we need more influencers like sahar and spencer‼️🤚❤️
@Maddie0313 Жыл бұрын
I agreeeee
@rachelfriedman5093 Жыл бұрын
i just want to be best friends with them😭
@2xxNorMacKxx2 Жыл бұрын
We really don’t
@ssabrina0293 Жыл бұрын
@@2xxNorMacKxx2 well that’s kinda rude, just keep scrolling babe keep ur opinions to ur self if u can’t say something nice
@2xxNorMacKxx2 Жыл бұрын
@@ssabrina0293 Translation: you mean keep your opinions to yourself if they’re different than ours. I didn’t say anything mean or hateful. I could have. Especially about Spencer. But I didn’t. Now if you scroll a bit further down on the comments, you may find my comment, which is a tad rude I’ll admit lol. I just don’t think the world needs more influencers. If anything, we need less. They’re called influencers for a reason. And 90% of them don’t influence for the better.
@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou Жыл бұрын
"you're your own worst critic" No one in a trillion years will ever see you the way you see yourself. Your first love should always be yourself because no matter who comes and goes, you will always be in a relationship with yourself, so treat it nicely, it's the only thing that will be stuck with you for the rest of your life.
@BRBallin1 Жыл бұрын
I don't agree with this. I've had people gaslight me for things I'm ok with myself with. Everyone has different standards for everything.
@night_of_stars Жыл бұрын
@@BRBallin1 Yes, people have preferences, but usually you are being hard on yourself, and other girls and guys look at you and don’t see what you could possibly be insecure about. This isn’t everyone though, but it’s often that you judge yourself more than others do.
@Scypro Жыл бұрын
@@night_of_starsyou describe me and many others 🥲
@emsauce.08 Жыл бұрын
one thing I always remember when I'm insecure is that an ancestor before me looks the exactly the same as me, and someone fell in love with them, treated them well, and grew old with them. it really helps lol
@naieen333 Жыл бұрын
Ik im late but wow thats rly smart!
@samaelbravo369210 ай бұрын
Yeah but their husbands didnt exactly have as many options as today so
@Eatwinks6 ай бұрын
@@samaelbravo3692🤓☝️
@rayenswift8843 Жыл бұрын
"think of the hottest girl you've ever seen" Me : Sahar- But fr tho thanks ❤️
@anagxjxvxc4890 Жыл бұрын
Sameeee, girl crush🫣😅
@antine1279Ай бұрын
I'm 33. my body hasn't changed much in the last 10 years but I care less and less with every passing year about my insecurities. I have less and less of them, very few left. I can't believe it took me so long and that I felt so bad about myself for years. It's truly insane what we do to ourselves. Girls (and guys), stop giving a fuck - it's the most liberating thing ever! Makes your life soooo much better
@cantstopscrollingsyndrome9 ай бұрын
I wouldn't be insecure if people pointed crap out, my insecurities are what EVERYONE points out
@sophiagooden8171 Жыл бұрын
This is so true my Ive known my sister for …. 9 yrs now and I didn’t even notice her tooth gap until she came and asked me why there where models in stores with tooth gaps. Makes me so sad how insecure ppl r. 😢
@Cheyenne_27 Жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this Sahar, you and Spencer have helped me to learn to start loving myself as a teen girl
@Storyteller2078 Жыл бұрын
Spencer's toxic tho
@Cheyenne_27 Жыл бұрын
@@Storyteller2078 how so?
@winterso8589 Жыл бұрын
Making me about to cry Sahar 😭 this is for real words of wisdom 🙏 thank you
@BigKickSarah9103 Жыл бұрын
I don’t really think anyone would want any of my features… they only really see my knowledge and even then they see it as kinda disgusting. The other things were really helpful though! Thank youuu ♥️
@diaistic Жыл бұрын
im sure ur gorgeous pls don't say that
@finnpie9669 Жыл бұрын
I mean... Even knowledge is like really attractive to people so yeah by this video's logic ur still hot whoever u are even if u think otherwise
@repent. Жыл бұрын
that's in your head believe it or not
@BigKickSarah9103 Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@repent. Жыл бұрын
@@BigKickSarah9103 you're welcome we're just stating facts tho
@KT-zd3vl Жыл бұрын
I’m more insecure about my personality than I am my physical appearance.
@Eryn518 Жыл бұрын
No omg I feel attacked by this comment
@KT-zd3vl Жыл бұрын
@@Eryn518 what?
@Zositaqueen Жыл бұрын
@@Eryn518 ong tho
@winter_falls903 Жыл бұрын
why? im sure ur fun to be around
@KT-zd3vl Жыл бұрын
@@winter_falls903 why would you say that?what makes you sure? that’s a weird thing to say to an internet stranger
@ur.fav.swiftie.14 ай бұрын
i wish all of these were true all of the time… i have been made fun of many times throughout my school years and my “friends” are often pointing out my insecurities 😢
@KasaneToka7 күн бұрын
i was crying since i was insecure and when i saw this i cried more since u made me feel more confident
@Navii_TaylorsVersion Жыл бұрын
I am truly thankful for people like you. I love you!
@merayvibzz11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! Its too bad we be living in a judgmental society!😭😭
@kellyh7158 Жыл бұрын
These are all so true and so relatable! Thank you for the reminder that everyone feels this way sometimes and we are not alone ❤️
@Maddie0313 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! you make my day and help me so much!!!❤❤❤❤
@kaylar5178 Жыл бұрын
I thought about this one too were you shouldn’t wish to be someone else because most likely they can be missing out on something amazing you have already.
@romeliapc4175 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for confirming once again that "their is some out their wanting one of my features thinking if they had it they wouldn't be insecure" honestly we should all love ourselves and be kind to ourselves. No hate to plastic surgeries but someone out their wants your nose, hips etc. and are going to a doctor to get it "fixed", like do whatever you want with your body/face but if you do it with the matter of THIS will make me prettier to fill up a void then it will never be worth it. This is so true!!👏🏻❤
@shmeepshmoop2717 Жыл бұрын
you are literally so sweet
@ESSIE5387 ай бұрын
Just had a whole mental break down from feeling insecure and this really helped ❤
@dwet26011 ай бұрын
BYEEE i was literally saying the exact same things this morning like “oh if I looked like her I would never be insecure” or “how could she even have any insecurities?” AND I FIND THIS ON MY FYP?? SCARREYYY
@_fxiry_maisie_ Жыл бұрын
I was sitting at lunch next to a group of girls and I saw someone point at me and say ,”If I was as confident as her I wouldn’t be so insucure”. She made my day❤️
@dtpg5713 Жыл бұрын
I uses to be skinny, I started eating more food (especially healthy food) and startes working out. I have gained a little muscle and a lot of strength, now I am not insecure knowing I am trying to improve.
@woosanghwaa2 ай бұрын
I’m very insecure about my height (I am VERY much above average for a girl in my country I’m 5’10) and everyone around me points it out and even my friends mock/joke about it. It’s hard to believe myself if I were to tell myself these things because it doesn’t really help with my situation:(
@blairxxxxxxxx Жыл бұрын
I've realized I used to look down on myself or talk bad bout myself. No more doing that to myself. ✨
@rainbowprincess1341 Жыл бұрын
the last one is honestly true. i often point out insecurities about myself to my best friends and they often do not see it until i mention it or they dont even see it at all
@georgiaberry3417 Жыл бұрын
BRO WELL IK THAT IF IM INSECURE I THINK OF U AS THE PERFECT GIRL OMG UR GORGEOUS
@Sunset.-.1010111 ай бұрын
I am so jealous of this girl in my 6th period she's literally the prettiest girl alive to me
@person6167 Жыл бұрын
YOU!! IM LIKE HOW THE HELL DO YOU HAVE INSECURITIES U ARE GORGEOUS !!!!!
@Summer_timesadness11 ай бұрын
This really helped me today , I have been through a lot 💔
@Hi-zu5gw Жыл бұрын
A thing I did at a time that I was insecure about everything was that I saw those girls they where "perfect" and i would look for my own insecurities in them, and when I saw many of them had the same features I managed to get an outside perspective and now I love many of those parts about myself because I saw how beautiful they where on others
@monicamarie97 Жыл бұрын
Yo. I have never thought about how my future self will think of my current self talk. That’s huge 🤯 thank you for this video. I’m obsessed with you 💛💛
@kisses4kc Жыл бұрын
writing this comment through tears. i’ve always been taught that growth is the way to be happy. always get better, always go the extra mile, always push yourself until you break. i’ve been so concerned with growing and looking for a glowup that i’ve had no time to love myself. in ten years i’m not going to remember browsing pinterest for haircuts that make my face shape look normal and hair products to kill the natural waves. i’m going to remember this girl who had nobody to love her because she refused to love herself.
@Tswizzle4ever Жыл бұрын
Thank❤🌹🙏 you for making us more confident😌
@jordanmacleod3688 Жыл бұрын
You’re that girls to me you’re brilliant funny sweet, kind, caring literally the definition of the perfect person. I hope everything goes right for you. Wish you all the best in everything and anything you do.
@jacquiesurman9296 Жыл бұрын
She is a whole personality she slays and makes me so comfortable!!!!!!
@Milan.Aguilera Жыл бұрын
i fricken love you. you have taught me how to love myself and now i feel like the most confident baddest bitch ALIVE and your videos are just so comforting and i love to watch them AHH
@aleahruonavaara519 Жыл бұрын
i was feeling really insecure today and this helped so so much keep doing this
@4NN13. Жыл бұрын
It’s the worst when you tell someone your worst insecurity and it changes the way they see you.
@annabellevogel2790 Жыл бұрын
I really felt this message ❤️🖤
@Angelsntreal10 ай бұрын
Perfect timing🫶🫶
@Shiiimason6 ай бұрын
I am thankful to you gorgeous lady.... ❤
@Sabryna_1tG Жыл бұрын
“Think of the hottest girl you’ve ever seen” one sentence in You Sahar you are gorgeous queen! Have a good day love! ♥️♥️♥️
@PepperandRosie Жыл бұрын
Made my day❤
@kimtaeyeonismyeverything Жыл бұрын
“Think of the hottest gi-“ thinks of you😭 maam you’re too gorgeous
@sokeefesip1734 Жыл бұрын
When she says think of the prettiest girl you know and I think of sahar
@ruthhammon6610 Жыл бұрын
Everytime I say something about how I hate myself I always imagine God being sad like, "But I worked so hard on you." Makes me feel bad so I don't do it.
@TheChrisAnonymous Жыл бұрын
I cant believe u uploaded this at the right time. So God sent
@zozostars Жыл бұрын
“You can’t be mean to your baby pics” I literally bully every baby picture I’ve ever seen of me
@ragingbicycle7465 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sahar! i love your vids and you have helped me so much. with my self confidence ❤❤❤
@yveweo9 ай бұрын
this helped tyy😊
@idreamtofayou Жыл бұрын
I just felt like sharing this i have always been insecure of my br* size and all and most of my friends had like smaller size than me which was an add on to my insecurities and a few weeks ago idk how our conversation diverted to that and all my friends were like "look at you girl, if I looked like you I'd never be insecure"
@juliettully Жыл бұрын
Sahar, thank you so much for all your videos because you’ve truly helped me to gain more confidence. I struggle so much with self confidence especially since social media has come around. I decided to delete all socials besides KZbin and i hope u never stop making videos and I wish you more success and happiness ! 💗
@TrixieMattelsnumber1fan Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This really helps ❤❤
@prasidhithapa1237 Жыл бұрын
This feeling is too complicated sometimes I wish I was born skinny or I had eating disorders because I am so insecure about my body I wish I can walk comfortable felling pretty I just wish I wasn't fat I wish I wasn't weak
@iconicstay5685 Жыл бұрын
Not my grandma picking apart how my eyes and glasses were on facetime
@Lila-cu1mi Жыл бұрын
I feel that way about u, like ur the person I wish I looked like ❤️❤️❤️
@a_rose6537 Жыл бұрын
When she says think of the prettiest girl you know Me: she’s on my screen rn
@Scypro Жыл бұрын
Even I know this myself but my stupid brain can’t stop thinking about it 😂 who else are like this?
@abigailshumway2711 Жыл бұрын
I love you and your content
@bananna_309 Жыл бұрын
u r spreading amazing messages
@luchshiya Жыл бұрын
The thing is they hate themselves with everybody comforting them and calling them pretty, I literally get bullied for my looks and have suicidal thoughts
@Cardigan0 Жыл бұрын
I think people do notice. Especially when they point it out when I try really hard not to draw attention to it
@saoirse.tierney Жыл бұрын
when sahar asked me to think of the most gorgeous girl i thought of her. she’s gorgeous, but she’s the type of gorgeous that makes u feel pretty too💓 i love u
@b3th123 Жыл бұрын
Same! She is amazing
@FionaWho_ShreksMyHusband Жыл бұрын
I thought of my mom she has a chibi looking body ,hair straightened for so long it looks like anime and freckles when I tell you that she is the depiction of perfect, mamas will always be 1# queen bess in anyone's eyes I'm fr. Sahar is also so beautiful she is the definition of beautiful inside and out!
@aylakreelak Жыл бұрын
Subscribed!
@reedaniyamarsya Жыл бұрын
i love this❤
@henriettaanneeles490 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Sahar! I agree with everything except the baby pics thing though... I mean to baby me very easily tbh, but things may get better
@Music_0419 Жыл бұрын
It’s Taylor swift for me 😍
@shalinipahujani552 Жыл бұрын
Ty for the reminder love you 💕
@Ivy-peaches-3 ай бұрын
When you look at a stranger an they are pretty and you are like omg the are so pretty I wish I were them but they might be insecure about something can you point they're insecurity out no right exactly when someone looks at you they don't know what you'r insecurity (unless you told them) so don't be insecure you pretty just the way you are.
@user-dk6qp2kr6s Жыл бұрын
Thankkk you soo muchhh
@arianamarlow8571 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💗
@flowra19 Жыл бұрын
Yeah one day I wore this lipgloss and I though it made my teeth look super yellow and right before I was about to take it off my friend was like I love ur lipgloss and I was like are u sure doesn't it make me teeth look yellow ? And she said I didnt even notice that till u pointed it out and tbh I still don't rlly see it and I just assumed she was just being nice looking back now that gloss was actually rlly cute I wish I hadn't given it away
@shiny5909 Жыл бұрын
The first two examples I thought of you Sahar xx
@ItsJust_StarLight6 ай бұрын
Dude my insincerities right now 😂
@Th3_V0id0 Жыл бұрын
We all have things we don’t like about ourselves so why not embrace it! I have an insecurity about my nose and jawline and the other day I saw a girl who had nearly the same nose as me and she was stunning, it just goes to show that it’s just society telling us what to do and tbh what the beauty standard is now will most definitely be different in the future so why waste time on picking apart yourself?
@jada_gay Жыл бұрын
As a person who has anorexia, this really helped 💗. Body insecurities is a hard thing to go through and often I used to compare myself to others but I'm learning how to not to , thank you so much for this vid girly 👍🏽👏🏽🤎💛🤎💛🤎💗
@CreamieBunnies Жыл бұрын
People only critique your looks if they are insecure themselves.
@katj21 Жыл бұрын
its bad when ur own friends point out ur insecurities
@Taterchip102711 ай бұрын
A counselor at the residential I went to told me “ look around do you look at all the people they’re all just like you they’re so focused on their own problems and appearance that they would never notice your insecurities unless you pointed it out”
@kulkaur8003 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sahar ❤
@avabutcher2682 Жыл бұрын
sahar your my person i look up too 🫶🏻
@khadijak.bx87 Жыл бұрын
ok so i need to tell my self that sahra has insecurities also i love u so much your vids are so fucking amazing
@charlotteebea Жыл бұрын
Today I was sitting at lunch and I like love my eyebrows but two of my friends were like "Why do your eyebrows look like that?" And like bro.. They're gorgeous idc 😘
@user-je9jv1up9q Жыл бұрын
Be sure that anyone who would say that to you is just jealous.
@charlotteebea Жыл бұрын
@@user-je9jv1up9q that boosted by confidence so muchh!! Tysm!!
@urlocalsimp559 Жыл бұрын
drop those "friends" they are toxic af
@elliewong2867 Жыл бұрын
"oh my god look at that" 👹👹👺👺👹👺
@_Daughter_of_Athena6 ай бұрын
"think of the hottest girl..." *thinks of sahar*
@karinametcalf2713 Жыл бұрын
I looked at a picture of 1st grade me and called it fat. Because ITS THE TRUTH.
@celestem8016 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@leiajones852 Жыл бұрын
After watching the first episode of normal people and half of the second episode I just got one thing to say….it’s lowkey weird af but imma continue watching out of curiosity. 😂
@Thekingofwatching10 ай бұрын
The funny thing was, didn’t have insecurities. “You”(others) met me. I was outcast
@timemachine_2011 Жыл бұрын
“i hate my face it’s so lopsided” “yeah it is”
@PoopyHeadkaka11 ай бұрын
I get bullied bc when I smile my eyes get small and I get racist comment saying I’m Asian and people say my nose is huge more than I think it which makes me really insucure
@rose-ir7pl Жыл бұрын
Im extremely confident until i see the inverted version of me (back camera)😭💀
@777xoxoxo Жыл бұрын
Ur the most stunning girl ever 💗 truly i love ur face so much
@nwlkr18 Жыл бұрын
“think of the hottest girl you’ve ever seen” me: TAYLOR SWIFT-
@floralynphea54919 ай бұрын
easy to say when ur pretty
@Punkygreen-87 ай бұрын
Fr
@alyssabolin0717 Жыл бұрын
My best friend is the most beautiful person I know and I always make sure to tell her because she doesn't wanna believe that. She doesn't see herself that way which is a shame because it's obvious it's not just me who thinks she's beautiful
@Harsh-kf2ll Жыл бұрын
Ur look is soo freaking cute tho-
@A_StupidHuman7 ай бұрын
I felt challenged by the baby picture thing so I went to my camera roll. When I saw a picture of me around the age of 6, I started crying. I couldn't do it.