You should have had him charged and put in prison for the first time, but again I call BS on this story.
@megacat60653 ай бұрын
Ya this story makes no sense, it keeps mentioning stuff unrelated to the story that seems to try and make it about 10 minutes. Very strange it’s almost exactly 10 minutes
@Mr_Wick4163 ай бұрын
Yh I agree, just charge and sue them
@elizabethwolfgang40173 ай бұрын
She couldn't. She gave him the card. She could personally sue him but it's very expensive & her money was already gone.
@Biscuitbaker3 ай бұрын
@@elizabethwolfgang4017 Actually Legally she could, even though she gave him permission it was only to use for getting some food. He used her card to get into her saving account and drain everything, which is illegal. She has the right to sue him for stealing her money. She might even get more money than what was stole for him, and he deserves to have to pay it all back or more tbh.
@Alex-fq7lj3 ай бұрын
@@BiscuitbakerTHEY MEANS SHE COULDN'T HIRE A LAWYER
@jhtoxic78703 ай бұрын
You mean to tell me that OP never thought of I don’t know pressing charges against her brother for literally stealing $75,000 from her. That is literally grand theft he could be going to prison for a long time.
@ErnieGamezOfficial3 ай бұрын
It's probably faked
@WivesStories3 ай бұрын
It's tough to understand why OP didn't press charges but family dynamics can be incredibly complex and sometimes emotions override logic It's clear this situation was extremely painful for her
@HumanB3123 ай бұрын
@@WivesStoriesIt's not painful she is just stupid and weak
@lucktheluckyguy7773 ай бұрын
😊@@ErnieGamezOfficial
@lukefraser7773 ай бұрын
True
@devhxh15583 ай бұрын
1st time is victim, 2nd time is emotional 3rd time is doormat, family are using doormat well.
@LuisRodriguez-ky4iv3 ай бұрын
Right like I was so mad grow a backbone and get the cops involved
@andrefolkmann493 ай бұрын
@@LuisRodriguez-ky4iv i could be very very wrong but i think since the brother had the card the police wouldn't touch its cuz its a "family matter" but i'm not a lawyer and i quess it also depends on where in the world it would be, still about the backbone i completly agree.
@LandoSimms3 ай бұрын
She is so fucking dumb she should have called the cops immediately
@L-ghtlessSky3 ай бұрын
@@andrefolkmann49I’ve had a slight bit of training in this field. This is literally illegal on so many levels. Even with family, authorities would not dismiss that. She would win the case with any amount of evidence and support.
@andrefolkmann493 ай бұрын
@@L-ghtlessSky oh well, good thing i said i could be very very wrong 😅 , thank you for clarifying 👍
@aikakai32203 ай бұрын
Why is OP avoiding lawsuits like they're allergic?? I would have already sued the brother to financial nonexistence the first time
@X_Shadow_Wolf_X3 ай бұрын
✨ Lawyer fees ✨
@arjundhaliwal88533 ай бұрын
@@X_Shadow_Wolf_Xthat’s a terrible excuse for a poorly written fiction story lol lawyer fees aren’t as much as 1000s of dollars stolen from you
@crownedking_cj88903 ай бұрын
Can I ask, what would she gain sueing her dead beat brother other than more debt from lawyer fees
@aryapallepati63543 ай бұрын
Also you can get back legal fees ig
@Onamash3 ай бұрын
@@arjundhaliwal8853 also does she really need a lawyer for something so obvious?
@NAIXALAG3 ай бұрын
Omg how can one person be this naive? Just take him to court, my god! You would easily win your case cause you quite literally have evidence, and he told you that he did it.
@alimoon3993 ай бұрын
Op obviously can’t afford to take him to court you need 10s of thousands of dollars to even consider court as an option
@IF4_AQUXTIC3 ай бұрын
Yeah sometimes these ai stories aren’t very believable
@jenniferhalstead36803 ай бұрын
First of all no bank would ever allow this to be done over the phone not that much money, that has to be done in person, and second, no one can 'force' anyone else to do anything they don't want to it's still 'your ' choice no matter what. Even if a gun is to your head, you have a choice, you can fight, you can be quiet, you can go out screaming, it's your choice. So yeah I'm calling BS!
@0000_v13 ай бұрын
A lot of reddit stories on videos like this are ai or completely made up, so yeah, This one is definitely bullshit. No Bank in their right mind would allow someone to pull out $75,000 without A bunch of confirmation and no person with the right mind will forgive someone that easily that has done something like that.
@marshallw06613 ай бұрын
this woman pisses me off, why didnt she call the cops the first time and get her money back????
@jeiiykat39863 ай бұрын
Fr
@Ihateclownsjt3 ай бұрын
They can arrest him, but since he already used the money, there is a small chance that they get that back if it was gambling debt from all legal service. She’s not giving that money back
@cheykchey3 ай бұрын
I get what you mean, but taking out charges on family isn't an easy thing to do. And before anyone starts on the 'yes it is it's not that hard grow some balls' or whatever, I can actually speak a little on this cause I'm in a similar situation with my brother. He's stolen somewhere around 30k from me over the last couple years. He makes more money than me and I still pay his car insurance and phone bill. I'm perfectly aware I'm being manipulated and used but he knows exactly how to do it, and whenever I try to confront him over it he starts acting exactly like our dad used to and I just shut down. I've thought about just moving out(yes I live with him rent is expensive and he pays his full half of the rent about 85% of the time) and letting him figure things out on his own but then our mom gets involved and breaks out the waterworks and she's disabled and lives in a care home close to where we live which is a big part of her not wanting me to leave. I've definitely strayed away from the point here but yeah filing charges against your brother is not an easy thing at all to do emotionally. No matter how justified or how much other people convince you, even when you know intellectually they're right......he's still your brother.
@marshallw06613 ай бұрын
@@cheykchey not to be rude but your brother sounds like a dick, your only reason that you keep letting yourself be manipulated is because he's family, that is not what family does to each other, he should be helping you out just as much as you help him out and you need to get your point across to your parents so don't fall for those crocodile tears.
@angie-p8l9v3 ай бұрын
why are you pissed off at her?she didn't steal her brothers money and max all his cards out
@riyadhasan45643 ай бұрын
Op needs a thing called a spine
@armored62343 ай бұрын
Thing*
@riyadhasan45643 ай бұрын
@@armored6234 dam auto correct
@Sanguine_boi3 ай бұрын
@@riyadhasan4564😂😂😂
@Nycotophilia0153 ай бұрын
Literally no balls
@Panama0003 ай бұрын
Imagine your money getting stolen and your parents dont care
@Kitsu_ItezaCreates3 ай бұрын
Okay, usually I would LOVE your stories but wtf? Why did she forgive him? That is so... Sickening.
@nicolasrey11903 ай бұрын
Irk
@lunaafton99673 ай бұрын
You would be surprised family can easily push you into being something they want it's hard...especially cause I had a golden brother that could do no wrong I still live with my manipulative mom cause I'm not old enough enough to move yet
@chinarules6663 ай бұрын
I know right? This story has to be bs
@angussebire94833 ай бұрын
Cause she’s a doormat
@DANYELASF3 ай бұрын
So people Just can't gnc
@KITTY_13013 ай бұрын
OP needs to have a backbone and file a lawsuit cause this is BS and no way ill let 75k money gone so quickly Also ive heard someone say : dont trust your family or your closest friends with valuable information and OP did the opposite of that she needs to have a DAMN BACKBONE and stand up for her rights...
@Nachpaddy3 ай бұрын
She does not have enough MONEY
@wildbeautyunderneath47353 ай бұрын
Op needs to learn what manipulation is. Also, learn what cops, and lawsuits are. Along with how to stand up for themself more.
@RAWRSCENEKIDXD3 ай бұрын
For the people from the short 0:53
@Seal_the_seal_seal3 ай бұрын
W
@catgamer28483 ай бұрын
Thx 🙏
@krissssseeee3 ай бұрын
tysm
@Koz.3 ай бұрын
Thanks man
@Star_shadow_vigilante3 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Idrk7763 ай бұрын
You can sue for every single penny!
@reiforsale23 ай бұрын
GROW A GODDAMN SPINE GIRL??????
@katherineofarrogant63703 ай бұрын
Feels insane the bank didn't automatically flag it as fraud and op didn't try to get it voided.
@skellington-n5n3 ай бұрын
This story is honestly pissing me off shes not taking any action and its just pure “forgive and forget”
@xxgodvirajxx7383 ай бұрын
This is the worst thing ever… why did u even forgive him in the first place though.. fell bad for ya 😢😢😢
@Asher_editsАй бұрын
Feel*
@TheSkibidiMale3 ай бұрын
The only reason the op didn’t take that down court is because lawyers are super expensive it costs a lot just to have one meeting with them ( not from personal experience some of my relatives told me when they took things to court )
@rosesophieblack72873 ай бұрын
No way I’d let 75k slide for some bs memory from my childhood. Get a grip girl.
@dailyRddit3 ай бұрын
OP should call the police n force him to pay her back for the first time... btw her family is totally biased, that is not even a small amount of money
@chunckystar3 ай бұрын
Why you don’t sue him
@AntBoi143 ай бұрын
That shit is expensive
@johankanchana51263 ай бұрын
Fr@@AntBoi14
@Purplefrogy3 ай бұрын
She needs to have proof that he did that she might have proof tho idk
@X_Shadow_Wolf_X3 ай бұрын
2 words ✨ Lawyer fees ✨
@arjundhaliwal88533 ай бұрын
@@X_Shadow_Wolf_Xlawyer fees are nothing compared to 75 k lol
@alondamccoy66513 ай бұрын
Op should have pressed charges
@chbailey0813 ай бұрын
I'm not one for blaming the victim, but wtf?? No way in hell am I EVER forgiving someone who steals my entire life savings to pay off their own gambling debt.
@Watching29093 ай бұрын
Bro, I swear this can’t be it all!
@invasion_of_meow_meows21763 ай бұрын
why even give him a second chance…why was there even a first chance and why is she so weak and pathetic to forgive him it’s depressing
@krystyna89lopez3 ай бұрын
Op really should have sued the brother
@myl94943 ай бұрын
Unless Bro is offering to payback by selling a kidney there is no forgiveness in this one. Sueing him will at the least improve her credit score
@rosered31243 ай бұрын
Honestly because of OPs idiotic behavior i started rooting for jim to keep stealing money
@Not_ThaRealSkye3 ай бұрын
0:36 for shorts
@SugarbugsBowlingVideos3 ай бұрын
If that were to happen to me I would scream my lungs out
@hirohiroarikawa68063 ай бұрын
You get a confession through recording, and charge him and the parents for knowing he stole and keeping it a secret
@jasonsynowiec63353 ай бұрын
Why did she not call the cops
@devhxh15583 ай бұрын
Coz she is a doormat.
@JasonsuthidaSuthidajason3 ай бұрын
Yeah
@melsx_dollhouse3 ай бұрын
@@JasonsuthidaSuthidajasonfr i was looking for this comment
@lutfurlaily74223 ай бұрын
Every*
@diananicolecastro3 ай бұрын
The first stab was made by my mother. Then my dad! They could never truly defend me against their siblings and I’ll probably always resent them for that 🤬
@MaggieTheCat013 ай бұрын
$75,000 is a huge amount of money! I’m sorry, family or not, I’d have gone to the police.
@Hinatachan3603 ай бұрын
I had the same thought.
@somerandomguyyou3 ай бұрын
0:52 If you came from the short this is where it left off on
@Tisbilly2 ай бұрын
Thanks bro
@powerflower34053 ай бұрын
GIRL- CALL.THE.POLICE!
@rachelcampbell97333 ай бұрын
Should have just put brother in jail in the first place. Never let people take things from you.
@DEMONICBEASTS3 ай бұрын
Just sue him 😂
@IamDaGroot3 ай бұрын
HOW MUCH FAMILY'S DOES BRO HAVE
@godeater63823 ай бұрын
Too bad you push over, how could you forgive him
@ThatGuy-le9op3 ай бұрын
Op should have called the cops immediately instead she decided to
@spinmaster03 ай бұрын
Never trust drug or gambling addicts! Even if they recover, the addiction NEVER goes away. It lays dormant, but never goes away. OP keeps getting burned and fails to learn from it. No sympathy here.
@DavidWinters7143 ай бұрын
You crazy as hell I wouldn’t even want to see my parents if that happened. I would say run me my $80,000 first.
@Pcat123573 ай бұрын
Ever heard of the police??
@lilyjakov3 ай бұрын
Exactly thank you
@yankeymu84323 ай бұрын
Why dont you sue the crap out of him?
@yankeymu84323 ай бұрын
His dept will go to the negative millions
@valeriewilleto55833 ай бұрын
Why did you not call the police? You are the A for letting him back into your life!
@devhxh15583 ай бұрын
Idk why people doesn't underline the consequences first, wat if it happens again ?
@1bestfriend2u183 ай бұрын
Interestingly enough the parents offered to pay back what he's stole
@GabbyEspo1233 ай бұрын
This is the weakest person I've ever heard 😭 Why didn't she just take him to court to get the money back??
@Emzy22173 ай бұрын
I don’t think Credit Cards work that way? She literally could’ve called the card company to refund the whole thing. If not, just sue.
@amyeli332 ай бұрын
It doesn't make sense to me.
@pachimarie3 ай бұрын
op is a fucking doormat. they needed to call the cops and sue long ago. i can't even fathom forgiving a sibling if they've done that. and going back.
@musical_costumer79763 ай бұрын
OP should've called for fraud and sued her brother.
@TheMazimai853 ай бұрын
If this was real they would have gone to the police
@suhoth3 ай бұрын
this is rage bait btw
@PreppyASMR-pt4lo3 ай бұрын
0:49 for people from the short
@ssamarth3 ай бұрын
Y didn't u sue him He stole ur money
@doctorpragmatic17403 ай бұрын
You can never win against the casino, the house will always have an advantage
@aloniabeyob3 ай бұрын
You should have called the cops and sued him
@artdapro77003 ай бұрын
Takeout? No, take out all your money
@Yikoshii3 ай бұрын
does the law not apply to these people??? because that's what the op surly thinks.
@Tatercat173 ай бұрын
Why did she not sue him‼️
@emmz34chills173 ай бұрын
It’s technically fraud so she could have sued and gotten the money possibly two times
@animefitnessandphilosophy3 ай бұрын
Funny fact, they would have to deny the charges
@lazallewillemse36173 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for OP. The first time she was trick but the second time is her own fault. This is why shouldn't forgive and forget so easily
@TsukiKageTora3 ай бұрын
So the credit card company said “no” to OP getting her money back because the someone, not authorized to use that card, who used it was faaaamily?
@Deshwie2 ай бұрын
Family or no family, thief is a thief. I would go to police immediately. She got used by her family. 😔
@ysaiahschannel14513 ай бұрын
You should’ve sued him for all of your money back and even more
@HestiaVesta3 ай бұрын
I was really hoping she wouldn't bring the cards to Thanksgiving.
@zippiekittie2 ай бұрын
Your family completely abandoned you to keep the peace. Stop letting them have access to you. They are taking advantage of you. Straighten your spine, acknowledge that your trust has been abused and taken advantage of. Jim needs to be charged and your parents don’t deserve to have access to you.
@kaydenzamora-c6s3 ай бұрын
just in a room with your parents... AND HAVE A RANDOM ASS ELEPHANT
@User_and_atmohd3 ай бұрын
OP is hella dumb forgiving him twice after he betrayed them twice
@am.iconic-c8q3 ай бұрын
Can’t u sue him?
@malachieclipse95073 ай бұрын
What country is this in? Because if this is in America you should call police for identity theft
@ramnathpaip3 ай бұрын
how do you access Savings account via credit card?
@Acnologia-nv1gu3 ай бұрын
Maybe I’m petty but I wouldn’t had forgiven him the first time
@daisi49252 ай бұрын
I would have left my family for a long time to get right again.
@snowplayz76783 ай бұрын
On his grandma’s grave? Bro’s insane
@amethyst1k-u2m3 ай бұрын
u know there is a thing called a chargeback
@SamSorenson3 ай бұрын
#relatable 😊
@thepuppylover85953 ай бұрын
OP should of notified the police and sued them for everything
@aymanzayed1983 ай бұрын
We need those settings lil bro 😭
@looky-here3 ай бұрын
We would be boxing.
@theblade-bt7yf3 ай бұрын
0:50 for people who came from shorts
@paul-armandlourme4603 ай бұрын
Sue the mtfk
@themastergameralvin35573 ай бұрын
Bro sue him
@Crizzlogoincrazy3 ай бұрын
Fr sue him for 10 times the amount he stole
@zylqrowpolaris3 ай бұрын
Bruh this is UNFORGIVABLE
@TillieD-gm4iy3 ай бұрын
I didn’t mean To say Hey, I meant to say hate
@Zani_city3 ай бұрын
Does she not know what 'stealing' is?
@tabicat.puccino74253 ай бұрын
if they did it once they can and will do it again, sue them
@icoleman1503 ай бұрын
I have no problem believing this. Sounds like the brother is a criminal that gets enabled by his parents, to his own sister’s detriment. And when she reaches her limit, the parents manipulate her back with these stories and memories.
@Enxityyyyyyy3 ай бұрын
0:50 for short viewers
@Void_god12 ай бұрын
bro is she alright why does she keep forgiving him?
@Hereisfae3 ай бұрын
Brother should’ve been charged for the theft both times
@wombo123 ай бұрын
file a lawsuit
@X_Shadow_Wolf_X3 ай бұрын
With over $70k debt?
@arjundhaliwal88533 ай бұрын
@@X_Shadow_Wolf_Xlmao the police is free to call and with over 70k stolen the investigation would be obligatory
@gachatana96563 ай бұрын
@@X_Shadow_Wolf_X over 80k stolen, you mean? =/
@joanneneal17523 ай бұрын
lol I have no sympathy for you. I can understand not calling police for first time because they’re family (I would have personally) but the other times are completely ur fault for trusting him again and not pursuing it further so he at least gets some consequences to his actions
@6Örsbro3 ай бұрын
hello? the police exist.
@DezGrowSpot3 ай бұрын
Money will always be more important than family
@samafeyzi3 ай бұрын
You didn't took your brother to Cort and he had the adasiti to do it again took him to Cort even if you can't get the money back(I'm sure you will plus a emotional damage money)don't let him to be at peas
@kingbobby1st3 ай бұрын
It’s court and audacity I don’t know what the last one is
@malachieclipse95073 ай бұрын
@@kingbobby1sti think he means, “dont let the peace continue”
@samafeyzi3 ай бұрын
@@kingbobby1st Thank you for telling me the correct way to write the words, and I meant to not let him be at peace, to have the stress of the court, and that I know that you will win in the court😉❤️