Relaxing My Natural 4a/b Hair After 3 Years! 😳

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Rukiya Sherman

Rukiya Sherman

Күн бұрын

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@AT-mq9wk
@AT-mq9wk 3 жыл бұрын
"The longer my hair grew, the more unruly it became to maintain it." I felt that. I used to be obsessed with having long natural hair, but it's not even worth it. You go through so much trouble to grow it long, but can't even wear it in a cute style because it causes too many tangles.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%! I applaud people with long natural hair cause it isn’t easy to maintain what so ever 👏🏾
@gbemiakinyemi5711
@gbemiakinyemi5711 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly my point
@rashiedaspencer3184
@rashiedaspencer3184 3 жыл бұрын
Whew I felt this. I've been natural 4yrs now and I have felt everyyy struggle bc my hair is long and thick!🙄
@Noofa00
@Noofa00 3 жыл бұрын
@@strawberryfraisier6446 I used to think the same that the longer my hair the harder and longer it will take to maintain it but now with tall bone length it takes me mixum 40 minutes weekly and I'm ready to go until the next wash day. Comparing with the time I used to spend it when my hair was shorter. Note that I wear it out all the time. So I believe it's different from hair to hair
@nye7152
@nye7152 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been natural my whole life 30 years and I now want to relax my hair. I had it at bra strap length and had to cut 4 to 5 inches off because I had single, double and butterfly knot all over the ends. I can’t deal.
@LisaLovee
@LisaLovee 3 жыл бұрын
“Natural hair soldiers”😭😭😭😭 I just started watching but I’m excited for this one
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Some naturals really be acting like they are in war with relaxers 😭😂
@DeliciaTrini
@DeliciaTrini 3 жыл бұрын
Im a relaxed girl, and it's so refreshing to see naturalistas show love and kindness to black women who do what's best for them.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I love seeing it too!❤️ I was afraid of posting this video and getting judged but everyone is being so sweet and supportive🥰✨
@jenniferbell4571
@jenniferbell4571 2 жыл бұрын
…and please cut we white moms some slack, too! I am so loving this video after asking questions about a keratin treatment in a black hair facebook group. If the kid won’t let the mommy comb her natural hair it’s not a good thing.
@hawaiianBombshell
@hawaiianBombshell 3 жыл бұрын
✨ *Now that us Black women learned so much about our hair from years of being natural I think we can slay relaxers, especially since we don't have to detangle anymore* 🌹 *your hair looks healthy* 👍🏾
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, so true!✨ Thank you hun❤️
@tineekashanellanderson1766
@tineekashanellanderson1766 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@jeyenna7447
@jeyenna7447 3 жыл бұрын
This ! I’ve learned my hair appreciates the journey now going back 😩👏🏾
@libbystwinfreelibby1839
@libbystwinfreelibby1839 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been natural for five years and the longer it gets, the more difficult it is to maintain, which is why I wear mini braids for an entire month. I love my natural hair, but it’s understandable why people go back to relaxers: it’s easier to maintain. You can put your hair in a pony and leave! As long as you take care of your hair, then it’ll flourish
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Yes so true! I loved my natural hair too but I just couldn’t handle the maintenance no more 😓
@Stushdolly_
@Stushdolly_ 3 жыл бұрын
To be honest, I don’t even know why this is still a conversation. Women should be free to do what they want to do with their hair. If you want to be natural, be natural. If you want to relax your hair, relax it. It is crazy how I still hear debates about this....in 2021!!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I know right!! I don't understand why people care so much about what others do for themselves
@Stushdolly_
@Stushdolly_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya Honestly!!
@yasmineguerin2852
@yasmineguerin2852 2 жыл бұрын
I don't complain but, kinda concerned
@laetitiayago8062
@laetitiayago8062 3 жыл бұрын
I was natural for more than 5years. Things started getting serious when I literally cried my eye lashes out because I didn’t know how to handle my hair anymore! Then I relaxed, and I feel less stressed now! Love natural hair, but the work though, tchièeee I can’t 👋🏾🙏🏾
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you! The idea of rocking natural hair is great but the maintenance is just too much. 😴
@LisaLovee
@LisaLovee 3 жыл бұрын
I really don’t blame u for relaxing though natural hair is literally a whole full time job 💀 but I love the end result I swear I thought u was trying to trick us and was was wearing a wig in the thumbnail 😭 ur hair stylist really did that cause it’s LAID
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
The photo in the thumbnail is me wearing a wig because I forgot to take a picture for the thumbnail 🙈😂
@jeanbastien9424
@jeanbastien9424 3 жыл бұрын
I’m living vicariously through you lol. I’m never going to relax my hair again, but watching relaxer videos brings back so much nostalgia. Your hair turned out cute!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Haha, thank you💖
@LifeGuru16
@LifeGuru16 3 жыл бұрын
That "I'm tired of suffering" clip made me laugh so much 😂
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
It's my mood everyday 😂
@LifeGuru16
@LifeGuru16 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya it's MY mood E-V-E-R-Y-D-A-Y! This year is meant to be my 5th year natural but I'm relaxing it on my birthday. From the 23rd of this month, no more struggling ✊🏾. I want to be able to get up and go 🙄
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
@@LifeGuru16 I feel ya!! Congrats on being able to go 5 years natural tho👏🏾 and happy early birthday 🥳
@LifeGuru16
@LifeGuru16 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya Thank you!
@shea.ayitevie
@shea.ayitevie 3 жыл бұрын
Thinking of relaxing my hair when it gets to the length I like
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea!✨
@tigerlillysbookcorner4492
@tigerlillysbookcorner4492 3 жыл бұрын
I just stumbled on this video but I feel there’s been an increase in people relaxing their hair this year which is crazy because the way I got shamed for relaxing my hair and now people are jumping ship...
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry people shamed you for relaxing your hair, you did not deserve that 😔
@AuthorLHollingsworth
@AuthorLHollingsworth 3 жыл бұрын
Sis, the people that shamed you are bullies. Period! This generation is quick to not think gor themselves, but when someone thinks for themselves, they are considered a traitor.
@leondrajohn5841
@leondrajohn5841 3 жыл бұрын
Smh exactly is like a trend...go natrual .. go relaxed..like mind ur own business,😂
@CelesteTheeDragonLady
@CelesteTheeDragonLady 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry people shamed you for relaxing your hair.
@Espistar
@Espistar 3 жыл бұрын
I applaud you for being natural while in college. I couldn’t even imagine. Cute video!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! It was easy managing my natural hair when it was shorter, but now it’s too much 😭
@monziibrownize
@monziibrownize 3 жыл бұрын
Me in a few months when I remove these box braids 👀 lmao
@JustJamilia
@JustJamilia 3 жыл бұрын
You make me feel better about my decision to go back to relaxed hair after almost 5 years of my natural mane😊
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Do what’s best for you❤️✨
@sierraloghan6097
@sierraloghan6097 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t gotten a touch up on my relaxer in almost 12 months because my mom won’t let me get one because of quarantine. I’m currently braiding my hair and OH MY GOD I literally cannot do this anymore. I have very thick 4b/4c and my new growth has gotten pretty long and I feel like a full time natural.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Oh no! I heard it's bad to go more than 4 months without retouching because the relaxed hair will get tangled with the new growth and break off. I hope your hair is okay, try keeping your hair in protective styles while you wait for the retouch
@AuthorLHollingsworth
@AuthorLHollingsworth 3 жыл бұрын
Im happy that you didn't allow for anyone to make your decision. Ive been relaxed ( ORS) for years, and Im waist length. Natural aint for everyone. As we each should be lifting each other up versus pulling our own down. Honestly, it's a form of bullying. For relaxed hair you must take care of your ends, and keep your hair oiled. Take care of your scalp. Also, dont relax as often. Back in the 80's, and 90's people would relax once a month, and we lost majority of our hair. Sad, but true. Deep condition with heat, monthly. Lastly, Relax only about three to four times a year. Some people only relax twice per year, but my hair would be gone with that idea. God, bless!
@kandioubre5544
@kandioubre5544 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. The whole vibe has changed in the last 2-3 years. Natural hair “Nazis” used to be all over these videos talking about eww is gonna break off now, oh no yo gonna get cancer, you ruined your hair, etc. it’s refreshing to see ladies being more acceptable if others choices now.
@Akilopa1
@Akilopa1 3 жыл бұрын
I just relaxed my 4c hair after two years. Anyone go through phases of natural hair and then boom relaxer? I do it on and off every two years. Have no idea if I want to be permanently natural or relaxed🤧
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, I’m the same way! I get quickly bored with my hair. Last year I dyed it and this year I’m relaxing it 😭😂
@His_ChristieRose
@His_ChristieRose 3 жыл бұрын
I’m that way. 😅 My husband and mom don’t even bother to be concerned about my hair anymore.
@catherinex7384
@catherinex7384 3 жыл бұрын
So say I relax my hair and I want to go back natural. Do I have to cut it all of or can I just leave it and wait for it to go back to natural with no retouches?? Please answer
@Akilopa1
@Akilopa1 3 жыл бұрын
@@catherinex7384 Either you big chop, which is essentially cutting all your relaxed hair off and starting over or you transition which is letting your natural hair grow while trimming the relaxed hair. I usually just big chop. Transitioning seems harder to me for some reason. But either way, you’ll end up with fully natural hair in the end. If that’s what you want! Hope this helps❤️
@twolala1
@twolala1 3 жыл бұрын
I’m still weak at natural hair soldiers lol Also my sister and I made a reaction video to your video :)
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I just watched your video! Loved it💖
@NbeezWat
@NbeezWat 3 жыл бұрын
New subbie hereee, came across your video bc i've been debating for the longest on whether i should relax my hair... sis you have convinced me to take the plunge🤧😭 im TIRED too!! lool 💗
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for subscribing!🥰💖 Keep me updated with how it goes with your hair✨
@annacxx4499
@annacxx4499 3 жыл бұрын
I have 1A hair and love these videos! Girl you look amazing.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you🥰❤️
@earthbby
@earthbby 3 жыл бұрын
i love sense of humor lol! please make a series of doing different hairstyles like twistouts, bantu knots, flexi rods etc with relaxed hair
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!❤️ I will definitely do some hair videos that those in the future✨
@jenniferbell4571
@jenniferbell4571 2 жыл бұрын
I love love love this! I get so much flack from people who complain that I relax my daughter’s hair! Her hair is a lot healthier relaxed than a tangled mess! It doesn’t mean I don’t love my kid, and it doesn’t mean I don’t teach her to love her hair.
@aohkay01
@aohkay01 3 жыл бұрын
Here because I’ve been thinking about it more & more everyday 😩 Looking for the courage because I am tirrrrrred
@TheCarnivoreSoprano
@TheCarnivoreSoprano 3 жыл бұрын
How are you now? Do what is best for you and take your time.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t feel rushed💖 do it when you feel it’s right cause once it’s done it can’t be reversed
@TheDreamer279
@TheDreamer279 3 жыл бұрын
“Damn I see my hair flying around” LOL
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Girrrl it was scary cause I thought I was going to walk out of that salon bald headed 👩‍🦲😭
@dagracevvv
@dagracevvv 3 жыл бұрын
I'm natural but this looks soo good on you!!! Ik that being natural isn't for everyone!!! I'm a TEEN and I know this, but there are going to be some naturals that will ATTACK you. They just haters! Keep on grinding beautiful!💗✨
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much babe💖 I appreciate you😘
@tangiechapman6219
@tangiechapman6219 3 жыл бұрын
Amen sister preach on
@omotolaonyin
@omotolaonyin 3 жыл бұрын
Hun trust me relaxing your hair is very understandable. natural hair is not easy to maintain.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
It really isn’t easy!😭 I’ve been neglecting my hair recently since I’ve been so busy with school, so hopefully now that it’s relaxed it’ll be easier to maintain 🤞🏾✨
@teawithcrypto1089
@teawithcrypto1089 3 жыл бұрын
Girl it’s your hair 😌 I’m the same way this point and I’m to let it go!
@vyonamolli3110
@vyonamolli3110 3 жыл бұрын
Ngl you're relaxed hair looks wayy better😍, I thought I'd hate it after seeing the title😂😂😂 but baabbbyyyyy🙌🏽😍🔥😍😍🔥
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Awe, thank you hun!❤️ I'm still getting use to being relaxed again, I feel bald headed 👩🏾‍🦲😂
@vyonamolli3110
@vyonamolli3110 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya it's a good look on you😊 you could always add some clip ins for more weight and density👀🤷🏽‍♀️ that would be cute to see💕🙂
@mstcherie13
@mstcherie13 3 жыл бұрын
I'm natural but am not against a relaxers especially because I know that sometimes you just want a change whether it's curly or straight and out preferences change all the time. I'm thinking about getting a texturiser myself
@lexilomax4986
@lexilomax4986 3 жыл бұрын
I clicked on this video because your relaxed hair looks like a beautiful wig that i am about to buy😜 as a protective style for my natural hair this winter. I hear you! Do whats best for u👌🏾
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
That is a wig 😂 I forgot to take a photo for the thumbnail 🙈
@petrickadieziem4226
@petrickadieziem4226 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I love your results!!!! The truth is, natural or relaxed, it’s being done on the white mans time. Before slavery, we didn’t “need” relaxers because our hair thrived in its natural environment of butters, Chebe powders, natural fats, earths, muds, clays, and special concoctions based on the climates we lived in. We spent hours on end styling our natural hair in intricate, indigenous styles synonymous with our unique cultures. Because of slavery, the laws created against our hair, European influence, and the way whites scrutinized every single second of the day, I understand that the consequences of being removed from our natural, cultural, indigenous environment is the difficult decisions we make today whether to be natural, or relaxed. It’s not a coincidence that our coily hair isn’t manageable enough for quick presentable solutions, it was designed that way by the white mans intentional lack of accommodation for ethnic hair. That’s why I’m personally disgusted with my 4c hair. Even though it’s medium density, my fine strands are extremely delicate and snap easily. I wished I could go back to relaxers, but my hair was just too fragile and limp when I tried to wear it down, in braid outs, roller sets, etc. I’m currently growing into that awkward length of apl/bsl, with even-ish ends and I may consider silk pressed heat training, or Japanese thermal reconditioning by the end of this year.
@boochi7087
@boochi7087 3 жыл бұрын
I've already bought my relaxer! I'm just waiting for it to get warmer!! I can't comb my hair without losing a whole head of hair, and to be honest, my hair was so much nicer when it was relaxed.
@ismelllikebeef5350
@ismelllikebeef5350 2 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling with my hair i loose so much hair and each wash day gives me headache 😫 😩 (I have 3c hair ) plus I have acne and they are all over my head too. I want to relax my hair and not deal with headaches every fucking weekend 🙃 😒 😫
@HairliciousInc
@HairliciousInc 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the Relaxed Hair Community💕 and you’re Canadian🙌🏾 Your hair looks great!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💖
@iamdanie_.
@iamdanie_. 3 жыл бұрын
I so want to relax my hair but I also want to loc it so I have no clue what imma do... I'm literally looking in the mirror rn lol. Btw people can film and snap anywhere once they realize they're not going home to these people who are going to ask "why are you talking to yourself". See them and still don't see them lol. What can they do? ☺️ Coming from a person who's on the shy side but working out of it.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
You'll look gorgeous with whichever hairstyle you choose!✨ Yeah, I'm working on not caring what others think or me, but it's so hard 😭 Maybe one day I’ll build up the confidence to vlog out in public 🤞🏾
@earthbby
@earthbby 3 жыл бұрын
this is the exactly what im going through. locs or relaxed i cant deicide
@AuthorLHollingsworth
@AuthorLHollingsworth 3 жыл бұрын
Queen, you would look great with locs or relaxed. As Black folks we can rock it all, and still be amazing. Period!
@artrx9076
@artrx9076 3 жыл бұрын
Am gonna relax my hair when am 19 or 20 because I cant stand my curly ass hair
@JoniseLovesYouu
@JoniseLovesYouu 3 жыл бұрын
The beginning had me dying bc I am in the process of relaxing my hair. I'm mixing the cream but had to pause to comment this. :')
@elisabethc4057
@elisabethc4057 3 жыл бұрын
Telling natural hair soldiers to relax😂 I’m dead
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I just realized the irony in that statement 😂
@Bumble333
@Bumble333 2 жыл бұрын
Glad I saw this video, it doesn’t bother me to be natural per say cause it’s more in the wavy side then kinky or curly(think I’m a 2c or something)but my daughter on the other hand has 4 something hair and its some much to handle and now she wants a headband wig of straight hair but don’t take care of her hair like a natural does cause I know she won’t do it and puts her hair in a ponytail all the time no other style, hope she sees this video to get a understanding I didn’t get an option my hair was relaxed without the informatikn(my mother is Honduran dad is black) I def got the shirt in of the stick compared to my older sisters with naturally curly and soft manageable hair smh great video
@mysmilewow
@mysmilewow 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been natural 9 years and I’m about to relax. I’ve lost about 3” of length over the last year. I’m so tender headed and detangling umm no
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that! Detangling is such a pain 😩 I hope your relax journey goes well 🤞🏾✨
@la54578
@la54578 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making us laugh along the way. Lol
@kitkat.2324
@kitkat.2324 3 жыл бұрын
I recently found out that you can have relaxed hair and it can be healthy but I recommend watching seen cause sises hair is long and healthy and thick
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! what's the channel name you recommend watching?
@kitkat.2324
@kitkat.2324 3 жыл бұрын
Seun sorry my stupid phone autocorrected it...
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
@@kitkat.2324 I'll for sure check out her videos, thank you!✨
@Coco-hq8vt
@Coco-hq8vt 3 жыл бұрын
I've been natural for the better part of five years and I'm really battling with whether or not to relax it. My hair is too thick/long to fit cute under weaves and wigs even WITH tracks, my natural curls are thick w a tight ass cuticle so it takes hours just to moisturize my hair, and when I press it I live my life around whether or not my hair will revert. I braid my own hair too, and it takes me so long but it's also the only time my hair is truly manageable/I don't have to worry about it, but it gave me traction alopecia.. I feel literally stuck. I think my curls are beautiful and when they're cute, they're really stinking cute.. but damn it is a lot of time consuming work just to maintain and running from humidity/heat/rain is just tew much rn
@amandabonanza
@amandabonanza 3 жыл бұрын
I'm natural and it's just exhausting managing sometimes. I'm considering relaxing it and researching the best method/product for my hair.
@rharris9866
@rharris9866 3 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! Good for you, taking charge, making your own decisions, and doing what’s best for you💕
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Ayy welcome! 😘 and thank you hun, your support means a lot 🥰💖
@kalishajnz
@kalishajnz 3 жыл бұрын
Your intro was everything, lol. I never make it my business to tell people what to do with their hair especially because it's not on my head. You have to do what's best for you in any situation. I think your hair looks nice and good luck on your new journey.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Awe thank you💖
@emi6099
@emi6099 3 жыл бұрын
If you want to get a relaxer it's your business you dont owe anyone an explanation
@butterflyrp1438
@butterflyrp1438 3 жыл бұрын
Girl I feel you so much. I am natural for 4 yrs and sorry I am just a lazy natural. I cannot deal with this detangling (hurts a lot) and all that styling bla. NO! Way to much stress. I also was thinking about getting a relaxer but I am still unsure. Well we will see.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I feel ya! I was so lazy that I went days without moisturizing or detangling my natural hair 😬 , so I had to relaxed cause I was neglecting it when it was natural
@biellaspointofview2054
@biellaspointofview2054 3 жыл бұрын
If I had your hair type I would too. I have 4C hair and I think the furthest your curl pattern is form relax hair the more likely you'll deal with breakage and 4C hair is the worst. I've texlaxed my hair twice before and each time wasn't a good experience so I'll still with my natural hair and use the Tymo straightener which has been amazing for my hair when I want a more blow out look. Though I notice it dries faster that's the downside.
@nylagaston1418
@nylagaston1418 3 жыл бұрын
Girl do what's best for you as long as you look good doing it. Which you do!!!!!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Awe thank you❤️🥰
@diamondwilliams6277
@diamondwilliams6277 3 жыл бұрын
I relaxed my hair after 4 years and I LOVE IT!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
That's great! I'm so happy for you ❤️💫
@chloecelisca7064
@chloecelisca7064 3 жыл бұрын
I just relaxed mine I’m still at the salon
@kyralynn1513
@kyralynn1513 2 жыл бұрын
Relaxed hair looks SO gorgeous on you ! :-)
@lovebug8482
@lovebug8482 3 жыл бұрын
How long does a relaxer typically last? And does it differ depending whether you do it by yourself or at a salon?
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
You have to get your roots new growth done about every 8-10 weeks. Professionals in-salon know how to do this to achieve good results properly.
@memesbabes6899
@memesbabes6899 3 жыл бұрын
Lol girl I know the struggle. My hair has been short and thick all my childhood and it started growing a lot the past 5 years. I’m officially going on a hair journey and when I get the length I want I’m relaxing the fuck outta it😂😂😂❤️
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Haha that’s a good idea! Good luck on your hair journey hun❤️✨
@CelesteTheeDragonLady
@CelesteTheeDragonLady 2 жыл бұрын
By the time you get it to the length you want, you'll know SO MUCH about what your hair needs and what it doesn't so that by the time you get to palying with chemicals you'll know how to maintain your hair. You'll be speaking her language.
@Renee_nf094e
@Renee_nf094e 3 жыл бұрын
I saw a glimpse of this video on Two La La's channel and it tickled me so much I came to see the whole thing. 🤭😄 You're hilarious! Your hair is beautiful, natural or relaxed. 😍
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Ayy welcome!✨ Thank you hun❤️
@charlenegandy9315
@charlenegandy9315 2 жыл бұрын
💁Hey I'm not mad at you. I hear a lot of women saying there going to relax 🙇there hair 🤷 hey its nothing wrong with it, its your hair girl so do what you think is best for you. 😁💓🦋💞🦄🌈😌 your hair is beautiful.
@mskina007
@mskina007 3 жыл бұрын
I’m mf tiiiiiied 😭🤦🏽‍♀️😫 especially with me bout to be a new mom again I will be goin back to relaxers cus I’m tied of braids and sh*t I don’t have patience anymore to sit for hours for braids & faux locs and I’m tied of the buns I just wanna shake & go like home girl ☺️🥰
@KK-er1fg
@KK-er1fg 3 жыл бұрын
Listen I feel your pain, I just relaxed my hair after 12 years being natural. It is a full-time job and I was exhausted 😩
@Annabee399
@Annabee399 2 жыл бұрын
My hair is natural underneath a wig, and I hate it. However, dealing with thyroid conditions and taking meds, relaxers cause me hair loss. However, I want a silk press, but can't deal with the reversion of nappy roots and strait ends. 😒🙄😵
@tiamichel7265
@tiamichel7265 3 жыл бұрын
I relaxed my hair yesterday and I’m so happy I did it!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
That's great! I'm happy for you💕🥰
@tiamichel7265
@tiamichel7265 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya Thank you!
@dianesanchez5308
@dianesanchez5308 2 жыл бұрын
Natural hair is a huge commitment. I have different grades of hair … which isn’t as unusual as l once thought. Three years plus and lm about ready to either take the barber clippers to my hair…or run up into a salon to get a “relaxer” appointment!
@goldieslacks
@goldieslacks Жыл бұрын
Same here. I am a mother who is taking care of a disabled child I have no time to comb through my hair and use a ton of overpriced products only to end up with a bunch of curls that I don't know how to style. I relaxed today and cut half of my hair off and I feel so much better!
@jntshinga2164
@jntshinga2164 3 жыл бұрын
😂The intro kills me😂...girl I did it😍😍do you babe😍😍
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
haha 😆 Thank you 😘❤️
@soulaanlioness
@soulaanlioness 3 жыл бұрын
Harriet we lost one👩🏾‍🌾
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfaooo 😂
@tiffy3049
@tiffy3049 Жыл бұрын
I have 4a hair and I almost cried when I comb my hair and honestly I was thinking of relax my hair after 7 years of natural hair. Black women are allow to do what they want with their own hair, period
@wonnie64
@wonnie64 3 жыл бұрын
You should always do what's best for you, just like the hair nazis do what's best for them. It's your hair, you life, and your choice. Always.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️😊
@xy3951
@xy3951 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could do this but relaxers never work for me. I've had professionals and amateurs try to relax it but it never takes🥲
@deliciahudson1529
@deliciahudson1529 3 жыл бұрын
You're personality & memes... I'm a new sub. 😂😂
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Awe thank you!💗
@pusep132
@pusep132 2 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of my natural hair aswel.2023 I'm gona relax before I cut it short
@nelemazwide4092
@nelemazwide4092 2 жыл бұрын
Plzzz!!!! I’m joining you.. definitely soon😫😫
@kayla3972
@kayla3972 2 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is so true! I loved this video. You're so funny and the clips you included had me rolling lmao I just relaxed my hair this morning after 3 yrs of being natural too, I'm stress free now ☺️ your results came out great.
@Nijilove78
@Nijilove78 3 жыл бұрын
I like my natural hair... but I’m about to have my 3rd child and doing my hair alone takes more than 4 hrs... that’s time i do not have as full time sahm. I don’t mind spending time on my children’s hair! but i dread the idea of doing mine. I’m thinking of going back to relaxed but I’m hesitating bc I want my girls to love their hair and I know they will if mama’s hair is kinky too
@Isa53_
@Isa53_ 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your quirkiness and editing hehe
@Relax_Rombey
@Relax_Rombey 3 жыл бұрын
Why would you do it it will grow back normal
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
New hair growth comes in natural so I'll have to get a relaxer retouch every 2 months
@latofatifa8395
@latofatifa8395 3 жыл бұрын
i m natural for like all my life but i start felling pain in the top of my haid bcz of my thick hair and it takes forever to dry and i a mom if 2 kids.. it s realy hard to go natural it needs alot of time and energy
@foreverglamtv4989
@foreverglamtv4989 3 жыл бұрын
I’m literally at this point I’m just over the natural hair 😩🤣
@asihaparnell9139
@asihaparnell9139 3 жыл бұрын
Loved your natural hair but your relaxed hair looks good too🤍
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 💕
@nolor8397
@nolor8397 3 жыл бұрын
You have the most beautiful hair. What did they use to relax your hair
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you❤️I don't remember the brand but it was a Lye relaxer
@Rae-ms8bf
@Rae-ms8bf 3 жыл бұрын
hey bestie so i’m a 15 year old boy (im white) but i have thick 4b hair that’s super curly. do you think it would still work with my hair since i’m a boy, and how much did it cost you?
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
heeeey frienddd! ❤️ Yes, you can get a relaxer. It doesn't matter your race or gender, if you have thick, curly hair then a relaxer will work on it ✨
@Rae-ms8bf
@Rae-ms8bf 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya thank you so much!! :)
@jojolady95
@jojolady95 3 жыл бұрын
LOOL at your intro girl and this whole video you're hilarious girl ! I have been natural for five years and I would not go back personnally but I feel you on being tired of the maintenance ! Protective styles help me a lot with that if I am too tired I put a wig on or braids and usually after 6 weeks I am okay spending time with my hair again haha.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Haha that's awesome! I liked being natural when my hair was shorter but now that it's getting longer, it gets tangled more 😭 I couldn't handle it no more 😩
@britjj5126
@britjj5126 3 жыл бұрын
You editing and meme game is everything!! 🤣 💯🙌🏾
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ☺️ it’s a mission trying to find good memes to use 😅
@ouahi5987
@ouahi5987 3 жыл бұрын
I've just discovered ur channel U're honestly so pretty Love u do what u want🖤🖤🖤
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!💖 Love you too 😘
@ouahi5987
@ouahi5987 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya thank u so much dear
@kayamor7678
@kayamor7678 3 жыл бұрын
Me watching this on wash day 💀🤣
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Lool 😂 I don’t know about you but I always dread wash day 😩 I never have the energy for it
@emmisters
@emmisters 3 жыл бұрын
Guns a blazing pew pew pew 🔫
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
🔫 🤠
@tiad2739
@tiad2739 3 жыл бұрын
Bestie I wanna relax my hair too 😭😭 I CANT TAKE THIS SHIT
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Just do it bestie!!!
@Tavymckenzie
@Tavymckenzie 2 жыл бұрын
It’s the personality for me 😂😂
@relaxationnation2793
@relaxationnation2793 3 жыл бұрын
Love love love this, it’s the wii music for me🤣🤣🤣
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Wii music makes everything better 😂
@relaxationnation2793
@relaxationnation2793 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya it really does 😂😂
@Angela-km6lw
@Angela-km6lw 3 жыл бұрын
Do what’s best for you!! I think I’m going to do it as well. But the natural hair people are going to come for you!!😂😂😂
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks hun❤️Honestly, the natural hair community has become so toxic! Being natural isn't for everyone, so if people want to give me hate, then oh well 🤷🏾‍♀️
@chloecelisca7064
@chloecelisca7064 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rukiya right !
@thetutorials6099
@thetutorials6099 3 жыл бұрын
Girl ure soo beautiful 😩❤️❤️
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Awwe thank youuu🥰❤️✨
@Shenieta
@Shenieta 3 жыл бұрын
I am sooooooo tired of this natural hair life 😪. It’s been 4 years and I am OVER it
@kiykiyaaa
@kiykiyaaa 3 жыл бұрын
your sound effects be SO on point!!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you🥰❤️
@naiomyaponte2730
@naiomyaponte2730 2 жыл бұрын
Subscribed the minute after I saw that intro 😂😂♥️
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 2 жыл бұрын
😂❤️
@Keliyahrenee
@Keliyahrenee 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the vid, thinking about relaxing after 2 yrs natural. New subscriber from 🇬🇧
@faysfleeks
@faysfleeks 3 жыл бұрын
i love your personality babes !! you’re so funny ... i think im gonna relax mine because i just can’t anymore w this solider ishh
@faysfleeks
@faysfleeks 3 жыл бұрын
& your editing skills are goalzzz
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Awe, thank you hun🥰❤️
@teawithcrypto1089
@teawithcrypto1089 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to a professional before my vacation in March.
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
Ouuuu nice! Let me know how it goes ✨
@AyeyiA
@AyeyiA 3 жыл бұрын
So relaxing it is like permanently straightening your hair. 🤔
@janetonyoutube638
@janetonyoutube638 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. But people who don’t want too straight hair can texturise their hair instead
@queenruby1969
@queenruby1969 3 жыл бұрын
4c Army ASEMBLE get her!!!!!!!
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 3 жыл бұрын
I’m ready to go to WAR!!
@kristaalways
@kristaalways 2 жыл бұрын
LOOOOL I had to subscribe so funny
@Rukiya
@Rukiya 2 жыл бұрын
Teehee thank you🥰❤️
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