Relationship Expert Susan Winter Interview

Relationship Expert Susan Winter
Relationships problems can be solved. Listen to what Susan Winter says, who writes best selling books, counsels people and speaks about relationships.
You'll come away with real wisdom.
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[@SusanWinter]

Mary!! Thanks for this wonderful interview. I loved our conversation and getting to know you better. See you in San Francisco on my next trip!!

[@MaryBartnikowski]

Yes Susan! It was so much fun, thank you for coming on, it felt like we've known each other for years. I'm doing cartwheels in my living room about meeting you in person on your next trip - get ready to dance on table tops in the day time!

[@SusanWinter]

You've had a lot of interest on my Facebook page! It's always so much fun to watch the connection gain in strength as new people link up with each other.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

Absolutely! thanks for letting me know - happy to discover and look forward to meeting you in person!

[@intrestvidsaffairs6505]

Susan Winter o u r so so beautiful i remmember my grand mother in u

[@emmanuelkah6997]

Susan Winter ,_ I'm a single man ,I need a boo in life, I'm 36

[@reeves326]

Suzan is so very lovely. Her videos are fantastic

[@MaryBartnikowski]

Every one of her videos is the truth!

[@girlcalledmango]

Great conversation that was easy and natural yet deeply informative. Thank you both!

[@MaryBartnikowski]

Appreciate you watching!

[@md5329]

You guys look so pretty

[@MaryBartnikowski]

thank you and appreciate you watching and commenting

[@btbfree]

Great I found Susan. I am at the same stage in my life.

[@limasah1]

This is one of my favorites. Recently, I see that you have defined your primary audience as millennials, but I would ask you to consider your older followers, as well. I’m 73 (yup) and trying to navigate this period of transition. I still find men attractive and relationship potentially desirable, but there are so many questions. Please, consider us older folks among your followers and interested in having our issues addressed.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

Susan's audience is huge with all ages represented, we are going thru a big change in terms of dating and love and I suggest you follow her tot discover more. Your comment is appreciated as I will also do a video on this topic of age and transition. Thank you! Consider subscribing here kzbin.info and also to Susan's channel Susan Winter on YT

[@limasah1]

@@MaryBartnikowski I’m already a subscriber and already have watched many of Susan’s videos. I’d love to see some specifics for people in my age range. Some issues seem never to change, but maybe some really do differ by age. Thanks

[@MaryBartnikowski]

@@limasah1 do you mean specifics about dating and relationships? If you are subscribed to my channel there are many interesting videos in changing your life in your age range 💙

[@bridgettemaldonado2401]

I own the Bank of my Love. That is so Brilliant. We create our own love stories and sometimes without full participation from the person we are so Damn in love with.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

Truth - yes this is so right - pay attention to reality!

[@elenabelacastre7789]

THOSE ARE TWO GREAT HOME RUNS! I Luv it ahaha

[@elenabelacastre7789]

❣You are both very intuative & classy ladies! 👣 🧚‍♀️

[@bobhite7992]

health can be factor, not just feelings

[@MaryBartnikowski]

yes true, thank you for coming over to my channel

[@lashawnward340]

cool..great talk!

[@MaryBartnikowski]

thank you for tuning in - loved talking with Susan Winter, she is the guru of dating advice, a wise teacher

[@lashawnward340]

+Mary Bartnikowski I enjoyed it. Can't stop re-watching.. Had my BF intunded, lol.. Thanks again 😆

[@MaryBartnikowski]

thanks for commenting, loved that you liked it, stay tuned for more

[@cathrinekatsigianni8823]

I have not met any of these younger men who are looking for 'content'. And I live in the UK, is the way I am looking wrong? Re the way we look to ourselves ( as women) , yes very correct.. Struggling to come to terms with the conventional approach to external appearance!

[@MaryBartnikowski]

I notice here in the USA that there are many younger men with older women so maybe you can come over here and look around!

[@cathrinekatsigianni8823]

That's really great news! It seems that in most European countries there is still backwardness... I will seriously have to consider where I would like to live! Thanks for this answer!!

[@MaryBartnikowski]

@@cathrinekatsigianni8823 come on over to California!

[@P.willow]

I watch these videos all the time. I'm a woman in love with a girl who isn't making herself available. She has an ex who she's around alot due to many reasons. But I can't keep feeling heartbroken every day. How do I dump this. I feel like I. Breaking up with her all the timeand I'm not even with her.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

I know how you feel. Break all contact with her and don't even do any social with her at all. This is what I did to heal myself. It worked. It's so painful. The best thing to do is break the cycle of atrocity and move on - you will be available to be loved the way you would like to be loved, love yourself first instead of giving people a chance that don't value you. It may take some time but eventually you'll be free. You got this! Thank you for writing, if you need more help check out my other videos in my playlist Change Your Life, kzbin.info/www/bejne/sH7TZo2Lqt53hrM if you need more help, you could do a consultation with me.

[@P.willow]

@@MaryBartnikowski Hi Mary, Thanks for your reply. I am not on any social media as I never have delt with it. Its not useful in my life in any fashion. But this has been going on almost a year of waiting for her. Fair enough if she didn't know what she wanted but sweet words and thoughts of us been together and making each other happy. It was a long distant wish. Excuses ranging from this that and the other. Now I'm done. I think it would have been amazing and we're fantastic together but I can't wait anymore and hang my heart every day I feel deeply hurt. Usually if I am hurt I move on very quickly. This time it was slow because I fell for her all the way. Now it's taken a bit of time but I'm determined to get there. For me. Not her. For me. Only I can rescue myself. I just got reeled in again and again I can't keep this up any longer and feel heartbroken and still be friends. I can't do friends once u know I love you that way. For me I can't be friends casually because of what we had/have. It's too much to crawl back from. Nobody is going to be there for me only me. That's how I see it.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

You're right, you have the truth now inside you. The thing is the other person isn't giving and isn't part of your tribe. I've been where you are and it hurts but what is worse is putting up with it year after year. Remove yourself from her and don't see her anymore. Yes you're right you really can't be friends, maybe you can be friends years from now when you no longer have feelings for her but it does take time. You are there for your self. Love yourself, you can do it. :) Thank you for writing.

[@m.j.b.]

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[@MaryBartnikowski]

not sure what your question is but thanks for watching

[@m.j.b.]

I can only speak a little bit of english ! What were they talking about? I would like to have time with swimming and also underwater with them I have seen them underwater on a movie!

[@elenabelacastre7789]

THAT WAS SUPER & U WERE SO 🧜‍♂️PLAYFUL🧜‍♀️ & NATURAL ! I REALLY ENJOYED IT! SHES A GREAT INTERVIEWER! U TWO WILL END UP 🧚‍♂️FUN🧚‍♀️DRINKING,, MALE BASHING BUDDIES! LOOOL

[@MaryBartnikowski]

not sure what your point is but thanks for watching

[@elenabelacastre7789]

@@MaryBartnikowski All in fun! Just being silly, that's alll, I have these impulsive moments! at times! I just got the feeling u guys would get along & become friends! I apologize, if it may have offended u in any way!

[@jimnicosia5934]

What's wrong with just falling in love?

[@MaryBartnikowski]

nothing is wrong with falling in love - we're talking about issues that we all face when dating and forming long-term relationships

[@jimnicosia5934]

@@MaryBartnikowski Yes, but all you relationship experts talk like falling in love was disease.You act like stock traders just trying to calculate your best options. That's a boring way to live. Maybe it's true men marry for love but women marry a life style.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

@@jimnicosia5934 I don't agree - when ever you make an absolute statement like "Men marry for love but women marry a life style" it assumes every woman or man does this. I actually think it's the reverse. You'll never know how it feels until you are the one being sized up for what you can give a man - sometimes I have felt that they wanted to be with me so I could help them. With their life, job, career. No that's not sexy.

[@jimnicosia5934]

@Arora Thorne Your statement is erroneous because men don't ask a women's age.

[@airicaxoxo]

@@MaryBartnikowski It's crazy because that's how I feel. I feel like I'm seen to help them with their problems, and my role is more of a caretaker/therapist/life coach than being in an actual relationship. I seem to attract men who are the "help me, I'm broken" type. I don't mind helping people, but it seems that people do take advantage of me to always help them while I'm just left there wishing someone would help me.

[@GRpd-nh7hl]

15:10 "World Class Men' huh? Giggle Giggle --Gee i wonder where the word 'gold digger' comes from?

[@MaryBartnikowski]

"World class men" doesn't mean rich men. It means high quality men. And both of us women have made our own independent way in life so we have made our own gold.

[@papag1961]

Wow...You have a lot of negative views towards men. You have to wait for him to die in his sleep instead of just leaving the relationship after an investment of a couple of years. And there's no need to leave while you can get benefits staying. And of course, we are not in touch with our emotions. What is this, and what are you doing to our up and coming generation. I have 3 sisters, 2 daughters, and 4 granddaughters and I Know they would agree with me, no....not my Granddaughters. And your a Professional ? Wow

[@MaryBartnikowski]

we all have different viewpoints, thank you for watching and commenting, many blessings to you