FIVE REASONS A WOMAN MUST PROTECT HER DIGNITY by RC Blakes

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RC Blakes, Jr

RC Blakes, Jr

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@RCBlakesJr.
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
HELLO FAMILY. This is impromptu. I was just inspired to speak on this subject. It won’t be as long as normal. Please share this and LIKE.
@yes_i_said_it_
@yes_i_said_it_ Жыл бұрын
This was awesome! I had fun in the chat. Thank you!
@kingdomchyldmoments4081
@kingdomchyldmoments4081 Жыл бұрын
You read my mind with this one! This was for me!🎉🎉❤
@thinkforyourselfjohn3167
@thinkforyourselfjohn3167 Жыл бұрын
God Bless you thank you for all you do Pastor RC.
@angelacole7852
@angelacole7852 Жыл бұрын
Need to talk love to talk about your faithful words. Thank you Bishop
@the_rightshade7811
@the_rightshade7811 Жыл бұрын
God spoke to u, we needed to hear this message.
@Didi-fr5ic
@Didi-fr5ic Жыл бұрын
I learned alot about men when I came upon this channel, the fact that a man can use a woman just for her body is beyond me, I was such a broken concious woman and I didn't even realize. A man approached me in the gym he was married with two children , I immediately blocked, my ex who decided to come back almost 3 years later send me a text , again I immediately blocked and moved forward , my previous self would allow these men to get away with alot , it's been a year since I started following you and I am so pleased to be who I am now. I was in isolation for a year but I am moving back to the city starting over in a new place. Thank you so much sir ❤
@sunflowersoul821
@sunflowersoul821 Жыл бұрын
I understand.💯Pastor RC Blakes have been a blessing in my life too.💫 Congratulations on your new journey of transformation.🌻
@Didi-fr5ic
@Didi-fr5ic Жыл бұрын
​@@sunflowersoul821 thank you so much sweet angel , good luck with everything in your life too ❤
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I peep game earlier now than before.
@libertylady8462
@libertylady8462 Жыл бұрын
I’m thinking about moving in order to have a fresh start. Has the move really helped you to begin again?
@JuliaShalomJordan
@JuliaShalomJordan Жыл бұрын
You got this.❤🙏🏻
@BeccahJoy
@BeccahJoy Жыл бұрын
I'm seriously apologizing to my soul for emotionally traumatizing myself by the actions I've made,.. and for what I've allowed other (*his name here*) to do to me. God, I give you my submission. Heal my soul, Lord. Help me protect my dignity and honor my heart. ❤
@lyn9415
@lyn9415 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@naziasvoice
@naziasvoice Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@DJPrincess212
@DJPrincess212 Жыл бұрын
Amen❤
@jackksterr
@jackksterr Жыл бұрын
Bishop, I’m 26 and have been watching your teachings for the past 3 years. Everything you have spoke on from previous vids to this one has impacted my life & enabled me to become a better woman for God & myself. For the first time in my life, I’ve put myself first & have set boundaries, especially when it comes to men, & the empowerment I feel walking away from situations that would take life from me has been life-changing for me. I just want to say thank you for letting God speak through you all these years. May God continue to bless you & your family.
@Queen-ConsciousYa
@Queen-ConsciousYa Жыл бұрын
❤Hey! I always see you on Tony Gaskins page as well. Keep going and walking with God, you are doing great Queen.
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️. Ditto
@MissLeaaaaa
@MissLeaaaaa Жыл бұрын
I’m 26 as well and have been on this channel for a year! 💖 So happy for you!
@mmxw2294
@mmxw2294 Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️ I feel the same way. He aided me in leaving a narcissist and I’ll always be thankful he’s a blessing to so many may God bless him you and everyone
@profmj7630
@profmj7630 Жыл бұрын
Well said...
@sarahbyrd772
@sarahbyrd772 Жыл бұрын
I remember a young man saying years ago that a man will treat you the way you let him treat you. This teaching was so good for me today. I guy came to my home and tried to get me to commit to travel with him to Tennessee and spend the weekend with him I'm like no thank you. He gave me his number to call him. The Holy Spirit told me he just want to hear what I sound like over the phone for his perverted pleasure. I never called him and won't be calling. Not letting him transfer his lustful spirit onto me. No I know my worth took awhile to get here but I made it thank God.
@susan8576
@susan8576 Жыл бұрын
Hallelujah. Thank God for discernment.
@DP-yb7px
@DP-yb7px Жыл бұрын
Good 👍🏾 deed. That was a good move. I myself totally understand the workings of a man and will not be influenced by his craziness. I know there are some good men somewhere. However we got to be honest. There are not many in one place. Meaning there are very few. I always say a man can't do anything a woman doesn't allow him to do. If women will catch on to that, we can change or possibly reverse this whole narrative
@Mantras-and-Mystics
@Mantras-and-Mystics Жыл бұрын
I did not realize this was possible - let alone through text message. Recently I was texting a man back just to be polite and he kept wanting to continue the "conversation." Suddenly I got a strong "No" feeling and God gently hinted at what was happening. I stopped texting right there and then. Men think we're just stupid and yes, we're naive. But our mindset is not theirs and that is to be celebrated. Remember, we are the ones to heal and bring light into this world. God Bless! ❤️💚💙
@angelinapeterson9106
@angelinapeterson9106 Жыл бұрын
The statement you made “sometimes the heart has to break for the soul to heal” is so powerful. August will be one year leaving the narcissist and giving myself to God. I’ve listened to you daily since august 2022 and who I am now will never settle again. Thank you pastor
@sunshinesunflowerz1647
@sunshinesunflowerz1647 Жыл бұрын
Foundational scriptural text: Proverbs 31 DIGNITY: Self-worth, self-respect, regalness, sensibilities, modesty, worthiness, respectability, etc. 5 Reasons why a Woman needs to protect her dignity... 1: A woman, who values herself and her dignity, she will not put up with mistreatment or disrespect from anyone. Set your boundaries boo! 2: When a woman protects her dignity, she protects her emotional well-being and self-esteem. 3: When a woman protects her dignity, she protects the quality of her relationships. 4: When a woman compromises her dignity, she is jeopardizing her personal safety. 5: When a woman protects her dignity, it produces a sense of empowerment. SHE is in control of her body. Thank you Bishop for reinvigorating me. As I was listening I was reflecting back on when I wasn't all the way dignified, but had the aura and that was in my 20's because of the lack of support in goals, mom was forcing me to go outside: thus the violation that was against at 15 and no support in hobbies. My soul was and has been crushed; gaslighted by parents (never knew there was a name for until last year).
@jewelwhite2832
@jewelwhite2832 Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@libertylady8462
@libertylady8462 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful reminder for all women. Thanks Pastor Blake’s! I’m a 54 year old woman and devout Christian who is in a relationship with a man who wants me to live with him before marriage so his grown sons will accept me first and then get married in the church. This goes against all my religious beliefs but sometimes my flesh wants to take the easy way out and do what’s comfortable and not what’s right. Thanks again for reminding me that their is a price to pay for sacrificing my dignity. 🦋
@DanaeLaurenTolbert
@DanaeLaurenTolbert Жыл бұрын
Amen Sister. God bless you for standing your ground.
@lenebrantley221
@lenebrantley221 Жыл бұрын
His grown son. That's is definitely a HARD NO. You deserve better❤
@DP-yb7px
@DP-yb7px Жыл бұрын
Ms lady make the right decision. As women God gave us intuition for a reason. And regretting later what you already know will kick you in the you know what. There is always a reason to wait ✋️....many times God will reveal something to confirm what you already knew. And you ain't marrying his sons. Sounds like a crazy excuse to me. Trust me Liberty Lady...do what you know you should do and you will be so grateful in the end that you did the right thing. Be wise
@aceazar2806
@aceazar2806 Жыл бұрын
This is deep. In all my everyday choices now I’m gonna ask myself, “what’s the price to pay?”
@Giftis2sing
@Giftis2sing Жыл бұрын
I moved in with my now EX a few years ago knowing that it wasn’t right, but like U said….I did it anyway because it was “comfortable” and of course he promised that he would marry me. Well that didn’t happen. Actually he started to ignore me and distance hisself from me after I moved in which to me was crazy! But anywho, I stayed for almost 2 years before I finally moved out. ✌🏾 Thank God. I will never do that again…..moving in with a man that’s not my husband. 🙄
@naturefam-xx1ft
@naturefam-xx1ft Жыл бұрын
A queen is a woman who knows her worth protect her dignity and don't settle for less. Amen thanks for this words of encouragement.
@lwc7568
@lwc7568 Жыл бұрын
I compromised my dignity after separating from a 16yr marriage in which I felt invisible, ignored and dismissed...I was in search of validation...now I know the only Man I should seek validation from is God
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
Yes ❤
@JuliaShalomJordan
@JuliaShalomJordan Жыл бұрын
Amen.❤
@jeweljules6847
@jeweljules6847 Жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🏾💞💖💞🙏🏾
@lisamurdock9379
@lisamurdock9379 Жыл бұрын
Great advice
@charisma1349
@charisma1349 Жыл бұрын
Nothing and no one is worth me compromising my self respect which I have learned the hard way 👌🏾
@KrystleLaughter
@KrystleLaughter Жыл бұрын
This teaching is so crucial and lacking in today's world. Thank you for sharing your fatherly wisdom.
@carterthegamernoob6128
@carterthegamernoob6128 Жыл бұрын
Yes sis your comment is my heart 😢 why is he the only leader speaking on this issue it’s sad! So many leaders don’t want to be leaders. It’s about membership and money and Big Names
@terrymassie7656
@terrymassie7656 Жыл бұрын
No contact allows me to stand, avoid, empowerment, represent, honor, focus, healthier, restore, protect, stillness, safety, etc... This was well received. Thank you Bishop, Bless you.
@QIKWIA
@QIKWIA Жыл бұрын
Great!!! You're healing nicely . But "No contact" is not 100%, because the person can still leave you a voicemail.
@terrymassie7656
@terrymassie7656 Жыл бұрын
@@QIKWIA // NO CONTACT: I agree. So, if I keep my position, I'll stay true and in my reality. It's about not being controlled and knowing that I can't control what others do.
@Bri-nc8yp
@Bri-nc8yp Жыл бұрын
@@QIKWIA okay and if the person contact you (which they will) 😌😌 you can ignore when they reach out to you.
@keneshawilliamson1574
@keneshawilliamson1574 Жыл бұрын
You better say it, Pastor RC Blakes!!! I have Zero Tolerance for disrespect!!! 🤷🏽‍♀️My dignity is everything. I am a Queen who knows my worth!!! I protect my peace at all costs.❤️🙏🏽❤️
@alexisagginie4574
@alexisagginie4574 Жыл бұрын
These are lessons that must be taught very early. There should be classes for as young as 6 years old, both male and female, taught about life, relationships, money and the greatest Your Spirit! We need to know! We need guidance! Thank you. Thank God for social media that can relay these messages to us!
@faustinembeh
@faustinembeh Жыл бұрын
A wise woman always protect her dignity 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣you cannot disrespect yourself and demand the world around you to respect you🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@catherinem4130
@catherinem4130 Жыл бұрын
RC, when my husband died, I prayed that God would send me a "man-friend"....literally....a man FRIEND. I listened to a lot of men on YT on "what men like a woman to be, do and not be, not do and the list goes on". I didn't understand all that because I have my dignity. I just want to say....in the past 2 yrs of being a widow.....YOU are the only one who has been that FRIEND that I asked God to send. Your talks have done more for me than anyone else I have listened to. I listen to your encouragement and advice and thank God there is a MAN who really wants women to stand up and shine and be the correct femininity they are meant to be. Sorry this comment is long, but when I heard this msg, I just had to say something. To GOD be the glory forever and ever Amen.
@discernthetimes
@discernthetimes Жыл бұрын
Sadly, there are people you meet along the way who do not reveal their true self initially, only after a while this is revealed. It is so important to take the time in getting to know someone. This talk was so needed. God bless!!!!!!
@desdemonasaintly4430
@desdemonasaintly4430 Жыл бұрын
As a woman who has experienced physical, mental, emotional and financial abuse I can honestly say that if I had heard these words before hand it would never have happened. For me it started at age 47 and I can only say that RCBlakes advice is the best you’re ever going to get. I am happy to hear it now and RCBlake has been instrumental in my healing.
@darleneburnett4969
@darleneburnett4969 8 ай бұрын
Bishop RC. Blake’s keep telling the Truth women need to hear this.Some of us didn’t have a Father present in the home.May God continue to Bless you to educate us.
@heatherwanjuguna4629
@heatherwanjuguna4629 Жыл бұрын
Guilty as charged. I believe that the turn around begins by accepting the role I have played in devaluing myself and as a result allowing, accepting and even justifying poor treatment in my life. Thank you for this firm reminder. May God heal my heart and renew my self esteem, confidence and sense of self worth.
@sheriuk7653
@sheriuk7653 Жыл бұрын
Am a muslim and I love RC Blakes podcasts. I admire his honesty and saying it as it is. Thankyou.
@jeanettesjoyreadingcorner5742
@jeanettesjoyreadingcorner5742 Жыл бұрын
Say what you need to say and I pray that the women listening will hear. Thank you, Pastor Blakes.
@PinkYellowGreen2023
@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын
I feel you on this! Relationships nowadays seem to be focused on disrespecting women and creating undignified connections to them. Job loss, privacy violations, flip talk, neglect, stalking, other married women claiming superiority over the single, harassing phone calls, you name it! Totally undignified...yet people think they can create love this way. I don't understand it.
@judywade3124
@judywade3124 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes, you are telling us the truth. The way a woman dresses shows alot about who she is and what she presents. A woman's boundaries is a form of protection against the wrong type of individuals. Thank you for encouraging younger women and older women of today. We need God and people like you to keep us on the right path. God bless you.🙏❤
@kingdomchyldmoments4081
@kingdomchyldmoments4081 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know how you be reading my mind! I JUST LEFT A RELATIONSHIP where a man tried to put me in a situation, I told him just that several times on several occasions, you’re not going to play with me like that or treat me any kind of way on no level at no time I am not one of them! I have been treated better! Pastor, Lisa y’all hit the nail on the head with this one. Thank you! Add much as I want a relationship with a man, I’m not trying to be crazy in love. ❤🎉💜📖
@brettswiferose50
@brettswiferose50 Жыл бұрын
For you to speak the truth from a man's perspective is a true blessing..I was raised in old school...I received your message..A woman is attractive when she carries herself like a lady...
@doityourselfqueen
@doityourselfqueen Жыл бұрын
Negotiating my dignity is a non-starter. As soon as I see or hear opportunistic coming from a man's mouth, I'm out of there. My dignity is everything. Once you lose it, it's hard to get back. Be uncompromising ladies when it comes to your mind, hear, body, and soul ladies. Always.
@Matoaka365
@Matoaka365 Жыл бұрын
This was so impactful!! It's so crazy because when I caved into the pressure and was more compromising...finding someone to be in a relationship with was a piece of cake. Now that I'm uncompromising when it comes to the standards I've set for myself, my phone is dry as the Sahara. 😂 But I'd rather do things God's way, knowing that I will be blessed and my self worth will NEVER be up for auction EVER again. 🙌🏾
@jeweljules6847
@jeweljules6847 Жыл бұрын
I hear you Sis...same situation for me. Self respect and boundaries will bring forward the King we deserve🙏🏾💞💖💞🙏🏾
@tamiajackson
@tamiajackson Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣She say she phone dry like the Sahara yes... Lol yo.. My phone ain't dry.. But I don't tolerate the nonsense anymore.. Even when it's someone I really like.. I won't initiate sex with any guy or allow anyone to initiate or try it with me cuz its NOT happening..! Above all else I value my peace
@Matoaka365
@Matoaka365 Жыл бұрын
@@jeweljules6847 Yes! It sure will! I'm trusting in Him! ☺️💜
@jeweljules6847
@jeweljules6847 Жыл бұрын
@@Matoaka365 I am enjoying my single time😂... pouring into myself and discovered what I truly desire and deserve...it's wonderful🥰🙏🏾
@Matoaka365
@Matoaka365 Жыл бұрын
@tamiajackson 🤣🤣 I get asked for my number alllll the time but I hardly give it out. 😂 If he's not a God fearing man, no thank you. I meet non Christian men all the time and Christian men who live worldly lives, all the time. They don't wanna hear ANYTHING about waiting for marriage to have sex. Smh. But finding a man that prays and has a strong relationship with God, that's single, and not sex obsessed..is like finding a needle in a haystack.
@akitamoore2185
@akitamoore2185 Жыл бұрын
Never apologize or lower the pertinent information because some of us are mad or irritated! Some are ready for meat so we can continue growing! Any women irritated by your message is a women not ready to grow! Love you and First Lady Lisa, so by all means....keep it coming Pastor! ❤️
@alexissmith4339
@alexissmith4339 Жыл бұрын
I literally ended a situation with a guy I liked 10 years ago, and that was it. I’m okay if I have to be single for the rest of my life and I’m only 29. It’s outrageous what all these damaged people are doing to good people. Continue to be a good mom and work on myself.
@evelynruss8465
@evelynruss8465 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes 71 still learning Thank you!🎉
@JuliaShalomJordan
@JuliaShalomJordan Жыл бұрын
RC, your voice is the wise and caring father I never had. How much better would the world be if there were more caring father figures like you? You are doing the work of a good Father. Thank you.❤
@seashellmermaid
@seashellmermaid Жыл бұрын
RC KEEP PREACHING....Young women need to be taught. Older women need this message to stop making the same mistskes. You are the Earthly Father VOICE we have all needed to hear. Thank you!!!
@ebbygal1111
@ebbygal1111 Жыл бұрын
I've been celibate for four years and it's one of the best things I could of done for myself. Some men think they should get it just because they exist. My new mantra for myself is you have to EARN this. Which means I will not be sleeping with a man until God blesses me with my husband. The fact that these men just ask for it without even knowing you makes me sick. All I think is how many women do you sleep with? Thank you God for saving me!
@Bornfree1010
@Bornfree1010 Жыл бұрын
Keep talking. You are changing the world for all: our children/sons & daughters, grandchildren our husbands and parents and our offspring that are to come when you are gone.
@lebensart3948
@lebensart3948 Жыл бұрын
Dear Bishop Blakes, You cannot imagine how often I replay especially this video. The outside pressure on our minds as women is so intense that I need this content to recalibrate my mind on a constant basis. I thank God daily for your work and ministry on us women and for being a spiritual father to us. It brings us so much healing. I never met a man of God like you are dear Bishop and all you do for us is invaluable. God bless you continuously with His wisdom and strenghth and keep you in perfect peace!
@Oluwadamilola_2
@Oluwadamilola_2 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you a 💯 percent pastor...The best thing a lady can do for her self is to carry her self with dignity and self worth, nothing beats that.
@guadeloupe61
@guadeloupe61 Жыл бұрын
Hi Bishop, my name is Sabine and I live in Toronto, Canada. Thank you so much for this message; It is exactly the one that I needed today. I am 54 and have never been married and the only thing I experienced with men is rejection. Two days ago, while I was in training for work the trainer, a married man, constantly flirted with me. I never experienced this before and I enjoyed it BUT now I realize that I have to love myself more and be courageous to keep my distance and say NO if I have to. I am scared of facing this situation but I have no choice. Thank you, thank you for that message.
@opuulent1
@opuulent1 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Reverend Blakes! You are truly a blessing!
@kristinepaulfranz277
@kristinepaulfranz277 Жыл бұрын
You are RENEWING hearts, minds, + souls with each and every message. Thank you for speaking these truths. I thank God for His work in and through you, you are truly a blessing to ALL of us!
@thequeenofresources
@thequeenofresources Жыл бұрын
Bishop keep speaking. There is alot of us who are really listening and we are getting it! But foe the few that are not we have to pray for them. The Lord knows who your messages are for and who really need to hear them! From the bottom of our heart we as the body of Christ says THANK YOU FOR ALL THAT YOU DO! AND WE SEE YOU AND HEAR YOU! Smile Keshia
@kenniel1756
@kenniel1756 Жыл бұрын
Idk how I landed in an almost 3 year situationship… he waited a while before showing his true colors. But, let me tell you…. God protects the ones he loves something serious… I wouldn’t have been bruised and scared had I listened to the first warning from God, then the second, third and fourth. I will never do that ever again… and currently 1 month into no contact and picking up my dignity.
@empressi79
@empressi79 Жыл бұрын
You've got me over here on the verge of tears. I have been with my partner for 3 yrs, and had to end it recently. I did this because I can no longer love her more than I love myself. I'm healing now, but for so long, I lost myself in her. I know now, my self worth and want to maintain my dignity. I'm also reading your book, Me, My, Mine and it's so eye opening. Thank you for all your work and for sharing it with the world.
@rosalysmartinez2153
@rosalysmartinez2153 Жыл бұрын
Great powerful message. Thank you Pastor!
@perlacampos3822
@perlacampos3822 Жыл бұрын
26:01 when a woman honors her dignity its empowerment
@theresaconley3455
@theresaconley3455 Жыл бұрын
My dad never talked to me this way keep talkin I love the way you talk to us women out here especially me
@thefacetsofdee8291
@thefacetsofdee8291 Жыл бұрын
Such a needed reminder for us in these times, There's no greater feeling than being able to look at yourself in the mirror and there is no shame or guilt because you have compromised yourself, You'll find yourself standing straighter, your mind is clearer, you feel proud & strong, Its not always easy, but its always right & always pays off🌹
@enumangene6914
@enumangene6914 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor for this, I am the woman I am today because of you, so many things you have taught me about who I am that I wouldn't have gotten from anywhere else, my biological father couldn't do that for me and if I learnt it from the world's standard, I don't know what would have become of me, I really appreciate you Pastor 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤
@l.dozier1984
@l.dozier1984 Жыл бұрын
Same ❤
@HellenofTroy897
@HellenofTroy897 Жыл бұрын
I've binged on your videos for the past three years and I definitely know MY WORTH. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
@solcelestehernandez9480
@solcelestehernandez9480 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the message being shared regardless of the challenges and response it may have. Some of us didn’t grow up with fathers to teach this, lead, and have our best interest. These videos have taught me so so so much and I am forever grateful.
@cheftrevayoung4450
@cheftrevayoung4450 Жыл бұрын
Ready to receive this seasonal message….
@tangiemo
@tangiemo Жыл бұрын
I found you while listening to Tony Gaskins and I’m thrilled! This video needed to be put out in the universe and I agree with your every word. As women we can sometimes get lost in “life” and not realize that the only acceptance we need comes from the holy father in heaven. Ladies, without your dignity you’re LOST! It’s just that simple. Let the message go deep within and then reflect and do the work. It’s never too late. Thank you 🙏🏾💕
@merylthompson5347
@merylthompson5347 Жыл бұрын
I so needed to hear this after walking out of 13 year marriage that was full of pain and sorrow thank u God for this word from pastor…I’ve let myself down but God gonna get me back on the right track
@sunflowersoul821
@sunflowersoul821 Жыл бұрын
Good morning Pastor RC Blakes Jr.☝🏾💃🏾🙌🏾🌻 Bring it home Sir.👑Now having DIGNITY is very and highly important.🤎
@annaa6259
@annaa6259 Жыл бұрын
09:45 glad RC did not take a nap as this video is pure gold❤
@kassylovelamazone5576
@kassylovelamazone5576 Жыл бұрын
That's why I come to youtube to learn from people like you. God bless you Sir❤
@clarissahughes105
@clarissahughes105 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. ❤
@jadacruz5284
@jadacruz5284 Жыл бұрын
So true! You can never get over a wasted life. It’s better to let your heart break letting go
@dorothymatthews6690
@dorothymatthews6690 Жыл бұрын
Bishop, thank you Sir. This word was powerful. beyond measure! I'll see you at the top!
@ctnwsm
@ctnwsm Жыл бұрын
I was involved with a narcissist and my dignity was compromised like crazy. I became a joke because of what this man did behind my back and to me. I regret it but it happened but God will restore you and your dignity among people if he chooses. The enemy wants to believe you damaged but you are not. You are who God says you are.
@esirose9033
@esirose9033 Жыл бұрын
Dear Bishop Blakes - I am always happy when you are very clear (even if it would sting), about the things that can put us women in danger. You do speak them in love and besides it is MUCH better for us to come away clear about the point than confused by someone that beats about the bush. I AGREE! Realise now, shortern the period of pain so that life can be lived at the real level God has for us. (I'm 62 and from London, UK and I have becone very together in myself from listening to the you teach, share and express things. It is GOOD medicine. Please continue. I am introducing your teaching to friends too. QUEENS ARE CLEAR is one of my very favourites and straight up! God bless you righly and may you always find His peace. Amen!
@marshaonyoutube
@marshaonyoutube Жыл бұрын
I really needed this kind of fatherly, spiritual, grounded, and loving advice 20 years ago. I'm learning a lot at 41. Now that I know better, I must do better. Thank you for putting this out. You're helping so many women. ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
@LolitaStClair
@LolitaStClair Жыл бұрын
Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes! I enjoyed your Video! Please have a Blessed Day!
@tracieholland
@tracieholland 7 ай бұрын
You definitely NEED to be here! Thank GOD for you!
@MysticButterfly22
@MysticButterfly22 Жыл бұрын
Another great meesage! Thanks again R.C. you are saving lives daily.👍🏼❤
@donnajeffreys8252
@donnajeffreys8252 Жыл бұрын
🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸 you may have to pass on 15 or 20 frogs to find your prince . NEVER SETTLE !! You teach the world how to respect you because of the way that you Respect yourself. Your clothes, your character, your friends, your family. GOD LOVES YOU !! IF GOD IS FOR YOU IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THE WHOLE WORLD IS AGAINST YOU 🙏🏾
@cee-cee2709
@cee-cee2709 Жыл бұрын
First of all, the song in the beginning gets me so pumped up. Then you come with such an amazing message. Great job sir. We all appreciate you!
@refined_jessy
@refined_jessy 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this 🙏 it was really helpful ❤
@maryhenderson4929
@maryhenderson4929 Жыл бұрын
This is the best talk yet, blessings brother I'm truly getting free from the words you've used
@maggiefrancis9064
@maggiefrancis9064 Жыл бұрын
Incomparable in dignity, insight and every components that a honorable relationship is built upon, a truly inspiring teacher.
@kamirichardson4535
@kamirichardson4535 Жыл бұрын
I can’t thank you enough for allowing God to speak through you. You are spot on as usual. Your teachings are life changing & life giving. I just recently had to put these things into practice in a hard situation, and although I cried the whole way, I’m so thankful for God’s strength & wisdom that allowed me to not give in & further compromise my dignity. May God continue to bless, you, Lisa, your family & the ministry that He’s entrusted to you. ❤
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 5 ай бұрын
I’ve watched this over 10 times. Thank you so much. Has been a shining beacon to keep me on track!
@sherrithomas2390
@sherrithomas2390 Жыл бұрын
You Sir are TRULY GODSENT!!! God Bless you and your family!
@OrganicallyLuxeLife
@OrganicallyLuxeLife Жыл бұрын
Bishop thank you for your time and your heart blessings to you and First Lady
@wylenecoffee
@wylenecoffee Жыл бұрын
Yeeeeessa I learn about being a virtuous woman in my late 20s thank you Pastor Blakes for a refresh... you talking to truth please continue to teach me Pastor Blakes 🙏🏽 give the First Lady my ❤️
@cgarner126
@cgarner126 Жыл бұрын
I spoke for myself this past Friday. Now, I have the power to speak up to any man. Thanks, Pastor!
@patriciaanaya8917
@patriciaanaya8917 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wise counsel! Thanks for not holding back. So many of us women grew up without Fathers that were present,.
@sharinaross1865
@sharinaross1865 Жыл бұрын
The theme song gets me every time. Something led me to watch more than one teaching lectures.
@CherishMarieXOXO
@CherishMarieXOXO Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this channel! God bless you, sir! I needed this SO badly tonight! (I wish i had your channel 29 years ago, then maybe I'd known better than to sell myself so cheaply to the most disrespectful, alcoholic, abusive little boy, who will never grow up, who has never deserved me, and after 29yrs, has never even married me. But ive had a stirring in my soul lately & have been praying on it, & I know He will see me through this. Sadly tonight, i had horrible, soul crushing evening, one for the books that left me shattered in pieces & feeling more broken than ever. I came on youtube a bit ago to find a sermon to try & soothe my heart.. and I see your video pop up! (That was for sure, a God-wink!!!) As soon as i heard you speak, i knew I hadn't found your channel by accident. 🙏 God bless you, sir. Thank u for all the women i KNOW you have helped, and will continue to help. Thank u for caring, for your time, for you wisdom & thank u for listening to God as he guided you in making this channel. You are a beautiful, kind, soul. And to all the women out there who are broken, abused & feel lost. Who feel alone & like they have no worth & feel it's hopeless & that there's no way out.. REMEMBER THIS... Jesus LOVES YOU, even when we dont love ourselves. 🙏 Stay strong, God WILL get u through this! Love & prayers to you, all 🙏
@trinawilliams3459
@trinawilliams3459 Жыл бұрын
I need this I removed 2 men out of my life who I knew didn't love ME enough to date me or marry me one Man just wanted me around just in case things didn't work out with him and his Lady we were friends before he met her I TOLD him good bye the other person I never called him again I'm not perfect but I deserve to be treated with respect 💟🙏🏾
@godsbutterfly12
@godsbutterfly12 Жыл бұрын
OMG! I love this. I can attest to the truth of this. As I began to love God and learn me, establish boundaries and provide self-love towards myself the power that I recognize is so beautiful. To whomever sees my comment, no matter your age or season you're in, I pray Pastor Blakes words live within. Love on God and allow Him to love on you. Thank you Pastor Blakes. May God forever cover you and your family. ❤️ GOD IS LOVE❣️
@youmnaamir4152
@youmnaamir4152 Жыл бұрын
“ you’re a diamond that’s being treated like glass , that’s an emotional wound , an emotional fracture. Somtimes the heart has to break for the soul to heal . You better to deal with the pain of getting over something that didnt deserve you than to live with the pain of never maximizing your potential because you tolerated someone that didnt deserve you “ …I LOVE YOU RC BLAKES for guiding us to discover these gems inside of our souls ❤❤
@synoviablocker3642
@synoviablocker3642 Жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏾 I know you’re telling the truth!
@cookgrits8112
@cookgrits8112 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful Lesson Praise the LORD
@fionajames9960
@fionajames9960 Жыл бұрын
Bishop. I am almost shocked at how much value I am getting from your videos and I thank you nd praise God who brought you to me at the exact moment I was ready and eager for this father-daughter wisdom. Ideally I would have had it in my childhood or teens of course, but then I wouldn't have learnt everything else I had to learn the hard way to get to the warrior queen I am today! Again, thank you so much and praise the Lord for working through you
@jennytaylor3324
@jennytaylor3324 Жыл бұрын
You looked tired, pastor, but I'm glad you sacrificed your nap to say this. I know what it's like to be a beautiful but mentally fractured young woman out in the world, trying to navigate male attention with no sense of self. It eventually led me far down a dark road with a 'male', not a man (I had to laugh when you made that very important distinction!!) who ran me ragged for 4 long years. I got away from him when the time was right for me, and it was an important lesson, but there's no telling how, even to this day, that situationship affected my estimation of myself, living with my pride in my pocket for a long time, knowing he didn't respect me. As you said, i think you can withstand the loss of a relationship if you lose without surrendering your dignity. Never before in history has female dignity felt so attacked and compromised by the increasingly sick culture. 'Women's liberation' (whatever that was) has been twisted back upon itself in to a weapon that womankind has been tricked in to using against itself. The new, and ironic, standard for young girls seems to be to turn themselves in to surgically enhanced soft porn stars for the pleasure of social media 'likes', and it's such an own-goal. They have it tougher than any of us who came up before them did, I think.
@attractachinedumministrytv5761
@attractachinedumministrytv5761 Жыл бұрын
Big Brother Bishop RC BLAKES, THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR TEACHINGS.
@lori6156
@lori6156 8 ай бұрын
Yes RC Blakes, we need to hear your solid advice! Thank you and Thank God! ❤❤❤❤
@holistically_nicki
@holistically_nicki Жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes thank you! Thank you for caring about us so much, I felt your spirit and your heart in this message. I’m 44 years old and lost my father 17 years ago, I do believe he led me to your channel to receive the loving teachings from you that he can no longer give me in person. I thank God for you sir 🙏🏾❤️
@ashleeharding3289
@ashleeharding3289 Жыл бұрын
Great message Bishop Blakes as usual! Your commentary has changed my way of thinking as a married woman and my life.
@jamiestumps6146
@jamiestumps6146 Жыл бұрын
I Thank you Good Bishop for this sobering Word!
@Blessed75463
@Blessed75463 Жыл бұрын
Bishop Blake, you are truly a blessing to everyone. I have learned more from you in my journey of womanhood. I share all your inspirational teachings with family and friends. God bless you, Man of God🙏🏾🙏🏾. Thank you
@faithfulfalane421
@faithfulfalane421 Жыл бұрын
My God! Another Annointed Word Thank you Bishop! And THANK YOU LADY LISA FOR SHARING YOUR GIFT WITH US❤❤❤
@tericollier8232
@tericollier8232 Жыл бұрын
I can say with experience, you will always find someone who will try to push your boundaries. It never fails. You have to stand your ground for who you choose to be. Nobody else can force you to be who you are meant to be. Just remember that it's not just you who is watching. Your children or other people's are always watching what example you are setting. Teach them by example so that they may be raised up to a higher level of integrity and dignity. Children have enough of their own mistakes without adding someone else's mistake to their life experiences.
@susandelacruz7396
@susandelacruz7396 Жыл бұрын
Wow we women need more videos like this very valuable information especially when U don't have a father figure and never had one this is a treasure chest of info. Thank you so much every day should have this talk with their daughters
@vickyl1010
@vickyl1010 Жыл бұрын
Good Friday evening from Tampa! God bless you Pastor Blakes and First Lady Lisa!
@ednafernandesyi
@ednafernandesyi Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much....this is the world we live in....there are men out there lying in wait to to abuse and hurt .....it is reality...
@ministerwwoods
@ministerwwoods Жыл бұрын
This is so good just found you a week ago and I have been devouring these teachings even from 2 years ago from you Bishop .🙏🏾🙌🏾
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
I also binge watched all the way back when I found the channel. It really helped me gain back my dignity.
@shakitatillman4916
@shakitatillman4916 Жыл бұрын
Great teaching Bishop!!! So needed in these days!!! Thank you!!! Your teaching isn’t in vain!!! It’s necessary! God sent you to do exactly what your doing in this season!!! God bless you and your ministry!!!
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