Reaction To "Life Advice to Men from a Woman" by Precious Kofi

[@BatsiraiMusuka]

Her name is Precious Kofi, she is a Pan Afrikan South African, who known on the Afrikan continent as a child star (she was a teen TV Presenter and l think she also produced the show she was famed for). A truly wonderful being. 🫶🏾

[@mrAPchem]

Ahhhhh!!!! That is so cool!!!! I had no idea that she was any kind of famous or that she produced television!! She does indeed seem to be wonderful!

[@pinkhappynesslady5331]

Happy for the men to be seen too on such a postive note. We know Precious, she is a South African that has been living in the U.S.

[@mrAPchem]

@@pinkhappynesslady5331 Ahhhh, okay!! That makes sense! I had never seen her channel or any of her content before, so I was not aware of anything! But once I clicked on the video, I was only 5 minutes in before I felt compelled to give a reaction! She is wise beyond her years!

[@pinkhappynesslady5331]

@@mrAPchem Wise beyond years indeed 💜

[@PreciousKofi]

Damnnn! When you spoke about the harsh voices that one has internalized. I felt that. And giving yourself a break! Thank you for these words, I needed to hear that!

[@mrAPchem]

Well, I had to try to follow the plethora of jewels that you dropped in your video with something worthwhile! Prior to this video, I had no idea that your channel existed, so I didn't know anything about you, your background or anything of the sort. But once I started watching your video, I was compelled to make a reaction. It was so refreshing to see a woman have positive words about men without sounding like a pick-me or ignoring the very real ways in which men hurt women. Too many women have been traumatized by the sub-optimal relationships that they have had with the men in their lives and will type comments or start entire channels that re-perpetuate that pain onto men that didn't harm them. And this is after they have ignored red flags in order to be with these men! Meanwhile, too many men have ingested the bile that comes from the manosphere and red-pill community and not only blame women for problems that they had nothing to do with, but also seem to not like women generally even if they are sexually attracted to them. And this is after they've already been cooked by the radiation of sexism and misogyny. As you might have noticed on my channel, most of my content is catered to video games, especially Mortal Kombat. But I also speak my mind about a variety of topics that I think would be useful to my audience or anyone else that might stumble upon it. Your video is an inspiration to me - so much so that I showed my wife the video also. We both were trippin' out about how you look like you're in your early 20s!!! In any case, please know that I thought your insights were brilliant and fully necessary for all men to hear. Please let me know if I can be of any help or if you'd like to collaborate in the future!

[@stephon972]

love how your content is evolving when i saw the video title i was just going to save it for later but when I realized it was you i had to watch right now love every thing on the channel makes my day

[@mrAPchem]

Thank you so much! I'm happy to know that I've had this positive impact on you.

[@Lance.Gardenhire]

I clicked on this video cause I was curious what topic she was gonna talk about, but I was expecting some man bashing so I wasn't planning on staying. I'm glad that's not what it was. I watched it through, and she said a lot of good shit. Not sure if I agree with EVERYTHING, but there is a lot of good shit here.

[@missmarcia9572]

Thank you reacting to her video..her name is Precious she is SOUTH AFRICAN staying oversees though...

[@mrAPchem]

You are quite welcome! I was curious, so I clicked on her video on my feed and about 5 minutes in, I felt compelled to make a reaction video because I knew that it could help my male audience.

[@missmarcia9572]

@@mrAPchem it's a great topic...that men needs to hear...one voice at a time can make some difference

[@mrAPchem]

@@missmarcia9572 My thoughts exactly.

[@MrPotatoHead6261]

Word on the street is if you think ur a player cuz u did 2 girls behind ur “lady” she’s done 10 and you will never find out but ur a bad ass. 90% of men couldn’t take what women real mentally is. It’s best to think you are gods gift to women! If you want to know how real women are, introduce them to the green room and let them be who they really are not how you want them to be. It’s best not to know. Trust.

[@mrAPchem]

Generalizing women or men is always horribly inaccurate. Certainly, there are some girls out there that fit that description, but I would argue that the vast majority of them became that way because of the actions or inactions of a man in their lives previously. Monsters aren't born, they're made. To be honest with you, it sounds like a woman in your past has hurt you and started to turn you into one. Like I said in this video - do not transfer that pain and hurt onto some other woman (or all women) that didn't do anything to deserve it. Go and get healed. If you want to know how a woman really is, it's like I told you in the other video, all you need to do is listen to her as she talks about what's important to her and what she wants/needs. This is how you filter out the ones that are deceptive and move towards the ones that want the same thing that you do.

[@MrPotatoHead6261]

@@mrAPchem I’ll be the first to admit that. Many women have hurt me and I’m not ashamed of it. It’s called life and that’s why I’ve changed my approach and that is get to know them for they truly are if I’m down with it I’ll accept it even if I know there are consequences as it was choice going into it. However I will say this all my relationships have always ended with a positive note, Always. Get healed? The hard knock life has healed me ain’t no YT video gonna do that, but maybe your vid was something someone needed to hear but trust me I’m the last person that needs relationship help/advice/therapy etc. Just like you win/lose in any vid game, you learn and move on. Simple. I respect women more than you think and one is clear I encourage and remind the ones I’ve interacted with to know their worth. Anyways I’ll leave it at that. I’ll check in when you post more Sub content, until keep up the good/great work btw my fav monster is cookiemonster 8) Me want cookies all cookies me like cookies haha

[@mrAPchem]

@@MrPotatoHead6261 There is absolutely nothing to ashamed of when it comes to being hurt by someone that you cared about. Or several someones. The only thing is to make sure that you leave your hurt and pain in the past with the women that hurt you - and avoid typecasting other women as just like them, because they aren't. And this isn't just for you - this is also for those bitter women that say things like "all men cheat" or "men are trash". They have fallen for the same trap.