Rediscovering Hope Through Self-Forgiveness | Billy Johnson | TEDxDonovanCorrectional

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7 жыл бұрын

Even as a high school football star, Billy fell into a dark tunnel. Within a 9-month period, Billy’s two most important people were killed and he felt responsible for both deaths. He found his light switch after 20 years of incarceration, which led him to rediscover hope through self-forgiveness.
"I see myself as caring, earnest, loyal and full of life. I want to bring happiness to a person’s day. If I notice someone isn’t happy or feeling well, I want to make him smile. I find joy and passion in team settings; I love to work with others. What got us where we’re at does not need to define us. I love sports and working out."
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@Somebody02594
@Somebody02594 4 жыл бұрын
What I learnt: prison only corrects those who are willing to be corrected. I admire this man’s courage. Thank you.
@DivineJesusPrayers
@DivineJesusPrayers 7 жыл бұрын
Wow... I am really touched... Never look down on anyone unless you are helping them up... Epic!
@jocosesonata
@jocosesonata 6 жыл бұрын
"Never look down on anyone unless you are helping them up." That's a really a good line.
@TMGettingMoney
@TMGettingMoney 5 жыл бұрын
That’s real. Well stated and true. Salute.💯‼️👑
@marvelaturraz5405
@marvelaturraz5405 4 жыл бұрын
It's not who you've "become". Brother, it's your innate, true self coming out. It's rediscovering who you really are. Like a sunflower which has to break thru layers of adversity. You're coming thru, and it's a beautiful thing, Man. Thank you.
@annmarieknapp2480
@annmarieknapp2480 10 ай бұрын
That was lovely. I think the sunflower analogy is beautiful. Thank you. Wishing you hugs,peace, and love.
@AngeloKevon
@AngeloKevon 3 жыл бұрын
I feel guilty for my past, I’m 21 and I have high dreams of influencing others and inspiring with my creativity. But I’m having so much trouble forgiving myself and pursuing anything because there are negative perceptions of me that I feel will literally destroy my life. And the amount of people who think I’m a terrible person is a small one but I identify with this constant past version of me. So I’ve been stuck for months not trying anything.
@waladali4312
@waladali4312 2 жыл бұрын
I’m actually 21 as well and have been suffering through the same recently, But don’t let that past perception of yourself identify you. Dont romanticize the past as being perfect or wish you could go back to correct your mistakes, your self awareness and willingness to dream is all you’ll need. Now just take the first step and watch the rest fall into place. Stay up.
@sweetbudgie5829
@sweetbudgie5829 2 жыл бұрын
You know if You start from today , you can do 3 good things starting from today , in a year's time you will have a year's worth of good memories to keep you warm . It can be very small, like helping an old lady carray her groceries , keeping a bird feeder , giving someone a helping hand without any expectation of a return . Keep your silence , work on yourself .
@Blasianpower2
@Blasianpower2 2 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter what you have done but what you will do now I am going through the same thing as many others are too keep pursing your dreams ❤️ People can change
@Prodigious1One
@Prodigious1One 2 жыл бұрын
I have a similar thought pattern. I took care of my mother for eight years and she died last year. I became depressed while taking care of her and I lost passion, joy, and hope. :-( I am still learning how to be positive for the future. I regret taking care of my mom, but she and I did have good times despite the difficult ones. I'm doing my best to continue. I pray that you and I both focus on the positive and believe in achieving the best for ourselves.
@JudionSmith
@JudionSmith Жыл бұрын
I used to think and feel that way, but what about the future version of you? Surely he/she deserves a chance. The past cannot be undone. Let's give the future a chance to experience what is left inside of us. We are still the rarest of gems. Still unique and phenomenal. Still irreplaceable. The healed version of you will be amazing. It's time to forgive and heal. With love. x
@megawatt3946
@megawatt3946 Жыл бұрын
Powerful story and message. "Death isn't the greatest tragedy. It's what dies in us while we are still alive." Thank you Billy. You touched my heart by your courageous message and story of redemption and healing.
@shannonwalker2270
@shannonwalker2270 4 жыл бұрын
If you can forgive yourself, than I can forgive myself. Thanks for the hope. Loved your story. God bless.
@marciahale9766
@marciahale9766 6 жыл бұрын
What positivity and light really looks like - transformation shining from “an empty shell, buried in a coffin alive” . . . "where people want people to hurt, because they hurt"
@daithiocinnsealach3173
@daithiocinnsealach3173 5 жыл бұрын
Man, those words cut deep.
@greaterishe7197
@greaterishe7197 5 жыл бұрын
People CAN change IF they CHOOSE to💓
@brandonmorris1117
@brandonmorris1117 Жыл бұрын
We are all locked in the prison of our minds ...the thing is we forget we hold the keys to the doors to be unlocked.
@JudionSmith
@JudionSmith Жыл бұрын
The breath that we are still breathing is a sign of hope, but we keep holding on to what was as if it can be undone. Yes, we are guilty of whatever chaos we caused but it cannot be undone. We cannot live our whole in regret. There is a future version of us to experience. It is time we let the shame go. Don't let shame cripple you and and hold you hostage. Forgive your past self and give your future self a chance. We are becoming. We are not a finished product. Take the lessons forward and let's go. With love.x
@77Creation
@77Creation Жыл бұрын
Thank you. 🙏🏽
@haleighspeaks2115
@haleighspeaks2115 5 жыл бұрын
I was teary-eyed through the entire speech, but the sobs just FLOWED when I saw his standing ovation. I hope he feels the true power and inspiration that he deserves to feel for what he has learned and shared with this journey. I hope that standing ovation, these comments, and the many beautiful effects he likely sees in his life as a result of those changes impact him and show him how incredible and powerful he is. I hope he is so proud of himself for how worthy he is and how far he's come. I LOVED THIS TALK.
@somebody401
@somebody401 2 жыл бұрын
“Death isn’t the greatest tragedy in life, the greatest tragedy in life, what dies in us while we still alive”. It’s as you’re holding your cadaver on your shoulders that no one can see it except you. You’re drowning in yourself… in a sea of questions, guilt and bitterness….. Thank you for sharing. It’s so hard.. the most challenging thing ever is to try to revive what already died inside us. But I'll keep trying.
@TheHaratashi
@TheHaratashi 5 жыл бұрын
A speech with street flavor, yet brilliantly delivered. I wonder if he realizes just how great of a speaker he actually is.
@daithiocinnsealach3173
@daithiocinnsealach3173 5 жыл бұрын
This describes the last four years of my life. Different circumstances. Same feelings. Great message. Keep going brother.
@nickandchrismom
@nickandchrismom 5 жыл бұрын
Amen, forgiveness is they key.
@ljj2779
@ljj2779 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this video. I am struggling with self forgiveness and this made me feel better.
@joisea9509
@joisea9509 6 жыл бұрын
Amazing Talk. I need to work on my own self-forgiveness. This really is helpful.
@cheyennehernandez369
@cheyennehernandez369 5 жыл бұрын
That was so beautiful. I am so happy for you that you found self-forgiveness. I was feeling sad about something I did in the past and it was pulling me down, but after seeing your talk I feel better. Thank you for sharing. Much love!
@gtneal
@gtneal 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing courage to tell a crowd of strangers this turbulent story. Good luck to the man.
@legalservices8856
@legalservices8856 7 жыл бұрын
Wow what a great talk! Thank you brother and wish you the best and much love in your life!! There is a huge need for positive male role models and father figures in our culture; both for boys and girls who don't have that~ sounds like you found a way to give back and it is healing.
@monesma6950
@monesma6950 7 жыл бұрын
Wow! This really touch me. For a change is a great idea to listen to people that are not the typical divas.
@marianantonettepereyra6665
@marianantonettepereyra6665 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know how to forgive myself, before pandemic I didn't respect myself and now that I got a boyfriend all sinks in and I'm drowning. I wish I can turn back the time and never did those things. I'm so ashamed.
@EveKreatorr
@EveKreatorr 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, if you wish to talk with someone about the past, i'll be here, and maybe we can help eachother forgive ourselves
@barrypeterson6725
@barrypeterson6725 2 жыл бұрын
God will absolutely forgive you..just open your heart and reach out. Blessings.
@fallonrios9540
@fallonrios9540 6 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said.
@SHGames97
@SHGames97 3 жыл бұрын
You were exactly what I needed. Thank you.
@jjeennnnnn
@jjeennnnnn 6 жыл бұрын
Love this!!! Thank you for this speech.
@Wash894_
@Wash894_ 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Much respect to this man
@IndyColts30
@IndyColts30 3 жыл бұрын
Great message. I needed to see this. Thanks for sharing your story
@jmeditation
@jmeditation 4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully spoken, wise words. Change is possible.
@Woundedhealer_
@Woundedhealer_ 2 жыл бұрын
Such a powerful message.
@joanb12765
@joanb12765 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you because this is inspiring
@mamtat7206
@mamtat7206 3 жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful speech. All the best to him.
@joycethompson7179
@joycethompson7179 3 жыл бұрын
I’m in awe! Thank you for sharing your story. I’m very touched and inspired.
@ylmonkeyU2
@ylmonkeyU2 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, deeply moving.
@fugurally
@fugurally 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You touch the hearts and lives of so many.
@jamescason4569
@jamescason4569 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Billy!
@MaryJaneHancock
@MaryJaneHancock 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting!!
@restoredtoroyalty7960
@restoredtoroyalty7960 3 жыл бұрын
This Is a BLESSINGS God Is Amazing I am so Proud of You Man Of GOD! I was searching for a Video on Self FORGIVENESS and came across this Video Thank You so much for sharing your LIFE With the World. I Pray that you continue Give Yourself God! Blessings To You
@michaelsager5688
@michaelsager5688 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your heartfelt and inspiring talk!
@Onialove_
@Onialove_ 2 жыл бұрын
“Never look down on anyone unless you’re helping them up”
@NopeNotToday26
@NopeNotToday26 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in tears right now. I never could grasp the concept of hurting people hurt other people...until now. I still got a long way to go, but this gave me hope man.
@cloo2937
@cloo2937 4 жыл бұрын
Great story bro. U are a positive role model for everyone who hasn't forgiving are selves.
@pauln8815
@pauln8815 5 жыл бұрын
Wow - thank you brother - very inspiring-
@alicelee8172
@alicelee8172 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed to hear today and everyday. Thank you Mr. Billy Johnson
@shannonfountain7172
@shannonfountain7172 Жыл бұрын
This is so inspiring to me.. bless this man for opening up to the world❤
@franciscobatres7991
@franciscobatres7991 3 жыл бұрын
Very powerful. I've listened to tgis many times and it still moves me.
@MW-eb6uf
@MW-eb6uf 5 жыл бұрын
This made me cry! THIS IS EXCELLENT !!!!!
@GeekChicForever21
@GeekChicForever21 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Billy.
@rashadadawan2126
@rashadadawan2126 Жыл бұрын
Wow. So powerful! Thank you for your story and for forgiving.
@mczensun8610
@mczensun8610 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Man
@caitlinlafferty
@caitlinlafferty 4 жыл бұрын
Different circumstances but the feelings are the same...Such a powerful speech that hopefully can continue to help others struggling with their own pain.
@karimabridges8537
@karimabridges8537 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, just wow! God Bless you 🙏🏽
@nigolt.4345
@nigolt.4345 7 жыл бұрын
So very very brilliant!!!! Just brilliant.
@jamesgoh3719
@jamesgoh3719 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for the talk brother. learning to forgive others starts with you first
@emilygrace5397
@emilygrace5397 10 ай бұрын
I admire this man’s courage, I’m sure this is helping so many others
@linnlunder9696
@linnlunder9696 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing speech. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@missfirenice1421
@missfirenice1421 5 жыл бұрын
That was BEAUTIFUL!!!
@nikkinikkis1122
@nikkinikkis1122 6 жыл бұрын
My brother Billy great speech😘 see u one day again
@angelamossucco2190
@angelamossucco2190 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story and advice to us all. Vulnerability is so difficult. We have different stories different lives very different mistakes but what you shared about the greatest tragedy is universal.
@brittanyb5942
@brittanyb5942 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Powerful testimony!!
@FuelingCuriosity
@FuelingCuriosity 3 жыл бұрын
what a story!! it would be a very inspiring movie about what a man can endure. amazing!
@fvckoff4ever561
@fvckoff4ever561 8 ай бұрын
God bless this man
@ThePhoenix937
@ThePhoenix937 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! That was really powerful and something i really needed to hear during my time of darkness with...fear, guilt and sadness. Thank you for your inspiring words!
@zackmaxwell5084
@zackmaxwell5084 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your courage and strength to be positive and share your wisdom with us. God bless
@wontaeklim9580
@wontaeklim9580 2 жыл бұрын
Billy Johnson, thanks for sharing your painful and inspiring story. God bless you.
@karla8662
@karla8662 2 жыл бұрын
This was a great speech, I understood him being nervous in front of the crowd and probably was something different for him. Awesome job! I was teary eyed at the beginning and the end they started flowing too, when he received the standing ovation and I saw some other inmates there for support also ❤️
@graceandmarvellouswonders6249
@graceandmarvellouswonders6249 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, you are inspiring millions in the right direction. ✌🏾
@michaelbrooks3228
@michaelbrooks3228 2 жыл бұрын
Very Touching story!
@HolisticSoul123
@HolisticSoul123 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Billy Johnson x
@Vcb619
@Vcb619 4 жыл бұрын
Empowering...Very well said...
@nickandchrismom
@nickandchrismom 5 жыл бұрын
Impactful talk and honestly God bless him 😍
@yootoob1001001
@yootoob1001001 5 жыл бұрын
Many thanks to Mr. Johnson for a great talk. 💚
@MegsCarpentry-lovedogs
@MegsCarpentry-lovedogs 3 жыл бұрын
Mr. Billy Johnson! Your bravery, kindness and courage is inspirational. Tough lessons learned in your journey. You pointed out the power of how kindness from a few can change a persons life for the better good. The power of the "switch!" Thank you kind Sir from Atlantic Canada during the pandemic. You are doing fine work Sir Johnson!
@nsantos953
@nsantos953 2 жыл бұрын
I will be sharing this video with my students/inmates that I teach remotely to give them a message of forgiveness to themselves because they're great men with an inner power of resilience
@Lakena2552
@Lakena2552 6 жыл бұрын
So amazing!
@madiebarbosa2020
@madiebarbosa2020 24 күн бұрын
Wow. This touched me...
@austintarantino322
@austintarantino322 Жыл бұрын
This is incredible.
@2OfficialFON
@2OfficialFON Жыл бұрын
Beautiful message.
@milutinvideo
@milutinvideo 3 жыл бұрын
God bless him...
@missoopz6540
@missoopz6540 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
@druryzymo8195
@druryzymo8195 Жыл бұрын
Great message, much respect 🙏 👏
@CindyManit
@CindyManit 7 жыл бұрын
wow......... I'm kind of speechless....
@Add_Account485
@Add_Account485 11 ай бұрын
" The greatest tragedy in life is what does in us while we are still alive " .. WOW!
@staylor8883
@staylor8883 2 жыл бұрын
What courage through love looks like We must learn to love ourselves to find the courage to forgive ourselves
@TYNOMITE2733
@TYNOMITE2733 2 ай бұрын
Billy- I cried tears of JOY watching your passionate light and hearing your story. Self Forgiveness & LOVE is The Master KEY…🩵🙏🏾 May you continue to BE the Most Wonderful YOU! Infinite Thxx for your inspiration! -T🫶🏽
@user-fl1zw4ul1w
@user-fl1zw4ul1w 11 ай бұрын
Many many thanks, your story is a the story of a REAL HERO, incredible, such a difficult journey!! this is what i do really need right now, very different circumstances but unable to self-forgive me and go on. I was 3 days watching desespartly a tedX looking for something that allow me to FORGIVE mysel... and this video will me my amulet, you teaxhed me a lot with your words about my soul and my geart, right now. big hug Billy,
@shoshannafachima1306
@shoshannafachima1306 2 жыл бұрын
Bravo,that was a fabulous talk
@odizaii1700
@odizaii1700 3 жыл бұрын
God bless this guy
@askariel.chicago2897
@askariel.chicago2897 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this today. I hope I can find this kind of faith one day
@Brian_85683
@Brian_85683 2 жыл бұрын
We will one day man, god bless
@davos_b
@davos_b 7 жыл бұрын
great speech!
@ShreyaJha0123
@ShreyaJha0123 Жыл бұрын
This is the best I've heard in a while.
@AlizeRocha
@AlizeRocha 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you!😭🥺
@mississippiboii1783
@mississippiboii1783 10 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this
@kirkb2286
@kirkb2286 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome on every level.❤️
@conniegaby6275
@conniegaby6275 4 ай бұрын
🙏 you continue always to follow your key helper. God Thank you for witnessing.
@jemicabond3916
@jemicabond3916 2 жыл бұрын
So emotional great job brother
@petersthriftstore8869
@petersthriftstore8869 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!
@jenebyrd2011
@jenebyrd2011 5 жыл бұрын
great motivational speaker!!!
@matthewbrown7806
@matthewbrown7806 7 жыл бұрын
that's right homie, very good speech
@VJNIKS
@VJNIKS 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you man !!!
@JessicaGarcia-hc9xv
@JessicaGarcia-hc9xv 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@bodymechanixshanemckay7780
@bodymechanixshanemckay7780 3 жыл бұрын
wow man..what a story thank you for sharing brother....some dark times myself and this has helped me.much love
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