We need to talk about "America's kindest husband"

[@user-pn6pg3mx9g]

1:47 I laughed out loud when you said why he was considered America’s best husband. ALL HE DID WAS WRITE 15 THINGS HE LIKED ABOUT HER???? Omfg the bar really is in hell 😂😂😂

[@RookieAssassin]

And one of the reasons is “She’s gone to a strip club with me” 💀

[@dynogamergurl]

As funkyfrogbait once said “way to set the bar just high enough for the devil himself to trip over”

[@SharkFishFace]

The bar is back in the primordial soup we crawled out of.

[@iammar1159]

They do literally the bare minimum or do nothing at all and they get applauded and praised for it.

[@pri.sci.lla.]

The worlds best husband probably wouldn’t film his kind acts.

[@helixxia9320]

oh true

[@drewberriesandcream]

THAT PART.

[@billieseyelashes]

mhm!!! yes

[@dalhousieDream]

Indeed.

[@dynogamergurl]

Anytime I see someone wholesome I have to wonder to what extent was this staged? Is this natural, or are there ulterior motives. Which I realizes is kinda weird to think but people do stuff on the internet for clout

[@FowlsNest]

Writing "She accepts me for the crazy person I am" feels really foreboding with what we know now

[@MikaelaJoArroyo]

I was just coming on here to say the exact same thing

[@imabosssorta1923]

Did you see "she went to a strip club with me?" Most of these are what she's done for him, which is why he claimed to love her. Those aren't kind words ABOUT her.

[@Vilaun.]

As a survivor of DV/IPV this breaks my heart to hear. Her seeking out a mental hospital JUST to escape him is so sad. It’s a double edged sword bc he would then be able to use this legally to argue she’s incapable of caring for herself OR is not to be believed. So often you feel like there’s so little the system can do to actually help you. I’ve had a partner begin to go down the route of “you’re mentally crazy and unstable… you need to be prescribed medicine” and I began to believe it! He 100% used it to invalidate and gaslight me, I could only imagine if I had been committed JUST TO ESCAPE HIM .. how he’d use that against me if I ever tried seeking out justice.

[@k3upikachu]

Yup and I'm sure she knew that :( just shows how desperate she was to be somewhere safe from him

[@patriciaschiro2659]

The wife’s face in the mirror doesn’t look very happy.

[@nicanonymus2491]

She looks creeped out! 😮

[@kpeezyforsheezy]

The close up on “maybe I’m just pessimistic” *that’s my natural state* 😂

[@Vilaun.]

9:19 “most… troubled soul… I’ve known” is SOOOOOO devious, distrusting and a written out version of dupers delight if I’ve ever seen one! Even in death he had to besmirch her and paint her as the TROUBLED one! 🤬 idkkkk HOW the police didn’t investigate this! They allowed a monster to free and he went onto to TRY IT AGAIN while victimizing a CHILD.

[@teijaflink2226]

That's clearly manipulation so people will fall for the suicide story.

[@dahliarose6986]

Love bombing is an abusive tactic to keep the victim from leaving when givin a chance.

[@subparsenpai]

When will we learn to not prop people up on pedestals, let alone people constantly trying to market their good side as such a “genuine” selling point 🙃🙃

[@BeeKee404]

I see many influencer couples portraying themselves as these super loving couples who make these super sweet videos of how much they love each other and people in the comments always say "oh they're so cute. They love each other so much." Meanwhile all I'm thinking is "this is way too sickly sweet to actually be genuine. Especially if they're filming it." Cases like this showcase why I feel this way. I don't mean to say all influencer couples are fake. I just get suspicious when they overdo it on the sweetness and it just comes across as unnatural.

[@rainingopals1439]

Trisha and moses are the biggest offenders. They plop those tiny babies in front of the camera for vlogs the SECOND they're born.

[@account01289]

If he genuinely wrote that list for her he would have addressed it to her and not have posted it on the internet

[@programma8]

It's giving Dominique Pelicot- beware of the kind husbands

[@teijaflink2226]

Definitely, this creep was selling her too. Domique was lucky her husband didn't accidentally kill her too. I'm wondering about all these men who buy these women too (I have heard many similar disgusting stories), sure they must have noticed something weird but I bet they get off on buying pretty much a real life slave, so that's all they care about that they get hard from seeing women suffering 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@user-pi3hd2bt3f]

Woman "my husband is sexually, emotionally and physically abusing me" People "Yeah but he wrote a list of 15 things he likes about you so you are so incredibly lucky to have him🥰" Are you KIDDING me?

[@gabbytheHeartist]

Reminds me so much of the Mica Miller case. Rip

[@EarthlingY2k]

Initially I thought this is what it was going to be.

[@MagnoliaMountainx]

Been subbed forever, I just have to say you’re really looking healthy and giving teacher giulia! Have a nice weekend 🫶

[@drewberriesandcream]

single dad: braids his daughters hair once everyone: dad of the year!!!!!! single mom: exists everyone: don’t you think you’re destroying the fabric of society ps i’m the 333rd like!

[@BaronFeydRautha]

I don't think you understand the legal system and how biased it is towards the mother. Singe Father: Would have to be a seriously upstanding citizen with a lot and I mean a LOT of evidence to gain full custody of his kids. Yes, a single father taking time out of his day after work to spend time with his kids is greater than a single mom living alone soaking up welfare and child support and exposing their kids to who knows what sorts of guys on a rotation.

[@GoudaGirl]

​@BaronFeydRautha the point of her comment is that women are expected to do that so no praise is given, but men doing the same thing for their own children is seen as awe inspiring and revolutionary. Your comment is like when people say "Black lives matter" and the response is "WELL, ALL lives matter". Of course all lives matter, but there is an obvious disadvantage within society and the court that POC face.

[@BaronFeydRautha]

@GoudaGirl The bigotry of low expectations. Nice.

[@GoudaGirl]

@@BaronFeydRautha What are you actually even talking about?

[@BaronFeydRautha]

@GoudaGirl You expecting less from minorities by default. You know, like how Kamala thinks minorities can't understand how to use the Internet for early voting. Or how affirmative action gives C and D minority students positions instead of higher achieving Asians or Caucasians. You know, because they just can't do any better in the system. That's the bigotry of low expectations. You expect less from minorities and that's racist.

[@doodlebug1820]

Most of these 15 reasons are not love, they are a narcissist describing his supply. Like, alot of them are not even about her, they are about him. A lot of them are implying she did something uncomfortable 'for him'. RIP.

[@teijaflink2226]

How did people even find it sweet

[@dahliarose6986]

He probably also made her check herself into the mental hospital so when he ends her, it'll look like it was her and not him. I feel like all of it comes together as his plans to take her life the way he did. Considering he didn't let her go anywhere and she became distant with friends because he made her move away from where she's from for him and made her drop out of college.

[@DaLilVivi96]

Thankyou so much for addressing this issue, I've been noticing it more lately & it surprises me when certain people still don't see this an an issue or risk to women's safety. Just like when gaslighting wasn't known much years ago, people wouldn't take it seriously nd didn't believe it was a real thing. I really appreciate when good people address even the smallest issues as they can escalate very quickly and become big issues, and that's when it can get dangerous for innocent people's lives (especially in terms of toxic relationships) just because a relationship may seem healthy and happy from the outside, doesn't at all mean that behind closed doors, that woman might be going through horrendous abuse. (I'm talking from experience too). 😢 i urge women and people out there to please notice more those tiny signs, even if it may seem innocent, don't feel silly to question something if it seems even slightly off!

[@ihatemickiegee]

some of the list items are weird in terms of how you’d make a statement , also pretty lovebomby if we consider this in terms of abusive rltnshps. and is that her in the second photo of the list? i havent seen the video but she looks like she’s in pain. i hope it’s just her happy crying or something and i am missing video context. anyway- i have a feeling the family is right & the court docs clearly seem foreshadowy. more than foreshadowy. finally i do agree that world’s kindest husband is a stretch for someone who makes a list of pros about his partner. smh

[@nanuneeeee]

Oh that got dark fast...

[@fruitrollup2790]

Guys I looked up the photos of the mirror and she looks terrified in them! 😢

[@gnostic268]

Wow you absolutely hit the nail on the head with your analysis of this case. 💯🎯💯

[@alisonmercer5946]

He killed molly too

[@madness_mania]

We need to stop thinking the bare minimum is some sort of trophey winning award, im sorry but i can't imagine seeing myself being labeled as "America's nicest women" for just writing things i like about people on paper

[@kaskus7147]

Seems a little love bomb-y.

[@ignorealiensorders666]

I love this wig! ❤

[@thousandreasonswhynot]

Wow yeah if he's too good to be true. . .yikes

[@DavidAllanTroll]

11:46 is that a dog? Sounded weird

[@mariogoldmaster]

I love your red hair

[@Aurora-us8wi]

Finally early for once 😌 looking great

[@teijaflink2226]

Why are people so damn naive, they fall for anything.

[@kingofallmediums2123]

Hi Glare! 😂🎉😢

[@MadameChouette800]

Some of those messages are creepy

[@Lilmisscostumedrama]

Why am I getting Pheobe Handsjuk vibes?

[@chrisshipes1153]

I am alone.

[@dahliarose6986]

11:47, tf was that sound?

[@jalapeno1119]

What's with the modified voice?

[@tsundear]

what happened to the audiooooooooo

[@DoveLady]

11:46 👀🐶🧍?

[@dalhousieDream]

We need to talk about the coolest chick on the webs - Giulia ❤

[@alexadair5163]

hey ready to glare can you make a video giving your thoughts on the 2024 presidential election? also whats your opinion on the fact that same sex marriage isn't legal in Italy given how pro gay you are?

[@kaineandrews3790]

So, how much liability is going to be (rightfully) placed on her friends and family that she apparently told all this to over a period of months who just stood there, shrugged, and said “eh, oh well” without notifying anyone appropriate, but now are going to come with the pitchforks for the husband?

[@annab4931]

pitchforks... for the ACTUAL abuser? Yes actually. What a fucking weird comment

[@ANYHOO0]

How do you know they didn't try to help? My guess would be that they did, but she kept going back or wouldn't leave to begin with, like when he talked her into leaving the mental hospital. She asked to be rescued but was devoted to him, which probably means that no matter what they said or did she just couldn't break away from him. You can't blame her friends and family just because the article didn't specifically talk about what they did to try to help her.

[@kaineandrews3790]

@@annab4931 What’s weird about it? Did I say there *shouldn’t* be pitchforks? I’m just curious where those pitchforks were when there might have actually been some possibility of saving her.

[@kaineandrews3790]

@@ANYHOO0 I imagine, had they actually done anything of value, regardless of her playing the “get away-OMG I love him” game, there should have been record of police interactions and wellness checks, even if she later dismissed them or lied about it. If that *did* happen and the article and/or our hostess just declined to mention it, then so be it, but it seems off for it not to have been mentioned.

[@sommerblume9671]

@@kaineandrews3790 people love thinking that anyone related to a victim can't do anything ever and are always shut down. i don't get it.

[@EarthlingY2k]

Actually a case of the perfect wife and super mom Sheri Papini. For a woman who didn’t work outside the home and only had two small children who went to daycare she was praised all over town for being super mom and knowing how to bake a pie. This super this and super that bs has to stop as it leads to an obvious outcome

[@kainlockley]

Ironic tragedy aside, this would make a GREAT addition to next generations Scary Sories To Tell In The Dark book

[@thegrimlooper]

Well, he probably said he felt lke she was trying to kill him also for there to be a little doubt that he did it??

[@Ronald-hk6fk]

My pale princess 😍

[@BaronFeydRautha]

Why would you give praise to a housewife for being a housewife? Yes, men are praised more for giving more. A husband gives everything to his wife so she doesn't have to work or provide for herself. No, we don't praise a housewife for being a housewife. They aren't the same thing.

[@doodlebug1820]

the jobs associated with house wife are the most difficult jobs in the world and also some of the most important.

[@BaronFeydRautha]

@doodlebug1820 I highly doubt that. Being a housewife is not equivalent to being an oil rig worker. The point is that a housewife is expected to do those things. You want to be rewarded for everything you fucking do? Do you want a cookie every time you wipe your ass on your own?

[@BaronFeydRautha]

@@doodlebug1820 No, no they aren't, not by a LONG SHOT.

[@doodlebug1820]

@ disagree

[@BaronFeydRautha]

@@doodlebug1820 You can disagree all you want, it doesn't make you correct. Working on an oil rig is not the same thing as changing diapers and cooking dinner.

[@pixelsin96]

I feel sad how little her family and friends did for her.

[@rainingopals1439]

This is givingg JP Miller