Real Love: Hidden Heart - Muslim Women Defying Stereotypes

[@minnie1185]

This ‘documentary’ falls very short of explaining the actual Muslim principles of marriage and the long term impact on family life and Muslim society it brings. Marriage is not just about two people falling in love. And it is not the same as the ridiculous cultural practices that are imposed by some people upon their kids in the name of religion. What was depicted in this film was a cultural gap between parents and their daughters. Not a religious conflict. There are deep and valuable reasons for marrying within the faith. As someone who went through this exact experience I can tell you that if you hold dear to Islamic principles in your heart, then the outcome of a ‘mixed’ religious marriage will never bring contentment in this life nor the hereafter. Of course if you don’t truly value or adhere to Islamic principles then you will think you have ‘won’. At least in this world. I will also add that marriage between different cultures and ethnic groups is all perfectly acceptable within Islam. However the foundation of religion has to be the same.

[@Ya_Berries_Himmel]

👌👌May Allah bless you. You just spoke my mind! The epic fail about the ethnic background (Muslims women can marry from Mars as long as they are adhering to Islam!)

[@axmedalijama156]

whats halal is halal and whats haram is haram

[@heavenlymilano]

Absolutely... But the imam and the scholar interviewed do not think so!? I can not believe that they suggested that this religious ruling could be "reformed" for the benefit of the society! Islam is not a toy that you can play with! We know what is halal and what is haram. (It is not for a believing man or woman-when Allah and His Messenger decree a matter-to have any other choice in that matter. Indeed, whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has clearly gone ˹far˺ astray. Ahzab 36)

[@Anhar001]

Many "Scholar for dollars" exist, having a beard doesn't mean anything. Either you align within the boundaries of Islam or you don't, any "Scholar" that goes against Qur'an and sunnah is a fraud and to be rejected immediately.

[@yogiine]

To me that is like discriminating other people. How can one say another person is forbidden.. haram. Its how wars are made. These who follow their heart are brave souls. I was one of them😊

[@Anhar001]

@@yogiine wrong is wrong

[@yogiine]

​​​​@@Anhar001you and me are agree to disagree.. thats ok. Im nearly 60, and this is my experience. Our daughter is half norwegian and pakistani. (I was into it for nearly 20 years.) Our Maria is a bridge builder between barrierers that do make wars. The more mixed relationships, the Less Wars can be made. Its the TRUTH. And you know it❤

[@caligirllala1267]

This was so inspiring and beautiful.☺️ My husband and I are a mixed race couple and I couldn’t be happier. You can’t help who you fall in love with..

[@mussawarahmed8530]

The concept of marriage in Islam (unfortunately which has been forgotten by muslims in the muslim countries) is not only to fulfill your sexual desires but to leave behind a progeny which is beneficial to the Religion of Islam and the society in general. Mother plays a vital role in the upbringing of Children and therefore the education of Women is more important in Islam then that of men since Women are the leaders who form the tomorrow's society. In short, everything in Islam , even marraige, revolves around the promotion and well-being of Islam.

[@MuhammadAli-hr1bj]

Wow, love conquerers hearts. May the remaining days of your life be happy and prosperous.

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

What love!!

[@carolginsberg662]

The way these stories turned out is very uplifting!

[@MrsPetal]

God is the root of all religion so what does it matter if you’re Muslim or Jew or Christian or Spiritual, God didn’t make human’s to be divided by religion, he made us to be united to follow God, and God alone.

[@Mylifeperfect10]

These are just challenges but remember this world is very small compared to the thereafter ,fear Allah ,haram is haram

[@sunnyday7102]

No fear, thank you! Allah is all love, no fear.

[@justsomegirlwithoutamustache]

And it’s not up to you to decide

[@dicboxdicbox6969]

The summary of this video is to rebel against tradition even it goes against your religion, then you will be happy. But, also define the tradition to suit moral.

[@spidyman8853]

what a load of tosh

[@sorinbalanescu6819]

It is amazing how advanced the world is in terms of technology, medicine, hygiene and so on. At the same time, we are so medieval in terms of psychology, empathy and fairness. Fight for your right to live, people!

[@aabbuk7873]

I can see it is not easy for Asian or Arab muslim or even eastern Christians community for that matter to adapt and tackle issues in the western world, issue such as marriage. My recommendations is for parents to be patients, understanding and not forceful. We choose to bring them to that world and we need to learn and adapt on how to deal with it. No one says that you need to give up your values, but prepare yourself(as parents) and concerned individuals in that affected circle to these challenges before bring them to that reality. God bless you all 🙏🙏🌷Abdulhameed from Saudi Arabia

[@Fatima-xf6eh]

This is deep mehn ! Ya Allah make it easy for us. Kids are our greatest tests for us , ya Allah make it easy for us allow us to pass this test ya dhul jalal wa ikram .

[@yogiine]

Awsome to see people who choose for themselves❤

[@heavenlymilano]

Unfortunately, these families remained isolated in Britain and could not pass their religious conviction to their kids. Those kids are shaped by the British society and education system rather than Islamic values. If those families were able to build Islamic communities, they would not push their daughters marry their cousins as a safe option. If those daughters had strong faith, they would not even consider non-Muslims as potential husbands.

[@HeatherBoo916]

No offense, but I married a Muslim man from Pakistan. I am Muslim too, so don't take offense. But I saw alot of cousin marriages in Pakistan.....ALOT> so I am thinking your theory doesn't stand up.

[@sunnyday7102]

My choice is to love and accept our children regardless if they choose to be religious or not. That’s up to every individual. A spiritual path is a private matter and only the free can find true faith as every individual must make their own unique experiences in order to grow spiritually. Brainwashing one’s children is shameful because it disables their free decision making abilities in their future lives. May they find a happy life and true faith within and an understanding of the self. May they not be suppressed by a fearful guilt plagued judgmental society.

[@yogiine]

❤

[@jojotaji4258]

I’m an English revert to Islam my husband is from Karachi Pakistan

[@gloryj8712]

Islam says women are half knowledge, so you proved right, by choosing false prophet mohemmed religion.. In India 8 lakhs muslims girls married non muslims boys, and numbers is growing very fast, muslims mufti’s and mullahs worried about this numbers… Because this muslims girls got full knowledge about Islam they’re leaving Islam..

[@HeatherBoo916]

Same, mine is from Nowshera (Peshawar). I lived in Nowshera for a year.

[@TruthAlwaysWins786]

Islam allows marriage between different race but religion has to be the same with the exception of Christan/Jews for Muslim men..there's no justification for marrying outside the faith as it brings no benefit in the hereafter

[@YourSense114]

Dr Osama ( Quilium foundation), your contexts doesn’t seem you are qualified to call urself or Researcher of Islamic studies….Remember people don’t go to hellfire for no reason

[@daddythefather3099]

Such a hear warming documentary beautiful

[@renatoc8377]

Normalizing haraam

[@sunnyday7102]

Finally eliminating stupid old ideas actually

[@spidyman8853]

SIGN of the times Alamat al asa'aa

[@BintAbdulKader]

“Bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for bad men) and bad people for bad statements (or bad men for bad women)” [al-Noor 24:26]

[@yogiine]

Judgements are not of devine nature ❤

[@spidyman8853]

It appears that the girls are not aware of the basic fundamental of their religion. Hence this documentary. Enough said.

[@Jamshedac-gf4bh]

Salam Eid Mubarak, this kind of decision requires too many sacrifices too much damage so to be quiet avoid blind love but it's easy to say! all the best

[@user-vn1mr1xb1g]

I was born in UK n never went to high school kept goin Bangladesh every year while waiting for a place 4 times and I'm proud my dad took me to Bangladesh n loving it

[@nadanalia3000]

These poor girls ❤️

[@zabavnaya-xt8tb]

Poor women suffering 😢

[@musaabdurrani8592]

الحلال بيّن والحرام بيّن...' الحديث' Halal is clear and haram is clear...

[@zabavnaya-xt8tb]

What a hypocrisy men can marry outside of the faith and womne can't 🙄😏

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

That's the westernized mind in you speaking...And it's not hypocrisy because a wife follows the husband, not the other way round

[@GotooMarvellousMarioBros]

We need to update accordingly by generation and period needs.

[@oulaasnar7874]

Why playing a video of Morocco from 1940’s 🤔? I always asked why the British have horrible teeth? I though the water! But after seeing these British from different origins have descent teeth it must be something else !

[@emilybaumeister4980]

Child abuse

[@moadam7003]

Well, we, Somalis, get 10 children so if one of them gets lost we say well 9 is left lol these ladies want to convince us that their parents were ignorant who didnt care about their children! I want to hear the other side, so please interview the parent so we can discover their sins and ….

[@HeatherBoo916]

That's actually really sad.....like the kids are disposable.

[@mrrichierich9916]

20😊23 Uk 🇬🇧 England Things have to change for the future More doors need to be open Muslim women should have the opportunity to marry Englishman if they wish In the Muslim community divorce rates are very high in the uk England There are lots of centres all over the uk England to help we mean break away from their tradition their family and their marriage A lot of women have to change districts and leaving other parts of the country because their lives can not be acceptable in the Muslim community Also if she divorced and has children or other issues She will just be looked upon as damage goods and too much baggage A lot of men who are young would not entertain the idea of picking up where somebody else left off I think the opportunity for Englishman should be open to take on board Muslim women The option should always be there It should be irrelevant if the money is a Christian Love will always move in mysterious ways and sometimes families and friends do not accept the future as it is But at the end of the day It's your life not theirs An uk England is not Pakistan or India or any other part of the world we are completely different culture All times don't always work it's time to always look at the future and be open 2 changes A lot of men now are looking abroad for women as brides There are lots of divorces looking for a new life and a new man Dating online does not work it's all a fallacy and a bad way to look at things Nothing in it is always the truth

[@sb-fx6ll]

Muslim women can marry a white English man as long as he's a Muslim. There are many in our community here. There is no racism in Islam, perhaps in certain communities but the religion is against racism!

[@rayv7623]

I think it’s not good for a guy to become a Muslim only because you want to marry do you 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@elnourhafsa9776]

THERE SHOULD BE ONE.... ONE RELIGION .... IN THE WHOLE WORLD ..... GOD ... OR .... WHATEVER ... HIS NAME ... IN DIFFERENT LANGUAGES .... IS... ONE..... PEOPLE.... WAKE UP .... AHHHHH ...... REALLY? AHHHH ..... I HOPE ... SOME DAY .... SOMEONE .... WILL MANAGE TO .... UNITE ALL OF US..... 😭😭😭😭😭 SO HEARTBREAKING TO SEE ..... HOW PEOPLE GET THIS IMPEDIMENT ... BLOCKING THEIR ... HAPPINESS.. UFFFF 😔😔😔

[@zabavnaya-xt8tb]

21:14 my heart breaks

[@v52686]

God give us that love u could do what u want love is love❤

[@KC-qr3wk]

All these women giving up their daughters are going to die miserable.

[@miguelzola1394]

Happiness is for everybody

[@laminsinghateh2494]

Are you God? Bigot

[@DoobyChef]

Who are you to tell them?

[@sunnyday7102]

Such nonsense

[@razer0072073]

48:56