Relationships red flags!?🚩🚩

[@yvonneasante7836]

Having a child with the wrong person will make u cry more than the baby 😢😢

[@parkandplaywithdorathy]

Like it is well with our soul

[@olaideadedokun9895]

Some men are dubious, manipulative, selfish. God have mercy on me. Thank God am not barren. Have beautiful kids

[@somoyesimileoluwa2283]

Very true 😢😢😢

[@SMar-yu6od]

Especially 😢when you first have the baby😢.

[@kisakyeolivia3411]

Why not be on pregnancy preventive measures. It is like we are saying that we are children who have sex as a test, to know how it feels and what happens. For people 18 years and above, there is nothing like pregnacy accidents expected only in rape cases or where someone's mind is unstable. engage get the by product.

[@oluwatomithomas180]

Tosin, you are a powerful woman to talk about your experience. It is a sign that you are an overcomer. May God continually protect you and use you to help our younger generation.

[@aSuperHeroStateofMind]

You will see the red flags, but the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue....Powerful words. This is why I never talk about ppl who are in an abusive relationship. The only thing I would tell somebody is heal from the trauma in your past, from the things that you don't talk about. HEAL the Wounds in your Soul..❤❤❤

[@myrlenecelestin392]

Beautifully said heal the wounds in your soul first and don’t judge

[@anonnona6433]

Exactly. Leaving an abusive relationship takes alot.

[@cleverchakabva9901]

Powerful words indeed

[@tijjanikabir9452]

"The wants in your soul will urge you to continue"

[@preciousmcfarland5265]

Powerful words!!!

[@princewillokwoche6845]

She survived to tell her story! Many don’t make it out of the contraption

[@daciagriffith6568]

Run Sista Run!!!Being alone DOES NOT mean being lonely.

[@estadastarbeauty2426]

Sometimes it's even better to be alone and lonely.

[@ikanofurepeace]

​@@estadastarbeauty2426totally agree

[@bertrandrussell5932]

That's belonging to the streets right😂

[@gloriamakungu407]

It's soo hard swety 😢

[@nic_niko1003]

Manipulation is a dangerous thing in a relationship. You think you are compromising, but you are being taken advantage of. I'm happy you are speaking your truth. Sometimes, people never see it.

[@hyeldaapollos3879]

Lord have mercy on us. This generation is in need of light. The darkness is real. What happens in relationships is truly mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯

[@rayannphillip931]

There is nothing new under the Sun.

[@princeboateng4395]

It’s always the worst kind of men they loose themselves to and visit the wounds on the best men. It’s crazy

[@chestchirecateyes]

They're in need of nurturing and lessons in self-love.

[@hyeldaapollos3879]

​​@@rayannphillip931 Yeah,.. But I love the fact that this is novel to me. The Bible would have us wise unto that which is good and simple (innocent) as to what is evil. (Rom 16:19) This kind of activity actually crosses the borders of just being bad... This is in the country of evil! This man clearly is into something dark! 😳

[@gloryplufelpride4766]

That word "self love " 📌📌📌 should be ultimate/utmost importance in ones life ... ​@@chestchirecateyes

[@sdcaldwell8882]

This is so true. 10 years after the divorce and I am still dismantling and renouncing the seeds that were planted during the marriage. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@helensomy2769]

Thanks for sharing this, it never occurred to me that this can still take place even after leaving the marriage.

[@cleverchakabva9901]

God be with you my sister

[@TadeMakun]

God will heal your heart and bind your spirit. Open up to Him... BE HONEST.

[@swagservices7025]

It’s so easy to pass judgment when you are not a victim, this lady would be a great counselor to people going through similar issues she just explained

[@ChijiubaJanet]

I can relate very well. Experience teaches you a lot. Thank God you are free.

[@emmanueludegbunam848]

Did you have such experience?

[@NancyTetteh-pm8ez]

That's if you were able to learn.

[@JemimaAidoo-e1t]

😮my goodness. Relationships can be dangerous to your spirit, soul and body. To get pregnant and getting rid of it intentionally is madness

[@florencenyandia2202]

Initiation

[@cleverchakabva9901]

Having someone tell you the plan of getting you pregnant and then "getting rid of it", that's just evil, it's heartless 😢😢

[@nkemo65]

Simply demonic

[@LestAnyManBoast]

Actually it's not madness, it's witchcraft, the kind of witchcraft that is found in the Apocrphya aka hidden books of the Bible removed from the modern KJV during the the corrupt Council of Nicea

[@sophiachin1262]

Blood Sacrifice they offer up their first born child for whatever occultic reasons. She should have told him your own mother should have done that to you and left him forever. He is just another broken devil... The Lord rebuke him ooo.

[@matildaojeh4950]

I want to watch the whole episode, its so painful but thank God you came ouy stronger

[@ElsaCamus-gd7es]

We, women, can see red flags in day one but somewhere we think we can fix through love.. some souls cannot be fixed. They need divine intervention, if you stay in wrong relationship, your divinity dies. So eventually, your survival instinct makes you leave.. On His time. Not yours🤲🏽.leaving a toxic relationship is a divine protection. ☮️🫡💕

[@irenemark9219]

"if you stay in a toxic relationship, your divinity dies" Very powerful!

[@theajcchannel1331]

Divinity. We are immortal beings not The Trinity

[@IbehStella-f2l]

Yes my dear I thought so too but it get even worst and worst , as a matter of fact my health is been affected, I'm lost and don't know how to start all over again. But I will not give up until I get my freedom.

[@graystevens939]

I'm so sorry you went through this sister. A man who is constantly chasing personal gratification is a dangerous man,as a woman stand your ground. The wrong man will eliminate himself.

[@ThrivewithJesus]

Powerful words!

[@bukolaechue9538]

I have watched this excerpt more than 6times…and I’m still in shock

[@fruitinspector8247]

Same here. She was dating a demon.

[@ChideraOkorie-ls9qb]

What a ministry

[@spyksyde]

Where’s the full video

[@TadeMakun]

Don't just be in shock, dear... BE CONSCIOUSLY INSTRUCTED.

[@enthroned_one]

Same happened to my best friend; Ify and after she left the marriage upon return front America; she died!!! LADIES...PROTECT UR DYNASTIES..THIS IS REAL

[@LyndaDeniseJones]

😢 my deepest deepest condolences, I lost my bbf to a jealous spineless manchild. It's been 20 years since her passing and I miss her more everyday. Hugs to you and all that love her ❤❤

[@williamseghe4066]

This is emotional, I'm already liking this lady

[@tredinabrown2249]

WE CAN NO LONGER ALLOW ANY MORE NEGATIVITY AND TOXICITY IN OUR PRECIOUS LIVES! BE BLESSED ALWAYS!

[@Susankaaya]

That’s why we should pray for them and with them. The devil be trying to destroy God’s people but that battle is won by His blood.

[@dotgojack5506]

Amen❤

[@koyejoolanrewaju4157]

Can one believe an intelligent lady like this could be a victim? You're brilliant, bold and beautiful. I'm happy that you live to share your experience.

[@OluwatobilobaWonders]

You'll see the red flags but the wounds in your soul will urge you (push you, drive you) to continue. Thank God for light.

[@heavenforum9124]

It is called, The Power of IMAGINATION! If you can imagine it, it's only a matter of time. It must come to pass.

[@Dainess365]

The only thing I want to imagine and come to me is winning $100 million dollars 😂😂😂😂😂

[@heavenforum9124]

@@Dainess365 Well, the ball now is in your court. If you call see it, then nothing stops you having it. If you can imagine it, then it's all yours! Rise up and make it happen but remember me when thou cometh into thy kingdom.

[@eseoghenewealthmychamber6365]

​@Dainess365 lols.., ha! your own big oo. Mine is just 3 million naira . I don imagine tire and still dey imagine 😂. The smaller is inclusive in the greater. My dear remember me when your imagination becomes reality.

[@Dainess365]

I’m in Australia and people have been winning lotteries lately, so now I’m waiting for my turn. So I hope that I’m next. No long ago someone won, $150 millions Aussie , another $40 millions, $12 millions . So I hope that I’m the next lucky winner 🏆

[@niunice]

@@Dainess365it will come to pass 😊

[@toidiaz5136]

Very true- MANY of us have experienced this on some level- ladies we are a SISTERHOOD- may not always get along or do each other right- but we can still be supportive of our individual experiences and share to uplift!! Your words may speak to someone’s soul. Stay compassionate

[@annhome7099]

Thank you for the message. Greetings from Barbados. Blessing on you 🙏🏾

[@chinenyeorakwue6233]

That should have been a wake up call!

[@Mywatercrystaltv]

You go gurrrll!! Don't waste the pain!!! You're a phenomenonal woman!!❤❤❤

[@arekeogbonna7359]

I love Tosin. Such a beautiful testimony.

[@ancientDna1979]

I understand, my late husband used to tell me I was dumb, when I was overachieving him in everything.

[@Folakanbi]

Wow!!!😮

[@blandinamyinga9489]

Narcissistic behavior"he was angry that your shining.

[@STAR-w5i]

✝️JEALOUSY N INSECURITY OF U. N.IGNORANCE.✝️

[@DaughterOfEncouragement]

I thought he was gonna ask if he could bring another girl into the mix or something crazy like that, but that request was so specific, so sinister, that you KNOW it was a seed from the devil himself. Lord have mercy 😔

[@SASK_M_Y]

I thought of blood covenant

[@DaughterOfEncouragement]

@@SASK_M_Y oh dang, that's right!! A requirement of sacrifice 😟

[@ovedjerory]

​@@SASK_M_YSame.

[@deolake]

​@@SASK_M_Y, it's already a blood covenant in a complex and deeper form. They both create a life and sacrifice it via abortion😢. Oh God, there are demons everywhere😮. May we be shielded always by God's light.

[@tonyelegbuanya3401]

​@@SASK_M_Ythat's exactly what I thought because such happened to me. But this particular request ? Devil dey pay ten ten for the man head, I swear

[@fridaledale2024]

Sista you are right.. Your experience is going to help a lot of people. Pls do not keep quiet. Continue exposing relationship red flags. ❤

[@gra_cecreates]

Please can we get the full video 😢

[@obinmaparis3522]

I do like to finish it too

[@lydia27xoxo]

Asin. Where is the rest

[@uduaklawrence5237]

This is a similar story of my friend. I ran to me for help, I had to hide her in my house till now. I pray she gets over this 😭

[@ambangmongo2888]

Amen to spending recovery

[@MureBeauty1]

I've always said it. It takes a broken person to break someone and those in an environment where broken records are playing would soon find themselves dancing to the tunes

[@user-rz6oq3ey2r]

I left my husband on a beautiful day which happened to be my birthday. We woke up romantically together. Took me shopping, Gave me cash and driver took me to my work station. Instead of leaving the car with me I told the driver to take it back and that was it. He almost ran mad. It's 7 years now. I am very grateful for breaking me from the shackles. If you judge me wrongly I wish you just 5% of what I went through without mercy. Ladies REMOVE yourself and do it sooner

[@miniasikusara2936]

What made you do it?

[@billionairejumzietopbabe3304]

Abuse of course! 🤷​@@miniasikusara2936

[@Lu_cc_ee]

It's the 5% for me 😂😂 My dear, wish them 80%

[@psalmzoe3746]

Let them judge, believe me when I tell you it's out of ignorance they do it... They'll never understand

[@OfficialDubemXB]

​@@miniasikusara2936 this question is very necessary cause I don't understand how she woke up romantically together, went for shopping and still left him that day.

[@JamesORileyMukonda]

The things we date

[@amaoparebea2990]

😂😂😂😂

[@Okafor_chioma6.]

Now where’s the complete video???

[@joydaniel1327]

I'm happy you're talking about it.

[@placeofalltrends7596]

I am so much in anticipating mode. Please release this podcast soon

[@irenedontoh9692]

This is so deep. I subscribed immediately the lady made her point💯✅

[@adadiigbomma3217]

Thanks so much for your bravery in being this honest. May God bless you with happiness 🙏

[@IrisAgnes]

Wow! That program you are referring to is POWERFUL!

[@ghananaturals8525]

"you will see the red flags and the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue". phew, that's a word.

[@mtp472]

Which nonsense wound? RUN RUN RUN... I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH WOMEN. LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. SIMPLE! IMAGINE STAYING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BCOZ OF THE FEAR OF WHAT PIPU WILL SAY. LEAVE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. LEAVE ABUSIVE MARRIAGE. RUN!

[@joyerhabor2229]

​@@mtp472 I don't think it is that easy to just leave and run. It is easy for many of us ( myself included) to say leave and run but we don't know what's really going on in there. I am not in a relationship and I have never been in an abusive relationship but I have seen relationships and marriages with abuse,so if the shoe fits . Sometimes these people just need push and help to get out of it while some just need God .

[@2oubleD]

@@mtp472if it was so easy to run from bad things, sun wouldn’t even be an issue and we would all be in right living with God. Ppl need healing to see the truth and until we acknowledge God and be transformed by the renewal of our minds we will stay stick in crippling situations and not fulfill our God-given mandates.

[@mtp472]

@@2oubleD MY OWN IS THAT IT'S BETTER RO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE THAN TO DIE. INFACT

[@mtp472]

THAT 'TIME TO HEAL' MAY NOT BE THERE O IF U ARE GONE! RUN FIRST AND BE HEALING LATER. DON'T TRY TO HEAL BEFORE RUNNING. THE PIPU JESUS HEALED FIRST MAKE MOVEMENT BEFORE HEALING CAME O. JESUS WOULD SAY, "RISE, TAKE YOUR BED AND ..." PLS OOO... LEAVE VIOLENT AND ABUSIVE MARRIAGE BEFORE HEALING O. YOU CAN'T HEAL IN THE MORTUARY OOO...

[@_Divine1]

The programming is often subtle but sometimes blatant. Don't ignore red flags

[@lavenderlillies8149]

Purposely get pregnant just to abort? What sort of sociopath is that? He's not thinking of the possible emotional trauma/extreme fear that an unplanned pregnancy and abortion/losing a child would have on you? My goodness. Thats just evil.

[@henchilamcokej]

Basic principle of accountability requires that you be accountable for your actions. People, including mass murderers, who do terrible things often have others, including the victims, to blame for their actions

[@dan-jumbonengimarvy6000]

Yes they’ll spend years programming you to believe something. Now when the real person shows up you don’t see it. You see the programming. Thank God for saving me.

[@gabrielchristiana3150]

They are not the programmer😢 They are the programming.

[@graceoluwadunsin]

What you just said made me think.... Thank you for saving me Lord.

[@Egorpy]

💯 accurate about the "programming" ❤

[@khairakhalid6083]

He wanted to traumatise her for life and damage her mentally . He knew one of the worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting rid of her unborn baby.

[@sosohe4018]

And she will forever remember him without him remembering her or being bothered, abuse and control equal narcissism.

[@teresaosborne2209]

Wow.

[@cleverchakabva9901]

Yes and that, 'getting rid of her unborn baby' can haunt and scar her mentally and emotionally. People are alive but carrying burdens.

[@augustaukandu5838]

It could also be a Satanic blood covenant he wanted to make with her!!

[@uzoamakaukoh6624]

I love this woman ❤

[@elizabethm8610]

Thank you for saying all this❤❤ I appreciate you ❤

[@zemskincare5965]

May God help the guy to change . I thank God for your life sister!

[@tiannahmo1581]

I can relate truly words are seeds

[@irenemark9219]

Yes so can I. You don't know when it's planted until you see yourself doing something you've sworn you'd never do because of a passive suggestion someone made. But how can one protect themselves from these word seeds that begin to supplant godly ideas you've always held onto?

[@Kremlin100]

Indeed a strong Woman to pass through such experience and talks about it😊😊 , some relationships has weird things involved

[@emmanuelaafari9434]

Thank you for sharing this story!!! I almost entered into a relationship I knew God was telling me not to enter! And I was finding many ways to doubt it and to be in the relationship. But it’s not God’s will for me, and so I won’t venture. At first the pressure was so much! But now I know what to do. Thank God for answered prayers 🙏🏾

[@saphirwenzi5882]

Stay strong beautiful lady!!❤❤

[@VeraAmarachukwu]

I can relate... Loving a person or being in a relationship that draws you away from God is a red flag on its own We ladies should be careful out there... The world's really crazy God would protect us all❤

[@Ozmarc254]

And the saddest part is that she will always be bonded to him giving any guy who comes after nothing but headache

[@Mailerd]

These words are short but really powerful. Let every woman listen and reflect on this.

[@PhilbertOtasowie-xy4uj]

I cant wait for the full video 😢

[@sourceinsights]

Amen.... This is truth. Live 🆓

[@arababecca6432]

Staying means ready to lose your life in an abusive relationship. Leave to live!

[@thereawakener9554]

What in the evil toxic relationship is going on here.. omgg

[@manfredmichaelwilliam6681]

God bless you for this deliverance. May God use your message to deliver many that are in such condition. Really life without Christ is crisis

[@dukeisang]

He simply meant... let's shed innocent blood 😢😢😢

[@modupesaibu4031]

Likeee! It's crazy o

[@shaaperamakepeace6375]

And blood is involved. Hmmm. Deep!

[@lovendannachi2303]

Your story is inspiring,. 🙏 thank you.

[@francesmbewe8457]

I enjoyed listening to this so much ❤❤

[@rejoicemmachukwu]

Only people who had not been in a toxic relationship will not understand 🥹

[@chiomajaneoside4157]

I understand Ma, I've been there. I understand perfectly, I can relate to everything she is saying 😢😢😢

[@tonyelegbuanya3401]

You don't have to be in a toxic relationship to understand. What is evil is evil. Don't wait until it happens to you

[@amaoparebea2990]

​@@tonyelegbuanya3401ikr

[@manifoldhitslunargrace7603]

Thanks well said​@@tonyelegbuanya3401

[@manifoldhitslunargrace7603]

I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

[@simplyblessed1516]

Yes! So many people dont understand that mental abuse occurs first before any violent abuse. Manipulation and lies ... the enemy tried to plant in fertile ground.

[@rubytuesday9831]

What an intelligent girl...so on point😢

[@manifoldhitslunargrace7603]

I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

[@reshaeparson7242]

Yes and once that seed is spoken it will definitely blossom!😢

[@RunorLove]

God is so good in the life of this girl.proud your out sis❤

[@HarrietAgbenya-qs1vf]

I have watch this a million times just today

[@JustUdoro]

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW…this is eerily on point. My goodness. May God continue to deliver us from strongholds and false fruits. In Jesus’ name. Amen!

[@tosinakin2508]

She said my name and it took me a sec to realize she was referring to herself 🤦🏿‍♀️😅

[@mrsddrake]

You will see the red flags, but the wounds your soul will urge you to continue.😢

[@sonofokere]

Can you please prompt me when the full interview goes online

[@hilarysmartt5809]

Same

[@TemplingRight]

The full interview is out now. Check the channel

[@TemplingRight]

@@hilarysmartt5809it’s out now on the same channel as this short

[@KochHaven]

Where is the full video pls. Just checked through the channel & didn't see it.

[@vivianalabintei1419]

Go back and check, it's out now

[@KochHaven]

@@vivianalabintei1419 yes, I’ve seen it. Thank you

[@ChimaNwibe-h3n]

May we have the capacity to speak up and save others

[@aminualiyuabbas7341]

Yo! It takes two to tangle. The red flag you saw was the kind of person you actually wanted. So he became that which you wanted. In every relationship, man treats a woman how he wants to be treated. So if you display bad at first. Well, vis a vis.

[@chibuikeanyadike8288]

Best way to learn is through your experiences, but a better way to learn is through other people's experiences.

[@rebbybam230]

Yes those in abusive relationship dont ever judge them z pray theyll get out some day

[@curtisantonieospears3885]

It's All About Control. Great Video. Love It.

[@azpersonal]

Thank you, Lord, that I have never fallen into this type of love. The thing no dey catch me because my mumu no dey tey🌚. So glad she survived

[@OGBAESTHER-jf6cm]

this is very true!! they will think you're doing it with ur power

[@SASK_M_Y]

And most of the times it takes you to free yourself and that's why people say such things. Till you come to your senses and make that intentional decision,you will continue to be programmed

[@Aggy98]

Been in that position before leaving them is not easy, but i did it and I'm still healing

[@damionhenry6730]

It is this your adult who lack accountability, finding excuse!! Smh Jah Jah.

[@Ozmarc254]

Beautiful words are often the children of trauma. Whenever you hear eloquent speech, moving poetry or uplifting music, it's almost always comes from a place of pain

[@mdove3727]

Asking for a trauma bond is crazy!

[@teresaosborne2209]

I was wondering what that was about.

[@husseenaabdullah8593]

I wish I could find the full video 😢

[@ceciliamelato3866]

The wounds in your soul will make you push forward with the relationship, even as you see the red flags. I was wounded in my soul,my esteem was none existent. I wanted to be validated,I was in my mid 20's. Got in a relationship, I knew I didn't want to be with him,I knew I didn't love him. But the promises he made,made got me in a relationship with him. I had kids (2) based on promises...10 years later,none of the promises came true. I got out of the relationship, he still doesn't believe I left him.

[@demetria7076]

Tell him Bye Felicia!

[@bygraceandmercy]

WHERE IS THE REST OF THIS!!! Someone please post the link 🙏

[@williamseghe4066]

The best way to heal is to talk about it

[@326vega]

Well spoken😢

[@eniolaaladegbeye]

This is so deep!

[@faithnshyiraameyaw4026]

I felt this!!!

[@lucasbrasi4625]

Thats what happens when you dont heal...The need to jump into another relationship like your life depends on it..Its ok to be alone for a little while...Dysfunctional homes screw with people's lives making them toxic..Healing to every broken soul..

[@chiomaigwechi7745]

Please I need the full video This is too deep to be posted as half🤲🏼

[@hildatee2002]

That request is demonic! Lord have mercy!