S3: E26 "...Or Not To Be" The Secret Life Of The American Teenager

[@rebeccashields7272]

This entire episode had me crying but when Adrian told her mother she didn't do anything wrong and then started crying I was absolutely bawling!!!😪😥😢😭Poor Adrian,Poor Ben!!!

[@destinywilliamson5311]

I'm so sad but I started to cry

[@kaitsamaniego6204]

I am sorry Adrian poor Ben your child my name Kaitlyn say to you right now help your child

[@13456789101]

Same!!! 😭😭

[@dayanaraquinones5246]

This part here had my bawling my eyes out 😢😢

[@dayanaraquinones5246]

They deserved to be happy

[@MarquiseParker2007]

I broke down crying when Ricky Comforted Ben after he started to cry 💔😭 now that's what I call a real friend.

[@Andreaes1]

Yeah, a real friend puts his hand on your shoulder, then leaves to your ancestral home to celebrate your child's death by fucking your ex. Then not call, or contact you for months while they enjoy fucking and raising the child u bled for, while u take care of your grieving wife and ignore your own pain, and heartache over the death of your unborn child. That's a REAL BFF!!!!!

[@13456789101]

Right!!! ❤😭

[@Andreaes1]

@Hailey Julia suarez Ricky and Amy started having sex right after they left the hospital. They in a way celebrated Ben and Adrian daughters death by having sex. Also Ben didn't cheat on Amy with Maria he told her he was going to see other people when he went to Italy. He also told her face to face about Maria when he returned, and told her why he did it. He then let it be Amys decision if they stayed together. He then told her what they had to do to work on their relationship in order to stay together. Which was talking and having fun not sex. He thought they should just enjoy being together. But Amy continued to complain, whine, and ignore all of Ben's needs, and feelings. Also it was Ricky that CHEATED ON AMY AFTER SHE TOLD HIM NOT TOO THE DAY HE GOT BACK FROM NEW YORK. He did it on her birthday, he then tried to make her feel bad about trying to celebrate her birthday with friends. Then cheated on her with a girl who Ben rejected the day Amy got back from New York. He then lied about it while sleeping in bed next to her. Pay Attention to what was happening instead of imagining what you wanted to happen.

[@emmawilkerson2498]

@@Andreaes1 well I don't like they had sex after the hospital that was not nice and amy don't what to do it after she had a baby she was scared that she get pregnant again that why ben and amy didn't do it

[@Andreaes1]

@@emmawilkerson2498 So ask what reason did Ben have for staying with Amy? Being in a relayionshio us supposed to be two people making eachh other happy Amy did nothing for Ben.. If she had this reservation about sex with Ben why didn't she hold it with Ricky, whom she should have held it with? He is the direct cause of all her problems.

[@chachiloso8743]

Still crying in 2020 to this, no matter how long I wait to watch it makes me cry

[@cammybear-x]

fr

[@coolpor4253]

Me too

[@13456789101]

Yes same!!! 😭

[@deannayork9128]

Ikr.

[@katscratchfever3506]

2024 😢😢😢

[@skull3443]

The fact that all his friends end up coming just to find out Mercy died. She wouldve been such a beautiful little girl. R. I. P Mercy.

[@tarus0430]

Bens dad was the best actor on the show lol

[@AlexisBraun-zv1pm]

Yeah I totally agree! 😊

[@Izzy-th3vz]

Factss!!

[@kirstied4]

I though the acting in this entire show was garbage. But this one moment on the entire series made up for it

[@Andreaes1]

Every episode after proved how bad it was.

[@avaclothilde5615]

Damn right on that

[@_zulu..inc_1605]

Adrian’s performance was amazing I will say Francia did amazing portraying her

[@melodie26terry]

It took years for me to watch this after this happened to my sister and nephew. Its heartbreaking to see the pain the entire cast showed after hearing the news. It will always be a painful memory. R.i.p Gage.

[@erinblake5747]

So sorry for your lost. My cousin went though the same situation. There baby boy was fine the day before but the next day hearing that news just made us all sad

[@MarquiseParker2007]

So sorry for your lost my best friend lost his baby boy and when he told me I started to cry after that I shared Revelation 21:1-4 and he felt 100% better because this good news came from the bible

[@hfontaine8]

Adrian’s cry at 2:00 absolutely GUTS me every single time

[@AlexisBraun-zv1pm]

I know 😭😭😭💔💔💔

[@kimberlywashington313]

i started crying when Adrian started crying

[@kimberlywashington313]

Rick looked more sad and angry than Ben

[@jaylabrown9561]

I was thinking that’s her fault always tryna use sex and up one some damn body that was her consequence 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Andreaes1]

@@kimberlywashington313 Why do u people insist on trying to compete Ben with Ricky. The death of the man's child should be where u draw the line. But no, u people would rob this boy of his dead relatives, and the pain he had for losing them too.

[@Jesussavesall1]

@@Andreaes1 he literally said that it looked like the actor of ricky was more hurt then the actor of ben because ben was fake crying as u can tell and ricky was actually crying so it seemed different NOW STFU

[@Andreaes1]

@@Jesussavesall1 First they are acting. Second in the show Ricky's character didn't give a flying fuck about Ben's baby, or Ben/Adrian. Even now since the show is over, his character doesn't know the baby's name. So if he did prove it and name one thing he did to help. I mean Ben literally forced Amy to call Ricky so he could see John born. Name one thing Ricky did for Ben after this child died? Since he did nothing this conversation is over.

[@tarinsarazin148]

After losing a baby at 15 weeks this episode really hit me hard.

[@ambermedellin6832]

I'm probably infertile.

[@kailawhite2042]

I’m sorry to both of you. Also Tarin I completely understand how you feel. I was pregnant with Triplets last year and I lost 1 child at about 31 weeks. I’m really really sorry you lost yours .

[@Renbacktome]

I'm sorry..

[@LexxxyGrace]

I lost my son at 23 weeks on 3/10/21... r.I.p Angel... 👼🏽😔

[@staceygal1984]

@@LexxxyGrace soo sorry for your loss that mustve been hard I pray God will help u thru this I pray for comfort peace and strength

[@walessantingo4862]

I started to cry when Henry came with the bare and realized what happen

[@seniorqueen08]

+wales santingo- *bear, not bare

[@chloedillingham-jones6641]

:( Such a heartbreaking episode. I feel so bad for Ben and Adrian. They didn't deserve to loose their baby :( I hated Amy saying "Not that we needed to be here at all"...very selfish.

[@Elizabeth-xf1ec]

Chloe Dillingham-Jones you took the words right out of my mouth! I hated Amy after she was being nasty to Adrian when she got pregnant!

[@barcelonaforever2493]

It's just a show am not backing Amy for what she said what she said it hurtful yes but Amy Ben and grace and Tom is my favorite characters

[@jadorek3091]

@@Elizabeth-xf1ec ok and Adrian treated amy like shit for so many seasons at least Amy was there for her when she lost the baby

[@Andreaes1]

@@jadorek3091 How was she there?

[@Jesussavesall1]

@@Andreaes1 she literally comforts adrian and cries with her becuase she just lost her baby and she knows how that would feel if she lost John stop always tryna up one a character on ricky and amy every comment u have is either really accurate or really put of PLACE and this comment is so out of place

[@alexandriavargas9565]

They brought a giant teddy bear😭😭💔

[@anisaledesma8943]

That’s what really got me🥲💔

[@mountaingalhomemaker4179]

Some ppl criticize Amy and Ricky for having sex after the hospital but I think this made them realize how short life really is

[@Andreaes1]

Would u say the same if it had been John killed in a car accident and Ben and Adrian got back together & went to the condo too have sex while Ricky and Amy cried in Johns bedroom over his death???

[@kiejanae]

This just brought back ALL THE FEELS i had the first time I watched this 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@kailawhite2042]

I know how this feels. I’m 18 and lost one of my triplets in the womb .yeah I got 2 kids still but I will never feel okay enough after I lost 1 . R.i.p my angel and everyone that’s gone.

[@shahidkaba6848]

Sorry😔

[@LoserBug420]

It is not the same when you live something you can't hold or watch grow. I'm sry I understand how that feels it hurts even tell this day still. I'm so sry

[@katscratchfever3506]

My oldest was a twin. I often think about his brother or sister and what they would be like. You’re absolutely valid in mourning a loss even though you gained 2 healthy babies too. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@princessbaby161004]

This episode is the reason I panicked in both my pregnancies. Number 1 fear and the sad part is it can happen to anyone 😣

[@Planet_misty]

My son passed away 2 days before his due date. The cord wrapped around his neck. I have 2 older children, you'll never imagine the pain unless it happens to you. It feels like a nightmare but you can't wake up.

[@katscratchfever3506]

I’m so sorry. A friend lost her son this way as well 😢 I lost my daughter at 18 weeks and I’m still coping. It’s been 12 years.

[@jackpierce1724]

I have never seen Ben and Leo so highly emotional.

[@barcelonaforever2493]

As soon every body start crying tears start to fall from my eyes

[@heatherhill3565]

I cried a tiny bit when watching this a few years ago, but now after having a child of my own that I love with every fiber of my being, I ugly cried.

[@Leba223]

Obviously this made me cried before but after a child of my own I can’t imagine it no mother should go through this and I’m so sorry for those who did I hope you heal in time and had a another baby in life you deserve to be happy and have a family of your own

[@kaylaChambers777]

I loose it every single time I see Ben’s dad crying whilst Amy was asking about the baby. He was the best actor next to Adrian in this episode

[@krissymconnorsvlog7321]

This episode is so sad . I was crying when this episode air on tv 💔🥺

[@dawnnaparker8433]

I felt so bad for Ben and Adrienne for losing Mercy

[@malliemackenzietaylor6726]

I’ll balling my eyes out

[@qivanvmp]

Betty: *BUT BEEENNNN IM HANGRY!!*

[@susanlamb4077]

I was 17 when when son past away at 2 months old in 2000 an that was the same song I had played at his funeral. This hurt so bad watching😭😭

[@kaitieohare7524]

I remember being in the room when my mom was watching this episode many years ago, but watching now after being pregnant at 19 and having my baby at 20... I just couldn't imagine going through that. Really heartbreaking to watch even when I know it's just a show.

[@kaylacurrier6735]

MY HEART IS BREAKING

[@spendygeek8602]

Everytime I try not to cry and then they play in the arms of the angel and I turn into a sobbing mess 😭😭😭😭

[@zadarriathomas8256]

Here me out real quick. I believe Ben and Adrian didn’t get to raise their daughter like Amy and Ricky can with their son because it was a consequence of them having revenge sex for getting back and Amy and Ricky for kissing. Then getting pregnant from that one night stand.

[@april7104]

This episode makes me cry so bad. I lost my twin daughters at 35 weeks. It's the worst pain in the world

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Watching here in 2021! 😢😢😭😭😭😭

[@jmacjr101]

I hated what they did to Adrian and Ben. I hated it. It was so unfair. But this cast is wonderful at acting. I also noticed how Adrians dad said that he never should have let Adiran do this. I think it means that he shouldn't have encouraged her to have the baby. This is gut wrenching.

[@yasminchecon]

They did it right. A lot of parents loses their babies. With was a heartbreaking episode but necessary ❤

[@jenniferaugustino9853]

This is season 3 episode 26 an the room # is 326. Anyone else see this???

[@Hippie_girl130]

I lost my baby on June of last year it hit so much she been 1 year old her birthday on February 14

[@StephALowry29]

I lost my baby sister Courtney when I was 4 years old. She was only 23 days old when she died. I felt so bad for Ben and Adrian when they lost their beautiful baby girl.

[@starconey7941]

This will make you cry

[@EricaAsjaee]

I’m watching season one , idk if I wanna watch all this shit 😭😭 how did all these enemies become friends 😩 Amy being the one person Adrian want it. Ben is the dad likeeee

[@helenmcquay3243]

We lost our son Brixton last year on May 12 losing a child a part of you dies and will never be the same😭💔

[@sspyd3r82]

ken is an AMAZING actor

[@kieralynchstar]

Oh heartbreaking. News to them so hard. They want to be a parent. And. I so sorry for them 😭😭😭

[@staceygal1984]

Soo I cried this was probably the best acting in the whole show adrian is probably one of the better actresses on here they all do pretty good tho

[@censoredsmile134]

I cried😭

[@ishasonko2164]

I cried the whole time😭😩

[@mamabear3442]

The way Ben treated Adrian after the loss of there baby absolutely disgusted me

[@Andreaes1]

So how did you feel about how she treated him?

[@ashleyharrelson8235]

How come i didn't get to see the episode it just wait straight into the next season. What the heck

[@KatieLeeTitus]

The whole hospital scene made me cry the entire time 😢

[@MrRwhiteak]

The song is Angel by Sarah McGlocklin

[@abigaillewallen2268]

Russell Whiteaker This part really happened unexpectedly. I never thought that Ben and Adrian would lose their baby girl. I actually thought they would make great parents together. And Adrian was so excited about it and then this all happened:(

[@courtneycotov1642]

You can’t even spell her name correctly!!!! Stupid ass!!!!!

[@ambermedellin6832]

McLachlan! Have you seen an ASPCA commercial?

[@alyssamcmillan6007]

I cried after the song started😢💔

[@shannyschipper4847]

This song reminds me of when my friend left packham

[@lavenderlilac883]

Okay...... I found something I cry to when watching it. Which for the record is not easy to find for me.. I'm just gonna sit here and process now. Damn

[@sophiecormier7031]

I can't get through this without crying. I'm watching re runs for the Secret Life now and today episode was when Ben told his dad that Adrian is pregnant.

[@malliemackenzietaylor6726]

I cry so hard

[@chanaberlove8720]

I never fully got why Adrian wanted Amy there

[@kaylalopez795]

Chana FB Bc Amy had a baby young and figured she would understand more then anyone

[@Andreaes1]

@@kaylalopez795 I agree, Ricky, and Amy didn't give a shit about Adrian, Ben or their baby. What they did after leaving the hospital proved that.

[@Jesussavesall1]

@@Andreaes1 u literally said the total opposite of what she said...she literally said that amy would understand what it feels like to lose a baby and u try to bash them down AGAIN and everytime u comment a dumbass comment like this one I'm always gonna back up my characters I get what happens to ben and adrian is awful but get a fucking grip do u live and breathe this show to hate characters

[@coolpor4253]

@@Jesussavesall1 I completely agree with you I have recently lost my pregnancy it’s a life-changing experience at the end of the day if you go back to all the episodes Amy and Adrian have always tried to be cool Adrian has always been there for John so Amy wanted to do the same thing with her baby was born there shouldn’t be a debate‘s understand if the parents don’t like each other but that’s another Thing But at least they all came together for the baby

[@Andreaes1]

@@Jesussavesall1 They're my guilty pleasure. But what they did by abandoning people who supported them through all the drama they sometimes created, was disrespectful. They were literally living the high life and didn't care. SEASON 4 Episode 1 scene 2 was proof of that.

[@rachel1821]

I just realized that this is season 3 episode 26 and the room number is 326

[@brianna-reneejeanjordan9160]

This breaks my heart 💔 to think that this could happen in real life 😭😭😭 when my cousin lost her new born he was a still born 😭

[@towanda1994]

I still cry.

[@bigsweatyclaws7047]

Good job JAck AND BEN #jeb ##Back

[@daenerysstormborn3556]

1:41 is When My Favroite part started

[@courtneycotov1642]

Daenerys Stormborn That makes absolutely no sense!!!! Ha Ha 😛

[@qivanvmp]

Its so sad. I cried so much

[@mountaingalhomemaker4179]

I couldn't imagine I have 7 beautiful children from 6 totally normal and uncomplicated pregnancies in fact I delivered at my midwife's home all but one my pregnancy my twins were a hospital delivery. I'm thankful for this but know so many women who had miscarriages and one my sister in laws had a so that died of aids at 3 months

[@ShardaeCotton]

Damn this still gets to me.

[@shannyschipper4847]

I love this song

[@timothelambert5147]

I knew this was going to happened I sad but I knew it. I think Ben and Adrian wore stealing the light of the show from Ricky and Amy. I didnt like the end how they broke up they had so much great writing during this and have it in one scene go from trying to get pregnant by Ben to getting Ricky back it was stupid.

[@berniceharris4788]

I want Amy and Ricky to build their family again along with John and live happily ever after.the end.

[@Andreaes1]

You do know this was a Ben and Adrian video right????

[@Jesussavesall1]

U really came to a ben and adrian video just to one up them not cool

[@shavonneholmes5203]

I wish they gave a better explanation as to why their baby died. It never made sense to me. Babies don’t just be still born. There is always a reason, like loss of oxygen, placenta eruption or something.

[@Andreaes1]

A fan base notbwanting them to be happy.

[@daniellelassman6348]

This is So Sad

[@angelbass5175]

I was happy this happened Adrian was a horrid person. She got pregnant to spite Ricky and Amy for something they did before her.

[@Andreaes1]

What are you???

[@WTFProductions91]

This hurt to watch again, now that I'm a mom.

[@tiffanymarkins9758]

What volume is this one

[@liammcclure1085]

How could the baby die?

[@noneofyourbusiness6193]

Sometimes the cord wraps around the babies neck when it's inside the mom and it strangles to death,or sometimes they die inside for other causes

[@seniorqueen08]

+Liam McClure- The baby was still born, but I don't think they ever said exactly how she was still born.

[@chanaberlove8720]

Sometimes the placenta stops working and you have a limited time to get the baby out. It happened to 2 people I know and they managed to get the baby out alive but often they are too late.

[@qivanvmp]

Its called a miscarriage

[@Bella-re7zg]

GachaBlues 210 her case was called a stillbirth miscarriage is when the baby is less than 24 weeks

[@nin3xy]

Ugh this show is good but the stupid choices the producers did is bull why can’t we have a happy ending

[@avaclothilde5615]

they wanted to show a different side of teen pregnancy

[@Andreaes1]

Because RAMY FANS didn't want Ben to be happy. He must always never make Amy Jealous. Never make Tucky envious.

[@darrhiannaprince854]

After this episode I stopped watching it cuz it's too sad.

[@chesleycharlenesvlog5831]

I hated this episode it was so sad

[@hannaheckman5201]

It not even Ben baby at all actually it Ricky’s baby not Ben Ben already have a baby with Amy and I can tell and I saw what really happened you know

[@Andreaes1]

It was Bens child. John is Rickys.

[@kaylacurrier6735]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@estateshorts1668]

🤩🤩🤩🎉

[@Randy218_]

Unpopular opinon: Ben and Adrian desrved this karma cause she only got knocked uo by Ben in order to back at Amy and Ricky. Idk why Amy and Ricky are crying that it's dead, in my opinon, they should've been celebrating

[@AlexisBraun-zv1pm]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@aaliyahpayne1099]

Aaliyah and I

[@sexyyacuckoobird]

I cry every time watching this episode...like now 😭😭

[@bichatmarie9849]

Song?

[@sexyyacuckoobird]

BICHAT Marie in the arms of an angel by a girl named Sarah don’t know her last name though