Toxic Work Environment Storytime | Chatty Work With Me

[@candiceramirez1149]

I worked in a call center that primarily catered to hospitals and high end medical offices. The callers were stressed out and not feeling well. The clients were overworked and sometimes profane to us, but immediately kind, when we put their patient through on the phone. During covid, I ended up in hospital with chest pains. The insurance provided by my employer didn't pay a single dollar . What a heafty bill. I'd had enough. I quit. Now! I do banquets 1 day a week to get me out of the house. And the rest of the week I list on ebay and poshmark. Thanks for the inspiration .

[@chupacandrea5188]

That is so horrible. It sounds like they were all so miserable that they resented your sunny attitude and were *literally* trying to dim your light. ❤

[@dawnielane6283]

I love how your faith shines through. We were never meant to walk this road alone!

[@judybrannan4836]

Oh my, your such a sweet girl thanks for sharing. I’m 68 and have worked in many places that were toxic and feel the experiences made me stronger. 😊

[@beloved_mon]

Resigned on Monday for similar reasons.

[@myresellerlife4666]

That is such a terrible experience. Because somebody else may have had a worse experience, doesn't mean yours wasn't bad. Thanks for sharing your story. I love your advice of not believing negative things about yourself just because somebody else says them. I wish somebody had told me that when I was younger. I remember and relate to the line in the movie "Pretty Woman", where Julia Robert's character says something along the lines of 'it is easier to believe the bad stuff' (about yourself). I tell my daughters (and often have to remind myself) that when somebody else says bad things about another person, it is a reflection of the character of the person speaking and not the person being spoken about. There are people who also get a rise out of tearing other people down and this guy definitely seems like one of those. It seems like he was bitter and jaded and just couldn't believe that anybody could have a sweet, bubbly personality without being fake.

[@mariedonigan5647]

I have to admit as a 53 year old hearing you tell this story I first thought oh this was long ago and imagine my absolute shock when you said this was recent years.. which makes sense as you are so young. I’m so sorry you had to endure that and how it scarred you. Thankful you are working through it. You are amazing and wonderful and worthy. Never forget that! Keep on being you. ❤️ I enjoy your thrifting hauls. Going to take some tips to get some listings done myself. Have a huge pile to be listed.

[@jaclynscott4440]

I’m so sorry to hear about your first out of college job 😢 that’s horrible! I have a history of health issues, and past work experiences… let’s just say retail and continuous leaving early because of a flare up doesn’t sit well with some people. Anywho… the last office job I held, I had the best boss and co-workers (admin assistant at our church). My boss was patient and kind, I know others aren’t blessed by such people. I left that job to stay home with my now 2 year old, and I have taken reselling on FULL TIME 🙌🏻 I’m thankful and blessed to be able to do this, with a very supportive husband. One comment about “bullies” and toxic people in the work environment, what they say about you and so to you says more about them and their character than it does about you. I had my own share a few jobs, both positive and negative, but having to remind myself took the stink away, even just a little bit.

[@RebekahAllison]

I totally understand that too! I’m sorry about your health issues; I know how hard it is sometimes to deal with that. I’m glad you had a great last experience, and that you’re supported by your husband in what you’re doing! ❤️ Thank you for you kind words, friend!

[@caridimarzio8804]

Other people or employees will often collude with a bully, because they are afraid themselves, or they will receive special treatment or privileges if they do this. And yes, your story is very familiar to me. I had everything from anxiety attacks to health problems from working like this for many years. Eventually, I became a whistleblower (extremely stressful). The “mean” person quit, and about a year later I retired. I will NEVER work under those conditions again. God Bless You! And for anyone else, don’t hang on for years. Move on! I wish I had!

[@debonail9927]

I also worked in an office with a male who wanted to work in the dark and to make matters worse he would moan and groan and make sounds that I was afraid would be misconstrued by someone coming into the outer office. I am sorry you were treated that way. I am sure you stuck it out much longer than I would have!

[@Sarah-y5w]

I feel that I work in a toxic work environment . I called in sick once. When I came in the next day, I got the evil stare from 3 staff members .

[@th5579]

Going through something like that can make empathy for others even stronger. Their actions reflect on them. Your personality would be such a blessing to others. God Bless!

[@Bendybrothers6116]

So something I've kinda picked up on is that when someone paints a target on you or see any signs of weakness EVERYONE will take shots. IDK whats wrong with people but i def see that in the world. Also, something I witnessed is people like you who are bubbly and full of sunshine, your happiness bothers people SMDH. Like they are so miserable in their lives they want yours to match theirs. Keep your head up hun and don't let anyone steal your sunshine. Smile in spite of them and their sour faces. Sorry you went thru that.

[@pennyhw]

So glad that you found your happy place and were able to put the toxic people/job behind you! Keep doing you!!

[@garthandlynnrixonanddemers5728]

That was an amazingly inspirational video. You are a wonderful caring person. The world is filled with nasty hateful people that try to make your world unbearable at times. You my friend have proven that you are so much above them. Stay your beautiful self always. You are a breath of fresh air and a true ray of sunshine. Big hugs. Lynn in 🇨🇦

[@brittanydoolan41]

Toxic work environments affect you in so many ways...some that don't even surface until you speak them out loud to another person. So sorry you had to go through that BS! I can't even imagine someone not liking you because you have a bubbly personality??! I left a very toxic work environment to resell full time and it has been wonderful for my mental health and my family's health. I will NEVER go back! It is crazy how many similarities there are between our two stories. You're right, it feels good to be seen and heard. Love your videos and starting my day with "hello my friends!" because it reminds me of my kindergarten teaching years! Keep being your GENUINE self and doing you because you're great!

[@TheKpass]

Thank you for sharing! Much hugs to you. Listened to this while doing my full time job. Reselling has made me realize I need to start to make myself successful instead of working hard to make others money. I do a lot of adult-sitting at my job and after 18 years it’s getting tiresome res Pliny has given me a new outlet and possible way to leave my job. My boss is great but the dynamics have changed and just don’t care for it anymore 😊

[@TheCozyShire]

I’m sorry you had to go through all that. And I’m glad you came out stronger on the other side! ❤

[@jessmarie143]

unfortunately can relate to this, especially the wishing you knew then what you know now. thanks so much for sharing!

[@tawnytirado143]

Same❤

[@SideHustleHun33]

Sorry you went through that nasty work environment ! You are so right that those kind of situations teach us what we absolutely will not tolerate later on. Glad you are now loving your job! That’s what I love about reselling. Is we create our own work environment and have the freedom to live life too ❤️

[@cherylcoolidge8249]

Thank you for sharing. You are a sweetheart and that is their problem not yours. But it is so hard to go through.

[@kristinas2985]

Thanks so much for sharing! I’m currently at my job right now and I do feel stuck and don’t enjoy it. I have great coworkers and great benefits so it’s not bad, but a majority of my coworkers get to work from home and I don’t after asking a a lot so I feel stuck. I know I need to apply for other jobs to get out, but it sometimes feels impossible. A lot of that is in my head so thank you for sharing your story: I know I’m not alone!

[@edithramos1701]

So sorry you went through that experience. I had a bad experience with a coworker at one of my jobs when I was younger and I was in shock. She went off yelling at me and said some hurtful things but I quickly learned not to take on other peoples problems. They are the ones with the issues and just don’t have a clue how to deal with their problems so they take it out on others. You are awesome. Keep up the great work and continue to do what you enjoy. If more people did that there would be more happier people around.

[@janiehall4868]

I am so sorry you experienced all that. You have matured so much from it. I feel like you need a big hug!

[@ellensiddall7824]

You are amazing to go through all that and come through it in one piece ,then to move on with positivity and be the best you that you can be. The people that talk toxic crap are sad bitter people, the best way to beat then is to be happy and love you❤

[@mikeandjeanninejeffers1196]

You are so Cute Rebekah! We all have had bad experiences with bad work environments, so sorry yours was so hard. Good for you working for yourself. Good luck in all you do. Love your videos, you have taught me so much about clothes brands. Looking forward to your next video. God Bless and stay well.

[@buzzemt]

Thank you for making this video. I had a bad work experience too & it was helpful to hear your story.

[@carolynwadden1527]

I hate that you went through that. It sounds terrible but thank you for sharing. Its important for people to be real and share the bad as well as the good. Bravo, you have come out of that awful time and are in such a better place. I'm glad you have your husband and wonderful family around you. ❤❤

[@maura5740]

I‘m so sorry to hear about what you went through. Thank you for sharing! And thank god you made it out of that car accident ❤ Cars are there to be totaled and still keep you safe. I’m so glad yours did!

[@moneymovejenn]

I resonate with this entire video so so much! Thanks for sharing and so proud of you finding happiness in your own way. :)

[@RebekahAllison]

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[@MELANIEONEAL]

I am so sorry you had such a crappy work environment. There is no excuse, and it is not right. I am glad you got out of there. I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to put it in this video. You and Jeremy have made a wonderful life for yourselves, and you seem very happy and right where you need to be. You are one of my favorite people to watch on KZbin!

[@RebekahAllison]

You are so sweet, friend. ❤️ Thank you for you’re kind words!!! ❤️

[@racer668]

I started this job where I thought the boss was introducing me to people, but he was actually going around showing me to people. One of his buddies over heard me telling a black lady how there's a disproportionate amount of minority people in our industry. He tried to punish/shame me for my opinion by forming up a mob against me and getting other companies to blackball me out of the industry.

[@gloriaprimeau7318]

They have to answer for themselves something is wrong with people who have to put down other people thanks for sharing your story. I love the music on your channel I think your a lovely sweet women thank you for that.god bless

[@RebekahAllison]

Oh my word, you are just so sweet! Thank you for being here, sweet friend. ❤️

[@charlenejones68]

I'm so sorry that happend to you! I might have seeked legal advice for on the job verbal harrassment, etc. What a bully he was! This also shows what a strong woman you are. And that this bad experience has made you a stronger and better person. I enjoy your videos. Keep up the great work! 🙂🤗💕✌

[@RebekahAllison]

😭😭😭 Thank you, sweet friend!

[@RomanicHopeless]

I really want to leave my job and sell full time, but I’m scared of not having health insurance 😢 I think most resellers that go full time usually have a partner that picking up the slack so they can resell.

[@kimsleger7296]

I think you're amazing and this video was right on time! Keep on keepin' on!!

[@TeklaTch]

Girl I am literally going through similar thing right now.

[@Willas_Wardrobe]

What a shitty place to work. I’m glad you got yourself out of there and have found where you belong and are appreciated ❤

[@paisleyplaidpearls8472]

So sorry you went through, that. I had kinda an opposite experience. I had one co-worker creating a hostile environment in which I went to my manager (she didn't believe me) and HR but nothing developed. Finally, she took time off without notice at Christmas (I work Coronate retail so that wasn't good) and she was asked to just leave when she decided to come back. Finally my manger believed me in which I told her. She was a nasty person telling lies about me and others. Just nasty.

[@RebekahAllison]

Ugh! That’s horrible!! I’m sorry, my friend!

[@Lovelytreasures18]

I know how you feel. You just want to be happy. Get along with everyone and do your job. But unfortunately I would throw up every morning before work. I did a great job. That’s how I was taught. But it’s over now and we’re diffinately going to be ok. While you were talking to us I was looking at your clothing. You have beautiful clothing no wonder you sell so much. I started in September and learning so much. So I’m hanging in there and trying to learn from all of you reseller’s like yourself l. Ok have to go to bed. Thanks. Sonia

[@RebekahAllison]

Oh honey, I totally understand how you feel! And I’m so proud of you! You’ve got this!!

[@Gobi512]

Okay....so I'm only up to timestamp 13.56...OMG...first of all if one ever cries because of work it's time to quit. If you wake up at 3 a.m. stressed..it's time to quit. When we are in our 20s most of us take so much garbage from others because we don't understand what's going on. As a single mom in my 40s I took abuse when I worked in Austin, TX (a house of worship (I"m not religious...they treated my coworkers abysmally and then it was my turn), a well known non-profit where my boss yelled at me in front of others (finally quit when others pointed out how badly I was treated) and then at Univ of Texas where some egomaniac professors thought they were the king/queen of England. One of my coworkers actually cried one day. It's not just the corporate world. One would think that people would be more kind at NGOs, houses of worship etc but they aren't. I will say in my early days working in NYC I had the best bosses and nobody copped an attitude. Don't take garbage from anyone!!

[@beckymaus4614]

That sounds like an awful work environment! Glad you got out of there, and got counseling to learn that's not normal!

[@secondhandfashion]

Wow that whole story is so relatable. Thanks for sharing with us!! What finally made you leave that place? Wonder if that guy still works there. 🤔 Happy to see you have come so far. Look at you now, KZbin queen!!! ❤❤❤

[@RebekahAllison]

😂😂 You’re so welcome! He definitely still works there, but no one else I worked with does. 😬 I literally just couldn’t get out of bed and face it anymore each day. I tried to make it a full year to get vacation time, but I ended up quitting as a birthday present to myself. ❤️

[@secondhandfashion]

I’m not at all surprised that he is still there 😂 Sounds like he belongs there lol

[@ms.osorio4930]

Well, remember this... you are too sweet!

[@artfullytonistreasures1347]

What a horrible experience as your first job!!! People can be the worst! People will smile to your face & stab you in the back when you're walking away! The fact that it angered that guy because you have a bubbly personality shows you he was just a miserable person!

[@haleylynch3235]

☕☕☕ we love the name drop

[@RebekahAllison]

😂😂 I’m glad you did! I imagine all these friends of mine googling this stupid stair company. Lol

[@edwinalasal9114]

Thank you for sharing

[@katbyrd9299]

What ever happened to the male coworker ?? So glad you got out - I wish I had gotten out sooner from my toxic workplace. Ugh. Life can really suck sometimes …. 💖💚

[@RebekahAllison]

He’s still working there. He’s truly committed to the “Viewrail Vision.” 😂 Nothing happened to him, and he’s high up now. 🙄

[@katbyrd9299]

I’m so glad you are out of there - Remember : we love you and your videos. You are always a breath of fresh air 💖💚

[@lonesomebeetroot3376]

Lol my first experience was working at Best Buy. I was literally 17 and heard people making not so appropriate comments about me and then I had super anxiety and I told this lady she was putting her ID in the card reader and it wouldn’t work and she looked at me and said “do you think I’m an fing idiot” and I basically said yes and started crying. Oooh boi…

[@RebekahAllison]

Oh my word, that sounds like such a terrible experience! 🙈 And that lady: 😳👀🙄. Oh my word!!!

[@sariesthriftyfindsIL]

Where did you get your hangers at??

[@RebekahAllison]

My exchange student’s parents made them for me as a gift and sent them from Korea! I’ve been telling them that they should sell them!!

[@RomanicHopeless]

I work at a big company that’s like that. I call it soft bullying bcus they do it in a nice toned voice. Like that mean church lady (don’t come at me you know what I mean)

[@dennismiller8602]

We do offer dental now.

[@RebekahAllison]

😂😂😂😂

[@JackyHapy]

Essentially you experienced workplace bullying 😞. Look at you now though 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙂

[@LynnHinkforth-v6s]

What other people think of me is none of my business.

[@yvettepeterson7163]

REBEKAH, WHOSE THE SINGER ON YOUR INTRO?? I LOVE THIS SONG 🤔🤔

[@RebekahAllison]

It’s called A Year Ago by NEFFEX! It’s a wonderful song!

[@nancyjones1595]

Karma!!! So sad for u but it will come back to haunt them don’t u worry! It was abusive for sure! 😢

[@WinterRoberts-j2v]

Gotta stop being mean to people for real

[@nancyjones1595]

❤

[@JenntheReSeller]

Did you go to college in Indiana?

[@RebekahAllison]

Yes, I did! Jeremy and I both went to Bethel College!

[@JeremyAIIison]

♥♥♥

[@RebekahAllison]

Love you!

[@lashaydavis8593]

This job sounded like a cult glad you were able to let that behind.

[@cindicarnes1731]

I know you are a Christian, Have you heard the song Perfectly Loved? Please listen to it. I had heard it but not really listened to the words. I was in my car last week and stopped at a light. It came on and I was crying going down the street. God bless

[@RebekahAllison]

I LOVE that song! And I totally agree, sometimes I can just put on a song like that and cry! I’m listening to it again right now! ❤️😊 Sending love, sweet friend.

[@AliceSoli-w6n]

My guy was projecting his insecurities

[@nancyjones1595]

Omg so horrible u poor thing 😢

[@ginaguinn9028]

When you cleaned out your closet you said you like organizing. Maybe look at your business the same way Organizing seems to relax you. Think of it as organizing.

[@RebekahAllison]

That is such a valuable insight! And such a great idea! Thank you so much, friend!

[@angelajuneau7457]

Sounds like a horrible company to work for.

[@cherylcoolidge8249]

Thank you for sharing. You are a sweetheart and that is their problem not yours. But it is so hard to go through.

[@Hamilton8122]

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