was so cute and understanding about it

[@kushal4956]

@@outofthisworld93 i mean honestly what is so wrong abt asking tht? gay people know exactly who does wt in a str8 couple. wt's wrong if str8 people wanna know the same thing?

[@Blue_Alien]

@@kushal4956 I think everyone has the right to keep their life as private as they want soo it might be rude for some people Also when you talk to someone you can sense the intention behind the question and when the intention is not as pure is not confortable to talk about it

[@milkeyway7105]

"I don't even want respect, talking nicely would be enough," couldn't agree more, that's exactly my principle. No one owe me a respect, just don't be an a-hole in front of me

[@lanoirauderickybangcock4299]

I am not Korean but your grandma is a national treasure. She should be an example to her generation all around the world. Borahae ! 💜

[@ashbunny2645]

I like to think of Grandma OK as an international treasure ❤❤❤👑🌺🌷❤❤❤

[@WriterOfMany]

Can I ask what Borahae means?

[@artemisjade]

@@WriterOfMany it means "I purple you" which is something that BTS and ARMY (fandom) say to each other. It means "I'll love you till the end of days," since purple (violet) is the last color of the rainbow.

[@MissSassie]

@@WriterOfMany I purple you is what Borahae means. If you are an Army (bts army) then u know what it means, but yeah it means purple you. It's a nice loving saying. 💜🙆‍♀️

[@MissSassie]

Army? Borahae back! 💜🙆‍♀️

[@carolinego516]

There's should no strict "woman and man" rules even in heterosexual relationship. Why don't every couple accept each other and grow together as a team

[@ThatBernie]

It’s totally normal for couples to divide up responsibilities, but the problem is when heterosexual relationships simply fall back on the “default” of masculine vs. feminine duties. In a gay relationship responsibilities are divided on a case-by-case basis, so for example I do most of the cooking while my boyfriend does most of the cleaning, because my working hours are more flexible while he has a 9-to-5 job and so it makes sense for us to split it up that way, plus I enjoy cooking more and he is a bit of a neat freak, so it all works out. I hope heterosexual couples can learn to do the same thing because I really think taking this more individualized approach to dividing responsibilities can lead to a more harmonious relationship.

[@revinaque1342]

@@ThatBernie I agree completely! I'm in a heterosexual relationship, and I'm so thankful that my boyfriend doesn't ascribe to gender roles. In this day and age, it should be the norm to distribute tasks equitably.

[@exoplanet3881]

everyone should do what they are good at instead of (girls are good at cooking) and (boys are working ) I mean maybe the boy is very good at cleaning or the girl can repairs cars😅

[@mawest71]

Come on admit it. If most guys did the cooking or cleaning they would always be hungry and living in clutter. ;) Me? I am a very good cook :P

[@doraaaa0613]

as mr cheolsoo said, you tend to try and understand foreign things through something familiar. it makes me feel uncomfortable to distinguish same sex relationships on the basis of heterosexual relationships as well, because they're not the same at all, but i do understand where people who ask this question come from. and i agree, there shouldn't be strict gender roles even in straight relationships tbh

[@devakibhagwat6146]

"People tend to understand something foreign based on something familiar" is such a good mindset in such a situation. Most people(unless they're just a-holes) are usually just trying to understand things in the terms they are familiar with, so unless they're being rude, it's better to answer their queries instead of being offended.

[@Always4Bangtan]

SO well said.

[@sarahaly4747]

I think it's true that it's a great mindset but I think we should also understand that people might get these kinds of questions all the time, and it can be exhausting to constantly educate people about who you are when sometimes you just want to get through your day like everybody else-- so it doesn't necessarily mean they're a-holes, maybe they're just tired. It's the same with being any other kind of minority too, like imagine being the only asian in a white school and constantly having to explain about your traditions and culture when you just want to learn maths or something. Having said that, I think it's really great that some people do take the time and emotional energy to educate people and I appreciate that from them!

[@devakibhagwat6146]

@@sarahaly4747 agreed! (And I didn't mean they were the a-holes, I meant the people asking the questions)

[@izzyshyperfixations]

I feel as if he must have studied some sort of social sciences at least a little, it’s a common idea in psychology and I was really happy to hear him bring it up.

[@sarahaly4747]

@@devakibhagwat6146 Ah sorry I misread that :)

[@artsymarci]

This is what normalizes homosexuality, showing regular people, hearing their stories, hugs and love to the young men from an Ally mom, and the grandma is a shining example of acceptance, thank you🙏

[@garywait3231]

To ArtsyMarc : Very well said! Thanks !! 🙂🙂

[@noodlesdorkenson4674]

I was so scared you were homophobic from the first sentence! But then I read the rest. Thank you for being a ally.

[@Pheelyp]

Exactly!

[@SherriLyle80s]

That taxi driver story makes me so angry for Grandma Okay. He was extremely rude.

[@CleopatraPhilopator]

IKR 😭 it makes me wants to find that driver and smack some sense 🤣 and I’m not a violent person!!! lol

[@SherriLyle80s]

@@CleopatraPhilopator yeah NGL I felt a surge of violence hearing that too!

[@SuperVandal101]

I have tears in my eyes! What the heck, people are so mean! I would have given him a piece of my mind! 😤🤧😤

[@baimken3001]

i don't think tht situation happen only in Korea...in my country too hv tht type of people..

[@pamelaleannefreeland9025]

He’s lucky I wasn’t around, I can tell you that!!!

[@outofthisworld93]

I really liked how, after talking about all the problems the homosexuals have to deal with, they asked grandma if she feels she's being descriminated sometimes. It was really thoughtful and mind-opening, because I'd never thought people could be this rude to some elderly person. It was a nice video, very interesting and sweet, I wish all people where like grandma OK. :3

[@medea5508]

Grandma is so accepting and full of love! Our world will be a better place if everyone is like her. We love you grandma ok! Stay healthy 🤗

[@jinhub2175]

Ikr? I wish everyone was like her

[@Pheelyp]

8:38 This was HEARTBREAKING. You can hear how deeply hurt she was. Such a kind and compassionate woman like her deserves to be treated so much better. 🥺

[@ThanhMaiOFFICIAL]

According to many Koreans, homosexuality doesn’t even exist especially for the older generation. Really nice to see how open minded and tolerant this grandma is to diversity. There’s hope after all 🙌💯🌈🇰🇷

[@MrMountainchris]

There are historical accounts in almost every culture dating back hundreds and sometimes thousands of years. It is strange that anyone would think it only recently started existing.

[@low-key5512]

@@MrMountainchris That's honestly what baffles me so much. So many countries pride themselves on their histories but tend to.. emit and ignore parts that don't fit their ideals or narratives :/

[@ilikedogs4176]

Korea’s still very conservative, and still very far but, Korea’s making progress too!

[@PTX5]

They were deep in the closet. Homosexuality in nothing new to the world. It started since the beginning of time, that's why it's in the Old Testament in the Bible.

[@devakibhagwat6146]

@@low-key5512 that's true with anything tbh Even political events and historical figures that don't fit the narrative are left unspoken about and erased, essentially

[@Glaubermoledo]

It made me cry. My grandma was exactly like her, and accepted me and my partner very well, even being at the same age as this cute old lady! She passed away at the age of 90 and full of wisdom and love. Thank you for this video. Love from Brasil!

[@mrscani]

Grandma OK, is not just a national treasure....she's an International Treasure!!

[@brendashelton6146]

Yes yes yes..World take note!!!! 💜💜💜

[@bhushanghale3448]

Yessssss...

[@lucieraeck3157]

안녕하세요, 오늘 이 채널을 발견했는데 개념이 너무 좋아해요. 특히 할머니의 개인 이야기도 하셔서 할머니의 사고방식도 좀 이애할 수 있는 것은 아주 좋은 것 같아요. I like how both sides explain their views and experiences (not only in this video, but in others too), it helps us to relate and maybe understand more each individual. 다음 비다오를 기대할 게요!!!

[@ferolsellon7749]

🖤

[@sandarai]

this couple are soooo cute... you wouldn't have guessed the guy in the striped shirt was ever over 30 lol

[@shadedwizard8566]

Me before knowing his age: He might be in between 19 and 23 lmaooooo

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

Beautiful Asians age better. I remember meeting 60/70+ year olds in Japan....you’d have NEVER guessed.

[@diazisbaby1916]

WTFFF I THOUGHT HE WAS ATMOST 22

[@yunjeans]

I actually thought both of em were 26-

[@mxeyachae]

Actually he is 29 or 30 Korean always say their age a year older than actual age

[@ahyou1987]

It’s so sweet, the photo taking session just had me in tears. Bless them.

[@melissabautista146]

My brother came out to me when i was 10 years old because I said something hateful about his gay friend (which I then found out was his boyfriend) and I will never forget the deep pit in my stomach. I just wanted to cry and tell him I’m sorry and that i love him no matter what but my little self didn’t know how to go about it lol. Took me out of that vile mindset REAL QUICK.

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

I grew up around POC people and LGBTQ+ folks my whole life. It was natural for me even though I’m straight. Well, no I’m crooked but lol My middle son is LGBTQ+ and he’s so precious to me, just as my other sons are. They all need to clean up better lol 😒

[@LoveThomas07]

@@CreativeCreatorCreates Dude, that's awesome, I bet you're a great parent :)

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

@@LoveThomas07 Im insane lol but I really love and support the community. My boys are good men and all just the best things ive ever done. (Cause I’m a hot mess lol)

[@DeepaK-bz3ss]

I don't know how long ago this was but I am sure an apology would mean a lot to him. I'm gay and I know I would appreciate an apology from my sister, even if it happened decades ago. You seem to be a really good person and you were very young when I'm sure when this happened.

[@ewenlee8855]

don't be too hard on yourself! you have clearly learned from your past mistakes, and I'm sure your brother feels your love and support. happy pride to him, and all the best :)

[@futured5577]

I was smiling like crazy the entire time of both parts! The grandma is so accepting and nice i wish more elders were like that

[@DravenGal]

I agree, Grandma OK is an excellent example of how people are “supposed to be.” Open-minded, sweet, asking excellent questions, and LISTENING to the answers, and just being accepting of differences.

[@tiny-angry-chicken]

4:23 I had a similar experience when I first started thinking I wasn't straight. Except for me it was the opposite gender and I was much much younger. I still dwell on it to this day since I have my father who tells me constantly that it's normal for women to like women, in that way. Tbh, seeing someone else with a similar experience kinda helps me with accepting myself. I'll keep this in mind on my bad days, so I can shut the homophobic comments off, for a little bit at least. It's kinda nice to know I'm not alone in that XD

[@tulipsforanny659]

OH ME TOO, almost the same with me. I know that I like girls but I’m still afraid and has been so hard for me…I feel like I am lonely and nobody can understand. Even though I’m being more acceptable with myself…. (btw you are Atiny too? Love Ateez so much )

[@kiram.3619]

Hi, I can't help with the people directly around you, but what really helped me accept myself was watching accepting videos on here (youtube). For example by queer creators like Alayna Joy, or the absolutely wholesome videos by "One topic at a time". I hope you are well!

[@lauravel2000]

Same, it's so hard sometimes, specially when you live in very close minded country.

[@xiaoalexy]

I was surprised by grandma’s story because especially in Asian countries, elders are usually respected and there are many older people who think that their word is gold just because they’re older (I am Chinese), but I have heard of cases in the west where older people get pushed back and disregarded. I think that it’s good for young people to demand respect from those who talk down to them, but those like grandma OK are so kind and have done nothing wrong and I want to pick a fight with that taxi driver right now

[@ferdynand2402]

I saw an old lady at a bank. The woman who''s at service at the time was very rude. She's old for God's sake. She was just asking some details on how to open an acount.

[@deepseatofucreature4204]

I used to work with customers when I was younger and I understand that it´s really hard to deal with some people or you are just having a bad day but you should not put it on other people. I feel like lot of problems could be solved just by people treating each other with respect. You don´t have to like every single person but just try to understand their situation and have open mind.

[@lisaisa]

As someone who is Ghanaian, a culture where they respect older people like you say, and also someone born and raised in the UK “the West” I don’t really think it’s that the west disregards older people. People still respect older people but they simultaneously acknowledge that just because you’re old doesn’t mean your behaviour/ beliefs are infallible. Respect is give and take and you should treat others how you want to be treated.

[@brimazzu3223]

I feel like it’s a cross cultural thing related to how connected we are through technology that the younger generations (not everyone) in Asian countries don’t revere their elders. I remember learning in sociology that East Asian cultures have a group mentality rather than the individual, however, in the 2016 Train to Busan movie, the father protagonist had a very individual first mindset. In other words, times and technology changes culture. I just wish the US would adopt the group mentality from the east (especially regarding covid or public health in general).

[@cenoles1]

I’m from the West ( 61 y/o) and honestly it has never been okay to disrespect our elders no matter what ! People who disrespect others ( no matter the age) have never been taught better and that seems to be more common as yrs go on . It’s unfortunate that society in general is becoming more tolerant of this behavior! But it has never been okay to disrespect the elderly in America . I raised four daughters and they were taught from birth to never disrespect people in general .. and even my grandson would open doors and assist elderly and women out of respect ! It’s sad that people don’t raise their offspring properly!

[@johnshoemakerpbc]

They were so right. We need more people like grandma ok in this world. Thank you for opening the world to her and bringing us along.

[@Pumpkin0_0]

Yeah, it's a double-edged sword. On one end no one likes others to discriminate them, but on the other hand by behaving like a completely normal couple instead of hiding affection it would eventually normalize the sight of two men holding hands in public. Hmmm, so much unnecessary trouble in the world just because of homophobic people trying to stop love between two grown, consenting adults. It's just love. :/

[@justme-qd6qb]

True, I also think internalised homophobia plays a big role in this. But it's really shitty because you never know how people will react. A lot of people might not say anything but it only takes one crazy person to be harassed, and it's shitty that so much responsibility is put on you as a couple (because essentially all your coupl-y actions become a political statement even when you don't want them to)

[@MrsBrit1]

Very true, but it is also hard to be "the first" and take on those leadership roles, so I can understand why doing so would be difficult.

[@VoVina111]

yes I agree. if people see it enough they'll realize that A, gay people are more common than they think and that they need to be more respectful, and openminded in their views, and B, that it's a normal sight to see so it'll no longer be viewed as taboo. so many koreans never met a gay person before but this way they'll know they exist and are not so different from them

[@artsymarci]

This is true,

[@artsymarci]

I’ve been observing social acceptance of homosexuality since the mid 1980’s. I grew up in a very process town in the USA that is a safe place to come out. It happened gradually, by the time my daughter was in Kindergarten, early 1990’s, gay and lesbian couples could hold hands and kiss in public. Open homophobia was confronted and my daughter’s friends knew and came out as early as 7th grade. It still wasn’t accepted everywhere in the USA, but my children grew up with it being normal! Our local college attracts young people from all over the country because of its progressiveness. For my youngest daughter born 1998, it has always been normal. She went to college in a small rural town and made friends with everyone. Most of her friends were not always accepted on the place they grew up in. Having no aversion to homosexuality, she is very out-spoken in her advocacy for gay rights. She has been to Korea and went to a gay bar, with friends and attended a Pride Parade 🏳️‍🌈🇰🇷! She knows that most Asian countries still have backwards views, such as, it’s a choice, or it’s perverted…but this is under a social revolution, using pop culture, like BL, and young people don’t have institutionalized homophobia. This grandma is very progressive for her generation. There are many different kinds of sexuality, and most of the time, it’s non of my business, just like with straight people, but I am an Ally and have many LGBTQ+ friends, and will speak out with brain science if anyone challenges someone’s sexuality. My daughter has discovered that she is Demi-heterosexual and yes, I did have to look it up!

[@ks4281]

This is so wholesome. And I love how mature the older guy is towards the end when he said maybe it's not too bad I've Victimized myself alot that's the mindset we need of course it's hard but with that mindset you'll get through it

[@Rochelle_Ballah]

The picture at the end is so lovely

[@Pauavi]

It was adorable how she wanted to hold hands with them and she kept saying how lucky she was to have such an experience meeting them and also to have Zoe as her granddaughter... maybe I'm a bit emotional, but a few tears were shed!

[@drewdude777]

This video is groundbreaking. Somewhere like S Korea where being gay isn’t easily accepted and you have an elderly Korean lady who is so open minded. Just goes to show no matter the circumstances there will always be a diamond in the rough. ❤️💎

[@mirai6409]

finna throw some hands at that person who mistreated grandma :D

[@raedez1075]

ongg 😩

[@beccadallas]

Yeah. I just wanna talk.

[@tetra1974]

Timestamp?

[@mirai6409]

@@tetra1974 around 8:10 for context

[@beccadallas]

Harris Kim I don’t remember when it was but if you watch it through you definitely can’t miss it :)

[@kyle570]

I love how respectful this discussion was! Even when Grandma OK asked the question "who's the woman?" question, which some people find offensive, they were very understanding and patient in explaining things to her. Her response and listening was also amazing. These people from two very different generations have such a respectful and mature dialogue and it's definitely something I wish to see more of!

[@kim_flynji8461]

grandma ok is a testament to kind hearted people - may not know or understand everything, how can you expect perfection of everyone, but at the core is someone that just wants happiness and comfort for all. simple as that. the note that it's not necessarily what others see but what you fear others see... is a huge thing - as a transgender man i definitely feel that struggle even now i look 'manly'. massive hugs go out to happy couple, i wish you all the happiness in your future

[@maryy.834]

i see a fellow Insomnia 👀👀

[@resusodd7042]

I bet meeting the grandma helped them a lot. Even though it’s not their grandma, they now have a positive memory with a elderly lady. Everything about her told them that it’s okay to love whoever you want to love and that there is nothing to be ashamed of❤️

[@Blue-jz8dn]

“I think you are the example of how humans are supposed to be”. Truer words have never been spoken, friend. Thank you all so much for sharing this. Much love and respect to all of you. Happy pride.

[@HakunaMatata520]

The interaction between grandma and the guests was so cute. Seeing how accepting and kind she is towards them warmed my heart. Everyone should strive to be the type of human grandma is, then that way this world would be so much more peaceful. Seeing this video made me feel so warm, that I started to tear up.

[@sarahaly4747]

I think this video is really great because a lot of people are afraid to ask questions and in the worst case their fear becomes homophobia. I really applaud the couple for patiently answering Grandma OKs questions (and if course I applaud Grandma OK for having a sweet heart). I think people need to remember too that it can be exhausting and triggering for people to answer questions so it's nice if you do homework yourself and try to learn on your own as well. Videos like this are so great for that and I hope that people learn and open their hearts. Thanks for this :)

[@АртемГірман]

The last photo is worth all the diamonds in the world. It's precious.

[@gloss2179]

she is officially the sweetest, and kindest grandma i've ever seen, i love that she's open minded and willing to learn!! and this couple was just adorable. i hope they gain the confidence they need to go out and not be ashamed of who they are. at the same time, i hope korea changes their ways and realizes that lgbtq+ people are humans too and worthy of being respected just like everyone else.

[@videowatcherinthearts1578]

I have been watching channel Gimcheeolsoo, since the two met. They are quite lovely together. I love how they answered her questions honestly and without making her feel bad for asking. The looks on both their faces when she told one story of how she was disrespected- they felt bad for her. They are two caring men. Thank you for introducing your amazing Grandmother to them.

[@Milo_atw]

I love how they are all so open 1nd listen to grandma who's a little confused and they teach her 😄😄

[@MrsBrit1]

The boys are right: Grandma OK is definitely a shining example of how humans should be! We love you, Grandma OK!!

[@TheRayThai]

Grandma just radiates warm and loving energy. You don’t even have to speak to her.

[@marcosmaldonado5903]

10:28 i cried a little when i saw this moment, grandma OK it's just so naturally adorable😭💞

[@Dutchbelg3]

What a lovely video! Why can't some people just be like this? Why hate people just because they fell in love? Love matters! Not how love is composed. Love is all! I knew grandma OK is a sweetie.. but the boys were very welcoming too. Open and honest. Hugs to all!

[@s8vu]

10:49 i low-key wanna keep this framed 🥺😭 can't thank you enough for this pretty series. Grandma Ok comforting Jangho and Cheolsoo and trying to encourage them to do what makes them happy is just >>>>>>>>>>>>

[@meemeeps]

You can see the genuine kindness in her eyes when she looks at them. I love grandma ;_;

[@Shirleipresley]

This was such a wholesome conversation/interview. Grandma was so lovely and open minded and the couple was so open and sweet. I wish that everyone could have open conversations like this one.

[@h666422]

This is why we love our granny ok !! That Taxi driver better say sorry to our grandma 👵!!!

[@katherinetepper-marsden38]

Right!?

[@firetech700]

I watched this 2 years ago. And here I am again. I pray that the world can be as curious yet caring, like this grandmother! The world would be so much better, if we had more people like her!

[@MeruHina]

Grandma OK is so precious! People say that the young generation are an example to follow for being open, accepting and understanding, but honestly, Grandma OK is and would always be my role model. She has taught me to always be open to new experiences and to love everyone. People should follow Grandma's OK footsteps to becoming a beautiful person!

[@garywait3231]

To MeruHina : Very well said. Thanks!!

[@bradleyf3224]

That final pic of the three of them, when grandma took their hands, brought tears to my eyes! God bless them.

[@enjolireyes643]

I loved that even from half a world away I felt the love and positivity of their talk and just acceptance of each other being fellow humans! If that is the one thing another person can learn from watching this video than you and grandma have absolutely won the day! Sending love peace and happiness from Florida!

[@Aksm897]

Just the way she was so hesitant to ask them personal questions shows that she respected their space, she took time in thinking what to ask them as to not offend or hurt them, she is genuinely so sweet and understanding it's so cute

[@shibersdad5920]

I can't tell you how much I was waiting for part 2 to drop 💖

[@Chesh89]

Grandma OK brings tears to my eyes every time. I recently lost my grandmother, and watching her reminds me of the warmth, love, and advice I looked to my grandma for. Grandma OK is an absolute treasure, I hope she and those two keep in touch and maybe have lunch together sometime. I hope they hold hands on their way to the restaurant.

[@너나들이-y6o]

7:01 하고 싶은 거 다 하라는 할머님 말씀에 저까지도 위로됐어요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 첫 번째 영상도, 두 번째 영상도 웃으면서 보는 데 뭔가 슬프기도 하고 ㅠㅠ 할머님 철수님 장호님 따뜻하게 대해주셔서 정말 감사합니다. 오래오래 건강하세요!!

[@lunes5tar]

The part when they mentioned not being able to hold hands made me cry and I sobbed after grandma told them they should. This was very heartwarming, thank you 💓

[@jamiesilver7401]

I've been subscribed to Cheolsoo for 3-4 years now, and subscribed to this channel since it was quite new, so this was an unexpected, but incredibly amazing collaboration between two of my favorite channels. Thank you Zoey for arranging and producing this wonderful collaboration, I enjoyed it greatly.

[@axelgreen8852]

I swear I have been so emotional lately and I couldn't stop my happy tears. What a lovely woman and respectful guys. Thanks for the joy you brought to my heart. Thank you.

[@aashutoshraj2751]

This video is one of the most heartwarming video I have seen till now. How good it would be to have such sweet and understanding people around you,I can't even imagine.

[@ANIMEGIRLVICKY]

This two part video was so wholesome and I am grateful they were able to speak with a grandma that is so open minded and kind. She did not judge them and was curious, engaging. I can tell that they both viewed her as their own grandparent, able to say things they wished they could to a loved one. I hope they keep contact and have meals together as a group.

[@Benjud97]

These types of conversations need to happen more in Korea. I lived in Seoul for two years and I dated a Korean guy who said he never planned to tell his parents and that they would probably disown him if he did. So sad.

[@msimpressionablemiller9941]

It's about 5 a.m. I'm in South Carolina, USA. I cant stop watching you and your Grandmother. So cute! My grandmother passsed away 4 years ago at 88 yrs old. She was my best friend. I was missing her a lot and then I saw these videos that reminded me of the way we used to be laughing and eating together. Your grandmother is funny and just says it how she feels. Thank you so much. May God bless you and your Grandmother with many many more years! 😊😊😊❤❤❤

[@usinu9771]

Omg grandma ok is an angel. I started getting teary eyed when she said she was so happy to meet them! I loved this video it was so cute and wholesome. ❤💖💞💕Happy pride you guys! 🌈💗💖💜💙💚💛❤

[@SunnyOz]

Same here - I was about to write the exact same comment! 🤗

[@garywait3231]

So was I !!!!! (In fact, I did !) 😉

[@Olivia-qm3kk]

What a wonderful expression of how the older generation can adapt to and accept correct modern views. So cathartic for those of us not as fortunate to have such welcoming family as Grandma OK. Thanks for sharing, much love from the U.S.A! 💕

[@alliedrawsart4614]

The ending when she was super excited for a picture of all of them together 🥺💕aaa

[@phumie_]

My heart melted when she asked to take a picture of them. Grandma is such a warm hearted spirit. ❤️

[@somerflowers]

My heart just grows anytime Grandma is on. What a treasure she is. Thank you for sharing her with us. This was such a needed and beautiful conversation. ❤️

[@crazybuttiredgirl]

unexpected, grandma made my eyes teary when she said to them: " do what you want! Hold hands! brothers do hold hands too..." aww blessed she be... and what she said as a lady in her "older age"(generation) was so simple but still it hit me deep - it felt like she did changed a "second time in her life" her meaning about gays bcos she met these two "lovely souls" and i bet she supports them for real from now on :) but at end when they all 3 made the photo and she wanted stand in middle and hold hands with them - gosh that got me lost and i wiped off tears from my cheek lol :D

[@aashutoshraj2751]

Also I felt really good that they allowed grandma to speak about her experiences. I will strive to be as sweet and caring as grandma is.

[@mcfrog5473]

This is so heartwarming to see. It’s amazing to receive support from those you expect it from, but somehow it feels even sweeter when it comes from people you wouldn’t immediately expect it from

[@SamanthaRod]

This video made me cry, grandma you are such a beautiful soul! You are an example of how all humans should be! You are warm, welcoming and accepting, and most importantly you were willing to learn. I also am so happy that the young men understood her questions came from a place of wanting to learn and not judgment. This was so lovely 💖

[@real_lampcap]

I love how open she is, especially for someone who's her age living in a country that's as conservative as Korea. It's so beautiful. Knowing people like her exists makes my gay self so happy.

[@Luna-17]

Great cultural/generational interaction!! ✨ A. Grandma is so precious, wholesome, & accepting. Protect this woman. B. Cheolsoo & Jangho are adorable & seem to care deeply for one another. Wishing them acceptance, love, & health!! C. Zoey is so empathetic & understanding. Thanks for organizing this lovely meeting!

[@TSinRM]

They are from a different country than I, speak a different language and are from a much younger generation. Be that as it may, their stories echo my own life experience and the journey to coming out to oneself. What a lovely conversation between this wonderful woman and these two gentlemen.

[@jeffdntn]

Now thats what i call "wholesome"

[@sarahwalters4428]

Your grandmother is a damn national treasure AND NEEDS TO BE PROTECTED AT ALL COSTS!!!. She is an absolute angel. Her heart is just beautiful and I'm so very glad I got the privilege of seeing this today. The world needs so many more like her! Please give her love from me. I dont even know her but I love her like she is family lol. You're so very blessed .Thank you for this series. Brilliant Idea!!

[@emilie1418]

She’s so sweet and respectful 🥺

[@ruchithakur3099]

Oh lord this series' had literally me in tears , this is so pure and so innocent and such a open hearted conversation. I loved every bit of it, great work the ajumma was super nice ❤️❤️ she has my whole heart and like the couple said we wish more people were like her , she is such an angel.

[@sol6121]

The two videos were so heartwarming! Not gonna lie, i teared up over that ending. Grandma is the sweetest ♡

[@athomewithnika6459]

Coming from part 1. I love this Grandma and the Couple. I also love how they answer the questions calmly, because it is a sensitive subject, but informing is really nice. Happiness to all.

[@izzyshyperfixations]

I just wanted to say thank you for introducing me to their channel through yours. Just seeing gay people live normal lives in loving, healthy relationships is very comforting to me and I think to a lot of other people as well. And the videos with them and grandma Ok have been really heartwarming and enlightening.

[@nehasheoran]

The photo in the end it’s so wholesome 💜💜💜

[@Pollo.a.la.crema.]

This is the most precious thing I’ve ever seen. Your grandma is a gem and an angel from above. Please take good care of her, as a queer man I’m touched by her love

[@bettieharris3999]

She is most definitely an 😇

[@rosemary5531]

This grandma is worth her weight in gold! I love her response to men holding hands in public. She is very understanding and accepting.

[@michaelz8235]

I love your grandma. She's so very sympathetic, open minded and understanding.

[@jingcc0121]

Grandma OK is so precious. What an absolutely lovely lady. 💜 and the couple has such a beautiful love. Thanks for filming this great conversation. I’m sure healing for all of them.

[@savageclassymoody386]

This was an open a honest conversation everyone gets dicrimstion whether you older,colour,gay or religion and bother generation young and old get discriminated the same way loved it buetiful podcast

[@staybyheart9021]

She is so cute, curious and respectful. She's very sweet and I love her personality and open mind. If everyone were more like her, the world would be such a better place.

[@crazylady5702]

Love how supportive and accepting Grandma Ok is 🥰

[@auggiepawgie4044]

tHE PHOTO AT THE END HAS ME CRYINGGG, it's so rare for us gays to have accepting grandparents and she looks like such a happy grandma with her fav grandsons, celebrating them!! SO SWEET

[@ki_ka_ki_ka]

I love these 3 adorable angels 😇😇😇 cried again about their stories and their super-cuteness wish they always happy

[@anayou2099]

the grandma is so sweet i'm crying, i wish everyone was as nice and accepting as her, i wish her all the best and may she live for many many more years

[@CleopatraPhilopator]

Awwww 💚 My heart!!!! 🥺🥰 Grandma OK is such a blessing! Thank you Zoey for doing this segment!!! So adorable…

[@ebaquero8400]

I like how respectful grandma is with both of them and how they respect her with her questions. She is trying to understand is all that matters.

[@keentobegreen]

I need a million clones of Grandma OK. NOW!!

[@seosumi]

grandma ok is the best example of how to treat others who are different than you. these two videos made me cry. i hope that in the future, more people will act like grandma ok. we love you

[@jimjimgl3]

Everyone here is so beautiful, the granddaughter, the grandma and the two young men.

[@kallamoon28]

I'm watching this after so long, and it makes me nostalgic to see them together, knowing that now they broke up. It's painful.🥺💔

[@yellowducky7884]

not to be nosy but, do you know why they broke up? I tried to search their social medias but it led me nowhere

[@kallamoon28]

@@yellowducky7884 I'm not sure, I just know that Janho went to canada, but I don't know the reason. They became friends or something like that

[@peachy7922]

Ohh that's why:( I've watched this video when it was released, and it's suddenly popped up on my feed(?) Again, so I just rewatch it. I've never been so curious Abt who they are back then, but now kind of curious Abt their channel, but both (@) doesn't seem to have them both in one video, so I was wondering do they have a different channel for their couple thing, but now I know they've broken up:( after many years together that's so sad:( I've scrolled through some comments they were saying they both have left SK? So I guess there might be a chance that they've broken up bcs this video blows up and reached their families that had no idea they were a thing:(

[@zebaddams2425]

This is EVERYTHING!!! Grandma OK is just amazing! She makes me smile every time I watch your videos! Cheolsoo and Jangho are so sweet and adorable!! I hope they stay together forever!! Thank you, Zoey, for making this video. Keep doing what you’re doing! Happy Pride from Massachusetts!!!! 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@goranadzino5723]

When they took photo it made me cry 🥺🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️ this was so sweet and heartwarming!!!