[Response] Single Mother Says Dating Men Sucks Now

[@blampfno]

Pro dating tip: Your broken family isn't a selling point to potential mates.

[@jayphoneuser2538]

But, but, but... It isn't her fault, nothing is her fault, things just happen to her, she has no control or agency over her life. They are practically begging us, daring us, to bring back the good old days where they were property to be transferred from father to husband

[@nucleargrizzly1776]

@@jayphoneuser2538 It may very well not be her fault. I still don't want to deal with her childhood trauma.

[@bigbob3772]

@@jayphoneuser2538 Women ARE property( if you prefer a similar word that is not so charged, try a 'charge') just like children are a parents 'charge'- fully responsible for their care, protection, and responsibility.

[@jayphoneuser2538]

@@bigbob3772 Right. When women first got the right to vote, they "felt" that they were equal to men, and that any inequity was the result of oppression. So they sought to destroy the social hierarchies we have had since the dawn of humanity. I'm not sure how much more evidence men need to see that those social hierarchies are needed to put things back the way they were, but I'm already there.

[@leomcnamara8711]

Truer words were never spoken!

[@staticthewhitewolf7040]

I love the fact they are all looking for a soulmate, But they don't have a soul.

[@juanferreira5931]

Yep. Looking for a mate to provide his soul for her to suck dry.

[@Freedom-Fighter1]

Vampires don’t have a soul 😂

[@itslordrashid3985]

How can you expect them to have a soul? They bleed every month without dying.

[@staticthewhitewolf7040]

@@itslordrashid3985 true but I get a cut every day at one of my jobs or while cooking. I bleed almost everyday without dying. But that might be because I am immortal, or cursed.

[@literalvampirepotbellygobl5629]

He's not un-empathetic, he just thinks you're really pathetic because you "miss your daughter" after being away from her for about 45 minutes. You're pacing the floor, freaking out, having a "panic attack," you sleep in the same bed as her ... He's not lacking empathy, he thinks you're behaving like a child, and that you have a really unhealthy attachment to your daughter.

[@Nabinut]

I think she used "missing her daughter" as an excuse to bail after "spicy time."

[@daydreamdirty]

@@Nabinut that’s a possibility

[@thesisLAx]

She’s supposed to be an adult and go if she really needs to. Otherwise he knows that women says multiple things for various reasons. He’s used to games.

[@mck7646]

These ladies are too unstable for a serious commitment. Gotta be kidding me.

[@davestuddert4392]

IF she's that worried about her daughter....STAY AT HOME!! You'd be doing men a favour

[@davidberg7346]

I love how as soon as the guy offered to take her to dinner she quickly accepts the invite and no longer is thinking about her daughter

[@SLVR97]

Trash human beings, their h*e mother should have swallowed them 😪

[@leomcnamara8711]

I was thinking the exact same thing...

[@Markbell73]

What she didn't say is how she manipulated, and directed the conversation, so that he would suggest the dinner option, so she could get free food, for herself, and probably her kid too. Don't ever believe what women say. Ever. They are lying ever minute. To themselves, first and foremost. And subsequently everyone else. Always lying, always manipulating. Always trying to play victim. This is female mating strategy. It's always a game of manipulation. And everyone is a pawn in this game to the woman. Even her best friends. They are all chess pieces to be manipulated. The only winning move is not to play.

[@Pimp-Master]

I've been around the "red pill" for a decade now, and never heard a story like hers, where she's given it up THEN feels tremendous anxiety! Weird, very weird.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

She'll be thinking about her daughter when she orders a meal to go towards the end of the date. Of course, the guy is expected to pay for it. Maybe I'm getting cynical as I get older.

[@ashleyayuso7315]

Dating sucks for them because they destroyed the entire game as to where the good guys are no longer playing. So all the modern women and single mothers are experiencing the dating game on legendary difficulty with all skulls on, they now know how we men felt on the daily. Enjoy the game women, you are playing yourselves.

[@bbullgod313]

Legendary difficulty and the system crashed (migtow, redpill sysbm etc etc) so they can't go back to easy/story mode.

[@Ddog785]

very well said !!!!!!

[@jasontandy3357]

They think it’s bad now! The party is just getting started!

[@mizum3458]

True...so true.... so true... we don't trust them and want to waste anymore time or anything. I've been asked many times over the years if I'm trying to get married or date..and I'm like hell no! It's like they all want to set you up for problems. If a woman can get to you, then she'll try to get a friend with you so they can all come over or travel to your other places friends places to be freeloaders and get support for shit I realized most of them are users that have no shame in their motives to do things other than to gather more resources for themselves and their sisterhoods by men...I've never seen whamins really do most things all by themselves without constantly needing support from some man out there. will go on a date if the whamins is buying maybe and if I think she's interesting and not for the streets. but I've lost like all trust in whamins ever doing the right things until I see one doing something good. and I won't go out dating potential damaged ones that have any red flags and broke, and their families got to be well off so I know she's not likely to be having to digging. Another problem is that I don't like selfish snobs and super materialistic types whamins and many other things like messy whamins. It's impossible to just find a chick that has a good heart and ones that don't have attractions for criminals and serial killaz or ever dated any of them as well.... and ain't a 304 for the streets. And not out of shape and 7+ Just those basics alone is like a unicorn. 😓 There's only one or two other ways to go now. And that's up and slight turn to the right and whatever way I want. 👍

[@ryanlorance6168]

Amen brother

[@drsingingeagle]

That wasn't a date. She's a call-girl.

[@Meylan191083]

That's the impression I got too.

[@samuelwalston9828]

Right “he offered me like a lot of money” and it’s not “I’m not a hooker” it’s “muahhh my daughter”

[@Apollo1011]

Exactly, the first thing she does is go to the guy's apartment and fuck him.

[@cognitivedissidents4642]

@@samuelwalston9828You’re right! The implication is she would’ve accepted but for the daughter, which puts her a few rungs down the moral ladder.

[@Brookspirit]

Her first response wasn't "How dare you!" Ok, now we know what you are.

[@clarkkent6927]

She not mad cause dating sucks She mad cause no men want to be her ATM

[@xTwinVipersx]

Yep.

[@skanlynes4789]

She cares so much for her precious daughter, but leaves the father.

[@donjohnson1498]

Of course, he was not good enough during spicy time.

[@matt79de]

she cared for her until dinner was offered at least...

[@nickel7065]

If they dump the father(Who's most likely a normal guy) and stops him from seeing his kids they don't think about their children.

[@obnoxiousjumper279]

dating as single mother is like selling house where murder took place and the body is still there

[@andrewlayton9760]

And it's a hoarder house on top of that. Hmmm. How many dead cats are we going to find in here?!?!

[@V0ltron]

They don't call it concealer for nothing, fellas. It's a trap!

[@gumdeo]

The skull definitely looks male.

[@scottyb003]

I was thinking it was a dude also.

[@ryanlorance6168]

That’s a fact lmao

[@klw3786]

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[@HouseMusicNinja]

It throws me off at how even when they become a parent, they prioritize getting noticed by Chad over taking care of their own child. That's the red flag of red flags and it tells you just how immature they are deep down.

[@shawnmendrek3544]

ding

[@WrinkledPlatypus]

As a parent, it Sounds like she has a really unhealthy attachment to her daughter they shouldn't be sharing a bed.

[@De19thKingJulion]

Imagine a single father saying he shares his bed with his child! "I love sharing a bed with my kid, it's wonderful!" 🤮 She isn't OK.

[@bunnieskitties293]

Yeah. In my entire life I slept with my dad once after infancy. It was mostly due to circumstance. He didnt get me fulltime and he only had a one bedroom apartment. So the first time we were together again I basically just fell asleep hugging him in his bed. The idea that its uh.. intended? Forced? Thats just creepy as shit.

[@Pimp-Master]

If she cared about her daughter she'd still be with the father.

[@brooksroth345]

That bothered me too. It's unhealthy for the child. Cat or dog is ok. I have a cat and dog and they do that.

[@BlackieNuff]

@@De19thKingJulion The fact you went there says more about you than anything else. You don't even know how old the kid is, and you;re judging with sanctimonious self-righteousness.

[@robertgrays8790]

This is further proof that once a woman has a child, even her mind is telling her dating is not the priority. She should not be at another man's place while her child is alone.

[@casualcausalityy]

She also shouldn't be bragging about sex for money offers she's receiving online. Is she an escort AND a single mother?!

[@Pimp-Master]

This situation was a bootie call! The guy was unconcerned and relaxed in the story, because he already smashed!

[@Big_Mitch_Baker]

Her mind wasn't telling her anything. This is all performative to make her appear virtuous on social media.

[@thesisLAx]

It hard to know what’s real with these women.

[@ma3stro681]

@@thesisLAx Nothing is real with them ...

[@James-dt7ky]

"My soulmate's still out there waiting for me." Lol.

[@fortunateson2]

It's clear that we live in two different realities.

[@ellen5603]

Somewhere out there beneath the pale moonlight Someone's thinking of me and loving me tonight Somewhere out there someone's saying a prayer That we'll find one another in that big somewhere out there

[@tylerdurden5122]

I wonder if he’ll have to pay for some spicy time too😂😂😂 I don’t know what sort of man her “soulmate” is, but I can guarantee he ain’t wifing up no hooker

[@Josh-py9rq]

lol

[@mikestroud9969]

Women have killed Chivalry and now they are Destroying Dating. What's next?? Holy Crap. Even the young inexperienced dudes are noticing this now. Disturbing 🤢🤮

[@moose6869]

Society as a whole is next. The stability of the family unit is one of the bedrocks of civilization. Women have already ruined that in many ways, ergo civilization shall crumble. This is why women were kept as far away from positions of power throughout human history as possible, and "treated like property." Not just for their own good, but the good of civilization as a whole.

[@mikestroud9969]

@@moose6869 Great description spot on ❤️🙏💯👍👌🙌🙌

[@mikestroud9969]

@@moose6869 Thanks for reply. Intelligent 👍👌💯🙏

[@RodHayward]

Nothing disturbing about how younger men are realizing how women, essentially, have always been, convinced that men must provide and protect them. Little actually changed between 1950 and 2023, except that women have more financial opportunities. Still, their money is their money, and your money is her money.

[@mikestroud9969]

@@RodHayward Bingo exactly Spot on Women are Self centered Takers and not Nurturers. Just getting worse. They love that money 🤢🥶

[@keithhalbrooks4633]

These videos assure me to stay single & appreciate my freedom.

[@ryanlorance6168]

💯💯

[@matthewalston7234]

You and me both. My sovereignty is paramount.

[@NTJedi]

Every man needs to be taught how the lady of your dreams today can become the witch of your nightmares in the future..... this means emotionally, financially, visually, socially, etc., etc., .

[@keithhalbrooks4633]

@@NTJedi yes sir..I've seen first hand the sweetest one turn into an absolute Judas

[@NTJedi]

@@keithhalbrooks4633 Yes, the lady of my dreams came from a religious family and I felt more safe since she was only cute as compared to the pretty ladies I usually was dating. She also finished her masters degree and graduated top in her class. After we were married I began to see red flags where she began talking about how she hated her parents and she would become happy talking about her inheritance when they died. She then stopped attending church with me. After 4 years she asked for a separation despite telling me earlier that month she was happily married with me. During the separation she did not care at all regarding the pain it was causing me, in fact she behaved as if my pain was annoying. She constantly lied about the reason for the separation and I had to use hidden recording devices to capture the truth. With the truth recorded she finally admitted she wanted to sleep around and she was even trying to cheat on her new secret lover. During the divorce she tried stealing thousands of dollars from me as well. So the sweet smart religious lady I married became the cruel heartless stealing sIut. It became easier to accept what happened when realizing she simply was no longer the person I married.

[@timsimmons9995]

Dating single moms is terrible. You will always be the last priority while being expected to pay for everything.

[@JJ-vp3bd]

Why do men date them

[@kerripendragon4888]

@@JJ-vp3bd simping foolish men date them, then quickly realize her kids and her want his money only....

[@twistedsisterx7754]

One step away from claiming "PTSD" over a dinner and sleepover.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Which I want nothing to do with.

[@shawnmendrek3544]

hahahaha

[@JDale56]

She probably couldn’t just leave because the guy hadn’t paid for the “date” yet…

[@jonpro9637]

Bingo

[@tarkmees]

They do not see the kid(s) as a minus for men. They really think that they are on par with women without kids…

[@pneumaticFrequency]

They need to act like that to cope

[@francisconnelly5772]

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[@francisconnelly5772]

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[@francisconnelly5772]

@@pneumaticFrequency is is >8

[@francisconnelly5772]

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[@erikatkinson8905]

Awww poor single mom, we all feel so bad for her 😢

[@jewelsbypodcasterganesh]

I can save her

[@vmbay2212]

😂😂😂

[@nucleargrizzly1776]

Just because I do feel bad for her doesn't mean I'm going to deal with all of her drama.

[@jangolub8240]

@@Rom41n_93 yasss kween

[@Exposinggoodandbad1]

@@jewelsbypodcasterganesh here we go again typical white knight.

[@nucleargrizzly1776]

If after "slappity bumpity" she wants to leave...get the heck out of her way. That's the perfect woman. Takes care of business and eases on down the road.

[@stephenzaborski8656]

Yes! All the time wasted explaining why she wants to leave, she should be jerkin him off, while her car warms up...

[@nucleargrizzly1776]

@@stephenzaborski8656 Oh no. Please stay. I want to cuddle. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@stephenzaborski8656]

@@nucleargrizzly1776 right? 😄

[@JSmoothSoul]

And she wonders why no man wants a relationship with her. She had s man who wanted her to stay after they had spicy tine...?

[@elultimo102]

And she didn't have to be paid to leave----like on South Park with Chef.

[@JustinDiazJokes]

You miss your daughter, but dinner is brought up... the daughter can wait i guess

[@luke_1234]

Lmao right!!!

[@Freedom-Fighter1]

Thots gotta eat to keep up the energy to find her next simp 😂

[@JustinDiazJokes]

@@Freedom-Fighter1 Everything they do is for their survival. If you arent learning it here, you will learn it the hard way

[@Machete87]

yeah ok seems legit😅🤣😆😂

[@schrodingersmechanic7622]

My mom tried to set me up with a single mom my age in my mid-20s. I humored her. She was cute but covered in red flags. Communication was inconsistent. Clearly, I wasn't the priority. She was still good friends with her ex, the baby daddy. "My child is my life" type but doesn't care enough about them to stay with their father. I wasn't even RP'ed back then, and her situation just screamed nightmare to me. Forget single moms. If they want a relationship, then they can get it from their bastards father.

[@homeacres9454]

As they say "More red flags than a communist party parade"

[@CaesarGoldean-uc2un]

I'm a single Dad. In general, women don't want that. They'll reject me on this basis but they expect men to be step father's.... No big deal...

[@Machete87]

if ur a responsible parent, i don't see the harm in goin out from time to time. i have no issue dating a single parent ain't necessarily a deal breaker🤷‍♂️

[@CaesarGoldean-uc2un]

@@Machete87 I am only dealing with a woman if she gives me children.

[@janisemills1]

@@CaesarGoldean-uc2un I gave a single dad a chance before and it suck’s especially when the kids are young. I feel like single parents shouldn’t even date when they have young children who are dependent on them because it’s not fair to the new partner. Everything involves the child and you can’t even get close to the parent like that. Also people don’t want to be step parents to peoples exs child.

[@Caesar-nq5if]

@@janisemills1 have you ever met a virgin woman?

[@RodHayward]

That's because women believe life and all men give is normal, women giving equally is beyond their comprehension.

[@jamesdeek7039]

Oh she totally did the favors for money, one hundred percent

[@elonever.2.071]

And she is going to go on the next dinner date with her daughter to make sure that if there is no money there is no honey. She and her daughter can get a free meal but he isnt getting free nooky.

[@cenationofjnu]

That woman hates short men. recently i watched another of her video on another channel. she complained that dating is a disaster because british men are short.

[@jewelsbypodcasterganesh]

Hopefully her soulmate isn't short

[@malcolmapplet4313]

That would be a real kick in the nutz if her soulmate was some gremlin dude.

[@kmech3rd]

Being alone sucks. But there are things that suck a lot more, and most of them post to TikTok.

[@matt79de]

Sad, but true...

[@boxlid214]

Nail on the head, that app is the one really amplifying all these issues. Block the app on your home network. That shit is like crack, they can't stay away from it, and a huge red flag. Never stay with a woman that can't keep off that pos app.

[@squadgeman3247]

The reason the father is not there is simple. The woman wants complete control over the child, and the decisions with rearing the child. Their strategy is to eliminate the biological father and then find a step father, who has no authority. She's looking for this "soul mate", but of course will never find him. There is nothing more pathetic than a "father figure" who "steps up", "real man" style, and rescues a single mother, wasting his resources, only to have her leave him. Then he has a connection with her child/ren who he will never see or hear from again; and he's devastated by this. It's hard enough to see your biological children after the mother eliminates you, forget about her kids you bonded with!

[@coocolal3644]

Soul Mate - take away the 'oul' and 'ate' and replace them with 'I' and 'P' respectively.

[@DucatiDoyle]

Yup exactly

[@frank-hp4is]

Spot fucking on from a man who has done this dance (as the discarded father) twice. They are cut from the same narcissistic cloth and read from the same playbook of playing YOU.

[@squadgeman3247]

@@frank-hp4is Sadly, everyone suffers from this game you, the child/ren, and even the mother... and any foolish man who "steps up" and gets involved with the single mother.

[@KokoFox-n1v]

Absolutely 💯 right. Got with a woman who had a 3 year girl, I spent 4 years with her and bonded with the child and ended up loving her. Then the mother started acting strange, then when I seen her bringing her phone in the bathroom and always in her pocket I knew she was either cheating or talking to another man. I sat back and ignored the signs and just hoped she would realise that what she was doing was disgraceful. She should of just ended things. Then she ended up cheating as seen by all my friends. I was actualy willing to forgive her because I loved the child. But I just couldn't. Walked out never heard or seen her again. Got over her quickly because of her disrespect. But never got over loosing the lil girl. Women are vicious

[@chasing_dragons]

*NEVER* forget, your job as the man dating the above is the *HUMAN WALLET* and most painful, the "Emotional Sponge." You will absorb an infinite variety of her and her kid's emotionally impulsive behaviors that erode at every aspect of your life.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Or I could just enjoy the sweet taste of freedom from not having to put up with bullshit.

[@benprins8240]

Of course a single mother would say dating men sucks now. But I think dating is horrible in general. You got kids, baggage, expectations, attitude, emotion, bs, lies, princessism, requirements, judgement, anxiety, excuses, immaturity and the list goes on and on. Just headaches, stress and a waste of time. Being single, never married and no munchkins never felt so good☺️ Thanks Taylor 🙂

[@craig7122]

Mgtow man is the only way to go. I have been mgtow for 23 years and it's the best thing I've ever done for myself!

[@Pimp-Master]

Dating has always been horrible, but by different expectations and standards. In the 1920s parents used to go on the date. These days in Colombia, the brothers go on dates with sisters so that the "dude" doesn't take advantage.

[@benprins8240]

@@craig7122 awesome stuff Craig 🙂

[@benprins8240]

@@Pimp-Master lol yea it's all pathetic.

[@Freedom-Fighter1]

If I ever did get married again, it would be to my hand 😂

[@primeobjective5469]

"My soul mate's still out there looking for me." Not anymore. Your soul mate has moved on & is no longer looking for you.

[@booker9879]

Her soul mate is actively avoiding her, no one wants sloppy seconds out of the dumpster behind the women's shelter and planned Parenthood clinic

[@ma3stro681]

There is no such thing as a "soul mate". That's just another Disney lie, probably the worst one they have perpetuated ...

[@samrapheal1828]

​@@ma3stro681 Exactamondo maximus 💯

[@PC-vx6ko]

She thinks “soul mates” exist. She’s going to be continually disappointed. “Soul mates” just means that both people accept each others shortcomings. She isn’t accepting anything that isn’t exactly the way she wants it.

[@AmbuBadger]

"My soulmate is out there." Hey, here's a crazy idea-- how about finding a soulmate _first_ and _then_ have kids with him?

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

That's the patriarchy talking.

[@dennisedwards6938]

Just imagining her without the Slap on NOT very good looking.

[@dennisedwards6938]

Your being too she needs a ATM😂

[@dennisedwards6938]

Kind

[@TheMetalProject]

Can't count how many times ive seen on a dating app "i wont be your unicorn" or "no unicorn hunting" while at the same time saying "just looking for my soul mate!"

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Would someone die if it were made into a drinking game? I could insult your intelligence by saying I'm asking for a friend but I won't.

[@NotGoodAtNamingThings]

I'm kind of amazed that she 1) recorded this video and 2) put it up on the Internet where anyone can see it. Does she have no shame? Oh, wait.

[@UniDeathRaven]

she does but we facepalm in disgust.

[@shubhamsingh-gl1fh]

No dating No marriage No divorce No child support No Alimony Result happy life...😎😁

[@buckaroobonzai2909]

Can confirm. I am not nice to single mothers in general because I assume that when I am an old man, the large number of these neglected kids are going to beat me and rob me, or end up abusing me when I am alone in an old folk's home. The future isn't really bright for anyone... but hopefully these things work out, I guess.

[@johnjacobsen1915]

😂 LoL

[@willbass2869]

Wait till those kids working at the nursing home have to wipe your.... 😜

[@moose6869]

​@@johnjacobsen1915he isn't far off from what the effects of children being primarily raised by their mother are. Bottom of the barrel outcomes in: > Income Quintile > Education Level > Criminal Recidivism(often violent) > Drug Abuse And more. To where for certain metrics it's *even worse than foster care.* Whereas children primarily raised by fathers are near to, if not equivalent in certain metrics, to outcomes of dual-parent households. This per DHHS data and a couple other long-term studies that have dropped as of recent.

[@davidw.5185]

Did she say, "after spicy time"?

[@michaeldavid6832]

If it's spicy then sounds like she might need to check her pH.

[@brianwaller7383]

Dating as a single mother is still infinitely easier than an average guy. She has plenty of “nice guys” available but she’s not interested she wants chad and chad only

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

The flaw is that Chad doesn't want her.

[@bsquared3809]

"No money is worth anytime away from my daughter, thank you" So, if she didn't have a daughter she would have spent the night with the guy for the massive amount of money. She just defined herself.

[@Pimp-Master]

Haha, if she turned down "massive amount of money" then she must have accepted some of that money earlier.

[@ellen5603]

This woman is something that rhymes with "looker". If you realize that, the whole story makes sense.

[@matt79de]

Mind you, she also didn't ask for any money from the guy she got with. The streets called: They want this woman back...

[@ellen5603]

@@matt79de She left that part out, but she got paid her "date". This woman saw "Pretty Woman" and thought she'd get Richard Gere.

[@hooterville1863]

And this is right after her telling the story about how she left her daughter to hook up with a stranger at his house for free.

[@hooterville1863]

She's a mother who hooks up with a stranger at his place even before going out on the date and thinks she's looking for her 'soul mate'

[@Ddog72]

^ 100% this haha.

[@stevenphillips3506]

Why did she not use her mobile and ring whoever is looking after her child, that is what any parent would do, i don`t see the issue unless she has left her child with someone who is untrustworthy which brings her parenting into doubt.

[@farmthestars3962]

A woman who chooses to be a single mother, and not trying everything they can to have a relationship with the father of the child is a huge red flag. You have chosen to give the child half of the parents, half the love, half the discipline, half the attention. You are selfish, outside of him being dead or an abusive partner. Choosing to have children with someone is one of the most important decisions a woman can make.

[@PixelTheExtraTerrestrial]

100% ive had 2 dv relationships best belive my ass was on birth control i wasnt having no kids with relationships that were doomed not to last and i still habe faith in the male speices cuz i took action and didnt land myself in more shit ontop of my abuse

[@farmthestars3962]

@@PixelTheExtraTerrestrial that was a great decision, you understood how easy it is to fall into a trap that you cannot get out of.

[@farmthestars3962]

@@PixelTheExtraTerrestrial I'm happy you made a smart decision and saw what the future would bring. I hope more women are able to make those hard decisions. Always watch a man's actions , not their words.

[@robertgrays8790]

So basically she lied about what she wanted from him. She went in looking to play for the night, but ended it looking for a provider. Chances are likely no man she wanted was going to be a provider, and had to bait-and-switch.

[@jayphoneuser2538]

She did want this guy, enough to go straight to his place for spicy time instead of making him take her on 3 dates before deciding whether to put out. But then he started simping and she suddenly became drier than the Sahara desert, and then "realized" that her handsome billionaire prince charming is "still out there waiting for her"

[@johnscott5187]

So her whole "date" was spicy time and a possible dinner?

[@tylerdurden5122]

That’s what they call it in the industry

[@gmualum08]

She did sexy time with a guy who she called an A-hole. Winner logic there

[@glharlor]

Sound more like she is a pro than a normal single mother dating.

[@brettjackman3355]

This is the kind of woman who over thinks for a few days and then goes to the cops and files a false complaint about consent

[@HouseMusicNinja]

The selectors are mad that the selected pumped and dumped them and even more, they despise that good men won't play clean up crew when her looks fade. Poetic.

[@trashl0rd]

Even if I were inclined to give the benefit of the doubt to single mothers and their situations, I still don't want to deal with that baggage nor would I ever want to raise someone else's child. On the flipside, women at this age who never had kids lost their minds in return, or are bitter husks. I can't be bothered anymore.

[@ellen5603]

I can make this woman's story make sense. That woman's story leads me to believe that she is dating for, uh, money, which is called something that would make KZbin delete my comment. 1. Why couldn't she leave? Because he'd paid for a certain number of hours. 2. She was offered a lot of money to stay with the man for an entire night (why is a legit date offering you money?). 3. They had "spicy time" FIRST (what he paid for) and then dinner was an addon. She had a panic attack because she was feeling guilty about "dating for money" with her daughter being looked after while mommy was "working". This woman is a looker. Actually, something that rhymes with looker. Does it make sense now?

[@donjohnson1498]

Yes Ellen, she seemed to be on the clock. I chuckled at how she tried to portray herself as Mother Of The Year, and her subtle slip in of “spicy time”.

[@ellen5603]

@@donjohnson1498 Yeah, she didn't say she didn't want the money, she just didn't want money for the whole night. Part of the night, yeah, but since she's Mother of the Year, gotta be back home before her Uber turns into a pumpkin. Taylor seems kind of naive not to have picked up on how this woman pays the bills. Dating: it's not a hobby, it's a job!

[@AppleManiagaming]

Actually it gives off separation anxiety and an extremely unhealthy attachment to her child. The way she says they sleep in the same bed definitely gives me the creeps.

[@ellen5603]

@@AppleManiagaming How do you explain all the mention of money (a man offered her a lot of money to spend the entire night???) and feeling like she couldn't leave her "date"? I'm not free to leave work before five o'clock without my supervisor's permission, either.

[@AppleManiagaming]

@@ellen5603 well, first off she's too clean to be a hooker, she doesn't look like she has a serious drug problem, so if she is a sex worker then she's likely an escort working for an agency that wouldn't allow that sort of thing. Second of all, the anxiety over her child seems genuine, but the fact that she's able to leave the child alone or with a baby sitter would lead me to assume the child is older than a toddler, at which point most mothers would be comfortable leaving their child for a night, especially if it's to earn money, so I can only reason that she has an unhealthy attachment.

[@shryque]

My rule is, especially after "spicy time" if the woman wants to leave. LET her leave, it's MORE problematic trying to make her stay.

[@chuffinblunts]

"so I got dressed"... feels the guilt of leaving your kid somewhere else while you're being a dirty stop out! Once a Slag always a Slag!

[@davisholman8149]

Ikr?? Gag🤢 she is telling this to the world over the internet - who does that??😳No morals, no class

[@elonever.2.071]

She earned her money now she wants to go home. The dinner was an added bonus.

[@ungenerationed9022]

Yes dear, your soulmate is still out there. Keep looking! 😂

[@davevang893]

She thinks her soul mate is waiting for her that's cute. 😆

[@brooksroth345]

I liked what Dr. Laura used to say. Single moms should date when all their children have left the home.

[@JSmoothSoul]

Most will be 50 by then. What They need to do is stop being so mental. Be pleasant and compromise more. They double down instead and put out self sabotaging Walls

[@biguglyskunk1248]

I loved the sexy pics Dr. Laura had taken by a man that wasn't her husband... 😂

[@robertmendick3195]

The same rejection may have happened to the father of her daughter. Once the daughter was born, the father was no longer important.

[@andrewh5212]

Always important for child support... if she knows who the father is.

[@daveb.4268]

I dated a girl in my early 20's who the whole time we were out wanted to be at home with her mother and if mommy was bored being at home without her. Needless to say, she got replaced.🤭

[@bigdaddyd7674]

That's good we don't someone else's bastards

[@subota23]

It's hilarious that she admitted she would sleep with him for the money and only reason for not doing so it's the daughter that she misses.

[@Ancientreapers]

2:41 Ah there it is. The soul mate mind virus.

[@michaelf7093]

She's having a panic attack, because she's separated from her kid, but immediately accepts an invite to dinner. Somehow the prospect of a free meal magically dissipates her panic. I get she wants to not spend the night, but the excuse that she needs to go be mom is BS. Honestly, after fun time is over, if she wants to go, that's a win.

[@kingsouther]

Wow free dinners even wins over looking after their own kid. Being used for free meals in the past now doesnt feel that bad. This th ot was always of unsound judgement

[@chinbosschinboss2484]

This woman is a "salesperson" She "sells" her "time" She self-snitched at the end of her video. If you frame her as a "salesperson" then everything makes sense. That's why she just went over to someone's house for "spicy time" because he was using her "services"

[@shadow96433]

I never saw a point in dating and I am glad I still don't. Thanks Taylor

[@one_bone_4_life647]

My Ex told me at the the beginning of the relationship that her Ex forced her. I believed her. Later on I got out of her that she kept going back to his house afterward. I'm guessing she's telling new BFs that I a-used her in a way as well

[@Rabbit-d6z]

At first she was trying to leave because she got what she wanted from him but he offered free meal so she stock around and next she thought let’s get my daughter free meal as well lol

[@dshousegenetix47]

She just wanted a quick hook up but won't just admit it and she wasted the dudes time by not just stating it.

[@JSmoothSoul]

I literally had a single mom use me for a hookup then she basically ghosted me. She was into having different men everytime. Women are so far gone nowadays it's no going back

[@kilrpokr]

It's fascinating how the woman in the opening clip is dressed as if she's ready to go on a date yet can't be separated from her daughter, but if Chad (=her soulmate) comes along all her worries would be out of the window...

[@antonydrossos5719]

WTF is she going to do when her daughter starts dating & she's lost what attractiveness she has left?

[@Freedom-Fighter1]

She’s gonna buy big toys for down there

[@cptcosmo]

55, still single, still no ex-wife, no children that I know of. Looking forward to a great retirement with my kickass hobbies all my married friends are jealous of. LOL

[@cedricnicholson7446]

Gentlemen do not do like this man did in the first woman’s story. When a woman says she wants to go home. Immediately agree with her and then call her an Uber. (Pay for it) Once the Uber comes walk her to the car, give her a hug. When she opens the door to sit down hold it open for a second and say it clearly “I had a great time tonight, I’ll text you in the morning “. Make sure the driver heard you. The next day text her and tell her again you had a great time and for her to let you know if you would like to do it again. Save the text and If she says yes then that’s a plus because now you have her saying she enjoyed herself. Women like the blonde lady are unstable and when they act like that then false accusations can easily be made. I keep my text messages for a few years just incase a woman try to say something that isn’t true.

[@dennisreeve8859]

Once you learn to ride a broom you'll never be stranded!

[@jamesneese7663]

" A man with assets needs a single mother like a fish needs a bicycle. That 304 is not yours. That kid is not yours. It's just your turn." Confucius probably

[@lotuswarrior8843]

If it wasn't for this Vampire Taylor, I prolly still under the rug of a 304...smh..can't thank this dude enough.

[@robertfindley921]

She's saying that a guy offered her money for a night because she's trying to bolster her self-worth in the eyes of her audience. This happens a lot when women have failed experiences. It deflects blame onto the guy. A couple of times when a woman refused to go out with me (again), she would start ranting about all the guys who wanted her.

[@echo-channel77]

First thing noticeable - there's clearly not much going on upstairs. She contradicts her own story not 30 seconds later, talks about "soul mates", but then another 30 seconds later she's talking about how she "dates" John on the clock. And we wonder why there are so many screwed up kids.

[@markobee9400]

It’s interesting, to me that no one pointed it out, but I think it’s an obvious factor: she just used him for sex. And, when she’s done, she wants nothing more to do with him. Yet, if a man treats, a woman like this, he is toxic.

[@RayleighCriterion]

She probably left out the part of the story where she probably agreed to spend the entire night with him and then reneged and blamed him for her change of mind.

[@michaelweston1042]

Wow, mom just giving it away to random chads. No wonder her conscience was getting to her. She did abandon her daughter and was acting like a terrible mom.

[@thebestforthemost]

She is a professional talking about the issues with her line of work without directly talking about it. She says that it was a bad date and then corrects herself and says that it was not a bad date but the wrong person. She talks bad about the guy but she slept with him before going to dinner and she is still considering meeting him again. Finally, she is offended that somebody made her an offer to spend the night away from her daughter so she is not offended by the offer but she by the terms.

[@ellen5603]

That's what I've been saying: she's a pro. Living the Pretty Woman delusion, where Richard Gere sweeps you away from that sordid life in his limo and takes you away to his polo pony farm or whatever.

[@Kmangod]

That blond is a PRO. Money for spicy time....

[@JIanniello0]

It’s Taylor the Fiend…. BACK AGAIN!!

[@jeffreycfmok]

Shes making such a good case for why you dont date single mothers. Look at the amount of headache ALREADY

[@xTwinVipersx]

Exactly!

[@SkinnedBanana]

There are some people you can just look at and tell are unhinged. That's this lady

[@hunterikobold9993]

I'm not a guy, but my takeaway is as follows. She keeps mentioning her daughter, almost obsessively, which is a sign of emotional instability. She sleeps in the same bed as her daughter? How old is the daughter? Is there even a daughter? Context, which she conviently left out, is important here. These are all signs of an emotionally unstable person. If I were a guy looking for a genuine relationship, why would I want to commit to someone who clearly isn't going to commit to me first and foremost? A bigger question is why would I want to date someone so emotionally unstable? Please note I'm not encouraging anyone to abandon their children. I'm just saying this individual clearly can't genuinely include another person in her life because of her emotional problems.

[@elonever.2.071]

Assuming there is a daughter, she is old enough to be left alone for the evening...we hope. As you know kids arent stupid. It isnt going to take her daughter very long to figure out what is going on. Which means the daughter is going to figure the window of opportunity for her to do the same thing while mom is out 'working'.

[@christhompson4161]

Had this..just went ok fine, rang her an uber 5 mins goodbye. just msg when home safe. Then block and ghost. Can't even organise child care ffs.

[@GreenDayRules92]

No attraction to him, but she still slept with him? Can't make this crap up

[@terrypriola3132]

When he just wanted to chill she had to get home to her kid. But when he said let's go out and let me buy you something. Aka dinner. She all the sudden no longer missed her child. Go figure

[@Gloom78]

My dad died a few weeks before I was born My mom met a guy that I guess she thought would be a good man and married him When I was 3 my mom died after giving birth to his daughter And he gave both of us to my grandparents, my mom's parents, he was actually an alcoholic I'll never get to ask her what was going through her mind But im sure she was just really scared of everything at that point

[@daydreamdirty]

I was adopted and given up for adoption myself….. and well it sucks at times.

[@AdamsHarvey1221]

Shes a 1 with makeup. She needs to chill.

[@markobee9400]

“No money is worth any time away from my daughter.“ In other words, if she didn’t have the daughter, she’d be glad to. A story is told about Winston Churchill: Churchill: Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds? Socialite: My goodness, Mr. Churchill … Well, I suppose … we would have to discuss terms, of course … Churchill: Would you sleep with me for five pounds? Socialite: Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?! Churchill: Madam, we’ve already established that. Now we are haggling about the price.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Churchill had balls of steel.

[@blairterry2]

If you are offered money to go home with someone actually cheapens you if you boast about it. Like the Sale at Walmart, reduced for clearance.

[@tomvalentino8802]

Singe mother: Date me! Smart men: No!

[@paulmarshall4794]

This makes complete sense if this was a sugar baby hook up. Dude paid for the night and then she wants to take off early and uses her daughter missing her to leave earlier than the original arrangement.

[@robertgrays8790]

If it was a date, why was she talking about putting clothes back on? Uh huh.

[@fortunateson2]

They always tell story with holes the size of the grand canyon. This is why I don't listen to them or believe them.

[@quoniam426]

They take men for walking ATMs and then dare to refuse when a SIMP offers them money to spend a little bit of time with them? They are running high on double standards and delusions, that's for sure.

[@pyramidhead138]

single or not, these women are unhappy either way

[@voiceofexperience]

"Spicy-time" lol. "I didn't like him. So, anyway, after he blew my back out, we went to dinner. The restaurant decor was nice."

[@dariusgerald9427]

She said," No money is worth not spending time with my daughter." Does your daughter go to work with you?

[@BlackGokuNdaHood305]

🤣🤣

[@bruceklein9008]

If there's no chemistry/attraction then why is she hooking up with him?

[@sirbaronvoncount4147]

They keep Confusing their inability to feel anything with “lack of chemistry”