Relationship Advice Q&A 💕 Staying in Love & Negativity

hey! so a lot of you guys requested jimmy and i do another video together so we thought i would be fun to do a relationship advice q&a! we’ve been together for 7 years and so we thought we have enough experience to give some advice! we got a lot of questions so we tried to answer them all but we only got to 4 or 5 and the video started getting really long lol! but we can definitely do this again if y’all found it helpful!
Also i'm going to be in NY this week for my birthday!!!!! WAHH!!
+ Questions/topics we covered!
1:00: long distance topic and tips!
4:18: negativity vs. being real. Tips with dealing with each other's bad days!
8:18: relationship breaks, being in love with vs. loving someone, tips on how to cherish and love your own life!
11:54: taking each other for granted!
15:27: how to stay in love with each other
18:11: what are you favorite memories together
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[@wg2226]

Jimmie's smile when Hana was talking about his great qualities is priceless, he was SO happy lol

[@vangbaoyt]

You both are so cute and compatible!! Great advices!

[@jessyluxe]

AKSJS that video of u jumping 😂😂haha this video was so cute!

[@HanaLee93]

Jessica Vu LOL 🤣 daw thanks Jessica 😭💜

[@kat-hj7mq]

Im soooo single ... Why do i keep Watching relationship related videos arghhh lmao

[@wanderkpop]

The way Jimmy looks at Hana😍

[@isabelaaguilar7394]

Can I just say that Hana, you look so stunning in this video?! Haha I looove the way your hair is styled, I think you've nailed the messy bun look that you did in your tutorial. On another note! Thank you for this video, love how simple yet informative it was. Its really interesting see yours and Jimmy's perspective, especially knowing that you two are STILL growing together after 7 years. It just goes to show that relationships require constant work and growth! Love you guys

[@HanaLee93]

Isabela Aguilar aw thanks girl! Hehe it’s been my fav hairstyle lately! And so happy you liked the video! We are definitely still growing and working on our relationship! Always will! 💕

[@missmoonlight64]

I like that you both are honest about the reality of maintaining a relationship with someone for a long time. Like I feel like it can be hard to transition out of the honeymoon phase and keep it going. Really loved your advice ❤️❤️

[@HanaLee93]

Moonlight AM so glad our advice resonated with you! Thanks for watching!!

[@SooahJoo]

Aw your relationship dynamic is so healthy 😭💖 love this so much

[@HanaLee93]

Sooah Joo aw thanks so much!!! Hehe

[@essieg112]

the real question is how do you guys get your teeth so white??!

[@glooo1466]

I WAS THINKING THIS THE WHOLE VIDEO lmaooo

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[@ambercko]

hooyaaa I'm glad you answered my question on the negativity :)) I often find myself showing my negative thoughts through complaining or other forms that affect those around me that aren't healthy at all. it was helpful and interesting getting Jimmy's and your perspective on handling the bad times/comforting and understanding each other. thanks to you two for being so genuine and sweet, love you guys!!!

[@meluui]

yaaay! you answered my question 😊😊 I've been with my bf for almost 3 years now: the first 2 years we spent living together but for the past 8 months we've been doing long distance. I think he's finally realized how much he's taken our time living together for granted so tbh I'm grateful we're spending time apart lool. I definitely think taking some time from each other is essential if you're usually together all the time, because it makes you value your time with your s/o so much more when you do get to see each other.

[@rushalimitra3959]

Sorry for the sudden curiosity but are you guys still together? Would love to know 💕

[@meluui]

@@rushalimitra3959 lol it’s ok. Yes, we’re still together!

[@rushalimitra3959]

@@meluui you have no idea how happy I am right now. I picture myself with my bf to be like you guys/Hanna and Jimmy. 🧿💕Hope it comes true one day 💕

[@meluui]

@@rushalimitra3959 aww, I wish you guys the best!

[@dianej]

so CUTE

[@HanaLee93]

DIANE 다이앤 teehee thanks girl 💕

[@YoungandFlightless]

I'm currently in my first relationship, so I don't know a whole lot about what to do or how to maintain it. But I found this video suuuper helpful, and it gave me a lot of things to think about and work on. Plus you guys are so cute together and I'm loving your makeup/outfit/hair look Hana! ❤️

[@__kindacool]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Happiness!

[@HanaLee93]

KINDA COOL 아영 hehehe ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ahnuiya]

ahhh my goodness you two are so sweet, this video made my heart feel warm

[@HanaLee93]

churashu aw I’m so happy 😭😭😭😭 thank you for watching 💕

[@xo1425]

You two are so adorable together! ❤ you guys really show how much you love eachother.

[@scorpioglow8715]

It may sound horrible but the best way for me and my boyfriend to not take each other granted is honestly looking at the rest of our friends and their relationship ships. We watch our friends as they hop from relationship to another relationship, and all their drama and we look at ourselves and how much we are not like that. We look at how easy it is for us to stay happy and we know a lot of other people don’t have that type of relationship. Makes me feel so fortunate to have someone who is always on my side. Also, respect is key. We NEVER raise our voices at each other. We joke and call each other assholes but we never fight and yell. When we aren’t happy without something the other person did, we vocalize it and fix it! Another part of respect is loyalty. I trust him not to talk and flirt with girls in a malicious way and he trust me not to talk to guys and flirt etc. we don’t hide our phones from each other. Trust and respect is so important.

[@jenniferyu8149]

YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE AHHH I was literally smiling and laughing the whole video 😂💖 I hope to be able to be comfortable enough with myself so I can be as comfortable with someone as you guys are with each other. You guys' relationship gives me hope :")

[@yourpal3617]

Once again it's so comforting to see someone like you who people look up to admitting to flaws and just being real with people it really helps, love you 💓

[@HanaLee93]

hwagwaja. Hobi omg thank you 😭 ❤️😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@GraceKim1]

“I could die” LOOL OMG - and ahh he looked so happy when you were saying all those sweet things about not taking him for granted!! Last forever you two 😭💓💓💓💓

[@nehahahhah]

*seven years of dating * both of them: "dUDe"

[@emolzzh]

omg his smile when you're talking about how much you appreciate him

[@myrollingstarx3]

such a cute couple but also hana you look GORGEOUS!!

[@HanaLee93]

sophie thanks Sophie!!! 💜💜💜

[@ayimmmm]

i have been binging your videos for like the past week but you look so radiant and warm here i absolutely love the hair the shirt the makeup ***~

[@ellieford1989]

You’re both so cute!! Such a beautiful couple.☺️💕💕

[@annawardell5030]

aw to be honest this was such sound advice!! Before I watched this, when I thought of love I always pictured the cheesy rom com moments even though I knew they weren't realistic. Your relationship though is so healthy and your advice was so full of wisdom! I've never been in a relationship but I feel this video helped me learn a lot that will hopefully help me in the future! Thank you so much xx

[@HanaLee93]

Anna Wardell aw Anna thank you! Every relationship is definitely different but I’m happy we could provide a perspective for you!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@annawardell5030]

aw thank you so much for replying!! xxx

[@leilani2258]

Awwwh you guys are so kawai! Me and my boyfriend are now way past the honeymoon phase, but I'm finding myself loving this way more because we've learned so much.. especially how communicate a lot better instead of making the mistake of making assumptions.. Communication is key 😊 He recently bought me a cute shirt that says "nope" to wear so he knows when I'm having a bad/grumpy day..lol

[@HanaLee93]

Tia F HAHAAHAH the T-shirt thing is so cute!!

[@moonlanterns]

i just found your channel via this vid, but it made me realize how much my boyfriend and i relate to you and jimmy! when i'm angry, i like to have time by myself and being comforted can sometimes piss me off more too, whereas my boyfriend is just like jimmy and he likes to be comforted and coddled a bit. anyway, this video is exactly what i needed to see today, so thank u !! i'm gonna go binge all of your videos now bye

[@Haruki_chan]

I want to find a boyfriend like yours so bad. A person who would be my best friend like you two are. It’s the best relationships... ❤️

[@simplyglim]

The thumbnail is SO cute! Cutest couple. 😍

[@HanaLee93]

Grace Lim hahaha thanks grace!!!

[@dcuniversenew22]

Lol Grace, Sarah, Esther, Jamie, Patricia, Janice, Emily, Claire, Anna are the most common asian female names

[@hikristin270]

I love how u react and laugh when u guys r being together. U look so much happier in this video than other videos. Jimmy’s also so cute hahahah. “That definitely helps!” Lol... love u guys and btw does any body has mentioned that u guys look alike, I mean the face expressions and the way u talk:)

[@christinajkim609]

really love how much you two respect each other! it's something I value in my relationships. Thanks for being vulnerable about your guys' relationship :) p.s. if you need nyc food recs i can send them along !!

[@pandalover1238]

SO CUTE AWW OMG MY HEART IS FILLED WITH SO MUCH LOVE FOR YALL

[@HanaLee93]

pandalover1238 WEEEEEEEEEE THANK YOUUUUU

[@majalives]

Great video! So honest and inspiring! I agree with so much and feel like you really got a good balance and relationship.. so happy for you. Also, You both look so pastel and beautiful haha 💕

[@HanaLee93]

Maja hahah I always tell jimmy to wear that shirt it’s so cute!

[@heyseena162821]

Omg so cute!! Such goals💕

[@nicolechiu3368]

actually love hearing your thoughts on all of this, all very valid points, no bullshit! I loved seeing you guys together like this

[@HanaLee93]

nicole chiu haha thanks Nicole!! So glad you appreciated the honesty! ❤️

[@chaskasalazar]

I love how you feel that you guys are so comfortable and easy around eachother, really liked the video!

[@HanaLee93]

Andrea Chaska aw thanks Andrea!! So glad you enjoyed!!!

[@elisez7168]

you two are just too cute!! wish you guys the best this valentine’s day

[@lawlesselly]

you two are so adorable

[@beautiesfoodies]

You guys are so cute & we learned a lot from this video. Thanks for sharing.

[@dechenwangmo3680]

Oh God! You two are just too adorable, made just for eachother. Love watching you two 😍😘

[@acupofmintea]

When I saw on instagram that you guys have been together for seven years, I thought “wow they’ve been together since they were like 11/12 das cute”, thinking that Hana was around my age. I just found out that she’s six years older than me 🙂😂 Anyway, I enjoyed this video and really adore this cute relationship!

[@alybae6474]

Laurensia Hanusin how old is she??

[@tiffabling]

What could I do if me and the guy i have been talking to for a couple of weeks, isn't as good at communication but it's better in person.. and when I try to communicate with him through social media it's been giving me a bad vibe.. and he isn't as responsive as he was before. I really like him and he told me he fell for me

[@asaimegumi]

I loved both of your guys' perspectives, thank you for this video! Much love xx

[@HanaLee93]

Megumi Asai thank you for watching!! Hugs!!!

[@hannahoh472]

7 YEARS DAMNNNNN

[@lit721]

always love seeing beautiful asian couples ughhhh❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@timeryly4468]

You guys are too cute together 😭 Why do i even watch this when i'm forever alone

[@samanthay7375]

This made me smile so much! I love how you two are together, it makes me happy (:

[@samanthay7375]

Also makeup look for this?? You looked gorgeous Bb

[@martinasadiq8465]

Omg your relationship is beautiful x I needed this thank you so much x

[@airyballoon]

This is amazing advice. Thanks so much for sharing

[@massieyang9242]

relationship goal!~ ❤️This really helped me in handling LDR with my boyfriend.

[@HanaLee93]

massie yang aw I’m so happy wishing you and him all the best ❤️

[@massieyang9242]

aww~ thank you!!!💗 i will!!!

[@bellaf9150]

i love these kinds of videos

[@HanaLee93]

Isabela Franco aw yay! Thanks isabela!!!

[@user-lc1lb8lp8k]

SO excited for this video!! Liked before watching as always 💖 You guys are super cute :’))

[@HanaLee93]

Trisha Le aw yay!!! Thank you!!!

[@t0d1ff]

Yay!! I was so anticipating this video and I love you too!!

[@HanaLee93]

Tiffany Do YAY!! Hope you like it tiffany!!!

[@CherylGoer]

I like watching you two! I laughed so many times throughout the video 😂😂

[@vashtify4654]

GIRL im so much like u XD + your makeup is so glowy and pretty

[@cookiebutterdoge1755]

AGHHH my fave power couple!!!!! Valentines Day more like rewatch videos of Hana and Jimmy tbvh

[@HanaLee93]

beck beck HEHE WEEE!! Well we definitely will have to do more videos then! 🤣

[@dearxsera]

you guys are the cutest!

[@linsun781]

you guys are soooo cuttteeeee my heart

[@HanaLee93]

Lin Sun HEHEH awwww thanks so much 🤣

[@livia2081]

This is probably random but you guys both have really white teeth

[@ahyessa2567]

it's just me but I can hear a whisper of "Hannah" on 8:42 it gives me chills

[@VICTORIALOI]

SOBS YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE

[@TOFUtokkii]

love love love loveeeeeeeee this, guys 💕💕💕

[@HanaLee93]

elliot lindsey 💜💜💜💜

[@Cyndercake]

Awh i love you guys so much 😊😭💕

[@HanaLee93]

♥cyndercake415♥ HOHOHOHO WE LY2!!

[@laurenrivas4740]

you two are the cutest couple ever !!

[@gingerwang1]

hana you guys are so cute!! i love ur videos

[@HanaLee93]

Ginger Wang aw thank you ginger!!!! ❤️❤️

[@daliakim738]

Love you guys❤️❤️ you guys are so cute i was smiling the whole time😂😊

[@HanaLee93]

Lia kim aw haha so glad you liked it Lia!!

[@ashleyyip6380]

you guys are so good together!!

[@HanaLee93]

Ashley Yip haha I think so too 😉

[@prettyrandomtiff]

This is really helpful because your relationship dynamic is very similar to mine ☺️❤️

[@HanaLee93]

T L that’s so good to hear! Hehe so happy you could relate!

[@Shmoopie]

You guys are so cute! Couple goals! What are your horoscopes?

[@preciousabang8233]

BLEHHH ITS TOO CUTEEE

[@sweetastyle3223]

Me and my boyfriend talk everyday hahaha~that's a must-have for my long relationship

[@HanaLee93]

Sally that’s good!!! Everybody is different 💕

[@alexasunshine83]

You guys are too cute!

[@DorkyDuh]

You guys are so sweet! I'm melting

[@HanaLee93]

Christinaaa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@angelicathefoodie]

I’ve never been in a relationship before but I had to watch this video because you guys are so cute aww

[@nicolefue]

I just found your channel and I'm in love! You guys are sooo cute together. Please make more videos together! :)

[@ygo7169]

oh wow this makes me so happy!!

[@HanaLee93]

Rachel Go hehehe so happy it does Rachel!!

[@user-yb7my9qr1b]

Awwww you guys are so cuuuute☺️☺️ Also pls tell me what lip products your using in this video!!!

[@HanaLee93]

Mona Zhang hi! It’s 3CE 222! ❤️

[@Christina-Apple]

Soo cute, what a nice thing to pop up on my recommended! And girl your teeth are gorgeous, random but pls tell me your secret LOL

[@helloitsbo]

8:18 reminds me of cant love u anymore (iu x ohyuk)

[@fleurdeliesl]

You are my new favorite ❤️ and i rarely comment on videos.

[@christythefoodie]

so cute!!

[@eunicepak5653]

I’m so glad I discovered you! Great video! Definitely subscribing! :-)))

[@HanaLee93]

Eunice Pak aw thanks Eunice! So happy you enjoyed!!

[@ttrinh123195]

I love your lipstick in this video! What color is it?

[@JaneJoo]

u guys are so cute!!

[@audreykang7356]

SO CUTE!! Where is your top from it's so cute!!

[@HanaLee93]

Audrey Kang hi! It’s actually a romper from urban outfitters:)!

[@byebye7339]

kinda early so pretty

[@ParachuteRoses]

Do guys ever get questions of when you guys are getting married and how do you go about with the pressures of marriage?

[@HanaLee93]

ParachuteRoses hi!!! Yes we do! Honestly just try and ignore it and go about life but we can address this in hopefully another video!

[@ParachuteRoses]

Hana Lee haha okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we’re getting more questions about marriage because people around us are getting married and engaged. We usually ignore it! But sometimes Asian parents are way to excited of becoming grandparents lol. We are just so fixated on our careers and wanting to focus on that first.

[@alejandromarquez9368]

Cute couple

[@acciodalek]

girl where is this top from? I NEED IT

[@igot7problemsbutyougotnojams]

Rewatching this hoping for the best now that I’m actually in a relationship 😊

[@snoopylover1011]

you guys are so cute omfg tf

[@HanaLee93]

Euna Choi aw! Haha thank you so much!!

[@snoopylover1011]

Hana Lee OMG YOU REPLIED WHAT❤️

[@ninanguyen5118]

❤️❤️❤️ u guys are goals like HOW, i can never keep a ldr 💩😭😂

[@HanaLee93]

Nina Nguyen but LDR is so tough!! Lots of hard work so I feel you!!

[@TinaLiaNguyen]

I love this video

[@julsxzc]

i love your lip colour. What are you wearing? ((:

[@HanaLee93]

Jules Jely its a 3CE velvet lip tint I’m going break I think! I’ll have it in a video this week!!

[@kbunnieable2]

Do you know yours and your boyfriend's Myer Briggs????? y'all are so perfect for each other, such goals

[@HanaLee93]

Kbunnieable he told me but I forgot 😂

[@jessdenis1248]

You are so cute💕 together !

[@HanaLee93]

Jesssica Del Mar dawwwwww thank youuu!!! Hehe 💜💜💜

[@1029katieting]

I've experienced long distance too and finding time to talk definitively helps. But what did u guys do when jimmy went to Antarctica and u couldnt reach him? :(

[@HanaLee93]

Katie Chan ooooh should’ve talked about this!! I wrote to him via messenger even tho he couldn’t answer! Helped me feel like I was talking to him! Then we he got back we had lots to talk about hehe!

[@bettinal6060]

Does anyone know where her top is from?

[@HanaLee93]

Bettina Liang urban outfitters and it’s a romper! :)

[@snow.flower]

and jimmy has a fuzz on the back of his head lool