Rebound relationships 7 reasons they don't work

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[@Oxfordstudios]

I’m at the stage of forgetting her. I care about her, but if it was healthy we’d be together still. If she wants to bounce around that’s on her. I need to process things, I cant imaging touching and sleeping with anyone else it just seems unnatural. I need to heal and process my emotions, and work on my flaws. Another human can’t help me with that.

[@rodessa0683]

update

[@Oxfordstudios]

@FurryNudez we’re done for good. She’s continuing to do the same thing last time I checked. Ultimately she did not make me happy and that was what made me realize I shouldn’t be with her.

[@Oxfordstudios]

@@rodessa0683 Ultimately she did not make me happy and that was what made me realize I shouldn’t be with her.

[@iammybabysnut]

I think 3 months even 6-8 months or 10 months is very little time. Because you can’t change the behavioural mistakes you had been hardwired to in such as short time. Even if you’re intellectually aware of your part of the breakup and your mistakes, it takes time to be integrated with your actions. No one changes so quick. My ex and I broke up 11 months ago. He wanted to get back to me twice and fucked it up again both of them. The last one was in late September, fuxked that up big time, and now he’s in a relationship. So considering you were wanting to be back with your ex 2,5-3 months ago, how fast it is to meet someone right, fix your issues and officially announce this new person as your new partner. I wanna believe that it won’t work. But I also don’t want to live on false hopes. Most men usually can’t stay alone for long periods of times, if not relationship they need attention and sex. Which is false reality. Anyway only time will show

[@alexandermelchers1497]

Thanks for putting these videos out there! They're seriously good on their insights into rebound dynamics...!

[@therealkeinemoniker]

this one made me feel better.

[@williamehrman7246]

If she truly loved me she wouldn't have left me in the first place I treat her like a queen I would never abuse her hitter or cheat on her..... so she can go and if she goes keep going because that's not love and I don't want that kind in my life...... goodbye

[@beckymusgrove4784]

To me, three months would be extremely quick to recover or heal from a significant relationship. That seems like a very low average.

[@sml5386]

I think it has more to do with the emotional work they've done. They might have "moved on" from you but if they are still feeling that void they will experience similar issues in the new relationship. If they don't want to be alone they will romanticize the new person and ignore any signs of uncompatability.

[@beckymusgrove4784]

@@sml5386 it definitely has to do with the emotional work. That’s part of healing. If you don’t process the breakup and heal, you really haven’t moved on. Instead, you just transfer all of that to the new relationship, and the new relationship becomes a way of avoiding and distracting from the discomfort of processing and growing. The unresolved emotions and patterns and baggage will come out. I don’t even think it always matters if the other person is “incompatible”-the impetus for the relationship is not healthy. My ex is extremely avoidant and broke up after 1.5 yrs while he was emotionally shutdown on the phone. He could barely have any conversation. A few months later, he was already focused on someone else, as if everything is great.

[@viewtiful457]

@@beckymusgrove4784 might be faking it since most rebounds fake everything to all hell.

[@beckymusgrove4784]

@@viewtiful457 I agree-most rebounds are a way of forcing oneself to “move on,” but without doing the work or healing, so it’s not genuine. I was just surprised that he said 3-6 mos was the average time it took to move on. I guess it depends on the relationship, but it just seems like a very low average for a significant relationship.

[@viewtiful457]

@@beckymusgrove4784 I agree with that too. I didn’t start healing from mine from February to August 2021, only to find out she still pines over me but wants to prove it can work with someone else even tho he ignores her lol. Worlds a crazy place.

[@cristiancortes9]

If your ex mantains contact with you or gets back in...then thats a really strong sign that things are not going great...i know it from own experience...this unhappiness is going on very soon in that rebound...so how the hell is going to work...it cant...be patient...work focus only on your self..do no try to interfiere..date other people...be indifferent or go NC...if you had a solid relantionship...your ex will return... You really want it back? I didnt

[@blancaarriaga98]

my ex was already talking to his current girlfriend a month before we broke up. she knew about me and knew we were still together and still proceeded to talk to him. he broke up with me and within 1 month they made it official. she must enjoy being the rebound. 3 years wasted

[@remyd1984]

not a rebound but monkey branched! big difference

[@mirayap4923]

My ex and his rebound are together for almost 6mos now. They moved in together 3mos after my ex left me and our daughter. We’ve been together for 10yrs. I guess he loves the girl that much for him to give almost everything to her like car, phone, laptop etc. By the way she is half his age. So sad but I have to stay strong for our daughter.

[@viewtiful457]

Not everything is as it seems on the surface with rebounds, they SHOW that they are happy but it can be untrue at times

[@caripescadr533]

@@viewtiful457 I can confirm this. My ex is still with his rebound (they have a month) and started flirting 3 days after he broke up with me. She actually was the one who kissed him first and according to him "it was just to fast, I don't know what happened, it was wierd". He still contacts me even though he's with his rebound, he told me he feels their connection is different, that he doesn't visualize her as a "girlfriend/partner" and that he looks at her more like a "best friend".

[@caripescadr533]

Much of the time it's a false reality so don't worry.

[@viewtiful457]

@@caripescadr533 I appreciate the support honestly. I ended up finding out my ex was writing about how much they love me and confessed they didn’t know how to say it and pushed me away (due to avoidant attachment because feelings are mutual) so I’m not sure what to do.

[@viewtiful457]

@@caripescadr533 her rebound doesn’t even pay her much attention supposedly. He just “plays video games all day.” But I think she’s with him just to keep appearances but isn’t genuinely happy as she was with me.

[@edwinmartinez5417]

Did you say this video doesn’t apply if this was mine and my ex’s first relationship?

[@Oviraptor10]

Where's the guide? I'm not sure I can find it! Also, about point #7, what if the rebound doesn't know about you? What if your ex never mentioned they recently left a relationship? Does it still work the same way? As always, thank you for these videos!

[@schylerjohnson9216]

It’ll boil to the surface. There’s always talks about past partners and relationships

[@SoundsSilver]

Can you do a video about when they rebound to their ex? And who is the rebound in that case?

[@remyd1984]

you can't rebound to an ex. you are the rebound

[@JS-wo7zd]

I don’t get it. The guy she just left me for lives with his parents, has a kid, makes $36k a year. Etc. he is complete opposite of me. I make good money, kids are grown etc

[@annnee6818]

Can you REEEEAAAALLLY "get over" a long term relationship in three months healthily? If you can let me know how

[@laurenmountain-ledoux6901]

0 seconds ago Mine has moved in with his rebound. She doesn’t know about me. He has been in contact with me and initiates all contact. He also flirts with me, is very concerned about what’s going on in my life and about my wellbeing. I remain mysterious, let him contact me, don’t ignore him but don’t respond immediately. When I do respond, I get immediate replies. Seems he contacts me when she isn’t around. Break up came out of no where. He said his heart wasn’t in it. 28 days later he was reaching out to me and the following month he met her. She moved in 3 months into their relationship. Not sure what he’s doing here. I have given the perception that I have moved on with my life and the more mysterious I am, the more he seems interested. He’s been reaching g out more frequently. Not sure if he’s comparing or assessing?

[@sml5386]

You skipped 5...

[@SoundsSilver]

You say it's impossible for them to find someone with that kind of connection so quickly, but she went back with an ex, so I guess that's one way

[@remyd1984]

are you the rebound from the real relationship?

[@MargaritaHendricks-xu2uo]

I went on 2 dates with a man who was separated he talked about his ex, he wanted to meet my family straight away and pushed for sex. Luckily I came to my senses and ended it but said later on if he’s single we can get in touch. Anyway few months later I see he’s with a new girl (NOT his wife) he’s met her family and they seem like happy couple. I’m not sure if I saved myself being the rebound and she’s now the rebound or what! But it’s made me question the whole thing

[@AlexisFriedlander]

It's still early to tell if his rebound will work or not. They might look happy even if they're not or one of them is not.

[@fer08510]

My ex is in a rebound after being with me for 4 years, we met after a while and he teared up and told me he still loves me and he couldnt love her, he even kissed me , he said he cant breakup with her suddenly because she loves him (they've been together for less than 4 months) and told me if he ever came back to me he will never let me go again and he will propose , he even told me "you're it", but after that nothing happend , it's been one month since this happened , and they're still together and she seems rlly happy on social media sharing quotes that he is the one and they're right for each other , she even beczme friends with his friends and family on instagram and facebook , what does this mean ? are they going to continue to be together ? will it fail eventually? and will he come back ?

[@xandermrs1288]

why do you even care about this kind of horrible person? He's clearly not over you and in the process he is destroying another one's feelings by doing so. Of course it will fail, but I'd never touch him again.

[@fer08510]

@@xandermrs1288 i am working on moving on already but it's killing me how he's treating her right now, like idk is he suddenly falling for her right after our meeting ? what happened to him , taking her on double dates and making her a big bday surprise ... its killing me :(

[@johelka7901]

Even if seems impossible they do return some take years but you shouldn’t hold on just Because of wording from him keep moving try to do your part of healing why hold on when he’s having fun and for you to be a back up plan if something goes wrong!! You want to be a priority not a second choice!! Unfortunately that’s reality and you have to accept it!!🙏🧐

[@remyd1984]

you made the wrong moves! he tested a you was still on his hook! his backup plan@@fer08510

[@Well_checked834]

She already moved on not even 2 months in, it’s definitely a distraction man, it’s only a matter of time before she realizes she messed up

[@remyd1984]

update mate

[@jmmacalalag]

Depends on your game, the dude that I took the girl from is beta male, crying on social media and begging for her back lol...

[@andrim9931]

Are you still with her?

[@jmmacalalag]

@@andrim9931 Nah... I found a younger hotter chick. Build yourself up to be high value man and the women just keep coming.

[@remyd1984]

@@jmmacalalag but here you are a high value man bragging on a youtube video lol ffs