Rich & DawnCheré Wilkerson - Love Lies: How to Handle Heartbreak

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Күн бұрын

Heartbreak. A word that, when unpacked, reveals layers of emotions and behaviors that rob us of freedom and joy.
In the third week of their collection of talks "Love Lies," Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson dive deeper into the topic of relationships with a sermon entitled "How to Handle Heartbreak."
How do we handle heartbreak? Do we avoid it, and pretend like it’s trivial? Do we tell ourselves we can get through it alone? Many times we turn to the wrong places to look for healing, falling prey to the pressures of pop culture and what is flaunted as being the right thing to do.
Life, through the disappointment of failed relationships, disappointments, failures and disapproval, will bind our hearts into brokenness. However, God gives us hope through his everlasting and steadfast love. His love binds our broken hearts in a different way. As Psalm 147:3 is written, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
After recognizing the hurt, we should look to God for our healing. This will take time. Just as physical fractures take time to mend, emotional and spiritual fractures also require healing time. Our heart - the essence of our lives - will be mended by God’s hand over time, if we perceive our brokenness according to His plan for us. In this process, our duty is to make the right choice and to think the right thoughts.
We must choose to resolve instead of resigning and decide to restore and not to relapse. We must be committed to restricting the affections of our hearts while continuing to contribute love and generosity to the community. We must recognize that once we place our trust in God, we are bound by a love that binds our broken hearts in the right way, in God’s way.
To do this, we must realize that we cannot achieve freedom from heartbreak through our own short-sighted efforts. Instead, we must have complete faith and trust in His design for our happiness in this life. That is the state of mind that we should relentlessly pursue.

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@hannahdeleon5053
@hannahdeleon5053 2 жыл бұрын
The amount of pain I’m in right now is indescribable. Please pray for me.
@ivanmorales3941
@ivanmorales3941 2 жыл бұрын
Im going through it now, how are you these Days?
@hannahdeleon5053
@hannahdeleon5053 2 жыл бұрын
@@ivanmorales3941 I’m at a better place now than i was 5 months ago. I promise it’ll get better.
@terrencewalker4603
@terrencewalker4603 Жыл бұрын
@@hannahdeleon5053How are you doing now?
@kenyatta3212
@kenyatta3212 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@keithwilde1348
@keithwilde1348 Жыл бұрын
Pain is temporary. Years from now you will look back on this painful experience and be amazed that you pulled thru.
@mitchel7251
@mitchel7251 3 жыл бұрын
God will never take something away from us without the intention of replacing it with something much better.
@aanuoluwapoadeoti7047
@aanuoluwapoadeoti7047 3 жыл бұрын
Love and strength to you!
@user-jz6mu
@user-jz6mu 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@felixrivera1038
@felixrivera1038 2 жыл бұрын
Better person?
@EgyptParis
@EgyptParis 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Anthony-yy3kc
@Anthony-yy3kc Жыл бұрын
Are you sure about that statement?
@danielleadamson9762
@danielleadamson9762 4 жыл бұрын
After hours of crying my eyes out and feeling broken, I stumbled across this sermon. Thank you so much for helping me start my healing process.
@Roadglide86
@Roadglide86 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same situation
@danielleadamson9762
@danielleadamson9762 4 жыл бұрын
Matt A God led you here, it’s definitely not a coincidence. I pray that your heart will begin to heal again too and that you find joy again.
@Roadglide86
@Roadglide86 4 жыл бұрын
@@danielleadamson9762 thank you! You to I can't sleep my mind just keeps racing thoughts about her. Not fun
@danielleadamson9762
@danielleadamson9762 4 жыл бұрын
Matt A I totally understand. But in time it will get easier
@Roadglide86
@Roadglide86 4 жыл бұрын
@@danielleadamson9762 yes Yea I hope so, my life is falling apart because of it
@kateashlytasis8606
@kateashlytasis8606 2 жыл бұрын
It's so sad. I keep on wanting us back. I keep on replaying our situation in my head why we can't work out. It's just so sad we can't fight together because of his filial obligation and maybe he just found someone closer.
@mariannediomano3585
@mariannediomano3585 4 жыл бұрын
“If you never heal from what hurt you, you bleed on people who never cut you.” - so powerful
@leahgreer7022
@leahgreer7022 Жыл бұрын
I just got out of a relationship , a hidden one at that ,that was a pretty long one. I lived in sin and within the relationship, I ran from the lord and I heard the Lord tell me over and over again to leave him, but I didn’t want to listen because I wanted to live my own life. And then God spoke to one of my family members revealing it and yeah it hurt, and it still does, it’s only been 4-5 days. I was unequally yoked and me telling him what the Lord had said and me doing that and being obedient to God was the greatest witness to him. I hear the Lord clearly now, even though it still hurts and I’ve felt like Im the only one that’s so hurt, but the Lord reminds me that he’s felt like that now and before. I’m running after the lord besides running from him. He’s all I’ve got.
@tiffanysteen1845
@tiffanysteen1845 2 жыл бұрын
Wrong binding only leads to more breaking more brokenness to more pain! Have resolve to trust God in the broken places. Healing takes process
@rpfullingim
@rpfullingim Жыл бұрын
Even you break up many times if that person is the one that God has given to your life. You can't avoid what God's plan for your life.
@jackiep2333
@jackiep2333 2 жыл бұрын
I teared up seeing all the beautiful young women hurting and still willing to let God guide and heal them.
@shekinah8701
@shekinah8701 5 жыл бұрын
After heartbreak we need liberation, only Jesus can set us free from pain, hurt from heartbreak.... He set me free, God how powerful He is.... Praise the Lord
@faunstancechulu4408
@faunstancechulu4408 2 жыл бұрын
I want him to set me free from my pain too. I really want him to heal me.
@MannishByShakia
@MannishByShakia 11 ай бұрын
Praying for all of us here... this heart break and feeling unlovable is really really painful and embarrassing. This message is so good and I'm glad i found it
@nathania_john
@nathania_john 5 ай бұрын
I literally have no words! This is hands down one of the most profound and powerful messages I've ever heard! Jesus truly gives us beauty for our ashes every single time! 🥺❤‍🩹
@Ashley-yt24
@Ashley-yt24 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! So good. Didn't even think I needed to hear this. "What the enemy wants to do is isolate you..." 32:06 - So easy to think we can handle things on our own because of people hurting us but we need each other.
@jenmccaw9713
@jenmccaw9713 3 жыл бұрын
I was listening to that exact part when I read your comment. So profound.
@meenu2249
@meenu2249 3 жыл бұрын
"The wrong binding will lead to more breaking" - Now I know how a small crack in my heart lead to a shattered heart. I listened to the world and believed its lies. Now that I see the light and live in Jesus, I know how stupid I was to believe the world. I hope I knew this before.
@marines6624
@marines6624 8 күн бұрын
Pray for my heart! ❤
@kellygardner2779
@kellygardner2779 Жыл бұрын
That is so powerful, if you never heal from what hurt you you'll bleed on people who never cut you.
@marcolopez1048
@marcolopez1048 Жыл бұрын
I was just broken up with this past week before deployment and its been really rough, had no hope. And i was looking for healing in all the wrong places not realizing God is the only one who can heal my broken heart.
@misssugacoco
@misssugacoco 6 жыл бұрын
This is such a timely message, I was thinking about searching for a video about heartbreak and you post one today. Now I know it was the Holy Spirit speaking to me, you never know who will need it because this is not just for me there is a world out there that needs to hear👂the gospel. I thought I was going through a breakup, but then to find out I wasn’t (long story). However I’ve never been in a relationship before, so I never experienced a couple break up and it that short space of time it felt horrible. I was telling God, wow people actually go through this? My God, soul ties are powerful and we ought to guard our heart. Being careful who we give it to, can’t give it to just anybody. I love the analogy of comparing heart break as a wound, that needs to be healed overtime.
@daniellevardeleon1082
@daniellevardeleon1082 Жыл бұрын
I love an addict. We’ve already been through so much. When he is sober, he’s truly a good man, kind caring compassionate loving hard working attentive, but when the drug has hold, it all goes away and I don’t even know if he’ll come home from night to night. He is ultra paranoid and accuses me of cheating which I don’t. To everyone else it is clear he is the only one I want. But the lies he’s convinced himself of and trauma in his life he reacts to is something I can’t battle. If you have experienced this, please give me hope or advice. Im going to Alanon now and the first meeting helped me tremendously first to not feel so alone. Second to see that me trying to ‘help’ was actually hurting so I’ve stopped. I love him but I know only he can fight this battle with God. Please pray for him that the chains of addiction will be broken and the grip of the enemy loosened. And for me for strength and comfort in God.
@estherska9742
@estherska9742 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, Thank you Jesus for Pastor Rich&DC❤️
@coldmattyice
@coldmattyice 8 ай бұрын
I'm in a lot of emotional and psychological pain. I iust reached out to a local church. Im really trying to get through this right, please pray for me
@mariajoseolivet150
@mariajoseolivet150 4 жыл бұрын
✨I claim this sermon for myself✨
@IAmChizitere
@IAmChizitere 3 жыл бұрын
I been trying everything but it never hits the mark, but I kept holding on to the song that says when God heals, he heals completly then this message popped up....God bless you all
@marelynpaiz3183
@marelynpaiz3183 Жыл бұрын
Amén. Palabra poderosa y exactamente lo que necesitaba en este momento
@lauren3667
@lauren3667 2 жыл бұрын
sooo many good points. wow. God bless this couple for their anointing and wisdom from the Lord!!
@cate1998
@cate1998 Жыл бұрын
This was a powerful message thank you
@xw7239
@xw7239 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone, if you're struggling with a break up or betrayal that seemed to come out of nowhere, please do some research about "narcissism" and "gaslighting" it might help put some things into perspective. Prayer and psychotherapy go hand in hand ❤💖
@nicoletate8002
@nicoletate8002 Жыл бұрын
Pray for me
@rayfebryant6484
@rayfebryant6484 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so hurt if my couple lies to me. And making me cry everytime oh god i hate this situation.
@dianakusi5460
@dianakusi5460 5 жыл бұрын
Wow awesome so good. Very generationally right. God richly bless you guys.
@nqobilemadiba7351
@nqobilemadiba7351 4 жыл бұрын
Jesus our healer!!
@charlieveluz2420
@charlieveluz2420 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message
@imanijaaylise
@imanijaaylise Жыл бұрын
thank you
@jmaldrich6456
@jmaldrich6456 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed!
@jllnne
@jllnne 5 жыл бұрын
very timely 😭
@MagdaleneDivine
@MagdaleneDivine 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this!!
@RedMisfit
@RedMisfit 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a guy and is it wrong to say I enjoy Dawncheré preaching more times than Rich 😄
@cyntheclaireaballe7374
@cyntheclaireaballe7374 3 жыл бұрын
Healing process. God heals! ^_^
@juniortimotheus9721
@juniortimotheus9721 10 ай бұрын
How did you guys get back together and how did you guys know if it was right and also how long were you guys apart
@MsABHIRUPA
@MsABHIRUPA 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻
@oaklandsoldier5920
@oaklandsoldier5920 3 жыл бұрын
Im 35 years old single, heartbroken and suicidal. Nuff said.
@tpalmer8354
@tpalmer8354 3 жыл бұрын
Talk to God. Pray out loud. Get a scripture which are God’s promises to us and hold onto it. It’s hard almost impossible to do at times...... but push through when we pray and speak out loud it changes the energy around us I promise it will get better. God sees you
@oaklandsoldier5920
@oaklandsoldier5920 3 жыл бұрын
@@tpalmer8354 I still think about suicide everyday.
@cassandra8185
@cassandra8185 3 жыл бұрын
Please don’t take your life. You are valuable. I am sure there are people who would be devastated if they found out you were no longer alive. Think about your family and other close loved ones... don’t let this heartbreak control you life. Suicide can really wreck the people around you life. I encourage you to reach out and don’t give up on yourself. I’ll be praying for you
@missrosalind7044
@missrosalind7044 2 жыл бұрын
But God 🌄
@LuluSipsTea
@LuluSipsTea 5 жыл бұрын
"If you don't heal from what hurt you, you'll bleed on people who never cut you". MY GOD, MY GOD!!!
@linafuamatu9588
@linafuamatu9588 5 жыл бұрын
Re Re that message truly hit me hard n that is really true.
@lorenzoramdhanie7859
@lorenzoramdhanie7859 2 жыл бұрын
Dame son I felt that one
@ilai7893
@ilai7893 2 жыл бұрын
BARS
@saralgw
@saralgw 4 жыл бұрын
the pain of a heartbreak is so soul crushing that God is the only one who can heal it...
@isaacsanders9203
@isaacsanders9203 4 жыл бұрын
sara lynn so true!
@llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101
@llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101 3 жыл бұрын
Always pray to God to heal you and surrender your heart to him. Tell him I cannot take this pain anymore Lord , help me because I can't help myself and wait for God answers. Every night I say it until God restore my soul.
@godsown4683
@godsown4683 2 жыл бұрын
@@llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101 I am also saying the same thing.
@Tara-mb3bv
@Tara-mb3bv 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings and peace to you in Christ Jesus our Lord. I know this comment was a year ago and I do hope whatever it was for you yesterday a year ago etc. is your blessing today. I wanted to reach out bc I saw your name and thought it neat bc my name is Tara lynn, ..smiles..but then i went to write that and I thought of your comment and it made me think of an illustration: the grape lol I know right the grape of love growing in the warmth and comfort of the sunlight growing and thriving on the vine connected in part to a vine, then one day that grape gets plucked thrown into a basket and then put into a press, crushed and smashed wringing every last drop of all that sunlight and comfort of yesterday but today it sits under the crushing the power of draining out and that thing it once was is in fact is no more. Today it sits changing into something altogether different, through thus this process it cant see the wine it will become sweet, fragrant and a joy to someones cup, an excess at someones table. It only knows today, the crushing. Wow I already knew it but God is good I am crushed today but I need to remember to be expectantly hopeful of that day when I will be fragrant drink to be enjoyed and welcomed altogether as a new thing becauseof this. I hope this might touch somebody else who is enduring the crushing, let the perseverance that this crushing, creates. God bless.🌸🕯🏵
@danielwise5786
@danielwise5786 2 жыл бұрын
Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.
@heather_anne
@heather_anne 3 жыл бұрын
To anyone going through heartbreak: You are loved. You are chosen. Things might be tough now but sweet sisters and brothers you WILL get through this. Don't give up. God is the Good Shepherd and we are his sheep. The Good Shephard doesn't abandon his sheep. He didn't bring you this far to give up on you! Speak this truth over yourselves today!!
@danfruean10
@danfruean10 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for this!
@redroseempress5095
@redroseempress5095 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you please pray for me
@cyndeemcbride2390
@cyndeemcbride2390 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this today. Going through a really bad breakup and feeling so hurt rite now.😭😭😭
@heather_anne
@heather_anne 3 жыл бұрын
said a prayer for you🙏❤
@cyndeemcbride2390
@cyndeemcbride2390 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Heather. God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
@casspower
@casspower 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so hurt from my breakup I trust in God but the pain is so much
@GonzoTheMystic
@GonzoTheMystic 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@rickmenasco322
@rickmenasco322 4 жыл бұрын
The pain is crushing.
@adonayflores7267
@adonayflores7267 4 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing well. 💘
@lisandras.2601
@lisandras.2601 4 жыл бұрын
I feel the same.
@lisandras.2601
@lisandras.2601 4 жыл бұрын
But we are in this together. The both of us and so many more people... lets get through this together. Cause yes we lost our person but God still said 2 is better than 1, we got eachother sister ❤trust God's love
@benmott8768
@benmott8768 3 жыл бұрын
Went through a breakup a few months ago. I've never been so completely crushed. I was convinced she was my soul mate and nothing is more devastating than finding out the person you're in love with doesn't even care about you at all. 💔
@mikeyjay7014
@mikeyjay7014 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||lover/specific person|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me attract the guy I loved the most (Jeremy) 💞💞💞☺️☺️. He can attract whosoever you want into your life. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
+2347030894892.
@petronipov
@petronipov 3 жыл бұрын
Going through the same. Are you feeling any better?
@MsSweetStacey
@MsSweetStacey Жыл бұрын
It’s been almost 3 months since my healing process, I made it. I’m so proud of myself, I told myself throughout that 3 months I was in that relationship that I would give it all back to myself and I did. I focus on God and I continue to keep putting myself first. God made it so peaceful for me this month when I was so afraid, he gave me a safe spot and protected me throughout my healing journey. I just want everyone to know that happiness is within you, you’re not going to find it in a person. I also want to say that I’m still healing but trusting God and having faith keep me at peace every time. You’re gonna be more than okay.
@jiejie6054
@jiejie6054 6 жыл бұрын
I am broken I am depress I am lonely Jesus Heal me Search me Fill me
@ayabulelankani1579
@ayabulelankani1579 4 жыл бұрын
Jie Jie how are you feeling now?🤗
@oaklandsoldier8520
@oaklandsoldier8520 4 жыл бұрын
I'm at that point right now.
@isaacsanders9203
@isaacsanders9203 4 жыл бұрын
Jie Jie hope you’re doing better!
@jiejie6054
@jiejie6054 4 жыл бұрын
Isaac Sanders thank you. I am doing better and stronger by the grace of Jesus. I hope you too as well doing great.
@annasachin9950
@annasachin9950 4 жыл бұрын
me too... please pray for me too. i want to move on from the loop of heartbreak and loneliness
@bryanjustus4235
@bryanjustus4235 3 жыл бұрын
My wife of 20 years has told me that she doesn't love me anymore and left. This is so devastating I've cried so much. This is surprising to me, never saw this coming. I have a heart that loves fully. I don't have a secret life or lies. It hurts soooo bad. I know enough to know that I have to run to God. Please heal my broken heart. It is not in my nature to have a hard heart. I'm scared I will never love anyone again.
@jeanetteromo4830
@jeanetteromo4830 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you. God WILL get you through .
@RatoM.Official
@RatoM.Official 2 жыл бұрын
Truly sorry you're going through this.
@freya0620
@freya0620 2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there, God’s is with us brother. No matter how broken we are. God knows and God will heal.
@dawnm7450
@dawnm7450 2 жыл бұрын
Prayers for your healing
@fowbwsf
@fowbwsf 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for your healing. 🙏🙏
@itsgrves7396
@itsgrves7396 5 жыл бұрын
Just broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years.... the past few days have been absolutely full of pain and heartbreak. This was a very timely message, thank you Lord!
@_ladyy___k_9459
@_ladyy___k_9459 5 жыл бұрын
I know it's hard but hang in there 💖🕆🕆💖💖
@Lukvargz
@Lukvargz 5 жыл бұрын
Kenwick Hey mate you don’t have to see the better days, the days where you’ll be healed from the pain. Just Trust and chase the lord and his path for you and he’ll put you back on your feet before you know it.
@myramaria507
@myramaria507 4 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for you... I know how it is... The break ups are tough...
@melinaabrahamns7538
@melinaabrahamns7538 4 жыл бұрын
Just broke up with my bf of two years😭
@hazelmaedeleon
@hazelmaedeleon 3 жыл бұрын
Beeing broken is a season, it is not permanent. We can all get through this with the help of God. 😊💖
@JESUSCHRISTISLORD4EVER
@JESUSCHRISTISLORD4EVER 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! After being in an on & off relationship for years, he finally told me he liked me but didn’t love me. I’ve been so heart broken 💔. But I told God I will be still; that I would not beg the man I love to love me back. Instead I would surrender the broken pieces to God. I haven’t heard from him in months. It’s been hard but God is with me. Thank you for the reminder and please pray for me!💛
@0910ruffy
@0910ruffy 6 жыл бұрын
this video moved me. 🙏🏻 my heart is so broken right now. I’m trying to be okay and acknowledge every emotions that I go through. the process wasn’t easy. it was the worst but all I can do is pray about it. after all I’m still grateful and reminding myself that God is so good and that in the end everything will be okay and I’ll be okay. not now but in God’s time ❤️
@life.wthvee
@life.wthvee 4 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@dziesezumu3539
@dziesezumu3539 3 жыл бұрын
When my girlfriend left me, I was so hurt and even try to suicide but out of nowhere I reach a prayer centre and trust me, I'm so healed... I do miss her time to time but the hurt is gone... Thanks to the Lord
@IamHeavenian-CitizenofHeaven
@IamHeavenian-CitizenofHeaven Жыл бұрын
God still has a plan and a purpose for you and Satan knew that could be the very plan to distract you from fulfilling your destiny in God's purpose for your life. May God help you see with perfect vision and walk into your destiny in Jesus's name
@jessicamerced9116
@jessicamerced9116 Жыл бұрын
I made a huge mistake falling deeply in love with the wrong person. The amount of pain I’m in is unbearable.
@hopemulaudzi8797
@hopemulaudzi8797 Жыл бұрын
Same here...after I had promised myself never to love again,I went and fell way deep in love with the wrong person. It hurts so much and I don't know to heal from all this. The worst is having to appear happy infront of everyone. I regret meeting this man
@nithyusha
@nithyusha Жыл бұрын
❤take you guys
@povmonyneathmorm
@povmonyneathmorm Жыл бұрын
We all are in this together! Let’s pray for each others! I pray for you both 🙏🏻🤍
@user-jz6mu
@user-jz6mu 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this for the second time. My boyfriend broke up with me in March and has since been telling me how happy he is without me and how he does not want me. I've been feeling so sad and I keep crying. We were together for 5 years and this pain is so unbearable 😭
@brendamendoza7057
@brendamendoza7057 5 жыл бұрын
I really want to know their relationship testimony like how later of breaking up the first time, how they came back together?...or on the second time, how they again came back together?, how does pastor Rich knew that DC was the one? Because I'm in the midst of something so similar to this....and I can't find their relationship testimony anywhere, I really wish they could tell that 😭
@AyeYoBreezy
@AyeYoBreezy 4 жыл бұрын
if you havent found one, they just released a Q&A this past sunday with some other couples and they talk about it there!
@silvifernandez1
@silvifernandez1 4 жыл бұрын
@@AyeYoBreezy Would you mind sharing the link? I cant find it.
@AyeYoBreezy
@AyeYoBreezy 4 жыл бұрын
Silvia Fernandez kzbin.info/www/bejne/pF7SnmyPosdqgLs
@silvifernandez1
@silvifernandez1 4 жыл бұрын
Brianna Leigh thank you!! ❤️
@quackwackers3621
@quackwackers3621 3 жыл бұрын
It’s been three weeks now and my heart is literally breaking and is still hurting. My head has been spinning but I need to realise that it is God brought them into my life and he removed them. There is a reason for everything. If they were meant for you they wouldn’t leave.
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||lover/specific person|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me attract the guy I loved the most (Jeremy) 💞💞💞☺️☺️. He can attract whosoever you want into your life. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
+2347030894892.
@sabrinacaro6848
@sabrinacaro6848 2 жыл бұрын
Can you update me? Have things gotten better??
@quackwackers3621
@quackwackers3621 2 жыл бұрын
@@sabrinacaro6848 Hey girl, it’s been 8months since my break up and man I still get those days where I want to just snap and stop talking to everyone and shut the world out. In the beginning it was like that all the time for me now it’s not as frequent. What I would say really helped me was praying. Like I kid you not if I didn’t pray or ask God to heal my heart I don’t know if I would even be here to testify that ive made it this far. So it got way worse before it got better. I’m still not fully ok now but another thing that really helped was journaling and making video diaries explaining everything that happened to me in that relationship sometimes the video diaries would just be of me absolutely balling my eyes out and others would be of me explaining how I felt in that moment. My emotions were absolutely everywhere man like it felt like my head would explode from time to time. I cried for so long and just about everywhere I went I cried aswell. For so long I did not eat properly or even drink properly I was so heart broken that my sorrow filled my stomach and quenched my thirst. I was not ok at all and I really think that the moment I realised how not ok I was well was when I realised I really only had God and myself everything changed for me. I started to push myself to do things that had become such a chore for myself like even eating or brushing my teeth simple things I use to do everyday without a problem but had become such a chore for me. So I really utilised this time to build a relationship with myself and address the breakup with myself. Like it sounds silly but for my whole breakup I was telling everyone what happened but I never really sat down and told God like talking to him like he is a close was a game changer. So no it didn’t get better for a while and somedays it feels like I’m completely over it and others it feels like I could easily have a mental break down. I’m a lot better now compared to then but healing isn’t linear. If you ever need to someone one to talk to just drop your @ on any social media platform I got you girl I also made a playlist of videos that I felt really helped me get through this aswell so just let me know xx
@Hope-ie4ut
@Hope-ie4ut 4 жыл бұрын
I feel completely broken after a breakup 💔 I will continue to trust God, that He is the only only that can repair my shattered heart, the pain is almost unbearable.
@smilingsunrise6814
@smilingsunrise6814 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. No matter how long it pass. but my heart still hurt. Hopefully GOD can fix my heart soon. I dont know anymore how to handle this. May GOD have mercy on me.
@amberbriggs3996
@amberbriggs3996 3 жыл бұрын
I was crying when i clicked on this video, I now feel so much better and honestly a revelation
@RatoM.Official
@RatoM.Official 2 жыл бұрын
How are you feeling now?
@amberbriggs3996
@amberbriggs3996 2 жыл бұрын
@@RatoM.Official good, thank you for asking
@PramodGurung29
@PramodGurung29 3 жыл бұрын
I was in an unequally yoked relationship from a year. I loved my girl so hard that I couldn’t even think of breaking up with her. She is also in love with me. She loves me a lot. I didn’t understood about the problems of being married with an unbeliever. So, Now I know the truth of god’s word and I broke up with her. I told her everything and now I am here broken hearted. I am in need of you God. Please fill me. Please pray for me guys 😩😩
@kuttipavs
@kuttipavs 3 жыл бұрын
Be confident pramod gurung, everything happens for a good reason,u have a bright future go ahead,build your own relationship with our lord God. He is always your well-wisher,ask him,fight with him,cry at him,share your thoughts with him, ofcourse our God is a good listener and communicator.at the last note pramod, be happy ..things will never always be like the same,hope for the best ok..gud luck and have a good day 🤗
@CMD_Line
@CMD_Line Жыл бұрын
This happened to me recently, I've let in my eyes atleast an incredibly amazing women go because of being unevenly yoked and the heartbreak is simply savage because we both want to be together, but I said I have to put God first because I love him.
@sinclair657
@sinclair657 4 жыл бұрын
There is no rules on when or how to break up, but there are rules on how to move on " Give God all the broken pieces". Thanks for this talk.
@legacygirl721
@legacygirl721 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this message. I wish there was more teaching on this matter because we live in a society that is so relationship driven. Society says you need someone but they dont tell you how to deal when that person breaks up with you. Well they just say get a tub of ice cream, eat aways the pain, then get back out there and start dating again. I recentky went through a break up last year and and I still feel hurt. Im doing much better, God has shown me why we didnt work out and has been mending me. But I know im not 100%, so Ive just been praying that God blesses him and his new relationship. My prayer has been for God to use this loss for his Glory and I know he is. He will be glorified and the right person will find me. Im sorry this is a lot, but I am really thankful for this message. Thank you pastors!
@HOB97
@HOB97 4 жыл бұрын
I’m in a similar situation now. We were together for 3 years. The first part was amazing and the second half was toxic and abusive. I left him, but it’s been 7 months and I’m still devastated and in pain. He is even more broken than me, but I stalked him and I think he already started dating. I wish him all the best and pray for him every day, but I’m deeply hurt. God has been healing me and I’m a lot stronger and happier, but it’s taking a long time to heal, because I’m still in love with him, despite all. I’m holding on and taking it day by day and even though there are hard days, sometimes hard weeks, slowly I’m getting better and I understand why things happened the way they did. I’m praying for your healing and restoration.
@LA-tg7lt
@LA-tg7lt 5 жыл бұрын
“Give thanks with a broken heart”...😩🙌🏾 thank you for this.
@mbunyadiesy6508
@mbunyadiesy6508 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😭
@annettashannon8077
@annettashannon8077 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 this comment cheered me up. Thank you! God bless
@CARLECREATES
@CARLECREATES 5 жыл бұрын
this is one of my favorite sermons i’ve ever heard and i listen to sermons like candy 😂
@VictorEkwereJnrTheEssenceGroup
@VictorEkwereJnrTheEssenceGroup 4 жыл бұрын
Like Candy! Love it 😀
@asiajana4314
@asiajana4314 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@emmyywemmyy
@emmyywemmyy Жыл бұрын
Please pray for me because I’m in so much pain. I was convinced he was my soulmate, but he betrayed me and hurt me at the end.
@patiencepatty2823
@patiencepatty2823 5 жыл бұрын
After my boyfriend passed away ....i find it so hard to believe in love again....m broken buh ill get through the pain
@blonde.angelk
@blonde.angelk 5 жыл бұрын
U are in my prayers sweetheart🙏❤ God bless you
@lindsayn9
@lindsayn9 5 жыл бұрын
My prayers are with you 🙏🏼
@patiencepatty2823
@patiencepatty2823 5 жыл бұрын
Lindsay Nakash Thank you....That really means a lot to me 🌷
@gracietam95
@gracietam95 4 жыл бұрын
You are in my prayers while in the same time my boyfriend decided to give up on me
@danisacademiccorner4493
@danisacademiccorner4493 4 жыл бұрын
❤❤
@mariabaldovinos8429
@mariabaldovinos8429 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom. You both hit all the points of my current heartbreak. I will trust God to heal me.
@llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101
@llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101 3 жыл бұрын
Funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣,I feel heal from brokeness.. yes surrender your heart to God I did it and woooooww, I feel complete. Praise the Lord
@kling143
@kling143 5 жыл бұрын
I am crying watching ur video. My heart is broken and I believe God will restore me.
@mswasabi
@mswasabi 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been relapsing multiple times. Help me pray that by the grace of God I can overcome this season.
@oliviasnook8565
@oliviasnook8565 5 жыл бұрын
Wish they would talk a little more about why they broke up twice. My boyfriend of 2 years just ended things for the second time and I’m praying we both grow in this season, God willing maybe we can grow back together.
@aanuoluwapoadeoti7047
@aanuoluwapoadeoti7047 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong! You'll be fine
@Stoovey24
@Stoovey24 2 жыл бұрын
I think they were young, probably still in high school. People grow. Sometimes people need to grow on their own so they can come back together and have a stronger relationship.
@courtneyred941
@courtneyred941 5 жыл бұрын
I saw this on my feed a couple weeks ago and brushed it off. I had no idea today of all days i would need this. This is very on time for me and the peace i feel in the middle of my storm is unmatched. Thank you
@welllivedlife-desireeg2804
@welllivedlife-desireeg2804 3 жыл бұрын
I know God led me to this video after my boyfriend broke up with me last week. I was blindsided and now heartbroken. Thank you Lord for allowing me to watch this. I trust that God will heal me and he has a good plan for my life.
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓
@jennywaters9659
@jennywaters9659 3 жыл бұрын
+2347030894892🙏🏾 🙏🏾
@yeoitscori3618
@yeoitscori3618 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in a long distance breakup, realised my mistakes and proceed to Make the changes. but realised that I should making changes through christ. Thank you for this message. Im praying and standing on the word of god to ask for a second chance in life of the supernatural. 1 year no contact since break. 1 year of working hard. please help me, help him want to reestablish to renew and rebuild our love. . I haven't stop crying, praying. I have found the one. I believe we will reunite, through his power of miracles of restoration. Please pray with me
@gamingonus26
@gamingonus26 3 жыл бұрын
Same with me
@CMD_Line
@CMD_Line Жыл бұрын
Sometimes we have to let go to receive, I speak first hand and maybe you have already 😊
@evelynw2935
@evelynw2935 4 жыл бұрын
Get me a man who looks at me like Rich looks at Dawncheré when she preaches 💯
@rodrigomunoz6098
@rodrigomunoz6098 3 жыл бұрын
just got my heart broken this message helped me so much. i’ve been feeling so empty and lonely
@rosemoskalenko117
@rosemoskalenko117 3 жыл бұрын
i just got my heart broken a few days ago too, i’ve been feeling the same way you’ve been. through God we can do this!
@ovungwokha1028
@ovungwokha1028 3 жыл бұрын
The same happening to me
@cyndeemcbride2390
@cyndeemcbride2390 3 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to this😭😭😭
@monalisaelizabeth2812
@monalisaelizabeth2812 2 жыл бұрын
I can't stop thinking *Dr Danja the spell caster* for what he has done for me it worked am now in control of my family.
@hopemulaudzi8797
@hopemulaudzi8797 Жыл бұрын
💔💔💔really broken right now.
@marinamason2559
@marinamason2559 5 жыл бұрын
So grateful for this video. Recently got my heartbroken after being with someone for nearly 3 years, and this message has brought me so much joy. Thank you! ❤️❤️
@monalisaelizabeth2812
@monalisaelizabeth2812 2 жыл бұрын
I can't stop thinking *Dr Danja the spell caster* for what he has done for me it worked am now in control of my family.
@marychuyortiz820
@marychuyortiz820 3 жыл бұрын
This is so great!!!🥺when she said that we don't rush physical healing but our emotions we need to trust God because healings takes time... 🥺Eyeeeee opener!
@anjaniemohabir
@anjaniemohabir 3 жыл бұрын
Here after a really hard breakup. I can’t cry. I just feel hurt inside
@juliehernandez8267
@juliehernandez8267 Жыл бұрын
Prayer God give all broken hearted REALITY Strength and RESTORATION true deliverance that only He gives amen....❤️❤️🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@boitumelomakobosheane2928
@boitumelomakobosheane2928 2 жыл бұрын
I am going through a heartbreak now , my boyfriend broke up with me today . Listen my heart is so sore and my head is spinning God knows I need this
@fatalradius
@fatalradius 2 жыл бұрын
Relationships are a power trip. There is always one person who loves the other more, and that person always gets the bad end of it. Is there any point in getting in relationships any longer?
@libraflower8614
@libraflower8614 5 жыл бұрын
Please keep me in your prayers I’m trying to heal and move on 💔 I want God to fill me up and show me light 💡
@medline5140
@medline5140 5 жыл бұрын
God loves you! You got this!!
@libraflower8614
@libraflower8614 5 жыл бұрын
@@medline5140 Babe God is so good I don't remember writing this, but I am at a way better place now I am so happy and excited for the future. Love and light to you hone. He loves you too
@superindhai
@superindhai 2 жыл бұрын
I am broken hearted right now and thanks for this reminder...It's very painful..hope in God's perfect time I willbe healed and rebuild again in Jesus Name
@sonairoy1982
@sonairoy1982 6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what i needed. I wish i lived in Miami so i can join this church
@faustman1000
@faustman1000 3 жыл бұрын
Choose life. God is telling you that, because that's what he wants for you. The same option was given to Adam & Eve. They chose "disobedience" which they were told would lead to death. Adam may have put us in a sinful state, but each person, gets an option to choose.
@marimac182
@marimac182 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I can’t believe he’s in David Wilkerson’s blood 🩸 line. He don’t preach nothing like him , I bet he’s turning in his grave especially when they had a reality show. 🤦‍♀️ blasphemous
@settat2104
@settat2104 2 жыл бұрын
Timely message. This hurts. I told a guy I loved him and he said he is sorry he can’t say it back. I kept pushing and now I blocked him. Ready for Gods healing over my life.
@rebekadelorve
@rebekadelorve 5 жыл бұрын
If only there was a button for 1 million likes. ❤️
@sinayemakhanya557
@sinayemakhanya557 Жыл бұрын
I. Crying as we speak ...I miss him so much and don't know how to deal it
@nateengida3806
@nateengida3806 2 жыл бұрын
I’m going through this currently but I’m stuck in between moving on or having faith
@anjoliemarie
@anjoliemarie 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you God because I was losing my composure and I remembered I saved this to my watch later. Praise God!!
@hannahd3402
@hannahd3402 3 жыл бұрын
Stumbled onto this message today for a reason and it’s so relevant to my current season of singleness and journey of healing from heartbreak and brokenness. God spoke to me through this sermon. Thank you. 🙏🏼😌
@primer2702
@primer2702 4 жыл бұрын
I'm studying the Bible using this preaching. In the minute around 5:06, Pastor DC said that verse in Psalm 34:18, I found the reading in Psalm 34:19. I'm a brokenhearted girl right now so this misreading made me laugh. God touches me in a very unimaginable way. Thank you Pastor Rich and DC. God bless both of you.
@arthurbutler4849
@arthurbutler4849 6 жыл бұрын
Rich & Dawnchere, as parents, our obedience to Christ is also for the marriages that will be what we weren't...So I rejoice, weep with humility & joy, that God designed your marriage and ministry for our daughter. Prayers answered!! Astonishing that decades ago, David Wilkerson & TSC ministry was perfect for me away from home...wild. - Art & Ann-Marie💕💯
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