There was a woman whose father taught her to memorise the quran, but he was so extreme that he once broke her arm bone. She did memorise the quran and won quran recitation competition but once she ran away from home, she immediately renounced islam. May allah protect us all. He may have a good intention that he wanted for his daughter to be a good Muslim, but his actions killed the love of Islam in her heart.
@mkhan66283 жыл бұрын
I was in one of the madrasah in Bangladesh where the teachers would beat the kids to vent their anger. Now I’m in egypt and finally finished hifdh Alhamdulillah. No matter how many times I made mistakes he would very politely and patiently correct my mistake even if I repeat the same mistake. This is how you build love for Quran by good Adab from your teacher not by the fear of beatings
@tabeebabdullah71063 жыл бұрын
Assalamualaikum Akhi. If u don’t mind , can I have a chat with u on any social media platform or WhatsApp? I have some queries regarding some issues and I would really appreciate if u could clarify a few.
@tanvirashraf7283 жыл бұрын
There are severe problems in our thought-process, one of the key fundamentals of our education system is 'na pitaile polapan porbo na'.... I ' m glad that another man from deep inside has addressed it and talked about it....jazak Allah
@navedahmed21093 жыл бұрын
@@tabeebabdullah7106 you can ask your questions here, brother. I'll try my best to answer or provide you with sources that could answer your queries, In Sha Allah.
@Quantum-11573 жыл бұрын
South Asia is a disaster zone a d thanks to Indian culturalism in Bangladesh and Pakistan, these 2 Muslim countries also suffering from deviant practices!
@187A1 Жыл бұрын
I was in such madrassah in Pakistan they use to beat all of us really badly. I forgot what i memorised because of so much fear and in the end i ran away from there and stopped practicing islam. Now im my adult life i am slowly but surely coming back to islam now that i can make sense of my fears
@asammahmood57753 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah Sheikh. These so called "teachers" could be part of the reason many future Muslim kids may grow up with no-real attachment to the deen, due to their constant beating of these poor innocent kids. Those beaten-scarred kids will grow up with a very negative image about Islam - just by how much their "ustaud" abused them while they were still mere babies! More should really be done to stomp this sort of behaviour out.
@tansinsami625310 ай бұрын
One of the reason ...my parents didn't send us to madrashas in Bangladesh....they hired an imam to teach us....such a loving and great person....
@wzulmai3 жыл бұрын
Anyone who beats a child because the child is not able to recite Qu’ran properly is a worthless, coward of a human being. How anyone could condone that is beyond me.
@jameelaha2953 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but islam says treat kids with kindness. These children will grow up hating their religion. There is no ruling on hitting a child to make them read or memorize better.
@zeezeebo2 жыл бұрын
Some children are a little slow learning, others are fast. The beating gets excessive and cause students to hate madrasa. It happened to me and I was removed from madrasa. Went back and completed as an adult
@deadlesscat78373 жыл бұрын
"I would slap this teacher" hahaha this made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂
@momofchampions72932 жыл бұрын
I went to madarassa in new Zealand run by arabs and west african teachers and as a 10 year old new to the country with language barrier and arabic not being my 1st or 2nd language, i got beaten with stick whenver i messed up,i was also a child with anxiety and trauma due to fleeing civil war which were undiagnosed. Nobody cared or acknowledged my mental health at that time. Walahi today im stuggling to have connections and love for my deen, i struggled with salah my whole life and still am but im trying to relearn everything from beginning for myself .i make sure my kids love learning the quran and we make fun walk going to the mosque for some prayers, eid and Ramadan are big deal and joy in our house.we explain to them everything at their level as they are 8 n 6,..i pray they have the better experience than me..btw most of the kids at my madarassa became wild as grown ups and lost their way..many sisters took off hijab n dressed like western, had boyfriends from non muslim background, start smoking weed or shisha😥 i believe if those teachers were kind and patient many of those kids would have stayed on the right path..may allah forgive us and guide us.🙏🏽
@daizz55009 ай бұрын
When i was 5 or 6 years old girl, i used to go to the masjid that was next to my house to learn to read quran. The teacher there ( a man), one day , was praising me about how good i am reading the words as i was reading it to him. Then, all of a sudden he slapped me hard on my face left and right such that i fell down on the floor in front of all the other kids in the masjid. I was a very introvert and underconfident child, i felt soo embarrassed and humiliated in front of everyone that i couldn't even make eye contact with any other kids. Then i got to know why he slapped me. I have a problem with pronouncing the R words, i still have that problem i cant pronounce those words such as RARE. Thats why he slapped me. I stopped going to the masjid from the next day.
@MohamedShou3 жыл бұрын
Our prophet *never* in his life beat his companions when teaching the Quran 🤷🏾♂️. That’s why when I was a kid I would not allow my parents to take me to certain Quran teachers because I knew these teachers where literally going to beat you for any small mistake Subhanallah. May Allah have mercy on us
@atifhusain12 жыл бұрын
The sheikh is 100% right. Majority of the so called madrasah teachers have no proper training on how to teach children. They might be hafiz e quran but dont know how to deal with children in that capacity. Maybe this is what is needed. The madrasahs should require their teachers to get proper teachers training before hiring them.
@wajootube20753 жыл бұрын
As a person who grew up in 3rd world not only our parents beat us to pray and Quran,but some of our Quran teachers were extreme in beating us till We bleed that was excessive
@Trauma-X3 жыл бұрын
Haraaaaam
@worshipthecreator90813 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness.
@flamepillarx3 жыл бұрын
That’s too extreme! Beating should have limits with good intentions to teach a child the right manners. It shouldn’t be turned into a way to express anger or break the limits because the child will hate the teacher and the madrasa and Allah knows best
@nowomannocry83273 жыл бұрын
May allah continue to guide and protect sheikh asim mostly answers questions in an amazing way masaallah
@naeemaurangzeb16493 жыл бұрын
Allah........not allah.
@nowomannocry83273 жыл бұрын
@@naeemaurangzeb1649 what’s the difference if I may ask ?
@Blaze070913 жыл бұрын
I don't know about other muslim countries, but it's a very serious problem here in Bangladesh. Not only beating though, here the so-called Ustads (teachers) would do whatever mean to get you learning, sometimes even worse than physical abusive. I was no more than 12-13 when my Ustad told me if I recite Qur'an properly, I'll be rewarded with a sports car accompanied with 2 beautiful ladies in heaven. Now tell me, who teaches you to walk in the path of Deen while lusting over cars and ladies in heaven? Absolutely bizarre. I stopped taking Qur'an education from him after that, but the thing is, stories like this is very common.
@1goal13 жыл бұрын
I was told in a Islamic meet that in Islam it's ok to repremend a child as long as you of you tap them lightly once. And it can never be hard enough so as to leave any kind of mark. Not even a change of color in the skin. Which means that it's more like a small tap that they feel like a the tiniest pinch. And you can only tap again once the feeling of the first tap is gone. I don't think the lady teaching the lesson lied. The Prophet Muhammad SA never hit anyone and he is SA the best of examples. I think the questioner meant that those teachers in those madrasas are beaten the kids hard enough that they of course would not want to be there. I know what Islam is. And I am pretty sure that beating kids with wooden sticks. Rulers. Any other object. Or even a hard hand is not ok. I have heard of teachers that make their students stand with their hands raised above their heads for a while. I myself many years ago saw a teacher slap a good well behaved girl in the face for not reading right. I am a hundred percent sure that is not acceptable is Islam. Since when Islam is meant to torture anyone as if we are talking about war? When did true Muslims become spy torturers? (Treating kids like spies) Even in the times of the Prophet Muhammad SA they treated prisoners of wars better than that. And if I am not mistaken. "la ikraha Fi Deen". So why should I force anyone to pray? Or learn a lesson? The children of Prophets didn't believe in their own parents. And wives. Who are we to force anyone to anything? I believe in discipline. But one can accomplish a lot when it comes to childrens attention without needing to beat them up. Of course they are going to hate the madrasas. I would too. It's a shame. May Allah forgive us all for how ignorant we are.
@user-ej7we6ph3l3 жыл бұрын
Definitely not allowed to slap someone in the face even lightly. It's forbidden to hit someone in the face. So sad that the girl was hit like that.
@little_friends_activity9 ай бұрын
I memorized the quran when i was 12 years old but only out of hate only to escape from these stupid teachers beatings i memorized the quran because my mom and the teachers who taught me used to beat me left and right till im wounded and used to say stupid myths saying that the places where you get beaten for quran wont burn in hell fire..to get me memorize the quran due to that with hatred i finally memorized and only did i feel hate every single time i recited and memorized the quran but after i grew up and as a 23 year old adult now realizing that quran is always beautiful the ones who taught me made me hate it. The teachers who teach should teach it in a beautiful way that brings the children close to the quran than bringing hatred or take them away from the quran. Some children are slow learners some can learn way too fast.. some children are capable of having other great talents, dont force children to memorize the quran with cruel acts and make children feel hatred towards the holy book. There are many students who flee from islamic learning and quran learning due to these harsh treatings. Hope someone who reads this teach others the quran with love and with the beautiful insights in it rather than making a distance between the quran.
@AbubakarAY4 ай бұрын
I can listen to Assim all day!
@TheNiaz553 жыл бұрын
Many kids grow up violent because of growing up misunderstood and getting beaten up instead of corrected or taught their mistakes properly.
@usamuslimvt Жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaykum Sheik always appreciate you. There is a fundamental issue here with a very simple solution. If you raise your child to love Allah (SWT), discipline will be much easier because you''ll just be reminding them, not forcing them to do something they don't want to do. And if there is no love in your own heart for Allah (SWT), you'll have no chance of inspiring it in others. Knowledge is important...but what you do with that knowledge is even more important. Do you know why "Show and Tell" is such a great learning tool for children? Because they absorb so much of what they observe. If parents and teachers are compassionate, humble, and eager to please Allah (SWT), the children will strive to emulate that because that is how they learn. Likewise, if the parents and teachers are callous, harsh, and impatient, this will result in troubled children.
@angelp4724 Жыл бұрын
💯 Yes this! Children should be treated with great patience & understanding. Assertiveness is not the same as yelling and punishing isn't the same as letting a stranger beat your kid, if only people stopped allowing strangers to influence their children to this extent 😓
@arkirace25833 жыл бұрын
I was so excited to go to school when I was little and yet so scared of going to Madrasa every saturday and sunday cause the teachers were so scary and they always use sticks to beat or pinch us. The only thing goes through my mind while at the madrasa was the stick and pinch.
@Trauma-X3 жыл бұрын
It's so wrong
@preparingforjannah3543 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry u went through that. Remember our beloved prophet peace he upon him he would never do that. Hate the wrong action of some people but always love islam.
@tanvirwahid51803 жыл бұрын
I never went to madrasa. But some of things I have seen on social media are scary. Even in schools, things are not that different. Some of the teachers are simply not fit to teach. I remember once one of the teachers threw my friend on the floor and kicked him again and again just because he said something he shouldn't have said. May Allah guide all of us.
@khaliddualeh37022 жыл бұрын
I would love Mondays and hate Fridays (Weekend Quran School) when I was a kid. Now im older and want to learn quran
@mahak4922 жыл бұрын
If someone tries to beat my child, he might want disappear off the face of this earth!
@mohamedalghazali63673 жыл бұрын
Shaikh your are so knowledgeable I want you to know you help me in my life so many times may Allah bless you with whatever you want here and hereafter Alhamdulillah for your video thank you so much
@OG_TAYO Жыл бұрын
I keep explaining this to my family here in Nigeria and they think I'm being proud. Sadly even the Muslims I know keep telling me to just do it. Sad how many people don't know their Deen over here😪
@zachtavaris53783 жыл бұрын
Memorizing Quran should not be with a stop watch, rush to the finish line. Our beautiful religion provides us ease of learning, why the beating? Love of anythig grows with nourishment, not force. I cannot imagine our beloved Prophet (Peace and Blessing be Upon Him) asking parents to beat a child to learn prayer.. if if all efforts fail, keep trying and never lose hope, ask for Allah Subhan Wa'Tala's Help. In'Sha'Allah ease will follow.
@harithharith95323 жыл бұрын
As a Muslim we should put extra efforts to make sure that we memorise the Quran and recite properly 💞💞💞
@IPGlow2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people need to ask a sheikh for a ruling on this matter, it is universal we don't beat children and if you find a teacher beating a child, he should be reported to the authority and be never allowed to work with children, period.
@azhankhalid35353 жыл бұрын
"Take the meat amd give me the bones" , exactly what my father told to the Hafiz/qari 😀😀
@SadikKhan-wt8cs3 жыл бұрын
"You take the meat and bring me the bones" My grandma used to say this exact thing to my mother's teachers when she was young. And I'm from Bangladesh. It's mind blowing!
@SalmanAli-pn7lq2 жыл бұрын
Rasulullah (saw) said: "He is not of us he who does not show mercy to our young and recognise the honour of the old"
@hassanridwan81463 жыл бұрын
Now I know why ex muslims make fun of islam because instead knowing what islam actualy teaches they judge on it what they have experienced by their parents.
@AdrianMuslim3 жыл бұрын
Summary: The teacher has to be knowledgeable enough to know how to properly treat children and the teacher can beat if it’s necessary but cannot beat in a way that puts fear in children’s heart and makes the them flee.
@bluemountain193 жыл бұрын
This is again an excellent answer by our beloved Sheikh Asim Hakeem. May Allah SWT increase him in his knowledge.
@fayedomar602 Жыл бұрын
My Quran teacher used to strike me with a pen If I repeated any mistakes while reciting. But afterwards he'd just smile at me and correct my mistakes. I only have respect for him. May Allah be pleased with him.
I was not a student of madrasa, but i had a teacher , a knowledgeable one, he used to beat me and my brother , but never put his anger on us nor he injured us. He had a good reason, he had to beat us the way we could be disciplined ,like- not do unnecessary things when we recite Al Quran, not doing his simple homework even if we had time. Etc. He never went extreme, his way has put some sense in me. I have a huge respect for him, it was 10 years ago, he taught me for almost 5 years. He is very close to me now , when i see him anywhere i love to start a conversation with him. And yes, frankly speaking, kids in bangladesh needs a little bit strictness but with incomparable love to grow up properly, i have seen many getting spoiled for not getting that level of strictness, or for too much strictness. I pray that every teacher of madrasa treats children like him and his teachers.
@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen692 жыл бұрын
I stopped as a child visiting Quran School. Allah guided me Alhamdulillah, but if He didnt, i probably wouldnt be Muslim right now.
@pro-justpeace73633 жыл бұрын
The lack of knowledge about Islam transformed us to monsters . they think the religion is all about the apparent, they ignore and forget that the outside follows what is inside . YOU CANNOT BE RELIGIOUS WITHOUT LOVING THE RELIGION. Very sad to see what has happened to us.
@Ballykeith2 жыл бұрын
Violence begets violence and children should be entitled to the same legal protection as adults.
@farookmow58423 жыл бұрын
Salaat is compulsory, whereas any other religious activity is a plus. Consequently the ruling applicable to salaat is NOT applicable to reading the holy Qur'an and even less to memorizing same.
@Muwahid9993 жыл бұрын
You can't give ruling unless you're scholar or student of knowledge yourself
@farookmow58423 жыл бұрын
You may accept what I say or leave it.
@ukhtiphatymah553910 ай бұрын
It happens in Africa (Ghana) a lot too... we all have been wooped very well😂🤣 before. But it seems they no longer do this. But it really helped during our time. It helped us learn hard as we didn't want to get wooped since we were lazy. But look at us today, how we've really benefited from learning hard because we were scared to get wooped. And today, many people are benefiting from me as well.. Alhamdulillah. Without getting wooped of course 😂
@m.tayyubbaig1581 Жыл бұрын
In some Madras’s, the way the children are beaten that’s unacceptable. That kind of punishment makes children anti Islam.
@Zee-cl9wk3 жыл бұрын
Sheikh, I believe the question was regarding whether you should hit the child if they make a mistake/error during recitation as they are still learning. Not if the stop reciting altogether. I am learning the Qur'an as an adult, I am trying my very best, should you hit me if i make a mistake even though I am trying my best? No one is forcing me to learn, I've only recently been guided and want to learn Arabic with all my heart.... will you hit me if i make mistake during recitation?
@rustyray4203 жыл бұрын
The Prophet pbuh never beat any child and always treated them with love and kindness tho did he not?
@umiaygul25252 ай бұрын
My sister was slapped in a turkish madrassa for not proper reciting the Quran. She never goes to the mascid, is not attached to the deen at all and still recalls the harshness 40 years later. Now I see the turkish imams and ulama mashaallah they are so lovely with the children because they know you can win the hearts of children with softness better than with strictness
@muthallibshaik8676 Жыл бұрын
With mercy and love you could make the children hafiz
@zainabfatima28083 жыл бұрын
I understand the beating regarding the prayer part...remember this does not mean abusing. BUT beating kids for not reading Qur'an... that is outrageous and DISGUSTING! How dare anyone make this okay? The Prophet SAW himself was merciful towards kids. In the middle east, kids are not just beated, they are beated to DEATH (in some stories)... I HATE THAT SOME KIDS HAVE TO GO THROUGH THESE DONKEYS WHO PRETEND TO BE TEACHERS OF THE QUR'AN
@totally_not_lai3 жыл бұрын
In this thread itself there are people justifying beatings saying it worked for them
@HM-rm3ul3 жыл бұрын
love from Bangladesh
@Andromeda_GALaxy484 ай бұрын
i was just thinking about this and boom this video is in my feed. sent a chill down my spine
@mrchips.92453 жыл бұрын
I was beaten in school , madrassah and home too I was a naughty kid though
@Faiz91633 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Allah bless you bro
@Shammer13 жыл бұрын
Sadman asked a sad question
@ebuqble332 жыл бұрын
The guidelines of Islam is very clear and visible.
@mohammadanas52803 жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیر
@Justalayman3 жыл бұрын
واياكم خير الجزاء
@mohamedswaray4706 ай бұрын
BarakAllahu feek Sheikh, you perfectly answered this question. It's difficult to judge, children need some discipline with precautions for their well-being.
@PoeticSonic3 жыл бұрын
well most of those beatings, are from venting anger, also one mistake is different from the other, if you are joking around and disturbing class is different from saying a word wrong in recitation. also, kids are kids, they will be a bit childish especially at the young age, the prophet didn't tell us to beat out kids over being a bit childish, it was about salah. also, I like how when it comes to the verse of beating women, people jump to clarify what "beating" actually meant and it was more like a tap or as shaik said reprimand, yet when it's children, people keep quiet while they get hit with bamboo sticks, belts, their finger joints are pressed against a pen or a pencil or slap to the head so on and so forth. i bet you experienced at least one form of this. is that what the prophet meant by beating your kids? at the same time, I'm not saying parents shouldn't reprimand their kids but 99% of kids are just good with verbal reprimands of communication in a stern manner, the prophet gave 3 years on that one topic. parents don't even have the patience to correct their children verbally 3 times, by the second time you make the mistake they will hit you with a belt, same goes for teachers. schools have actually become a lot better after teachers weren't allowed to beat their students. i don't know about the shaiks generation but those who are in their late 20s and 30s experienced the beatings and that's why they would skip school or jump over the wall in break periods, they missed their education and would do haram things. nowadays, the teachers can still reprimand the kids but they can't beat them so they can respect the teacher but they don't have to fear him or the school and the skipping of schools have happened less. as for teachers who don't feel respected, they aren't respected (even though it's wrong) because they don't have the personality to make the students respect them, the only way they can do it is through fear mongering.
@treatmelike_whitetee2 ай бұрын
Yes when i was younger, i had a teacher she would beat me and my sister with a wooden stick and she would hit my sister on the hands with a pipe and she would use that wooden stick to hit us on the legs, hands and back it was really hard for me and my sister at that time and the teacher would warn us (typically threaten us) if we told our parents she would hit us more but thank god we left that school but then i had another teacher that was so nice she would never hit us and she would teach us with love she was our neighbour may allah bless her
@shaziaishtiaq31172 жыл бұрын
I think this depends on the personality of child itself .....some improve on beating , while some performs better in a polite & calm environment....so the moral of the story is the teacher must be intelligent enough to judge each child and understand his/her emotions....not all children fit in the same frame.... Nevertheless, most of the children needs some form of reprimanding for them to improve and perform better , as far as I noticed
@dxterwolf26 күн бұрын
I also stopped going to madrasa because of constant insults and beating 😢 i studied quran at home mashallah ❤
@zystraz Жыл бұрын
In Sahih Muslim 537a it mentions a story of one of the companions/students saying (about the Prophet SAW) that: "I swear that he did not scold, beat or revile me", so then where's the confusion? If he did not beat his companions when they made a mistake, then why are those teachers doing that? On what ground are they defending their actions? Yes, with regards to the prayers, beat them when they're lazy at the age of 10. But why are they drawing the analogy to teaching Quran? Is there not a difference between hitting kids when they do evil vs. when they make a mistake (aka being humans)?
@priusa811313 күн бұрын
It’s child abuse Period. Hitting kids women or anyone is NOT OK . Nowhere in the world this should be allowed
@anisa.84122 ай бұрын
It’s sad some of the children are younger than 10 and goes hours without food and sleep
@CelestialTrailblazer2 жыл бұрын
Very informative!
@mrsshahid51173 жыл бұрын
You don't need to be beaten up " TO BECOME A MAN"
@muthallibshaik8676 Жыл бұрын
This is why so many children hate to go madrasa. I was also in my childhood😑
@dulajohnstone57043 жыл бұрын
Never beating.. ive seen "teachers" abusing little boys. Hitting them through their little faces. Those poor little boys were frantically crying and screaming.
@shaziaishtiaq31172 жыл бұрын
Islam tells us to be moderate..so beating must be in moderation too
@coffeelatte8616 Жыл бұрын
My mother and my father gave my sister to a family with no child when she was a baby, unfortunately the family is crhistian so they raised her as a Christian. But when she was born my father do the adzan on her ear, she use to do shalat and fasting with me when we were child but now she is 20 and a non believer. My mother just found out that the child is their duty to guide but it was to late.. I'm always crying in my prayer I don't want my parents to go to hell 😭
@vengyfries6934 Жыл бұрын
Allah is the Most Just of the Judges, the Entirely Merciful, so don't worry...May Allah grant you success in both dunia and akhira, ameen
@mohammedkhan2020 Жыл бұрын
@Justice comes only after death Such as??
@mdkhan3928 Жыл бұрын
Balanced answer.🥇🏆🌹👌👍
@irfand4 Жыл бұрын
A teacher beating a student (over academic performance) is absolutely unacceptable.
@sadmansakib68772 жыл бұрын
After a year i find this video, yeah he isnt aware of the condition of bangladesh. But he reached to the point which we all agree. We need to be man! And this is what i got after asking this!
@bitesize_fact2 Жыл бұрын
In Pakistan and India without a reason teachers beats children with belt , stick , sometimes they break their bones . That is why I am afraid of madrasa and schools.
@anbomajedibagma38972 жыл бұрын
This beating stopped some of us from going to madarasa. The Malams we're very harsh. Studies use to be at night, our elder brothers and sisters would make us hide ,then when learning is over they'll come for us to go home all because of the beatings. Now am struggling to learn the Quran
@ashp80692 жыл бұрын
our teacher used to beat both girls and boys with a ruler.... I remember.... it was to a point when he once used his leg to beat a girl. I felt bad for her and I couldn't do anything infact no one could cus we were all afraid... but some boys and girls used to stand for themselves I guess cus they were matured enough. He once assaulted a girl and he sexually harassed her. She told her dad and apparently that teacher received the award for what he used to do. I still remember how he used to touch our thighs when we would recite the Quran. I apparently didnt know much cus I was only 8 back then..it haunts me now tho.
@baakathirmahmoud56172 жыл бұрын
I'm one of those who left madrasa because of the teacher's brutality But now I see why he was doing it? Alhamdu Lillah I can read Qur'an very fast and speak faswah Arabic and the fiqh sayra and Hadith are still on my mind Alhamdu Lillah. There is another madrasa the teacher would not beat you but he'll make you sleep in madrasa without supper and he'd give you punishment of writing 100 Suratul ikhlas 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mohammedkhan2020 Жыл бұрын
Beating just makes the child hate learning.
@keepingitrealUK2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't send my child somewhere where they hit children for making mistakes.
@ZettaiKatsu20137 ай бұрын
I have seen this happen last summer, in the Jumaa mosque of Bukhara city, in Uzbekistan.
@afrinatanwi69072 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah such a lovely personality sheikh is ❤️❤️
@caesardecimatio89632 жыл бұрын
This is very simple, when I was young the teachers would hit us but with we deserved it, no ifs ands or buts. WAllahi if they hadn’t beaten me and my classmates when we acted ridiculous in class, we wouldn’t have paid any attention because sometimes little boys can be bad trouble makers and the discipline was justified. One time I made fun of the teachers accent and the other kids laughed therefore he struck me, I didn’t cry nor complain because I knew I was being disrespectful when I was doing it but I did it anyway cause I wanted attention from the class. I understood what I was doing as child but now as an adult in my 20s now I fully understand it. I don’t understand these comments from some our brothers and sisters who condemn discipline in the form of striking a interruptive, rude child or one who fails to learn due to multiple reasons when the sheikh literally just gave a hadeeth from rasulAllah sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam saying it’s is permissible. Being struck by adults and wrestling with my friends made mentally and physically tough, I advise our brothers and sisters who are parents, you don’t want a soft child growing up, beware of people hitting your children too hard but don’t raise a generation of soft and emasculated men either
@Rosyrasul46542 жыл бұрын
I think hitting can be helpful in few, almost no situations. Children generally learn better when u sit them down and explain something to them they get afraid and only remember being beaten if you tell them off and beat them and they still won’t change if u just beat them always
@KeithCindyPanama3 жыл бұрын
In Catholic schools this was done if they didn’t recite a bible passage. Then the lawyers got involved.
@touchoffairy99753 жыл бұрын
When I was child my class mate was got beat I always sit in fear in Qur'an class to be in Qur'an class but I had nice teacher who would only give 2 ayat to lear n one day so I learned more without fear I recommend not to beat better ease
@DuzceliCK3 жыл бұрын
this is probably something i will never accept. i know lots of people who hate islam or going to the mosque because they got beaten as kids in the madrassa or in the mosque. i myself also had that, and i didnt like going to the mosque. it will leave negative impressions, kids will not like going there where they were abused. i failed to learn the quran there but succeded at home with my parents without getting beaten there. in my opinion without knowing the islamic ruling on it, it should be forbidden, the cultural aspects should not matter
@mariakhan84822 жыл бұрын
Hitting shouldn't be allowed no matter what but growing up I had harsh teachers and when I complained to my mother she would tell me to respect them regardless but I grew up to be strong and not sensitive and feel like I can handle anything.im also a teacher myself in the UK.here you are not even allowed to raise your voice if a child is even behaving badly because they are to sensitive but they also choose to misbehave but hitting isn't the answer under any situation simple if they misbehave tell then politely have a word with the parent if that doesn't work stop teaching the child simple as that
@beastman.3303 жыл бұрын
SUBHAN 'ALLAH .
@aarafsattar1732 жыл бұрын
Before watching the video, I thought the person would be from Bangladesh . And it is! 😂
@rizkryeziu75093 жыл бұрын
and every aggressive form of actions from a believer it is just out of his mercy it is not possible otherwise
@YeaminMalik9 ай бұрын
4:58 This is a common scenario in our country too. At least back in our times (our childhood) 😂
@Rajeev_kumar9912 жыл бұрын
Even in india they beat students in madarsa
@jimmy000073 жыл бұрын
BEATING IS NOT ALLOWED FULL STOP
@CelestialTrailblazer2 жыл бұрын
May Allah guide you.
@NoNoahhhh9 ай бұрын
I live in belgium and in basic school (6-12 years old) there was a class of islam once a week for students to join while the christians follow class of christianity. I remember that also my teacher sometimes slapped us, but he was/is a good man from the heart. Also no soul touches my children. I also understand the side of the teacher when the kids are really neglecting and careless. In the world, you indeed become a man if you get sometimes slaps.
@ABDOULLAH-c4m8 ай бұрын
Masha’Allah
@k.komega3 жыл бұрын
Your right sir
@shannybeautifulchannel24103 жыл бұрын
Listen this hitting is not stopping in mosques even now very bad
@worshipthecreator90813 жыл бұрын
The teachers should be qualified and know how to teach. Just because one is a Hafiz doesn't mean there qualified. Our kids go to school but are not hit and still learn so why can't masjid do same.
@IG497210 ай бұрын
I got hit as a kid when making mistakes but Alhamdulilah I can honestly say it did me no harm. Nowadays I wouldnt promote this behaviour for obvious reasons and Allah swt knows best
@moyurbird782910 күн бұрын
No! I don't believe we should hurt our OWN children so definitely NOT other children!!!!!!