Reacting to the Viral "Random Man In Atlanta" Controversy

A woman’s story of being abandoned 30 days postpartum by her baby daddy, a “random man in Atlanta,” has become a massively viral TikTok story with as many as six other baby mamas being discovered and the random man himself emerging to defend his name. We’ll go down the rabbit hole and discuss what this story says about the state of our culture as it relates to dating, parenting, social media, and more. Let’s get into it.
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0:00 - The Random Man in Atlanta
26:00 - Tough Love from a Radio Host
30:21 - Carlos Santana Pulls a Ne-Yo
38:20 - My Most Uncomfortable Watch of The Week
49:35 - Superchats!

[@jennafairbanx]

I swear if anyone ever calls me “lame” for waiting til marriage - Imma just refer them to this situation 😂

[@nosywendigo592]

I call you being smart. Get to know the guy first. Ask around. Research him, check his socials. You'll be surprised to find out.

[@angeloliver4487]

You’re not lame lol it’s literally worked for centuries and these times are the times with the highest single parent rate and divorce rate

[@Aiveq]

there quite a number of women that will ride around and then wait till marriage. how we know you aint one?

[@suzybearheart530]

Girl!!!! I was adamant about waiting, and I had men shame me big time. I even had one man tell me I was "creepy" for not sleeping with men by the third date. Creepy!!!! He was the creepy one, gaslighting me into sleeping with him. I am so glad I'm married now and not dealing with dating anymore. Trust me, any guy worth it will wait until you're both ready and committed.

[@nihilistcipher]

What are you talking about ? You’re pregnant in your pfp, and your one video is of you with a child. It says you’re a “mama” in your bio. Can’t be a mother and a virgin, lady.

[@rockpaperscissors.]

Women also need to take more responsibility for their reproductive health. Stop sleeping with losers, use protection, be in long-term, committed relationships before sleeping together. Men and women need to do better.

[@SonQuay.]

They cant because pookie isn't a loser...hard working man is the loser

[@DZ-eu4pj]

Maybe men should stop being manipulators.

[@angelmika2010]

I call accountability on both him and the mothers. They knew this man had multiple kids and they knew he wasn’t taking care of the other kids. So why did they think he would be different for them. Stop messing with these men that can’t handle their own and stop laying with women and abandoning these children.

[@claff4573]

Crazy how men like this can thrive in society at all. Dead beats are normalized and treated like humans when it should be the opposite. He can do this to 7 women but it's still their fault according to society.

[@och70]

Baby momma numbers two, three, four, etc., probably thought "It'll be different this time, he'll stay with me." Nope.

[@YasminYoruba]

I don’t think they all knew think about it. Who is going to say they have 7 baby mothers!

[@tracypolselli1464]

Women always think “I’ll be the one he marries and stays with”. Dumb and no pride whatsoever.

[@sondradee4640]

I can't dog on just him! It's the women who need to stop having babies with men who have 6 other baby mamas.. Nope he's not entire at fault . Takes 2 to tango..

[@williamcavalier]

Isn't this how idiocracy started? No accountability, no shame.

[@dionthomas5418]

Yes it is, idiocracy continues as long as they're is no accountability and no shame

[@fxfxwc]

The movie "IDIOCRACY" has actually turned into a modern day documentary.

[@kindauncool]

Who isn't taking accountability here? The random man not paying child support, right? Not the woman who is taking care of her child and working a full-time job and selling merchandise to provide for the kid, right?

[@SkillShoe-f11]

How a grown ass man knocks a woman up and bounces then does it several more times to other women and not be filled with such shame to the point they unalive themselves is beyond me.

[@juliekring7574]

We need to shame these people smh

[@joeladams2540]

true but women control access to sex

[@darrennicholson5151]

The women keep letting him do it

[@orbitronviktoriusii6325]

​@@darrennicholson5151he isn't a child how are you still blaming women?

[@ViolosD2I]

For him it's a winning evolutionary model, if they neither deny him nor hold him accountable.

[@Professional_Idahoan]

That mom putting her “trans” child on blast is disgusting. Shame on her for exploiting. Clearly she’s doing it for her own personal gain and attention.

[@Sunny_Day976]

I totally agree, also there is some degree of having more control over the kid as he's dependent on you for the hospital visits and all.

[@aptadpamu]

Munchausen by Proxy on full display!

[@jill7759]

This growing phenomena of multiple parents displaying these children in “transition” is disgusting. For whose benefit are these parents subjecting their children to these medical interventions? Call me a terrible cynic but this is a parent wanting attention for themself and the financial gain that comes from getting the child to become popular on social media. Transitioning these young children is horrible and blasting it all over social media isn’t for the child’s benefit!

[@youstew99]

@@jill7759 ...and by "parent" you mean the Mother right? Because like she said, 98% of the time it's the mother, not the father pushing this nonsense.

[@jill7759]

@@youstew99 I’m not so sure I would make that generalization. I’m not really aware of any instances where the father is pushing the trans issue and the child’s mother is protecting the child, at least not in the legal sense. I have, however, seen plenty of videos of both parents, when said parents appear to be still together (not going to say it’s a happy marriage, I can’t know that) in which both parents are touting their trans child for their success at becoming the opposite sex. And I believe it was a man who testified before some congressional committee about his trans child who, according to him, had nightmares at 2yrs old because of gender dysphoria. When it’s a couple who are no longer together it does seem to more often be the Mother who is pushing the trans issue and maybe that has something to do with her own feelings of inadequacy but there are plenty of couples where the Father is happily participating so I’m not going to simply assume it’s always just the Mother.

[@nightshadehelis9821]

Does anyone else immediately judge anyone who says the phrase "my baby daddy..."? I don't care. I do.

[@username-xf9sb]

And baby mother. Its sad that the terms BM and BF have replaced husband and wife.

[@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq]

The problem is that the term Baby Mama Baby Daffy sounds sexy. If sound cool. Like kingpin , druglord, mastermind, sniper, pornstar, etc. Terms that glorify what's wrong make the wrong more acceptable and therefore more possible. BTW I'm not reaching.

[@stephaniephouotrides2435]

Yup. A giant capital L

[@nah7656]

it's trashy to me.

[@giretmercedes]

I do it and I am a product of wet luck. Is just not the right thing to do and 99% of people can willingly prevent that from happening.

[@gabeo9474]

The real problem is that people are choosing to have children before they even know how many kids the other person has.

[@mindingmybusiness6309]

People also lie about the amount of children that they have. You have to do a background check on them

[@beligoj0010]

The problem is people having kids with everyone these days lol it’s not a pet like… how…

[@angelackerman7865]

He can lie about it , what’s she supposed to do hire a private investigator? 😂

[@angelackerman7865]

@@beligoj0010there’s one certain demographic where it’s a positive thing in their culture

[@gabeo9474]

@@angelackerman7865 I mean, sure, that would be a better option than the one she chose. Of course, it would be a lot cheaper to just talk to/date the guy long enough to figure out that he's a liar before having his baby.

[@QueenieEileenie]

Omg the “trans” child was so painful to watch. What a narcissistic mother. Someone save that poor little girl!

[@roralyn]

Ikr! It looks like a hostage situation...

[@Jippohippo]

The mother should be imprisoned

[@greatbutler]

Lie down with dogs.... wake up with fleas. This applies to both of these people. Poor babies.

[@ladyk7317]

Real talk 💪🏾💋

[@emileepotvin7357]

I hate how the guy called the victim of domestic violence "stupid." It's difficult to leave that kind of situation... you've been manipulated into thinking it's all your fault.

[@diy_cat9817]

25:59 Given the fact that one of his kids was born 8 days before the other, it's likely he was knocking girls up rapid fire. It's not like he had a 5 year old and a 3 year old and a 10 year old and a 7 year old, etc. I mean. Maybe he did. But the fact that two of his kids are 8 days apart makes me think he's a serial impregnator. This is EXACTLY why it pisses me off when people say stuff like, "with a son you only have to worry about one penis. With a daughter you have to worry about a lot more," and I ALWAYS say, "your son could impregnate a new girl EVERY DAY theoretically but your daughter can only get pregnant with one person's child at a time. So wild.

[@claff4573]

Society. Where men aren't held accountable and can do this to countless people and still be the victim of "child support."

[@Letycs]

That and it's so easy to say 'you should've known better/known the signs' when you're young and stupid. We've all been there and it seems disingenuous to say they should've been smarter than they were. Should've, would've, could've. The mothers get less flack because it is what it is, you can't rewind time and save yourself from making that stupid decision as much as they probably wish they could, for whatever reason it happened and there's no point in continuing to shame them for something they can't change. However on the flip side, these fathers CAN change. They CAN step up and be the father they should've been. The mother can't put the baby back, unsleep with the guy, go back and tell themselves not to make such a stupid mistake. Making the mother feel like trash for the rest of her life for the choice of another person. It's like shaming a rape victim for the clothes that they wore, saying that's the reason they got raped instead of saying they shouldn't have been raped irregardless?? Or like Amala, she was liberal once.. don't you think she looks back and regrets some of her choices? Or do you think it would be okay to shame her for the rest of her life for it? Everybody makes mistakes and stupid decisions and yet everyone wants to put this much more aged, much more wise thought process on it when in reality that's not how it was processed. Also it's very easy to say shit when you've never been in the predicament. My mother has this kind of guilt to this day for trusting my father. They had been in a relationship when really young and were together for years before having kids, yet he still cheated. And instead of him getting flack for being the piece of shit he was, everyone gave my mother flack. For what? For loving him? For wanting a family? God forbid she commit the sin of trusting someone, how dare she? But yeah, no, let's blame the mom.

[@TheNinjapancake14]

I appreciate Morgan sharing her story because if I didn’t have friends who already went through the dating game and heartbreak for me to see, I would be in the same boat. I was sheltered as a kid, which might be seen as a good thing… except it means that I never saw or experienced the good examples of dating either. Being sheltered from the world would still give the same result if I never saw the consequences of other people. A lot of kids are unfortunately raised by the internet, so Morgan is hopefully educating some young people out there!

[@stefanienaranjo4477]

Yes exactly. You have to worry about both. A woman can only get pregnant once a year a man can impregnate a million every year. But its always on the woman. Men need birth control too😅

[@gabeo9474]

This is not all that uncommon in poor areas. Basically, any community where the terms "baby daddy" and "baby mama" are the norm will have guys like this.

[@bluesun876]

Which is nuts. You should have less kids not more if you do not have the means to provide for them. Bless.

[@udderlylost1178]

The clip with the mom and her "son" is chilling. All i could think of is those sick mothers who get JEALOUS of their daughters when they become teens because they're developing while the mothers are aging and becoming "less beautiful" so they become jealous and their self esteem drops even further than it was before. I wouldnt be surprised if a delusional woman like this would transition her daughter to be more masculine to make herself feel better about herself. Part of why i hate the trope "having a daughter steals your beauty" such bs that scares women when it comes to having a girl.

[@emmawilliams8119]

I was chilled for a slightly different reason. The mom kept talking about how “hot” her daughter was going to end up being, and comparing her to her father. It just rang all the alarm bells imo

[@fruitytarian]

I was always creeped out by that saying too 😬

[@ladyk7317]

Wow that's wild but true 🤷🏿

[@glowup978]

Women stop giving your divinity away that easily. Save it for a man that will take care of you and marry you

[@veriteetfeu]

They’re both responsible. The difference is Morgan actually rose to the occasion, and I am loving her approach to dealing with what is certainly a difficult situation. It’s a messy situation, which is another consequence of her decisions, but I love that she admits that she chose horribly and how she’s using her story as a cautionary tale.

[@mindingmybusiness6309]

Indeed

[@Wildflowers2022]

Morgan is a clown and she needs to stay off of social media and make better choices.

[@Dove.Love.]

She's using her story to make money...don't be naive

[@cutiexoxoxo1]

@@Dove.Love.either way positive out of a negative. That money is gonna help support the child so who really cares

[@Dove.Love.]

@cutiexoxoxo1 correct, but this will also be online forever. I can't imagine this child seeing how ridiculous her parents are when she gets older. How embarrassing for that child. The child will know she was not wanted by dad. But yea, for now she will be taken care of financially, I guess that's more important.

[@Efalonda]

Love it how the sentence "maybe she should take accountability" is dropped. I think she is taking accountability by literally doing everything by herself. That is max accountability.

[@hide3reptiles365]

Max accountability means to bear the responsibility of your choices while taking moral ownership for them. Not treating them like a disease that landed on you while you had no agency yourself. Not commodifying your toddler into a billboard for your grievances against the person you chose as their father, without them having any say in being the child of either of you two.

[@Efalonda]

@@hide3reptiles365 No. That is not what accountability means. Accountability concerns one's own scope of actions. Accountability is great. When applied correctly. The way you redpillers use the term accountability leads: nowhere. Thought Experiment: Scenario 1: Mother takes accountability for full Situation ( her own and fathers actions) = Outcome: Mother cares for child and father is absent. More fathers follow course because there is no Standard of behaviour for them. No accountability for fathers= more absent fathers. Scenario 2: Mother takes accountability for her own actions and father takes accountability for his own actions = Mother takes care of child and father takes care of child. This is accountability applied correctly. You demanding people (Just because they are women) to take accountability (but really- what you want is for them to take BLAME) leads to the father not having any outside or internal instances of control. Situation continues. More fathers follow course since there are no consequences. No even an idea about maybe talking accountability for him. Scenario 2 would be the solution. But redpillers don't care about an actual solution. That is why redpillers want scenario 1. Because it is not working and it harms women and children. Why is it not working? Because we live in a universe that is governed by the laws of physics. Not of magic. People cannot see into the future. People are not mind readers. All you care about is to place blame on and harm people with 2-X chromosomes. And of course you have to throw a misuse of the word 'moral' in there. Morality are principles that should lead to GOOD. What you demand (Person takes accountability for the actions of another and fatherlessness continues because one party is left with none) is a BAD outcome. Especially for children. So you stance is A-moral.

[@TakinLifeInTheAss]

………………I mean she does need to take accountability…the man is at fault as well don’t get me wrong, but to ONLY say the man is at fault and to completely disregard the women’s responsibility is why a bunch of women are walking around pregnant and confused on why they’re in the situation they’re in…she allowed a random bum in Atlanta to sleep with her and to impregnate her…she knew and SAW the signs and she admitted in her video she ignored the signs….this is of her own doing…y’all kill me saying “oh well her taking care of the baby by herself is her taking accountability” no…that’s the consequences to her actions….her taking accountability is her saying “I FUCKED UP BY DOING THIS, I slept with a man I didn’t really know that well, i started dating a man I didn’t really know that well, I knew he had kids already by other women, I ignored the red flags AND I WILL NEVER LET MYSELF BE PUT IN THAT SITUATION AGAIN.” That is taking accountability but y’all love to play the victim card when half of y’all don’t be fr victims…y’all literally put yourselves in that situation to be fucked over…also every situation is different but in this situation SHE IS AT FAULT AS WELL….and until y’all start holding women accountable(not all situations but situations like these) women will continue to sleep around with random men and letting those bums make single mothers out of them period…

[@leabee8101]

THANK YOU! a lot of women recognize their mistakes and take care of their children the best they can alone despite the fathers lack of activity. but it's like when they say "it's your turn now" to the man it's just a list of excuses why they shouldn't have to ultimately ending in "well you let me fuck so" like that doesn't work both ways.

[@keller109]

@@TakinLifeInTheAssOP never said that “only the man is at fault.” Do you not read?

[@mack191]

And he doesnt pay for any of them.

[@youstew99]

So long as a woman can abort a child a man should absolutely have the right to abandon it. It's fair. If they abolish abortion though the man should pay up.

[@angelackerman7865]

@@youstew99Roe v Wade Was rescinded. Then what genius

[@Dc-kk9bd]

It's called Black privilege. White men go to jail for that. Black people don't to meet quotas

[@EpoRose1]

Look at that mom’s body language as she’s trying to make her daughter talk- constantly fixing her hair. She doesn’t even care what her kid is saying; she’s too busy looking at herself in the camera and making sure she looks good.

[@1138pratt]

You have to understand how sickeningly pervasive this BM/BD culture is. There's women who *think* it's a complement to say "I bet you got a lotta baby mamas!" When it's said to me I'm not the least but flattered. It shows the mental deficiency of how hood mentality works.

[@mafiawaffle1386]

The fact that some women want to find men with 'hood mentalities' makes me sick.

[@sammiinneb8642]

My cousin was dating a guy that had 9 kids and 7 baby moms. A there is 2 set twins. All of the children were under that age of 5 and there was a girl that was pregnant(I didn't count her with the others cuz I don't know how many she had) He was only 20 years old. My cousin was 18. I told her drop him cuz he apparently doesn't understand responsibilities. Of crouse she didn't. She had a pregnancy scare and he bounced out of their relationship. She was shocked that he broke up with her for thinking she got pregnant. We got into an argument. Mainly cuz I said "How are you shocked by this? He did that to all those other women. Why did you think you where different?"

[@murphychurch8251]

Whoa, these stories are wild. I just can't wrap my head around how there are so many people who just don't even think of birth control and also safe sex to prevent disease, apart from having piss-poor judgment of character. Some people, also here in the comments, blame this behaviour on birth control, but apparently birth control isn't involved at all with such people 🤯

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

I have such a hard time believing he actually told any of these women he had all these damn kids. Ain’t no way. Agree about the way he treated her in the beginning, not taking her out on a date and just driving her to the hood to sell pharmaceuticals told her all she needed to know about the type of man he was

[@nonapplicable3055]

I really think women are delusional about the decision making abilities of other women. This story is as old as time. 60% of women are in a relationship or married. That number is 30% for men of the same age demographic. No matter the society, women will always share men.

[@ladyk7317]

Real talk 💪🏾💋

[@arlenedorego1277]

Yes she was foolish but she took accountability. She's taking care of the kid

[@bluesun876]

She is not taking accountability for the fact that she put herself & her child in this situation. Instead she went on the internet & complained. Was he wrong to leave her high & dry, absolutely. But she is at fault as well

[@soundknight]

Why on earth would a man look at him and think he's sanitary to have a baby with??? I blame the girl just as much, she clearly made a terrible decision.

[@PatheticHero]

A good woman would never think of him as a good man. But keep in mind only a stupid woman would want to have sex with him. However, there is never a shortage of stupid women. In fact there is an endless supply...

[@claff4573]

You never blamed the man. If women were to leave their children at the rates men do there wouldn't be any of this it's the man's fault stuff.

[@2amichaelj]

@@claff4573women control the entire sexual landscape. Unless it's r@pe, women have the absolute power when it comes to sexual partners. Men can do better but players wouldn't be players without women saying yes it their bs.

[@texasfuneral4787]

​@@claff4573funny when it's the women's decision to have a child and a man has ZERO say in it 🤔

[@mindingmybusiness6309]

He looks dirty though

[@abi_nspired]

Social media has given people incentive to behave poorly because then they might just get monetary benefits right along with those consequences.

[@jhawkkw87]

Even if it was plausible that she was completely in the dark, she still had unprotected sex while not on birth control with him. Who would have thought you can get pregnant from unprotected sex? /s 🙄 Accountability is kryptonite for so many people these days. This is the result of loosening standards to have sex with someone; you're more likely to get intimate with someone before you're able to identify that they're not a good person and that you should leave.

[@3self]

Yes, and it honestly goes both ways

[@mattm7378]

But poverty and melanin and...slavery...or something.

[@Jay-xh6py]

You on it. Bravo

[@dalubuhlengwenya7188]

But she was accountable. What do you want her to do

[@shoestringfries3418]

@@beehive93men need to wear condoms. Women need to use one of many options available to them for contraception. Tracking your period is the least you can do. But if a man says “I don’t have a condom, is that okay?” The woman needs to say “no. It is not. Go get one or leave.” And if he says “I’m too big for a condom.” Or “I can just pull out.” Or “I’ll support you if you get knocked up” (and he’s not someone you can trust without ignoring all the red flags…) or any other excuse a man can give for not being responsible for his part of the equation… where does the girl boss go? Why is she no longer a strong feminist before she needs an abortion or a man to send her child support? She only gets to be a feminist when she’s having the shady one night stands? If you want to “do what you want like a man” and you want men to take accountability, why don’t you take accountability like a man?

[@houstonmacgirl]

She’s taking responsibility. She’s raising the baby 😐

[@awsambdaman]

Responsibility for her choices in men

[@hlynna2003]

For the mom making her daughter tell her story of transitioning and taking T, that looks like straight up child abuse. That is the most uncomfortable testimonial I have ever seen. That child doesn't want to do this. She is trying to make her mom happy I bet in the majority of these cases, there's no dad.

[@ladyk7317]

Children need their Dads now more than ever 🙏🏿🤷🏿

[@kimberly_cristina]

Then, why did Morgan have a baby with a man that had nothing to offer her and 6 other kids…she’s def at fault too.

[@mione134]

She didn't know he had any other children until he left her

[@3self]

Yup. At the end of the day , it takes two to make a baby.

[@PatheticHero]

BIG TIME. Women have gotten off way too easy for well over 50 years. Time for an accounting of real responsibility.

[@youstew99]

@@PatheticHero Exactly, we've been hearing this same song for 10 years while Ray Ray and Pookie are banging anything and everything knowing that they'll probably be going back to the pen or they'll eventually be taken out by another gang/drug dealer. It's 100% the woman's fault as they are the gatekeepers of sex. If you're going to spread your legs for Ray Ray and Pookie then you better make them wear a condom while you double the dose on your pill and plan 3b. Men want sex and many will lie to your face to get it. Figure it out, have some respect for yourself, and do a better job vetting your sexual partners. The dude is gross but not half as gross and stupid as the women he ran through. I have a feeling these women never had a father in their lives either.

[@mindingmybusiness6309]

She didn't know

[@nopandakit8051]

Guess we need to start the safe sex campaigns again. Along with the "grow the hell up" and "if you aren't ready for kids don't have sex" campaigns. Personally, I think both of these people are awful and need to leave each other and the rest of us alone.

[@achi-baba]

I have an issue with parents forcibly transitioning their underage children's genders as if it isn't something irreversible and immoral but is nobody going to talk about how A MOTHER IS OPENLY DREAMING ABOUT HER DAUGHTER BEING A "HOT MAN"?!?! Even hoping that she'll be HOTTER THAN HER FATHER!! I can't be the only one who hears how predatory that sounds! If a man/father used a sexually charged adjective like "hot" do describe any child of any gender, everyone would send Chris Hanson on him, but this woman is actively transitioning her TWEENAGED DAUGHTER and imagining how attractive she'll be! I pray that this child can find refuge before her "mother" can harm her any further.

[@TheCentristChad]

Thomas Sowell was right 😢

[@breezylikesundaymorning2321]

I don’t care how interesting my story is or the money I can make no way I’m putting all my business out to millions of ears. Coming from a small parish I already know what it’s like to have people all in your business whether what they think they know is fact or fiction.

[@shelly478]

There was a guy in town who has 17 kids with 11 different mothers. He was proud of all of his babies.

[@earthtojoy9640]

Proud enough to pay for them all?

[@earthtojoy9640]

@@mooma10try using your brain.

[@robwaters8848]

​@@mooma10He means, does he take enough pride in being a father of 17 kids to provide sufficient financial assistance/obligations that necessitate a "good" life. C'mon man... Think before you try to dunk on someone. This isn't complex, it's the bare minimum...

[@rydenbrook]

@@earthtojoy9640 no He told me the mothers took care of them.

[@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq]

He's a sperm donor. He's addicted multiplying himself.

[@serenamorrr7921]

I'm a homemaker so I love listening to your show while I'm cleaning up my home, meal preaping and getting my family ready for the day. ❤❤Keep up the excellent work guys

[@mione134]

They all have found eachother, the moms on tiktok and they all want to be friends and have their kids know eachother. That's the best part. That poor excuse of a man got all these girls pregnant, many of them not knowing he had other women pregnant, then he goes online like a fool. I think good for these moms. That pathetic "father" is missing out.

[@PatheticHero]

I don't praise these "mothers", aka whores, at all. They made the problem worse by having sex with that stoopid PhucTard to begin with. Can we ever trust such stupid women ever again? NO. There is nothing of merit in such stories. These people are human dreck.

[@claff4573]

Yea they'll complain how he's the victim for paying child support and how men are done bad in court while they get away with this

[@youstew99]

@@claff4573 Men are treated with bias in divorce and custody courts though, that's not a lie, that's a reality, and it's based on the State making money on Child Support. But if Feminism was actually about equal rights then men should absolutely be allowed to "abort" the financial burden and obligations of a child as long as women can have abortions, men should be allowed to abandon it. What's fair is fair.

[@davidwallace9416]

Men like this are disgusting. Women who get knocked up by men like this are disgusting. This is not rocket science.

[@bluesun876]

​@@youstew99 I believe in most states men can sign their rights away & it will lessen their child support burden. Not sure that it completely "aborts" all responsibility though.

[@keelyspalding261]

I live in a small town in North Idaho, there is a kid who was graduating this year and said the words “a man is a man, and woman is a woman” and they didn’t allow him to walk at graduation because of it. They were doing some sort of pride event and I do believe he lied about what he was going to be saying there because he know they wouldn’t allow it, taking his right of freedom of speech (he was 18 at the time) anyway him and his parents are now suing the school district. I pray he wins. This is also the same school district that allowed a young man here to sexually harass the girls he went to school with and did nothing about it. He ended up moving into a duplex where two littles girl lived next door. He kept touching himself to them while they were playing out in the yard, visible for them, their brother, and eventually mother to see. Nothing was done by police, the young boys family, and the mom of the little kids had written a post on Facebook being frustrated about the situation and that’s where they learned he was harassing girls at his school for years as well and despite several reporting it nothing was being done. And then this year on Father’s Day the dad ended up coming home from work and taking caring of him if you know what I mean. Unfortunately the rest of the family too which I didn’t think was necessary. Just the sick guy would have done. But anyway just a couple more stories in my neck of the woods that show how backwards this society is.

[@curt7140]

I’d be pissed if my partner were constantly going to see there family and not once would they ever bring me along to meet them let alone where they were really going.

[@letmeinustupidthing]

I ran this whole thing by my wife this morning to see what she said. Her thought was that if the women here didn't want to have babies by this Random Man In Atlanta, then the fault lies with the women. She said that "You have to protect yourself in those situations because you're going to carry and have the baby, not him."

[@zhentu5169]

I dated a guy like that and it was hilarious when I found out that he told all his multitudes of girls that I am his brother, sister, ex girlfriend and friend. It was so messy. Then he proceeded to tell me that I am his only love. I broke up with him. I definitely dodge a bullet and baby mama dramas

[@donnasantana3276]

I don't feel sorry for her. This is what happens when you do "wifey duties" and your not even the wife.

[@zero10970]

I am currently dating my future husband and wanted to give my input. Relationships are about give and take and when you live together you take care of each other. I've taken over the laundry, dishes, and cooking. My wonderful, committed, loving boyfriend mows the yard, he cleans, he works harder longer hours and pays more toward our mortgage. You make a point but her problem wasn't doing "wife things" it was being unsafe and not setting boundaries. They also both seem like unintelligent people who don't plan or use common sense.

[@donnasantana3276]

@zero duely noted, apparently your situation is different from what I just watched. I hope you're not comparing yourself to her.

[@jim5759]

So basically she gave herself to him, and now. Both of them are making money through tik tok. Idiots and then go on the dole.

[@LittleMissStamper]

In fairness she IS taking accountability.....she's raising and caring for the child .....unlike him. That's accountability. Secondly.....she is raising that child alone, so if she can turn lemons into lemonade and make some money selling merch to help raise that child .....why not.

[@nancypanasyuk8860]

I know Amala addressed the domestic abuse situation from that radio clip but men willing to abuse women are usually good at picking women with the qualities to “tolerate” being abused. And as Amala said it’s not easy to get out in some cases. I’d say with the other cases it’s hard to get out because it’s a mental game

[@sarahfox5379]

They are so good at playing the game - you don't know how bad it is while you are in the relationship. Everything bad happening "makes sense" when they explain it. My ex husband - started going from Mr. Wonderful to a deadbeat within less than a year - and I was doing everything I could to help him bc I truly thought that's what he needed. I couldn't see he was using me. After 3 years he leaves when I told him he had to get a job to help support his daughter. Now that's he's gone, I see how bad it was - and everything that I fell for. It's been a year - and he finally talked with me (had some loose ends to wrap up from the divorce) - and he starts telling me all these things - and I believed him! I cried and cried. But now since I'm out, after a few hours, I saw that they were all lies...and I fell for it again!! Not saying she is the same - some girls do like the bad boys. But there are an awful lot of us out there that get manipulated - we are the frogs in the pot of slowly boiling water!

[@nancypanasyuk8860]

@@sarahfox5379 Exactly

[@nevermind1904]

As a daughter of a counselor, I've heard of several divorce stories. A lot of these cases, there's either deceit involved, promising people turning horrible, or they didn't have good role models/parent figures. And I can't imagine how hard it is to break the cycle when fatherless homes breed reckless children who breed more fatherless children. I can't imagine how people will learn to respect themselves when we stop at saying "they're stupid for choosing wrong/making a mistake" in a culture that is so messy already. The most important thing, rather than to pass around the blame, is to push people to learn from their mistakes and be better parents to their children. Upbringing is important and one can only try to deal better cards than the ones they are dealt with. People who manage that are the true fighters

[@slademodz1276]

My sister cannot stand your videos and I think it's so funny because any time she talks about it, it's "She needs to apologize for the things she says" and I kinda just side eye her like... Her KZbin is quite literally called 'unapologetic' lmfao.

[@TechEnrichmentAndMarketing]

Amala- the vibe of your channel is why I switched sides. Calm and clear. Glad it’s not overly subjective. Let’s stay objective as this is objectively awful

[@jodymcgrady8654]

Welcome to the Lion camp!! ❤

[@lunajack9947]

as someone who knows someone who was in an abusive relationship, it's honestly disappointing to see a woman justifying a man saying "why stay with him for long time", it's more complex than than just leaving, especially if there is children involved, I noticed in the name of people not like feminism, they are justifying horrible and harmful things that are happening to women, people don't look at the psychological aspect of something they look at the overall picture , in general women in soscity get shamed and judged much harsher than men do, when men can get easily away with it thus they reuse to take accountability but jump on women and say they are the once that don't want to take accountability.

[@Abbykizziah]

Agree! She did hold some space for it but it is much more complicated than just being “dumb” and as a 16 yr old I was shamed for being kidnapped in a dv situation and called dumb for it(mostly abusive people who have called me dumb for that). There is psychology and nuance behind it and it’s soooo hard to explain what it is like if you’ve never been in it :/

[@MelAtlNP]

In my job, I have had to report parents who I suspect of manchausen by proxy. Such parents are giddy about their child’s alleged health issues because they get attention. Not sure if that’s the case here, but I’d have to consider it. Interesting how gleeful she is and how she poses herself directly in front of the camera! “Look at me!”

[@CommonSenseIsNotCommon13]

“I know because I am a woman.” Never truer words spoken. My fiancé has a friend who is going through a very ugly breakup right now and I have literally word for word called everything she would do and say.

[@msorsky1]

Baby Daddies: Pay child support or get a vasectomy... Problem solved.

[@youstew99]

If women can abort a child a man should be able to abandon it. What's fair is fair. Your best bet is don't get pregnant by Pookie or Ray Ray.

[@kimbercoleman7089]

The man does his stuff.. And the women accept him, do the deed without a ring, total train wreck for so of them. These poor kids.

[@erintheresa2430]

What's worse is when the mom KNOWS the father has babies with other women and still decides to have a baby with him thinking he will change. I saw a case on Judge Judy once where this was the situation. The mother was aware that the baby daddy had other kids with other women and didn't pay for them before getting pregnant. She thought she could "change" him and make him stay with her and the baby. Yeah, that didn't work and she joined his collection of baby mommas chasing him for child support. Ladies, do your research before you get involved with someone, do not blindly trust what he says. I feel bad for the mother and the child in this situation but I hope the mother has learned from this experience.

[@mione134]

Wrong. The mom had no idea he got other women pregnant until AFTER they broke up.

[@jormunganfan]

Yeah, my friend has 2 children with her ex, he didn't bother with either of them and was a gaslighting weed head. Now any day now he's expecting his 3rd child with his new girlfriend, and they live on her mum's sofa. Like why?? You can see he's a deadbeat who only sees his kids because their grandmother sees them and takes them to him.

[@youstew99]

@@jormunganfan 2 kids wow...she's smart. Again, it's the lack of accountability. Make better choices on who you sleep with. Also as long as Abortion is legal, men should be allowed to abandon their kids. That's the male equivalent of abortion. This is the last frontier in society, I'm not a big proponent of abortion but for many Abortion should be mandatory. We need to start making people pass tests and get licensed to procreate. Too many scumbags and dumbells popping out ratchet kids who grow up to be homeless addicts, gang members, and criminals.

[@ctg5679]

@@mione134of course you shift blame only on to men, cause in situations like this a lot of these women know exactly what kind of man they are dealing with but just don’t care about any of his flaws and think he’ll change for them, it happens all the time.

[@dougwhitney7712]

"You attract what you are" -KS these 2 seem like they deserve each other... sad they drag kids through this mess.

[@Abbykizziah]

Actually reject this statement, says something about about her for sure, and nothing good about her self-control, but there are great people who end up with abusive people sometimes.

[@sistykay1979]

I totally agree with you Amala! Where is the accountability?

[@TopHatNat]

This "Baby Daddy BS" has become a POC stereotype. It's the children who suffer and more than likely grow up to be disadvantaged in some way. Uugghhhh! Kids need love and stability.

[@ConsciousRebel85]

Facts! Kids do need love and stability and kids from men and women in these type of situations a more likely to end not succeeding in life. The kids won't get that love and stability because these are the type of men that so many choose to get pregnant by, and step-daddy culture is dying. We're not about to be taking care of kids that we didn't create.

[@mcgeeobrien3542]

Amala is on fire with the roasting i love it

[@takidsage1515]

_Sings in Usher_ 🎶 These are my confessions 🎵

[@missmarie_8790]

Amala, idk if you’ve done any research on this particular topic, but it would mean a lot to me, and I’m sure lots of others, if you could cover what it’s like for people to grow up without a mother. It is definitely important for children, especially for little girls, to have a good father figure in their lives. As problems with insecurities in all children, stems from not having a father in their lives. But, I would like to hear more about the hardships and psychological damage that comes from motherless children. My mom was in my life till I was about 10 and my dad got full custody, and I only saw my mom like once every 3 years after that. And I definitely feel like even though I had a dad, I feel that I haven’t reached my full potential, because of whatever mental blocks I have from going so long without a mother figure in my life. Especially going through puberty, and things like buying dresses for school dances, buying clothes in general with a father is really hard as a young girl. Nevermind the awkwardness of buying feminine hygiene products…. It would mean so much to me if you either pointed me in the direction of those videos, or if you made some about the topic. Thank you so much dear, for all that you do, I am so thrilled since I’ve found your channel a few months ago!

[@rachelbirchall4630]

Hope all the mums come together & allow their children to grow up & get to know eachother ( if they can)

[@christinas.8980]

Plus you have a lot of these guys who are convinced that they're nice and great guys but then they end up being overly obsessive, overly insecure, ridiculously needy, they have to work on themselves and work through all of their qualities to make them better qualities before they can actually say they're a decent and good person because being nice is just one quality out of many strengths they need to be a wholehearted individual ready for a good relationship. Being nice doesn't matter much if they can't provide anything else to the table.

[@jimdelong949]

There was this guy I worked with . We had started hanging out together after work. One day around the first of the month we were riding in his car. We made 11 stops. At each one he would say I need to run in here for a minute which was more like 15 each time. Come to find out later that these were 11 women that he had babies with. He was stopping by each month to get part of their welfare check. I quit hanging out with him. He quit the job not long after because one of the women decided to sue him for child support

[@notwhatiwasraised2b]

You're touching on soo many topics I would not otherwise be aware of...like Random Man Thanks for that

[@mooma10]

Ikr!

[@anglsreflections8876]

I love watching the show - as always!! Thank you so much - and btw, I'm doing crafts while I'm watching! Today, I am creating folio journals to give to the ladies at my table in our Bible study class on Wednesday evenings! The new season starts this week, and I want to have them finished so I can hand them out the first night. The idea is that they can add to the journals as we progress, and have a keepsake at the end, to look back and reflect on what we've learned.

[@urielnino8755]

That Walker kid sure does know , his daddy was a rolling stone 😂😂😂😂

[@cathy_9388]

This is why you should never get involved with anyone that has kids especially if you dont.

[@hewholimpsmartin]

"You're going to be so much hotter than him." 🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@davegomez4301]

Listening to this and doing yard work and unloading some firewood I found off the side of the road in LA😊. Love the show.

[@maryssaann]

Only thing I can disagree with Mr radio host is it can be very dangerous for a woman sometimes to leave those situations. Kids can complicate the issue tenfold. And I only say because I know. Some men really know how to hide that side of them too. You always say you’d “never be with someone like that” and that “I’d see the signs” until you’re in it. Otherwise he was completely right. She may have been trying to leave for the majority of that but when you have to consider the safety of a child that didn’t ask for that situation it’s really hard.

[@sj0223]

I'm so glad so many people in the comments are like... At least somewhat realizing who's the worst person here. Like I'm so tired of single mom shaming ffs.

[@PatheticHero]

I never would openly shame a single mom... but for FFS we need to stop giving a free pass to those who can't control their most base desires. That said, these moms know what happens when you have sex... they are to blame. End of story.@@sj0223

[@awsambdaman]

@sjdopest single motherhood should not be promoted..it’s harmful to children so maybe it should be shamed

[@ConsciousRebel85]

@@sj0223 I'm tired of the single mom excuses.

[@sj0223]

@@ConsciousRebel85 good for you? That's why I'm conservative. I believe men should be real men with integrity and not do shit like this to women. I also think women should be smarter and more educated when choosing partners, but not supporting them in doing that is a huge part of the problem. So I'm glad you're admitting to being that.

[@anna-yf8yd]

I acted just like that trans kid for most of my childhood… I was so uncomfortable and unenthusiastic. All I’m trying to say is if it’s not because of the camera it could be because of some sort of mental abuse that makes her scared to speak up

[@desireelaurelli4579]

This is so so sad. Those poor children, having two immature selfish brainless parents. Hopefully they may find someone to encourage them and help them feel supported and loved.

[@dionthomas5418]

Perfectly said

[@jeremyferrell9753]

I work freelance as a landscaper and listen to u while I work a lot and love you guys 😊

[@emmawilliams8119]

Did anyone else’s blood run cold when the mother started talking about how “hot” her daughter was going to be?

[@SpanishObsessionLucie]

😂❤

[@sarahbarton4100]

That was shocking, disgusting actually, saying your child 'gonna be hot' 😮 My husband is a good looking man, and our children looked like him as an infant, so when ours were little, we all could see they would be fine looking adults. As they are, but at no time did we ever think/say 'that baby gonna be HOT'

[@megangosiak1489]

I came to the comments to say exactly this. That's so cringy. She's coming off as a child molester/ incestuous parent.

[@megangosiak1489]

​@sarahbarton4100 do i think my boss will be handsome? Of course! But I'm also strongly biased. But calling them hot?!? That's too far. Saying anything about your child being attractive?? 🤢🤢🤮

[@sarahbarton4100]

@@megangosiak1489 Im also strongly biased...😍

[@och70]

@ 8:07 Morgan, AKA Baby Momma Number Seven, lists all of these reasons outlining how she knew this guy was a bum, and she still had sex with him, with no form of birth control. Plenty of blame for both of these people, not just him.

[@youstew99]

It's in these instances where I wish there were 'Mandatory Abortions'. Society needs to implement a system where only stable responsible adults who can demonstrate being of sound body, mind, and spirit can actually procreate. Far too many scumbags and losers breeding today, it's disgusting.

[@greglane501]

Especially her. He was one bum that gave her plenty of reasons not to reproduce with him and she still was stupid.

[@jimreilly917]

He’s a louse. Having said that, do these baby mamas not know of each other? Can women not spot trouble before their panties fly off? SEVEN. Unfreakin real. It takes two.

[@anakitasmiles3261]

This is why I avoid dealing people from the hood. The mindset is TOXIC. The only women that pursue a relationship with a bum like this are those that grew up where behavior lile his was the norm

[@RawrItsJuul]

As she is taking care of the child I do think that she is accountability for her actions. It wasn't smart and nothing she does now will change that, but I can't blame her being duped by this man. You don't exactly know how the situation was, but the man has done this 7 times over now. He probably has some experience lying to women to get them to sleep with them, he derves more of the blame than just "both parties need to take responsibility".

[@youstew99]

She knew he was a drug dealing low life though...it's not like he was a mortgage broker with a regular 9-5. She got what she got because she wanted it. Also, if a woman can have an abortion, abandonment is the male equivalent. Maybe if they outlawed Abortion then the man should be held fiscally liable for child support. .

[@RawrItsJuul]

@@youstew99 a few things I'm thinking of when formulating my opinion. I only know the things discussed in this video. We don't know how their relationship was, or what her history is. I know from personal experience that when blinded by love you try to look past things for the sake of love. Of course she has to look at why she is attracting these kinds of people and do something about that, but to say they share equal blame given his history and how she is handeling the situation afterwards compared to him is not fair to me. To completely shift the conversation to blame her seems like victim blaming to me, that's why I don't like how the guy from the podcast clip is trying to frame it. I'm not saying she's not also responsible, I just think in this specific situation the man is obviously more at fault. Your points about abortion and child support is something I agree with in general. However in this case there was no talk about her trying to get him to pay, or I missed that. Since the main issue seems to be him getting her pregnant and then walking out on her within a month, it is unrelated to my disagreements or argument on the matter.

[@mindingmybusiness6309]

We all know what is happening with these *baby mammas" and how they got there and what people are too afraid to mention

[@hide3reptiles365]

This mother-daughter house interrogation clip epitomized an aspect I haven't thought as much about, on why the mass transing of children is taking place today: The link between shallow, anxiety-inducing dreams sold on a constant commercial 24/7 loop, the absence of messages of deeper meaning and calling, and the responding drive in children to optimize their personal portfolio on superficial stock - including the praised bizarre and "liberating" kinds. These two women only manage to bond in the clip, over the perceived hotness factor of this or that beard trimming style. One of the most blatant modern indicators of the identity crisis of the modern Western man, overcompensated for with bigger cars and bigger beards. Who wouldn't want to be able to express the aimless void in our mortal souls with a deeper and more potent voice? Well as luck would have it, the medical industry has a solution for that anxiety too. Take two of these every day and you'll see a rapid improvement in your current shitty self. Also on the clip itself - when you take a depressed child and publish an announcement to her face, that her life is full of excitement - you make her an unwilling accomplice in your public duplicity. It's like a hostage video. A parent should back a child, listen, model behavior and assist in finding lights in the dark. But you don't just command positive feelings in a child, and you certainly don't do it on camera. This kind of public inquisition is an infringement on the child's personal integrity - even aside from the burden of being the kid with the weird and over-invested hormone video mum.

[@raukuracave4714]

the thing people don't understand about abusive relationships is, he doesn't beat you on day one, he slowly conditions you to accepting mistreatment, he makes you addicted to his love and affection and does this by making you feel like trash for your small transgressions like oh you didnt txt or call that morning, you dont love him so he acts all wounded and acts like you dont love him so you go over and above to prove you love this man and this happens slowly over time, all their language is manipulative and controlling and alot of the time you end up staying because you feel like you have nowhere to go, all that being said if you go on a drug deal the first date.. thats so crazy to me but if that was 2yrs in id be like there was a process to get there, but the fact he thinks he can go online and tell his side to stop the hate... shows that hes used to talking nonsense and having ppl go along with him and feel sorry for him and support him. i agree with taylor that it starts with how youre raised i had so many insecurities and was prime target for a man like this, so easy to be manipulated when you dont have confidence and know who you are.

[@Magical_Thinking]

There are so many trans men in their early to mid twenties that are de transitioning back to women who completely regret having mastectomy’s etc. Many are starting to sue the practitioners who encouraged & doctors who did the surgeries. There’s one who was 14 when first prescribed hormones and said that she didn’t understand the ramifications about not being able to bear children or breastfeed.

[@nonapplicable3055]

But...but......the patriarchy? Lol. The hilarity of The United Sheep of America never fails to entertain.

[@sekidamail]

honestly, all of the Tgender stuff aside, i feel bad for that girl/boy about to join the ranks of teen boys, lol they have no idea what theyre in for .

[@mayboy128]

That would be a great video series! Amala making dating profiles as different types of guys and see her results!

[@MoralGovernment]

This almost happened to my friend! She was only 18 and was dating this guy and it was moving super fast but it seemed to be good. But then one of his baby mamas contacted her on MySpace and told her that this guy would knock up a girl and then after the baby was born he would bounce, not work, not pay child support, nothing. So she packed up his stuff, and dropped him off at the bus station.

[@Ahahaha6986]

you said 7 baby mama's, and I just scoffed. My cousin is one of 15 baby mama's to this guy in Indiana. This is only "viral" because they're pushing their lives on social media. Also... He would be black. That woman, and the other "baby mama's" are idiots :) they got themselves into that situation lmao

[@espon2112]

15? What number is she damn

[@nonapplicable3055]

​@@espon2112Does it even matter at this point. He'll have countless grandchildren. He already won the "Darwin Games".😂

[@nightlysobbing]

He's not good-looking or educated or charming? HOW did 7 women sleep with him

[@cuppa_joe]

Bad boy vibes over normalcy and stability.

[@LeavingGoose046]

The way that I view it is the same as a scammer. The victim always shares some blame for not being vigilant enough, and will and should be at least a little shamed, but the scammer is the one most at fault and deserves the most amount of shame and all the legal/moral/social punishments and one has to feel at least the least bit of pity toward the victim.

[@anaisduh]

"Do you send them a google meet?" Lmao dead

[@SPW1031W]

This is a one reason I was so adamant on waiting for sex until I was married. Sure one can be responsible and use protection, but unfortunately protection fails and even guys you think are good guys could ghost out on you if you get pregnant. Plus it was a great way to rule out guys that weren't worth my time and only wanted to add me to their body count. I had several "good men" end things after refusing to go there until he was willing and did make me his wife. Ladies you are worth waiting for if you want to do that and you're beautiful. ❤ 😘

[@DTreatz]

if guys who you're having sex with are ghosting....newsflash _they weren't good guys_ that's what "due diligence" is for Hope for his sake you were a virgin before he married you, otherwise he's fked, least you have _some_ brains though.

[@nightlysobbing]

This is so important

[@TheFaro2011]

I waited for marriage. But Hun they still be like this. Now divorced.

[@SPW1031W]

@@TheFaro2011 True. Things happen and life is imperfect, but it's definitely safer than a girl giving herself to every guy she dates. No plan is foolproof, but out of the two options it's safer for sure. Plus you weed out some bad ones along the way that are just in it for the sex.

[@cincydooley]

I hate to break this to you, but divorce happens a whole lot in the US.

[@marthaaldridge5346]

They for the street People just don't think 😢 Nobody focuses on their children as individuals. They should have a childhood that's drama free. I know because we lived through some crazy stuff while trying to comfort and redirect the children. It's hardest when you complain all the time, And the kids turn out with victimhood complexes😮😢

[@bighomiestevethemetalhead]

"Where did all the good men go?" says the women who choose deadbeat "bad boy" types, meanwhile good men are overlooked and treated like crap......

[@goodvibration4298]

The term baby mama drives me nuts lol Its babys mother and babys father!

[@Katy32344]

He's not even good looking.

[@satansmistress265]

What does looks have to do with anything? 🤡

[@starbound6462]

The women didn’t care.

[@4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944]

​@@satansmistress265Do.

[@heatheraileen3956]

But he’s not wealthy either

[@brittanyscott9888]

An idea that could be both great and terrible: All the moms should get a house together so at least the siblings can be raised together.. or two homes near eachother. 😅 I know thats not going to happen but hey the kids would have a blast, the mothers would probably go crazy and possibly not get along, but also they could all connect and complain about their babies father...

[@youstew99]

...because complaining about the father is going to do them so much good. Especially as the kids get older and realize they share the same low-life dad.

[@abbiereynolds8016]

Yikes, living in that house would be torture, I don't think that idea is as great as you think it is😅

[@brittanyscott9888]

I did say it'd also be terrible. It's not a realistic idea, just a thought. Just was thinking that the kids could grow up together and have each other. Plus they'd have more support.

[@randomone1879]

Only 7? In this day and age those are rookie numbers

[@lvkeErie]

i live in wisconsin and earlier this week, a story about a milwaukee man with 17 baby mamas, went viral.

[@yvonnebrink9912]

My first thought was why would you get pregnant at 22 with a guy who can't support you. She is 100% responsible for her situation. If she had a job and car and ambition why settle for him....what does he have to get all these woman. We need to teach our girls to think more of themselves before getting together with these guys.

[@ConsciousRebel85]

😂 The thing he had to give was hard wood. That's really the only requirement for a lot of women nowadays. After ignoring the red flags because a guy was blowing her back out, then they play the victim and look for sympathy instead of at least making a guy use protection or being on birth control.

[@jodymcgrady8654]

This is very tragic!! Yes, they are both to blame. However, I also believe that people do very stupid things purely out of being in love with love and just plain loneliness! 😢 Ps. It could be very valid that she did not know that there were other babies out there by him. I feel that he has more culpability than she does. He clearly does not care about the women and his innocent children!! Just shameful!! He is likely narcissistic!! 😡

[@clownmilf6665]

i’m turning 22 tomorrow and i have a 3 year old. so from my perspective, posting this is online for everyone to see is the main issue, at this age we’re gonna react to things and lash out in immature ways, such as blaming the other party for everything etc. give her a few years and she might come to see and accept the situation for what it is and move on and LEARN from it.

[@deanl6613]

Messy? This story is a train wreck combined with a hurricane and a tsunami.

[@amiemason429]

I have a friend who is dating a guy for 10 years. She got pregnant and then found out that he got another girl pregnant at the same time. The babies were born 2 weeks apart. She still with them. They had more children. They've been together 23 years. She's a wonderful stepmother whenever the child visits

[@PatheticHero]

Sad that people like your friends tend to reproduce at an alarming rate. So, she is only a wonderful stepmother whenever the child visits and not all the time? Ouch. This makes life very difficult for normal people. Not my problem.

[@claff4573]

That's terrible. If a man dealt with this he'd be called a simp. If only she had self respect

[@Cynni393]

That's a situation that sounds like drama and i never would aspire to be in.