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[@logicwins3492]

I actually notice that the busted women have more confidence than most of the dimes. Better looking women, if they like you, are incredibly shy. I suppose it's because they're so used to guys pursuing them that they never learn how to game men they like.

[@RomWills]

Ironically I find that to be true.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

yup. i have noticed that the 5,'6's with heavey makeup who still have plenty of suitors will be more rude and demanding thinking they all that. or they fuck that ego. it's true that even a decent looking chic if she has game will start to look more attractive ! crazy

[@SkinoGreeneVu]

actually the reason is they don't have to learn. if she's pretty. she's got dudes in her face since a toddler or whenever she developed her attraction

[@Everton4109]

Very true. A lot of these 10s are homebodies. One of the toughest woman I know is a huge gamer... stays at the house. My girls best friend. She keeps it low key, rolls her little j and gets on that Xbox. Doesn't like really going out cause she's constantly approached. Goes out on an occasional date or their girls night. She was just focused on work and saving money to get a home. So she at the house on the phone or on that box. A Bad joint too! Rare breed.

[@RomWills]

Those women are out there. I always tell cats that it was a Dime that turned me on to the "X-Files."

[@christrucker4882]

Just because she's a dime doesn't mean she's worth more than 10 cents.

[@christrucker4882]

Thanks guys

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+Dave Wade I second that. Church girls are the most stressful, more cunning. I agree.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+Michael Elam For the second time, don't do it. A woman that can't get a man without media advertising is already a Red flag.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+Michael Elam All is just advice. That's all it is. Do whatever the F u wanna do.

[@KrOnIc343]

This is why you are my primary source! Alot of mgtow men or dating coaches will say ALL women are no good & you can only play them. But you have a more realistic view on dating & women. Thank you again Rom.

[@kenpachiblacc1337]

On point again Sir and a lot of times it's the MEN with low self esteem that don't either notice the women checking for them or run them away because they don't know how to respond to the women.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@provokedthoughtz2602]

Your value and confidence will send off a certain vibe/ frequency that a women will find attractive. Building body up, having a job, a car, a place of your own house or apartment are all confidence builders. The often used term is swagg. This is why certain men dont have to cold approach women. Something I've learn through my experiences.

[@RomWills]

Truth. Dudes make things deeper than it has to be.

[@KtotheG]

This video reminds me of the time when I was a sophomore in college. I was trying to get at this one girl in my Sociology 101 class. She wasn't really feeling me like that, but I noticed another girl, who I thought was just as cute, always looking at me. My game wasn't that strong then, so I didn't know how to switch over to her without making myself look messy, in a way. I figured she would've been like, "so why you trying to holler at me when you were all over that other girl?" I couldn't think of a good comeback, so I kept going with the other girl, thinking I'd break her eventually. I needed help, lol, because I didn't bag either one. I wish I had your sage advice back then. Undergrad was a sensory saturation of beauty everywhere. It was hard to focus in class, sometimes. Smh

[@RomWills]

Yeah college can be that way.

[@madslasher18]

I just turned 30 and my brother I just realized this within this year in 2017. I truly wish I understood this ideology much earlier it would've saved me tons of headache and trouble. Another very authentic, realistic, sound and practical advice.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@michaelwiggins9659]

This was a masterful production!!) The ladies are watching attentively we must read the subtle signs.

[@Iamomolara]

Michael Wiggins absolutely

[@RomWills]

Reading the subtle signals is the key.

[@Quincy82AAC]

Fantastic video Uncle Rom and I fully agree with you because I have been through these experiences as well.

[@brookvalley907]

Wow. As usual there are so many great insights in this video it would be hard to list them all. One of the best I thought was something to the effect that a man doesn't need game, if he'll just sit back and look. Some woman or women will be checking for him. I think this is so true. If a man will just go into a club or a group and either stand there with a drink and check out what's going on, or start a conversation with some guys and let the women notice that he is there. Then as time goes on look around the room and out of the corner of his eye see what women are looking his way. Then, after he has given the women time to evaluate him, see which women are checking him out and even giving him "the look". Now these women may or may not be tens. But if a man goes after an uninterested ten, he is just wasting his time. In fact, if a man goes after an uninterested "1", he's just wasting his time. A man's best prospects as Rom said are women who are already checking him. Now, if a man will follow Rom's "Five Step ..." video, the number of women checking him out will probably double or quadruple. Unfortunately, men are taught that they should go to a club or group, see a woman that they like and approach them. Unless the man accidentally approaches a woman who was already checking him out, he'll be rejected. Or, worse, and this is the worst thing that can happen, he approaches an attractive woman that sees him as a meal ticket. She pretends to be interested in him. Allows him to buy her things, and worse yet, maybe even marries him and later divorces him and takes half of everything he owns. All because he didn't take Rom's advice, or I guess it was "Jim's" advice to just "sit back and look".

[@RomWills]

Man, "Jim" would be an overnight KZbin sensation. Women fly across the country to see him.

[@TheThinkingMansTemplar]

This video just made my day brother... hell yeah !!! Shit lemme get fresh and hit these LA streets .. damn man.. like this video just boosted my whole vibe this morning ..

[@celestedivine8142]

I told a Guy that it was the Woman who chooses the Man,and he said it was the opposite way around.We had a debate about it.I explained to him that everytime a Guy chose me,he turned out to be a disappoint,because his intentions were not right,and I had to find that out the right way,but when I,the Woman does the choosing its because I have studied that Man,his Character,his passion,and his intentions,his Sincerity before I even make a move.So when a Man Chooses me I'm like no,because usually I myself would have choose something better.

[@kenpachiblacc1337]

I agree!! A lot of men think it's their "game"...lol

[@RomWills]

Celeste Divine, I have told men this for ages. Some still argue with me about it.

[@targetegrat]

Older male relatives have been telling this since I was a kid. You don't get the girl because of your game. You get the girl because you are her type and you haven't done anything to turn her off.

[@DatManDooley]

In this matriarchal society yes! In most places of the world no! The man should choose his woman. Most of these women have chosen there mates there while life how has that worked out for them? Exactly. We came from a time your father chose your mate. There’s reasons for that. Women make poor choices in men. Then want sympathy for it lol

[@christophercasimir4070]

So what about arranged marriages

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

The simple Question Gentlemen is: How are you going to expect a woman to enjoy your company with you if you don't enjoy your own company and are happy with yourself? Men and Women don't complete each other, they simply add to the experience you are already have, they complement in the best of situations. Some men get those additions sooner, but on the other side of mature adult life , in the late 20 early 30's more men get their comeuppance , *ESPECIALLY* if they have been working on themselves and they are wiser and dodge the trials an tribulations early adopters who were players or married early had. Trust me on this. We're a Generation processing through chaotic times , that why many woman are attracted to dysfunction. it's all they've seen, so much of this is not on us , but we have the ability to control our response and our personal growth. Work with the potential you have, if you are a Very Smart and Competent man , that is really *WAY* more than you think, you have to build the confidence and settle the anxieties of really wanting a woman immediately, and redirect that into some ambitions and attitudes that a woman is only a small part of at best. Become the most Interesting man in your own life. Stay Thirsty...the right way fellas. kzbin.info/www/bejne/h4uco2V-jbeogpo kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6DNimmQq8icjsk

[@RomWills]

Preach Bro. Alvin!

[@Mr2andresims]

encouraging... thanks Rom

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@only1bracey182]

Prob watched 20 of your videos.. learnt alot from u.. some things u have reinforced.. yup u deffo my uncle now lol

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@Jahfariinternational]

First of all you got to KNOW what a female is checking for you for. Like me for example. I have a couple chicks who check for me but it's not because they really like me or because they want to be around me. They are checking for me because I got a car and they want to get dropped around or they want to smoke out my weed or some shit. They ain't checking for me because she likes me or because she wants to sleep with me. It's because she wants to use me. Maybe you could make a video on this Rom.

[@RomWills]

That's an excellent topic. Going on the list now.

[@targetegrat]

Real shit. Most women don't like men they like men for what they can gain from them.

[@ryannath85]

I've had the weed thing happen to me once. A female was just hanging around me cause I let her smoke my weed. I thought she liked me at the time cause she would ask me if I lived alone (now I think she was just being a golddigger and checking if I had money) and a few more questions but she didn't really like me or give me any action. She even declined my facebook request afterwards. I felt like a sucker.

[@ryannath85]

+Jah Selector AKA Jason Thompson Or she could be sucking other clits. That shit is very common nowadays. I swear its not that easy to find a chick that doesn't mess with other women or maybe I run in the wrong crowds. But I know plenty of women who are in relationships with other women but when they need money or bills paid they go to men for that. Sometimes I think the majority of women I know would rather be with women but when they get with men they are just using him for his money/status.

[@Jahfariinternational]

I can't stand a bitch that always checking for you to use you or ask you for money and shit. I just ignore their calls and shit.

[@NathanielMeeks610]

I need the books man. This is some great info family.

[@RomWills]

Thanks bruh.

[@Iamomolara]

So true. Just play it cool and watch for those subtle signals. Or maybe not so subtle lol. If a woman wants you, she'll make sure you know. But you have to be alert and paying attention. I know some beautiful women who love big guys or like the really skinny ones lol and I myself have been accused of dating ugly guys which I think is absurd haha everyone is different. Be confident and own whatever it is that you offer.

[@megatron5047]

Nibby 99 indeed

[@Iamomolara]

Son of Ethiopia for sure. That's the meat and potatoes. If you're nerdy own it. If you're a big guy be the best big guy. Be confident in yourself 100 percent. Nothing is more attractive than confidence.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

Nibby99 Refreshing comment from good BW like u.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+André “SPi” Bermudez Bruh, without confidence, everything u attempt to do is shitty. Com'on bruh

[@thelastpharaoh196]

lmfaoooooo

[@villonworthy958]

Rom you are so right I was in the grocery store Lowes Food to be exact a cashier she was young checking me out from a distance is true my brother

[@bigwill9421]

Lots of so-called "Dimes" aren't even worth half of the 10 cents You Give Em'!!!

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@warrengomez67]

I’ve missed a lot of opportunities simply because I was oblivious to the women that were checking for me. Then again most men miss choosing signals 🤣

[@jamid87]

This is definitely a positive reinforcement. Me and a good friend was chatting about all that we’re attracting was the hood chicks with kid(s). We definitely consider going to different venues but this is keeping me positive towards the fairer sex.

[@victorshaw8619]

Nice video Rom, just got a new sub. If you read these comments I wonder can you touch on a situation real quick. I'm 35 years old and for the last 6 years I've had to recoup from a previous relationship and build a business from scratch. For the last 4 years I have worked seven days a week, a full time job, a part time job and building my own business. I have put in my work so this year I've been able to go part-time on my main job and focus more time on my affairs. With that said for some reason I can't get out of grind mode, I had to cut out all bullshit back in 2011 and go berserk for these economic gains...so basically I will be sacrificing all my 30's to have control of my own economy. I attract women but over the course of the last few years I have only been engaging with women on strictly "BOOTY CALL" status. I don't do dates and I have a strict no caking rule however I know soon enough I'll have to start thinking about a relationship/family since I don't have any children. I personally have lost all tolerance for drama and these days most women come with a bunch of baggage and emotional issues that I can't deal with and keep focused on my grind. Please touch on this if you have the time I would appreciate some food for thought from an older brother who isn't about that bullshit.

[@RomWills]

You sound like me bruh. I keep a few women on standby for sex though a couple want more. I'm all about that money so I have some leverage in this thing we call life. I got a zero tolerance policy for drama which this one woman likes to push my limits. Good thing she can back that thing up. Focus on the women who show they are about your program. Your grind has to be the priority though.

[@KingLucious400]

big homie always keep it a buck salute

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@josephmcdonald9933]

I had great wisdom passed on to me my alcoholic sages especially when they have fallen down from the spirits.

[@RomWills]

Surprisingly effective.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

God Bless the Decent Woman. When looking for female companionship. Look at things in matter of a selection group. Don't just focus on one woman, slow step prospects into a relationship or a situation you may have.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@lsporter88]

So true. Masterful Social Commentary.

[@RomWills]

Thank you Bro. Leslie.

[@digitaldynasty9618]

Watching AGAIN in 2021.

[@salsaqueen4911]

Wow read a lot of the comments and I say again the days of my mom and dad are truly gone. So sad that relationships do not respect each other, also people both men and women need to learn to be independent of themselves so they can respect themselves thus respect others.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

Its true. And they are QUICK! Women sometimes see you before you see them. knowing the game now I regret not following up on the eye contacts in the past. Cause back then, I thought women only wanted relationships. I sudve been honest that I wanted to DVD and chill. Now I'll be more honest.

[@RomWills]

Check Mode One by Alan Roger Currie.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

true. like they sense the energy before they see you. i remeber i was walking into a restarautn once and i saw someone turn to look at me from one of the windows in the corner of my eye. so u turned to see who it was and their was this pretty cute chick eye fucking the shit out of me. she was with a dude . but for all iknow she made a bad choice anyways. crazy shit

[@lochofmceo]

I ain't shit,but women in better financial situations at least check for me.Once they realize I'm insane and dead serious either they run,I get impatient,or we click.

[@RomWills]

Sounds about right.

[@vanaphill2454]

I can't do Ain't Shit Dudes, I will run!

[@sniper11n.d.34]

I always have energy because i love sports and i don't drink, smoke and etcetera. A decent woman will always check because they recognize a good men from a mile away. The good women would date a badboy and even a bad guy because they think i can change that bad guy but she should go for the badboy because he's for real. Good women vs decent woman? Who is better? You tell me people...

[@MrTone075]

I really think they vary. I think a woman who is, for instance, cheating on her husband would look for a more masculine, virile dude to get off with, while she might have married the beta guy because he was stable, but not the type that got her wet. I would classify that as a foul woman. I think as Playersupreme said, there are good girls, freaks and hoes with some variation. The honest woman, the good girl with some freak tendencies works for me. I'd want to know what makes her tick and use it.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

I'm on the same page the good girl with some freak tendencies also works for me.

[@RomWills]

Bro Sniper, I like the same type of women.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Us men we understand each other.

[@chadfox6030]

I remember messing up with this baddie who was really feeling me but I was trying to act all hard which turned her off quick as shit . This was in my younger years but it was definitely a learning lesson on the importance of being yourself with women. I’m mean she was a legit 9 out of ten chick Armenian American. Moral of the story be yourself guys. Don’t switch up your personality just because you get a better looking body. Also uncle rom is right a lot of dimes are nerdy types or chill homebody types

[@allsmiles3281]

Paradigm shift + a new scene - anything you don't want = more options

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@celestedivine8142]

Its true Rom,they will get upset with you about If you say it is so.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@tajhlee6134]

Rom broke it down like a true uncle would

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@RASTAGOOB]

Master Teacher Rom... Appreciate your insight. is the saying true for the fellas "the second you don't pay attention to them then boom a woman pops up and is attracted to you"?

[@RomWills]

Very true. Women want attention even if they don't want the man giving it. Ignore her and they fight to get it back.

[@funkeenutz615]

“Good lord” 😂

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Rom, I remember one of my associates was checking this young lady out and he thought because he was known for his pedigree come to find out she was checking me out he thought because he had it going on at another level that he could pull the finner weman I consider myself one level below him but that particular swag that I possess she chose me causing damage to my boy eagle we still kick it tell this day he respected that sometimes what you possess don't get you what you want.

[@RomWills]

That's how it works.

[@gargomel21]

Uncle Rom, I want you to do a video on why ladies flirt with men that portray themselves to be of substance, even when those ladies are in relationships. it happens to me a lot, especially with bartenders. I know most of the times they are working for tips, but apart from their work environment I get the same reaction from these ladies. I believe ladies are always looking for the next best thing, especially when they are young. most of them want to live the american-dream, but most people don't have the discipline to do the work. that's why drug-dealers/hustlers will always look appealing to women. I began watching your videos months ago, and I've been focusing on developing myself because I realized ladies are attracted to wealth. I'm in Canada, are you able to ship your books in this area ?

[@RomWills]

If you order them off Amazon they will ship. Otherwise I can ship two of the books that I keep in my inventory. Hit me up at www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html. Let me know which books you are interested in.

[@gargomel21]

OK I'm interested in supporting your work as an entrepreneur, so as time goes by I'll try to read everything you wrote. For now I'll take any two that elaborate on how a man must present himself, and dealing with women.

[@gargomel21]

I'll contact you through email.

[@RomWills]

Just hit me up privately.

[@kyandigaru5666]

This is Carmelnookie18 my channel got hacked. Anywho, for those fellas out there that don't know what a decent woman looks like; she's the woman who's hair isn't perfect, make-up is flawed and who's manicure is peeling. she TRIES to be perfect, and rather paint her own nails than the stay at the "shop"! These women aren't always busy like the perfect dolls you see on IG. THey are normal- school going, job having women and they do have that two day weekend open for you. its never a "oh only after 7pm." type bullshit these "perfect Dolls" will tell you. BE WISE and KNOW a decent woman has flaws.....

[@RomWills]

Well said sis. You are always sincere.

[@banderas2000]

true. those ig models lookin pretty for taking a dump are filtered to the t. even in life i admit they CAN be nice to look at but due to the state of their being MOST are cosumed with their phones and the amount of likes they don't even NEED 1 man for attention anymore. the "adjustable 7" rom speaks off is the gold ticket

[@bosamairulet.v7311]

Listen to his Brother Bosama Irule

[@RomWills]

Thanks bruh.

[@jpjp3526]

Elaborate on how the Dimes are undercover nerdy Unc?

[@RomWills]

SOME can be. Not all of course. It was a Dime that turned me on to "X-Files." Another Dime I know could probably hack NASA. Still another I know can build a computer from scratch. Winning the genetic lottery doesn't mean a woman can't be smart.

[@husseinqasin5034]

Rom what do you mean by Decent women 6s 5s or 7 8s and 9s

[@RomWills]

A woman who has some level of attractiveness both physically and mentally.

[@vanaphill2454]

Every man should have a place to live, job and a good reputation in his community. No woman wants a man without these things.

[@chadfox6030]

From my experience, super attractive, women always made it easy for me . I and I also notice they play less games and will sleep with you very quickly . Average looking and below women always gave me a hard time.. they play a bunch of childish games, usually have bad attitudes, etc. It’s scary at first to approach a super attractive woman, but you’ll be surprise how nice she is and how easy she will make it for you. But you have to have your body On point 😆 don’t get it twisted

[@brotherbenz8278]

If you have a hard time understanding female signals you may want to engage them verbally...find your own way of knowing who likes you most...

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Write those Ideas down Rom!!

[@RomWills]

I do.

[@SubwayFan83]

I don't know about this one, I live my life throughout each day doing good for myself and no one is actually checking for me out of real interest. So I don't know..probably a hit and miss on this one.

[@kj3887]

I disagree somebody's checking u out you just ain't paying attention

[@SubwayFan83]

Kirjath Hockaday but that doesn't mean it's out of real interest. Women can be interested in certain men for wrong reasons as well. it's not always 100% with them.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

These women for the most part, if not all checking me out for the hustle. Never good for me. It's always some bullshit. The only time I didn't have bullshit is when I do the checkn.

[@SubwayFan83]

Sibuna Het-Ra X Don't get me wrong. There are decent women who are genuinely interested in classic men. It's just those women are overshadowed by other women that's always out to "get" somebody. It's difficult to be 100% sure because we had our experiences of getting burned..No matter how nice of a man we are to them.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+Jtrain83 Yes Sir. You're absolutely correct. That's me definitely

[@MasterBoris86XGaming]

i believe it. lol

[@RomWills]

Yup.

[@deannabarnes3771]

It sho' is. ...

[@jholliday3]

A man need patience & good court vision / court sense

[@LordMetalSonic1987]

I have to disagree with you there, Mr. Willis. After all, I could pay all the attention in the entire galaxy--if someone isn't checking for me, then they aren't.

[@LordMetalSonic1987]

I can say I am... but even if there were females checking for me, I only trust them as far as I can throw them.

[@RomWills]

Pay attention to what I'm saying. Every man is attractive to SOME woman.

[@LordMetalSonic1987]

Rom Wills I hate to ask, but is there proof of this statement? Concrete, and nothing vague or ethereal.

[@megatron5047]

So basically rom,your saying let the game come to you right.(i knew you were a real blkman).

[@RomWills]

That's the best way. A man has more control that way.

[@ianconor9988]

Rom Wills it worked for me n i got me an 8 looking at me with a smile

[@mrj9224]

Big homie!!! I want married women checking on me I know they r bored hehe

[@RomWills]

They probably do.

[@mrj9224]

Rom Wills lol