Real Love Unscripted: Groom's Tiara Tantrum | Don't Tell The Bride

[@catladyfromky4142]

This is the prettiest wedding in this series I have seen . He did it all by himself. He should be so proud.

[@debbieherrera1605]

I think she had a temper tantrum not because there was anything wrong with the dress and stuff but because she didn’t get to control everything. I truly feel bad for the groom.

[@miles2419]

She's got so many red flags. The poor guy. His money going into her account and her refusing to give it to him is so gross and filled me with dread

[@sngray11]

It is the definition of economic abuse.

[@Jack-jg4jy]

Honestly the whole intro of the dynamic between him and the women in his life made me kinda sick to my stomach. Nothing here is healthy.

[@staypheliz]

She disgusted me. I kept saying “she needs therapy”.

[@melchantz]

Omg begging for your own money.. not sure about their history but omg.. he need to learn and its his money.. im speechless..

[@SigningWithTheByrds]

He worked and then he has to beg for a penny? Oh no. She's like my ex DIL. Red flags!!

[@sharronwaterhouse5864]

He’s an absolute hero! I hope she appreciates him … her behavior was a huge red flag

[@neuroticnation144]

With as much whining as she did, I was really proud of the way she accepted everything in the end and praised him.

[@aly5664]

She doesn't deserve him. I hope he realizes that he can do so much better.

[@butterflyr9342]

In my culture, we believe rain on your wedding day, brings good luck, Sarah.

[@Salomeii]

So glad her groom knows what is classy. He is a wedding planner extraordinaire. Beautiful wedding!

[@dietotaku]

i don't understand why all the bridesmaids and the bride's bouquet are coral and he & his groomsmen are in baby pink?

[@jt5733]

"They're absolutely disgusting" who says that to a store employee?! And the dress was more flattering on her figure than the ones she tried on herself

[@enibeni2071]

Insecurities are shown on eventos like these. When you don't love yourself you think people won't love you.

[@mikivanduyn9630]

its not about what you like...but what the bride likes...

[@rolandoesteban9514]

Ben's choice of wedding dress is far more superior than Sarah's and her supporters. I pity Ben putting up with delusional women, whose tacky tastes they mistake for class.

[@lunarbunny3021]

@@mikivanduyn9630 then the bride shouldn’t have signed up for a show where she doesn’t have any control

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

As much as I’d love a helpful man, this makes me sad for Ben. I wish his bride would be more supportive of him.

[@Sunshine-kn6or]

Wow. Her behavior is disgusting

[@rolandoesteban9514]

Right!

[@kalitheamare]

Her heart is so ugly already, basing everything on her looks😢 and so disrespectful

[@marias6113]

I’ve watched so many of these “Don’t tell the Bride” and this one is the very best. Well done!

[@peter897deville6]

What a great guy. Not so obsessed with money. More about creation and happiness. Can see his gonna be a great dad.

[@butwhythough]

No one is talking about the fact that she controls his money?! That’s literally the definition of financial abuse!! Wtf…

[@silence-is-bliss]

It seems that he allows her to do that and doesn't trust himself to responsibly manage his own money. I agree it's not the best idea but he does seem to prefer it being that way and there may be something more going on.

[@butwhythough]

@@silence-is-bliss it’s been a while since I’ve seen the video, and I’ll definitely rewatch to make sure. From what I remember though, he went from his mom doing it to his fiancée. It honestly sounded to me like he was brought up in that cycle of abuse and it continued. Again, I’ll rewatch to make sure. I don’t totally remember since it says one month ago on my original comment 😂

[@silence-is-bliss]

@@butwhythough ngl when he described his mom and girlfriend the first thought that came to mind is he's marrying his mother.

[@bizarredragonsland]

Exactly 😔 if the roles were reversed the world would be screaming

[@bizarredragonsland]

@@silence-is-bliss Reverse the roles then say this

[@MRAustismCFEpilepsy]

24 minutes in, I like his taste in Bride’s Dresses better than hers. He’s a good guy. Nice mom… I love the color scheme!

[@ginaandseason2774]

Ben you absolutely smashed it!!! Her dress was stunning. ❤ you can see the love they have and i wish them a lifetime of happiness

[@sandrap6321]

Lots of American gals dream about this type of wedding. We don't have old churches & castles right out of fairy tale books. Well done.

[@nicolette1598]

Someone hasn’t been to their local putt putt range clearly lol…because many of those do indeed have fake castles but “castles” nonetheless 😂

[@sassytbc7923]

As an American who went to the UK to have my Princess wedding in a castle.. it’s sooo worth it!!!

[@carolannpacificadam1944]

Putt putt Rotfflmfao o now that's class!!

[@vickiboyd2752]

I wonder if the bride regretted all her ugly words about church weddings after they told why us was important to his family.

[@cherylc6504]

I hope she remembers her behavior and learns from it.

[@beccaandcharliesworld5571]

Why in the world does he want to marry someone as controlling as his mother?

[@edwinamarshan4143]

He doesn't know any other way!! Hopefully after this he will have more faith in himself 🤞

[@janicefarmer2387]

She's abusive and controlling. Absolutely discussing behavior. No one needs to be as controlled as this guy. I wish him luck in his life. She'll never give up control, no matter how well he did.

[@melindiekruger206]

So good to see a wedding where it works out in the end :-) A very responsible groom! Well done!

[@karolmiller6984]

Beautiful wedding for a controlling bride. Groom did well.

[@pamelaflirtyskunk7698]

She's definitely demanding. I've NEVER heard anyone say "lush" so many times in my life! She made the word mean absolutely nothing by the end. She's definitely absolutely obsessed with appearances and seems extremely narcissistic

[@victrola2007]

She's definition of a vulgar chav

[@paulatacheny1353]

Omgosh if they said LUSH one more time😂

[@WillbeSingin]

He said, "no green leaves"... She did it anyways😂😂😂

[@robyndeddens6658]

I liked the dress he picked out, I didn’t like the one she wants. I don’t feel sorry for her.

[@kawaiikawaiianimegirl4144]

Honestly by half way I was like say I don't at the altar my dude

[@joanna400]

7:00 - "he's never had this much responsibility in his whole life". - As he does all her chores/ironing, does her hair, works, rubs her feet, shaves her legs... What exactly does this brat do that is responsibility? She doesn't even take care of her own hair by herself!

[@narshanovaazalea]

Fussy bride with tacky style. The groom did great.

[@karenleemallonee684]

I don't know him, but I am proud of him too!!! Hopefully she lets him step up and take his place as the head of the home!!! 🌼

[@LifeInPink999]

They both work so if something to have an equal power in the decisions. The head of the house (if someone wants to use such an antiquate terminology) is the one who brings money.

[@karenleemallonee684]

@@LifeInPink999 That's why I used that terminology, because I wanted to! Yes, Im old fashioned and proud of it!!! 🌼

[@eringemini7091]

Bens Mom is a very talented Baker! 🎂Gorgeous 💒 cake!

[@marietjievanderwesthuizen3244]

Having the brides fitting wedding dresses she'd liked is probably the cruellest thing this show is doing.

[@cocomo3141]

It is!!!!! They terrible knowing the groom picks nothing like they want. 🤣

[@dancingfirefly7761]

I totally agree!

[@dineo8341]

18:36 im glad the groom had the chance to show he can do this. i hope his wife and mom start to trust him more. sounds like there’s so much under the surface that we didn’t see on this episode and a lot of the judgement in the comments is harsh, but, the production was successful in getting y’all to talk!

[@karingiles1546]

Stop trying to make “lush” happen. It’s not going to happen.

[@robineller1797]

I was like how many times are they gonna say "lush" when looking at stuff...

[@chickentendie146]

This bride is appaling, I hope he left her

[@maryamalfayed223]

How absolutely ungrateful!!! ... If Princess Diana could do it she could get in the coach as well! ... I hope that this Groom has finally found his backbone because no one needs to be walking around with someone controlling every move you make in life! ... I really don't see this lasting unless things change! ... Good Luck 🤔🌹😟

[@juliestrickland7754]

Daaang dude! He's marrying his mom ×10. Good luck, sweetie!!

[@Black_Magic_Woman]

Now that's a thoughtful man . What a good husband he'd be... she . Well. She needs to be taken down a notch

[@heavenlymermaid4595]

As an American I dream of a princess wedding like this! Well done 🌟

[@LeslieisLED]

She looks double his age and has an awful personality. I have no idea why this guy is with her. Run.

[@robynmurray7421]

He can't run. She has all his money.

[@christinewhitfeld7939]

That bride can't use a knife and fork properly. So glad the groom planned it!

[@bizarredragonsland]

He's wages go into her bank account??? That's abusive Did she seriously not allow him he's own wages and refuse him money for food?

[@sydneyjane9222]

Laser tag is a win. (I love bringing female friends who never have done it, because after like 10 minutes they are usually more into it than you would expect.) And a combined bachorlette/bachorler party is cool. And his mom is really good at making cakes.

[@SLIMGRIMS]

Fantastic. Never seen a duo stag/hen on these, more like this should happen, but more crazy. Lovely and simple reception, loved the men's suits. Cracked up over her face when trying on the tiara. Hope they upload that next one, haven't seen that either. give ma rap opera some lovee

[@RealLoveDocs]

Glad you enjoyed it! Next one out this week

[@leavirgin6872]

Give me a break--The dress is beautiful, and she is acting so dumb about it!

[@heatherbarker6217]

He did so good i cried

[@rolandoesteban9514]

I cannot imagine how shameless Sarah could be before the wedding dress consultant at the shop. She has body issues, and she's throwing her tantrums around the fitting room. She insists on her mistaken notion of class and elegance. She is evil, always trying to control things even when she is under contract, bereft of any decision-making powers in the process. She should learn to respect Ben and set a good example to their children or she will produce monsters with male image issues. She is very tacky, immature, and controlling.

[@breakfastattiffanys741]

Am I a b*tch to say she knew she was getting married why couldn't she workout and eat healthy for a few weeks. Nothing dramatic just to slim the tummy and arms abit to feel more confident?

[@mariachambers7477]

I got fed up hereimg the word lush he needs to grow a pair and she needs to stop being controlling outherwise that marriage won't last long

[@robineller1797]

I now hate the words "it's lush" as much as I hate the words "on fleek"...

[@staypheliz]

She wouldn’t stop complaining.

[@lucillemongin3643]

the entire time she was calling the dress disgusting, all i could think was "honestly, you're disgusting." the way she talks to and treats him is so toxic, i feel bad for him

[@ruthieaay4264]

Am kinda really happy that the groom has this chance coz if it was otherwise he still could have his voice

[@warriorprincessharmony]

What on Earth is she crying about? I'm starting to think that the more of a diva you are the better the guy you get. Otherwise if you are your normal appallingly boring and nice girl self, guys think you are low class and stupid and treat you accordingly.

[@cocomo3141]

👀... 🏃🏾‍♀️...let me go try this tactic...🤣

[@kayramclauchlan7962]

A lot of comments about the complaining on her part and how she's controlling which I get, but there should be some acknowledgement that she quickly admitted when things surprised her and openly said she was proud of him and would trust him more.

[@rayleenharris922]

I so enjoy this show as well as the one the mothers become in charge

[@annh2316]

What's that one called again?

[@evem7779]

Wedding wars

[@RealLoveDocs]

In Law Wedding Wars, it's on our page!

[@JohannaBarnard-sl4jb]

He said NO LEAVES 😮

[@suzzylouloudougherty5237]

I thought the same thing but it looked beautiful at the end.I didn't see much green at all

[@jeanthomas7055]

awesome church and castle. nice couple.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

A wise man would ask his future wife’s friends and family lots of questions about her likes & dislikes for the dress & decorations then picking a location that they both like.

[@AS-yz2iz]

His mom was awful! I'd never treat my sons like that. Smh. And devils always hate churches.

[@lavettemcfeeters6216]

Im just seeing this and wow! That bride has issues! Controlling isnt even the word! She keeps using the word "disgusting" for the shoes,the dress .. Her attitude is disgusting. That man needs to run as fast and as far away as he can. Her managing every tiny part of his life....including HIS money???Not to mention the ogre of a mother!

[@mama.danni.bell17]

I would love to do this. I would love to know what my husband would do. Lol. We never had a wedding. My dad was sick and wanted him there, so a quick court house wedding B4 he passed. ❤

[@Ebbbb131]

With that bleach and those nails I’m surprised she doesn’t want bling on her dress and wants to be “classy” 😂😂😂 the irony, poor guy.

[@ChelseaAnn94]

The bride literally irks my soul!! That poor groom lbs.

[@naowright9308]

Several girls wanted a church wedding and couldn't get it due to the shortness of time or the fact that the groom didn't want it. Several also wanted a castle, but the men preferred pubs or gambling joints.

[@Heatherban300]

He's marrying his mother...but worse .....RUN, BEN, RUN!!!!!

[@nappingwithkitties8069]

This show makes me glad to be single.

[@Toxicgossiptrain_]

Yikes the way she’s over controlling. Even with this money 🚩

[@Debbie56]

There is nothing classy about this woman. Something wrong when a bride in a beautiful gown curses and swears.

[@jemjarvs]

Wow, poor bloke. What a horrible, bossy, controlling woman!

[@mirandacoffey3569]

I agree 💯

[@kiki29073]

I want an update on these people.

[@saraferguson9430]

He says she's so pretty but.. where?

[@kiki29073]

It's supposed to be good luck for it to rain the morning of your wedding.

[@silence-is-bliss]

He did well. The women in his life need to trust him more.

[@GoddesssAphrodite]

He is too good for her.. horrible personality

[@roshni2366]

Beautiful planning by groom.

[@justso4509]

wait, wait, don't tell me.... that's _"LUSH"....._ 🤪

[@evelyneliaz]

The bridesmaids could have placed a half slip under the first bridesmaid dresses, as they were lovely.

[@Soapartisan875]

What a beautiful wedding ❤ the groom is an amazing young man.

[@ViktoriaGt95]

I don't know... Is it lush enough?

[@lbearjowett5983]

what i do not get is why in every one of these epsodes why is the bride looking at locations and trying on dresses when she has no say

[@robyndeddens6658]

She was horrible when it came to her dress! It was so much better in this dress than the one she picked out. I thought she looked beautiful. If she wanted the wedding of her dreams than she should have saved planned it herself.

[@mammie19621962]

He's just marrying a MOTHER not a WIFE!!! He should've ran when he got away from her those weeks!!! He's NOT her mate he's her SLAVE!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 RUN!!!!!

[@doradedham9162]

I appreciate Ben wanting to marry at his church home, but the minister shouldn't have gone along with having the ceremony there with the bride not knowing. It's a sacred occasion and both people should be on board with the idea. Other than that, Ben planned a lovely day.

[@frieda2413]

To call clothes disgusting is really something else…

[@albertoua-z6d]

That girl is crazy- she talk bad about Church, she dot respect God, no church- God, forgive her. Glory to God, he is allpowerful!

[@AS-yz2iz]

Unfortunately she'll have a rude awakening some day.

[@CC-zf4yv]

Can see why a lot of shops blindfold the bride before she tries the dress on!

[@lynn9496]

Not long in and I'm thinking how conceited she is without reason.

[@barbaraturner200]

I would hate to pay her baggage fee on a plane.

[@neuroticnation144]

To be fair, in a way, he’s marrying his mum.

[@jt5733]

The whole manly/girly thing of the narrator feels forced and heavily outdated

[@michellejalbert-deen1329]

What an awful woman.

[@noirweiss]

She is complaining about all of it IN THAT DUCK NAIL!?!!! I can't 😅😂

[@staypheliz]

He did amazing.

[@cynthiajacklyn6639]

The bride is a control freak which is a huge flaw in her character. He should not have to ask for money!! She is totally out of line telling him what to do and how to do it. He should have NEVER , EVER spoke to his mother that way and certainly NOT in front of other people in a store! Shame on both of them! They both have a lot to learn. I would not be surprised to find out that by year 5 they are no longer married !

[@BlueMoodey]

Fantastic Ben!!

[@billy-jadeachiu2296]

She's what he wants getting married is just the ending to their life together starting yrs ago...they know what each is getting in the end.

[@mirandacoffey3569]

She is controlling this is not right poor man

[@AS-yz2iz]

She was such a brat when it came to her dress, veil, and shoes. I thought they were classy.

[@nickyshaw7677]

I think all those terrible bleach jobs affected her brain 🧠

[@marybellehobbs7081]

It’s no wonder she’s crying leaving him,who’s gonna be her slave 🙄

[@kmissoni6451]

A couple minutes in tells me this bride has no clue what classy is. 😂

[@frieda2413]

If it’s more about Location and optics than actually marrying the Person you love you, probably shouldn’t get married to begin with.