Relationship TRAUMA! | SKYPODCAST

[@haze7561]

kakatapos ko lang makining ng topic na to. Na comfort ako sa bawat words & phrases na binabanggit nila. 😭 Work on yourself tlaga para hindi ka needy pagdating sa relationship, to the point na di mo need ng relationship kasi kaya mo sarili mo. Very comforting! Thank you, skypodcast! 😭🙏

[@pamelakatemartinez4570]

Same here! Thank you for comforting words. This is much needed conversation.

[@shalintag4480]

Yes after those failed relationship dapoat matuto din tayo to work on ourselves para sa susunod hindi na tayo umulit.

[@julanborlas9887]

This kind of mindset into relationship grabe same thinking kay Slater ito yung gusto ko marinig at sinasabi ku kapag nagkagf ako hands up!

[@johnalmoro5315]

Same. I have a same mindset na gusto ko na yung gf/partner ay magkakaroon pa din ng time para sa sarili nila. Kasi in the first place they have their own life before we arrive di ba?

[@samanthamiguel6327]

Praying for your relationship soon! 🙏

[@melisaialazaro8672]

Wow, I am so proud of you. I hope all of the guys out there will be motivated with this talk and with your comment as well. It's a big word of wisdom indeed :)

[@AlexisAgoncillo]

masasabi mo talaga na nasa healthy and mature relationship ka pag ganyan thinking ng partner mo ehh

[@IYAH0409]

Agreed. Accepting the fact that your partner cheated on you and forgive.

[@jeanrmayol]

Ignoring red flags and the 'One-Day Wager' are two of the most dangerous bets any person can make in a relationship.

[@shalintag4480]

I also ignored red flags kasi mahal ko pa yung person but I learned and acknowledge those things after 4 consecutive break up. Naubos din ako.

[@JoyAnnDagmil90]

A fan here. Matured way talaga na you will not take things personally. So much wisdom from this episode. When trauma kicks in it is hard to enter to a new relationship because somehow we always blame the other party without realizing we are part of the problem and we allow it to happen. Guilty of updating the guy most of the time and expects him to do the same. Now, I realize that I was also toxic. 😅 Learning and relearning. Thank you for this episode 😊 More of this please. 🤗

[@pamelakatemartinez4570]

Learning and relearning is very important in life

[@shalintag4480]

@@pamelakatemartinez4570 yes. after the realization dapat talaga matuto pa tayo para maggrow.

[@abbiemontefalco5502]

Slater's outlook in life, his principles are what I've been looking for a guy kaya single pa rin si ante lol 😂

[@johnalmoro5315]

I agree on you on this one. Slater has a very mature attitude and logical mindset. And regarding for being a single, dadating din yung tamang lalake na para sayo. :)

[@samanthamiguel6327]

It's okay to be single as long as you find the right man. Kesa magmadali tapos maghiwalay din sa dulo. Anw, love the couple for their outlook in life.

[@melisaialazaro8672]

We're both the same :) Syempre we need to put standards in everything lalo na hindi naman nagmamadali mga bagay bagay :)

[@AlexisAgoncillo]

it's okay to be single and set your standards high, it's better than settling for less or a toxic relationship!

[@GABSY_GAMING]

rather be single than in a toxic relationship that can really ruin you in the longterm.

[@rabbitannikimoy3210]

I wanna goin in that private group chat

[@IYAH0409]

For me, it depends on the relationships. Based on my experience yes! It's traumatizing, But it depends on both partners how handle their relationship. Sabi nga nila diba "it takes two to tango" but there will be a trust issue. For me accept, forget, And move on.

[@nrtshppdn-6390]

Ang talino ni Slater. ❤

[@IYAH0409]

Agreed!

[@irislugue6477]

This is very accurate po❤ thank you

[@pamelakatemartinez4570]

I agree. We do have different experiences that give us trauma or lessons in lie.

[@jhoannadean]

Slater is soo mature and very intelligent huhu how to have one ba?😂

[@GABSY_GAMING]

TRUE. PINTA TAAS NIYA STANDARDS ng isang Guy.

[@ceejxxx6775]

Hello. Can you tackle this issue po, what is your opinion po when the husband priority his parents and siblings over his wife. When it comes to money and taking side of their opinions over his wife its like his wife is always below his parents and siblings. Parang mag jowa padin ang turing sa wife… altho they just got married 2 months ago… parang nakalimutan agad yung role ng pagiging husband…. Thank you po in advance. 😊

[@geesam4762]

Mahirap to, pero before marriage dapat clear na to na kaya kayo nagpakasal para maging isang tao sa isip, sa puso at sa kaluluwa. ok lang maging submissive sa lalaking asawa pero dapat may say ka pa rin at walang mas nakatataas sa mga tao sa paligid niyo kasi pantay kayong tinanggap ang responsibilidad bilang magasawa. so far para sakin hanggang dun lang muna kasi yung pinaka backstory ng buong story/topic sa tanong na ito ay hindi malinaw maraming possible na root ito bago naging ganto yung sitwasyon. yun lang po. God Bless.

[@em.concecpion911]

I really felt that😢

[@arnelsorila3011]

8 years ng single since my last relationship, Hindi naman sa trauma yong dahilan pero parang nandun ako sa point na wag na muna. Hahah😅

[@glennharveyco]

Im verbally abused even until today. Ano advice niyo guys for me?😢

[@IYAH0409]

Sorry to hear that. But for me, once they verbally abused you tell them they don't have a right to do that even though he is your partner. If you let them they'll keep doing that.

[@iraongco4017]

I also went through a traumatic relationship with verbal abuse. I realized that if you want others to change how they're treating you, you also have to be strong enough for yourself. Recognize verbal abuse when it happens, call it out and stand/ speak for yourself.

[@hamzyy2946]

😢

[@johnalmoro5315]

What's with the emoji? Are you having a hard time? It will pass. And you can carry on and there are other people in your life that will help and be with you. :)

[@samanthamiguel6327]

Hugs for you whatever you are going through right now 🫂

[@melisaialazaro8672]

Hello. :) I hope everything is going well with you. Everything happens for a reason, you just need to be optimistic and hopeful even when things seems hopeless.

[@AlexisAgoncillo]

praying that everything in your life will be fine!

[@a_yns]

💓

[@mutiahansheralinao1396]

Hi Skyfam ❤

[@sevenknights6611]

Pasali po sa group 🥺🥺🥺

[@BLUE-yd3mg]

Cheat on me,cheat on me now 😩💔

[@may.b6276]

Super relate to this Topic I have Trauma sa past relationship ko with my 8 years relationship, emotionally and physically traumatized sakanya ,sinasabihan nya akong panget,binabago nya yung mga styles ko kahit okay naman, nag che cheat sya sakin and nakaka praning , tapos sisisihin nya ako bat nya daw ginawa yun , lagi daw ako nag sasabi na nag che cheat sya kaya ginawa nya like wtf . Nagawa nya ng ilang beses kaya sobrang napra praning ako, plus nag kakasakitan kami physically sobrang toxic , kahit nung buntis ako wala syang pake elam sakin ,sobrang stress ko , kaya nawala din baby ko 🥺, pero now may nakaka date ako okay naman sya pero nag kaka trust issue na ko sa lahat ng bagay dahil sa past relationship ko , yung nangyare sakin

[@pashonfroot]

I’m so sorry you went through all of that, naramdaman ko ang bigat sobra. I pray you’ll heal from it and not push the people away that only want to love you as you are. I wish you all the happiness and love this world has to offer ❤

[@skeeterbritneycosta4782]

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