REACTING TO YOUR ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT ME AS A MOM (+ a baby update)

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JessiSmiles

JessiSmiles

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@JessiSmiles
@JessiSmiles 2 жыл бұрын
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@beitasaavedra5066
@beitasaavedra5066 2 жыл бұрын
Chilean wine is the best in LA and I'm not biased cause I'm Chilean 🤣
@itsjessimaee
@itsjessimaee 2 жыл бұрын
If only they shipped to MI
@Keeli614
@Keeli614 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all still support this girl after almost putting a guy in jail for views and money that’s sad I wish nothing but negative
@feraguilar4175
@feraguilar4175 2 жыл бұрын
You're like an old friend from high school that you don't see often and when you do you pick up just like no time has passed, and those are THE best friendships!
@hazelz9305
@hazelz9305 2 жыл бұрын
literally !
@sidramohiuddin2774
@sidramohiuddin2774 2 жыл бұрын
Omg yesss
@thegreenfairyqueen7884
@thegreenfairyqueen7884 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! This!
@ambermohn
@ambermohn 2 жыл бұрын
THIS
@MLuna_30
@MLuna_30 2 жыл бұрын
YES!
@7BearSarah
@7BearSarah 2 жыл бұрын
YES JESSI! You could literally make a single video every 500 years and you bet your ass I would watch every single second. Your personality is just so fucking real and funny. I’m so glad you and your little family is doing well. I really appreciate how you talk about your kids but in a way that’s not exploiting them. Loving the podcast, too! You and Lily are so fun to watch. Makes me feel like I’m hanging with some besties.
@Eaasttyy29
@Eaasttyy29 2 жыл бұрын
I AGREE
@animemicheal
@animemicheal 2 жыл бұрын
as an autistic person, THANK YOU for gentle parenting your child!!!!!!!!!! I grew up with split parents and my mom was gentle parenting me before it was a thing, and my dad didnt, he yelled and spanked etc. And its traumatizing. period. but autistic people are even more susceptible to trauma, we pretty much all have cptsd(because our nervous systems are so overwhelmed, so its impossible to not have cptsd for an autistic person in the world we live in)
@rileysmileyriley
@rileysmileyriley 2 жыл бұрын
What’s cptsd? I know what ptsd is but what does the c stand for?
@Magicath
@Magicath 2 жыл бұрын
@@rileysmileyriley it stands for "complex". c-ptsd patients experience a number of additional symptoms alongside typical ptsd episodes.
@annabelledrake2027
@annabelledrake2027 2 жыл бұрын
Similar to ADHD! Trauma and ADHD can get confused in diagnoses since the symptoms can be very similar and pretty much all ADHD people have some kind of trauma from their childhood due to RSD or just being "different" in some way. So basically most neurodivergent people have trauma, but not all traumatized people are neurodivergent, which can make things complicated
@seagullsg784
@seagullsg784 2 жыл бұрын
@@annabelledrake2027 rsd?
@animemicheal
@animemicheal 2 жыл бұрын
@@annabelledrake2027 yes! Yes absolutely!
@jaymeselijah
@jaymeselijah 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has been watching you since 2016, seeing your growth and watching you grow up has been insane especially since you’re one of the few KZbinrs I’ve actually grown up with and have been consistently watching despite me growing up and growing out of my old favorite media. It’s so weird. You’re amazing.
@JessiSmiles
@JessiSmiles 2 жыл бұрын
🥹🥹 this makes me so happy. Thank you for being here 💛
@carolinaluna3756
@carolinaluna3756 2 жыл бұрын
@@JessiSmiles you’re the best ❤️❤️❤️
@em_chris
@em_chris 2 жыл бұрын
Same. She’s been around as long as I have on YT and is the only one I’ve seen actually show growth in content and personal life openly and in a healthy way. Big props!! 🤍
@sayan9566
@sayan9566 2 жыл бұрын
me too omg!!! I remember when it was jessi’s 24th bday (‘: gosh it’s crazy watching youtube’s grow up idk I know this sounds odd but I feel like we’re all friends here
@anabluu
@anabluu 2 жыл бұрын
I've been here since then too! And I remember thinking wow, how will this family grow??? Honestly, they are inspiring , it's lovely to see, especially how calm and content you look Jessi ❤️
@AA-dq5vh
@AA-dq5vh 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for donating breast milk. With the milk shortage and some moms not being able to breastfeed, you have fed babies. Love you Jess ❤️
@alexispark8196
@alexispark8196 2 жыл бұрын
The “she looking for balogne” text from Nassim killed me lolll
@joaillere
@joaillere 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! for sharking this news (to us) about Noah. I am a therapist for toddlers with Autism and know with 100% certainty that other moms will see this and it will help them. I have had more moms in the last year tell me that they were enlightened by social media. Even if you don't think your helping someone directly, you are still softening the stigma by identifying yourself as existing in this space! You're normalizing life with child with an ASD Dx. Thank you, as a practitioner I am grateful for you.
@jasmoonz
@jasmoonz 2 жыл бұрын
I wish me being autistic didn't go unnoticed for as long as it did, all throughout my childhood and college I struggled in ways others didn't; I only recently found out I'm autistic at age 22. It has been so revolutionary because so much just makes so much sense, but at the same time it makes me sad because if anyone at home noticed I could've gotten help sooner and maybe a lot wouldn't be as confusing. I admire how you and Nassim do everything you can to help Noah, I appreciate you sharing.
@vazquez.conacento
@vazquez.conacento 2 жыл бұрын
🤍
@Raindropsss723
@Raindropsss723 2 жыл бұрын
It has been the coolest thing in the world to watch you go from my cool, imaginary big sister to a phenomenal and devoted momma. My nephew was diagnosed with Autism at 2 years old and is now thriving at 19 years old, greatly due to early intervention! I am now a pre-k teacher, and wish I could make every parent out there understand how beneficial early intervention is for children. The way you talk about, love, support and parent Noah goes to show that you were destined to be his momma. You have created such a beautiful family, and I am so happy for the peace and love you have found. Wishing your family all the best!
@theblackschaos
@theblackschaos 2 жыл бұрын
Omg! I’m so happy you shared your child’s autism; because my daughter is exactly the same. She also just got diagnosed…. And I have so many people with autism like you said who are unique. I want to help other families get into early intervention. Now having a child and knowing the different signs whether they be small or large; EARLY INTERVENTION IS 100% going to change them; detrimentally. But; it’s so fricken hard to get the resources. They make it so hard and I’m on the phone (for instance today) for hours trying to fight for my child!!!! I wish I could talk to you because it’s so crazy.
@jessicaireland9052
@jessicaireland9052 2 жыл бұрын
my sibling is autistic and they NEEDED gentle parenting growing up. thank you for being the parent so many kids need/needed. and watching you grow from vine to now has been phenomenal. i’m so proud of you, and the family you and your husband have created. we love you
@libramoons
@libramoons 2 жыл бұрын
joey is correct, we ALWAYS want more of y’all!!
@keisha_james
@keisha_james 2 жыл бұрын
It's so surreal to think back following you over the years and then watching that video announcing your pregnancy with Noah, to years later now with your whole cute lil family vibing. You do seem so happy and complete, it's a beautiful thing that has worked out especially considering the whirlwind that was you and Nassim meeting -- seems like it was just yesterday when you were talking about meeting him for the first time right before your move back to Miami! The timing for your life truly worked out in that moment for you two to find each other. Much love to you and your family 💓
@metaphysicalwh0re
@metaphysicalwh0re 2 жыл бұрын
That bit of you talking about gentle parenting got the tears flowing, you're a beautiful soul and an amazing example of the mindset parents should have
@emilythibault8305
@emilythibault8305 2 жыл бұрын
As an autistic person myself if you ever need advice or ever need to vent about anything just please let me I enjoy your content and your beautiful family 🙂
@mirandas3927
@mirandas3927 2 жыл бұрын
As a fellow mother of 2….. your podcast makes me feel like I have friends. Don’t stop please lol
@gram5963
@gram5963 2 жыл бұрын
It’s always so great to see that you’ve uploaded! You’re looking beautiful, happy and healthy! Last time I saw a photo of your daughter, I thought she looked like a mini you/your dad. Can’t wait to see her at the end! Thank you for sharing Noah’s diagnosis with us; I also have a child who is on the spectrum and I 100% agree with gentle parenting when it comes to her. Love you, girl. 💜 Edited to say OMG the baby is the perfect mix of you and your husband!
@alexisnicole8118
@alexisnicole8118 2 жыл бұрын
For sure!! I feel like she looks like whichever parent she's with, which, as you said, means she's a perfect mix!! 🥰
@reneejones5900
@reneejones5900 2 жыл бұрын
I remember commenting last year(?) that our sons are very similar - they both got a sensory processing diagnosis around the same time as well... So no shock that my boy was diagnosed autistic too! They would have a lot of fun destroying shit together haha
@JessiSmiles
@JessiSmiles 2 жыл бұрын
Destroying shit is Noah's favorite activity!! Haha lots of love to you and your boy 💛
@abbygaildaniellesupena5058
@abbygaildaniellesupena5058 2 жыл бұрын
Funnily enough, I think I read your comment 😂
@reneejones5900
@reneejones5900 2 жыл бұрын
@@abbygaildaniellesupena5058 Haha! That’s awesome!
@Glowbug18
@Glowbug18 2 жыл бұрын
As a mom to 25 yr old identical twin boys, we've all lost our cool with our children. The fact that you apologize to him teaches him that even parents aren't perfect. I used to take mommy timeouts. You're an excellent mom.
@shannonigans_
@shannonigans_ 2 жыл бұрын
you saying that about how to parent an autistic child makes me wanna cry to be honest. its so nice to hear parents have that perspective.
@SavannaShea
@SavannaShea 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you bringing up the fear of death that comes with parenthood. You took the words out of my mouth and explained exactly how it feels to be just utterly terrified of anything happening to you or your kids!
@MuseVT
@MuseVT 2 жыл бұрын
1. As an autistic adult, thank you for being gentle and compassionate to Noah’s struggles. 2. As a parent that couldn’t produce and had to switch exclusively to formula at 4 months, thank you for your donations. There’s nothing wrong with formula, but it broke my heart not being able to breastfeed and if we had an accessible milk bank in my city I think it would’ve helped a little emotionally.
@courtneypaige18
@courtneypaige18 2 жыл бұрын
Would love to see a grwm when you receive the new kathleen palette! I'm really loving the podcast 🥰 Been watching you since 2016 and with every upload it truly is like catching up with a friend 💕
@Soysauceb4ketchup
@Soysauceb4ketchup 2 жыл бұрын
Ayieeeee girl, ima be 29 too. Not to be weird, but legit I got married and settled down around the same time as you; I bought a house around the same time. I feel like I've grown up into a wholeass woman right along side you. Watching you mature into a dopeass mama and wife has been so cool.
@akt9
@akt9 2 жыл бұрын
With me being on the Autism spectrum (I have a learning disability called fragile x syndrome). Thank you for sharing that cause honestly I wish my parents gentle parented me. Now that I'm an adult I am in therapy, being on anxiety medication etc has helped me a lot. I'm now working towards getting a job in web development, I learned to web code on my own 😊♥️, even coded my own website. It's definitely my biggest dream to live independently on my own, it's something I truly truly am trying to achieve. Thank you again for sharing that cause it's a reminder that I'm not alone 😊♥️♥️
@robertoXCX
@robertoXCX 2 жыл бұрын
Jessi, I think I speak for the majority of your fans here... We're not worried about a consistent video schedule, just make videos whenever you feel like it! Sometimes life starts lifing real hard, we understand 💖
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@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@grandma4176
@grandma4176 2 жыл бұрын
my borderline emotional ass always ends up crying when I watch these even if they aren’t sad because it’s so surreal that you’re in this amazing time in your life so close to me (in age & location, im 27 & in atl) and it makes me feel not so alone and so happy to see u thriving 🥰 much love to u forever & always
@chumhum3048
@chumhum3048 2 жыл бұрын
I love the podcast so much! It legit just feels like i'm gossiping with my friends
@AshleyxRajput
@AshleyxRajput 2 жыл бұрын
Can't believe Jessie's family is now complete 😭❤️ been watching since the story time Era and then watched Noah grow up kinda and miss the videos with you and Nassim bickering with each other 😂😂❤️
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@graceisawkward96
@graceisawkward96 2 жыл бұрын
As a montessori teacher, i think the fact that you apologize to your children is incredible and teaches your children to take responsibility. I have seen so many kids refuse to apologize because they assume it admits to being wrong or “bad”
@butterfly_limerence
@butterfly_limerence 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you still do these check-ins. It's good to know that you and your family are doing well!
@katherinecorr2976
@katherinecorr2976 2 жыл бұрын
I work with adults with level 2 and 3 ASD and it makes me so happy to see parents like yourself looking to adapt and advocate for your child. It means your child will have a full and happy life being themselves 💕
@caseya3176
@caseya3176 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched you since Vine. I’m 18 now but watching you become a mom around the same age my sisters have is so special to me
@YaliMarie
@YaliMarie 2 жыл бұрын
GIIIIIRRRRLLLLL if we don't divide things in our house we would go crazy. I cook, he does dishes... He does laundry, I'll put it away. It was tough to adjust bc of how we were raised pero we've definitely worked through so much and have grown into just knowing our strengths & weaknesses.
@EvadoCouto
@EvadoCouto 2 жыл бұрын
I started watching you the year after I moved out on my own (~2016) and both of our lives have changed so much, it makes me emotional. You deserve every happiness you have and will have.
@NikkiLove9022
@NikkiLove9022 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t care how often you upload, I will ALWAYS watch your videos. I’m so happy to see you’re doing well, and how much you’ve grown. 😭 Also, your daughter is your twin imo. Such a cutie pie!! ❤️
@corig573
@corig573 2 жыл бұрын
I was literally just thinking about you this morning and how much I love your content. I'd watch one video every ten years from you! Take your time, your videos never disappoint.
@aoneal3723
@aoneal3723 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad someone else shares that fear of dying and leaving them. I feel like a crazy person sometimes, but it legit stresses me out. Never had a fear of dying until I had a kid, and now I think about every time I leave the house (like, what if there’s a mass shooting or a million other scenarios that are super unlikely). I’ve told my husband to make sure whoever he remarries is an awesome step mom
@elizabetha9630
@elizabetha9630 2 жыл бұрын
I've worked with so many children diagnosed with Autism and I still shocked when my nephew got diagnosed! It's so diverse. Thank you for talking about it ❤️
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@ndgomez
@ndgomez 2 жыл бұрын
Noah reminds me so much of my son who is autistic.. he's 5 and there's been a period where they questioned it but I always felt he was.. but like you said it is a spectrum and everyone is different.. I'm just grateful I can relate to you.. ♡ thank you for being so open..
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@leagsamsel
@leagsamsel 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing you talk about parental approval a little felt good. i don’t think it was ever intentional but my parents definitely pushed some narratives onto me and my siblings a lot like college and this and that and when I decided not to do that kind of stuff I was terrified to tell them I was terrified to hear what their response was because they always push this narrative on so hearing that you won’t do that to your kids really just I don’t know made my heart smile so thank you 🤍
@ECParks
@ECParks 2 жыл бұрын
Im a breastfeeding mom as well. Not an over producer to the degree you are but I've read when you want to cut back just slowly do it. Like cut back a minute or a few every week or so. But the key is doing it slowly so you dont get mastitis. Also sunflower lethicin is a God sent when it comes to clogged ducts. Taking 2 in the morning and 2 at night help me with bad clogs and one or two a day as prevention have been my saving grace. Kudos to you for donating so much, youre an amazing person for doing that.
@missKryssie93
@missKryssie93 2 жыл бұрын
I literally love your authenticity, the most real creator on KZbin honestly! Appreciate you and your videos so much ❤
@madeleines5738
@madeleines5738 2 жыл бұрын
I am a Student Occupational Therapist and hearing how you work with Noah is so nice!! I've seen so many parents who want their kid to "fit in" and "act normal" which I feel like can be so detrimental to the child. Adapt the activity and the environment not the child!!
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@estefaniachavez2358
@estefaniachavez2358 2 жыл бұрын
Get yourself a hand pump! So when you start weaning your pumps, you only pump a little bit. Enough to get some relief. Slowly but surely your body should start regulating the supply. I was an oversupplier and that’s how I helped regulate my supply while still feeding the baby enough.
@sarahhorne9285
@sarahhorne9285 2 жыл бұрын
As to the reducing pumping, I started shortening the pump session duration I wanted to drop by a couple minutes. I never got clogged ducts because I did it so slowly. Once your body adjusts to that new demand you can shorten it again until that pump session is dropped. Doing it slowly should prevent you from getting mastitis and adjust the oversupply.
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@hdypynitgof
@hdypynitgof 2 жыл бұрын
You're the realest, most entertaining KZbinr ever!! You and Kathleen!
@lee_yuhhh
@lee_yuhhh 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about your son and his diagnosis. As someone who works in the field, anytime a parent is open, receptive and unapologetically supportive of their child on the spectrum it goes tremendously far not just with the child but with every professional the child will come in contact with throughout their life. You’re a great mum, Jessi!
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@otka2845
@otka2845 2 жыл бұрын
My son was diagnosed with autism before he turned two! I was confused too because he had great eye contact and responded to his name but he had no speech and was regressing on his milestones.
@zuhasajid900
@zuhasajid900 2 жыл бұрын
Can i ask about his progress now i have a cousin who is 2 years old he does not really responds so just wanted to know
@whitwillie4052
@whitwillie4052 2 жыл бұрын
My eight year old step son is autistic he is nonverbal and completely assisted with everything… getting Mom to accept that he needs any type of therapy is painstakingly difficult and the whole thing is just insane… he does stem… he is so sensitive with sensory triggers is crazy. I hate it so much for him but need so badly to connect with parents who understand Anyhoo.. thanks for sharing ALL of what you do it’s always so appreciated!
@Conn3230
@Conn3230 2 жыл бұрын
upload whenever you want, its a great surprise
@bvavu
@bvavu 2 жыл бұрын
god u are such an amazing mom! i wish more people (especially parents) had ur desire and drive to be so supporting and caring as a parent. So many people overlook these key foundations to building a trustworthy relationship with their kids. I just want u to know u’re doing a wonderful job and ur kids will thank u someday. Wish u all the best💓
@goodygoodygumdrop4
@goodygoodygumdrop4 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God this beautiful gorgeous girl has gotten so big I feel like my best friend is showing me her baby after months of not seeing her and talking to her and I’m happy to see all of the progress
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@critiquingthetelugu
@critiquingthetelugu 2 жыл бұрын
I just literally, I swear to god, like literally thought of you and watched your old videos, missing you!! I see this notification! couldn't believe my eyes, but i'm so glad you uploaded a new video.
@Mel__21
@Mel__21 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how REAL you are! You’ve always be so relatable and funny💗 the “having kids especially in the first 2 years is just following them around and helping them not die 20 times a day” is on point 😂
@beccs5050
@beccs5050 2 жыл бұрын
My daughter is 3 and not talking, and we have no resources around here. Have to travel 3 to 4 hours, which is not helpful with me and my husband's lifestyle. So hearing about Noah is actually soothing to my soul.
@JessiSmiles
@JessiSmiles 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry 😔 I felt that way in California. It can feel so isolating. Sending you lots of love. 💛
@natasa3412
@natasa3412 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Jessi, Can’t remember the last time that I have watched your videos so I’m so glad that I, once again, stumbled upon your channel. Makes me so happy to see you happy and doing amazing! Wishing you a wonderful day ❤️
@Balxu
@Balxu 2 жыл бұрын
youre by far my favorite youtuber. I remember watching you on Vine too and being the only one in my class watching „english speaking“ media (Im german lol) and believe it or not watching you improved my english so much. I grew up with you and learned a lot at language wise the same time. So thank you for being you 💜
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@Skullbobby
@Skullbobby 2 жыл бұрын
I’m too excited for this Jessi and Joey video!!! I rewatch your older ones all the time lol!
@arlenbarba
@arlenbarba 2 жыл бұрын
You’re suuuuch a relatable mom it makes me feel like I have a friend 🥲 and you’re such a good mom, I love how well you explain everything!! And the structure thing about being a mom is SO TRUE!!!! I feel like if I didn’t have kids I wouldn’t push myself to be an even better person 🥹
@dogerogue6621
@dogerogue6621 2 жыл бұрын
Jessie you are positively glowing, you look so beautiful 🥺 So glad that you're staying positive and so far above everyone who tried to tear you down!
@magdelinaskouzina
@magdelinaskouzina 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jessie! I am an herbalist, doula, and just finished nursing my second daughter last summer. I similarly was an over producer and was pumping on a similar schedule to what you described at this stage! Best advice I have is sage tea. It’s super simple, and when made properly is super effective at reducing milk supply. A culinary herb so even if it doesn’t work for you, there is no harm done 🍷 Cheers mama ;)
@magdelinaskouzina
@magdelinaskouzina 2 жыл бұрын
And if you decide you’re loosing more than you want to produce for her to continue nursing, just stop drinking the tea. Increase with something like red clover blossoms or nettle leaf and you can restore until you’re comfortable. I went through mastitis with my first daughter (fever of 104.6 🥵), but with my second daughter I had it down with the herbs to tone down or boost
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@dominicidejig
@dominicidejig 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly autism isn't rare, and we're only getting better at diagnosing and helping people as time goes on. So many adults have no idea that they are on the spectrum because if you're not 100% high support as a child, you're probably going to just get pushed along as slightly weird. I'm 25 now and have realized only now all the signs that were ignored (or that i hid really well) from my childhood. And I was diagnosing/interacting with people professionally and still never internalized the similarities. Without the stress from quarantine I probably would've never started researching and analyzing myself as possibly being autistic. I'm so glad Noah has you, and that you and Nasim sought external professional help from the getgo.I'm a huge advocate for gentle parenting with all children, especially any being raised in America where these kids have anxiety at unprecedented rates. Plus, having a degree focused on the biological and psychological developments of people, yeah I definitely see it as the way to go, just a lot more effort since 99% of us weren't raised that way.
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@alex-hd9us
@alex-hd9us 2 жыл бұрын
Been watching you since vine and it's been a epic ride so glad to see you and your family doing well glad to know everyone is healthy and happy
@CTA--
@CTA-- 2 жыл бұрын
Bro its so fucking crazy i have been watching you for so long and now ur a whole matriarch love the growth
@Bettyangelus1210
@Bettyangelus1210 2 жыл бұрын
No but jessi is so real for saying shes a wee little woman when it comes to throwing out the trash bc same af i DO NOT throw out trash lol
@madisoncoakley7111
@madisoncoakley7111 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for always coming back! Lolo and sharing update about sweet boy Noah, I love you sharing with intent to help others it truly is such a spectrum! 💜
@Kaylee.lastname
@Kaylee.lastname 2 жыл бұрын
I worked with adults with developmental disabilities. One of my fav adults with autism had a SUPER specific diet. Not a healthy one, but it was the lunch he packed every day. A pack of brown sugar pop tarts (that id cut the corners off of), a bag of chips, two fruit roll ups, and a pop. We tried to work with him to eat a little healthier, but he would literally get sick. Next thing to do was embrace him for who he was and to cut those corners! Because otherwise he’d spend a whole afternoon picking them off to perfection. Seriously my fav dude.
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@lifewithlyric4461
@lifewithlyric4461 2 жыл бұрын
I can't believe Noah is 5, it feels like just yesterday you were announcing your pregnancy with him! I've loved watching your little family grow🥰
@luciaaaaaaa_
@luciaaaaaaa_ 2 жыл бұрын
I’m going into my 2nd year teaching and can tell you now that I already want to get out of the classroom as soon as I can. The low pay is just the brink of it. The amount of behavior issues, innumerable responsibilities and (unrealistic) expectations that are placed on you, money you end up having to spend yourself to provide for students whose families are unable to, hours you spend outside of school to plan and prepare, causes way too much stress and anxiety for it to be worth it. Yes, I end up whole-heartedly loving the students that I have, but I truly don’t see it as a sustainable job.
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@Ashleymarie5594
@Ashleymarie5594 2 жыл бұрын
Ive been watching you for over a decade and that's CRAZY to me. Thank you for still creating and not ever losing yourself in this
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@tacobella99
@tacobella99 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you’re talking about your son. I have autism and I wasn’t diagnosed until this year.
@jaidragehring4543
@jaidragehring4543 2 жыл бұрын
your fears as a mother resonate with me. i can’t even think about anything happening to my kids. i would die with them.
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@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@kelseyheuschkel3678
@kelseyheuschkel3678 2 жыл бұрын
I have a twin brother with autism and if I have a child with autism, I will definitely adapt to the gentle parenting technique. I do believe that is the right approach. Also, Jessi, I recommend rice blankets. These are blankets that have uncooked rice stuffed into the insides of the blanket. These blankets are heavier blankets that can be used to calm kids with autism down when they are having a big meltdown. I'm not sure what stage of autism my brother is in, but I'm pretty sure he is in stage 2 as well. My parents has a rice blanket too and this has helped my brother calm down, especially when he is tempted to throw or hit something. This is recommended for when people wit autism are teenagers, definitely not for kids Noah's age. Also this blanket is heavy but not too heavy to the point of making him feel suffocated, hopefully anyway. I dont know if this will help Noah in the future, but it helped my brother and I recommend it!
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@sarmstrong2009
@sarmstrong2009 2 жыл бұрын
I had a feeling pretty early on (like one in a half) that Noah had autism. I'm a special needs teacher in early childhood of course we don't see him a lot on here and it was just an assumption, but I would also say he has the perfect mom for this and he is so lucky to have his parent! He is a blessing!
@laverome
@laverome 2 жыл бұрын
Yay! So happy to see another video. I am also a ‘93 baby so seeing you grow up with me has been amazing. Thanks for sharing your life with us 🥰
@sonsons7
@sonsons7 2 жыл бұрын
Ms Rachel is amazing!! My friends son is non-verbal, and they always play her videos.
@maddybailey8121
@maddybailey8121 2 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about how I hope you upload soon! I hate kids, but I’ll watch anything from Jessie and enjoy it because I love her personality so much. It feels like catching up with a good friend. 💕
@JessiSmiles
@JessiSmiles 2 жыл бұрын
I love this 🥹🥹🥹💛
@mlextine
@mlextine 2 жыл бұрын
You look so so beautiful. You’re for real glowing! Excited to watch the vid. Much love to you!
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@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@kelseyburke7024
@kelseyburke7024 2 жыл бұрын
Ive watched your contest since the Vine days, and followed you ever since, and to see your growth has been such an honor. You’re truly such an amazing person, and you keep me laughing when I didn’t think it was possible. So so so happy to hear about you feeling happier & also getting to witness you talk about your family is so special because it’s so obvious that you love all of them so so so very much. ♥️♥️♥️♥️ Also, I really love how you mentioned the importance of early diagnosis when it comes to Autism Spectrum Disorder. It’s so crucial. I’m not a boy, so my perspective is obviously very different, but as a woman who got diagnosed as autistic at 20, it can be so freaking confusing and upsetting to learn how your brain operates so late in life. You’re doing amazing!
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@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@indigocarra2762
@indigocarra2762 2 жыл бұрын
You're the only person I don't skip ads for 💗💕
@Jerrica8123
@Jerrica8123 2 жыл бұрын
I love how open and honest you are with your life even though you have no obligation to be! Thank you for always just being real with us even when it can be so hard 💜💜💜
@lamb9770
@lamb9770 2 жыл бұрын
she's GLOWING
@chrishobann
@chrishobann 2 жыл бұрын
I WAS LITERALLY WATCHING SOME OF YOUR VIDEOS TODAY WISHING YOU WOULD COME BACK OMFG
@Localtumbleweed
@Localtumbleweed 2 жыл бұрын
Jessi! Your hair looks so fckn pretty, also I watch your new + old videos daily bc you’re the friend I NEED, and as a mom, u make me feel so understood. Big hugs from a stranger ❤️
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@GA-girl-Brooke
@GA-girl-Brooke 2 жыл бұрын
Commenting again because you have donated 9000 ounces?!?! You are superwoman! How incredible!
@mariasoldi320
@mariasoldi320 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to see Joey in your video!! Love when you two get together
@amkurthy6640
@amkurthy6640 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this while pumping at work. My little girl is a month younger than yours. Love Watching you and your family grow!
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@ma_kenz
@ma_kenz 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not usually a podcast gal, but I’ve watched every minute of “Do We Know Them?” 🙋🏼‍♀️
@alyawadia8777
@alyawadia8777 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so vulnerable with us and being so honest about parenting, we love you Jessi ❤❤❤❤
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@Madisita
@Madisita 2 жыл бұрын
“Queenie? Forget it! She can do whatever she wants” killed me lol
@user-hs2rj3cg8w
@user-hs2rj3cg8w 2 жыл бұрын
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@LO-xo4fx
@LO-xo4fx 2 жыл бұрын
Jessiiiii... I've been watching you since I was a literal kid (now 23), I remember the storytimes, when you announced you were pregnant and engaged, and it always is SO nice seeing your videos pop up in my feed
@chelseyfaye8778
@chelseyfaye8778 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who exclusively pumped for almost a year the rule of thumb both my daughters pediattician and my lactation consultant said if you can drive, youre good to feed. And the danger has NOTHING to do with alcohol content in the milk its more just dangerous because of dropping the baby. I got white girl wasted a few times and we always had the little strips that tests your milk and i never had to pump and dump!!! And beer with malt in it helped my milk supply a ton! And was recommended by my dr 🤣🤣
@alejandrabelmudez8525
@alejandrabelmudez8525 2 жыл бұрын
Please make another video with Kathleen! I stay rewatching your spelling bee videos 😂❤️❤️
@LaDimplez91
@LaDimplez91 2 жыл бұрын
My second child is autistic as well and he's the most beautiful boy. I cannot imagine him being anyone else. When you used to let us know about Noah's speech delay and then other behaviors, I had a feeling he was because my son was a lot like Noah. He's almost 5 now.
@rachelnaomilittleton
@rachelnaomilittleton 2 жыл бұрын
you just get MORE and MORE gorgeous every time i see you!! love seeing you again 🥰❤️
@kristenlakin1651
@kristenlakin1651 2 жыл бұрын
The bologna part had me dying😂
@lachiartistry
@lachiartistry 2 жыл бұрын
💗 I don't know how to word this properly, but even if I don't enjoy children that much, I still watched this because you're soooo entertaining! You could literally talk about accounting and I'd be like YASSS
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@CitH12
@CitH12 2 жыл бұрын
My 10 year old son is also on the spectrum, level 1. He mostly struggles with communication, following verbal commands and putting his thoughts together to be able to speak out loud what he's thinking. It's so hard being able to figure out something that works for your child to succeed.
@BaileyBlurbs
@BaileyBlurbs 2 жыл бұрын
Hit the nail on the head!!! Leaving a relationship now because I have to DIRECT EVERYTHING in the relationship. It’s like I’m raising a child. It’s exhausting and I’m done…
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