Single Woman Over 30 Can't Understand Why She Is Single

[@taylorthefiend973]

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[@TempOne-vh4fd]

Hey homie. Mummy, Fiend, Dr., and Bounty hunter : the saga of the 4 horsemen of the Hoe-pocolyps. marriage is kickstarter for women.

[@Proj.A.Z]

Greetings, Mr. Taylor: First thing, always respect their standards and choices… Remember at their age these Red Flags…🚩🚩🚩🚩…they are signature that they are DG’s! At best the more they seem to say as to what they want, need, along with the rest of their expectations and demands?!? They don’t see in the end all they are doing with their complaints is sharing how much they are used up orifices with a lot of C.C. experience along with a bad attitude and a certain level of mental illness… Making it clear that they have baggage will not get them any closer to getting any man’s commitment but definitely give her and her post-walk ilk a whole lot of 🍆🍆🍆🍆…and definitely a place none of them want to be: THE STREETS!!! Boys and Men? Stay based and disciplined and refrain from dealing with the cornucopia of lies, deception and issues these folks bring if they want your attention…and ask for your commitment especially your commitment. Last thing? Life is too damn short! Stay resolute and chase EXCELLENCE…not useless, transient lays!

[@JessE-wg7le]

"flower garden" ...i'm betting it doesn't smell like flowers in there. I also hope she likes soyboys, because those are all that might fit her requirements

[@anthonydesjardins4]

I've liked your channel since day one sir, thank you Taylor.

[@allenantonio4389]

Yo

[@TheMaxx009900]

Women: "Where are all the good men?" Men: "Have you tried being a good woman?" Women: "Patriarchy!"

[@LordWyatt]

Men: 🚶‍♂️

[@wolfgangkranek376]

This.

[@HerculesBallsInc]

I was thinking this all through the first vid. She goes on and on (and ON) about all the ways men have failed her, but never even ONCE says how she's failed men, learned to be a good 'partner', or what she brings to the table. Her idea of male 'partner' is clearly 'beta who does everything I say and expects nothing from me'.

[@TempOne-vh4fd]

Feminazi: fuck the patriarchy. me: what is the patriarchy? Feminazi: a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. Me: hmmm. like jeffery marsh, al wheezy, dollar store barbie dillion, Laurel Hubbard (heavy lifter), Lia Thomas (swimming), CeCé Telfer (track & field) and Braeden Abrahamsen (bowling)>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>list keeps going.

[@thor7219]

Great comment

[@Max_Ohm]

"I think I look pretty good for 33" *continues to put on 5 lbs of makeup* Sure you do, lady. Sure you do.

[@starguy2718]

Copium is a helluva drug.

[@ql6746]

She looks her age

[@motownbaby6146]

💯

[@bondgabebond4907]

@@ql6746 Not only that, she talks old. 18-year-olds don't talk like a used 30-year-old woman.

[@ITech2005]

And no matter how good she MAY still look at 30+, it's still nothing compared to how she would've looked in her early 20s when she was busy riding the carousel. She gave her best years to the fk boys.

[@Busybee65]

When she says she wants to get married and have kids, what she really means, is she wants a insurance policy, when she has divorced you.

[@shawnwright5332]

👍🇨🇦

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

And also, during her entire marriage to you, she wants you providing a safe, reliable, luxurious base from which she can hook up with other guys while you're at work.

[@racebannon96]

Impressive....Most Impressive

[@Mr.Helper.]

Yup …. They calculate in their head directly or indirectly how much they will get

[@briantaulbee6452]

@@sergeipohkerova7211 you nailed it!

[@sir1365]

"Emotionally unavailable" = "I can't control him"

[@josephkelly6681]

Ugh. I had a date in Atlanta once and took her to a high end food court that was super fun and had dozens of types of food from Asian to Pizza and everything in between. She literally didn't see anything good and then complained about the thing she choose. I was like, thank you, for letting me know you suck. Bye. I walked out.

[@Lizardgrad89]

I think I’ve been to that food court. Huge and tons of great choices.

[@SuperSaverPlaysSPG]

a high end food court? The south sure is different

[@jefffuller9918]

I can sympathize. Years ago, I dated someone with a kid. The kid was more mature than her mother. The daughter was 16. I bought dinner and then all the mother did was complain about the dinner, and I offered to get it taken care of. She said no and went on to complain more. The daughter asked if we were going to hear this all night. The mother said no and kept on complaining, so it ended right there. As I walked away, the daughter absolutely tore in to her mother.

[@taliabraver]

All these women do their hair and put on make up to gripe?Thats not attractive,is this the norm?

[@RodVonLongrod]

Women: "Men are emotionally unavailable." Men: "And women are Logically unavailable."

[@WolfStory]

I like it

[@toasty862]

Men: "women are emotionally r3t4rd3d"

[@SawseeSauce]

Not really.

[@codydavis1698]

@@SawseeSauce What smells like boxed wine and cat urine? Oh, hi Sawsee, didn't see you there.

[@SawseeSauce]

@@codydavis1698 “all womyn stupid” You: why won’t ANY women go out with me!! 😩

[@neonsky595]

Women: “please save us!” Men: “haven’t you noticed? We tried. We offered you the best we had, and you spat on us.”

[@NotBCT]

"...and I'll look down, and whisper 'no.'"

[@verzeda]

Men: "and this experience made us grow beyond your ability to control us."

[@starguy2718]

I just looked at my job description, and it *doesn't* say "Sir Save-a-hoe". Sorry, not sorry.

[@toasty862]

@@NotBCT That's where my mind went too

[@sheikh1906]

Women: That's 👏 the 👏 bare 👏 minimum!

[@MrDCMiami]

When women cite men's inability to commit, they never talk of the 80% of divorces being initiated by women? I'd say that speaks much more about "commitment issues" than anything.

[@jamesdagmond]

90% if the woman has a college degree.

[@Myrslokstok]

@@jamesdagmond +90% for this kind of tick-tok girls.

[@genaroflores939]

To be fair men can be cheating and typically don't leave their wives still. A relationship can be broken or toxic and a man will stay out of convenience too. So I don't think it is necessarily wrong why women initiate a divorce because most men just won't divorce. So I think you have to consider that factor as well and not say all 80 % of women initiating divorce is a result of commitment issues. Statistics can be manipulated on every issue to fit a person's narrative so you always have to look deeper into them to see how credible they actually are. And my ex wife divorced me and I think she gave up on the relationship and cheated so even though I don't have a good experience I still try to look at things objectively and not use my experience with my ex wife as all women that divorce are manipulative

[@tomwalling5796]

Commitment = access to your wallet

[@HerculesBallsInc]

To be fair, I'm sure from her point of view men fail to commit, while from an outsider's point of view they are failing to commit to HER. The unspoken part is that she feels this pressure to commit - as Taylor points out - because EVERYONE ELSE already has except her and her friends. She KNOWS there's something different going on with her.

[@grahamyodude]

The fact that they can only attract "immature" guys and they don't see that as a reflection of their own immaturity is everything you need to know.

[@MsTeaRex]

I'm so glad that I met my husband in 1980. Our marriage lasted 41 years. He is waiting for me in heaven.

[@maltaconvoy]

Sorry for your loss, friend. 😢

[@ct-lg4gm]

A video of a girl putting on makeup and giving advice is GUARANTEED to be insane advice.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

I thought it was funny AF when she's talking about seriousness while stroking a paint brush across her face 😂. Goofy AF!

[@jovan3546]

😂 this stuff writes itself… Imagine putting on fake up while saying “I want a REAL man” 🤯

[@Okunniger_Volker]

@jovan3546 it reminds me of how most of these chick's personalities are derived from pop culture. It's like that "I'm not like those other girls" memes. Some time we need to make a list of these parroted sayings they spout like it's cannon.

[@catfoodmillionaire7838]

@@Okunniger_Volker Talking with any female regarding female biology: 1. NAWALT 2. "You haven't met the right one" 3. "Who hurt you" 4. "You hate women/loser/icell/short"

[@Okunniger_Volker]

@catfoodmillionaire7838 I love the "who hurt you?!" One. I have no pride and will happily respond with "my ex when she broke a liquor bottle over my head." Of course they'll do the whole "oh poor baby" ect ect to which I respond with "it's OK, it was nothing to the pain she suffered when I dumped her." Also don't forget the "I'm strong and independent" ya know, the equivalent to a dude claiming he's a alpha. Women just don't really apply the same logic to themselves that they apply to others, even other women.

[@snidecommenter7117]

The women who rejected me in my 20s when I "wasn't good enough" now want me in my 30s after I've made something of myself. Well guess what sweetie. No woman helped me get to where I am, no woman gets to "cash in" now that I'm here.

[@icecold9511]

And made herself into nothing

[@kgonepostl]

Amen!!

[@1Plebeian]

Free bird

[@MAte925]

Onya mate!

[@djja8844]

Waiting at the finish line... blisters that show up after the work is done...needs prince charming to save her Trainwreck. This is all these women.

[@jvolstad]

Do you want to freak out a 30+ single female? Tell her that you are leaving most of your estate to charity.

[@KokoFox-n1v]

😂

[@carlfromtheoc1788]

And the rest for a huge wake involving lots of liquor, grilled meet and a visit or two from the cops because of the noise.

[@jffry890]

​@@carlfromtheoc1788 Ah. A fellow Irishman.

[@carlfromtheoc1788]

Not really, just prepared. I even have my 36 soneg wake playlist ready. Begins with Deadman's Party and ends with Spirit in the Sky.@@jffry890

[@DTreatz]

Nah, start calling them *Ma'am* instead of *Miss* 😂

[@071badboi]

The moment she said, "I am a feminist!" is the moment she lost 90% of the dating options.🤣🤣

[@Capohanf1]

LOVE how the first skit woman added, "Right Now" to "I'm looking for someone to have kids with so that IS what I am looking for, right now." LATER she WILL BE LOOKING for divorce, alimony, child support AND HALF of the dumb simp's stuff so she can go back to the guys that thrill her!

[@Semiam1]

If you hear shaming language, it means they aren’t getting what they want.

[@BoomTribeEntertainment]

Keep it up guys! These women ain’t sh*t

[@6banzai5]

they have mentality of 13 year olds

[@redroversk]

she's not single, she's doomed

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

And also heavily filtered. Can you imagine the saggy skin and buckshot acne marks underneath all that photoshopping.

[@User31084]

@Redroversk That would make a great horror movie or suspence video, like michael iacksons video "Thriller" 😂😂😂

[@kastelvetro1491]

doomedgle. what happens when a piglet gets alteast 20 offerings a day on her phone for 15 years and after 108,000 offerings (20 a day times 15 years) and she's still single. a fool, a phuktard.

[@spadeghostvampire7777]

It's sadly true. When there is no fair compromise, there is no relationship.

[@endefisto123]

Nah she will find a simp somewhere the problem for her is she will not love the simp and will continue to be miserable.

[@alabama2uz]

If she's woke, walk.

[@TruthLives-ee6sf]

Everyone is a subjectivist that can't justify why anything is right or wrong, it's worldview warfare to promote materialism and hedonism which will devolve into nihilism, and the subjective worldview isn't just the problem, it's the multi colored hair, make up, piercings, body mutilation with tattoos, and they dress provocatively which draws attention to them and could cause you or them harm, the subjective worldview is just 1 aspect of the problem

[@theyangview1898]

A M E N

[@cwb2992]

If she is a feminist, if she has has face, chest, sleeve tats, nose rings, funkey colored hair, entitled attitude or high body count it's best just to avoid them.

[@cheeseburgersuperior1874]

i will do better: moonwalk.

[@AndI0td763]

@@cwb2992 I hate those arm and shoulder tattoos, too masculine. Just them following trends and being impulsive. That was never popular before, they only like it now because everyone’s getting them.

[@buckaroobonzai2909]

I work at a grocery store part time. If/when I see a woman in her 30s with excess makeup, dressed revealing and generally looking for attention, I am always sure to call her ma'am.

[@blackmendosa]

Oh man that shit is so much fun, You can see how angry they get but they always act civil. Classic.

[@lakelanddentalarts]

Woman: "He's emotionally-unavailable." Translation: "He's too intellect-led for me to be able to gaslight and emotionally-manipulate." If a woman ever spouts that crap at you online cut contact with her, and if she does it on a date get up and walk out on her. None of the women in this video would last longer than 15 seconds with me on a coffee date, and if they asked why I was leaving I'd bluntly answer, "I'm not attracted to stupid women." Every one of the women had a competitive, contentious, and combative attitude about men, and then they seem clueless about why they're single. They're single because they're unwanted, and they're unwanted because they're hostile. When men come home from dealing with competition, contention, and combativeness in their jobs, they don't want more of it at home. A man wants his home to be his sanctuary where he can find peace, and none of the women in these clips are able to offer that to a man. If they're complaining this much while they're single, you're getting a glimpse of what a complaining-nightmare they'd be to a husband. Women are unhappy whether they're single, married, or divorced. Intelligent men are telling them to stay single and unhappy, and depriving them of the latter two stages and being able to divorce-destroy men and children. So many men are doing this that the marriage-rate has been in an ongoing plummet since women pushed the divorce-rate to 60% with 80% of divorces filed by women. Women killed the institution of marriage via rampant divorcing, and men are putting it in a coffin and nailing the lid shut. Never marrying = no need to court a woman = no need to traditionally-date a woman. This is why so many frustrated and lonely women are creating emotional-meltdown videos, and why so many men don't care about their feelings.

[@Scotty_Bo0m]

Ffs i want you to understand something... right now there are a 100 men that would marry her by next week. These women are now at an impasse where they must look at some of those 100s of options they have ignored or they will leave this world alone.. & the scary thing is they are electing to not play & stay single... I have no idea how any of you guys think we are winning...we are not! We are being dragged down by feminism with these crazy 304s

[@ihavethedocuments2580]

Blonde could have been trolling. If not Holy Crap

[@jazzjackson9875]

Women+TikTok = constant source of entertainment

[@Max_Ohm]

You misspelled "terror"

[@MrAgsalud]

No need for Netflix

[@motownbaby6146]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Roulandus-le-Fartere]

Old chicks calling their flappy, f**ked out cooches "Flower Gardens" is half the problem. They don't understand that they're offering yesterday's opened can of anchovies to customers who are gonna likely to lose their labour and possessions for merely being in a relationship with them. That's why you're single...

[@ryanlorance6168]

🤮💯

[@charlesford1893]

Well said.

[@honoriussoularians1887]

More like a patch of noxious weeds

[@maximuscomfort]

Floppies🤣

[@Sheatastik]

hot dogs and hallways after a couple softballs get passed thru.

[@TenBear]

That second woman saying she thinks she looks good for 33 while applying copious amounts of makeup made me laugh.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

Talking about seriousness while applying copium for the circus... you can't make this shit up.😂

[@TenBear]

@@Okunniger_Volker well put sir

[@WakkoKakko]

Not to mention that she has the same eyebrows as that girl who had a crush on Arnold.

[@nenecitosart1405]

Like she is like good looking like, she's a slay queen. Like seriously who the fu*k still talks as if they're still in junior in high?!

[@soundtorial4567]

How to destroy a womens confidence in one easy step: Hand them a Makeup remover wet wipe.

[@oORussellOo]

Honestly count myself lucky to have stumbled across a truly high value woman in my early 20s. By high value I mean what we men actually value, kindness, humbleness, loyalty, honesty, decorum, and of course, natural beauty. 13 years in with a kid now and I thank my lucky stars I'm not dealing with mentals like in this video

[@emppowersportsandmarine6270]

You got lucky. I too got lucky at 30, with a 20 year old but after 10.5 years together, 8 years married and with a 5 year old son, my wife went nuts

[@oORussellOo]

@@emppowersportsandmarine6270 You had me in the first half not gonna lie

[@benhiggerson5904]

As an "h hmm" older man, I too did well. Been married for 24 years. 3 kids. First marriage for both of us. It hasn't always been easy. In fact it's been hard at times but has been worth staying together. Commitment is the key. Working together. Honestly, I feel for this generation of young men. Told one of my co-workers who is 24, I'd probably learn to be content being single or find a wife in a country where women are raised to appreciate a man. That list is getting smaller because the Western feminism has spread and continues to make its way around the globe. Be strong guys!

[@snakeplissken1754]

Don't ask "why am I still single?", Ask yourself "why would anyone want me?" If you can't come up with reasons, aside empty buzzword crap, then you have the answer to the first question.

[@HouseMusicNinja]

Situation analysis of getting involved with a vvoman 30+: -Has a triple digit body count. -Has been alpha widowed so anyone after Chad will not be appreciated. -Probably has a mountain of debt she wants you to pay. -Has multiple kids from Chad(s). -Demands a good man when she ignored them a decade ago til now. Dating modern vvomen who're 30+ in 2023 is auditioning for your own bankruptcy.

[@arslongavitabrevis5136]

Great analysis and description! Thumbs up to you!

[@diehard01]

This is all very accurate, as long as you realize that Chad is just the low wage, going nowhere in life d-bag that she tried to fix.

[@CookieManCookies]

If said average lady has been rotating chads every week for 55 weeks a year, for 10+ years, that triple body count is in the thousands my man.

[@kevinpeterwareham8131]

Sorry for being hyper critical but you forgot potential jail time

[@greenwave819]

@@diehard01 who cares about wage, life is more important

[@shawnmcdaniel435]

Hearing a woman talk about commitment, like she has the faintest idea what that is, is just parody at this point.

[@freddyfox5002]

"For now" being the key word Her words, not mine

[@Jeremiah-tn5xw]

Proof that they really do need strong men in their lives to make their life choices for them

[@DTreatz]

Commitment to them means _slave_

[@ed5308]

The first woman was just a parody and actually very funny. What is worse there are probably enough simp men that would actually like to marry her for real.

[@aaronw.2050]

The woman in red really THINKS that SHE is in CONTROL. It’s hysterical.

[@HerculesBallsInc]

It is clear that she is SO terrible at picking partners (apparently based largely on attractiveness) that she fully EXPECTS most of the choices she makes to be completely unacceptable. The funny thing is that she in no way attributes this to her own decision-making process... it's the UNIVERSE that's wrong.

[@ensinitas]

And she talks WAY too fast. Easy Betty, DECAF!

[@kaczan3]

That grandma in the red dress -- she spent tons of time writing the script for that monologue. She could take overtime in her work. She could read about investing. She could start learning coding. She did none of that, and will blame guys when she falls behind in finances and life.

[@flamethrower82]

If she's wondering why her "flower garden" has never blossomed with an "eggplant", maybe it's because she's been with people that have no emotional commitment to her. Emotion does tend to make the "blossom" process more interesting, especially as you get to learn your partner's preferences.

[@Mereologist]

A one-night-stand has no reason to gratify anyone but himself.

[@Right-Is-Right]

The fact is she is in the majority, from 60 to 70% of women don't get there through penetration alone. It has nothing to do with her body count. Seriously think about it, if she had the tingles and slept with a man, why would she not get there? Do with that fact as you wish, if anything it will help you realize why just doing the pump is not getting women there for you most the time. Let's just say, your finger or tounge and her little button having a good meeting is a good move.

[@chrissinclair8705]

Women in their 30's always ask the question "Where are the good men?" The answer is always the same and just as simple "In your 20's where you left them." Now they're dating your younger sister.

[@RodVonLongrod]

30+ year old women: "Where are all the good Men?" Men: "Have you ever been attracted to a good Man?" 30+ year old women: "Are you serious? Of course not." Men: "And yet you're having trouble finding one. Hmmm. That's a mystery."

[@SubvertTheState]

Dayuuum

[@arslongavitabrevis5136]

Brilliant! 😁😁😁

[@Foreverfreeusa]

The answer is they turned them bad because women don't f*k good men. Men will either take on the attributes that get them laid or exit the game. Women control the type of men society has.

[@johnjr7070]

Sure as hell arenas postín pathetic videos pn social media, plus they can afford a professional for s@x which sensibly reduces the risks of an std as things stand.

[@Sketch_Sesh]

Girl #1 “in my multiple years of being sexually active” … and there we have it

[@SawseeSauce]

To be fair, PEOPLE in their 30’s have typically been sexually active before at some point in their life… for multiple years at a time. Sorry to break it to you. it doesn’t even necessarily mean the body count is high. Nothing wrong with being a virgin. Not a huge deal breaker for women unless you internalize it.

[@Lyleco]

Wide as a courthouse. Just like her mouth.

[@Johnsmith-ko9yj]

Why are they complaining? They've got everything they asked for. It's not the mans fault their demands where detrimental to them. We tried to warn them only to be called misogynists or worse.

[@TheMaxx009900]

What do you call a woman who gets everything she desires? Miserable

[@AndI0td763]

They’ll always find something to complain about. I feel for the good guys out here who can’t find a decent woman to be with. I absolutely do not feel sorry for these women. It’s not hard to find and keep a guy for them, yet they won’t even do the bare minimum, and keep asking and demanding more.

[@malcolmapplet4313]

You're both right but I always say "why are they complaining they got what they wanted?" State votes the same way for 50 years and burns to the ground. They got what they wanted. That's how I see it.

[@exzackt]

SINGLE WOMEN KEEP WOMEN SINGLE. I've been saying this, if all her friends are single run, they'll find a reason to hate you if your girl looks a little too happy, especially if you're good looking they'll be jealous

[@bpric13]

But that's the thing. There is no such thing as a single woman. They all have SOMEONE

[@jameswhite699]

When she said the "next ten years" shows she already has the exit plan in place

[@jai-one2691]

When you deal with a woman in her 30s, all she's bringing is debt and something borrowed.

[@BOBANDVEG]

Avg cost to raise a kid is over $300k. So a single mom of 3 is basically asking for $1m lol

[@macseagle5968]

And something broken.

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

During my bluepill days I dated this really beautiful woman who was 28. I was only 20. She knew I was in school for a STEM degree so looking back that was probably why. She thought I was thirsty enough to marry her even if the men her own age already refused. I found out she had been out of college already five years and borrowed almost half a million dollars to fund it. She went to NYU for a degree in a very weak major. She deferred the payments and only recently started paying it down and her debt was close to 600k. I noped out of there fast. Honestly she was good in bed and she came (or at least pretended to to build my ego) really loudly and in an entertaining way, which was fun while it lasted. I don't hold anything against her and we are even FB friends. She married a Korean IT guy only a year older than me last year and invited me to her wedding. I didn't go but I sent a card. They have a kid now so she's got him good.

[@doctordetroit4339]

I've known many who wifed up single mothers. 99% of the time they are absolute disasters. I mean bad. Really bad. The only reason a man wife's up a single mother is because he is broken mentally. Either from a prior marriage or never had confidence and most likely came from a single mother household himself, or had a weak father (same thing). He has no confidence. So he chooses a woman who smiles at him and touches his pee pee. And then he gets blasted for life.

[@doctordetroit4339]

@@sergeipohkerova7211 Yup, see my experiences below (thankfully not my own, but what I saw time and again).

[@alex_tucker]

If you think a guy isn't emotionally available, you might be stuck in the fun zone.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

And or she wants the dude to act like a female, then when they get that they say you're not masculine enough and leave you for doing exactly what they wanted... Women don't know what they want.

[@donaldoehl7690]

HA-ha!!!

[@malcolmapplet4313]

"How was the Fun-Vee?"

[@macseagle5968]

That first woman is as delusional as it gets.

[@gurujr]

The first woman is an absolute parody of the modern woke woman whose feelings and needs are beyond what any man could provide. Red flags for miles.

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

I swear they make these videos for other women. Like who told her that was enticing? She had ZERO redeeming qualities, and acted as if she was the prize. Imagine winning the Price is Right and YOUR showcase is a set of well used luggage from FB marketplace, an all expense paid trip to one of the pick pocketing capitals of the world, and a date with a 5 who doesn't like you. Thats her!

[@ma3stro681]

The poster woeman for Spinster Winter …

[@ryanlorance6168]

@@johnserosanguineous1886💯 lmfao 💀

[@greyman6353]

Being a part owner of a pet supply business, I am happy that continued business growth is a certainty

[@gh00stbeard]

What's funny (and maddening) is that they never actually ask WHY we're "emotionally unavailable".🤣🤣🤣

[@dddux]

It's because they're "perfect", thus it cannot be them who are wrong, by any chance. 😉

[@jbarker2160]

He's not emotionally unavailable, he's put you in the recreational use only category.

[@nodaklojack]

Agreed

[@benjohnson8231]

Self awareness in women in the usa is at an all timd low

[@TempOne-vh4fd]

Hey homie. Mummy, Fiend, Dr., and Bounty hunter : the saga of the 4 horsemen of the Hoe-pocolyps. marriage is kickstarter for women.

[@HonkHonkler]

Especially post-Barbie

[@MarkMcHiggins]

Not just the USA

[@AndI0td763]

Seems bad all over. Honestly unless you’re a super Chad dating and relationships are often a humiliating and degrading experience for a man. Expected to initiate and give a ton of effort and investment up front. Having to deal with constant little tests, attitude and mood swings. All the while having to do and say all the right things and even then if you do happen to get some commitment she can just suddenly change her feelings towards a guy and drop him so fast it’ll make his head spin. Dating is something that should be pleasant and abundant but now it really seems more trouble than it’s worth. Is it really worth all the stress, the uncertainty, and the mental pain that a woman can give you? You really have to know what you’re doing and almost detach so you don’t make the mistake of investing too much only for her to pull away. You have to be okay with whether she stays or goes. She has to be putting in the effort and doing all the right things too, she needs to be respectful and add to your life. The greatest power a man has is the ability to walk away. Don’t let these women walk all over you guys, please protect your inner peace and respect yourself.

[@kaczan3]

1st wave chicks said they are equal and can do everything guys can, then the war started and the same chicks reacted exactly like the chicks react now hearing about the potential of the ww3. So nothing changed. We just didn't have the Internet to put that out for everyone to see.

[@pastorjerrykliner3162]

Madam, not only are we reading "different chapters," we're reading completely different books. You can call your friend now.

[@HonkHonkler]

Exactly lol

[@Foreverfreeusa]

That was my exact thought.

[@HerculesBallsInc]

I always think it's funny when someone complains about their ex. They don't realize that they're telling on themselves. Sure, it's possible you hooked up with someone who fooled you... but in the end it was YOU who chose them. It was YOU who didn't vet them enough. It was YOU who overreached and ALLOWED yourself to be fooled. And that's the BEST possible circumstance. Much more likely you contributed and refuse to accept or see it... and so your NEXT relationship is JUST as doomed.

[@ensinitas]

No need to call your friend babe, I'm out. here's ten bucks be sure to tip the waitress.

[@esth8175]

​@@HerculesBallsIncsame goes for men who married a terrible woman. Those guys didn't vet properly either. Funny how that works...

[@hallowrant8091]

Im thinking about every dude I know who is normal, has a good job, and masculine. None of them would seriously date a woman like this

[@kastelvetro1491]

uncle sam has a tinderella himself, her name is auntie samantha, she takes tax collections from all the modern working women to pay single mother bums who carried before they married and where left with another mans mistake, theese women are paying there share today for this, and now women can no longer inspire girls to lift them up and ''come into their own at the wall''

[@adampowell711]

Dame right! Recreational use only

[@LTGDSP]

Even dudes that work crappy min wage jobs paying under 40k per year wouldn't date women like that either. Oh wait women don't want those guys making under 40k anyways so the jokes on them

[@stanhartman6662]

I'll take responsibility. I was one of those dads that spoiled my girl and called her a princess. The hardship for them to figure out is that their daddy's the only one the things that.

[@cwulfe1]

That first woman and I wouldn't have had this long of a conversation. The first 20 or 30 seconds of her blathering spiel would have had me raise my hand like a traffic cop and say, "ENOUGH" and then stood up and walked away.

[@MarufoVega]

I think many single women in this age group are concerned about having kids but the husband thing is only temporary for them. Using men is what they are about.

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

They just want the nice, well-meaning beta accountant or tech guy with a good salary and 401k, so they can have an easy life and cheat on him. He may geniunely love her, but the women don't care. They will eventually divorce him and take his money and ruin his life. They don't care. It's all about their own wants.

[@godoftwinkies574]

They only want a donor and an extra paycheck.

[@HonkHonkler]

Yep, nailed it. Noticed that too. They care more about the biological clock and the husband is optional. Why they divorce so much. They get bored, had their kids and now want the money.

[@Foreverfreeusa]

They used to marry a friend zone guy, have kids and divorce in their 40's. I know many women like this. The younger generation has become wise to this play.

[@daniels7717]

Yes their biological clock is ticking while we as man can easily have kids in our 40s and can still be there for our kids very long.

[@PREPFORIT]

I agree 100% When a Woman says " He was Emotionally unavailable" she means he was hard to manipulate! The last Woman that I was in a relationship with tried to change the clothes I wore, change my style, I said 'NO" She wanted me to join her -cult- I mean church I said "NO" I ended it and she told everyone that Emotionally unavailable or emotionally immature B.S !!

[@TruthLives-ee6sf]

Schismatic churches and schismatic theology only leads to the worship of materialism and hedonism and nihilism, they are atheist factories, I'm a big fan of the great schism of 1054 and the church that's pretty schism but only based in the theology that can justify why something is right or wrong, I have no interest in women that sleep around or will leave but I'm also pretty poor and I've worked since 15 and can't afford much so marriage is pretty unlikely but without a consistent theology then you will become enslaved to your base desires, be it entertainment, materialism, hedonism, or anything else and all worldviews but 1 always devolve into nihilism

[@3Kings_Industries]

​@@TruthLives-ee6sf👏👏👏

[@Myrslokstok]

Word!

[@LordWyatt]

Yeah actions will always beat out words. When someone is a Christian or claims such I hold them to a higher standard than non believers. Lots of fakes and liars out there, we’re all hypocrites but some are far worse at it

[@doncorleone2713]

That's right, men have to learn to speak womanese. Controlling: Has boundaries and standards for a relationship. Toxic: He turned me on and regardless of all the crap he put me through I still chased him. Narcissist: Projecting my actual narcissisms. I was young and dumb: I want to be absolved of all accountability.

[@GibDozer1]

When I was still foolish enough to have a dating profile. I had 3 disqualifiers listed: 1. F3manist 2. High body count 3. Weighing more than me So I'm all for a f3minist warning Men off from the jump. Kudos to her for sreamlining the process of avoiding her.

[@cookncrook6902]

Um you didn’t have the biggest disqualifier on there? *No single mothers

[@GibDozer1]

@@cookncrook6902 Not as big a deal in your 40s as they're mostly grown or well on their way. I was on the app for about 2 years after being single for 10. Decided I preferred being a bachelor, but even in those 2 years a vvoman with young kids was an instant pass. I have 3 kids of my own. That said Men without children probably shouldn't date modern single mothers. Unless that Man is incapable of having his own kids and wants a family.

[@WakkoKakko]

Here's another one: Significant personal debt

[@robertr392]

Absolutely, men should appreciate the women "streamlining" the process for us. Tell us all the red flags up front that you're proud of, lol.

[@AndI0td763]

More red flags than a Chinese parade.

[@kimberlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy]

I'm 33 touring 34 next month too! I feel so grateful that God protected me from the lifestyle of God woman. Marriage, homeschool and children is my life, I genuinely mourn for all of the people who are victims of propaganda, and I pray they are led back to truth🙏

[@Juan-os4hs]

When women say young men are immature, it means he played along but didn't commit, and that men are in their 30s and are emotionally unavailable, it means that men no longer play along...

[@BOBANDVEG]

Avg cost to raise a kid is over $300k. So a single mom of 3 is basically asking for $1m lol

[@AmalgamationofMan]

Average cost to raise a kid from birth to 18 is $1,000,000 not 300k

[@ShinobiGambu]

Most men can't even make close to that amount of money. And the men who can make such money, have better options out there.

[@BOBANDVEG]

@@ShinobiGambu had a lady actually list the things she was looking for on tinder. The classic "over 6', figures, nice, educated , blah blah..... I told her guys like that don't need to be on tinder lol. You're on there with other losers like you

[@JB-mg5lw]

@@AmalgamationofMan And I raised three! I do well but yes, kids have taken a ton of my resources, they are all grown now, and my wife and I are now looking towards retirement. In raising our children I still managed to save several million towards retirement. I have no idea how all you young bucks will do it today, it was f'n hard and I have a good woman. Honestly, I think most of you are screwed, not in a good way.

[@kastelvetro1491]

uncle sam has a tinderella himself, her name is auntie samantha, she takes tax collections from all the modern working women to pay single mother bums who carried before they married and where left with another mans mistake, theese women are paying there share today for this, and now women can no longer inspire girls to lift them up and ''come into their own at the wall''

[@clarkkent6927]

They are not worried that they are single they are worried if they can find a man who is rich and will support their lifestyles

[@greyman6353]

It aint the relationship she is missing, its the sponsorship

[@gimusk5667]

"I'm looking for someone more mature" translation - "I'm looking for my retirement package"

[@racebannon96]

Someone that will not tell me NO. Someone with a thick wallet...Someone that will take care of me and will not ask me accountability questions.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

"I'm looking for someone more mature" She says as she applies clownface.

[@kengaroo5170]

Enough money for a divorce.

[@neondystopian]

If these women do not change, they only have two futures. In one, they will begin to freak out, settle for any man that will take them, which will be few and far between, and then spend the rest of their days being passive aggressive toward their partner. In the other, they will never settle and garner an unreasonable anger toward all men. They will more than likely segregate themselves from men, like joining a women's-only senior community, and live out their days with a bunch of cats.

[@charlesford1893]

Well said.

[@IloveElon2]

Why would a man commit to a woman who has already taken some poor sucker for his house, his pension, his dog!

[@curtisdecoste9345]

I love how you hear women bring up “commitment” again and again, when they are the ones initiating 80% of divorces. 😂 You mean short term commitment until you can leave with a few kids and a monthly payment plan?

[@kengaroo5170]

You nailed it. A short term commitment to provide children and enough money to go back to the carousel.

[@DTreatz]

Yep they just want _-insurance-_ I mean "marriage" 😏

[@SuperSaverPlaysSPG]

but it's not their fault, they just want to find themselves

[@kengaroo5170]

They are dogs in heat. No more and no less.

[@bigd3721]

The problem with women over 30, trying to lock down a dude, is now they are desperate. When you are desperate, you usually don’t make the best decisions

[@godoftwinkies574]

Men can smell the desperation.

[@HerculesBallsInc]

Economic theory suggests that if you spend 20% of your available time searching through the options and realistically assessing them, one of the ones you find in that time will be either the best you will ever get or very close to it. In other words, an adult female who reaches the age of 30 and has been actively seeking partners has ALREADY FOUND the best one she is likely to get... and she has already DISCARDED him.

[@KokoFox-n1v]

That's the truth bro

[@ma3stro681]

They rarely make good decisions. That’s why in the past their husband always made the major decisions …

[@edennis8578]

​@@ma3stro681As a woman, I felt like objecting to that statement, but then I remembered female voting patterns. It's demonstrably, obviously true that most women make decisions with their emotions, not with their brain. That way leads to disaster.

[@whiskey_tango_foxtrot__]

It's the same old story...ran through by Chad and Tyrone in their party 304 phase 20s...now looking for a "good man and start a family" in their 30s...and now finding it impossible!

[@clarkkent6927]

And still cheat behind his back

[@lilfairycupcake]

same crap, different vajj.

[@redroversk]

thank god, I suddenly get likes on dating sites in my 30s and I'll never respond because I know they see me as a fool and emergency exit out of their consequences

[@jamesneese7663]

"You cannot make a housewife out of a garden tool. She is not yours. It's just your turn. " Confucius probably

[@lilfairycupcake]

let you pay the bill for their stupidity.@@redroversk

[@kylestockton1827]

That blonde has the serious crazy eyes when she smiles

[@stevepeterson6070]

These women that go on tic-tok complaining that they cannot find a man to marry, wtf. It is super easy (Barely an inconvenience) to get a man at your same level to marry you and give you a happy life. All you have to do is give men the 2 things they want in a wife: 1.) Be 18 years old. and 2.) Be a virgin. If you look for your husband when you are an 18 year old virgin your sexual marketplace value will never be as high again in your life so you'll have your pick of any man (at your level). And any man above your level will only want to sleep with you, so you'll know that he is out of your league if he leaves if you tell him you'll stay a virgin til marriage. Very simple.

[@zacsmith7755]

These women are perfect examples of why men are giving up.

[@ensinitas]

Not giving up...just passing on certain of them. If they have a list of demands ON A FIRST DATE they're already a pian in the ass.

[@diehard01]

I want to hear men everywhere tell these women that nobody owes them anything. That idea really needs to come full circle.

[@djja8844]

We don't owe you attention or sex Yeah, so I don't owe you anything. Stop wasting my time and get out of my way.

[@dddux]

So well put. That's it. 👍

[@ihavethedocuments2580]

The American government will never fail to enable them, but nothing down here lasts forever.

[@JOkERBIDEN]

I just recently got in the dating scene again and I gotta share a new ‘red flag’ I’ve discovered…. TEACHERS! 😳 Doesn’t matter how hot they are….Teachers are WEIRD!

[@MichaelNolen]

Weird because they are Liberals.

[@TruthLives-ee6sf]

Teachers promote pdfile ideology and destroy kids

[@alexmuenster2102]

Disagree! My 11th grade French teacher was A-Number-One! Taught me all about the Subjunctive Mood, and helped me master the fine art of Conjugation!

[@Max_Ohm]

20 years ago I might have disagreed, these days? Colleges are really expensive mental institutions.

[@backwatersandbackroads]

Ultra liberal!

[@Alakazzam09]

Does she not understand how awful she is being, or does she understand just fine and is cool with it?

[@jasonthompson3767]

Her multiple years of being sexually active. LOL....her multiple years of being run through by chad, NOW she wants a husband.

[@JohnVKaravitis]

Hey, that guy in the red dress, his gender reassignment surgery turned out great!

[@nigelchew1890]

😅😅😅

[@Okunniger_Volker]

😂😂 Savage!

[@starguy2718]

I shouldn't be laughing, but... 😄😄😄

[@clarencemcglynn114]

Bahahahaha! Dylan M's other brother!

[@Midwest10]

I thought the same thing

[@mrdark9916]

By "I want to be married and have kids" what she REALLY MEANS is that she wants to be taken care of via alimony and child support after the divorce. ROFL 😂... And her friend that's gonna come save her, is probably ALREADY a divorced single mother recieving alimony and child support, encouraging her to "get that bag queen"

[@kastelvetro1491]

''level up'' ''manifest''' lmao, uncle sam has a tinderella himself, her name is auntie samantha, she takes tax collections from all the modern working women to pay single mother bums who carried before they married and where left with another mans mistake, theese women are paying there share today for this, and now women can no longer inspire girls to lift them up and ''come into their own at the wall''

[@MAte925]

Exactly!

[@tomkelly3896]

So true

[@nathanalgren5247]

Simple math: over 30 + still dating = Red Flag🚩

[@williamsisk2897]

To sum it up a first date for a 30+ woman is an interview, not a date.

[@joeshmoe7899]

At that age, the conversation is: do u spit or swallow. But, the high risk of disease isn't worth it.

[@Qrisqornellfan]

For the woman in red, hopefully a family member of hers will see this and get her some help.

[@kevinpeterwareham8131]

Beyond help unfortunately.

[@OldSaltyBear]

When a female friend in her mid 30s questioned why men are so allergic to marrying a women her age, I explained it like this... Which would a woman rather have... 1. A man who has decent income when she marries him but his income quickly declines immediately after. 2. A man who is doing well when she marries him and his income stays steady, or even improves, for ten to fifteen years before starting to decline. She chose #2. I then told her to substitute the words man with woman and income with attractiveness and fertility. The light bulb went on... and then she immediately started sobbing.... realizing that at her age, she would have to hit the gym VERY hard to give a man ten to fifteen years of attractiveness yet there was nothing she could do to maintain her fertility in that time.

[@jamesneese7663]

Nah. That enlightenment is only temporary. Women's egos and hoeflation are so huge these days that every women thinks she's a 10 no matter her age, tonnage, body count, and/or kid(s).

[@pepitodegranolax]

A woman hitting the gym is not a woman, she's like a man.

[@doctordetroit4339]

There is the problem. It's hard for men to imagine what it must be like to be a woman. You are born...told all your life how special pretty and wonderful you are (schools, media, parents, entertainment)....men give you attention once you start getting fat in the right places automatically...no effort required for the first say....25 years of your life? And then throw in the lack of logic and use of emotionality in the female brain. Can you blame them for being surprised at the obvious when they hit 30?

[@autarko]

I'm surprised she self reflected rather than snapping back at you.

[@Angelica._.officalll]

hilarious

[@Silux_Ray]

Remember folks, marriage is where men’s dreams go to die

[@BobbyGeneric145]

Hundred percent. Honestly when I see a guy in his 30s with a kunt wife and insane todlers I just laugh and go on about my amazing single life. Escorts for the win.

[@krzysztofnowakowski75]

I can attest to this 😢

[@HerculesBallsInc]

Surveys of happiness show that on average men are happier after divorce than they were before they were married. The same is true for women. The difference is that men are much less happy when married and women much more. This is why I encourage everyone to marry and divorce quickly to increase happiness globally and at no one's expense. Yay!

[@ma3stro681]

😂😂😂 Should be on a t-shirt

[@socialisttrafficregulator2015]

Amen to that, brother. 19 years in, almost 4 years out. Still have to divorce the bum with boobs.

[@vallishuff9062]

If a girl ask me if I'm emotionally available I would run,there's no such thing

[@richardscathouse]

Probably the only time i'd pull out my phone at the table.. To look that one up. 😂😂😂

[@ryanleed2250]

Mankind needs to find a way to convert female psychosis into a clean, reliable and never ending source of energy. It could meet our energy needs for eternity.

[@BryanBalak]

Woman: "How come no one talks about..." Men: "We have talked about it. We told you why. You don't like the answer. The answer isn't going to change if you keep acting like that isn't the truth when it is."

[@greyman6353]

Women’s feelings create a barrier that science and reason cannot penetrate. We are probably just a few steps from women jumping off buildings because they feel gravity is a social construct used by men to oppress women and therefore they can ignore it

[@benprins8240]

Hmmm why am I single she asks. Sigh. A few things immediately come to mind: tons of attitude, horrible behavior, expectations, complaining, kids, bs and we don't care. Thanks Taylor 😊

[@JackTheRabbitMusic]

Her “flower garden” is more like Long Island at low tide 😂😂😂

[@mpa8336]

Bright colors in nature, can indicate toxicity- snakes, plants...

[@vinciblewarrior6431]

I dated an older woman once. 10.5 years older to be exact. It ended because I had to remind her daily that she was not my mother and did not have any authority to tell me what to do.

[@uriandropov8039]

Men, hold the line 💪💪.

[@AA-xk1uv]

Its not something to be proud about. The society is collapsing if men women don't learn to engage.

[@Jart727]

Love isn't always on time

[@ralpherl5657]

The majority of girls 30+ I met on Hinge had zero baby rabies. They thought they had all the time in the world however. Also they were rude and full of themselves yet they were all broke cuz they spend their money on junk they can't actually afford

[@ralpherl5657]

@@muchadoaboutkovu congrats 🥳🙌🏻

[@SawseeSauce]

@@Joetoy90people often forget that it is completely ok for women to not want to birth children. It is also completely ok for a woman to want to birth children.

[@AlchemicalForge91]

imagine a guy writing a book called 50 Flags of Red lmao

[@briantaulbee6452]

That's not a half bad idea for real

[@garylancaster8612]

You should do that.

[@aude2sapere]

I would read that!

[@cheeseburgersuperior1874]

I wish grandma would stop an attempt of dating

[@jameshoopes6467]

No, you’re completely wrong. I don’t wait for her to “go pay for parking.” About 30 seconds into this rant, I put a finger up, politely ask her to hang on just a minute, walk out to my car and drive away, counting my blessings for having that bullet miss me.

[@kenshiro3321]

Ladies, you can keep your drama & student loans, and I'll prefer to keep my sanity and peace of mind

[@HonkHonkler]

Yep GTA IV > Women

[@THX5000]

1st lady: That's a hard pass for me.

[@redroversk]

with a lot of these chicks, if they just got a good guy young, he'd stick with her through her 30s and 40s, instead it's 10-15 years of chaos as soon as they discover sex and then they're withered, eggless spinsters living the cat life

[@eugenemichael2362]

Lady. ? That’s generous

[@snidecommenter7117]

"I have never come to completion solely by having an eggplant in my flower garden." I wonder how many 'gardeners' she has had work her 'flower garden'.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

Not to mention, she's basically talking about the female version of ED... Ma'am, see a doctor.

[@Concerned.Citizen]

​@Okunniger_Volker lol what? Most women can't orgasm solely from vaginal stimulation, it's not female ED 🤦 The problem with her analogy is that it lets us know that she had sex with a bunch of guys who didn't care at all whether she enjoyed it or not. It's the same as when women say "men can't find the clit" or anything like that They're just admitting that they gave it up to a bunch of guys who didn't care about them at all

[@SlagNasty]

She mentions "years" of sexual activity.

[@pneumaticFrequency]

She has an array of heavy diggers and tools that no mere mortal can compete with

[@ryanlorance6168]

@@pneumaticFrequencya whole bag of unicorn horns

[@Foolsjoker]

I'd have left the second she started talking. She wasn't waving a red flag, she was wearing it.

[@PeterIvanov-b8j]

Taylor! Magnificent comedy show. Love to watch your program when I'm feeling down about anything

[@isambo400]

Did she just admit she’s going to divorce him in 10 years

[@redpillscience1288]

Basically vetting out simps to retire her.

[@chadthunderkawk1650]

Hilarious how they all sound like jaded salesmen. "What's the problem?" Why don't you want this awful deal? You don't want to pay half your earnings for the rest of your life for used goods? This car looks great for having only 350k miles on it, bruih! What's wrong with you, bruh?" Dudes seeing their TCS, filters masking age, vulgar talk, carousel trauma, entitlement, selfishness, best years long gone, lack of awareness, arrogance, girl power ideologies, and lack of pair bonding ability: "No thanks. I'm going to keep playing these videos games, hitting the gym, and pursuing my dreams."

[@kokonanana1]

You want to use this toothbrush after 20 others have used it first???

[@mgtowbylogic5592]

Don’t even ask her what she wants to eat. She should be asking you what she can cook for you.

[@manchu9inf]

there are 3 categories; 1. for fun only, 2. for commitment, 3. avoid at all costs.

[@TempOne-vh4fd]

Her eyebrows are outta control.

[@starguy2718]

Her pet caterpillars?

[@tonflo1]

​@@starguy27182 wooly bears

[@TempOne-vh4fd]

@@tonflo1 do not insult the bears. they didn't deserve that. bears are useful and necessary to the environment. She is only necessary for simps and bears eat simps and then they get sick from all the self loathing. lol

[@dakotad97]

Got to love how they always explain why they are still single indirectly.

[@djja8844]

Irony goes over their heads

[@rogerhuggettjr.7675]

Let's admit that any woman that won't be a cheerleader for her man is worthless. A woman expects a certain level of accomplishment from her man. Why would she not be interested in building him up for success? NFL athletes are not low value men, yet they have cheerleaders to motivate them. If a woman is too important to be excited about her man she should stay alone and not let her apathy bring a man down.

[@RobertMorgan]

Just like if I loved a woman and was committed to her, I'd probably stand up for her even behind her back, and I'd want the same. My friend says something like "Your wife is kinda a bitch"...maybe so, but don't call her that. Just like if her friends started talking shit, she's like "Hey, don't talk about my husband/our business like that". Unfortunately most people are the opposite.

[@Foreverfreeusa]

RobertMorgan- Not only will she not defend you, she will outright criticize you to everyone. Every married woman I've talked to dogged on her husband.

[@KokoFox-n1v]

Exactly mate

[@dsimpson530]

What these women don't realize is they don't bring really anything to the table beyond looks and sex. My wife compliments my deficiencies and I compliment hers. We're a united TEAM.

[@blackmendosa]

@@Foreverfreeusa Same here except for one or two execptions that were definitely in their husbands camp. Good women those and makes me sad I'll probably never find one like them lol. Area I live in is either junkies or wahmanists.

[@rufusmcgee4383]

I was listening on the radio to a woman trying to date the most Chad of Chads. On their first date, he literally took her to a poker game (without telling her) because she was attractive and might distract the other players. After standing around for TWO HOURS while he played poker, she finally got tired and left. He ghosted her, but she persisted and got him on the radio. He said attractive women were a dime a dozen to him and he made a killing that night. She started crying because she meant absolutely nothing to him. Just like the thousands of ordinary good men she ignored meant absolutely nothing to her. After all that, she still wanted to date him. Because he's hot. But don't call her shallow.