REACTION: Antifeminist vs Feminist Truth or Drink

Popular KZbin channel “Cut” pitted antifeminists against feminists in a game of “truth or drink” in which they ask each other difficult questions and must either answer or drink. Plus a Starbucks employee is fired after a viral video of him calling a customer transphobic, the Oscars diversity guidelines come under fire, and a hot take about men cross dressing. Let’s get into it.
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0:00 - Intro
1:29 - Are You Feminist or Antifeminist?
9:10 - Who Gets La*d More: Feminist or Antifeminist?
14:42 - Why Do You Hate Women?
18:46 - Define "Woman"
21:35 - Which Group Is More Racist?
26:18 - What Are Feminists Not Getting Right?
29:34 - Give One Compliment to the Other Side
37:05 - Bridgerton Actress Complains Coronation "Terribly White"?
45:40 - Actor Richard Dreyfuss Calls Out Oscars
51:20 - Superchats!

[@shakiragoofygal]

Petition for Amala to collaborate with Brett Cooper ⬇️

[@Ukhti.fantak45]

This duo just makes sense😭

[@joshuafielding7667]

Omg yeees!

[@pyrokatarina]

im still waiting for this crossover

[@skeezahpleezah]

that’s a power duo right there. they need their own show together

[@vivaaaaaaa]

@@skeezahpleezah for real. Queens 🙇‍♀️👑

[@Doomguy9OOO]

“Im anti fascist” “You mean anti feminist?” anti feminist, sorry. ME watching this video: there were no mistakes 😏😏

[@nathaniellufkin]

We all smiled when he said that

[@Baalaaxa]

@@nathaniellufkin "An honest mistake".

[@mutantdog]

amala and brett cooper are probably the only true "girlbosses" i've seen, they just spit facts and thats better then any TV show or movie girlboss could ever be

[@shakiragoofygal]

They need to make a video together

[@bytchesagainstbullshyt3696]

there is another one, Kali Fontaine, she is boss level boss, just wrote a Children's book, started a private school, without the woke BS, those 3 could rule the world, with Blair White as our favorite Trans 😂❤

[@kendallrivers1119]

Don't forget Lauren Chen.

[@bonnieee16]

Kellie Jay Keen is the queen of them all

[@cis_American]

oddly i watch them the most and it's not because i am attracted to them. They and then Matt Walsh handle topics so well with excellent articulation.

[@joylindadichamounix]

I am a 51 year old white woman. I would have loved to have been a wife & Stay At Home Mom but it never happened. As far as Feminism goes, I have a great deal of respect for women who are in non traditional roles. Pay inequality for me has always been between women. I have had that happen to me 3 times & all 3 times it was me pitted against other women.

[@frankcaggiano8282]

Most often men compete with men, women compete with women, white compete with white, black compete with black..... But nobody wants to recognise that, as humans, we all suck in our own time

[@queennefertery]

I believe all women have the right to do what they want without having to be labeled one thing or another. We are all people and have the God give right to our dreams. But with things the way that they are to day we do not get that choice. I am sorry that you do not get your dream, it is not right. Maybe in the future if people stop separating themselves and come together our children will now get that choice.

[@queennefertery]

@@frankcaggiano8282 that is because we were made that way. Because we fight for the survival of the fittest, to carry on our genes and to procreate. We have to remember a long time ago there was not alot of people on the planet so we had to populate the earth. But today that is not the case so we have to try and get past what was set in our DNA and grow together as people, (loving, caring and understanding for one another).

[@6422022]

I worked in private sector in nursing home and everyone male or female started at same wage and worked up. My husband was military and this applied to them as well. Now we are out of private sector and he works in dockyards. He negotiated his wage and makes more than other guys that were chiefs in military as well. Me unfortunately work for a group home and was offered $20 and hour asked if this was fair and I was like whoooopiiii yes easy job easier than a nurse aid. Then I find out couple years later a peer negotiated a $2 more an hour wage than me. I was like wtf!! but this was my ignorance not her fault or the company but I didn't negotiate and wouldn't have as that was not my style.

[@6422022]

@@queennefertery I live in the country and never had any problems with all this bs. Maybe this is a privilege city problem? No one cares in reality just these people that have no real problems, are entitled all of them of all races, and need to find a reason to be miserable.

[@NewYorkCityGritty5]

Amala, you are waaaay to intelligent and versed to be invited on most of these debates. You teach me things and I am 40. I'm stunned by the fact that you're so smart.

[@fatface9191]

I thought it was just me..she is amazing

[@NewYorkCityGritty5]

@@fatface9191 yes her mother raised an intelligent, free-thinking woman. She never gets mad, either. It is no wonder Prager University grabbed her up so well. 😂❤

[@TravelingGhost]

I was in Jamaica awhile ago. While I was grocery shopping, a little boy pointed at me and loudly said, "She's white!" I laughed so hard. Told him that, yes, yes I was. Another lady overhearing the interaction kept repeating the conversation and laughing to herself. It happens and it is innocent.

[@Baalaaxa]

That's funny, and wholesome. It's those innocent observations and remarks children make. We should learn from them. We're not born racist, we've been taught to be ashamed and awkward about the whole race thing, it's just stupid.

[@CassTeaElle]

Apparently when I was a kid I once pointed at a black man and called him a monkey 😬 my mom was of course extremely embarrassed, because nobody in our household would ever have said something like that about black people. It wasn't like I was repeating something I heard at home or parroting racism or something. I guess I just genuinely thought he reminded me of a monkey. I hope he wasn't offended. But if he was, I'm sure he's over it by now, 26 years later.

[@jonagreen7323]

​@@CassTeaElle when I was a kid I called someone a vampire.....it was a burn victim.

[@CassTeaElle]

@@jonagreen7323 oh no! 😬

[@annas4843]

@@jonagreen7323as a burn victim myself I wouldn’t mind it from a kid, it’s a kid. What I wouldn’t like is a hypersensitive reaction from the parent trying to pity me and virtue signal.. It’s a kid, just explain calmly someone had an accident and use an example of someone familiar so kid understands, simple.

[@verabolton]

M: "Define a woman" W: "A woman is who was born with a vagina" M: "Define a chair" W: "It has a seat and a back and four legs" M: "So a horse is a chair" me: *Yes, from the horse's perspective* And since you take my definitions literarily, women are those who were born with a vagina. You just proved my very point, thank you" Confuse them! Take their own weapon and turn it back on them 😂😆😂

[@dannydarkense5500]

But from a horse's perspective, it's a living animal. A horse doesn't think it's a chair, even when saddled. You kind of lost me on that last bend, because I don't understand how that's proving a point or turning their words back on them? I'm honestly not trying to be a dick or disagreeing with you for the sake of it. I genuinely don't understand what you're trying to say. Could you please expand a little?

[@verabolton]

@@dannydarkense5500 "you kind of lost me" - that's the goal. To confuse you 😂 From the horse's perspective he's a chair, because I sit on him just like I sit on a chair, hence the horse *feels like* a chair. And whatever we feel, we are - according to their logic. Therefore, a horse is a chair, indeed. The argument about the chair is so blooming idiotic, our answer shouldn't be less idiotic. This is how you use their own weapon and turn it on them.

[@shadesteel9247]

It annoys me that they use such dumb arguments and people actually act like their perfectly acceptable because they disagree with the other side. Amala actively shows critical thinking, while alot of the opposition tends to just blindly agree solely off of feelings.

[@johnroberts1873]

So many people are way too invested in their beliefs because they are in social circles that would pull their support at the slightest sign of independent thought. You are unlikely to win an argument involving logic. You can’t rationalize with irrational people. They will only change after most of their friends do.

[@Baalaaxa]

"Confuse them! Take their own weapon and turn it back on them". I like how you think, lady. 😈 I would've answered "And a woman can be a chair too", just to see their face. Also, a horse won't get offended of what you call him. If you want to name him Chair, go ahead.

[@tomlock5484]

I was speaking to someone who labels themselves as a feminist. We were having quite a relaxed conversation about it. I asked what rights men have today that women don't have. I never got an answer. I heard the usual rantings we hear from "Feminists" about a pay-gap, but nothing else. I'm sure there are other issues, but the very fact that she couldn't think of any and calls herself a feminist screams volumes. Let’s just clear up this imaginary pay-gap. There is not one single employer who pays a man more than a woman doing the same job. That has been illegal since 1963. It is true that men on the whole get paid more than women on the whole. The commonly regurgitated statistic for this is that women are paid 21% less than men. This may well be true, but it doesn’t take into account the disparity of hours worked by men and by women. On average women work 7.8 hours per day where men, work on average 8.2 hours per day. Therefore, the hours worked by men and by women accounts for 5% of the difference. A study conducted by The Guardian Newspaper in 2016 clearly shows that more women graduate from university than men, but fewer of these women apply for graduate jobs than the men. Also, female graduates who do apply for graduate jobs are far more likely to secure employment than men. So let’s just recap. more women are graduating than men, but more of those men apply for graduate jobs meaning that a portion of those graduate women are applying for lower paid jobs and are working fewer hours once employed. When all the relevant statistics are taken into account, we can see the real reason for the pay-gap and it has nothing to do with gender inequality. Rather gender equality of choice. To narrow the pay-gap further, we would have to take away a portion of women’s freedom of choice and demand they work longer hours in the jobs they are choosing not apply for. Feminists complaining about the “Gender pay-gap” want to take away women’s freedom of choice. Modern feminism centres on equality of outcome and ignores the equality of opportunity. Now let’s look at some of the social issues affecting men. 94% of work place deaths are of men. (This indicates that the jobs men work are more dangerous, on average, than those worked by women) 99.9% of deaths due to war are of men. 75% of suicides are men. 76% of murders are of men. 45% of domestic abuse victims are men (which we rarely to never hear about) Men serve 63% more prison time than women for the same crimes. 71% of Homeless people are men. There is also: Paternal inequality. Lower life expectancy for men. Child custody inequality. Child Support inequality. False Rape Allegations going unpunished. Criminal Court Bias. Social misandry in education and the media. Boys falling drastically behind in education (mainstream education is tailored for females). Alcoholism affects twice as many men as women. Infant Genital Mutilation affects 23% of men and 5% of women worldwide, yet FGM gains much more exposure. Men have little to no say in regards to reproductive and family planning issues. There is a huge lack of resources and compassion to male victims of domestic violence. Prostate cancer has higher mortality rates than breast cancer with a vast disparity of exposure. It's worth taking note of these to gain a balanced view, and not form opinions from what the majority of the media tells you to think. Feminism isn’t about gender equality. That movement already exists. It’s called ‘Egalitarianism’. Not every profession has been male dominated. 1. Child care services 94% female 2. Home health care services 89% female 3. Veterinary services 80.7% female 4. Social services 84.8% female 5. Educational services 75.4% female in elementary and secondary schools 6. Libraries and archivists 76.5% female 7. Accountants 59% female 8. Legal services 54% female 9. Employment services 53% female 10. Leisure and hospitality 51% female There are many professions dominated by men for which the inequality goes unnoticed by feminists. Building and construction Mechanics Sports Bathroom attendants Military personnel Logging workers Fishers Aircraft pilots and flight engineers Roofers Refuse collectors Iron and Steel workers Coal miners Truck drivers Farmers Landscape workers Power line installers & repairers Maintenance workers Police officers Fire Fighters Sewage workers Let me end this with a question. What rights do men have that women don’t?

[@rylanmalis1162]

Damn, you really did your research. Well done for breaking it all down.

[@chuiduma]

To the point about recognizing unfamiliarity vs. prejudice surrounding people who are different from you, the early parts of mine and my brother's lives were spent in a state with a limited population and pretty much no minorities in our very small town. Apparently when my brother was still very young, my parents took him to get a haircut. The woman who was going to cut it was black, and my brother freaked out and started crying saying he didn't want "the brown lady" to cut his hair. I guess the woman was incredibly sweet about it, saying she wasn't offended and didn't think he was saying it out of any kind of racism, because as she said, "he's right. I am brown." He didn't know she was black. He didn't know there were different races. I always think of how that woman really could have interpreted his words, and therefore my parents, as racist. But she didn't. She was understanding and sweet, ultimately cutting his hair. It would seem she also helped calm a fear that may eventually have developed into a phobia That day was also the day my parents learned about the "brown man" who tried to kidnap my brother from our rural, isolated property. My brother's first encounter with someone of a different race was unfortunately scary for him. If that woman had gotten offended rather than assessing the situation based on its surrounding context, it seems pretty likely my brother's fear would have remained or even evolved into racism. I admire that woman even though I never met her, and I'm grateful for her compassion and grace. I'm younger than my brother, so I'm sure if he had developed negative preconceptions from that encounter they would have influenced me to some degree also.

[@aliciac.5808]

What’s so confusing about feminism and the sexuality discussion in general is that between 2009-2013 when I studied sociology in college, we learned that sex was male female, biological binary, and gender was expression, endless ways to express yourself which doesn’t have to be based on sex. But now, that’s changed and nobody is explaining why. It makes more sense to me than the new rhetoric to be honest, it abides by biological facts and addresses gender norms and the need to accept people who don’t fit those boxes.

[@117Ender]

thats cause since the 2013, trans identity has become political, in 2014-15, gay marriage was legalized, so what do organizations who were built to fight for lgbt marriage win, they wont just pack up their stuff and leave. no its their jobs/careers, etc, so now a new goal is set, trans acceptance, that trans women are women, so the old rules that got them there, now hold them back from further progress. thats why they dropped their old views, its no longer useful to push/fund for their new goal. it doesnt matter, that it makes no sense, what matters is getting ppl to nod and agree, and than claim thats public support, instead of apathy

[@gilgameshkingofheroes5903]

I don't like that version of "gender" either to be honest.

[@yueyume]

I've just been getting increasingly confused about the whole sex/gender issue. I keep asking myself where does gender end and personality start, because a lot of the time people seem to confuse their own preferences for feminine or masculine behaviour/activities with gender which is such backwards thinking

[@reyasyaN]

​@@117Ender yup. They had to make a new victim group since the gay marriage thing went over pretty easily and black voters are starting to realize they have been mistreated by the democrats. Lol.

[@6422022]

in society we need to norms, this is how we base our society. sure there are others and in fact gay people were not fitting in a box yet did not mess with anyone they just wanted rights and be treated with respect and have rights like everyone else....they achieved that and life moved on until crazy people and ideology and government pressure to coddle mental illness for future voters, we are more messed up than ever and the kids are completely confused.

[@kelsi1380]

20:44 She should’ve said “If the horse identifies as a chair 🪑 🤷🏼‍♀️”

[@karencrutchfield6907]

My biggest frustration is that we have reached a point where I can't think of a right that men have that I do not. This was the original point of fighting for equal rights. We have achieved it! And just because I choose a life of more traditional feminine roles Does Not make me a lesser woman! Why do we put down people for making different life choices?!?! I do Not need to make the exact same choices you would to be respected! I respect your right to make your life choices, please reciprocate!!!

[@dannydarkense5500]

Should it be your biggest frustration? Wouldn't it maybe be better if it was one of your proudest achievements? (Genuine question)

[@Imiss80sn90s]

Did Women not have human rights? Are Women not human? It's gotten to the point now where Women can abort responsibility they actively partook in, violating the human rights of their own creation, their own blood..... and in turn allowing the Men to abdicate their responsibility for the act they partook in, this isn't helping either of the sexes, in fact, predatory or "toxic" Men & Women, abuse this AND the system that upholds it

[@johnroberts1873]

It’s frustrating to me that instead of celebrating huge wins activist’s keep distorting facts to push questionable agenda. It’s called identity politics I believe.

[@6422022]

I have never seen this in my life. Maybe people need to get off of tik tok and other devices and just live ones life.

[@Jinjetica]

@@dannydarkense5500 what's to be proud about with men hating feminists ruining the movement? among other nonsense...

[@drakependragon8439]

Wanting people treated equally isn't feminism its egalitarianism

[@Baalaaxa]

Exactly. I bring this up everytime I argue with modern feminists. I support equal rights, but I'm not a feminist. If they would really support equal rights, opportunities, treatment, etc. for everyone, then they should call themselves egalitarians, not feminists. But they refuse to see the illogic and inherent discrimination. It's in the name! Fem‧in‧ism. They assure me feminism is not discriminating, and I remind them that many feminists are discriminating against men, for example. Then they tell me "but those are not the real feminists". Ah yes, but those other feminists also assured me that they are the real feminists, and they hate men. Now you tell me you are the real feminists? So if they are not the real feminists, what are they? Who should I believe? Because definitions do matter. How could I support feminism, if they can't even agree what feminism is? I'll just tell'em that I'll let them sort it out by themselves, and will be waiting at the egalitarian table.

[@6422022]

@@Baalaaxa men are worse off than women and get the shitty end of the stick. They want equal rights yet then demand the man to buy them dinner or go to war and protect them....clean out the septic all kinds of dirty jobs that men do that women normally would not ever want to do.

[@Jinjetica]

@@Baalaaxa you can't control everyone in the same group though, and that's true of more groups than just feminism. You should take the people at face value, nothing more or less, and know that some feminists are hateful towards men, and others aren't

[@nflorencem]

Actually feminism got invented because pissed women wanted the right to vote in the late 19th/early 20th century. It's called the first wave of feminism. So it was born because wanting equality in society. Egalitarianism is a word usually used in communist terms. Like marxism is based on egalitarianism. There are so many basic internet sites like, history, yt, google or wikipedia to get informed about words, defeiitions and where they came from. So come on, get informed, educate yourself and stop waisting your time on unnecessary discussions and uninformed philosophy.

[@keithtjenkins2959]

I think it is interesting that the first question was not "Who has the best sex." According to all data - and I mean hundreds of surveys - the most satisfied with their sex life is the traditional wife OF A HUSBAND. This becomes even more starkly contrasted when the subset is "within their relationship."

[@mallorycarpinski1160]

Right? I was thinking about married people under those headings but I guess those people were thinking more single because they're always talking about dating apps etc.

[@GlucoseGuy]

One of the things I love the most about your content is that you are so open to hearing other people and being able to accept and agree with people without agreeing with everything they stand for. Social media has gotten people so divided that no one is seeing the common ground that they share. Not every conservative or liberal person shares the same opinions with every other person in that camp. We are all unique and varied individuals with many different values. Get out of your categories.

[@Dara-ih6jq]

I’m a 38 year old man and I work with underprivileged and marginalized kids. The one thing they all have in common in poverty. And they come from all walks of life. Black, white, brown, yellow you name it. The problem is instead of actually focusing on how poverty, marginalizes children they try to turn it into something racial and political, because the truth is poor, marginalized children come from all over the place from all different backgrounds, and if they actually cared about the children it wouldn’t be political and they would just be helping marginalized people where they needed to be helped and not only if they finish certain criteria or skin color.

[@LaraCroft36]

You guys always start your lives right when us Europeans are going to bed XD I personally love watching the show during my breakfast and when i get ready for the day. This podcast really became a part of my routine, thank you for that ^^

[@anonymouschickpea4271]

I recently discovered your videos and absolutely love your balanced and well thought out takes on the issues facing us ✌️

[@LetsChat75]

My mom grew up in the bra burning area, and she raised me and my siblings to respect others, men and women alike. I believe women have more rights today than men. The me too movement and believe all women have done harm to both men and women. If a man is accused of sexual assault, they are guilty until proven innocent, and in most cases, those accusations, even if proven false, follows them around for the rest of the man's life.

[@6422022]

if the woman is guilty of abuse it is still believe all women.

[@martynspooner5822]

Let the public decide, the box office will be the judge and the award shows will receive even less credibility than they do now. The only thing that should decide the cast of the movie should be what is required for an authentic storyline.

[@lovelyladyvalerie]

I agree with the sentiment that conservatives lean toward organic meetings vs an app

[@aaronlevitt6820]

I'm totally with Amala in that I couldn't care less about the royal coronation. I couldn't find any way to care. 😂

[@VariantAEC]

If I were British, I probably still wouldn't care.

[@pouringskyes6992]

@@VariantAEC I’m british and on top of that live in london, where the coronation happend. I can confirm I did not care

[@victoriarotter]

The Last Kingdom is an awesome series! Glad you are watching Taylor! 🎉😻

[@Baalaaxa]

The series was ok. Just stay away from the movie.

[@nelliehyder8303]

Nice video. Thanks for sharing. Amala, listening to you and Taylor is a splendid treat. 😊😊😊

[@BeeBlot]

The right to vote, get a bank account, credit card,work outside the home.

[@daniellefavreau1275]

The right to refuse to carry the « divine seed »… and not dying …

[@horror-core]

Yup we can dress the way we want. We have freedom of speech. We have the choice to marry who we choose. We're in the military, we're mechanics, construction workers, CEO'S of companies, business owners, we can choose to be independent or house wives, we can vote and so on. We have things pretty good here in the U.S.

[@ryanhall9877]

What kind of girl is on dating apps looking for hookups? Liberal, free love, my body my choice of girls or conservative traditional women? That is why there is such a discrepancy for conservative males.

[@VariantAEC]

Indeed most conservatives just aren't dating online. It's not because they don't know how to use the apps but because they want to meet people in the meat space.

[@MaMaeViElle]

Chair: an inanimate object with a back, a seat and 4 legs. 😂 There, we fixed it.

[@tourmaline7742]

It’s a seat designed for one person to sit on. Legs aren’t required. A beanbag chair is a chair. A wheelchair is a chair. Neither have legs.

[@tourmaline7742]

It’s a seat designed for one person to sit on. Legs aren’t required. A beanbag chair is a chair. A wheelchair is a chair. A swing chair is a chair. I’d even say a saddle is a type of chair, except most people don’t sit down while riding

[@MalinenCJ]

Regarding the curiosity about skin color. When my great grandmother lived in a home they got a new nurse, a black man. She was so fascinated by him that she asked if she could touch him and ran her thumb over his cheek to see if the color came off. He was super nice and the best employee they had.

[@ryandstailey]

Absolutely flawless appearance on that transwomen-women discussion. Love the content

[@lyleandrew6891]

I love that they ask if he is feminist or anti- feminist, and he claims "I'm anti- fascist (ANTIFA). I think he told the truth.

[@darksat6]

Regarding the dating apps. I think a lot of right-leaning women just do not use the dating apps at all, as we know it's mostly used for hookups. So the women that are there are often liberal.

[@nicolejobin4623]

Lol. You just mentioned telling you what we are doing while listening. I am turning a bridal gown into a modest one, building shoulders and sleeves for it. I am playing with lace placement . I often listen to your shows while I work late in my bridal alterations shop. I took a picture, but I'm not finding how to post it.

[@IlincaLirael]

I am a feminist because I want equality of opportunity, and equality of expectation in the sense that we will not believe that men can't be caretakers and women can't be mechanics, and that we should encourage women to study science, and men to be in touch with their feelings and feminine side. I think that helping both genders to be emotionally healthy and educated is what will help us come together as a species. I think that a lot of the American feminists in the media are more about men versus women.

[@joshuafielding7667]

Love this duo so much ❤

[@jimc.9465]

51:54 PREPARATION IS _THE KEY._ The more prepared you are, the easier it'll be to let go of what Amala calls "the rigidness of 'I can't lose this right now...".

[@jimc.9465]

Also, even if the questions you prepared for didn't come up, they will probably come up sooner or later. For questions you did *not* prepare for, they will be asked again, so prepare for them.

[@kyobear5453]

35:41 “Lets take a shot and I’ll give you all a compliment” ❤😂 my kinda person 😂

[@HippityHoppityLoppity]

Great episode!

[@trentzelazny7728]

Both of you freaking rock.

[@SilenTide]

That chat read was such a heartwarming break, I personally had a similar experience. The first black man I ever met or knew was when I was a young child. My mothers new husband. My sister and my self were so innocent we wanted to feel his hair. :) He obliged, while laughing. We didn’t think he was different because of his race, we were never taught that ppl were different or separate from ourselves.

[@mrwoody1413]

It’s always cringey to see a “man” who claims to be a feminist..

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

As cringe as redpill women

[@claff4573]

How is it cringe tho? Can you say why

[@rosedudesert4389]

What's wrong with feminist men?!?

[@daniellefavreau1275]

@@rosedudesert4389 If a man wants to be « feminists « it is easy . He just have to benefit from the fact that men now have more leisure time than their grandfathers …because they have just few children . To be feminist is first of all practice contraception instead of practicing a religion …

[@kendallrivers1119]

@@rosedudesert4389 Well for one they're normally the ones who are just saying it to try to get laid or are more misogynistic then any regular guy. Remember Joss Whedon? Yeah lol. A guy who genuinely supports women and respect them wouldn't call themselves "Feminists" they'd just be that. Male feminists are just trying to get credit or sex.

[@tabbyycatttt]

I love your content, Amala.♥️

[@SuspiciousTumbleweed]

I shave my head and stuff and ive been told i give off "pronoun vibes" or people think im a lesbian or that im a neo progressive/woke person. Im actually a straight woman and would consider myself relatively conservative. Im just bein me and existing. It kind of drives me crazy when people say stuff like that to me though. It makes me wonder how many people might write me off too quickly simply based on my appearance.

[@HarryBalzak]

People are writing you off and they should. We don't have the time or proclivity to get to know everyone we come across. We have to make discerning judgements based on appearance or we would waste tons of time and get into relationships with awful people. Present yourself to the world the way you want to be seen.

[@brielliott04]

I can honestly say that many people are going to avoid interaction with anyone who could possibly throw a fit in public and/or cause trouble for mislabeling you. I’m not saying it’s ok or who you are, obviously I don’t know you…but humans naturally judge each other based on first impressions based on looks. Obviously, I don’t know why you shaved your head and neither would anybody who doesn’t know you it’s not our business, but in the current times people are being especially careful to avoid being caught on film and losing their jobs, etc. or being labeled negatively ourselves. Unfortunately its just safer to make assumptions and it’s not fun for anyone really.

[@raversfantasy]

@@HarryBalzak life is too short to dress or act a certain way just because you wanna be liked. I’m not the original commenter but I’ll dress however I want. You want to put a label and judge me off the bat for that? That’s on you and I’ll be sure to avoid people like you.

[@alexanderrahl7034]

And now you feel a kinship with goths and the cultural fads that came before lol. I was once blamed for a shooting threat at my school a decade ago, questioned by cops and everything, for being the goth kid 😂 That, was a long ass story lol

[@HarryBalzak]

@@alexanderrahl7034 I miss goth kids. They went all emo. Then gay. Now Trans. Sigh...

[@darafarnsworth2718]

You guys could do a drinking game about the sources people use. Which source is more legit. Source Wars!!

[@blondegiraffe2023]

Ironic how there's one pair who the guy is feminist and the girl isn't haha

[@SaraDeux]

I laughed so hard when he said “ they’re busy with the consent forms” 😂 true!

[@annapuppy899]

19:43 - I think that they changed the definition to: woman = victim and man =opressor

[@bobbrown200]

Best part of the video!! Was when Amala explained how the inability to define what is a woman is in conflict with Feminism.

[@darkmaitri]

Thank you Amala! I love how you just state what is, without a bunch of jargon or political persuasion. I would be considered an old school feminist. I am not happy with the current iteration of feminism, the glorification of femaleness at the expense of men, as well as other women who aren't on the side of politicking as them. I first encountered this at college in a creative writing class. I had won a slam that year and a prestigious part in a big arts festival in Seattle, so I felt I had proved myself as a poet. But these two girls said my poem had elements of unequal power relations. Their solution? Why censorship of course! They felt that subject matter shouldn't be "allowed". I don't understand the new wave of feminism at all.

[@kdub3288]

As someone (white hetero guy) who messes around on dating apps, there is def a higher proportion of liberal/anti-trump women. Some literally put “swipe left if you like trump”.

[@dangelojenkins4296]

Amala saying, "If you're a rizz god," had me dead

[@Ghostalking]

A man has a set of sex chromosome XY whereas a woman has XX. Anomalies exist. They are rarer, out of the range of what we’d call “usual”, and should not be made to be as important (or more) or common as they actually are.

[@justin1497231]

Lol that one chat: why say lot word when few word do trick.

[@desertfairyjewelry]

I died at “all righty roo” at 1:14:00😂💀

[@shaynemay2572]

Just listening to the thoughts on taking kids to Hooters. Totally agree with you. I got into an argument with my in-laws nearly 25 years ago when Hooters came to my city in Canada. They would always take my two young nieces with them and I vehemently disagreed with them doing this and refused to go with them. I was never able to understand how my mother in-law could justify taking the girls there, and she constantly justified it when we spoke saying things like it was healthy for them to witness. My husband and I were the only ones in the family who disagreed with it so I always sort of felt like maybe it was just me being prude. It’s really fantastic to hear all these years later that I was not actually unreasonable in my opinion. Thank you! ❤

[@sina_lcs]

„No one goes to Hooters for wings“

[@shaynemay2572]

@@sina_lcs lol my thoughts exactly!!!

[@nphoenixcrimefighter]

Equality in the eyes of the law is it. No one should have to provide another person an opportunity. They should also not be allowed to get in your way and hold you back.

[@Jinjetica]

growing up, I was feminist, then all this other stuff got tagged onto it that I wasn't really aware of. A friend seemed to think negatively of them, and that's when I discovered that feminism had become more about hatred towards men and equity rather than equality, which I decided I was not really supportive of.

[@caitlinpowell9010]

I'm going to say this, if you have your initial views in a dating profile, that is an immediate turn off. Im sure most people would find that cringe. But saves time for women or men who cannot point out red flags when they see them.

[@alifiakapasi9746]

Amala, I'd love to see a reaction video to the documentary This Changes Everything. I just watched it the other day and curious of your thoughts

[@mallorycarpinski1160]

As far as historically inaccurate "color blind" casting, it adds to the lack of diversity in my opinion: the lack of diversity in thought. The more we try to make history be like us, the less opportunities we have to consider people who are unlike us, have/had different experiences and ways of thinking, which are much greater concerns when it comes to human needs than people who "don't look like me".

[@Michi_emmanim]

wowzaa, amala is dressed up todayyy!

[@ajcbodygenius]

Regulating agencies should never touch speech, and never touch art. When will we learn?!

[@runawaysarah26]

I swear, you take the words out of my mouth. 😁👍

[@roflstomplolmao]

Absolutely there are gay guys who aren’t on board with the frenzy - one of them right here ✨ It’s a shame that we’re painted in that same brush, it’s embarrassing

[@Baalaaxa]

It really is. It's also unhygienic, ewgh. Everyone should have their own brush.

[@michaellukasiewicz9683]

There was a TV show celebrity in the 50s/60s that had a flying car named Bob Cummings.

[@tinahochstetler2189]

"What is a chair?" It's a piece of furniture that is designed to be sat on, having a seat, usually four legs, a backrest and sometimes two arms. If somebody's definition of the word chair leads the person they are speaking with to think of a horse, that can be followed up with using the word chair in a sentence. And also compare the chair and the horse in definition and in use in a sentence. The horse is an animal. The chair is furniture. People think randomly asking someone to define a word is some kind of 'gotcha!' because most of us are not good at defining a word, especially suddenly and unexpectedly in a completely unrelated conversation. The great thing about conversation is that all the people involved have the opportunity to clarify what they are saying.

[@RoderickEtheria]

The questions they showed the answers for were mostly in feminism's favor.

[@lapris7380]

They typically are it is a pretty woke business after all

[@jcovent]

I was on the admissions committee for a university. They had "Access Initiative" where POC applications were in a separate piles to be considered differently. It was hella shady. Circa 1998

[@6422022]

In the Canadian navy women and minorities got a pass even if they failed yet regular guys had to work harder to get ahead. This also went for french people in the navy.If you spoke 2 languages you got ahead so the military made sure to push the french people to english courses yet my husband tried for years to get onto a french course and was denied. This meant that he couldn't progress in his career as fast as the french people.

[@DivineVirtue1999]

I’m going to start asking for truth or drink every video until you make one

[@virginianinperu]

I went to Peru to claim my wife long before this "passport bro's" phenomena. Typically, Latin women really are very traditional. Also, you will not find a LatAm women who will even answer to Latinx, My wife is greatly offended by it.

[@MihaiCirip]

A chair is anything that identifies itself as a chair, duh! That's the answer to be given to the word game peddlers 🤣

[@gailascari]

I lived thru the 1970s feminism movement. I am still fighting for equal rights, equal pay (made law in Minnesota), and total autonomy of our bodies, birth control. That's what it was all about. Now we just lost the last point, bodily autonomy. Back to the protests & demanding our rights AGAIN.

[@amaramzk]

When I traveled to Jaisalmer, India, all of the little kids wanted to touch me. They had never seen someone with my pale skin and were fascinated. Imagine harboring the mindset that those children were racist smh ..

[@yorotheporo934]

"I am the anti-facist... oh oh yea anti-femenist" comedy gold

[@soybeanis3035]

53:53 "I can promise you I'm not a member of the Illuminati (laughs in Illuminati)"

[@CassTeaElle]

Here's my compliment to feminists: I think that the desire to stand up against injustice and to stand up for what you believe in, because you genuinely want to help make the world a better place, is a good and noble thing to do. Just because I disagree with the outcome of their beliefs and I don't think they actually are making the world a better place doesn't mean I can't recognize and respect that many of them have good intentions.

[@midi_enjoyer]

1:11:50 i'm dead i love when they chat silly goofy haha conversations

[@lankyboy90]

On the whole "terribly white" comment. "terribly" is a typical british phrase to basically say "very" so it's not necessarily a bad choice of word (don't fixate on the terribly bit of the quote) What is just straight odd to me is that she's commenting on the royal balcony presentation, which is just the select inner circle of the main royal family and being like "Oh....they're all white!"... No Shit! That would be like going and witnessing a tribal ritual or display in somewhere like Kenya and being surprised at everyone involved being black. Of course they're all white love, the royals have been Anglo-Saxon Caucasian for over 1000 years! It's not like we vote for who the royals are and who each one of them marries!

[@domdom3938]

When I saw that actress go on about the royal balcony being terribly white, I really chuckled thinking back to the commentary about being able to say absolutely anything about white people without repercussions. Also to mention, it's an English monarchy. I would be shocked to see the balcony be with anything but white.

[@GarfieldAllen]

Amala and Candace should do something. Amala and Trump should do an interview on topics that matters broadly.

[@CassTeaElle]

Talking about kids being curious about stuff they havent seen before always reminds me of a hilarious moment my dad had in a public restroom. My dad wears an ankle brace to help him walk, because he has no feeling in his left leg. So anyway, he was in a bathroom once and there was someone in the stall next to him, so he was kind of waiting until that person left so he could do his business. But the person was taking a really long time. So long that eventually the kid's mom popped her head in the bathroom and yelled to him to hurry up. A minute after that, my dad sees a tiny little kid hand slip underneath his stall. The kid slowly reached out, touched my dad's leg brace, and then pulled his hand back and left the bathroom. 😂 We love to laugh about that story, thinking of the time a little kid thought he was in a bathroom stall next to some kind or cyborg or something 😂 he just couldn't let his curiosity go unexplored, but he had to take his time to muster the courage

[@user199x]

Every question is predictably loaded

[@Virgomamatoacapricorn]

I’ve been watching you guys all day for like a week maybe and this is the first time I heard her talk about old feminism and to hear her admit if we had adhered to the proper meaning she would have been one was so satisfying. I wish we didn’t reject feminism because a bunch of people confused female superiority with it though, take back what was. If people wanna change definitions they should change racial slurs or profane insults lol not something that was meant for the betterment of us all

[@jademat31]

It was Harry and Meghans kids birthday so Harry left straight after the ceremony too.

[@faithinjesus7817]

What is the difference between a feminist and a knife? A knife has a point.

[@nocturnal1507]

he was referring to Christians specifically when they try to force their way of life on everyone.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

They Christians still are doing that

[@nocturnal1507]

@@wyleecoyotee4252 Who cares? So called trans gender individuals do it just as much, only difference is that the trans gender individuals pushing their trash ideology have the gov and media backing them. Could you imagine if Christians had the support of gov or media to push their garbage ideology

[@YukiLuvsJesus]

I don’t try and force my life on anyone, if it comes up in a convo, I tell about it, you have free will I truly do not give a crap what you choose, I just pray you live eternally in heaven at some point

[@ReiShs]

​@@YukiLuvsJesus I met a lot of Christians that do force their views on other. Also, no abortion law is very much influence of the conservative Christians. I live in the country where I am forced to pay taxes part of which is used to pay to the church despite me not being religious. There are quite few laws here that were forced by the church and are rather questionable from modern view of things. And it is middle of Europe.

[@nocturnal1507]

@@YukiLuvsJesus I am already living in heaven, heaven and hell are nothing more than states of mind and yes I am eternal, this body may die one day however what I am a soul will exist forever

[@emilyfernandez378]

A chair is a piece of furniture that was designed with the intent to be used as a seat.

[@k.stacey7389]

Um, Queen Charlotte was absolutely a real person. And she wasn’t black, no matter how much people want to try and claim she is because a great-great-great ancestor might have been part black or whatever nonsense they are trying to dig up.

[@savanahburns5812]

My friend just went through a break up because of politics. They never even HAD that talk officially. She just guessed off of certain things he had already said. She was willing to F- a conservative but not date or marry one. And there was no conversation. So I think the question isn’t, who is getting laid, it’s who is getting married.

[@mckennamclaws146]

Didn't even realize that I wasn't subscribed!

[@queennefertery]

I am neither one because that is the problem with this world everyone wants to label you. I will wear what i want and do what i want and if you do not like it that is your problem.

[@DgardsGaming]

I remember when i first found out Meghan Markle was "Black" cause of the cries in media as before, not once did i look at her and think she was black, i would thought she was white.

[@isaac_da_pirate7890]

The horse and chair comment… He thought he was hitting her logic, but in fact, if he conflates the two to be the same, his logic would be that if you can’t find a woman and it’s open for judgment

[@jamie1224]

You're wrong. People could say terribly egyptian in regards to the new documentary coming out. They just can't say that Cleopatra looks 'terribly black'.

[@Kitty-ts7jx]

An Amala and Brett collab would be awesome

[@SavageShooter93]

Love your channel! The only people that have "trouble" defining words are people who want to use shifting definitions to claim to win arguments. What is a chair? A manufactured object designed for one person to sit on. Stools are a subcategory of chairs, Seats are chairs/stools attached to other objects, saddles are seats designed to be placed on animals. Chairs/Seats designed for multiple people are benches or couches depending on their material and use. Racism is the belief that peoples ethnic backgrounds give them certain inherited character attributes. This typically manifests as a believe that the other group is inferior in intelligence, ability, and have low moral/ethical standards with other negative character attributes and personal habits. A woman is a female homo sapiens with an XX chromosome and the capacity to produce eggs, a man is a male homo sapiens with an XY chromosome and the capacity to produce sperm. The actual ability of an individual woman with an XX or man with an XY chromosome to actually produce eggs/sperm respectively is not a determining factor of their sex. Individuals who are born lacking the ability to produce eggs/sperm through birth defects or lose the ability through disease, accidents or hormonal changes such as menopause are still male/female as their chromosomes dictate.

[@tompohl3584]

That chair-horse word play is the same way AIs get programmed. Did we, as humanity, degarded into a bunch of soulless machines who can't tell difference between an orange circle and orange fruit?

[@Freggenangela]

I always enjoy your content. Also wanna say I love your tatts especially the one on your forearm.

[@christinaadams4187]

I’ve seen those earrings. They do exist! I told my friend that at least I’d know who to avoid if I saw someone wearing them 🤷🏻‍♀️.

[@kerrylewisRN]

I’m subscribed!

[@edgarwhite9439]

Usually the reason people get triggered about something is it’s something they feel insecure about.. or something that makes then feel inadequate.. Why would anyone feel this way about the color of Anybody’s skin? Or the equipment between their legs? This whole racism and battle of the sex’s argument is (in my opinion) confusing and meaningless, considering there’s literally nothing anyone can do to change it.. Just because a doctor can chan your outward appearance doesn’t mean they can make you a better person.