Three Major Factors Affecting a Woman's Choice

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[@mimia8388]

This video is so on point. I believe in sticking to a man of my own race and someone with the same faith. I am a God fearing woman and it would not be in my interest to associate with a non God fearing man. My circle of friends share the same sentiment and I intend on keeping it that way. I believe that hings work out much better in a relationship when a man and a woman follow biblical principles.

[@RomWills]

Yeah people need to be equally yoked.

[@brookvalley907]

Once again your video has made me think deeper. I didn’t realize until your video that the things you say women select on have saved my marriage many times. Thank goodness the list of things my wife selected on was similar background, values and beliefs. Those similarities kept us together when the love light burned dim. I think there were several times we would have divorced, except we couldn’t find anybody else that thought as much alike as we did. I know one woman who is getting divorced, because she is religious and her husband is not. I imagine when they were infatuated with each other in the beginning, they thought religion would not be an issue. But when their love light dimmed religion became the straw that broke the back of their marriage. Thank goodness my wife had the sense to select somebody without too many straws, because all I could see was how hot she was.

[@RomWills]

Similar values are very important in keeping a marriage going.

[@omoowobhd]

Interesting & insightful. It takes a very open minded & unique person to change their paradigm & question or break with their traditional belief systems, especially those who were raised as Christians in this country with an unhealthy diet...

[@RomWills]

Yeah it does take a lot to change a belief system.

[@Digital_Knight]

That is why I don't even try to approach a so called a black christian woman . They are the ones who are too judgemental and what I mean by that is they think they know how close you are to God . I had talk to a woman before that goes to church and she told me she wants a man who can speak in tongues . I was like wth ??!! I basically hung the phone shortly after she said that . I am not even going to talk about the ones who trys to get with the pastor even if he is married .

[@RomWills]

Yeah that a video in itself.

[@joejett5084]

I personally think that when black christian women talk about God, she really means herself.

[@latoyathornton1871]

Speaks in tongues 😁😁😂😂 she probably didn't herself

[@theemperor2017]

Sensi Rafiki, i think the audience need a part:2 video. Such insight bestowed upon us created a paradigm shift.

[@stocks4bt]

Well said. Like Rom said "whether you want to believe it or not" we ALL gravitate to people who resemble our RACE, CLASS & RELIGION based on our culture, our family and most importantly our VALUES. Rom could have gone deeper with this..in which I wouldn't be surprised. Your Style plays a role in her choice and yours. Your Vibration levels play a role in her choice and yours. How you solve problems and deal with various situations plays a role If you don't believe this simply ask yourself one simple question. "Why did I break up or loose respect for the last mate I dealt with?" 9 times out of 10 you'll Religion (aka values to me) or CLASS didn't align

[@RomWills]

You speak nothing but the truth.

[@kamala80]

What I keep running into is that my environment is mostly homogeneous Black environment. The DMV has a diverse Black population.

[@RomWills]

Sometimes a player has to change his environment.

[@kamala80]

That's going down!

[@lupinrhyging5309]

Thanks Rom.

[@anwardunbar3491]

Rom this is my first time seeing this video. I go to one of the more affluent churches in DC........actually Northern Virginia. You guys can probably guess which one. I also participate in the CBC Annual Legislative Conference to some degree most years. This really explains a lot. Class and Religion.

[@RomWills]

Very important factors.

[@Bronxguyanese]

I have noted some of these nuances for women when it comes to long term. Women do not look at a mans interests. Status, race and religion, not in the form of dogma, but in spirituality are very important to women. Mans value system is very different from a woman. I do see religion as an important factor. Me for example, I grew up Catholic. I can relate with hispanics and ethnic whites due to being Catholic. I'm also mixed race. Because of my religion, I can't relate with black women because they are baptists, however I'm willing to look over faith due to value system. For me with any woman, religion is not an important factor for me when it comes to dating and longterm. I look at a woman's overall value system. Some women can not look over faith, unless of he is very good looking or has money. Faith is very important to women. Race is also important to women. You see me in mixed race. If I'm with a white women and we choose to procreate. My children will be mostly white. And will be classified as such. If im with a black woman and we procreate, my kids will be black. Race comes into play due to similarities of looks. I'm mixed race so, black and white women are hit or miss. If a value system of faith, race, status and politics don't match up to a woman. A good chance she won't be with you long term.

[@RomWills]

True statements.

[@mrj9224]

They don't know what they really want n they couldn't handle all this anyway!! More freedom for me 👍👍😉😉😉👊👊

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@MsJoyce31202]

1. I like him. 2. I like him. 3. I like him.

[@mrj9224]

Unrealistic expectations bro look at women in foreign countries those men don't have status money lol

[@RomWills]

They'll have something that women will value.

[@mrj9224]

Rom Wills lol like chain smoking??

[@jaygunns]

I think these three factors are what's keeping a lot of women single, especially the religion part.

[@RomWills]

FACTS!!!

[@jaygunns]

No one will ever have 100% of what you're looking for. I think men are more accepting of this. The sweetest and most cooperative woman I've ever dated didn't even have h.s. diploma.

[@RomWills]

DaMayorOfNewYork True.

[@The_Equalizer23]

DaMayorOfNewYork I'm willing to bet, those guys from the past weren't smart lol.

[@The_Equalizer23]

DaMayorOfNewYork Common sense is intelligence because it's fluid. Intellect is accumulated and static. That's why women believe they are smarter because they have college degrees. But that's only intellect lol!

[@johnnyholder3296]

Good solid video!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

My mother is half black half white and her skin color looks like that from a latina woman + i'm black. And i agree my preference go to those kind of women. It's something psychological in your brain. That religion thing is true but what i think is even more important is education how to raise kids in some way...women think that they are the professor in those things but i disagree.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for mentioning education. As I said in the video there are many factors affecting a woman's choice. I may have to do more videos on the subject.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Your welcome, certainly your knowledge on this is very appreciate

[@mimia8388]

Wow, I had seen this video before and commented, but somehow it pops up on my tablet again so here I am commenting again. This video is a definite description of who I am. Caribbean woman who would not date anyone, but black. I don't care if black men date out. That is their business, but I am staying where I am. I have been called a racist, prejudice and and all sets of nonsense. I have had black sisters telling me maybe this is what God have planned for me, but I prefer to remain single instead of inter- marrying with anyone outside of my race. This has nothing to do with racism, it is a matter of choice. I grew up in a working class family and I have worked very hard to achieved certain things myself, because I was taught we have to work hard to earn what we need in life. I look much younger than my age, but I am not young as I am a sixties child. I am simply here to share a lot of the things I learned from wise people when I was growing up. As for religion, that is a huge problem when interacting with men. I am part of a religion where you are not allowed to marry outside of that religion. I can break the rule, but then again if the marriage does not work out, it's another story. Some people have been fortunate to convert, but even with that it is expected that you marry a brother or sister within the religion. I will leave it as that.

[@RomWills]

I understand.

[@mimia8388]

Rom Wills Thanks😊

[@phaethon1988]

Insightful video brother Rom. Also, respectfully, the word mores is pronounced more-ays.

[@RomWills]

All right brotha thanks. I'll get it right for the future.

[@mikeprat1]

so true rom. the white acceptance/white jesus/white authority/white is the measure of success mentality is very real. if you don't look/speak/act and think like a white man you are not a success... sad. looking forward to the next video💯

[@RomWills]

All right you starting to get real deep. Folks might not be ready for that one.

[@mikeprat1]

+Rom Wills It's the root! "we're" so are so busy looking to be accepted and make other families wealthy vs taking the time to cultivate our own. it's starts with education. we have to be mindful that the purpose of the curriculum in public school is to make great tax payers. i practice paying minimal taxes, by not obligating myself through conduct or contract. working on building infrastructures.

[@The_Equalizer23]

Mike Prat Truth! A lot of black women, even family members, believe I only dated white women. Lol I've date blacks and Hispanics only!

[@marzmindset5848]

10:50 tell me about it.

[@joefromdc]

another gd video. got my books u recommend

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@Bronxguyanese]

Also rom Wills. You should have added politics. If politics of you and a woman don't match up. This will lead to plenty of problems. Politics spectrum is very important when it comes to picking a mate.

[@RomWills]

Remember I said there were several other factors. Politics is one of them.

[@Vinnamese]

Rom...you are consistently uploading new videos. I can't keep up. Chill out man lol

[@RomWills]

Gotta keep my product out there.

[@ramelhagins6698]

Yep I'm a black man and I'm attracted to black women.

[@herujfk]

👍🏾

[@markflowers3985]

Rom religious women get mad when i ask a simple question what made god?

[@mimia8388]

On the subject of religion, it was my father who sent my sister and I to church every Sunday while he never went. Sometimes we would go with my grandmother, but my grandfather never went either. My older brother used to go as a teenager, but once he became an adult he stopped going. So men have never been the ones in church and I believe father's send their daughters to church as a form of protection to instill the fear of God in their daughters so their daughters don't make stupid mistakes. Basically we grew up with that culture. Trust me, when I used to go to that Roman Catholic church on a Sunday I did not learn anything except the ten commandments and I made up stories for confession. Lol. I left that religion a long time ago. Brothers have to realize that it was always easier for them than the girls. Boys always had a lot of freedom while the girls were being tied to their mothers apron strings. By 6 pm we had to be indoors, while the boys were outside roaming. This is how things were done in the Caribbean. I don't know for north America. I am not sure if those millennials even go to church today, but that is how it was before the 2000s I would say. I have to admit religion is not what it used to be, things have changed tremendously, but there are still a couple of religion where things are not out of hands like the nonsense we see today. Anyway, brothers have to remember that the majority of sisters had religion instilled in them from childhood by their parents and it is very difficult to turn away from something you were taught all of your life. I am not saying that sisters should stay in a church with the nonsense i see like pastors screaming and doing the moonwalk. Lol, but use common sense. I truly believe in the power of prayer and no one is going to take that away from me. There might be some descrepancies in the way the bible is being taught and we don't know the original bible. Hoever, I believe in my heart there is a creator and we were given a conscience and principles to live by. It is up to us to decide whether we want to obey or not.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing that that testimony.

[@mimia8388]

Rom Wills It’s always a pleasure to share.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Hey Rom, you think us guys are overblowing the belief that women are overly attractive to highly sexual men, beyond class and race and religion? Maybe it the deeper frustrations of men too deep with the nonselect experience hold on to that explanation too much. I sure hope you wrote those video ideas down.

[@RomWills]

You know I don't write down anything and you brothas need to remind me. Yes men are overblowing many things. There is so much that goes into a woman's choice. I just gave three factors. I've known to say they found a particular man physically attractive but would not get with him because of X,Y, and Z. Just how it is.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Write your Ideas down Season Vet. You got like 5 Vids in this one.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Also, as a relatively Select Man. Do you think you get more honesty out of women on average?

[@RomWills]

I'm just playing. I got a stack of video ideas. Each one gets a sheet of paper. It's true women are more honest with me. Either right away or once they get to know me. A little too honest. A man really doesn't want to be non-select in this culture. There are many things I don't say for fear of how men may react. It wouldn't be good on any level.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Its okay to be Responsible for the Apocalypse Rom...I mean at most you would Be speeding the process up....LOL!!