Renovating my Paris apartment - unexpected obstacles & lessons learned

[@diogodores1423]

Hey Shayna, electrical engineer here. So first thing - what happened with the first two wires is pretty simple, for electricity to flow it needs a completed circuit, which means something that conducts that will make it go from point A to point B. When you tucked this two wires you found on the wall together, you probably made the metallic parts touch, which created what we call a short circuit, you completed the circuit and suddenly the electricity had a connection to flow through. Usually short circuits are dangerous because if you simply use a cable to create this connection, instead of lets say a light bulb or a phone charger there’s no “resistance” in the middle, so the electrons are free to flow and the cables quickly heat up and probably even melt from the high heat. So always be very careful when handling cables and never let two random cables touch each other. As for the problem per say, the solution is very simple, if you don’t want electricity to flow all you need to do is avoid completing the circuit. There’s a lot of ways you can do this, some people put caps on exposed wires, others just buy electrical tape and put it over the metal part that is exposed. You really don’t have to worry a lot about this, because from the moment you cover it with something that doesn’t conduct electricity like a cap or electrical tape the circuit will never complete, so the electrons have nowhere to go and will never flow through that bit of wire. (Just be careful while doing this and turn off all the circuit breakers/all electricity to avoid getting shocked, as it turns out our bodies conduct electricity and can also complete the circuit :p) Another cool thing is your wall or w/e you bought to cover the holes also doesn’t conduct electricity so as long as the cables are inside the wall and not touching other cables you will be safe. Feel free to ask any questions related to this. :)

[@deerose8198]

So nice of you to lend your expertise you're helping others as well 🫶🏽

[@virginiacreager4331]

Wow this is a great explanation! I thought she said it had to flow because somehow it was connected to the electricity in the kitchen?

[@melissaartistry6041]

So brilliant of you to offer Shayna this advice! Makes sense. Storing that away for whenever 😊

[@romyh6198]

taking all the time to write that - you're a good person :)

[@diogodores1423]

@@virginiacreager4331 what the guy meant with that is that probably that same cable goes through other outlets or connections in the kitchen. So removing that cable would mean cutting the circuit there which would make it stop working. Usually when electricians want to do something about random cables they have three options: 1 - disconnect the cable from the electrical box and leave it there, since it is now just a random cable in the wall. For this case, it wouldn’t work because the cable is being used to either provide electricity or to close the circuit from the kitchen. 2 - take the cable completely out of the wall or the section that doesn’t matter. This is always possible, but sometimes very impractical to do. Older buildings rarely have nice cables pass-through and taking the cables out could involve breaking the wall. This a very bad solution, since you can always break other cables in the process or you can accidentally break the wrong section of the wall and then you just added extra costs to the whole thing. 3 - cap or put electrical tape over the cable ( always works and takes a lot less work) I’d say option 2 and 2 should only be considered if your doing a whole electrical overall of the place, otherwise it’s not worth it. Also some extra info on cables in general, in your home you usually have 3 kinds of cables. They are color coded , each country usually has it’s own system and each color means a different type of cable. The 3 cables are: 1 - live - this cable transports the electrons from the electrical grid and is the dangerous one, always be very careful while handling live cables; 2 - neutral - this cable is used to close the circuit, it transports the used electrons back to the grid. Very rarely dangerous on it’s own unless you make a cut in a used cable, even then the shock will be very small. 3 - ground - this is used to send all extra abnormal charges to somewhere, mostly static electricity, but if some other extra charge suddenly happens we also sent it through the ground cable. This cable like the name says is connected to the ground. Also really not that dangerous unless you touch it during a very specific time. There also other set ups, but this 3 cables one is the most common.

[@ohimdying]

Renovating houses and apartments is always hard, but renovating as a single woman who isn't native to the country is twice as hard because some people are just ... stay strong and good luck on your journey 💜

[@Isa-jr9en]

I hear you. They want to hit on you or think your stupid. Give them a 'great' review.

[@kaitlinmeadows6273]

Thank you for this pep talk about facing adversity and disrespect…at 77 I feel I am utterly invisible and treated like I’m an easy target for condescension and dismissal. Each of us standing up for ourselves helps shift the shit. You have given me strength to speak up today!

[@aneanpc]

This is the shit in France I am sick off! However, one thing I did learn is that once you are stuck like this you go and see a lawyer and let them comunicate next steps instead of you. Usually one e-mail/conversation fixes a lot of things (yes, they are afraid). For example, I was not getting my titre de sejour sorted and prefecture was ignoring me for months and months and then asking extra documents that do not concern me, where I reached the point where my rights will expire because I was waiting way too long for them to finish their part of the job. I went to see a lawer, explain situation, and after she contacted them that day my everything was finished in 1 day. 1 fucking day! E-mails and trace is a must and next step is a lawyer. I completely get your frustration as I am nice person, and hate to be the bitch, but at the same time you need to protect yourself. Best of luck and a lot of patience!

[@HJ-ie6mb]

Wow that is infuriating! But good to know how to get action fast - did you have to pay the lawyer?

[@aneanpc]

@@HJ-ie6mb yes, 50euros for this particular thing (prefecture).

[@SE013]

50 euros for the consultation and the letter? That's really cheap. Who is this lawyer, and how did you find him/her? lol I live in Paris so I would love to know more about this@@aneanpc

[@pbtraveler694]

they must have no license requirements in France???? smh

[@virginiacreager4331]

Lawyer lawyer lawyer lawyer 👍👍👍👍

[@Pinotjoir]

Women can’t win. When we’re young, we’re not taken seriously. When we’re old, we’re out of touch. This is why feminism is still so important. We’re human first and all humans deserve respect. ❤️ Best of luck to you on the rest of your renovations!

[@charoraimondogarcia]

I don't know if it exist in Paris, but here in Buenos Aires there is a collective (with a facebook group) of woman and trans folk who work as electrician and other usually male dominated industry. The point of it is to generate a safe space for the workers and the people, like you, who had very bad experiences with misoginistic trades man

[@michellemeyer1649]

I love this! What are a great idea. ❤️

[@charoraimondogarcia]

Yes! Is really nice. I contrcted (is that how you say it?) Some of them as movers a couple of times, really good experience

[@michellemeyer1649]

@@charoraimondogarcia ….totally makes sense. Btw…..Buenos Aires looks so beautiful and it’s a city on my bucket list. GIRL POWER!

[@charoraimondogarcia]

@@michellemeyer1649 yesss, it's a really nice city. It has a lot of artistic things to do

[@hanawana]

incredible

[@Littlmouse]

Thank you for being so raw and honest. It's so comforting to see someone I admire deal with the same challenges as I do. Hopefully one day our feminine energy will be recognised as the powerhouse it truly is!

[@Snufkin999]

I loved that you went from "we find solutions" to "sometimes, there is no solution, but just to see it". I think the ultimate affirmation and is acceptance, and sometimes our drive for positivity can go counter to it by fueling our need to control. Witnessing the authentic way in which you navigated this ordeal helped me see this clearly again, so thank you. Wishing you nothing but the best!

[@jwgaia]

From one Pisces moon to another, I get it 😂😩 My soul loves your soul, truly relate to you on such a deep level it’s insane. Sensitivity and compassion being taken for granted is the most vulnerable and powerless feeling and it’s hard to accept

[@barbart_]

as a struggling artist (and mom) - i appreciate your videos and your honesty

[@thepurplepalace85]

Sending you love 💗

[@b.m.3796]

I love your videos as well Barbart! Two of my fave youtubers in one place!:))

[@Suboptimalconditions]

I feel you. Being patronized and gaslit is one of the worst feelings ever. It’s infuriating. ❤ you’re so strong and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@sundayworksmusic]

I just love that you are dressed so beautifully and creatively while doing this work. A mood is a mood/an outfit is an outfit no matter how many house things are on the agenda!

[@keatsiann]

the i love being sensitive journal is the first journal (and ive tried and owned many) i’m actually close to completing in less than a few months. the way you designed it, i finally felt free and empowered to be imperfect, to write the cringey shameful fearful things and let them go, to doodle the ugliest most imperfect wonderful things, to be as nonsensical as i like, and to feel my fucking feelings!! it’s honestly been extremely freeing and i never realized how much my perfectionism held me back from even my most basic emotional expression. and i’m so thankful for your art helping me overcome that bit by bit! 💗💗💗i love being sensitive!💧

[@GaiaGalaxy420]

I need that diary😮

[@fr3agy]

Oh sweet sweet sheyna 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ SENDING YOU ALL THE GOOD OF THE WORLD FOR YOUR APARTMENT 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@howareyou857]

Single parent Mum here with 2 disabled kids and a knackered old cottage. Everything in writing then a seriously worded review under their businesses website ...threaten to name and shame. Give no fucks if you have to get tough. Its not a bad thing and honestly some people desrve a tongue 😊 lashing 😊😊

[@janaybridges]

You are SUCH a pisces moon and as I tell my pisces moon friends. It is not kind to put your own feelings on the back burner. It's beautiful that you have such open hearts but you have to give your energy sparingly. Make sure energy has potential to be matched first.

[@rachelwyatt9529]

Renovating is stressful and contractors have all the power. Hang in there! It will be worth it. But I understand shedding tears. You may cry a bucket when all said and done.

[@julissacarb]

So sorry about the frustration, but you’re handling it with a lot of grace and that is something to be proud of :) In reference to your wall colors, you could always paint one wall yellow and leave the rest white. Great way to get the best of both worlds!

[@Zuhal12]

Shayna! please stay strong! I know ur house gonna be great and u'll gonna be just fine. Just few weeks ago I've definately been through the same process in my apartment, and its strange but i definately cried like you from another area of the world coz of mental breakdown during my moving process ahah. living alone as a young woman in a narcissistic men's world like that, its hard. But its gonna be ok stay strong!

[@mmonroe259]

Thanks for showing the true struggles of everyday life.. I think everyone is sick of how so many people on social media and KZbin project an image of error free perfection and causes people to feel like only their life is difficult… it’s refreshing to see the truth in you!

[@Migoto77]

fellow Pisces moon, Capricorn rising, and new homeowner here! I feel so seen by this video. Shayna, we will get through this and have the space of our dreams ❤️💕 boss up girlie

[@virginiacreager4331]

Shayna I encourage you to reach out to your community for assistance with this. I think as western women were made to think we have to do everything ourselves to prove ourselves and honestly I’ve come to see that thinking as consumerist programming. You might have a friend who is naturally “hard” and it wouldn’t take any effort for them to call these aholes and even be there with you when they come to do work. I am a naturally soft fem woman that’s had to renovate my mom’s old country house on my own so I get the gaslighting by men techs. Doing everything on our own doesn’t prove our strength. Using our connections and team shows our intelligence. 🤝

[@nenamocnik]

I agree. I also go with this "strong woman attitude" but I just figured out that including my (French) husband to beat them out, especially on the phone, has spared me a lot of nerves. So, reach out to your French friends to help out with this: it is not just language, it is also the way how they communicate and are not afraid to just be rude to eventually make things work out.

[@estellar.367]

you are not a bitch if you stand for yourself, remember you also have to take care of yourself and dont let yourself be abused or bad treated. kindness is not only for others it must be for yourself as well and for that you need to be brave

[@foxwilliamulder]

I've been having the same experience lately of being myself yet still being walked over and condescended by men. It's not even "lately" rather something that happens on the regular. I too have considered lowering my voice so much so to the point where I even brought this up to my boyfriend and asked him if I "sound serious enough." It's disheartening the lengths women have to go to be taken seriously. It feels like character infringement to have to be stern and cold and not smile just because you want to be treated equally. I think in order to save yourself grief, the stern, straight face demeanor is something you should implement when it comes to dealing with contractors and to look into getting a lawyer who will light a fire under their a** when they aren't doing the work you paid for. You deserve a home you are safe in!

[@abstergo06]

je sais pas pourquoi mais la manière dont tu termines tes vidéos avec les petites phrases sur le fond noir tout simple et la musique me fait tellement chaud au coeur à chaque fois

[@kjb1801]

You have so much support here Shayna, you must feel the love. Women have to fight throughout all their lives.

[@janel.9293]

Hey!! I’m an artist and my boyfriend is a musician (electric rock violinist) and we just moved to paris! I’ve been watching your channel for quite a few years and love seeing all the same sights :)

[@Jennnnnnnnnnah]

I felt inspired to get the “dreams come true journal” and as I’m writing it’s a season in my life where my dream is totally coming true!! What Divine Timing & i almost need a new one 🤍

[@_madame_sene]

I’m only four minutes into this video and it’s already been so helpful. Thank you so much for sharing and being you. I’m in the middle of so many major life changes as I’m getting ready to move abroad this spring and my new mantra “not only can I do difficult things, but I can enjoy the process & have fun.”

[@kemionabule3926]

You are a real trooper! this is a hard task, but I have faith in your ability to get it done. It is not easy being an artist and getting your shit together but you are doing it. You are a huge inspo 🥰

[@TerraMontez]

our purple palace queen

[@thepurplepalace85]

💗💗💗

[@reze3416]

Aw when you broke down crying 😢ughhh I swear hang in there and don’t let this set back ruin your shine!!!!

[@michellemeyer1649]

I love your energy and strength! You should be really proud of yourself because you are literally doing this all by yourself. Good for you!

[@oddlypeculiar]

I can totally feel your words and struggles since I am in the middle of renovation as well and as a young woman it is so hard to cope with people not wanting to be nice to us and take things not seriously.. I hope you will overcome those issues soon and good people will come to you 💓

[@seapoetry]

You’re doing great, girlie! Hang in there 🤗♥️

[@susanzumback7711]

People mistake kindness for weakness all the time.eventually you’ll have to set the record straight with those kinds of people,it’s ok,it’s on them,not you.💜

[@robinredondo9427]

I used to have a coworker who would say, “Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.”

[@cmlandresc]

Hi Shayna, I haven't finished watching yet but I just have to say, I live in Paris and if you need an electrician, let me know! I had a great experience with one recently-- I can recommend him if you need.

[@Aizt8]

I hope she sees this!!

[@katmarj2937]

Thanks for sharing your journey. Trying to be “not attached to outcomes” is so difficult.

[@TooTrueTruth]

The patronizing is REAL! I am so sorry this happened to you my love💓

[@thepurplepalace85]

Thanks angel ❤️💗

[@deec9577]

I just got my I love Being Sensitive journal delivered today it's so cute I love all the prompts 🥰

[@dlrierdan]

You are doing a great job!!! I'm so proud of you!!! You have more courage than you know and I'm loving your series, fixing and learning....let it all out give yourself space to feel all these emotions. It will help you conquer the next obstacle.

[@melnatalks]

Call a lawyer. They haven’t done their job properly and you are not responsible for that, they are. You should at least get your money back and have someone else do it. I wouldn’t trust that electrician to come back and fix it.

[@melnatalks]

Also I don’t understand how this is a thing that contractors are late/not showing up all the time? In my country those people would be out of work immediately. Does France have something like a better business bureau where you could report them for bad service?

[@BATgirl57]

You are so right about your Pisces moon!! I am Pisces sun and on a similar journey of creative, free spirit, emotion, expression, divine feminine energy in a masculine leaning society. It can be very challenging at time and your honest sharing confirms to me that it’s All Okay!! We are learning and expanding every step of the way! Sending you so much love Shayna! You rock!!! 💜☮️🌈😎💃🎯🦋🌺🎶🎸🎉🌴

[@heywilla]

your books are so absolutely beautiful

[@martinacatinelli]

Sorry, this is horrendous! I would have screamed their heads off. You are way too nice, you still have to step into your power and be okay that it is okay not to be nice and loveable to everyone. It is not authentic when you try to paint a positive picture when you are seriously done wrong. Authenticity is when you tell them off and stay in your power. But one learns that eventually #48. That is no go - you could have been electrocuted!!! You should really put the name of the company in the story and not give them a good recommendation - as someone else can be electrocuted too.

[@AriaIvancichArt]

I know what it's like, Shayna. It's fucking hard. But....Imagine when it's over and you're all free and happy owning yer own apt in Paris !!!!!!!!!!🎉

[@Lavenderinspirit]

✨I’m right on time✨😌❤ You’re so brave, Shayna. I would have crumbled dealing with people like that.

[@marialundqvist6803]

Watching your renovating videos every week when I'm doing my nails... just wanted to say that you inspire me and help my mindset!! All love

[@boy_topics]

I feel your frustration so much, its so clear you were just OVER IT! That feeling when everything is so out of your control no matter how hard you try is so sh*t. I hope everything gets settled soon and you can get some peace

[@laurawoodbury5929]

Patronizing is real but it’s also possible the electrician doesn’t know what he’s doing and that’s why his work was crappy. I think you should get another electrician to check the work so you know what should be done to properly complete the job.

[@colleenmanning4328]

That tree in the thumbnail is everything. ❤

[@tueblivita3403]

Thank you for this great and honest video. You are a strong and independent woman! You rule the world! We can all do it. Men can do no more and no less than we can, and if we meet them in that mindset, they will realize that. We are good the way we are, we are strong and we are equal.

[@fr3agy]

YESSS feeling you on the principle talk!!!

[@despremacisialtebalarii]

You got this, Shayna 💜thank you for sharing your vulnerable moments. I had felt a similar frustration with contractors however it was not my own place, I was renting, so for you it must have been even more intense. I am following every bit of your journey with this apartment, You are inspiring because you went for it! It can't be easy but you are doing an AMAZING job! PS one of my favourite affirmations lately its trust the process, trust the process. take care!

[@mysmilesarah]

I really resonate with your frustrations about what it's like to be a woman in this world. I've really been wresting with being a person that consistently exhibits a kind, agreeable exterior; the problem with this is that other people get used to my people pleasing tendencies and get surprised and upset when I speak up for myself. For instance, I could say the *same exact thing* at work that my male boss says (and is taken seriously with), but it will be taken completely differently when coming from me. I feel like I can't complain and bring up legitimate concerns without feeling guilty or like I've been a "bitch" about it. Thank you for sharing honestly. It really helps me feel less alone.

[@Kingusia682]

People are assholes sometimes, everywhere and to anyone. You keep being the fabulous you. It is important for you to be YOU. And just be prepared that some will take advantage of it or won’t appreciate it. It is what it is…

[@STREAMINGACCESS]

Shayna, you got this! Use your Girl Power 💪🏻

[@PianoTrills]

Omg I’m so proud of you, okay!! You’re doing a great job! It’s the crappy electricians who should take a look in the mirror. Them not taking it seriously is not a reflection of you, or about you or on you, it’s their tactic to avoid responsibility. If you have to get rude back, do it. Blast them on google maps or wherever you need to! Bad service is bad service and someone could’ve gotten hurt due to their negligence. Others need to be warned :(

[@shess1640]

you are so correct regarding the shifts we make in our personality to get to where we want to be. Being around alpha males so many hours a day when I was in commercial real estate certainly affected me. And that same energy did not serve me well when i took it into romantic relationships I was in. Men once or twice (twice definitely) would say to me..."you sound like a Manager." I appreciate your comments and observations so much. You are romancing your new home!

[@murielmoloney1043]

i know the feeling of being gaslighting whenever i take my car to the garage,im sure they fraud me on teh price of repairs as well,sending you love and best wishes.dont get discouraged ,we have all been there

[@annalavender6489]

Oh no, I so feel you about the electricity thing. I had something similar happen in my current flat. I always try to see situations like these as learning experiences. I hope it gets better for you soon!

[@vandav3859]

Name and shame the company. Thats so messed up. And tell them ur gonna sue them. I dont think we should be nice to people we do buisness with.

[@its_my_my]

Shayna! You’re such an inspiration to us. One thing that I wonder about is holding two opposing things as true: my belief that all things will work out to be exactly what I need, and to keep expectations low and detachment from outcomes. Overall, I’m so happy in life because I can be present in everyday moments, understand myself and other people, bring compassion and kindness to the world! But I also wonder if my expectations are too low. Ok, so even as I’m writing this, I realize I just need to journal 😅

[@estellar.367]

I think if you paint white the frame from the window that is brown in the room and the shelve the space will look more harmonic and spacious and light

[@caroleshields1668]

I wish I could give you a hug! It will all work out in the end.

[@LauraJane332]

Shayna!! tbh I never comment but this video resonated with me ~ i just moved into a new place and have had to overcome sooo many hurdles too ~ when we moved in the place was a mess and the whole time my concerns weren't taken seriously or treated with any urgency, but eventually when everything got fixed i just appreciated basic things like electricity soooo much more - everything is great now & i'm really enjoying making a cosy home for myself!!! and you'll get to that point too!! sending you love and hope

[@dinal3167]

YOU ARE RIGHT ON TIME! ❤️🥰

[@BrooksTV4]

I ❤️ your tree sculpture. Inspired!

[@sundayworksmusic]

Awww I felt those tears of frustration!! I've been there too.

[@MonaChauve-Souris]

My mom renovated in France as a single woman, the construction guy made huge holes everywhere and ripped out all the windows and doors, and vanished with the money. The walls were literally holding by props, open onto the street. When she tried to sue him, she was told “get in line, there are dozens of lawsuits on him, you’re never getting your money” 🎉🇫🇷

[@jessicagomes7668]

Shayna girl, you said “and now I have to be a bitch “ I know that Its hard sometimes. But that could be a lesson to you, that in some moments you have to have a firm talk and set your grounds, and being a bitch sometimes, Its ok! Its a part of life ! Embrace that energy in you, that I know that is there

[@kayconway4499]

Why do some women think they have to go the extreme of being a "bitch". That is playing into a stereotype you definitely want to stay away from. Just be logical and act in a professional manner. No one, especially men are going to respect airy fairy acting women or a bitchy attitude which only leads to animosity and lack of respect.

[@Fatimasroots]

Liking, commenting and sharing with my friends!! You will have the money to create the apartment of your dreams🌿✨

[@annette_164]

I think renovating is one of THE most stressful things in life! But you are doing so well Shayna! Hang in there😊

[@May77440]

This struck a chord with me. I had a similar experience recently where I felt disrespected by an agent and spoken down to on a subject I know. It made me incredibly angry because I know for a fact that if I was a man, he would never have spoken to me like that. In that moment, I have to drop my voice and adopt a totally different manner. It’s frustrating not to be taken seriously.

[@kristencrewe]

I completely feel you on this issue. It's really demoralizing, discouraging and frustrating to be treated as less-than when you are femme presenting. It can make so many things basically inaccessible to us! I have a lot to say on this topic, but I'll leave it at that 😅 Also, a friendly and loving reminder to always wear safety glasses and a mask when sanding things! Or really using any power tool that moves at a high speed. Even something small can be super damaging to your eyes and inhaling basically anything is bad!

[@allisonmarie2647]

my boyfriend wants to learn French so he can come fight the electrician. He’s so worked up about it lol. So much love to you 💖💖

[@emilysaikia]

Also you could paint the frame of your mirror yellow - farrow & ball have beautiful colours!!! 💛

[@GreenePearl]

I used Sudbury Yellow on a cabinet of mine and its absolutely beautiful!!

[@julietheflute1]

Keep your eyes on the prize! You got this

[@melanieneill3398]

Oh mama… sorry you had to go through all that drama…ugh, adulting is hard AF! That electrician sounds incompetent and I’m sorry you had to deal w him. But bravo on being true to yourself! We are cheering you on through your big apartment renovation journey and are very proud of all your accomplishments! Go girl!!!!

[@ОльгаСергеева-ц7я]

I feel you girl! About a presure from a man especially from work😢

[@cestmoi7443]

sending love to you !!

[@davidpankratz142]

Sorry to here this things will get better

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

Contact the city of Paris, explain the situation, lodge a complaint against that company, demand a full refund (LOL we can try) and ask the city for a recommandation to a qualified insured garanteed electrician. I wish i could be there to give you a hug and call them and swear at them in Québecois 🤬

[@claraleclercq8342]

You are so inspiring and strong

[@ertiebassy3612]

Gurl, you’re whole building is probs a fire trap. Be sure to have a rope ladder or sumthing to throw out your window in case of fire ! Stay strong and don’t take shit from those frogs! 😅

[@melissaartistry6041]

One reno day at a time, Shayna, you got this! You don't have to pander to the male dicks of this world (there are good ones) but just be firm and business like with all your future tradies. I agree with keeping things in writing and include photos then you have evidence of all work done if that would help with anything! Big deep breath...your apartment will be so great! ❤

[@Thornton019hockey]

I just moved to Paris myself (I'm also an artist) and I'm sad but not surprised to know that men treat us women the same here where we have to speak and act differently to be taken seriously and not be taken advantage of. I do it a lot on public transit back home in SF and also act more masculine and such around men in male dominated spaces, like taking more space on the train or lowering my voice - or putting on the b*tch face and act like I know everything. It's hard for women to be respected and taken seriously. Oddly enough in my walks to and from school, I get guys trying to wave at me and talk to me more here than in the US. I have my facial piercings on full display and they're a big deterrent for men at home whereas here they don't seem to care (even tho it's still more conservative minded for appearance here supposedly!). Thank you for your advice regarding emails! I'll use them more often, which is no problem for me cause I like proof and hate talking on the phone lol.

[@heathpeer7222]

Big ❤ The ocean of emotions are soo deep. We have 6 planets in retrograde right not which is not usual . Good luck. 🎉

[@kymcrowart7876]

I got my book. Love it

[@berenicedecastilla4980]

Im french and it is exactly the same with native woman ! I had same kind of problems and from kindness I started menaces after taking time off from work waiting for him and about 10 times he said he will come and didnt I was exacly in that situation for 3 months( too long to explain the whole story) and when I threaten his business réputation he came straigh away to finish the work I had paid for

[@maurawhelan3530]

Beautiful music!

[@messulamgarcia1499]

❤ lots of love to you shayna

[@vanessaware1272]

Cap rising and Pisces moon here too!! Pisces sun 🌞

[@m2portal610]

I’d like to offer a perspective that may not be the universal truth…but as an older woman I have lots of experience in this arena. First of all, there are many workmen who do lousy work and don’t care about the quality of their work…and display this lack of regard to female and male clients, though women probably do get short changed more often. If you say these guys can be motivated by emails, perhaps you can leave a negative review of their poor quality work. Next, now matter where your moon is rising, anybody would be frustrated to pay for work, treat the workman respectfully and then live in fear of a fire in the wall of one’s home. Your response was totally reasonable. Please. Give yourself some grace. I’d like to give you a hug!

[@Laura-rx9mp]

Shayna, you are tops! And you have great astrological placements. Pisces moon gives you a lot of your creativity and we are cool!!! You are so correct, when hiring contractors and being ourselves these people think they can get away with it. Thank God in the USA we can give them a lousy review, call Small business etc etc and never ever pay until you are satisfied!!! Take the longest time they give you to pay just in case. Thank God it is over now and hey!!! I love that Palm tree!!! hugs

[@tjiodamato5410]

You always look perfect..any dress your wearing 🙏👍

[@jankaaishakovacs7714]

I think it’s not necessarily a gender-based problem. Usually, when a person is cheerful, friendly, and kind, people think they can take an advantage on them. My male friend has the same issue with car mechanics etc.

[@MicaelaManifesting]

Yayyyy get so excited when I see you've posted! LOL Friend or anyone in the comments, Im wondering how it would work or look using a sponge to paint the crown molding? Does anyone know?

[@ITcanB]

You are lucky you didn't touch that wire, especially believing everything was in order, you shouldn't just forget about it and let it ride ,turn that company in to the proper authorities , they put you in a very dangerous position. ❤