r/Relationships I Think My Entitled Nephew Is Trying To Murder Me!

[@wynja77]

First story: Girls/women, listen: you have NO obligation to "politely decline" advances from men or to answer questions you feel are too personal/creepy! You don't need to be FRIENDS with people like that, REACT! It's not an overreaction when someone gives you a bad vibe or SCARES you, for crying out loud, listen to your gut! "I'm not answering that, that is too personal, I'm not comfortable with those questions." . "I don't want you to enter our room", "You are not allowed to touch me like that" "It's not a joke, it's offensive to me.". If it continues: leave! YOU HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO BE POLITE!

[@Antivaguenesssociety]

That post made me seriously angry just because the girl's anxiety is preventing her from making logical decisions and the whole thing is screwed if she doesn't start soon. P.S. it is still 100% the creep's fault for being a disgusting bastard.

[@limiv5272]

Thank you for saying it loud and clear! Sexual harassment usually starts small as the perpetrator tests the water, then gradually escalates. Sounds like that's what this asshole is doing

[@thomasjones6216]

Honestly Im amazed this needs to be said, what BF's Bio-Dad was doing is twisted; I agree with RSLASH run dont walk

[@k.osborne3881]

I think this goes out to anybody who is being groomed by a person with authority

[@ninjaproskills0077]

Exactly. But not just women EVERYONE. IF YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE SAY IT! DON’T GO “Oh hey please stop I’m getting quite uncomfortable.” just say it.... tell the, straight to their face “I’m uncomfortable with what your doing so stop.” Simple as that..... if they don’t stop get law enforcement involved

[@enderteimant]

The first story is creepy as fluff like jesus christ, that dad is creepy af. He doesn't make dad jokes, he makes "daddy" not-actually-jokes

[@velvety2006]

if your guts are telling you that someone is wrong, get away from them. and this is not just her guts either

[@DocMcCray]

"Last night he came into my room and undressed me then had sex with me. After it was over, he said it was just a joke. Am I taking this too seriously?" /facepalm

[@wollythewolf3995]

@@DocMcCray i was shocked when i read that

[@Fernanda-jx6ep]

@@DocMcCray The thing is, that the dad has been gaslighting her, of course she will doubt herself

[@Burncsb]

It's kind of weird how a person can actually hear these things and stay close to them... in the same house...

[@kerricaine]

adoptive parents: "we were afraid you'd abandon us in favour of your biological family" also adoptive parents: "you're so horrible! you betrayed us!" like, all we're missing is a john williams score and this is some anakin skywalker levels of irony

[@therealmr.incredible3179]

Well the do have the High-Ground ( get it??)

[@singingcrow439]

What did ogway said in kung fu panda? "One often meet their destiny on the path to avoid it".

[@AndrewAce.]

Lmao

[@AndrewAce.]

@@singingcrow439 That's a good one...

[@TheColorHopeIsBlue]

FROM OUR POINT OF VIEW, YOUR BIO-DAD IS EVIL

[@AquamarineMemories]

The last story hit me really hard. When OP started talking about how their adoptive parents used the excuse "We'd wanted a baby for so long and didn't want to lose you" It took all of my willpower to not scream at my screen "THIS IS EXACTLY HOW YOU LOSE HER!" I was adopted as a baby as well but my parents raised me on stories about a King and a Queen not being able to have a baby so when they heard about a peasant woman who couldn't care for her child, they flew on a magical swan to find her and promised to raise the baby as their own. So I always kind of knew I was adopted and when I wanted to know more about my bio parents, my adoptive parents answered every question as best they could. None of this "we should be enough" bullshit. I'm 24 now and have met my bio mom in person twice. Both times my adoptive parents paid for the flights/hotel stay so that I could meet her (I was 4 and 16). THAT is what any parent SHOULD do if they adopt a child.

[@dimsufferer9951]

What I don't understand about adoptive parents’ “We chose you so you need to be grateful” mentality is... Exactly, *YOU* chose that child. That child probably had no say in the situation, why should they be grateful that you wanted a child and got what you wanted?

​@@dimsufferer9951, i feel the same way about biological parents who throw out the, _"I raised you so you should be thankful"_ line. I mean... what? Why should a person be _grateful_ that their parents accepted the consequences of having been horny at least one time?

[@freshy2115]

I agree with you on this. I was not fully adopted because they didn't go through the adoption till I was around a teenager and I denied being adopted. But I lived with this Foster family since the age of five. They raised me and by All rights they were my parents. However, my biological mom they did everything they could to ensure I had as much of a healthy relationship with my bio mom as possible. Anytime I went over to my bio mom's place to stay for a week. My parents paid to put food in that house and paid for the extra clothes. Anything that I would need while I was with my biological mother they insured. I had they even waited until I turned 18 before telling me the real reason why I lived with them and gave me the court documents to it. So yeah this last one I can't understand the mentality. Oh we raised you. We should be enough now f that freaking I still want my bio dad and I'm 32 years old and to this day I still don't know who he is but that's just my small little rant

[@DestinyHime]

Entitled Nephew Story: Hmm... let's see the nephew stole the inhaler despite knowing that op needs it to breathe... this might be stretching it but could that kid be charged with attempted murder?

[@animeotaku307]

At the very least he can be charged with assault for cutting OP’s hair.

[@woofplays]

Assault and theft?

[@thunderflare59]

If he stole my inhaler, I'd wreck his shit. That is theft and reckless endangerment.

[@baconofburger8784]

@@thunderflare59 I'd cut his moms hair since she encouraged his behaviour, if she comes crying to me why I cut her hair I would tell her the same "its covid and it will grow back"

[@ronaldfinkelstein6335]

@@baconofburger8784 cut the mom's hair...and blame it on the kid.

[@Ten13Grl]

As far as the "spread your wings and fly" story goes: a lot of birds send their fledglings out of the nest, but remain nearby to feed and protect them if they're just not getting the hang of things just yet. This is also why you don't need to "rescue" every baby bird you see on the ground. We're also into wild rabbit season. If you find baby wild rabbits, please leave them alone. Moms only visit at dawn and dusk in order to keep the babies safe. If you feel like mom has abandoned them, put some yarn or hair over the site were you found them (just a few strands). If they've been disturbed when you check next then mom is most likely doing her job.

[@happo538]

thanks i will now know to not make a mom worried if i see a rabbit/bird

[@ModeHQ]

I saw this comment once he started the same story

[@Mjws2907]

This is exactly the comment that I was looking for (the rabbit information was new to me, we don't have many over where I live, so thank you for that)!

[@FineHupeline]

Let them the space to spread their wings but be there if they need any help. That's what it's about and not abandonment your children.

[@SilverStar985]

However if a baby bird has no feathers and is on the ground, please call a local wildlife rehabilitation center and see what they want you to do with it. Fledglings (covered with feathers, what most people think of as a baby bird) will be fine, hatchlings (no/few feathers) need help either from a parent or a rehabber.

[@muraalia]

First story: Run. Run run run run run run run. Run now. Anywhere. Run. That'll only get worse, get out before it does. Now. Run.

[@SilviaNight99]

Seriously. She needs to get out of there ._. I hope she told her bf and that they get OUT of there.

[@chesh1rek1tten]

Rslash was like 5 sentences in and I was like "leave, please, now! Please have already left". Holy shoot.

[@titanbloxyt9355]

You mean Terminator:RUN GET TO THE CHOPPER Op:OK I WILL

[@nickylovesyou]

Yeah

[@wannabehistorian371]

That one gets a “holy red flags, Batman, that’s the entire Soviet rally right there!” from me.

[@Treesah35]

1st story: If theres one thing that I have learned in my 48 years of life, its to trust your gut. That's your internal instincts telling you to be aware of danger. Wether its mental, physical or emotional danger. The only times in my life where things have gone really bad is when I double guessed that instinct and altogether ignored it. Listen to your instincts. Trust them. The anxiety will subside if you listen to yourself. Edit to add: To the OP with the Story about 13 year old: You need to call the cops. Him withholding your life saving medication from you is tantamount to attempted murder. Get out of the house. Most places have loosened quarantine restrictions now so you should be able to get out and away from that kid. Good luck.

[@pinstripesuitandheels]

@@arcarius. erm... Are you old enough to be on KZbin? You definitely seem not old enough to understand this is valid advice about very serious matters. Look kid, there are times and places where an edgy comment could be funny but in this instant it isn't. Do yourself a favour and take the advice above to heart. Take it from an old crone of 36, it'll come in handy.

[@Chunkboi]

Even with quarantine restrictions, imminent threat of harm to oneself is reason enough to break quarantine if you can quarantine yourself somewhere else...somewhere without kids with conduct disorder (which is a clinical term for a very serious psychiatric condition that this kid demonstrates).

[@SilverVolo]

@@arcarius. this isn't long... its like a 15-20 second read at most

[@dmf1301]

You’re so right! I have good instincts for danger or lies (et al), too... but sometimes I don’t pay enough attention to those instincts. And things ALWAYS go wrong when I don’t listen to my instincts! 😞

[@gremlynn7741]

agreed

[@atdynax]

The second story happened to me as well. My mother always wanted to get rid of me because I wasn't turning out as she wants me to. I had baker training until 2006 and became employed in a bakery after 5 months which I lost after 1.5 months due to incompetence. Turns out they weren't teaching me how to work at the ovens so I needed to get back to my parents house because that bakery was 200 km away from them. My mother said I had to find me a new job there. I didn't get one and had only 250€ of governmental aid. The room i was renting costs 200€ so I either had tolive from 50€ or don't pay any rent. Additionaly to that i had 500€ debts from a phone contract. The Bakery went into full insolvency and that's when the insolvent manager came to me to pack my things and drive me to my grandparents. My grandmother force my mother to take me in again. Before I moved out I had a big room that now my mother took for herself. I had to do my business in a small 9 m² room which only had a bed, a small table and a sewing machine. My mother said that I am out in two weeks. I didn't want to become a baker but did so to keep her quiet. After a few days I got a job as a helper and finally got my own appartment which I lived for 12 years in in which I was 10 years unemployed. I didn't get any support from her or her husband. I don't know my real father. The only help I got was from various institutions that are there for application training. In 2016 I found out that I was autistic. 2017 the jobcenter financed me a retraining to a media designer and I graduated with flying colors. I have my own animation studio now but could've gotten it 10 years sooner if my mother had been supportive. She never allowed me a computer where I could work on. When I was 21 she said she would've bought me one if she had the money. Her husband owned 4 cars, so he also wasn't supportive at all. They still have no modern technology in their house except a foldable mobile phone.

[@scrollexdestiny]

damn nice you turned youre life to a good outcome. btw how is your animation studio called?

[@nickmagma7745]

I don´t understand how you can be unemployed for 10 years?

[@atdynax]

@@nickmagma7745 I am heavily disabled and no employer wanted me. And i wasn't trained in anything except baking which i didn't want to do anymore.

[@nickmagma7745]

@@atdynax oh i get it. Anyway glad you´re doing better now. Wish you the best!

[@iAMwhatIamK]

Wish you lived in the US; how is it that you found out about your autism as an adult? I’m fairly certain I am as well, and I’ve been looking for resources. Also, congrats on the animation studio-that is also the field I’m looking into.

[@elwillyrets7505]

great strategy, adoptive parents. "Insult her, that should make her come back to us". great plan!

[@autisticsapphic8991]

SIL: “God is PUNISHING you!” OP: “But it was your son-“ SIL: “REPENT FOR YOUR SINS!”

[@annika5893]

"This is God punishing you for your sins!" "Your son sure is a punishment to have around, you're right about that dear sister in law."

[@hoes_ultramad]

*op slaps the brat silly* sil: what r u doing?!?! op: i didnt do anything, god moved my hand sil: reeeeeeeeeee

[@ceo_of_india1841]

Didn’t Pope Francis say that being gay wasn’t a sin

[@immortalgoat3559]

@@ceo_of_india1841 yeah, because it's just nature

[@creeperking1068]

Beat the son is the answer to the way he acts

[@ivorycxxxx]

He's 13, he is old enough to get arrested. He deserves it.

[@Cassiopea525]

Would certainly teach his mom a lesson.

[@fightingfaerie]

The kid seems like a kleptomaniac and a compulsive liar. If his parents care about him, they should get him some therapy before he does get arrested.

[@espopstar]

Charges of attempted murder and multiple counts of theft. Seems good to arrest for.

[@elliottlupin]

I agree. It's not like he's 3 and doesn't understand the implementations of his actions. He knows what he's doing.

[@Chunkboi]

If not arrested, at least put on a 5150.

[@gracevanderbilt9469]

The story with the 13 year old kid, I find it weird that the mom says “it’s God’s way of punishing you” about OP being bi when she is the one that has a baby out of wedlock.

[@nhytty7]

Not gonna lie, it kind of makes me question whether that story was legit or not. I am redditor amd i see many fake stories. Most of the time , the OP forgets about the previous information and messes up with characters.

[@jackmatravers]

@@nhytty7 or she’s a typical homophobe who uses being religious as an excuse

[@jaybehkay2438]

Exactly!

[@foxooverlord]

@@nhytty7 you are redditor

[@nhytty7]

@@foxooverlord a redditor. Not the youtuber

[@anon5311]

I like how he helps/gives tips to the people who posted on r/relationships after he reads their story.

[@JayeEllis]

First story: Girl, listen to your gut! You're in danger! Get the EFF out of there NOW!!!!!!!!

[@mayagonzales1702]

For the nephew story, I would more than likely just do everything in my power to either get out of the house and if that wasnt a possibility then I would make their lives miserable. Raw eggs mixed in the shampoo (high chance of getting scrambled eggs while rinsing), brown sugar in the hair dryer, left over fish or meat under their bed, blast screamo music as an alarm for the morning...🙄 If they complain, its just God punishing them for their sins.

[@wolfmantroy6601]

you should seek help.

[@mayagonzales1702]

@@wolfmantroy6601 it's not going to cause any physical harm to them. Women from the Victorian era would actually use egg whites as a way to cleanse their hair. But they would have to rinse with cold water as not to cook the egg. Hair dryer is a prank that I've seen done so many times on youtube. Long as no one is deathly allergic to those things the most it'll do is make them have to rewash and waste their time. Unlike the little twat who aims to physically harm the OP.

[@MoA-Reload...]

ahh, egg in the shampoo 😂The classics are always the best 🤣 I wouldn't do the rotten fish or meat though. That sort of smell has a habit of not staying in the one bloody room. Damned inconvenient if you ask me so behind the center console of their car or in next to the vent intakes in the engine bay is so much better 😁

[@matte3539]

screamo music as a alarm is a classic. I did something like that. I have big speakers, my brother would keep blasting his shit music at 10 am on Weekends (im always sleeping at the time). So heres a little story from me: I dont listen to metal, but to Uptempo. My brother knew this and hate it. I kept telling him to stop blasting HIS music, but he didnt. Sooo, i dont need very much sleep (i can easily stay awake for 3 days without any effect. But if i can sleep, i sleep very much). So, i made an alarm for 6 am, came to his room and blast the hell out of the speakers. It worked.

[@KirbyKips]

Fortunately, OP moved in with her GF so they’re both fine now.

[@yourlocalidiot3894]

"I love submissive girls" *It was time for Thomas to leave. He had seen everything*

[@Eros_is_calling]

S I M P ha

[@Dire2717]

Yup, that is the moment im calling the police, and get out of that house

[@wrestlingfan3117]

@@Eros_is_calling D U M B A S S ha

[@ВДВЛюбитболь]

It was time for Thomas to leave for he had seen too much

[@croc4179]

@Bruno Bucciarati *I see your a man of culture as well*

[@jaydyboo]

So for the nephew story... If my son wasn't going to parent his brat under my roof, was homophobic and put my daughter's life at risk the whole family would be out, lockdown or not! (Would also go the other way). The parents should've stepped in, it is their home after all.

[@stormwright8300]

It sounds like mom is the ringleader. Dad just sounds complicit. It's not much better but he's probably been manipulated in some way and doesn't know what to do. If she was out of the picture, things may be different

[@13thMaiden]

Honestly if that went down in my family, my grandma would have spanked the grandchild and chewed them out for stealing, then chewed out the daughter-in-law for being a useless parent and that if it happens again they're getting kicked out. My grandma was loving, but you did NOT steal or harm other family members like that.

[@KumiChan2004]

@@13thMaiden If I was one of the grandparents I would have flat out told them. Get your kid situated or get out of my house.

[@limiv5272]

@@stormwright8300 I don't understand why you think the dad should be let off easily. He's just as guilty, an accessory to the crime [hate crime, abuse, theft, reckless endangerment]

[@wogboi6588]

Captain J Doodle is to late for “parenting”, the kid has clear signs of psychopathy, he need an asylum.

[@zacharymcvicker5820]

The last story really resonated with me and I started tearing up, to be honest. I have a similar story myself, except I had met my biological parents before I told my adoptive parents who adopted me at the age of nine, took me in at six, and successfully manipulated me into testifying to terminate visitation rights. After basically flipping my bioligical parents the bird in court, they still wanted me in their life. To skip a bunch of filler, when I told my adoptive parents, I was given an ultimatum. "It's us or them. You can't have both." Now, heartless as this may sound, I didn't mind cutting my adoptive parents out of my life due to my adoptive mother being, well, let's just say seeing eye to eye would have been a miracle, and most confrontations became barbed, and I was already the black sheep. But my siblings were with my adoptive parents, and I had a sibling with my biological parents too - who was (and still is) the cutest little angel in this world. I saw this comment earlier, but after talking to my adoptive father a long while later, he apologized and confirmed, it was fear of losing me. They were afraid that they would get booted out of my life. OP in the last story, you handled that a fuck of a lot better than me. Stay strong, stay awesome.

[@redofculture9502]

._.

[@ifoundhisjams4075]

This is so sad like just a whole lotta mess but happy that you rebuilt Ur relationship with Ur bio family back

[@SuperSenshi]

That second story really hits home for me... My mom and stepdad did the same thing to me, though it wasn't because they wanted me to "spread my wings", as this story puts it. I have Asperger's, and I didn't know much about how to really take care of myself (using a washing machine, balancing a checkbook, cooking certain foods so they are safe to eat, etc). However, neither of them were ever around to actually teach me this (I guess I was supposed to learn on my own?). Their solution was to send me to a boarding house for people with mental disabilities, with the false promises of being able to come home if I didn't like it after a month. I didn't like it, I wanted to come back, they refused due to having turned my old room into an office for my stepdad. I eventually got away from that boarding house, but listening to that story brought me right back into it.

[@DaDoppen]

The terms "Bio mom" and "Bio dad" just sound like some weird Resident Evil experiments to me.

[@InsaneLaughter01]

I use Bio dad/bio mom as a reference to Bioshock. The games taught me that blood doesn’t depict importance.

[@mellvee]

I had a step dad, who I referred to as my dad, and a biological father, who I refer to as my bio father. I loved them both and had wonderful relationships with both of them, but my step dad was there when I was growing up and my bio dad wasn't. I need a way to differentiate them to others because I frequently talk about both of them. Don't judge until you learn why people use the terms/language that they use. To complicate matters they shared a first name so I can't use their names to differentiate. I love them both even years after they both passed away (dad died 18 years ago, bio dad died 6 years ago), and need to have a way to separate them so everyone knows who I am talking about. My bio father left when I was ten and didn't reappear in my life until I was 21. My step dad was there until the day he died and as he has no other children, I feel I have every right to call him dad. That's what he wanted and it's what I'm comfortable with. My bio father came back into my life when I was 21 and spent years being a good friend and trying to make up for what he'd done by leaving when I was a kid, and I should also be able to refer to him in whatever manner I feel comfortable. It's just not your business how people choose to address those they have in their lives and you shouldn't judge, because you don't have any idea why people call people what they do, whether it reminds you of a game or not.

[@DaDoppen]

@@mellvee Relax, I'm not judging anybody. It's just that this is the first time I heard the term and that's just what came to mind (The RE series is called Biohazard in Japan). I'm Swedish and while we also have a word close to "biological" it would never work to shorten it here because bio also means cinema, which adds to my reaction to it. My biological paternal grandfather, the only person in my family this applies to, so rarely comes up in my life that I tend to use the full word if I ever need to clarify. I'm sorry if I offended you, but know this comment was merely done in jest with no ill intent behind it.

[@mellvee]

@@DaDoppen - I apologize. I'm just so used to people being rude and judgmental on these comment threads that I assumed that was your intent, as well. Again I apologize - especially considering the fact that you apparently speak at least two languages and I do not (sadly, I speak English, only, although I'm currently attempting to change that but slowly learning Spanish and French), which I always find very impressive. You also gave me an excuse to talk about my dads, which apparently I needed to do. I apologize again for jumping to the conclusion that you were being judgmental, and hope you and your family are all safe throughout this ordeal. 😊 Edit: a word

[@mellvee]

@@InsaneLaughter01 - life taught me that, and you're absolutely right. If people only realized that video games really CAN have a positive impact on people. Sometimes my hubby and I feel like we're the only parents in the world that don't think video games are the devil incarnate. They've helped both of my sons (17 and 20) with tons of things, and probably helped positively shape their personalities as much as did their sports and other activities. Games can teach problem solving, empathy, strategy and other things. Thanks for your comment - it makes me feel better about allowing my kids access to video games as they grew up!

[@AmeBren]

The first story immediately made me think if he continuously goes over to the shelf and uses it as an excuse he could have a hidden camera (could be an extreme but nowadays nothing is too extreme)

[@Kifflington]

Not extreme at all. That was literally my first thought, 'I bet he's got cameras everywhere she gets naked.' She needs to get the hell away from that messed up perv.

[@minab5256]

We had a camera in our bunny’s room when I was working 16hr days. Bunnies are very sensitive so it was so I could check on him during the day in case he was getting sick. They need immediate vet care in certain situations so it helped me feel comfortable staying at work when they needed me. We didn’t do it in a gross way but my point it was really fucking easy to set up and watch. My bunny cam wasn’t going to catch anyone else in the house which is why I felt comfortable setting it up since we have kids I didn’t want accidentally recorded.

[@AmeBren]

Kifflington Once I heard he keeps going to the shelf I was like he definitely has a hidden camera on that shelf or somewhere else in the room

[@TravelersGarden_dgdr]

Damn...would have never come up with that. But it's very plausible.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

This was my first thought when she mentioned that he was going through the shelves and room. I'd be going through everything myself to see if there are any cameras hidden. Better safe than sorry. Her bf's father has NO business in their bedroom even if it's the father's house. Hopefully they got out of that house ASAP!

[@theofficialjesusyoutubecha7304]

I started to cry during the last one, it’s so sad that they didn’t get to meet their mother...i could never imagine like without my mum

[@ankyfire]

They had a mother. An adoptive mother. The situation was shitty as hell, but it not like they were raised without a mother

[@Purplepixie42]

When I was a senior in high school, my graduation gift from my parents, more specifically my father, was all my clothes “packed” in 50 gallon lawn and leaf trash bags, finding out the locks had been changed and a note taped to the bags on the porch informing me I now no longer lived there. I worked one full time job, one part time job, and went to school full time. I have no idea how I didn’t just fall over dead from the new loaded crap I’d just received. Needless to say, it took me waaaay longer than the usual 4 years to finish college.

[@jrytacct]

Please tell me that you cut them out of your life forever?

[@everymoviehero9248]

As far as the adoption story, if I had adopted a child that wanted to reach out to their biological parents/family, I would move mountains to help setup visits, to deny them real family is a special kind of evil

[@renli5410]

Big red flag for the kid: Feels no remorse from nearly killing a person. KILLING A PERSON.

[@brandonjohnson9084]

Kids sometimes don’t understand the weight of death. Idk if this is the case but the thing that boggles me is that the parents were like “yeah that’s ok for him to do.” Like, they DO understand and they were ok with OP dying. Wtf.

[@KaboomSoT]

The kid is just unlucky The parents need to be put down

[@brandonjohnson9084]

Jonathan Nissov Skarman agreed

[@jaydyboo]

At 13, sure they my not understand completely but that wasn't that long ago for me and 13 year olds know well enough.

[@animeotaku307]

Brandon Johnson The kid is thirteen. I’d say that’s old enough to comprehend one’s actions and the consequences there of. He should know exactly what he did, why it was wrong, and what could’ve happened as a result.

[@nothingtolookat8251]

13:00 yeah, stealing an Item that might decide someone elses life, fully knowing it might do so, and then not even flinch when it actualy happens is nothing psychopathic, I totaly agree. Realtalk, his intention was to hurt her, if not jeopardize her life, or atleast he didn't care if he would end up doing so. That shows how much he values the well being of others. The Mother should 100% be held accountable for reinforcing this behavior, practicly teaching him some lifes don't matter and are just toys for when he gets bored

[@wannabehistorian371]

Not sure why that shows he isn’t a psychopath.

[@dylanharding5720]

@@wannabehistorian371 this comment was sarcasm.

[@briannarolle647]

First story: Advance directly to the exit. Do not pass go. Do not collect creepy bootie grabs.

[@queenofdarkness2387]

Third story too.

[@myself55555-x]

and use the police, wait...

[@jamesnorman9160]

Jesus, the creepy comments from the guy were bad enough, but the whole coming into her room and just sitting in a chair and staring at her while she's napping? GTFO, frankly.

[@moelester4165]

Creepy bootie grabs 😂🤣🤣

[@Beth_The_Bored]

Beat me to it. Do not ignore the intuitions!

[@xBluegamerx]

Story with the 13 year old kid, call CPS ASAP! That mother is abusing her children by teaching them to do hateful things and letting the older kid abuse the younger one.

[@angelicaarteaga9311]

That first story was so disturbing to read, I hope she leaves before she “blacks out” in the house and he’s the only one to help her 🤢🤢🤢

[@richardearldearyjr.9951]

Tell your boyfriend that his dad is making you uncomfortable and you want to move out of the house.

[@SimplyHawa]

What’s that symbol next to your name?

[@-castus-]

@@SimplyHawa it's the membership simbol

[@SimplyHawa]

Thanks

[@nidhalsormali3051]

@@-castus- symbol*

[@megangrindstaff1295]

OP From First Story RECORD THAT MAN! Try To Get Evidence About Him And His Actions And Show It To Your Boyfriend And If You Feel It Necessary Report Him To Police For Sexual Harassment

[@ChrisMaxfieldActs]

It would be safer to just leave. Much safer. There must be somewhere she can go.

[@fiyahquacker2835]

And keep a knife or something else (as everything can be turned into a weapon though the effectiveness definitely varies) in a secret nearby spot

[@BuckmeisterSupremeWithCheese]

Why Are You Capitalising Every Word?

[@skullcandy3935]

First story, I’d check for spy cameras....that’s horrible behavior

[@viknightingale552]

Nephew has a chance of getting charged if something major happens

[@LEGOBuilderArtist]

I swear the next person that says 'BoYs WiLl Be BoYs' I'm sending them to the hospital. Oh my Lord I HATE THAT LINE SOOOOOOOOO MUCH

[@rebeccajesse4604]

omg that 13 y.o. nephew story. 1. "Boys will be boys" is what lazy parents say when they don't actually want to parent their child. he's f&%#$ing 13 and should have already learned what is appropriate and what is not, and if he hasn't you need to teach him! 2. "god is punishing you for your sins" so by your SIL's own admission, her son is blight sent down by god? sounds like she doesn't like her kid much either.... 3. why hasn't your parents kicked them all out yet?!?! they torment you verbally and physically assaulted you (cutting your hair), seriously, the first slur and those b*&*'% would be gone from my house. not to mention the stealing! the adoption story, I could understand keeping the biodad away when OP was young, it was selfish but maybe they thought it would make things easier for OP growing up? I am not sure how true that would be though. but their behavior now is toxic. OP is an adult and has every right to include people that she wants in her life. the guilting, insulting and yelling is only hurting any chance they have of a continued relationship with OP. I know I wouldn't want to keep those people in my life. I don't even really understand why they are threatened? they raised her and if they had done it right then that can never be taken away from them. I mean, it's a normal part of growing up to gain new important people in your life.

[@AloysiusWaffle]

My friend was groomed by her dad and told me about I can 100% confirm that he was grooming her

[@stevemyopinion423]

She a adult so it not groomking but it still wrong

[@thesnowtigress3325]

@@stevemyopinion423 No can still be considered grooming. The act of grooming is building a relationship so they can exploit and abuse the person.It's generally meant about children, but this is a very obvious case. He started with harmless questions that then started to push boundaries. He's cultivated an environment where she apologized for overreacting to behavior that certainly warranted that reaction.

[@stevemyopinion423]

@@thesnowtigress3325 the defenition is child

[@hellishlemon5903]

thesnow tigress I agree, it happens a lot in any type of abusive relationship. Its preparing them and teaching them to not react or say anything. If it goes on for long enough, whether she is “groomed” or not, he WILL make a move.

[@stevemyopinion423]

@@hellishlemon5903 most likely he will try something, i would not trust him.

[@maieen2665]

"Alternatively, you could walk in on your *grandparents* and even the score!" Why would you want OP to be traumatized? LOL

[@MSANTHR0P3]

I'm in a difficult situation. I worked inhome early intervention for a few years and worked with a set of parents who had a daughter and son who were a year apart. I became very close with the family. Eventually the kids went into foster care and were really struggling. The foster placement told DFCS they had days to rehome them. So my husband and I stepped in and they came to us. We have worked so hard with them over the last four years and the have come a long way. Recently, the biomom has reached out to me and wants to know about the kids and has asked to talk to them. My husband and I have adopted them and I just don't think they are ready for that sort of thing. She signed her rights away and remarried very quickly. She's very young, but has had two ectopic pregnancies that have left her unable to have more kids. I will not allow her to see them or talk to them now, but maybe when they are older. I don't think they or her are psychologically ready for that and my kids are not her consolation prize either. I don't want my kids to resent me for this choice, but it was a very abusive home and she chose to get remarried instead of working her case plan.

[@monedameow]

She signed her rights away, She's not their mother anymore. When they are over 18 you can give them the option to meet her if they want to. Before that is your decision

[@acastelarac]

First story: there's a great movie title that sums up what you should do. "Get Out"

[@Cowboy-Bi-bop]

Hey that’s a great film

[@dracko158]

ED: "Boys will be boys!" Me: "And Psychopaths will be psychopaths."

[@ImaNerdANDaGeek]

That is an insult to psychopaths. Sociopaths, on the other hand.

[@redfather5342]

Well it's true

[@justaperson4656]

Stealing underwear, cutting hair, and attempted murder isn't "boys being boys"

[@miku33558]

I hate the saying boys will be boys. It’s so retarded

[@lillysamulski2710]

@@ImaNerdANDaGeek Nah, that's an insult to sociopaths too. He's just an entitled little brat

[@brandon_cai11]

to the girl with the nephew steal his games take his battery out of the controllers and act like you didn't take it and if the SIL tries to confront you say it was "god punishing him" and if the son keeps stealing from you lock your door at night and cut his hair for revenge

[@palomablanca1391]

oohhhh perfect karma but she should sell or break his ps4

[@thunderflare59]

Pawn it until he apologizes.

[@Richard_Nickerson]

2nd story with the husband who wants to kick son out: I wanted to take a year off in between high school and college myself. My mom refused to let me because it would have meant the child support she got for me ending (being over 18 and not in school meant no more money from my dad). So, I was forced to go to a school I did not want to go to and which turned out to be a terrible fit even if I had initially wanted it. I went from the outgoing funny guy in every school band and play with dreams of being on SNL and writing music to a suicidal, depressed, anxious mess whose self-confidence disappeared and whose anger just became genuine rage issues. Forcing someone to go through with something that will put them into extreme, long-term debt when they don't know what they want to do while there is a fucking stupid idea. It's not immature to avoid college to figure stuff out, but it IS idiotic to attend an expensive educational institution designed to achieve specific goals without any specific goals to aim for.

[@markx322]

Stuff like this makes me hate that child support exists as parents will abuse it to just get extra money they don't need.

[@Yumi_Jay]

My family actually encouraged me to take a year off from school so I didn't start college until a year after I graduated high school (2010 and started college in 2011). My dad actually help paid for my bus fares which was $25 a month since I didn't drive. I was still allow to go to my dad's house for visitations while he was still sending child support for my sister. I got my associates and while I didn't get into the career I wanted since I was kid as a teacher I work two other jobs that I both love and enjoy. I now know there are other jobs in a school setting that would be perfect for me. One of my two jobs is working for kids at a summer camp and that is good enough for me.

[@thenorthwillow1536]

Same here! Well, actually I'm 16 and graduating highschool next year. I'm not sure what I want to do with my life yet so I want to take maybe a year or two to work, volunteer, and learn about the world before I go to college

[@Richard_Nickerson]

@@markx322 And yet it was extremely necessary and useful for the 15 years prior.

[@Richard_Nickerson]

@@Yumi_Jay Lucky

[@nidhalsormali3051]

Girl with her boyfriend: *F u n n y t i m e* Her grandparents: Hippity hoppity your apartment is my pro- *Nevermind..*

[@damplire7474]

Empathy and compassion are positive learned behaviors. That kid wasnt born that way, he was made, and that mom is going to have a wake up call when her little angel steals from the wrong person.

[@jaimohighv3783]

Kick that little crap out of the house. And if your brother and sister doesn’t like it kick them out to

[@animeotaku307]

If I was the mom in that story, I’d tell SIL and brother that they need to either get their kid under control or they’ll have to leave. At that point, the kid is endangering OP and his gross lack of regard for her safety and privacy is unacceptable. And if SIL tried to argue against it, I’d tell her that this is just God’s way of punishing her, her husband, and her son for their sins.

[@nondisclosure3920]

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. The parents should be putting down boundaries and backing up op.

[@purplemadz2202]

The most annoying comment “Boys will be boys” 🙄🙄 give me a break! People need to be taught the right way to act.

[@tamanone7918]

@@the_hanged_clown bruh what does this have to do with normal education i think you lack braincells mate

[@tamanone7918]

@@the_hanged_clown so if i teach my child to be respectful wich is educating them the right way im being like the people in those camps thats just straight stupid af

[@tamanone7918]

@@the_hanged_clown ur pfp pic matches ur comment ur a litteral clown

[@jcrimson.]

It's true, apples will be apples

[@BeckBeckGo]

@@the_hanged_clown so you're comparing a decent upbringing to an internment camp... Also, people do just "educate" people. It's called school...

[@TheZipperDragon]

Hey R/Slash. I'm bingeing your videos in the hospital right now. Thanks for helping the time fly by.

[@girlartist1105]

I'm adopted and when I am old enough I'm going to find my bio parents because who wouldn't want to know why they were given up and make a relationship with blood family

[@BurntPotatx]

I hope you find them

[@callanightshade8079]

I'm a birth mom. I was heartbroken having to place my daughter up for adoption but I had to because I knew I couldn't give her the life she deserves. I was going through many issues financially, mentally, as well as other things I can't go into (no drugs or alcohol though). I love my baby girl and am lucky enough to have an open adoption. I have a great relationship with my daughter and her parents as well as her siblings. I know I'm far luckier than many birth mothers out there and we all agreed that we would raise her knowing she was adopted and that we wouldn't hide that information from her. Because as her mom told me when we first met "a child can never have too many people that love them"

[@girlartist1105]

@@callanightshade8079 wow you got lucky there but idk if i want to meet my birth parents at this point because i found out why i was taken away and i wont go into detail but it was a mix of drugs and abuse

[@callanightshade8079]

@@girlartist1105 oh darling I'm so sorry that happened :( The sad reality is not all birth parents are good people. But we do exist. I hope that you get some form of closure and no matter what just live a happy life. Sending you love ❤️

[@harmony9690]

That last story broke me, I'm in foster care and my bio mum is allowed to see me but not my bio dad. What I didn't know until recently is that he was on meds and my mum was told she had to make sure he took his meds because he would be reluctant to do it himself and needed an eye kept on him. She wouldn't do this so he would have episodes of psychosis that made him lash out and abuse us, he has really bad issues that she wasn't willing to help with, I don't understand why she married and had kids with him. This whole time I though my dad hated me and wanted me dead but my mum was poisoning us against him so she could have us to herself and use us as weapons to get at his temper. She's constantly making herself the victim saying it was his fault we got taken away (she was neglecting and on drugs) and tries to manipulate us into sending him hurtful messages, taking her surname just to piss him off, wanting us to post pictures of us calling her our favourite parent. She's dragged him through the mud when she's no better herself, he has serious diagnosed issues and she's just bitchy, she has no excuse. Wow I've rambled a lot, sorry about that xxx

[@frost6215]

I need you to know that life only gets better. Hang in there (if you are still going through this)

[@harmony9690]

@@frost6215 thank you x

[@heleninglis9961]

I hope everything gets better for you. I also hope that your dad's issues improve & that you can have a relationship with him once he's stable, if that's what you want of course. Much love xxxxx

[@princessmarthajandio]

Many hugs, much hugs for you.

[@frost6215]

@@harmony9690 no problem. you deserve to be able to have a better relationship with you dad. Big hugs to you!

[@rubberneck3818]

Whatever the thirteen-year-old does to you, do to the mother. Go ahead and give her bangs a little cut and then tell her not to worry about it because nobody will see it. Also get a lock on your door, seriously you should have thought about this already sorry to be blunt but come on.

[@xxratsrcutexx3494]

Hmmmm. I like this idea.

[@tsubasasyuuka6240]

I second this. Also, i hope OP makes sure she makes recordings of everything that evil cow says about the overreacting etc, and about the fact the 13 yo is stealing her stuff. So when OP does it back to her and play back those recordings, she has absolutely no excuse, and use that logic back on her. Even if the evil cow does find a way to kick up a storm and call the police or something, OP would have ammo, oh, and witnesses.

[@rubberneck3818]

@Goldfinch you're right, maybe hiding the kids xbox controllers or shoes everyday would be a better idea. Have her gf come over and be VERY affectionate would probably piss off the SIL as well.

[@Mordexis]

@@rubberneck3818 well she left the house so she wont be able to take revenge but at least shes safe

[@DylanMurray]

Na, she should call the cops on him next time he's stolen from her. Maybe THAT will get to him and his crappy mother.

[@atree7509]

I don't really have relationships, just me and the cat thats stuck up here.

[@WRDBAN]

Same

[@atree7509]

@@alexander-mauricemillamlae4567 my condolences

[@reeenzdyt4458]

I have dogs

[@mrcriptx6267]

Hell yea cat gang

[@grimlockgreg3063]

Yep

[@djames6043]

I really hope the girl from the first story realized her BFs Dad is grooming her and it won't be long before talking turns into touching and she's put into a horrible situation.

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

I'm actually going through this with my own children right now. I am the biological mother of three children who got adopted four years ago by a couple, of which the wife wasn't able to get pregnant. For the first couple years they still sent me Mother's Day cards and updates. For contacts, my kids were 2, 6, and 10 when they got adopted so they definitely weren't newborns. Well I suddenly quit getting cards or as many updates from them, though I was still getting a letter about the kids from the adopted dad about every six months.I finally received a phone call from him the other day letting me know that him and his wife are getting a divorceand that he's filing for full custody of the children because of how she is treating my oldest. I think she went into it expecting my kids to completely forget me and tried to wipe me out of their memories, including changing all their names which I find insane, but it didn't work so instead she started treating my oldest badly because she loves and misses her mother and has made it known. The adopted dad has finally come to his senses and realized that my oldest daughter will be 18 in three years and if they don't foster the relationship with me that she wants, she's going to give them the middle finger the second she's able to leave the house and never look back.I hope your parents realize the consequences of their actions and that they have possibly lost you for good over this

[@ninja23yt]

For the last story, I would threaten to cut them out of my life if they didn't accept what I wanted

[@Demyxu]

Potentially risky as they could have even more underlying mental problems. Would be real bad if you said that and they'd just kill the kid before they'd have a chance to try to see if they can just move in with their bio dad just to be safe.

[@raiderghost2475]

@@Demyxu, did you not see that she's already an adult? She was 20yrs old when she met her bio father, she needs to cut those fucking manipulative, narcissistic, maniacs out of her life and get to know the man who has wanted a second chance with his child! They lied to her for her whole life. Everything she "knew",as a child growing up, is false! It's horrible how instead of encouraging her, they're doubling down on their bullshit and giving her guilt trips. I'm sorry but there's nothing for her to feel guilty about, they're the ones who should be guilt tripped!

[@sirjmo]

In that last story, what if hypothetically instead of bio-dad it was uncle jim/jeff/elon/whatever, your family tries tell you uncle doesnt want anything to do with you, scares you into believing them that they're enough, to not reach out, etc. just like in the story, but you find the facebook message wishing you a happy 20th birthday just like the story, would you listen to your manipulative toxic family or reach out to learn more about your uncle's side of the story? If your family wont trust you after 20 years of raising you to make the right decision, are they really family?

[@MegaKittens12345]

I mean I can see how they are upset. I'd be angry too if the child I gave my everything too decided to reach out to their birth parents. For what? It'd make me feel like I wasnt enough for them. NOW these parents took thing too far by basically harassing her, that's very toxic and uncalled for. They could have expressed their hurt without being crazy towards her.

[@mydarklight27]

@@MegaKittens12345 unless you are a birth parent or adoptive parent you Can't understand. I am both. I was adopted at birth but mine was an open adoption. So i knew my birth mom and birth family. I never felt like my adoptive mom (single mother) wasn't my real mom. She raised me. But she understands why I want to know about my birth family. In fact they all get along really well. Finding a birth family isn't just about relationships. A lot of adopted kids can have health or mental issues and not know why or where they came from. Having access to family history for medical reasons is important. That being said just because you want to know your birth family doesn't mean you don't love your adoptive family. The 2 are not mutually exclusive. I am also a birth mother. It was the most heartbreaking time of my life. I won't get into my situation but the end result is my son is now 4 and has the most amazing adoptive parents. If anyone asks me about them I always call them his parents. Our adoption is also open and I've video chatted with him for holidays. His oldest cousin is actually my best friend so he has a vague idea of who i am but at 4 there's only so much he can understand. Studies actually show that open adoptions are better long term for the mental health of the child/children involved. I hope this sheds some light on things.

[@olerisager1976]

The last story: If OP cares enough about their adoptive parents’ relationship, they need to put down the foot, and clear the facts; They wont be losing her, she’s just connecting with what biological self she has. I would feel hurt if my parent would act this way. They treat OP like their territory, and I feel like it will only grow more toxic as time goes on.

[@lenax9798]

The problem is if they continue like this, they will be loosing op bc this is serious controlling behavior and its not okay. Op is an adult and was an adult when they were 18 and has all the rights to do as they please.

[@vgamesx1]

I think it may be a tad late for that, her "parents" seem obsessive and are trying to guilt her into not having any relationship with her real father despite her being an adult and even if they didn't tell them to haras OP they brought the extended family into it as well, this is not what a caring/loving family sounds like to me, this is more like a pet owner not wanting their pet to leave.

[@Athena9008]

@@vgamesx1 i agree, op has a lot of feelings to process right now and those adoptive parents felt so threatened by her bio dad that they went full control mode over the daughter by feeding her lies and manipulating her through fear, obligation, and guilt. you can have fertility problems all you want but that is no excuse for there behavior towards the bio dad just wanting to have a relationship with his daughter or her even reaching out to her bio dad. he ultimately could have just had an extended uncle relationship with her even if he was the biodad, and it would just be another person supporting the parents in there new life of childhood raising seeing how he felt comfortable enough to allow them to have full custody. the biodad wasn't even malicious either and left it be, but at least he kept her in his heart and wished her happy birthdays. to me this doesnt sound like someone that would ruin someone else's life over infertility issues and overall she should cut out her adoptive family considering its not horrible to want to find out for yourself whom your bio parents are and as an adult she would know if she needed to cut bioparents out or not. its also not acceptable behavior to drag other family members into something that could be discussed between them with respect to each other, it makes me wonder what other lies they were telling family members as she kept finding out more and more information about her bioparents for the family to raise there pitch forks against there adopted daughter. to me that just shows that they only wanted a baby as a prada purse dog and not as an individual to raise as there own. :(

[@raiderghost2475]

@@Athena9008, I don't think anyone could have said it better. Everything you said in your comment is spot on! I feel that she should probably distance herself from her adoptive parents and family, they don't have her happiness at heart. It's all about how "they" feel, or what "they" want...when are they gonna finally care about what "she" wants? I think they're too set in their ways already, I don't believe they can change. It's time for OP to open up a new chapter in her life and get to know as much as she can about her bio parents, and their families! It's truly sad that she'll never get to meet her bio mother, hopefully she can learn about her and it will help her, and maybe give her a little peace of mind. I wish her the absolute best in her future endeavors!!!

[@kaitlins884]

The R/relationships subreddit Is making me happy I'm single

[@adrianfrift7571]

This sub reddit helped me become single

[@tokumo2190]

i am aware on my effect on women

[@biscuitninja]

For the creepy kid... lock your door and beat the kid. Leave immediately if you can... also I'd start reporting him. That should give them more than enough to do....

[@Masenken]

What I don't understand about parents who want to kick their children out at 18, don't tell them up front and prepare them for he road ahead, and what to expect and literally give them all of the tools necessary to survive. And even give them a 3 strike rule, so they have a safety net to come home to reset if they screw up. Like good grief, i work WITH your children. Seeing them up for failure is a good way to instantly find yourself childless once they cut you out

[@JM-gj1oe]

I feel like in the adopted person story the adoptive parents are going to lose her If they'd just let her meet her parents everything would have been okay

[@animeotaku307]

Yeah. People who adopt have to realize that their kids will likely want to know about where they came from. Doesn’t matter how good or loving a parent you are; it won’t stop your kid from wondering who their bio parents were and why they were given up.

[@samfoster7880]

“Walk in on your grandparents to even the score”, might be the funniest thing I’ve heard on this channel 🤣🤣🤣

[@lynndonbarr3153]

Just a thought. Could you link the articles you read so we can read the comments and whatnot ourselves?

[@natureportal9285]

He used to I guess youtube demonitized

[@96unique2]

Just search the user name on reddit. That’s what I do

[@NLGM234HI5]

I hope that you'll keep us updated on any updates the first story may put out!! I'm anxious to know whether she makes it out safe

[@FunkyManIsARainbow]

If I was OP in the story about the 13 yr old. I would have called the cops and tell them how he took my inhalers and my mom had to rummage around his room to find them and save me from DYING. And how his mom said that it was gods way of punishing me.

[@ciarangale4738]

honestly solid effort maintaining daily uploads! keep up the great work, we're all grateful!

[@_Fizel_]

That first story is Soviet Russia level of red flags!

[@chefedegaru]

Gurrl! You're in danger! His dad is getting bolder and bolder the more comfortable he gets with you around.

[@Fugazity]

man, to only think that if the girl had search for their BIO parents , maybe the mom wouldn't had taken her life...

[@Velvetin3]

13:18 Op, look at the lockpick lawyer on KZbin when buying a lock, he goes over locks and how easy they are to open. That'll help ensure you get a good one. Most of them are padlocks but I think he's done door locks too.

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

2:08 record and show the bf, and ask for the dad to leave or worse, send to the police

[@johannaweichsel3602]

It's his house, so I think they should leave instead. But definitely record his creepiness.

[@Richard_Nickerson]

They're at the dad's house. They need to leave, not him.

[@wolfmantroy6601]

What's the crime?

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

@@Richard_Nickerson ah, ok. No worries

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

@@wolfmantroy6601 sexual harrassment for starters

[@himmerferdet4138]

If i was op in the story with the boy I would of made it very clear early on when this started if he enters my room I would literally kick him out

[@Yarnza]

Wow this is the first time I ever saw one right after it was posted

[@RETRO-DEV]

haha, i get them every day

[@simplysim1346]

Watch out Yarnza, the FBI's watching you.

[@chevyyy3708]

Dude its 9 mins ago when it was posted 6 mins?????

[@BeaBea1982]

As an adopted child myself I can relate to OPs situation. It has been my experience that adoptive parents are INCREDIBLY insecure and this manifests in many different, often hurtful and abusive, ways. I personally made the decision to distance myself from my adoptive family for similar reasons to OP and it was the best thing I could have done for myself and our relationship. We didn't talk for years, but we now have a kind of truce and have a respectful relationship which I am grateful for. From one adopted child to another. Family is not about who raised you or even whose blood you share. Family is about the supportive and nurturing relationships you CHOOSE to cultivate. You're in a tough place right now OP, but remember that at the end of the day this is YOUR life and you are the one that needs to live it. Good luck OP.

[@TJGamer929]

In the almost murder story, call the cops, NOW.

[@sandyjamison5929]

The dad in the first one is trouble waiting to happen! Virus or not, she must GTFO. She needs to listen to her instincts and trust herself. Take care! 🌻❤

[@stythes272]

imagine if one of these bets came true and the entitled person came and emailed rslash hand over your youtube channel

[@celestiafanforever]

that would be funny as heck. Also I wouldn't be surprised if in the email there was this threat 'Give me your youtube channel or I'll calling the police on you for being part of the redditgang! and I'll be sueing you as well!"

[@stythes272]

@@celestiafanforever heck yeah it'll be hilarious

[@iamtheunknown3382]

Jeezus the first story is like a hentai plot... Don't ask me how I know but there are so many red flags

[@Twinklethefox9022]

It reminds me of the crappy animated "actually happened" stories. And they are borderline creepy and strange kinks.

[@SGT676]

No no no no no no no don't remind me of those bad memories

[@dontlookbehind1385]

This shit is scary even in hentai after a point and in real life it shouldn't be tolerated at all. Girl needs to run away.

[@DokiDokibo]

How do you know 🌚

[@susansusan6612]

😂😂😂😂😂 The grandparents walking in..... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lucyn9027]

trust your intuition people.

[@RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber]

Second story/"spreading his wings": My son just graduated HS. Husband and I told him he needs to get a job (after this covid stuff dies down) and start planning his life. Son is expected to maintain regular contact with people involved in potential career paths, is not given money for things he wants but doesn't need (he can go earn it himself)... basically given guidance but no handouts. We believe there's "spreading your wings", and there's "being kicked to the curb".

[@animeotaku307]

Pretty much what my parents did. So long as me and my siblings were working on becoming independent (looking for jobs, taking classes, etc.) and helped around the house, they had no problems letting us stay under their roof.

[@youtuberlover1233]

I see how its creapy, I think she should record him

[@emeraldqueen1994]

First Story... OP get everything he’s doing on tape (video or just the audio) and show it to your BF... that HAS to stop! Not only is it incredibly inappropriate, it’s also very DISRESPECTFUL to you and your BF not to mention DISTURBING as (BEEP) I’d even get the cops involved if you suspect this guy’s a predator and based on his behavior I’d say he sounds like one!!!! Second Story I agree with the person who replied Third Story before turning your phone off text grandma and tell her “my phone is going to be off until X time I’ll reply to you then...” Fourth Story LOCK THE DOOR WITH A PAD LOCK / COMBINATION LOCK AND ETHER KEEP THE KEY ON YOUR PERSON AT ALL TIMES OR IF ITS THE COMBINATION LOCK DO NOT TELL ANYONE ELSE THE CODE emotionally immure parents kzbin.info/www/bejne/jne0nnuDZb-Bmq8 Last Story CUT OUT THE TOXIC PEOPLE AND NEVER SPEAK TO THEM AGAIN

[@youseftjj9741]

"You can't expect someone to get kicked out of his family when he becomes an adult" Fishes:'uhh well'

[@lillanchristansin7797]

To prevent the nephew, all you have to do is put on of those circle things that olds locks on both side of your door. So when he tries to get in while you're in, it will be locked and when he tries to get in while your gone, it will be locked from the inside.

[@codyjohnson6427]

13:24 I thought he was gonna say "I think the best thing you can do is cut your sister in law's hair..." lol

[@marissaballestero]

When you see the video before KZbin give you the notification 2 hours late and you see that it was posted 2 mins ago-

[@Ilcka]

story one: tell your BF and get away from him NOW.

[@fealubryne]

That first story is terrifying. I'm a shy person myself and as such I've put myself into some really awful scenarios because I try to be polite. And that story makes me physically sick to my stomach and I'm tearing up a bit. I REALLY hope she got away safely and told her boyfriend. I'm genuinely worried for her safety.

[@Jazzy-nh4xs]

Stealing paint supplies?!? THAT CROSSES A LINE!

[@instagyde1212]

Good thing he wasn’t wearing AirPods

[@guipa__]

for the second story I have a tale from one of my past taechers: first he wanted to study History, but his parents wanted him to be a lawyer, so he went for some time to both a law and later a history school. he felt like that wasnt the life he wanted to live so he dropped outta both and later did Language. In Brasil this is easier since the better Universities are public and arent as expensive as Univerities abroad, but that still took years out of his life, if OP's son makes a poor choice he could end up like the person from the story in the coment you read

[@shade1788]

Oh yeah, so true. My first two years of college wouldve been a wreck if I was living on my own. I needed that extra time to make sure I was going the right way before I left

[@mostar1219]

Seaweed shouldn’t have said anything to their adoptive family since they’re in no way helpful

[@wu1ming9shi]

2:00 GET OUTTA THERE!!!! *shudders like a cartoon character*

[@brad885]

My daughter's mother told me "you'll never get to see her. She won't even know about you." 🤣😂😂😂 court settled that in a quick minute.

[@alivingfossilgaming5893]

Hipity hopity your house is my property. Get out or I’ll call the copity

[@nightman2462]

rslash' voice is so soothing I want to listen to an asmr of it

[@malcolmschmitz9270]

Yes yes yes yes!!

[@idk_but_im_red]

Ew no asmr ir trash

[@taxfraudpro]

Ik somebody should make an asmr

[@nightman2462]

@@idk_but_im_red Thats your opinion

[@hiimkillian7143]

@@idk_but_im_red you can have opinions without bein a butt about em lol.

[@catt0009]

wow I'm here so early- not sleeping for the win!!

[@moon9714]

Ikr finally I got here early too yay

[@webtoonanime4940]

same

[@bobwilson8636]

W do you mean it’s bright af

[@melanodis]

same

[@emeraldinkling9853]

Early gang

[@backstreetspearstm6870]

"He would never say something like that" Well he just did

[@shadowmonkey8919]

When the kids sleeping just shave half his head bald.