Focusing on yourself is too simplistic. Because no matter how hard you do that, and nothing ever comes, then why should I continue to try?
@studentofphysicalcultureАй бұрын
@@VazJazz96 Because what's the alternative? You have options, life isn't over. You may even want to consider going abroad.
@VazJazz96Ай бұрын
@ I’ve always considered that. But I don’t have the money right now. I know I know. Excuses. But I’d rather have money overseas than be broke overseas
@studentofphysicalcultureАй бұрын
@@VazJazz96You have options believe me. You can talk to people on things like a language application overseas (a lot of them aren't actually looking to learn a language). I didn't even start having the slightest bit of luck with dating until I was 25 years old. But overall I've had better experiences dating foreign women, for whatever reason. But regardless, you should at least try and improve your situation, whatever it may be. Whether that be getting in better shape, a haircut and the way you carry yourself throughout life, or your job, It's not too late.
@VazJazz96Ай бұрын
I also paid for it, if I’m correct what you’re talking about. Don’t. I regret it every day and I feel gross cause of it. It doesn’t help. Honestly, maybe I’m too hard on myself but nothing seems to work for me.
@scorgi0Ай бұрын
Maybe you need to try to work better on yourself just for you and not so itll attract women. Because no offense but clearly you still sound pretty insecure. Don’t just try to be a best version of yourself so you can have honeys chasing you, be a best version of yourself for YOU. When people especially women see that you’re self proclaimed within yourself they find a spark in interest.
@A_Mystery_Man20 күн бұрын
It's all just a mindset. I did the same when I was 19. Next, I got with big girls to build my confidence and slowly I increased the level of girl that I got with. You just have to understand that the idealistic fantasy love you think exists, doesn't. It's literally people picking people because they're good looking and the good assessment leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy of good vibes and charisma.