RETIREMENT A PROBLEM SOLVED | Why We Sold Our House

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[@theglobalvagabond3074]

My father recently passed away. He downsized his life 25 years ago and moved into a small apt building in Port Townsend, Wa. steps from the water. He would walk along the beach, ride his tric to the grocery store, and take the Ferry just because it was a nice day. Without question, I never saw him stressed out about anything since he downsized. Quite honestly, I didn't understand why he did it. Back then, most should have been doing downsizing at McDonalds, considering how most people look today ( I digress). He would always say that he had found the perfect lifestyle. Carefree & stress-free. It took me a few decades to fully grasp what he was saying. Thank you for your videos.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Your dad obviously enjoyed a lovely life with his decision, we agree completely selling our home and renting is the best thing we have done , glad you are enjoying our videos Cheers 🍷🇺🇸🍺🇨🇦

[@megnicholls9931]

Awesome idea. My mum moved into a retirement village and my dad died and she loved it. I don't understand people living in a huge family home after their kids have left home. Smaller home equals less stuff and way more free time for fun stuff🙂💕

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We agree and it frees up a family home for another young family. Thanks for watching.

[@texaspatty4697]

My grandmother was a widow and had to work. She lived in a very humble basement studio apt., and kept house for an older lady upstairs. She had me come stay with her for a week every summer. We ate out, went to the movies, and visited nearby cousins. She also sewed for me. She had almost nothing material, but the memories are still clear, and wonderful.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

How wonderful for you to have those memories, people who are content have found the secret of life.

[@bw5277]

Sold our older house when we retired. Invested some of the proceeds in tech stocks. All the bedrooms were upstairs so we knew it would be a problem down the road. Moved to an apartment very close to man made lake, market, small restaurants, etc We walk 3 to 4 miles daily. Also, use small gym and pools on site. No more home repairs, maintenance, association fees, etc. Like that apartment is on ground floor. Travel often, without having to worry about the house. Lock the front door and go. Enjoy your channel.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks so much 🙂

[@Szaroptka]

Our chlldren are adults and they always come to us for Christamas and Easter and many other occasions, with grandchildren and friends, despite they have a house of their own, so everybody is different.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Yes we are

[@GraceCanadaful]

It is a smart thing to have this channel. You are a very nice couple!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thank you so much!

[@RVAmerica]

Almost 3 years ago we went ahead and sold our big house in downsized to a condo. It is in a retirement community. Although we don't plan on hanging around a lot the next few years, we do think it will be a great place as we age. They are always getting together and doing things. Last summer during covid they would rotate driveways and everyone would bring their own lawn chair, and set socially distant so they could still enjoy one another's company. I thought it was wonderful. Thanks for sharing! Lynn and Danny

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s one of the benefits we also enjoy community activities, last summer people sat out on lawn chairs and had coffee, our swimming 🏊‍♀️ pool is about to open very excited, the gym is already open . Thanks for dropping by have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🌸🍺

[@SilverTurtle65]

Great to see you living your plans, too many people waiting around and never end up doing anything.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We are having a great time in our retirement, we have also met some wonderful new friends in the building and now have our trailer to look forward too . Enjoy your weekend Cheers 🍺🌸🍷

[@ericnorthman9410]

I love minimalism. I am in the process to sell the house and I don't want to bring Anything with me. No more dragging things around with me. The cost to drag the old stuff with you isn't worth it. When I figure out where I want to be I'll buy a few new items - just what I need - that's all.. no mounds of clutter. Having the minimum is freedom ...

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We did all the decluttering to downsize but we didn’t do enough, we still brought a bit much to our new apartment , working on getting rid of that now as we can’t travel LOL 😂😂 enjoy your day 🍺

[@juliamundt101]

We are early retired in our 50s, and selling our family home if 21 yrs in June. We gave ourselves 6 months to tackle all the deferred maintenance projects, but we see the end of the tunnel. We plan to move into a MIL suite with our adult daughter and her family for up to a year while we seek a new smaller home in another state. So glad we are doing it. De cluttering is so freeing.

[@freddyeltigre2327]

I did the same, left everything with the people who bought our home, When your up there in years , Do You Really Care about Material Things.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@juliamundt101 We felt the same we wish you well with your new adventures, enjoy your weekend Cheers 🍺🌺🍷

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@freddyeltigre2327 No you don’t great plan to leaves our stuff with the new buyer LOL 😂😂have a great weekend Cheers 🍺🌺🍷

[@wytang8517]

Thank you for your sharing. I just feel like I have two more friends now.

[@JenShea]

Everyone has to make their own choices... it’s good to be informed of choices they may not have even thought of. A friend of mine did what you did. She and her husband sold their home in California, kept some items, gave sentimental items to their kids and they started traveling full time... and visited their kids when they went back to the states. She was a writer and wrote a terrific book about their seniors adventures. They were very happy and when he eventually slowed down, they built a house they would rent on AirBnB when they were away. One thing, I’ve only learned in recent years, is that there are no rules... we get to live our lives by our own choices. Take care Tina & Norm. Have a lovely Sunday. Cheers 🥂 🍻 🍷

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

H Jen so many times in our lives we have choices and different people make different choices. That’s wonderful what your friends did , we are looking forward to our new trailer hopefully May 1st Have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🌺🍷🍺

[@hissyfitz7890]

Different strokes for different folks... Am enjoying ‘homeownership’ in retirement; finally have time to putter indoors & out which keeps me in touch with nature & provides exercise! Cut first batch of lettuce this morning, looking forward to another bountiful veggie season. Adding perennials throughout the property that are drought tolerant in order to cut back on maintenance & ecological stress of a lawn. Lovely to view this ever changing canvas each year. AND... we have pets; 9 at present. Doubt an apartment complex would permit that. For us, it seems like there are so many RULES already; moving to a condominium, apartment, gated community or a neighborhood association would be heartbreaking. 💔 We also love our privacy; it is a sanctuary from the world. When socialization is needed, art galleries, shopping malls, adult education classes, senior centers, etc. are available. We have no human children; simply require our own safe space. Am happy you have made the right choice for yourselves.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for sharing we can’t all share the same ideas Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@reenie4299]

I have a little house, in a small town, on the shores of Lake Erie. There is a main floor bedroom and full bath in the house. The library is next door, the post office, grocery store and LCBO are within 2 blocks. And the lake and marina are less than 10 km due south. This is my "growing old" house. If I should be so lucky to have grandchildren, I hope they enjoy coming to visit grandma at the Lake.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That sounds wonderful we hope you have a great Easter 🐣 weekend Cheers 🍺🍷🌺🐣

[@malinowka6846]

@Maureen Ridgeway ? Sounds like my neighborhood

[@davisholman6518]

I have a very hot summer to go through here in Arizona. I would love to spend the summer by a lake in Michigan - your place sounds perfect!👍

[@reenie4299]

@@davisholman6518 I envy you in January though lol

[@debbied9997]

Excellent! My husband has retired early at 55 and we sold our house in California, moved to our house in Oregon to be by our adult daughter and son-in-law, and helped them buy a house themselves. Now we are looking for a beach property for the same reason you mentioned, gives us all a place to go relax and just enjoy each other's company. We did keep one rental property in CA because the rent we collect is good income. People here in the states always dream of moving away to Florida or some Caribbean beach town, but the truth is you should retire where family is and create new experiences for everyone.

[@yolandacastillo6312]

Change is good. I love your suggestions. I work in the funeral industry and see children left trying to get rid of their stuff when they pass.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We are sure that is so true , Thanks for watching have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🌻🌞

[@maximac222]

@yolanda castillo I have experienced that with the death of my mother's siblings. She inherited stuff and brought it home and when we moved her to assisted living, I had to empty her house of all that stuff and her stuff. And I've downsized into a 1000 sq foot cabin and do not have room for stuff. I can relate.

[@byronkerby6897]

Thank you, Tina and Norm for your wonderful videos. You are both an inspiration and your positivity is contagious. We have lost our ability to "attract" our adult children with an RV by a lake in a resort or the prospect of an inheritance. Consequently, we do not get to see them or our grandchildren anymore. However, one of our siblings, who has successfully managed to acquire the necessary financial resources, has access to our adult children & grandchildren. The lesson is: If you lose your money, you might also lose your adult children & grandchildren, depending on the family dynamics. If that happens, get professional help with the grief and loss, as well as moving forward without them. We are not the only ones this has happened to, so we hope our sharing this side of it might help someone out there. Cheers! 🙂

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for highlighting this problem Byron, it is all too common.

[@michaelchristophergutierre7244]

Like Jesus said, "if they were with us , they would have stayed" .This is a western phenomenon, you don't see this in Asia or Latin America. Jesus also said, God forgive them for what they have done" Your adult children are cutting you out of their lives is heartbreaking but happens more than not in American culture . Godspeed.

[@CowboyJojosAdventures]

People have attachments to their homes. Thats right, it was the norm to drop into a friends home without notice, but times have changed. We had a saying "Saw your light on, thought I would drop in". Times have changed. I have no problem in selling our home in time and down sizing. It also means freeing some of your own capital. Your lakeside home is a great way of bringing your family together. You make new memories when you move on. Even a picnic in the park. Great upload Tina and Norm, thank you for sharing. 👍🏽🤗🙏🏽

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Peter and JoJo you are right times have changed , yes in selling the house also gives you money to invest for retirement. Absolutely you got it 🧐when you move on you make new memories and adventures , we have done that with the apartment and now looking forward to our trailer memories actually we are very excited more so than when we went on a big Cruise 🚢 LOL 😂😂. Lovely to hear from you both , hope you are keeping well have a great week Cheers 🌺🍺🍷🌞

[@nathancook8325]

Retirement could be no joy if you didn't save enough before retiring.I retired at and have saved $ 1.11 million over the years of my investment. and I'm grateful to God that at least I retired in good health.

[@CowboyJojosAdventures]

@@nathancook8325 well done Nathan

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

I understand these issues. I am age 70 and my husband is 75 and we have faced many of these issues as well. We had a 2,800 sq. ft. home on 5-acre with outbuildings and an in the ground pool with three bedroom and you are right...children move other states where the jobs are and children DO NOT come back the same way the other generations used to. Add to this if you are divorced and remarried like we are ....that ads up to another layer of managing financially in retirement. We bought into a small condo (w/29 owners) and this is working for us. This gives us a step-up the property ladder to make up for losing our assets at the time of our earlier divorce. This condo asset will give us additional money to live on later on in our life when we end up selling it and moving into a tiny low-cost senior apartment in the future. A second recreational property is not for us...- added costs, added maintenance etc. I co-owned a cottage for 14 years and the costs almost broke us. Our retirement advisor said, "DO NOT rent an apt. or a home....you need an asset that will grow." So we bought a very nice condo in a resort/tourist area that is highly desirable and goes up in value approx. $100,000 every ten years. I just made sure that the roof had already been replaced and that the condo HOA fees are reasonable. We are doing MUCH better financially since we moved here 2 1/2 years ago. We have many parks, the state park beach, lots of hiking trials, the bike path a great senior center in a senior friendly community with many senior services. This was the right move for us....

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for sharing your story and you are right everybody’s life is different, it’s great that you sought professional advice and sounds like a wonderful plan you have in place .Sounds like a really nice are you live in where you can go for nice walks and enjoy life. Hope you have a great weekend Cheers 🌺🍷🍺

[@ld4122]

May I ask, what state are you enjoying your condo in?

[@shabashabadoo3899]

We always go to our retired people’s homes as they got over as it’s harder for them to travel.

[@SimonEllwood]

Renting in the UK is too expensive in retirement. The rent will keep going up and you have no security.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We are very fortunate that we have rent control in Ontario with the increase not more than 2% , hope you have a great week Cheers 🍷🇬🇧🍺🇨🇦

[@vincequiquero5869]

I agree with many of the other comments here about agreeing with you sound advice, but at the same time find the concept terrifying. So many what if’s. In my case, I am a widower, and guilt washes over me in terms of selling my home and somehow abandoning memories my wife and I shared raising our children here. The decision to sell is economically sound, but emotionally shaky. I admire your courage. Thanks for the blogs. Keep them coming. Most importantly cherish the priceless blessings, having each other to share them with ❤️

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Vince we haven’t experienced what you have so feel unable to helpfully comment we appreciate you watching our videos and your support, it’s a difficult decision you have perhaps have a conversation with your children to discuss it . The weather is getting warmer so a sign Spring is on the way we hope you have a nice weekend ATB 🍷🍺🌺

[@gailbradford305]

Spot on points that sometimes younger people don’t always realize. Further the big family home continues to require more and more upkeep as it ages that we don’t want to or can’t do. Mostly it is the stuff... we end up with our stuff and part of the kids stuff that they can’t store, our needs are fewer with a lot less stuff. I say hooray, do it.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Gail couldn’t agree more with you , it’s amazing even if a home is mortgage free how much the costs of home ownership are . We have far less stress renting and enjoying our freedom a lot more Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@juliamundt101]

My parents raised 12 kids in a huge 5 bedroom colonial home. Even when my mother could no longer climb the stairs, still they stayed put. The 30+ years of deferred maintenance made it a money pit for any serious buyer so the estate took a huge loss. Mom kept the house for visits, but we stayed at a siblings’ home, not theirs.

[@DeborahCaldwell77]

Oh excellent advice. I’m 81now, still energetic and FADING FAST and he’s faded for sure. Your advice and stories are relevant to reality.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for watching we Are trying to be real just telling how it is Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@craigo2142]

I'm 65 and sold my home in 2007. Best decision ever. I retired at that time and have traveled ever since. I can stay any where I want. As long or as short as I want. I've had so many great experiences and met so many interesting people and seen many things. I don't have to worry about "things at home" since home is where I'm at. I don't have a storage unit full of stuff waiting for me nor a car to worry about. Footloose and loving it. I visit family/friends when I want and they are happy to host. Do it now and "make experiences happen and not dream about what you aren't/didn't do". Make home your life and not a place.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds like you are living your dream which is great lots of freedom thanks for watching and have a great week Cheers 🍷🍺🍷

[@hipmoma]

but traveling has become such a drag with covid rules and regulations...

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Yes it has we aren’t doing any international travel till at least 2022 , exploring close to home and Canada 🇨🇦 is a great place to do that Cheers 🌺🍷🍺

[@brendalalonde2417]

Thanks again for your videos. I am always learning. I want to sell my home. At this point my fear of the unknown and living in apartment scare me. On a brighter note, I am declutteling as you mentioned. What a weight off my shoulders. Should have done this sooner.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Making change does come with an element of fear of the unknown , however you can look at it as an exciting adventure for a new part of your life . We would say 90% of the people in our building have all sold a house invested the money and come here to rent . Decluttering is great and a big part , it took us 18 months before we actually sold our house . We hope you have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@cricketbaxter1608]

I’ve lived in apartments and never knew anyone in my building. Living in a home we know our neighbours and all the dog owners in the neighborhood. I also don’t like not being able to change my place to suit my needs. During the pandemic it’s nice to have our own yard too. Can never imagine going back to apartment living

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We are all different and at different stages of life. Thanks for watching.

[@cdnsilverdaddy]

Different stages of life

[@howellwong11]

I moved around so much in my working years that I finally got to own a house when I retired. I am like you, Cricket Baxter. It is much cheaper than renting and you have total control. The only down side is that I need help in maintaining my house and yard at my advanced age.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@cdnsilverdaddy Very true TFW 🍷🌺

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@howellwong11 We did the maths and there was only $100 difference to the house or renting. But we now don’t have to worry about maintenance, gardening, snow blowing, and have met some wonderful new friends and we are all helping each other through this Covid Pandemic. Enjoy your weekend Cheers 🌺🐣🍺🍷

[@donliepert7763]

So glad we subscribed to your channel. Retirement is confusing and it's nice to find a place for discussion. Thanks for doing this :-)

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Awesome! Thank you! Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@gracealmirante8749]

Your channel has inspired us on how to plan our retirement. We are in our early 40s living in Ontario too. We learned a lot from your videos and seems we’ve watched most of it 😀 and we look forward for your new uploads! Your advices are simple, practical and do make perfect sense. Wish you all the best and please keep inspiring people! 🤗

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You are very welcome we are so glad you enjoy our videos we appreciate your support , it’s nice that just telling our story helps others plan their future. Have an awesome weekend Cheers 🌺🍺🍷

[@eigobike3929]

Your approach is so normal, reasoned and worthwhile

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks we appreciate your support glad you liked it Cheers 🌞☕️

[@judymckee5992]

I lived in a condo in a 55+ community and it is fun. So much activities , even now and so inexpensive. Century Village deerfieldbeach florida.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds like a great plan thanks for sharing have a great week Cheers 🌸🍷🌞

[@jeanpauljeanpaul2530]

In order to avoid a special assessment fee for a condominium corporation, you need to purchase one that is well run, and with a significant reserve fund. statistically, extraordinary assessments occur infrequently.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for your interesting comment 🧐have a great weekend Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@sandypatten7743]

Any recommendations where a good all season trailer park or mobile home area is in the gta?

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@sandypatten7743 We find using Google is the best for finding things out . Just put in the area you are looking at , enjoy your weekend Cheers 🌺🍷🌸

[@sheilaenglish3293]

You’re right and that’s something that many prospective condo buyers don’t look into. They only think about not having to cut the grass and shovel the snow and don’t seem to realize how condo rules, governance and fees work.

[@snowggirl]

I want to stay in my home in Canada as long as possible. Great neighborhood and neighbours who I can chat with ( or not ) . The idea of community living is definitely not something I want. Some people love their privacy and do not relish the idea of shared spaces. What you described would be my worst nightmare.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s the great thing we are all individuals, and makes for an interesting world. Thanks for watching and commenting, have a nice weekend.

[@bonghungk7544]

I concur with you.

[@libbyannstew8775]

Norm and Tina, I’m so glad I found your channel. Such timely considerations and advice as my husband and I start planning for full retirement. I totally agree with your analysis about condominiums. I know so many people who have been run out of their buildings because of steep hikes in condo fees. For folks on a fixed income - or those who don’t’ want to leave upwards of $500/month in a condo board’s hands - condos are not the way to go. Keep on doing what you’re doing - loving your insights!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You are so welcome! we hope you have a great week Cheers 🌺🍺🍷

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@A.B Probably higher but just remember you still have to pay property taxes as well as the Condo Fee Cheers 🍷😎🌺

[@dougschemmel99]

U2 are a lovely couple. You remind me of my grandparents, totally in love with each other.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for watching and a lovely comment have an awesome weekend Cheers 🌺🍷🍺

[@colinf1691]

Great video Tina&Norm! We have followed the same path as you have. Sold the house in in the burbs, rent a condo downtown GTA and spend the summers at our cottage in New Brunswick. Now we see our grandson almost every day and all of our adult children plan their summer holidays around beds-aces at the cottage.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sound like a great plan and you get to see your Grandson too , have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@leschurchill804]

This is very true, but when my parents were alive, no matter where we lived, we always went back to my parent's home for all holidays and occasions. Sometimes, we only got to see anyone when they came over to my parents house. When my parents passed away (which it has been several years now), everybody scattered to the four corners of the earth and have not been seen since. It truly was the glue that kept us together, but at the time we didn't know it, until reality struck. Now, we only get emails, skypes, and/or an occasional call, but not one visit and that was before the pandemic. Thus, there are many views on this subject and everyone is different. You are right the USPS man, Amazon driver and/or the repairman are not your friends. Ms. L. Churchill

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Wow what wonderful memories you have of all getting together, things change and although technology brings lots of good things it takes away the visit in person which is priceless 🌺Have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍺🍷🌸

[@peterhoward408]

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[@californiadreamer5968]

My story is exactly the same. Mom was the glue. When she passed away the six grown kids slowly lost contact. Four of us live in the same town. I’m the youngest and I keep wondering how I’ll know when one of us passes. I’m retiring this year. Hoping I get more time and emotional energy to make contact again.

[@shieh.4743]

I absolutely love myth #1. This is so so so true. I'm 42 with 2 small children and I really wish my parents would.sell their home and live more comfortably.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thank you we are just sharing our experiences but pretty much think some others might benefit from the ideas. Thanks for watching.

[@66block84]

I am getting close to 69, retired at close to 66. I sold my house & bought a townhouse. It's great to not have to mow the lawn, shovel the driveway, etc., but my neighbors are at times very noisy. I should have stayed in my house.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds great not having to mow and shovel but 😢 sorry about the noisy neighbours, guess there are Pros and Cons with all changes hopefully the Pros are greater for you have a great day Cheers 🍺🍷🌞

[@kwclove7623]

I totally understand! That’s my concern too. The noise drives me crazy... 😆😔

[@66block84]

@@kwclove7623 Quiet comes at a price.

[@CallowG]

Plus it's easier to travel if you don't need a house-sitter.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s a great point 👍also people don’t realize for home insurance you have to have someone check your home every 24 or 48 hours 😱especially in Canada 🇨🇦 In Winter 🥶 Have a great week and TFW Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@eyesontheprize6637]

I love you guys! Thank you for doing these videos. I was recently thinking to myself, I wish elderly people would share their experiences. This is so much better than I could have ever imagined. Thanks again.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You are so welcome! glad you are enjoying our videos we appreciate your support have a great day Cheers 🍷🌻🍁🍺

[@marymarymillidweeb2661]

Hey! who are you calling elderly?! I think the correct term is "seasoned" ! 😂

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@marymarymillidweeb2661 Maybe Mature 🤔at least they loved the video LOL 😂😂🌺

[@michaelchristophergutierre7244]

First chad, God bless you for helping Jerry out. God bless Jerry and his new lease on life ❤

[@juliamundt101]

Where we live, single family housing is scarce. 25 yrs ago when we were looking to buy we were frustrated the family homes were occupied by retirees who never left. 20+ yrs later we are delighted to be selling our paid for home so others can experience the dream of home ownership we enjoyed for our family.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Great kind of like the circle of life enjoy your week Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Yes you get it congratulations, why would two retirees need our three bedroom 2,000+ sq ft home. Same could be said for retiring from your job to let younger people have that promotion.Thanks for watching we appreciate it.

[@sarahthompson5066]

You bring up some very valid points. I never looked at our housing this way but I myself have thought "I wish my parents had a vacation property they could have left us" (We had to downsize their main home, the house they lived in 50+ years, and sell it. It was an extraordinary amount of work). My husband and I have debated what to do. I like your solution and it is so obvious, I can't imagine why I never thought of it. Thanks for suggesting it and we will seriously consider it in our retirement plan.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Your very welcome Sarah and thanks for watching Cheers 🌺🙂🍷

[@allieshaw2531]

I'm 54 but I couldn't agree with you more!! Plant to sell the family home and rent and get a recreational property by 65 (or sooner).

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds like a great plan we were 58 and 60 took early retirement 5 years ago and just got our new trailer and so looking forward to it this year . This Covid has made us all look at things differently no more International travel so wow 🤩 got a trailer and we will love our home country of Canada 🇨🇦. Have an awesome weekend Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@tfcompleteprivate6312]

Trying to get my wife to sell our large home that just the 2 of us live in. It’s been tough but this may help. Love the trailer idea! We bought a sprinter RV and just returned from a month trip to Florida and want to do it more!!!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@tfcompleteprivate6312 That sounds great your Sprinter RV and trip , we have never looked back selling the house 🏡 and renting Hope our video helps convince your wife , our next one this Saturday might really be helpful LOL 😂🍀have a great day 🍺🍀🍷

[@hipmoma]

I'm 55 and buying my first home in Florida. Sick and tired of living in a rental apartment and having noisy neighbors and people telling me what type of pet to have or who to sublet to. And in 12 years renting my apartment I have thrown down the drain over $200,000 to help my landlord pay off his mortgage.

[@bonghungk7544]

@@hipmoma you’re being honest. I’m speaking from my own experiences with people who live in apartments often times they’ll only sing the virtues of living in apartments and deny anything negative you say about it. However if you spend long enough time with them in their apartments and you don’t value their friendship you can point out the negatives like the noisy neighbors or smelly cooking or bumping into nosy neighbors to them.

[@martyjovan347]

I rather have my own house. If I need to down size I’d live in a smaller home either owning it or renting it. I’m not into forced superficial conversations or small talk living in apartments running into neighbours when I step out of my flat. I’ve noticed those lift buttons I hope they clean them regularly especially with this corona virus going around same applies for the common front door entrances. I enjoy mainly having no one above me or below me or next to me. It’s my home 🏡 literally.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

They do clean the elevators regularly during the day, we use an object to press the buttons and have hand covering for doors. Not everyone engages in small talk. We can travel in winter with no worries about sump pumps or furnace failures. We don’t need someone coming into your house every 24 to 48 hours in winter checking for damage (Insurance policy). Living in an apartment during the pandemic has made us more aware of personal protection. PST is on the weirdest things too many to generalize. Thanks for watching and commenting.

[@bonghungk7544]

I couldn’t agree with you more. Even if they cleaned the front doors and elevator buttons it’s still not foolproof. I can see what you’re driving at I don’t like passing by neighbors without a forced greeting even if I don’t feel like doing so and if I don’t say hi I feel guilty or like an eel.

[@helengarrett6378]

Where I live, nobody talks to you at all in my building. Can't make friends at al. So, don't worry about h as t at all, even if you are a chatty and friendly person.l

[@bonghungk7544]

@@helengarrett6378 sounds like a miserable place to be living. If that was the case I’d prefer to live in a small bungalow or place myself. Hang in there and keep smiling.

[@kwclove7623]

If privacy is important to you, don’t got to an apartment or condo situation with a large population in a small area. I thought I could make it work, it’s freaking torture! 😆. I miss my yard and gardens of flowers and veggies. No fireplace, etc..

[@nplskoot3728]

Thank you - love following along in your journey, and appreciate how you share with broader likeminded community. I am 54 and laser focused on retiring at 60 it’s been great sharing your journey with my husband. Sure making us consider many what if’s 🤔 like Renting. Keep up the great work.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You are so welcome! we wish you a great retirement hope you are enjoying your weekend Cheers 🍷🍺🌸

[@tinaburt4054]

Norm and Tina - thank you for your channel! My husband and I have just turned 50 and no one talks retirement! Your info and your advice is so amazing! Thank you.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That is awesome!

[@kwclove7623]

You are so smart to learn and plan now!! I’m 57 and active making changes! It’s so exiting!!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@kwclove7623 We wish you well have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🇨🇦🍺

[@texaspatty4697]

Gosh, you keep revealing things that I have discovered myself, and have had to face up to!...The kids got tired of coming to us every year for the holidays...And they want us to come to their homes instead. And I was badly isolated BEFORE Covid hit, and nearly lost my mind during the distancing required by that epidemic. We, in particular, still have our home outside of nearby towns. It was a good place to raise our children. But they are gone and no one drops by. Ugh.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

It’s the evolution of family life, not for everyone but a significant number, we were affected with Covid isolation too hopefully better days ahead. Thanks so much for watching, have a nice weekend.

[@MegsCarpentry-lovedogs]

Another good topic after your pitch video about downsizing in 2023, Aug. 👍 🇨🇦

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thank you 🌺👍

[@MegsCarpentry-lovedogs]

☺🍁🇨🇦@@ThisIsOurRetirement

[@PlanetImo]

I’m really excited to see your ‘recreational’ home! I enjoyed the video. X

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks we are counting down the days , the snow is melting away hoping for May 1st hope you are getting warmer weather as well 🌞

[@marthonic1]

You two are so cute. Fellow Ontarian here, preparing to retire in 2 years. Love the idea of selling our home for the nest egg to invest but we are not ready for apartment life as we enjoy the yard and gardening too much. And of course now the rental prices are so much higher than just a few years ago. We are in a ranch style home and it’s hard to downsize much from that unless we look to a province with less expensive housing prices so we can bank the difference. So many things to consider. Stay well, cheers

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

All we can say it was expensive renting 7 years ago but now it’s a great deal !! like any investment the cheapest price is going to be today . We just moved 6 hours and got a lot a better value in renting our apartment Cheers 🍷🌺💜🍺🙂

[@Lisamakes]

This was really valuable, even for someone like me. I’m in my late 40’s, our kids are young teenagers, and we sold our house two years ago and moved to Spain- for what was supposed to be a one year experience. Then Covid hit, and we are in a far better position here in Spain than in Toronto. Our kids are have been in school full time since September, we have nice weather, and can still sit at an outdoor patio for coffee or lunch, next to the sea. That said, I did (and do) struggle with selling our family home sometimes on a heart level. That idea of having a home base that will always be there for the kids after they are out of the house. However, we are giving them so many memories and experiences now that they will never forget! When we get back to Toronto we will get a townhouse that will do us for the next decade, and then on to the next adventure. Sometimes we get so caught up in what “should” be, that we miss out on wonderful opportunities!

[@Agent-xj5xe]

I wonder if you have AC in your Spain residence?

[@Lisamakes]

@@Agent-xj5xe yes, we do.

[@Agent-xj5xe]

@@Lisamakes lucky for you through this hot summer. But you have to bear the high energy cost.

[@Lisamakes]

@@Agent-xj5xe honestly, it hasn’t been bad because we only turn it on in the rooms where we need theM, and we are not looking for low temps.

[@susandhillon9822]

Very inspirational. So glad to have found your channel. Currently getting rid of accumulated junk.

[@hurst-cs2jh]

Hi Susan, how are you doing?

[@robwestley7370]

Sandra WESTLEY from the UK it’s so true, what you are saying, when there’s just the 2 of you, it’s easy to visit, where as when your children become parents, it’s so much hassle for them to pack everything up and visit the grandparents, and masses of stuff that kids always needs, high chairs, cots for naps etc etc. We also had a caravan for all the time our grandchildren 6 boys in total, were growing up, we would take one at a time away for a week at a time, they have such fantastic memories of where they went, and what they did. We still caravan, it’s in our DNA

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds wonderful TFS great comment have a great week Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@charissatroup5611]

Selling the house seems to be a big roadblock for many. I think a lot of people forget that a house is just a place. You'll still have all the good memories that go with the place even if you're living somewhere else. I know for myself and my husband, we won't be able to afford to keep our house, as it's too big for us, and the upkeep money will start to be too much. Better sell it, and downsize without the worry of "what if". Happy I found your channel, as I believe we live in the same area of the province, (kind of), and your cost of living is very relatable.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You have really accepted the whole concept of raising a family in a family house and moved out to let a new family raise their family, it’s the whole circle of life, congratulations on working this our.

[@carlosbarbosa5821]

Life is short an adventure. You get one shot at it. You cant take it with you. Lets relive our youth and re experience new stories. Do it while you can. My father in law is 90 and he did just that. I will be doing the same. Love life live long.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for a great comment we agree do it now ! Life is not a rehearsal so do the things you want to do and don’t put off as Tomorrow is not assured so enjoy today . Enjoy your weekend Cheers 🍷🌺🍷

[@chasingadeline]

That is so true!! I like having my parents come over for Christmas and thanksgiving

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Happy holidays! we hope you have a great week Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@Cardifftoyboy1]

So right. We had friends in Wales who had really busy golfing and social lives. They relocated to Ottawa to be near the grand children. Forward 8 years and the grand kids have flown the nest and they are trapped in their house by cold half the year and by humidity the other half.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Oh dear that is a sad story as the pull of grandchildren is very strong but sounds like they gave up a nice retirement. Sometimes. Change is hard hopefully they enjoyed the time with the grandkids now they need another plan . Cheers 🍷🌺🙂

[@koichiando3500]

Really enjoyed listening to your explanation for selling the house. It was something I had not considered properly. I now agree with your opinion.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s great 👍

[@jeffsansome90]

totally agree with myth #1, we are in a similar position, we'd rather our parents come to our home on Christmas because we want our kids to experience the magic of Christmas morning in their own home. I do enjoy going over to my parents place (pre-pandemic) and it does have some nostalgia, but if they were to let the home go, it wouldn't matter, the home isn't as important as the people!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Nice comment 🌺

[@cherrybb3888]

Hi Tina and Norm. As a newer viewer of your videos, I’m catching up on some of your older ones. This video has inspired me to get rid of more stuff in the new year of 2023. Was looking around our basement storage room after taking down the Christmas tree and Ugh! So much stuff! We have a paid for townhome as retirees (in our 50’s/60’s) with low monthly association fee ( takes care of the yard and snow removal ). We are responsible for interior/exterior maintenance. We have extra savings for upkeep and have updated our home from top to bottom more recently which should set us up for the coming years. We’re in this house for the long haul as it is not too big and we have walkability to a grocery store, a park, a shopping plaza and restaurants. In the US we see so many of our friends, siblings and other family buying their biggest house yet in their early 60’s. Can’t understand it, especially approaching the senior years. Seems to be such a status symbol in America to show off wealth with a huge house. I agree with your advice on downsizing. Cheers!🎉

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds like a great plan in place Cherry yes we agree not sure why some people want bigger and better in retirement which in itself brings more debt and that’s not good for a happy retirement. Glad you are enjoying our videos have a very Happy New Year Cheers 🥳🥂🌺

[@PlanetImo]

I love the communality of using public transport - very much like what you find in your apartment block.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s great we also had that for the 18 months we didn’t have the car , we like trains 🚆 which we see you use a lot have a great weekend Cheers 🍺🌸🍷

[@2legit2Kwit]

You two are so good for so many people! I agree wholeheartedly. You’ve dropped some great truth nuggets here! Thank you Tina and Norm.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thank you so much!

[@jaxwylde2139]

Awesome! That looks and sounds like Fisherman's Cove. Fantastic Park! We had a park model in the M section, backing onto the lake. We were there for almost 10 years (when our girls were still young). We sold in 2015, after our girls went off to college. We'll be back when it's time to retire. Rick and his family are great hosts. Cheers.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Yes it is and we are really looking forward to lots of memories and new adventures it looks a wonderful place , hope you are well and have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@ChrisR_72]

Hi Tina and Norm! Yes lot's to think about there. Just another piece of the retirement puzzle to consider in the future. Have a great weekend.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Chris it’s a big piece of the puzzle 🧩 we are so glad we took early retirement 5 years none of us have a crystal ball 🔮 knowing what’s in the future, hope you are well have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@roadtrip2943]

Sharing these issues you've been through is a help as they are coming our way very fast

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s our mission to show what we have experienced on the road to retirement. Glad you enjoyed it, we wish you well on your retirement.

[@bearsandbutters]

Hey Tina and Norm! You guys look so cute today, and we didn't know that Norm played Tennis! Bears has a couple of Head racquets and loves that brand. It was great to hear the reasons why you sold the family home, it makes sense that your kids have their own lives now, with their own kids, and want you to come to their homes for the holidays. Our families were like that as well, as the generations got older. It's nice that you guys can conversate with other people who live in your apartment building, and don't have to feel so alone. We bet you guys are so excited to go to the trailer once it warms up and have the Grandkids join you for some memories and fun! Our best memories as kids were not with our parents, but our grandparents! They have molded us into who we are today, so your time with them will impact them more than you realize! Great video and love you guys to the mother effin' moon! 💖🥰😘🌛

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Bears and Butters thanks for dropping by Norm is really a Costco player more than a tennis 🎾 player LOL 😂 funny you say that but my (Tina) best memories were with my Grandparents not my parents. The snow has nearly all melted away and we are having some nice warm days so countdown to the trailer is on 👏 We hope you are both staying safe and keeping well have a great weekend Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@bearsandbutters]

@@ThisIsOurRetirement They have that Head shirt at Costco? We will look for one next time we are there. Nice to hear you had such great memories with your grandparents Tina.. They are way better than parents.. most of the time..LoL Have a great week you two! 💖🌛💖

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You too ☕️

[@louisagraham8957]

I love your young and open minded attitude to retirement. Really helps me with very useful advice. Thank you. I listen to you most days

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Wow, thank you! have a wonderful weekend Louisa Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@PlanetImo]

My parents no longer have their family house. They live in separate apartments, although they are still very good friends. Now MY house has become the family hub.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We think that’s great you have become the family focal point awesome 👏

[@Marco-qc9yu]

Definitely sell the house! I used to trade in antique furniture and would make daily house calls to buy, one thing I noticed was a lot of seniors who seemed trapped by their big houses full of possessions. How stressful to be in your later years dealing with these bulky accumulations of your lifetime. From this I learned that I’d want to be lean early; I bought my first home at 50 and I have a firm intention of retiring at 60 and living within a smaller footprint. I know divestment can take an extraordinary effort to extract the value of my possessions so I’ve started my clearance in earnest this year.. a full 6 years out from my retirement. It’s been so liberating selling off items that have sat forlorn in the basement for years unused and turning the proceeds into a dividend stock portfolio (which will look very good by 60) I’d like to request a video: HOW TO DOWNSIZE YOUR LIFE PRE RETIREMENT Ideas can be a boon to some of your viewers: avenues to sell, charity gifting, divestment to family etc. Better sooner to enjoy the minimalist benefit and the financial proceeds then to wait until health, energy levels or personal crisis forces your hand and brings the stressful and sad inevitable liquidation of cherished possessions. I’ve seen it countless time. . Cheers.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Great comment thanks for adding to the conversation, we saw it with our elderly parents too, too old to change and lonely as their friends had moved away. Thanks for the suggestion we will give it some serious thought. Thanks for watching we appreciate it.

[@candyboyer]

I agree, this would be a GREAT topic for you guys to cover. As we are getting close to retirement, we are finding it's the "getting started" part that is bogging us down.

[@delladearest2511]

Like your comment and how do you sell your stuff? Thanks

[@javierornelas4271]

Very sound advice! I had to retire early due to a disability, and my wife has 5 more years before she retires, and we're already having discussions about selling our home, down sizing, or possibly moving out of state. We live in Southern California, and the rents for apartments are about the same, if not more than our mortgage payment.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s great to be having those discussions now so you can plan things together Javier have a great week Cheers 🍷🇺🇸🇨🇦🌺

[@tracyreaume6451]

We have our retirement RV and our adult children love it! No grandkids yet, but I know they will too!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds like a great plan and a plan for the future we wish you well Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@mikesanders3465]

We are really enjoying your videos and are 100% with you! My wife and I are in our late 50s and realized a few years ago that time goes so fast and you only live once. We went to Portugal a few times and love it as much as you do, so we travelled back last September thinking we would retire there this year but while I was there I suffered a grand mal seizure and was rushed to the hospital (in Porto). I soon realized I needed to retire earlier so took the leap. Thankfully, my wife works virtually so, in the meantime we have moved from Toronto to Moncton after purchasing a mini home virtually (while in Portugal!!). We realized a long time ago that we couldn’t retire paying high rent in a tiny condo, especially during COVID-19. Now we are looking into retiring to Ecuador and have booked a month trip to Cuenca to to do our research. Thankfully the visa requirements there are much less restrictive and the cost of living is so affordable. It looks like the spot you chose for your trailer is beautiful and I’m sure you will enjoy the time there. We actually considered being full time RVers and purchased one a few years ago, rented a spot at a park near Cobourg and spent a few summers there. For many reasons, we sold it. We are just enjoying our new mini home and waiting to go to Ecuador and decide where to go from there. We will keep you posted and we will keep watching your wonderful and informative videos!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Wow that’s quite the story we hope you are felling better now, on that note that is one point we are very aware of if we need medical attention when travelling. We wish you well with your plans for Ecuador, we like having two places to live in , hope you are having a great weekend Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@ricke6854]

Keep in mind very high elevation of Cuenca.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@ricke6854 Good point TFS 🍷🙂

[@jukes243]

Thank you for the advice about the condo. You just kept us from making a big mistake.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We are glad you found it helpful have a great day 🍷🌻🙂

[@billyb5057]

we havent retired yet but sold the family home to my son and his wife and moved somewhere smaller *always a full watch👍Au👍here a big like for you*

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Billy thanks for dropping by sounds great your smaller place , wish you well when you do retire in the meantime have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍺🇦🇺🍷🇨🇦🌺

[@Grayce47]

We added a second suite to our house. Right now it is rented. When we retire we are planning a lot of travel. We may use the second suite as out home base and rent out the main part of the house.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

sounds great

[@joannadee3565]

I'm glad this works for you. But, we moved to a much smaller house after reiirement. We have no expenses.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That’s great, glad it works for you.

[@bonghungk7544]

You’ve got it well planned plus you’re not making the landlord “lord” over you.

[@timashwin1759]

I have just discovered your vlog and we have some close similarities. My wife and I took early retirement a few years ago, sold the family home and downsized to an apartment here in England. We purchased a static caravan in the Algarve and spend about 5 months of the year there ( in normal times) and also spend one or two months at our daughter and her Canadian husbands place in lovely Ontario. As well as following the sun we follow the mosquitoes, ouch!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

That is awesome! Thanks for stopping by our vlog. We didn’t know about static caravans in The Algarve, we had only seen transient sites. Sounds like you have it all figured out, congratulations. The only worse things than mosquitoes are the midges in Scotland lol, the cure seems to be alcohol, after a while you don’t care lol 🍷🍷 We have to be in Ontario for at least 6 months of the year to keep qualified for health care and some pension benefits. Hey retirement is fun!!

[@buddyjenkins7188]

We are planning to keep our house. We have a dog as do many of our neighbors. We meet them as we are walking the dog and get a little fresh air and exercise at the same time. We have always had Black Labs. I don't think the next will be a puppy, but maybe a rescue.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Having a dog must be great, gets you to go out and exercise and as you say meet people. Renting is not for everyone we know that, it suits those that want to travel a lot. Both our children have dogs and don’t like to kennel them. Thanks for watching.

[@tanyasteadman4819]

I would like to understand how you rent Longterm and have stability as in Australia, our leases for renting are not usually longer than 1-2 years. The rent is increased annually or at each lease renewal. If the owner wants to sell, you quite often have to vacate at lease expiry. Canada sounds like it has different tenancy rules? Love your videos!! Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Tanya, The first thing we recommend is to rent from a corporation, the company we rent from has nearly a 100 apartment buildings. They have superintendents resident in each building plus a building manager overseeing a city. We get a 12 month lease and then it is month to month.There is a rent increase each year that is governed by the Provincial government "rent control" the increase is between 1.5 to 2% per year. You can stay in your apartment as long as you continue paying the rent. Hope that helps explain our situation in Ontario, Canada.

[@chollypaderanga307]

Thank you 🙏 for sharing your great insights, Norm & Tina... My husband and I are now towards retirement in 3-5 years. Fortunately, we are in Sydney. We are just waiting for our sons (both working in their 20’s) to be ready for family home 🏡 and property investments and pass on what we have. You’re right, building great memories with family.. 😇

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds great that you have a plan , we wish you a wonderful retirement life is always better with wonderful memories Cheers 🇦🇺 🍷🇨🇦🍺

[@IamaDutch-Kiwi]

Don't know how I missed this one! I have spent a bit of time reading some of the reactions....hmmm! We too sold our house. Apartment living has its pros and cons, for us mainly pros. I can see how it would suit some people and not others. Great to voice your experience and reasoning. Food for thought for many. 🙏 💖 🇳🇿 🙋‍♀️ 🇳🇱

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Glad you liked it guess looking at the comments you can see it provoked a lot of thoughts 💭 we are all different but for us it was the best thing we ever did and think you feel the same way . We have way less stress and nice to know that money 💰 invested generates income life is good 🍷🌺

[@IamaDutch-Kiwi]

@@ThisIsOurRetirement 🍾🥂💃🥳

[@paulabildson157]

So glad that I stumbled across your channel. I am really enjoying your videos and love that you are sharing your experiences with others. My husband and I are both in our 50's, about to become grandparents for the first time, and we're constantly talking about and planning for our retirement. We will definitely find some tips along the way from watching your videos. Thank you.

[@mikeflair6800]

Moving to a 'rental model' makes a lot of sense in retirement. Many people, house rich and cash poor, can now liquify those hard walls into cold cash. Invest that money, then live off principle and earnings...it will also make asset transfers to heirs much easier in the future.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You got it so true and the kids don’t have the problem of selling the house the money is already there , hope you had a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🐣🍺🌺

[@nonnasstitchingloungewithr7281]

I'm very lucky to have a pension in my retirement. So I'd rather keep in the real estate market which hopefullly is under the price of rent. We had a condo for 5 years, and it's not for us. So now in our new freehold townhome, we have the money to not only have space for our grandkids, but we have a trailer for our own entertainment, and stay in the real estate market. You have shown that there are a lot of options in retirement. The important part is to be healthy and enjoy. Thanks for sharing.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds like a great plan yes there are lots of options and sounds like you have found what works for you wishing you lots of lovely memories with your Grandkids stay safe and keep well. Have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@familycreate]

Great vlog, so true about apartment. We moved away from the city after our first child and really missed our friends and the atmosphere from the building. I'm looking forward to your trailer volgs too. Thank you for a great share 👍

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

We love living in the appartment and have been here 5 years now, yesterday we sat out and had drinks on our balcony in the sunshine overlooking the lake it was beautiful. We even have our own Post box 📮in the mail room . Enjoy your weekend Cheers 🍻🍷🌸This morning we had 40 Swans 🦢🦢on the Lake ☕️

[@familycreate]

@@ThisIsOurRetirement sounds so lovely, brings back beautiful memory for us. Our building had a communal garden and every evening many of us would just enjoy the evening in everyone's company too 💜

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

@@familycreate That’s awesome 🍷☕️

[@deborahnicholson6206]

Ok, so of course I had to google beaver tail...sounds delish! As I mentioned before, we sold our enormous 4 bedroom house in 2019 and downsized buying a modest bungalow. Family and friends thought we were crazy as we are in late 40/ early 50 range. I think they thought we had money problems to be honest! They said we were far too young to downsize then. But to us, it made a lot of sense. Renting apartments similar to what you have in Canada is not really a "thing" here in Scotland. There might be apartment blocks like that in cities but they would be really expensive. I think what you have done with trailers etc is a smart move. The best of both! We have had a dreadful week here in UK with all the Royal Family drama and the murder of a young woman in London by a policeman. Life is just really tough just now. But today we spent 4hours with my husbands parents who we havent seen in 13 months. It was very emotional but also just lovely! I'm curious to know how things are in Canada with Covid? Our 11 year old daughter goes back to school on Mon. She hadn't been in the company of any children since b4 Xmas!!! Thank goodness for Facetime! Have you had your vaccine yet? We are all just so ready to get a little bit of out lives back!! Stay safe xx

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Deborah we think your bungalow sounds lovely we had a bungalow that we sold before we came here and rented. Things are moving very slowly Covid wise in 🇨🇦 Canada we don’t think we will get the vaccination 💉 till September, but the weather is improving which is making people fell better, everyone is still in their own social bubble and no one is getting together outside of that . Lots of people are all still working from home since March 2020 our Son and Daughter too. Beavertails are delicious 😋 as well as in the summer you can get them at Winter 🥶 Carnivals , ice rinks etc . We are counting the days till we can go to our trailer, all the snow is melting away which helps , hope you are staying safe and keeping well have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@gayathriramdas4342]

Fantastic Decision !!! This is one of the most wisest and most difficult decision we should All take at sometime or the other in Life. May God Bless U Both !!! Love 💕 and Best Wishes to U Both for All your future plans ❤️

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Yes it absolutely is a very big decision and can be very difficult also different for everyone, our way might not suit everyone. TFW have a great weekend Cheers 🍺🍷🌸

[@ddavidson5]

It's great that you've found a retirement lifestyle that suits you but of course people are different, what works for one doesn't necessarily work for another. We have been retired for the last 6 years and our plan is to stay in our house for quite a while yet, we are at 33 years and counting. We have no qualms about apartment living but our house is long since paid for, we've renovated it over the years to our specific tastes, plus my wife loves to garden and she's created some impressive gardens on our property over the decades. Both of our 2 daughters and our grandchildren live about 5km from our house so they are close by, and yes, their places are the hubs for family events. At 1,200 sq ft with a bit finished in the basement our house isn't particularly big and we find it quite manageable, at least so far. Actually in retirement we now have a second house, a condo townhouse in Mexico where we winter (in fact we are in Mexico now) so I guess, for better or worse, we own even more property than we did before!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Wonderful story thanks for sharing , everyone is different life would not be interesting if we all did the same LOL 😂 We are just sharing what works for us and we have also been going to Portugal 🇵🇹 in the winter months , but sadly not this year with all the travel restrictions so quite envious of you in Mexico 🇲🇽. Have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@jost2285]

Interesting perspective on retirement housing. I have already sold the big house but am now in the fees increasing townhouse. I am going to look into maybe taking the next step and moving into an apartment. Thanks for sharing your insight.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Sounds like you have a plan , we did it 5 years ago and have never looked back , hope you enjoy your weekend Cheers 🍷🌸🍺

[@colinl9599]

Having hobbies after retirement, socializing is really important

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Absolutely we agree and living in our apartment we have found all that Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@patriciajohnsonson8639]

I agree. Grown up kids don’t come back home for the holidays. They don’t even invite us to their home for the holidays. Our home and lot is big. Our son and daughter in law bring their young boys over to play in our house and yard because they live in a condo and the complex has one playground that older kids play in. So we keep our home for now, but in a few years, I hope my son soon has a home and yard of his own. Then we can sell. Our daughter and son in law have purchased a nice home with a big yard. So they will have plenty of space when they have children. We are downsizing our possessions now.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Same as us, time to move on and live for yourselves.

[@patriciajohnsonson8639]

@@ThisIsOurRetirement I’m ready but I don’t think my husband is. LOL

[@rudolphferdinand3634]

The wife is 70 plus, and I am 69 years old. We have lived in our home for 22 years now, and we are very comfortable with our 2800 sq.ft. on one acre of land big enough for us; plans of selling, no way. Our home is special especially for me because the address is my birthday month and year - 1151 Freedom. The property is somewhat private minimal street sounds from car’s and being it is almost summer, the green stuff is coming out here in Wasilla, Alaska.

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Because we wanted to travel selling released us from ownership problems one being having someone come in to your house every 24 hours to keep your insurance valid . We love our apartment and have never looked back , also selling it gave the chance for another family to enjoy bringing up their family .Cheers 🍷🌺🍺

[@65Davis65]

thanks

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You're welcome!

[@carlosmelick682]

Thank you for your wisdom!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

You are so welcome glad you enjoyed it Carlos Cheers 🍷🌺🙂

[@carolkilarsky8908]

Thanks for sharing, I am glad that you are enjoying yourselves ❤️🙏

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Thanks for watching we really appreciate your support, have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🍺🌺

[@DrWelp]

Thank you so much for your advice. This was very helpful. I’ve been thinking of downsizing when I retire even though some say I should keep my home because I have a good sized yard in a very desirable area. But, I think, I can sell it, and then someone else can take care of this massive yard, and I can live off the equity and move to a very nice apartment. Anyway, I think that’s what I’m going to do. Thanks again!

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Wow your comment is great that’s exactly what we did go for it , we took early retirement 5 years ago doing just what you said and have never looked back , life is for living you only get on chance. Have a wonderful week Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@ItsAboutTimeNow]

We would love you to stop in for a cup of tea! But yes.... we have cleared out homes of our parents.... and so yes, we need to get motivated to start seriously clearing out much of our accumulated stuff. Great memories of your grandmother and the caravan, ~ Brad and Diana

[@ThisIsOurRetirement]

Hi Brad and Diana yes decluttering and downsizing are big but necessary steps we feel to have a great retirement. Our weather is getting better and the snow is melting away so Spring is on its way 🌸 have a great weekend and TFW Cheers 🍺🍷🌺

[@sarahdee374]

I agree with you, but with some sadness. I live in the mountains in the woods. I have 4 sloped acres on a beautiful creek. It's very private and isolated and very beautiful. I used to work from home, but am now retired and miss the connections with co-workers and clients. This is not a neighborhood or community setting. My home and property are very labor intensive, and I still struggle to find folks who want to do work for me, so I often end up doing a lot myself. But I'm weary of being alone and doing so much maintenance alone. So I'm looking at where I want to land, I'm leaning towards a subsidized apartment. My thinking on rent is this: I believe while were in the acquisitional/building wealth stage of life it is important to invest in owning a home. But now that I have a dependable income, and plan to live within that living a frugal life in a place that offers social opportunities and ease is valuable for me. A move such as this will be a huge change for me, but it feels like time. Thanks for your thoughts.

[@davisholman6518]

I am a mountain/brook person. Your property sounds heavenly!🏞

[@sarahdee374]

@@davisholman6518 It is beautiful. On my rafter inside it says" Just another day in paradise!" I'm also about 5 hours from some beautiful ocean beaches too! Before I retired I worked with elderly folks as a court appointed Guardian Representative. I saw too many folks determined to stay in their "homeplace" come Hell or highwater, well beyond the time it was safe and healthy for them. So I'm going to learn from that and not be here alone and isolated trying to manage 4 very sloping acres and a home and end up injuring myself. I'll stay until the "Universe" sends me a clear message on where my next adventure will be. It's Spring here now, (waiting to see my first bears of the season) and I was ruminating that it will be sad when it's time to move, but life does change and I wish to change along with it with grace and ease. I do admit having a mate would make it happier and easier. But.....