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[@UriFirebringer]

Swedish male, 43 years old. A top notch woman to me is someone caring, loving, loyal and feminine. A woman who has a "we" mentality and support her man.

[@soup-nazi6824]

You will be very lucky to find that in sweeden 😅-maybe thailand 🇹🇭

[@UriFirebringer]

@@soup-nazi6824 Yeah I know.

[@mansanoire9989]

@UriFirebringer How are women in Sweden reacting to men going abroad to find wives? I heard a while back they were trying to enact laws to block this, is this true?

[@UriFirebringer]

@@mansanoire9989 Howdy. Not to my knowledge. It is not uncommon for swedish men to fall in love during their vacation abroad and they usually bring back their new partner here to Sweden (there a quite a few examples here in my own small town to highlight this). Many of these relationships actually lasts a long time. Im not aware of any law trying to hinder men from finding love abroad.

[@dominicjohnson310]

@@UriFirebringer do Swedish women in your town have a problem with so many local men with foreign women?

[@zaneelliot6963]

These girls who rated the guy with the towel a 0 would kill each other to be with him if he asked them out.

[@igormuniz4399]

Touché.

[@mosslimbayter277]

Thee lie because they expect women to return the favor.

[@paulwood6000]

I’m 59 years old. A top-notch woman for me carries herself with dignity and humility. Without these things any woman would look ugly to me.

[@zaneelliot6963]

@@paulwood6000 you sound arrogant

[@johndev2212]

I remember a couple of years ago when Adele took a break from her career. She came back after 2 years and had lost 100 lbs. She was literally shamed online by a segment of women who accused her of betraying the "Overweight Community" by losing weight and improving her health. 🙄

[@Jdb63]

She was their champion 😂

[@Nordic_Sky]

Ah yes, the shaming from other women. You'll experience it in spades if you date a girl 25+ years younger than you. Hilarious!! Just ignore it.

[@ashdavidson9585]

Actress Rebel Wilson is going through the same thing ATM. Congrats to Rebel and Adele. Both look great after weight loss.

[@WeWillAlwaysHaveVALIS]

Not trying to defend the actions of those harridans, but if I am remembering correctly, Adele for quite some time was exceptionally vocal about how she never had any intention of losing weight and how she's proud of her curves etc. So to a degree I can understand the frustration and anger those women felt, but equally as well, the people who utilised her as a champion of their respective weights and body sizes must have known that she was talking shite whenever she made her statements, because ultimately those people are almost certainly as unhappy with their own weight and size as she was.

[@noelsiro]

🤣😭😭😭

[@SociallyTriggered]

Guys standards are fairly rational. We want a woman who is: 1) pretty (this means takes care of herself and tries to make herself look attractive, not slutty) 2) kind (even a pretty woman with a bad attitude becomes instantly unattractive) 3) loving (who sees us as attractive and shows us love) 4) respectful (a woman who sees a relationship as a team effort rather than adversarial) 5) caring (a woman who tries to do things for her man and wants to see his life improve)

[@theimpassibile96]

6) Loyal

[@janhicks3292]

This is exactly what i would say. I'm a 57 year old American

[@harrypike731]

Yes, and importantly 1.) Pretty does not mean what alot of women think it means... We aren't all looking for Kim Kardashian or Margot Robbie. We don't need a model, or an Instagram baddie-wannabe. We just want a woman who takes pride in her appearance (so she workout, dresses nice, has a feminine aesthetic, etc). Basically, someone who isn't objectively hideous and who isn't obese! It's really not that hard! Trouble is, so many women nowadays look really sloppy. Casualness has become rampant especially since the pandemic, and its not a good look...all these baggy clothing trends, led by Billie Eilish and co - it looks ridiculous, unkempt, slovenly and not feminine at all. I see so many women who are naturally attractive walking around in baggy sweatpants and hoodie, or gym-wear. Even to restaurants! Have some decorum ppl, ffs.

[@SociallyTriggered]

@@harrypike731 This is really basic but asking this a of nowadays is like asking for the world. Sad how much women's own standards for themselves have fallen. They put all their effort into their profession, which most guys really don't care about.

[@harrypike731]

Yes, feminism has told them that to become empowered women, they basically.need to emulate men. Hustle, develop a career, be strong and independent, sleep around, etc.Sad, because most of them aren't happy about this lifestyle but pursue it anyway. Mental illness, depression and anxiety is at its highest rates ever for western women - no coincidence why.

[@rolandmueller7218]

I am 59 in Seattle and am pretty much invisible. But, thank God, I have a Filipina girl friend that loves and appreciates me.

[@marshallayers7282]

i am 57 in florida. i am invisible also as i am a nomal guy. normal looks, weight, height and income. i have a fit, attractive, loving 47 yr old gf in san pablo, ph. i have been there to visit her and she is a gem. i will retire there at 58 and i will make her the center of my life. she will do the same and love, respect and care for me. i just cant find that here. the only ones interested in me are obese, lazy and think a blue collar man is garbage. so i am leaving for a better life.

[@rolandmueller7218]

@@marshallayers7282 I’m glad to hear that. My girlfriend is 39 and I want to stay in the USA for several more years. My Filipina will eventually come here. I think Filipinas in their 30s and 40s are at a good age where they are more mature and wiser. Of course it depends on the individual people, not just age alone.

[@solutionsforabrightfuture3579]

I'm in my early 40's and in great physical shape. The problem is western women crave toxicity. I am hoping a Filipino woman can handle me treating her like a queen. And yes I would be happy to be a stepdad. Stepfathers are looked at as suckers by western standards. Being called sweet by a western woman equals friend zoned.

[@rolandmueller7218]

@@lidiagizaw3828 I am happy with my girl. But, we are discussing Western women and Seattle is in the west. It seems relevant to me and others to bring up the fact that age gap relationships are viewed as creepy. PS: I am only a father, not yet a grandfather.

[@rolandmueller7218]

@@solutionsforabrightfuture3579 Okay, that’s good you are open to being a stepfather. Many Filipinas already have kid(s). Most Filipinas that don’t have kids want kids.

[@mdredheadguy1979]

As a single, 43 year old, American male I think the section where you showed women rating a male model as ugly while rating an obese woman is beautiful is a perfect example of one of the many reasons I have quit dating. It's just not worth it anymore.

[@dankmoves]

I feel the same.

[@mcluvin65]

So you are a 43 year old man not married? How did that happen? To be in your early 20s like a lot of the people in the contrived videos is one thing but at 43 you need to analyze yourself and understand why you are alone. I totally support the idea that people are generally hypocrites when talking about others and that poverty is the great equalizer when it comes to dating but please don't think that when you go to some of the poorer countries all women are submissive and sweet. I watch these videos and think wow these women are beautiful too and the cost of living is so good, there must be a catch. We will see. What alarms me most is 95% videos have an element of exploitation.

[@Spike-qh2bb]

Obviously they are lieing in the ratings so dumb, just brainwashed morons.

[@mcluvin65]

@Pariah Yes I guess for some divorce is inevitable and once you get knocked down, why bother to get back up? total loser mentality. Every day you choose to be alone is another day you could be happy

[@avanstrash6149]

come to south east asia :D

[@massemarboyo8465]

I'm glad I'm Asian.... In there, traditional woman is the norm and slim curvy bodies is still the beauty standard

[@souvikbhadra1345]

The situation isn't go good in urban India as well, urban indian women just likes to copy western concepts blindly, and shows similar behaviour like the western women...this modern feminism phenomenon is killing families all over the globe

[@semperfi-1918]

Due to covid and lock downs in my gf's area she had no choice but to stop going for walks and working out. She started walking as soon as lockdowns stopped. She is loosing the weight she gained and knows despite loving her that being overweight is a health hazard. Shes a beautiful fillipina btw.

[@aim-for-greatn3z947]

Interesting because I have a serious question what part of Asia women are actually curvey like Hispanic women? I would prefer to marry a Asian decent female but when it comes to attraction they all are super skinny with no curves, their body figures are like white girls.

[@semperfi-1918]

@@aim-for-greatn3z947 they are out there. My fillipina has curves. And many fillipinas due to the migration of spanish culture for several hundred years made it heavily catholic influence as well. So many still hold tradition and values while having Spanish blood intermixed.

[@houseoflamarr3674]

yes thank you for being real women

[@lmstormentertainment]

Unfortunately this is a growing trend here in the states. I stopped dating women here because of the way they act and found the love of my life overseas

[@MrK.A]

Good on you bro. I'm with you on this one. I left the west too.

[@kenyattathompson6685]

It’s full grown

[@dankmoves]

American here - yea, I stopped dating here too, I now have been looking to the Philippines and talking to some women there to get a feel of it, and I guess looking more to the Asian women in general.

[@Will.Flavell]

Same in my home country New Zealand and the country I live in Australia not wonder why I prefer my options in South East Asia.

[@sfactor7]

Which state are you in? NYC is horrendous.

[@robbiedrummond4513]

A top notch woman is, modest, agreeable, feminine,caring and compassionate. It also helps if she looks after herself and has a sense of humour. I'm 48 years old.

[@NANA-lq5md]

Fit, feminine, and friendly.

[@DaygoKid94]

You don't have to be modest. I agree with all that other stuff tho lol

[@robbiedrummond4513]

@@DaygoKid94 modesty equals self respect. Just my opinion.

[@woodspirit98]

You're forgetting one thing all women with those traits share. They're intelligent.

[@DaygoKid94]

@@robbiedrummond4513 i feel you. I think relative modesty is a better option for me. Like she doesn't have to dress like a stripper but I don't want her dressing like a nun either.

[@grumpyoldsodinacellar4065]

I went to the Philippines some time ago, I met a delightful young lady six years my junior. I decided this young lady was going to be mine, and God help any man woman or beast that got in my way. We've been happily married for 32 year's now, the best thing I ever did.

[@CarlCutts]

This is funny

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

That's how you do it 💪

[@donquixote1502]

I agree with you 100%. As a man, I love women, real women!

[@ianthibeault4886]

And this is why I'm working to move and retire in the Phillipines asap, not necessarily because of women but because western outlook and mentality has just gone out of control and I just don't understand it anymore

[@deborgonya]

Same here

[@eugenel.ferguson3110]

Been living there for over 7 years. Can't beat it. Have a beautiful 26 yr old GF who is just gorgeous.

[@whitewolf6730]

I don’t get it either, it’s gone crazy!

[@clit_niblr0375]

@@eugenel.ferguson3110 - 7 years? How do you deal with all the problems there?

[@mosslimbayter277]

What problems?

[@Tential1]

Women "we are perfect" Women "why does no one love us." Men "we don't like your actions." Women "I'll do more of what you don't like." Men "we'll just play video games then." Society "why are men leaving the workforce?"

[@AsurmenHandOfAsur]

Spot on. You missed - Men: We are going overseas to find a traditional women.

[@Oh6Torch]

I’m with an Asian woman. We’re in our 50s and she still strives to stay thin. That to me is a sign of respect for me and herself. These modern women are out of control.

[@RudyCarrera]

I'm going to second this. I lived in China for two years, and taught there. I was absolutely floored to see women in their 60s dressed very well and keeping themselves slim. The beauty standards, at least in Beijing, were extremely high.

[@Oh6Torch]

@Everything Of Indian Cinema. She has daughters, son-in-laws, and a couple of grandkids. She’s allowed to do whatever she wants. Lol! I realize it’s viewed negativity in her culture. She tells me it’s important that she looks good for me. Beauty is a woman’s strength, in any culture.

[@De-certified_jlb]

Do you strive to stay thin as a sign of respect to her?

[@Oh6Torch]

@@De-certified_jlb Mostly health. I’m 54 in August and my job is physical. But yeah, she loves taking couples pictures and I’m sure she wants us to both look good. So, I’m compelled to do my part.

[@patrickmcgraw4705]

Femininity, peaceful cooperation, and be genuine. Fortunately, I actually found her. Men do not need much.

[@prepperjonpnw6482]

Years ago I married an American born Filipina that I met when she was in her 2nd year of college and I was still in high school. I was the only man she ever did anything with. Try to find a young lady over 21 who is still a virgin. We were married for 14 years before she passed away from a terminal illness. Her last 27 months I took care of her myself at home until the moment she passed. I did everything for her just as I promised her on our wedding day. Before she was gone she made me promise to remarry and not spend my life alone. She told me I would have to go to the Philippines to find a woman worthy of being my wife, one that would appreciate a “real man” and treat me the way she did. Well, my son is all grown and has a family of his own now. I will be moving to the Philippines in early 2023 and I’m hoping to find a Filipina that will allow me the honour of loving her the way my late wife would expect me to. As only a real man can. 😊

[@melparker8689]

That's sad to hear, if I ever get a great woman like that in my life I'd rather pass away before her. When she left that had to hurt dearly. I wish you the best going forward. I have never dated a Filipina but the few I have met have left a good impression on me. Besides being physically pretty they have good character which is becoming less common in today's women.

[@AsurmenHandOfAsur]

My condolences. I hope you find a secord love to honour your wifes wishes.

[@joshuam2341]

May your wishes be fulfilled

[@dunementat2191]

Sorry for your wife’s death! Know how that feels; my Filipina wife died a year after our marriage during open heart surgery. God bless you and best of luck meeting a new Filipina.

[@ocasanas]

My truly, deepest, most sincerest condolences. Grieve is love, love is grieve. I lost my wife too, from the Philippines, due to an accident and she was the most amazing person I've ever met. I am remarried to a wonderful person, similar and different at the same time, also Filipina. I'm crying daily, even if it happened about 1.5 years ago now, for me it's like the day of the accident. I love my late wife and I love my wife now. Both are amazing people and they NEVER doubt on helping you. I would never go back to being with an American woman, not necessarily stereotyping, but I did not have any luck in there when I was with an actual one. They are loving and caring, hard working, smart, beautiful inside and out, and family oriented. Be careful and take your time in finding the right person for you, whether it is one week or one year, but you will find the right one. Try finding one who is at work at the moment you meet her. Never date one who is a friend of a friend, as the "inner circle" of women might bring jealousy and problems. Godspeed! I always hoped to be the first one to pass. I never imagined that this is not what happened to me.

[@Stack_Chedder]

I just turned 40 and my ideal woman is someone who can be my medicine and not my headache

[@perseusrex614]

LOL nice

[@mrc3226]

The Filipina women are the true 👑

[@bulldog45k]

Glad you can see this! Ive given up on western women!

[@hermanedwards1381]

A woman that's kind and sweet gentle respectful

[@johnjolly2087]

After a lifetime of relationship problems, drama and conflict I was beginning to believe I was the problem. Then I met my Filipina wife. 25 years my junior. That was 16 years ago, and I haven't drawn an unhappy breath since. Yeah, traditional values and gender roles. Who wudda guessed?

[@Dawgz1]

You’re a breath of fresh air. The nonsense that we use to put up with here in the West with these entitled, over opinionated, ego inflated, accountability of a child, unattractive both mentally and physically women.. especially here in the black community. Yeah, I’m done with that. Great channel and thoughtful insight into this crazy mess that’s going on.

[@AS-ph4rb]

My wife accused me of 'being up to something because I was treating her too good'.🤔 'Men don't treat women good' she said. Found out it was her friend that convinced her of this. I only found out because her so called friend started calling me trying to chat me up behind her back. Needless to say she's now my ex-wife.😃 I met a Filipina and now I'm happy with a woman that appreciates a man treating her good.

[@AsurmenHandOfAsur]

Her loss, your gain! Misery loves company as they say. Did you tell her of her friends bad behavior? If you did that freindship is toast!

[@mcluvin65]

You must be a real peach, "treating her too good" you must have set a very low bar before. I am sure you will not find any happiness wherever you go because the disappointments in your life are because of you not the faults of others.

[@AS-ph4rb]

@@mcluvin65 Yes, you know all about me because you were that fly on the wall always watching. You seem to be one of those armchair psychologist and expert at everything internet, passing judgement us common folks. Why don't you enlighten me some more about MY LIFE. Please enlighten me about MY MARRIAGE and what was said and wasn't said, what I did or didn't do since you are the expert after all. Wasn't even aware that I held other people responsible for my happiness. But since you are 'SURE' that I won't find happiness I guess all is lost for me. In your expert and well thought out analysis of my statement you fail to realize that my ex-wife was the one that said 'I was treating her too good.' So maybe, just maybe she was comparing how I treated her to who ever she was involved with before me. But what do I know, you are the all knowing 'EXPERT' of everything Internet. I hope that your life is perfect and you bring joy to all.

[@cecilfletcher4404]

Feminine, beautiful, inspirational, in-shape, easy to get along with

[@christopherslavens7450]

Top notch: Respectfull , Non Combative, in shape , Gentle, Wife Material

[@tipigi3570]

They're being delusional, simple as that. Rating the male models a 0, while rating the obese woman a 5? They're living in a fantasy world. This is the TikTok generation, where every young woman thinks she's a 10, when she's actually a 4 on her best day. Top notch woman - A great personality (caring, supportive, understanding, loving, funny, loyal), and not bossy, demanding, etc. Good looks don't hurt either (in shape, good skin, a great smile, nice eyes). She may or may not have a good career, but if she does, she doesn't let it affect her family time. She thinks of herself as the equal in the relationship, not above the man, or below the man. btw- I'm 54, married to a lovely Filipina, and living in Cavite since 2016. Keep up the great work Rubeauti!

[@harrypike731]

Those Omegle videos are a great insight into how many young women in the West are basically just NPCs spouting whatever the woke, progressive zeitgeist tells them to. They have no genuine, individual thoughts / opinions of their own - they don't even question the narrative that they're told, they just accept it and parrot it back out like a robot. Even when given literal, objective evidence that the narrative and its ideas are illogical, they ignore it and double-down on pushing the narrative even harder, or, they just get frustrated and lash out because they can't admit that they've been lied to by the media narrative. Stuff like this makes you realise how authoritarian regimes and crazy dictatorships take hold...there's a worrying amount of stupid people who seem to just act as sheep and accept whatever reality is given to them by the government/establishment/media etc.

[@larsbliss2728]

56 years old. Stopped dating 8 years ago. Never been happier. Got money, motorcycles, house, and my dobermans. Need nothing else.

[@frankmosses9121]

That's why I'm looking in the Philippines for a good woman

[@boracay12]

im in the philippines and married to a pinay ( im from usa) the culture is different but some women regardless are viscous, they just hid it . be careful

[@haroldlebreton]

Yes, I don’t recommend marrying any women from U.S.A or Canada..most have a bad attitude and don’t appreciate men. I am from Canada and once married to a Canadian but now married a Filipina.

[@canadianbrotv1303]

@@haroldlebreton I second this

[@dirtycompass3957]

@@haroldlebreton Canadian here....I'm thinking of doing the same.

[@timwest277]

Amen looking forward to it myself

[@joed8634]

This is the reason why I prefer to live alone.

[@Joseph-gp5ld]

@Rubeauti ... In about 2 weeks I will be 62. Recently divorced 3 years ago. I look younger than I might actual age. My eyes have really been opened to this cruel and insane world of dating. I have had no need to date for decades since I was married. What I have learned a traditional normal woman hardly exists in my own country. If they truly exist, chances are there already married. A traditional woman who understands the role as a wife in a marriage to me is the caretaker of the home and family. She is feminine instead of masculine. She is not trying to compete with her husband or be the husband. She is submissive in that she accepts her husband's leadership and supports it. She's not foolish with money or thinks that it grows on trees. She has good moral standards and doesn't parade herself on social media half naked even though she's married or in a relationship. My takeaway from everything I've seen so far is that women should not be giving themselves dating advice. It's all regurgitated stuff from social media. Modern women in the West are on this drug of hedonism and feminism. They are so full of themselves, they can't see that wall eventually they will crash into. Only living for today instead of thinking about tomorrow. Men like myself will just say goodbye and visit other countries where we can still get a normal woman who appreciates us for who we are based on character and heart. Instead of our wealth, material possessions or status.

[@haroldlebreton]

I agree 100 %.. i married at 19 years old and was separated by 32 years old with 2 children. Wife was on antidepressants and wanted to separate. She drag me to court for child support then half my house I bough myself..later she been with many other boyfriends but all failed her. Later ask me to come back to her life. I said no way will I do this again. I tried dating women but I was horrified to see the mentality of the women in todays world in Canada and U.S.A. I such for a Filipina and was lucky to find one 7 years ago and life is so much better now since we been married.

[@conraddevera]

I agree with you sir.. I don't get the competition between couples, you should be supporting each other and not trying to outdo one another. She has a role and you have a role.. And I specially hate the 'I don't need a man' slogan.. Sweet moses ill accept that once they start building their own house.. Like hammers and nails not hiring.. Which will likely be men anyway

[@perseusrex614]

well stated.

[@conraddevera]

I read the entire thing again.. Sooo many important points hit right there

[@ProjectChaos77]

I’m 38 and currently dating a beautiful Filipina who’s 23. She’s by far the one of the most compassionate, loving, supportive, intelligent, and amusing little ladies I’ve ever met. She’ll be graduating from college this year and I couldn’t be more proud of her. Rubeauti, I’ll be visiting your country for the first time next year and I couldn’t be more excited to not only meet my girlfriend in person, but to also meet her family, and get to experience the culture. As far as these modern women are concerned, they’re their own worst enemies. They’re so entitled and selfish with ridiculous expectations/standards they expect men to meet. With attitudes like that from modern women it’s no wonder men are getting their passports.

[@skybox-fs6dv]

@N7 Slayer 23 is pretty young sir. Make sure you spend at least a few months over there, like out of vacation mode. Everything goes well when you're on vacation. Pay attention to behavior when she gets upset and how she resolves conflict. Don't be overwhelmed with her youth and beauty and feel that you're lucky and downgrade your own self-worth. Don't go over with an engagement ring like one of my friends did. Be cool, vet adequately...go home, go back again. You're 38, she's 23. You both have time. Think some more after at least two or more trips and then decide or wait before pulling that trigger. Let us know how it goes.😊😊 I'm married to a Filipina now for 11 yrs from the Philippines. A lot of guys bought their young Filipina wives here and they cheated on them. Not all, but 5 out of the 9 we know of.

[@perseusrex614]

I'm with skybox on this. Thats too young for you mate, you are in very dangerous waters, chances are you will regret this big. Look for 28-32.

[@mysticstrikeforce5957]

@@skybox-fs6dv you know 23 is not like she is a 14 year old girl right

[@DevlVergil]

@@mysticstrikeforce5957 it's still a big age gap. You shouldn't buy off more than you can chew. Oftentimes these relationships don't end well, the age gap is a huge indicator because there's almost never a good reason for a young woman to go with a significantly older guy, except for money or as a means to settle down in a highly developed country. They're not attracted to the guy at all and maybe even disgusted so they obviously start looking for way more attractive and younger white dudes and maybe even divorce the older dude once they realize there's much better options.

[@skybox-fs6dv]

@@mysticstrikeforce5957 It's interesting that you compared 23 years old with 14 years old. Really? You have to go all the way down to a juvenile to make your comparison. That only tells you how young 23 really is.

[@kenamaro]

Another eye-opening 👀👀 blog !!! It’s not surprising that many men have chosen to remain single, or moved to SE Asia to find a Mate. Great job Rubeauti ! 🇺🇸💝🇵🇭👍🏻

[@dankmoves]

So true man.

[@timothyjones9430]

There is SOOOOOOO much reality and fact in what you said here.

[@trtlphnx]

Love Your Presentations

[@gumdeo]

Filipinas have the class and elegance that has been lost in America.

[@Screwy9758]

And the U.K!

[@ronnienaron8389]

I always enjoyed the phrase Do not judge someone on their appearance or skin color. By doing this, you could be losing the greatest friend of your life. Merry Christmas to all signed yours truly passport Bros.

[@montenague]

Just found your channel. I watched a couple of old videos and wow, in the last 7 months you have come a long way... your professionalism has gone through the roof! Love your content, keep it up!

[@Larry84J]

💯 agree with your responses... America/ Babylon has fallen. Its sad. This is just the beginning.

[@7294smk]

First of all my Filipina wife is perfect. She has beautiful brown skin and a curvy sexy body. She has a kind personality. Most of the time. I also think you are beautiful. Dont let American women ruin Filipina women.

[@gatormouth337]

I like what you are saying. We should feel the world with positivity instead of making negative comments and judgments about people

[@ChrisFrazierthecoach]

I am so glad I left the matrix and got my awakening.

[@MattB619]

What is a top-notch woman? I am 41. She is kind and compassionate. She treats people the way she she wants to be treated. She is forgiving. She is honest, and she is not manipulative. She has worked through or is working through any past problems. She has a good sense of humor and wants to be friends with her mate. She is driven by what she can give, not by what she can get. She embraces her femininity, inside and out. She embraces that men and women are complimentary and not interchangeable. She does not try to be a man and understands her worth does not come from that which gives a man worth. She tries to be healthy and encourages her mate to be healthy. She loves her mate and supports him emotionally. She derives pleasure out of making her man happy, and she lets him make her happy. She does not talk to other men or have male friends if she is married, and she expects the same from her husband. She loves God and wants to live by His hierarchy, in loving submission to her husband. She views herself as one flesh with her husband. She does not consider divorce as an option. She does not use sex as a weapon.

[@nlsn1964]

I have no idea about "top notch". I hate to say this because it makes me sound so old and almost dysfunctional but the first thing that I liked and found attractive about my Filipina was her PERSONALITY. Yes, I have told her that a few times and she seems overjoyed. I do now find her very physically attractive but the part I loved first was our conversations.

[@darkage5]

Thanks for making this video. I always like to see a Filipinas perspective to what we western Men have to deal with.

[@conductor6577]

When I saw the woman rate the land whale a 5 I knew immediately these woman are delusional. As far as what I am looking for is a kind woman, supportive, submissive, and is content with me.

[@roningham]

Exactly - codependency is huge. 10:35 mark. Most people don't track this issue, or even know about it. Defeating it is one of the keys to freedom.

[@CerebralAptitude]

On a different subject Rubeauti, a previous video about decreasing foreigners working in the Philippines; The U.S. government is currently writing sanctions to stop allowing Filipino workers to work for any American call center job in the Philippines, because of your governments ordinance about foreigners. Companies now are soliciting Brazil, Dominican Republic, Argentina, Chile and many other countries to retaliate. The U.S. is the master at keeping countries in line. They will make the Philippines suffer because of this new ordinance.

[@pattskatoey3139]

Well it’s fair if the Philippines is curtailing the employment of Americans don’t you think?

[@Niftynorm1]

Wow! Rubeauti you hit it out of the park with this one. I am the first to admit I am in poor shape at 65 injuries, medications and a hard working life have taken their toll. For me ladies have changed yet in some ways are still the same. In high school I asked several to the prom and was turned down, almost everyone who turned me down wound up not going and were complaining about it on Monday. They wanted their ideal and wound up bitter. I have made plenty of mistakes in my life regarding women but now I am looking at the Philippines for retirement and a new start. My ideal lady: smart, able to carry a conversation on different things; compassionate; open minded, willing to try new things; fit and a little pushy so I take better care of myself; traditional values and family oriented. In the past I have accepted that nice guys finish last but the Philippines is giving me hope.

[@dansretirementjourneyphili6794]

Thank you for another great video on this topic!

[@Siouxthenation]

22. Understanding, humble, supportive and balances me out. Top notch.

[@trtlphnx]

Love Your Channel

[@sjcanalita3093]

i’m glad there are still women like you. it’s crazy out here in the US (Los Angeles). 55yo

[@OneJuanWon]

Early 50s male from the US - In my opinion, a top notch woman is one who shows appreciation for the things you do for her, is pleasant to be around, she can balance confidence with feminine qualities while not coming off as combative, she has good health habits with regard to eating and exercise, and brings an element of calm and peace to a relationship. She is appreciative of the simple everyday things we so often take for granted and is more interested in the shared experiences with her partner rather than the material things.

[@Parkinsonm64]

I have a very good friend that's a young person from the Philippines. The issues most people from around the world particularly from the US have no idea what people deal with in other countries. Dig deep. It's rough and eye opening

[@lap1608]

Rubeauti you are definitely a top-notch woman in every way for me

[@ComputerzenAu]

love your channel! passport bros all the way in 2023

[@dn30001]

The Philippines dating culture is slowy changing into the modern west. Especially in the cities there. To men going there to find a woman......PLEASE do not help to spread this nasty virus of feminism to the Philippines. I found my Visaya filipina and I am VERY blessed. I fear for the future generations of men.

[@stevefair515]

Mahal kita bulaklak I agree with you on most off the stuff you said. And apart from tempo issues and saying yes when things aren't understood filipinos are generally a lot better to date and dating in Wales in UK gets expensive very quickly. Went for a meal the other week it ended up costing £436 the thing is she didn't even eat half the stuff that she ordered. And took a pic of the receipt/check and posted it to social media.

[@DeleteTheNWO]

This planet is a Free range mental asylum.

[@2000ViperGTSsubscribe]

^OMG that is epic good-well done.

[@drewgrows7765]

Probably only America and England.

[@2000ViperGTSsubscribe]

@@drewgrows7765 You must be smoking some good weed. EVERY country has issues, some unique, but mental health issues are real worldwide.

[@eftihioscan]

LOL 😆

[@dwkeleher1713]

I absolutely love your honesty, and you are 100% correct about what is happening in the apparent modern world. I am married to a Filipina of similar age to myself, and she 8s the best. A widowed mum of 5, I still accept her, and she accepts me. We are cultures apart, but are actually so alike. But we are also equal, and enjoy a Christian relationship. We met accidentally as I wasn't looking for a partner at that time, and had been put down enough from past western girls. My wife is also very intelligent and very capable of anything, but we still work together. 🇦🇺❤️🇵🇭

[@Tential1]

The funny thing is, the countries that don't buy into this idiocy will be the next superpowers

[@kenyattathompson6685]

Underrated comment

[@TheOlmonroe1]

Facts

[@tomgreenleaf7906]

Thank you for a common sense video, sorely needed in the dating world nowadays.

[@JoyLangston]

You’re so brave to discuss this and even put this on KZbin ♥️ This is so rare. You are rare ♥️

[@Mercyful_Fate.]

Brave is fighting in a war, carrying a child out of a burning building, and saving someone who's being physically assaulted. I've done 2 of the 3. That's bravery, not posting on KZbin.

[@jasonturner127]

I follow you in particular because you are top notch to me. I am 43. I love your thoughtfulness and how you have learned to navigate this world. Especially how well you share it here on your channel. Yes, you are also gorgeous. But it is everything together that makes you, you, and I like you just the way you are.

[@jeffcalhoon3412]

That’s why I married a Filipina and moved there.

[@Bogie6588]

Thanks!

[@Bogie6588]

@@Rubeauti ....No worries! Thank YOU for the great content!!

[@bcpioneer59]

Excellent examples that you showed. I do not know why those females think they are so great. Like the one said it is about personality , but the women shown has terrible personalities and attitudes. I would not want to be around any of them, ever! If someone demands something from me it is not going to happen. The entire attitude and thinking has been skewed in western culture and getting worse for a very long time. The nicest guys I know are alone, unless they have found the right girl a lifetime ago. I have no idea where these foolish females came from, but we know where they will be in the future. Thanks for the video Rubeauti, great work.

[@comaca]

This is a rather great insight. I'm not on the "market", yet I think you exposed a sad reality. My son is 18 and great person. He is trying to manage this type of quagmire. Talented, super-capable, thin and strong. I just sent him this. Rubeauti, interesting subject matter. I will send this to my 17 year old daughter as well

[@vince1012]

Rubeauti, you hit it right on! Good video. BTW, a top notch woman is positive and knows how to live a great life!

[@Chrono826]

All of those women had plenty of opportunities to get good men and they shot them all down to throw herself at Chad for free.

[@raymahannah4336]

Hi Rubeauti! Thank you for your sane perspective on this topic! 🙂 I truly hope the western feminist movement never truly takes root there, and poisons the female population as it has here. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas! 🙂♥️🎄

[@CobraHigh]

You make good points the thing that you're still missing is if women have equal rights and equal opportunities, then they should also have equal responsibilities, and accountability. Without these things what society is doing instead is actually giving women special privileges, while men are given special punishments.

[@ChiTalkaDJedi9]

I agree with you and like to see and hear women like you speak the truth on this subject!!! Thx U!!! I just subscribed!!!

[@raphie8488]

Rating a person is very subjective for people that have not lost their mind. So my 10/10 is a women I can talk to, share interests, or in short a companion, a partner, someone equal. We tend to tell ourselfs quite often that looks are secondary but in thruth it is as importand as the character and moreso for the first impression to even get attracted to someone.

[@dennislbrown]

Additonally, this is your best vlog ever. I'm very impressed with your analysis.

[@jasonbaylor5653]

I agree it's so sad how the west is going 😭😭

[@aaronburdon221]

A good woman is one who is kind, supportive, intelligent enough to challenge when things NEED to be challenged. Integrity and an attractive figure is a bonus.

[@lukecarter4291]

My name is luke and I’m 28 yers old. And to be completely honest, the qualities I want in a woman are actually the ones I see in you, rubeuti and in other Filipino women. Attractive, feminine, caring, loyal and kind. I have no ulterior motive in saying that, so don’t get me wrong. I especially love it when Filipinos call out these western women who I’m forced to share the air with on their bs. The only thing keeping me in America right now is the fact that I love my family

[@ogbrand3857]

@lukecater4291 You are at the perfect time in your life to build your future and wealth. Start with saving as much as you can in investments, stocks, and bonds. Do this for the next 10 years. What how your money grows. Get a house (if you don't have one already.) Bite down and stick to the goals that you set and make them happen. Life will hand you some obstacles but as long as you weather them and come out with minimal damage. You are good. The women will be there in 10 years. Trust me! I didn't hit my financial stride until 40-42. I had to let go of a lot of the things I thought were important. That was the best decision I made. Now, I am married to my Filipina queen and life is good. We have two kids, two homes here in America, and a house newly built in the Philippines. We have sizeable savings for us and separate savings for the kids. We could leave today and be good in the Philippines but we will wait until the kids are older in their teens to decide whether we go full-time or 60/40 split. I am 45 years old and you don't have to make a huge salary to make this happen. I did it on 50K - 85K through the years. Now, I earn 120k base and another 25-30K from a small business, My wife work when she wants for however long or short she wants. She brings in an additional 20-40K depending on how long she works. She came here and went to school to be a Certified nurse and now is a Traveling Nurse. Lastly, don't waste your M.E.A.T (Money, Energy, Attention, and Time) on a lot of these women here. They are excellent extractors of resources. Protect it as much as you value your own life. Remember, it's your happiness, peace of mind, love, goals, and no one else's. Don't let people dictate, shame, guilt, insult, demean, or disrespect you into making them happy.

[@jaymes7521]

Really appreciate your well thought out vlogs, I have said this before. Your intelligence is beautiful.

[@ogbrand3857]

I love my Filipina wife. She is so feminine, soft, caring, loving, homely, respectful, and smart, and knows what she wants and needs. She helps me with all my decisions, saves our money together, and loves our children in such a motherly way that it's beautiful. She is in no way perfect and neither am I but we both complement each other. That's why we have been so successful together because there's a balance so neither of us is stressed nor the burdens of life fall on one or the other's shoulders solely. Most of all PEACE! Peace of mind, reassurance, cooperation, and sacrifice for the big picture is key to me in our marriage.

[@dankfarrik8376]

Can I just say that i love your hair! My japanese girlfriend has the same and I really love it when she braids it. It looks gorgeous and is so feminine! Love your vids!

[@bruce2535josie]

Most women from the Philippines from what I seen looks is not something that’s important to them, western women looks is very important and how much this man can give to them,

[@10mudpuppy]

Philippine woman just do it differently

[@mattroller781]

Your best video yet. Well put together and very good background music. You've come a long way. Thank you!

[@ARDEMDE]

I agree, this issue of westernized woman is a plague that invade most developed cities. Even here in Mexico. I am a single father (41) since my daughter was like 2 years old, and I have not being able to find a good girl to share my life with, since they are so judgmental, they are over the top drug addicts, alcoholics or they just want to be with a lot of man, they have impossible standards and requests. I excercise myself Martial Arts, I have a good business with good money, I don't drink I don't have bad habits, I consider myself loving and caring, I was able to raise a beautiful, inteligent and successful lady (21) and nothing is enough for this western woman. I know there are still some good girls but is so freakin hard to find them. And I have dated girls from Mexico and the US with same poor results. This is why I am making plans to move to Asia I am tired of the girls over here.

[@Strikerkong]

as per the question of the perfect partner tomboy, caring and loyal.

[@trtlphnx]

Trust Is The Needed Element In A Woman - Age 61

[@fishingwithrick3991]

Excellent video, spot on observations. Well done Rubeauti. ❤️

[@markrist4238]

You are the epitome of being a classy lady. And, your lady-like qualities are apparent for all to see.

[@spacecoasttactical]

Keep following this line of content you are doing a great job. Well put together and presented.

[@robgillespie4541]

Put my career on hold to support her for the first six years only to find out the corporate world didn't make her happy. Finally came to the conclusion that I would be happier alone than married and wishing I was alone. Never remarried.

[@petermorgan4720]

Utterly love your videos, Rubeauti. Thank you. Along with a few other videos from others, I have come to realise why all my effort has been in seeking a wife overseas, and mainly in Asia. Humble, family-oriented, caring, gentle... Wonderful. I must admit that I hate the tempo, though... Not sure how to handle that.

[@MrBill2U]

Unvaccinated with Rubeauti intelligence would be top-notch for me. 52 looks 42 with the body of someone 32.😜

[@Stevenhufnagel]

Love your brutal honesty. I married a Filipina 5 years ago. It's the best decision I ever made. We both think we got lucky finding each other.

[@jkhmr8283]

I know a lot of guys that settled on looks and fitness for other qualities. Myself included. I knew it was still risky and I still got burnt. Just another Daddy whose child is being raised by another. After 7 years, I became the worst kind of monster (and all her family and friends believe her) to justify her leaving after a spinal injury. I had no idea she was capable of such evil but she is. Maybe even believes it herself. I tried really hard to protect myself and maybe it would've worked out if it weren't for the disability. But I guess it's better to know now than 30 years in.

[@okanaganworldnews8595]

Good day young lady. Your awesome, keep up the good work! I'm Canadian, 57.

[@deantucker1464]

Greetings, Rubeauti...you asked about a perfect woman and please don't take this like I'm deliberately shmoozing you. To me, though I don't know you personally, you are the perfect woman . You have a perfect figure, beautiful skin and no need for makeup at all, super feminine and the big bonus...smart...which is the most attractive thing. This body positivity movement is once again a generation of automatons refusing to take any personal responsibility for their own actions. I've struggled with weight my whole life and am pretty successful at keeping my weight within reason and my cardiovascular health excellent but never once have I tried to blame anyone else for.what I put in my mouth. I'm 63 now and frankly, most of this attention whore generation disgusts me! Keep up the good work Rubeauti!

[@deantucker1464]

@@Rubeauti Thanks for the encouragement, Rubeauti...the thing I don't understand is that these "influencers" deny basic scientific knowledge that being overweight is hard on every system and joint in your body...it just defies reality...but then again, they cannot define what a woman is either. Lol Just keep doing what you're doing and addressing the difficult issues and of course making me wish I was twenty years younger! 😊😎

[@stevenaverett4065]

Traveling to other countries is great. And also I am going to the D.R. next time. And also, I would like to travel to see how the Filipino ladies are doing.

[@franklinsmith8857]

Yes in America it is very difficult to find them if you do find one she is already married but I have found in the Philippines it is not hard to find them I love the Filipino people

[@mensurbasic]

God Bless you for this refreshing.

[@vikingrogaland2844]

I am new to your channel, but I really appreciate your video. And of course, I have a filipina wife.